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Everytime when they bothered to reply. Many times they ignored it, I agree. And they never admitted that it happens in the redpill and that it's a big part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:43 AM
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I havw couple of accounts. O change them depending on my mood. Doesn't matter if you yourself cite sources. It's not even what I meant. I meant that redpill men here don't care about sources, they don't engage in them. Just like it was in the South Korea thread. Or them say that "it's not a real redpill" whebI point out their shitty gurus saying stuff like "women shouldn't have rights, women are for breeding- Anthony Johnson, 21studios. Or shit like men have bigger role in creating life because …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:19 AM
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Are you kidding? Everytime I mentioned authors of some sick posts/videos/articles like 21 studios and tons of other "redpill coaches" I was told they weren't actually redpill. Plus, don't act like men here care about sources. When we had discussion about South Korea and feminism, men completely ignored links about misogynu in SK and the whole culture that led women to become hardcore feminists. They never responded to posts pointing out how sexist Korean society was, then didn't want to see the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:00 AM
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Society is not collapaing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:45 PM
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We live in a much better world then we did 100 or 200 years ago. And of course I will abdicate my femininity if Femininity means being lassie, shy and submissive. I have goals and dreams, I don't want to just serve andrzej supportem goals of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:17 PM
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Exactly. So it's not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:26 PM
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How would I acheive my goals, fulfill my dreams and enjoy my life the way I do now if I was naive, passive, shy and submissive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:34 AM
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If this is a description of femininity then I don't want to be a feminine woman. Sounds awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:24 PM
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Men should also accept that women need time for their hobbies and some alone time. But men don't consider it at all, especially when the couple has kids. My friends marrige almost ended because her husband hated the fact the he wasn't the only one who deserved couple of hours a week fo his passions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:55 AM
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And most of those things are painful/degrading and only pleasurable for men. And there is nothing wrong with vanilla sex. Just because I don't want to be in pain or treated badly it doesn't mean I'm boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:44 AM
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And there are women whose men tried these things on them despite women not wanting it. Or women who were shamed for not wanting to do these things and called "prude" or "vanilla". Even I was called that when I said I would never agree on deep throat or anal sex, or name calling. And tik tok is full of similar stories. There are girls in high school that are afraid of sex because it seems so violent to them. Just because some people like these stuff itp doesn't mean it's the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:40 PM
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Well, naked bodies don't arouse me. It just never happened to me, and I tried watching porn. The view of penis is just "meh". I think that men look much better in the underwear. To be honest for the most of my life I thought that this whole "naked body attraction" was made up by culture, like movies or books. I never felt this need to fuck someone just because they were attractive. Like, seeing a good loking men don't arouse me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:17 PM
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And what does it have to do with my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:09 PM
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I mean, when I was 20 I did see 25 old men as predatory when they hit on me. My friends and I knew what they wanted from us so we protected each other (e.g.we were to the guys). Now at 29I would be ok with a 34 yo guy, but 37-40 is too old and even now when I write this a feel it's creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:34 AM
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I don't think that people who are 40 are old, but they are too old to be my partner. See the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:28 AM
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Yep. I'm a high school sweetheart with my man and most of our friends are or were. Three couples who were together for over 10 years, since early high school, broke up durig the last two years. One split because the guy cheated on his beautiful, sweet girlfriend who was a virgin when they met,who did everything for him. So according to red pill she was high value and a man would be greatful and treat her right. He didn't. Another two because the women were tired of not being proposed to and havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:15 AM
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Women can't win, can we? No matter what we do it's because we are evil and just want money. You guys sit deep in "men are wonderful" effect, it's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:52 AM
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Women selling sex on instagram are in minority. And where I live most women just wear hoodies and jeans, not revealing clothes. And it's bettet if women can do what they want which results in some of them being "slutty" than to keep them under men's authority and raising them to serve. Conservative men all over the world cry that women should submit to their husbands, that women having aspirations destroy civilizations and worse. Find me a conservative who says it's ok that feminism happened, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:22 AM
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Women not having to be conservative is a good thing. I don't want to ne a submissive houswife going to Church every Sunday. We live in a much better Society because now women can do as they please and don't need to submit. Fat acceptance is idiotic but it's not as mainstream as you guy say it is. Every fat acceptance tik tok has 10 tik toks riduculing it. Most people don't take it seriously and outside the USA it's not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:40 AM
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No it's not. I would never want to live in Victorian England or anywhere in the Past on Europe for example. When it's comes to societal freedoms and human rights we have it great. I love the fact that I don't just have to resign from my goals and serve my fiance. I love making my own money, being my own person and doing things I want to do. I love it that my man doesn't feel emasculated when he does his fair share of houschores and that my career and opinion aren't less Important than his.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:06 AM
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Society is not being guinea. Men not having a final say in everything is not ruining everything. We live in the best times for society so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:42 AM
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What? We live in the best times for society. I would never want to live in Victorian England or in general in old times. The more I study it's the more it sounds like a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:54 AM
