Dapper-Egg-7299 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How do incels explain the fact that some women are gay?? What are you talking about? It's men who are expected do the asking out and initiate everything which is quite difficult when you lack experience and don't want to make the woman uncomfortable. A little bit of empathy wouldn't hurt. Also if you think that patriarchal culture is amazing for male sexuality then you're wrong, it only rewards a certain kind of male sexuality.	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/25 08:02 PM
9	How do incels explain the fact that some women are gay?? The hate an Incel feels is a sort of frustration where you desperately want to love a woman, but because you feel like your feelings will never be reciprocated you feel betrayed, thus the love turns into hate.	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/25 07:54 AM
0	I don’t understand how am I supposed to escape the red pill and ask for advice online when every time I do this you’ll assume the worst and falsely label and accuse me of stuff? It's always that "maybe treat women like humans!" When most people who try to get help on subreddits like this one aren't some hateful monsters, but struggle with anxiety, shyness, fear of making a woman uncomfortable and rejection sensitivity. The people that treat actual women in their life badly won't ever even look for help on here.	/r/ExRedPill	18/02/25 05:58 AM
6	I feel like women aren't interested in relationships and are just as happy as single Agreed. That's why it rubs me the wrong way when people gaslight lonely men telling them that they shouldn't rely on a woman to fulfill those needs. There are some things that you can only get out of a romantic relationship and if you're straight then it's going to be a relationship with a woman. This is not a problem exclusive to men at all. Not exclusive, but young men seem to face this problem more than any other demographic.	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/25 10:42 AM
-21	I feel like women aren't interested in relationships and are just as happy as single Many women dont feel like they're equals in relationships with men with regard to domestic, emotional, and dare I say sexual labor with regard to the orgasm gap and lack of reciprocity. I'm trying to understand what emotional labor means here, because usually it's expected that the man is the stoic one who has to control his emotions and be there for his partner, which by definition requires a lot of emotional labor. This way the emotional labor that men do goes completely invisible and unrecogn…	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/25 06:44 PM
10	I feel like women aren't interested in relationships and are just as happy as single Alot of that intimacy that you think is missing is shared with their women friends, or women in their family. Not sexual intimacy, but unlike men, women are able to cuddle, hug, hand out closely without social repercussions of being called gay or not womanly. This is the biggest problem. As a male I have absolutely no outlet for affectionate physical touch and cuddling and I find myself incredibly jealous of women and their friendships	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/25 03:01 PM
2	who falls for this red pill stuff? Ruined my mental health and made me distrustful of women	/r/ExRedPill	26/01/25 01:08 PM
8	who falls for this red pill stuff? Yeah, I was 16-17, lonely and traumatized from stuff I experienced during the lockdowns and then I got exposed to the redpill and blackpill content and it fucked me up big time	/r/ExRedPill	23/01/25 08:32 PM
2	Unpopular opinion: if you’re secure, the friendzone doesn’t exist develop your flirting skills/intrigue/charm How does one develop these skills? I barely even have an idea what flirting is supposed to look like	/r/ExRedPill	19/01/25 08:07 AM
2	what is wrong with this guy? orion taraban The problem is that the shit he says sounds sophisticated and like it's based on reality. Men who are vulnerable get exposed to that stuff and get conditioned into being misogynist because that guy's stuff paints relationships with women as extremely bleak	/r/ExRedPill	18/01/25 04:56 PM
1	Nice guys are not secret hateful manipulators that the internet likes to claim "Male sexuality is inherently bad" is not a societal norm. What rhetoric have you seen that makes you think this is a societal belief? I don't necessarily think it's a societal belief, but I've internalized messaging about how men should be respectful towards women, how men shouldn't be creepy, or touchy to the point I've probably become too respectful for my own good. I've always been terrified to express my sexual attraction or initiate any kind of physical contact with women aside from my fam…	/r/ExRedPill	09/01/25 09:51 PM
-5	Nice guys are not secret hateful manipulators that the internet likes to claim Yeah, like these popular phrases have such poorly chosen wording it's crazy. If you're not in a good place mentally and spend a bit of time online you'll learn that: Being nice is bad, male sexuality is inherently bad, you're worse than a bear Got me completely paralyzed and worried to express any kind of interest to women	/r/ExRedPill	09/01/25 08:41 PM
-10	Nice guys are not secret hateful manipulators that the internet likes to claim So what can a man do? Avoid love language because it could be interpreted as disingenuous?	/r/ExRedPill	09/01/25 06:50 PM