Dapper-Expression791 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Three years after divorce - alternative point Women aren't a different species. They are humans, and every bit as complicated and diverse as men. Understanding that is actually a good place to start. God.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/26 01:34 AM
1	My wife is blindsided me and I’m still broken. It really sounds like her experience with the marriage was not the same as yours.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/26 01:28 AM
1	My wife is blindsided me and I’m still broken. Nonsense. Yes of course the husbands in these cases assume that the wives still have their best interests at heart. But they have shown, usually for years, that they also have their own best interests at heart. They aren't owed a warning if the woman decides to survive.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/26 01:23 AM
2	My wife is blindsided me and I’m still broken. Taking time to accept that he's never going to change, consider your options, and decide on your next steps is hardly "plotting their downfall". Even in cases where there's no physical violence, men who suddenly lose the woman they believe is theirs can become violent and vengeful. I'm not saying this is true of all men. But if a woman has lost her autonomy, it's because her husband is accustomed to having control over things. It's not universal but it's very common. And I know some women find t…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/07/26 01:54 AM
2	Three years after divorce - alternative point Cope. :)	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/26 06:05 PM
1	My wife is blindsided me and I’m still broken. Here's the other hard thing. Not always, but OFTEN - USUALLY even, before the wife stops talking, she talked a lot. She asked for support, for you to share the physical and mental load, for time and bandwidth to be a whole human instead of wife/mother/bangmaid. When she stops talking, you already failed. This is why an increasing number of women are skipping that part entirely. No husband & no kids. Peace.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/26 05:29 PM
1	Three years after divorce - alternative point What kind of friend were you to them?	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/26 05:15 PM
3	Three years after divorce - alternative point Most of this is just terrible advice. The fact that you say no one cares that you're going through a divorce indicates that people are returning the energy you've shown them when they've been in crisis. It's true that people are busy with their lives but come on. If they care about you, they're there for you. Not every minute, but enough to show you they're there. If they don't care about you, maybe you want to think about things they've gone through in the past years that you ignored. Good idea…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/26 05:14 PM