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Well, yes. I also live in a country with long maternity leaves and financial support for parents. Iif I went for maternity leave now I would make 80% of what I make now. And I make really good money so in theory I could live comfortable. Plus, I'm in a stable relationship, own an apartment etc. Perfect conditions to have a child, right? But I don't want to do it. I love my life, I love having hobbies, not being stucked at home, not serving 24/7. I also enjoy not having my body destroyed and not …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:48 AM
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Men didn't really commit to monogamy. In Victorian England wife cheating was enough of a reason for divorce, but it wasn't true for husband cheating. Hisband cheating had to be "specially cruel".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:42 AM
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Do you like it when women make fun of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:21 AM
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Whenever someone roasts me, even as a joke, I assume they don't like me and pretty much stop talking to them. Doesn't matter if it's myślę brother, a friend or my man +he never did that thought). And i don't think that someone who is mean or makes more money is superior to me. I never met a man U felt inferior to. Even if a guy knows something I don't, I know and can do things he doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:12 AM
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It's not better, it's as pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:05 PM
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Surrealista, but older men need to stop being pissed when younger women make fun of them. Not cry on tik tok or twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:48 PM
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Really? My friends and I often say that genitals are disgusting. Penises are ugly and make naked, hot men look ridiculous. Vaginas are also disgusting and look like monsters or dead animals. Naked women look better than naked men thought, if they don't spread their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:08 PM
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Dude, old men are desired by other old women. 40 or 50 is not your prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:52 AM
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Good thing men here are empathetic and fair twards women. No hate detected.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:59 PM
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Attraction doesn't guarantee pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:07 PM
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I agree but I gave them as a example. I was told I was not a real gamer because I don't like CSGO or LoL, because I play mostly indie games or because I played AC Valhalla with a female Eivør.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:34 PM
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I don't know, I only played Assassin's creed. My point is that there are tons of great games (especially indie games) but male gamers don't consider you a true gamer if you don't play the most popular, boring games.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:54 PM
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We like video games, just not the boring ones where you just kill and do the same thing over and over again. CSGO? Boring as hell. Assaains Creed? Nights in the wood? I'm all for it. Men don't consider you a gamer if you don't play mainstream, repetetive games, or when you mostly focus on indie games with cool stories. Plus, I'm not going to ruin my experience by playing with emotional psychos calling me a whore, polish scum and worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:56 AM
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I don't know. Why do people lick each other genitals during sex when it's not acceptable anywhere else? And not every woman likes rough sex. I don't any many other also hate it. Some do it even thought they don't want to, to not seem boring. I was called boring by my male friends when I said that I would never do anything related to bdsm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:55 AM
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I also think that it's weird that adults are into licking genitals. So what? Sex is for fun, it's not serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:40 AM
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Not always, I'm 100% vanilla, I don't even like spanking or dirty talking, which I've read are "normal" now, especially compared to sick porn-stuff. See, people have different sexual tastes. Just because I'm vanilla in bed it doesn't mean that I don't dominate my life outside of the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:39 AM
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Dude, look at your previous responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:46 PM
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Ok, now it's clear you got too emotional. You can't have a normal conversation. Good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:03 PM
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Dude, you showed emotions here. When I asked what more men bring to the table you wrote the whole thing were you included the part with women thinking that men are trash. You wrote that men bring soooo much to the table that women can at least stay in shape, and that it's worse when a woman doesn't stay in shape than when a man gets ugly because, again, he brings much according to you. Maybe you don't see it's but your post implies that men bring more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:43 PM
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It's you who think that women bring less, I would say that you think that "women are trash" I didn't ask what men bring to the table. I aked what more men bring that I do. You said that men bring SOO MUCH and suggested that women don't really bring too much. .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:21 PM
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This sub is a perfect example that men don't care about women. They think that we are brainwashed by feminism if we have aspirations, hobbies other than homemaking and don't want to just serve our husbands. Men in manosphere say that if we are left do do as we please we "destroy civilizations".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:42 PM
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And what exactly men bring to the table? I don't see anything more than I provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:35 PM
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Yep. Guys here don't think that we can have passions, ambitions, goals etc. They think that we are brainwashed if we don't want to just stay at home and serve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:32 PM
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Why does he have to be a high earner? Because I don't want to just spend all days serving. I have my passions that require money. That's one of the reasons why I wouldn't want to be dependent. Why would I want to stop doing the things I love? And why don't you consider the fact that women can have hobbies, aspirations and dreams that require money? Just like men do? Or does men in this scenario also don't get to do their hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:42 AM
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When men are only providers they act as if their hobbies were more important, their free time was more important and their opinion mattered most. That's one of many reasons I would hate that. Also, I saw too many men saying that traditional wife serves her man 24/7, always says yes, never demands too much and doesn't focus on her goals but support his. And that sounds awful. I have aspirations other than being a wife. And I don't want to be subservient and meak to not get a man angry with myślę …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:23 AM
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Person A if he was cute and not an incel or religious type. Someone who waited for sex because he was romantic would be totally ok and even the thought of it melts my heart. I love being treated like a princess. I wouldn't want him to be a doormat. I would want him to have his own passions, opinions, just like I have mine. A perfect scenario is: he treats me like a princess and I treat him like a prince.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:23 PM
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So I would call your relationship egalitarian, not traditional led. If you don't have to submit to him because you are a woman and if you just divide things the way you both think is best then it's an egalitarian, modern relationship for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:27 PM
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Being a houswive doesn't Sound relaxing. Talking care of small kids and doing all the house chores, and having to submit to the authority and fear of not making him angry so he keeps providing doesn't sound relaxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:13 AM
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But equality doesn't mean that we do exactly the same thing. It just means that none of us has more Important voice, that both of our desires are equally valid, that his career or ambitions aren't more important just because he is a man. That I won't have to sacrifice my passions and desires and be only responsible for changing diapers just because I'm a woman. That he doesn't get a final say just because he is a man. We don't insist on doing exactly the same amount of the same chores. For examp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:51 AM
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For the last part, my relationship works like that. Maybe not with arguments (we rarely argue and it wouldn't make sense anyway) but yes, if he decided where we were spending vacation last time the now it's my turn to decide. If he had full Saturday for himself, then next week I'm getting whole day off. How is that bad? We both get as much free time as we deserve and both get what we want, and we compromise for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:19 PM
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She will have to align her goals with whatever he agrees on and his goals and aspirations would be more important. That's how it usually is in similar relationship. And it is servitude if one person is subservient and need to "kneel" before the authority. I'm in an equal relationship. If I piss my fiance off or just don't do something because I don't feel like it, I'm not stressed that he will forbid me to do something or that he will punish me by refusing to by me a new guitar to teach me a les…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:11 PM
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This sounds like a nightmare. I actually have aspirations and enjoy acheiving goals. Staying at home all day and serving my man would not allow me to be "who I am".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:51 PM
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Nah, the thing is that they are no longer looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:57 PM
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But you suggested that women's life gets worse when she gets older I'm almost 30 and my life only gets better, it's much better than it was When I wad 20,21 or 23. When I wrote that you seemed to not belive me. So I want to know why. Husband and kids don't guarantee happiness and companion. My mom was lonely despite being married. She lost her friendships because of my father and we, her kids, moved out early and started our own lives. She became happy when she said "fuck that", went to universi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:23 AM
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Most of them are lonely. I think that might be the reason. You suggested that women's live gets worse with age. It wasn't my experience. So why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:27 PM
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No, these are my older brother's friends who are in their late 30s men I work with (also older). Most of them are constantly angry or miserable. Most of the women I know are 27-38. They live great lives, I don't know a single stereotypical cat lady. Like I sad, my life is much better at 29 than it was when I was 20. Like, now I go to sleep excited for the next day. Why do you think it should be worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:19 PM
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Most are fine. I know much more miserable men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:37 PM
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So I must have been a great human being so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:27 PM
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But it is. I know it breaks redpill revenge fantasy thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:20 PM
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It's called 21studios. The owner is Anthony Johnson (calls himself "beachmuscels" on twitter).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:19 PM
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There is a whole redpill convention run by a guy who says that women's rights should be taken away, that women were made for breeding and only husbands should decide if their wives can study, but only after they had kids. Recently one of the "coaches" who are speakers at this convention responded to some tweet. In this response he said that it's men who deserve credit for creating life because men approach women and do majority of the work during sex. Redpill is full of dudes who see women as in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:39 PM
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But looksmatch is subjective. A man who is 9 for my friend is a 3 for me. A man who might see me as 6 might be a 2 for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:56 PM
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I'm 29 and my life is much better than it was when I was 20. So it depends on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:33 PM
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But introverts usually prefer more calm, alone time. If an introverted man wanted to go hiking, he would probably prefer we were walking alone. And I would prefer to take more people so it's more fun. He would probably prefer to chill on Saturday night if we went out on Friday. And I would prefer to do something fun with people on Friday, Saturday and Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:58 AM
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From my experience introverts prefer to spend time at home and when they meet with people, they need couple of days to rest. And, while I love people, my hobbies are one person kind of thing so doing them with my man would be almost impossible. We could seat next to each other doing the same thing, but we wouldn't be talking or anything. I hate being at home in my free time and I meet with my frinds 3-5 days a week, even if it's just for an hour. And if I don't spend time on my hobbies or workin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:54 AM
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How can I teach someone who is an introvert an extrovert, active life? With tons of hiking, concerts, creating music and being with friends every other day? And my hobbies require a lot of studying and practicing. So teaching them to someone would be a hard thing to do. And I would not be interested in playing games or watching star wars either. That would be a waste of time for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:10 AM
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But we would be incompatible. I'm not boring, I have many hobbies outside the house, I go hiking, swimming, rafting or travelling almost every weekend. So this men would not be happy with me and I would not be happy with him. And no, my fiance is not boring and he is still loving and caring. I would never be able to live with an introvert because I would not sacrifice my life for sitting at home and watching star wars or playing games.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:39 AM
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No, he doesn't. Sure, he is not my type so I would never be attracted to him. But he definitely looked much better younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:06 PM
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Nah, 90 is perfect age for rich men. Even better if they need oxygen bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:55 PM
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Just googled him. He wasn't pretty when he was young but now he looks like he hit the wall five times, really hard. He definitely looked better younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:44 PM
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Not all, I definitely don't. I never agreed on it, I said that I will say I was abused if it ever happens to me. Because it would be abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:53 PM
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I'm a woman and no, I don't like pain and I never agreed on degradation. Not everything is a porn fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:52 PM
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Sometimes you don't do things because you know that they are dangerous, disgusting, degrading or painful. I know I will never do drugs or anal because of those reasons. It's not hard to say never in these cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:50 AM
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It doesn't indicate this. I would never try weed or any other drugs. It doesn't mean that I have tried it and didn't like it, it means that I have no experience with it and I will never do it. Same with anal. When I say I would never try it I mean that I never did it and I will not agree on trying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:46 AM
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Well, your lack of basing knowledge is embarassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:27 PM
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Just google it. You are embarrassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:06 PM
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Dude, I'm not trolling, I'm just pointing out your lack of basic knowledge about human anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:00 PM
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Lol, no, we don't pee from our clitorises. And yes, vaginas clean themselves. You have no idea about female anatomy, so your opinion on this subject is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:49 PM
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Of course vaginas clean themselves. Do you also think that women pee from their vaginas?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:26 AM
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Or go on tok tok and see redpill men's comments Under video with older woman/younger man relationships. These are pretty much death wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:48 AM
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No, men don't peak at 50. It's absurd, they can't be in their prime when them are old. And no, mem im their 50s are not funnt Unieszewie you like cringy boomer humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:36 AM
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Yep. I was told on this sub couple of times that it's ok if women in marriage don't get time for their hobbies and if men's interests are a priority, because what passions or aspirations a woman can have anyway. Men don't think that we have life outside of pleasing them. And then they cry abour men being treated worse than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:28 PM
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Women were also earning money, dumbass. Learn history.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:37 PM
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Because it's not a privelege when men see us as fuckmeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:38 PM
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It's redpill men who get pissed when their ideas don't turn out to be true. Recently in my country there was a woman on tik tok who showed her much younger fiancè. The guy is hot, in his twenties. She is also attractive almost 40 and is a single mother. When red pill guys found out about her age they got pissed and tried to get her banned (I know they were red pill, one of them called himseld "redpill warrior"). Other women were writing about their much younger husbands, or husbands they met in …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:35 PM
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I'm not talking about offices, I'm talking about growing food, working in the fields, sewing for others for money, selling things. Yes, women had to work. You are an ignorant and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:46 AM
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Yep, my grandma started living again and be happy after my grandfather died.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:30 PM
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I would say that it's only true for submissive women. The rest is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:24 PM
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Women always worked, in the past they had even less time for their kids than today.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:21 PM
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We are not in the state of decline of we live in the best times for eveyone except hard conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:30 PM
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We live in the best times so far. Yes, society was fucked before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:45 PM
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You don't sound like someone who can create a healthy environment. Men like you were the reason why society was so fucked up before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:57 AM
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I already counted three guys telling op that she will die alone with cats. And I didn't spend too much time on it, there are probably other similar comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:04 AM
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I would never date a man show ho has a child either and I'm not alone. She will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:56 AM
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Those men didn't voice their concerns about misogyny in South Korea and much lower position of women, the Hidden camera thing is also well know problem in SK. Men cry now when women decided to focus on themselves and fuck being men's pushovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:10 AM
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Men like you are a nightmare to your entire family and society. Please, don't procreate, you will hurr your wife and your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:07 AM
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Women can't do anything right, can they? They can't be nice to other women and they can't not be nice. No matter what women do you will say they are jelous. If they were jelous they wouldn't help me to be successfull. It's men who tried to bring me down, never women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:06 AM
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No, older women were nothing but helpful to me. The only role models I have are older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:55 PM
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I don't propose sleeping around, I never slept around either. But sexual incompatibility is a thing. How could I know what I like before I had sex couple of times? I still don't know, I still never orgasmed and I've been having sex for over 10 years now. I didn't know that I didn't like oral sex. I didn't know that I didn't like rough sex or sex in other places than my bed. I didn't know I hated sex from behind or tons of other things. I had to experience it. Let me tell you, not sleeping around…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:42 PM
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Again, you make me so happy that's feminism happened. Men like you sound like a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:36 PM
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I do have that guy but I don't like oral. It feels awkward and I need to be super clean to allow it, and I never feel clean enough. Just a mental barier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:21 PM
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I'm in a relationship, getting married, I'll be fine. Your right hand must be hurting from masturbating too much tho, get a life. Men like you make me happy that feminism happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:16 PM
1

I do like it but I hate vibrators, they are too intense. To be honest erotica makes me cringe, same with porn. But porn also kind of dusgusts me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:15 PM
1

And I provide for myself financialy. And I deserve pleasure as well. I wouldn't be in a relationship with a man who didn't care about pleasing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:13 PM
2

I'm not a lesbian, I'm in a heterosexual relationship. And no, changing positions doesn't change a thing. I get pleasure from having my clit touched, penetration can't stimulate my clit the way it feels great. I don't have pleasure button inside my vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:11 PM
1

Of course I worry about it and I expect my man to still try and make it good for me. If he didn't care about my pleasure, I wouldn't care about his orgasm. Now go please your woman, because it's your main function.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:08 PM
1

Many women fake orgasms, it's a fact. I did it, all of my friends do it. Otherwise their husbands or boyfriends get angry or miserable. Many men hate it when they ACTUALLY have to work on women's orgasms. They are ok with changing positions, which doesn't change a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:49 PM
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Communication wouldn't work if my partner wanted to do anal or have rougher sex. I wouldn't agree on it no matter what. I also wouldn't want to have sex everyday. So if changing partners wasza bad thing I could be stucked with a partner who would want to try things I find disgusting and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:43 PM
2

Not really, I tried everything but it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:39 PM
5

It is rocket science. I've been with only two men. The first one was horrible in bed and we had sex only once before we broke up, with the second one I'm in a relationship till this day, almost 10 years. I've never had an orgasm. I have no idea what we could to for me to have it. Discovering sex together didn't do shit for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:35 AM
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Yep. Both of my grandmothers did it. Both of them told me to never commit the same mistake. And both of them told me to never rely on a man and to never stop pursuing my dreams, even if I'm married and he doesn't agree on me working on my goals. My grandmother became happy again after my grandpa died. Before that she had an old, angry child she had to take care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:17 PM
1

Old man with muscels is the same as old man without muscels- irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:59 PM
1

If men were naturally more attractive when they are old then they would be hotter without too much effort, wouldn't they? But most of them still go to the gym. It doesn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:04 PM
0

Then watch coach redpill or read old men's twitts. How can men peak at 35 when they already look worse? Most of my male friends aren't even 30 and they've lost their charm. And they used to be popular in high school. They struggle with women. And we all make good money, it's not like they are poor. Also, I look at my older brother's friends who are 35-40 and they also lost it. They are definitely not in their prime, their prime was 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:00 PM
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But they don't. Whenever I see married couples from my family men don't look better than their wifes. But also, many redpill dudes claim that men peak at 40-45.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:26 AM
2

I go to the gym. Old men there aren't hot. They are just old with muscels.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:50 AM
2

Well, the don't. I work with order men. I also see them when I go out, I see them in the gym, on vacation, everywhere. They are not attractive, it's definitely not their prime. When I see someone hot they are always younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:31 AM
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Yes, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:47 PM
1

Of course the reverse happens. Heidi Klum marrige is just one example. But this kind of situations are not the norm.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 06:20 PM
2

Brad Pitt or Clooney didn't get better tho. They were much hotter when they were younger. Clooney didn't age bad but he is not in his prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:56 AM
1

Oh yeah, growing up with a miserable mother and resenting my father and brother is a great thing. On the bright side, It thought me to look for a man who equally shares chores with me. My life is much better than my mother's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:56 AM
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My mother was thaught that divorce is the worst thing in the world, no matter how bad your marrige is. Her father was super catholic. But I agree, she should have done it long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:00 AM
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Because I was a girl and my brother had more important things to do, like his hobbies or studying. I also had hobbies (more challenging than my brother) and I also had to study but nobody cared. When it comes to my dad, he "had to rest". For some reason, my mother didn't have to rest, despite also working during the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:27 AM
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Yes, all of them. Being a sahm is not a common thing where I live. My mom run a buisness, earned money and still had to do everything at home. Obviously, my brother and my dad didn't do shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:45 AM
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Since when mowing a lawn or cleaning garage are things that men typically do? In my family it was women's job, men didn't do shit. But anyway, I would prefer to have to mow the law in the summer from time to time over cooking and cleaning after everyone everyday, the whole year.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:23 AM
2

I agree. I don't agree with most of red pill stuff but it's not why I don't respect redpillers. I don't respect them because of their mostly disgusting language, because of the hate they share and because of their fanbase. I wouldn't care that they existed if they didn't dehumanize women and literally talked about us as if we were subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:09 PM
1

I don't know. I never got horny out of nothing, naked men also don't turn me on. I also never got horny just from seing or talking to someone attractive. I see that they are attractive but it doesn't make me wet and ready to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:11 AM
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I'm a woman and the idea of a man masturbating is neutral to me at best and disgusting at worst. For example, I think that César Domboy is very attractive but the idea of him doing it makes me cringe and destroys the charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:07 AM
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Dude you were so hurt that you created your sad cat-bot post in response to a normal comment. Again, go worship whoever you worship. And stop being bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:12 AM
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English is not my first language and my paraphrase was still better than your posts, you idiot. Now go and be a simp for coach redpill or whoever you worship at this moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:52 AM
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I'm going to write a bot that can deduce the percentage of inceldom in a man based on his posts. This one is at least 90%.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:21 AM
1

We know. But it doesn't make us stop chasing other things. I have my own aspirations. I will not stop focusing on them just because they don't give men erections. Men are not the center of the Universe. When me are my friends were still chosing our career paths, we never asked each other if they would make men like us more. It never crossed our minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:06 AM
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Everyone knows that men don't really care too much about women's interests. It doesn't matter if men care about our careers. When I was chosing my life path I didn't ask myself if it would make me hotter or if it would give men a boner. I still didn't have a problem with finding a great man. Not everything women do is about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:25 PM
1

I never thought about it and I don't even consider it to be true. I have a lot of małe friends, I don't think they want to fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:34 AM
2

Probably, it's the easiest way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:24 PM
2

I did agree and then ghosted them after. I never planned to actually see them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:39 PM
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Weird, I had the same experience, but with men. Males are brutal driven by their ego get easily angry and love drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:02 PM
1

I travel alone often and I never had sex during my travels. I've been in a relationship since right after high School. Why do I travel alone? Because nobody wants to visit places I want to visit, nobody that I know wants to travel far away from my home country. That's pretty much it. So why would I stop myself from visiting Asian countries just because nobody else wants to do it with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:40 PM
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Feminism was necessary and a good think that's needed to happen. Your posts is one of the reasons it was needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:35 PM
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Disgusting. Posts like this make me happy that feminism happened
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:20 PM
3

I know what it is. And I think my asumptions were correct when I made this decision, I see discussions about bdsm on reddit. Even on this sub many men mentioned it and it sounded awful. I even saw posts from redpilles saying that bdsm is mandatory in a relationship because it shows the woman who the boss is. So yeah, I know what it is. Nothing good for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:36 AM
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I'm here for an entertainment. I found redpill by accident and the sub was so ridicolous I just keep reading. I don't agree with red pill message, luckily I'm not a rpw. I also read forever alone subs, sub for sex offenders, fat acceptance shit and so on. I'm in a long term relationship, I'm not a sex offender and I think fat acceptance is ridicolous. But I read it out of curiosity. Just like I read red pill stuff and this sub, for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:29 AM
5

You can, but it's not guaranteed. I never slept around, I've been in a stable relationship, and never did anything kinky either. I see kinks as something abusive and degrading and I promised to myself as a teenager that I would never let someone treat me like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:20 AM
1

They write similar things on youtube comments, instagram and facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:20 AM
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A guy who dates her will not complain. But there are tons of redpill and mgtow bros who get together and hate on women who dare to be over 30 and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:47 PM
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Please, tons of men get pissed when young women on tik tok say that they don't want to date old dudes. And tons of men get pissed when older women date younger guys. I follow couple of them on tik tok. When one girl said that she was almost 40 and her boyfriend was a hot 28 yo guy, men started screaming "hit the wall too hard! He deserves better, it's un naturalne, he is a beta, stupid feminist!". Pretty much every account with older women/ younger guy relationships have tons of comments from bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:53 PM
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Many women don't experience it. I have friends, we talk. Sometimes they want to have sex twice a week, sometimes they don't want to do it for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:40 PM
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So I would just think that sex is not worth it if it wasn't pleasurable. And I would create a dead bedroom situation. I wouldn't agree on bad sex. When I lost my virginity I knew that sex I had was awful despite not having any experience. Because it felt awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:14 AM
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That's not true. Bad sex wil be bad even if you have it for the first time. At least for women. We don't get Instant pleasure from having penis inside. And what If I married a virgin and he didn't want to eat me out? What if he expected me to orgasm from penetration like tons of men do? I learned that I need clitoral stimulation everytime. Marrying someone like that would put me in a dead bedroom because I wouldn't want to have pleasureless sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:38 AM
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When I was a virgin I didn't really masturbate. And I never get horny out of nothing, I could go a year without thinking about sex. So I wouldn't know how often I wanted to have sex If I was a virgin. Plus I wouldn't know that I prefer being eaten out than penetrated and would rather have oral sex twice a week than simple penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:34 AM
3

Well, yes, life gets better with age if you do it right. It's much better for me with each year. Now, at almost 30, I have fun, money, love, friends and finally everything works for me. It wouldn't be like that if I didn't work hard to have all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:59 PM
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Most women in my family started having kids in their 30s. But it doesn't matter. Why would being a woman stop me from having tons of plans for my 30s? At 29 I'm much happier and live a better life than ten years ago, everything works well for me and seems like, at 30, I will be successfull with another project I dreamed of since I was a kid. And I'm already successfull now and live much better life than millions of men in Europe. I have tons of plans for my thirties. My friends as well. So why w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:31 PM
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I also have tons of plans around my thirties. I'm 29 now and my life is better now that it was 10 years ago. Why would I get stressed when everything is better and better? Why would it get suddenly worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:48 PM
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I don't have less control over my own destiny. I control my life better than most men. I just work hard. Being a woman is not an obstacle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:25 PM
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I know many mothers like this, most of my friends travelled. Why would travelling mean that a woman is a bad wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:51 AM
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I don't think they do. And I don't even consider having tons of sex as having fun. When I once said that I was enjoying my life by focusing on my passions, traveling, having fun with friends and working on my aspirations WHILE BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP, I was told by redpill dudes that I was a low value woman, a stupid feminist dating a beta and much worse things, because I didn't want to be submissive and have kids early. They hate the idea of a woman enjoying her life and having passions and asp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:19 AM
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I had quite a simple procedure that could affect my life. Two doctors asked me if I was sure about telling my man all the details because he said they usually leve when things get serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:51 AM
0

Chad is just a hot guy, right? So they obviously do, I saw tons of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:56 AM
1

I do need to be respected. End of discussion. I'm so happy that feminism happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:50 PM
1

How would allowing him to degrade me make him respect me more? And honestly, you make me feel that feminism is a great thing if it saves me from being degraded.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:53 AM
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I'm not a unicorn, I just don't like being degraded. Would you be ok with your woman seatting on your face so that you can't breath? Or pulling your hair? If not, why are you so boring during sex? You can have good sex without slapping someones' ass. I never said about doing only missionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:28 AM
1

Yes, I'm neurotypical. I act out in a way that brings both of us pleasure. My instincts don't tell me to be degraded or in pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:44 PM
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I see that it puts me in a lesser position and would make me resent him. I trust him, I trust that he will not treat me like that. It's not only about my wishes, his wishes are important. As long as doing what he want is degrading or painful. If he really wanted to do that I would not be with him. I don't make him uncomfortable for my pleasure either. I'm 29. I always knew that I would never do these things. And no, I'm not religious. I just want to be respected, not degraded.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:33 PM
1

I have long hair but it's not the point. Sex should be pleasurable for both partners. Not wanting to be degraded or uncomfortable doesn't mean I'm a raging feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:56 PM
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No, I don't agree on hair pulling because I don't want to be in pain and I don't want to be degraded. Do you really think that if I don't want to be in pain it means that's I boss my fiance around? This is sick. Dirty talking doesn't have to be degrading, but I'm not into talking during sex in general, it's cringy. I never make my man uncomfortable for my pleasure. I expect the same from him. Nothing wrong with that, it's a healthy situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:09 PM
1

I don't want to be degraded.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:50 AM
2

But why? I never feel submissive during sex. Why an act where a man does everything to please me, goes down on me and makes sure that's he penetrator in the right nagleangle, so my clit is always stimulated, would make me feel submissive?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:49 AM
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Why having only vanilla sex shows no desire? I just don't want to be in pain or be degraded, I'm not kinky and I don't want to be. And most kinks put women in pain or degrade them. Sex should be pleasurable, not awful and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:29 AM
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Really? There are tons of women calling them out and criticizing them. Youtube alone is full of them. Women talking about how disgusting PUAs are is how I learned about pick up artists in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:47 AM
2

I don't know the first guy but Brad Pitt hit the wall some time ago now. He aged badly and he used to be so cute. He didn't age like wine at all and remember that he has money and fame which usually help.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:51 AM
2

So where are these men who look better in their 30s? Because I look around and I don't see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:47 AM
1

But that's not true. I see my brother's friends who are in their early thirties. I used to have crash on some of them when they were young. It's gone now because they are not attractive anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:20 AM
1

You should have found a better example. Leonardo looked much better in his 20s than later. He became uglier with age. Your pictures prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:17 AM
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I agree, they definitely want women to hate themselves and submit to men in fear that they will notatki have any value past 25. They get together to leave comments under youtube videos and tik toks of happy, thriving women to tell them that their lives will be over soon or are already over. Op, don't listen to them because what they say is simply not true. You have only one life, don't waste it because some bitter men want you to hate yourself. Why would you care about them? They really don't ma…
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 08:09 PM
2

It depends. Would we have a small child? Then 50/50. He obviously would need a time to rest after a whole day of taking care of our child so it would be only fair if I did half the houswork. We both would deserve time for ourselves and our hobbies, so I wouldn't be able to chill everyday after work, half of the time I would have to take care of the child after work so he could rest as well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:46 PM
1

I go out to pubs with my friends pretty often w but I don't flirt with men and don't dance with them. Usually when a guy tries to flirt with me I ignore him or make fun of him with my friends if he doesn't leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:28 PM
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Because these men create whole spaces where they say that it would be better if our rights were taken away? That we are inferior to men? Because they write countless of comments on tik tok and youtube saying that women are only good for serving or fucking? Because they get together to comment on random, happy looking women's chanels to tell them how useless and disgusting they will soon be or already are, how their lives will end when they are certain age or that women should be put in their pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:40 AM
2

We can say that situation arouses me, if that makes sense. For example, having my neck kissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:52 AM
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Tbh male body doesn't arouse me (female body doesn't arouse me either). So I feel nothing, unless he kisses me etc. I can appreciate małe body and think it's well built but it just doesn't make me wet. And I'm talking about male body in underwear. Naked penises are just ugly and unattractive (yes, vaginas are ugly as well). I don't really understand how people can feel ready for sex just from seing someone naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:00 PM
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I never had abusive sex and never will. I promised to myself to never try any kinks. My fantasies are super vanilla, they mostly focus on having my neck kissed and me having my pussy eaten. The idea of bdsm makes me cringe at best and is disgusting at worst. If my man wanted to put me in pain or degrade me, or tight me up I would think there is something wrong with him and it would honestly freak me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:39 PM
4

But it's not true, so why would I admit that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:36 PM
1

A moment while touching my clit or tensing my stomach muscels. Never during penetration. I can't even imagine how this would work without clitoral stimulation. It's impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:17 AM
1

Wel, yep. But it's true for men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:09 AM
2

It's C for me. I'm getting married soon. It happens organically, I never planned my life around marriage, I never focused on being a wife material, I'm not traditional at all except not sleeping around part. I treat marrigr as part of my life, not my goal. I wouldn't be fulfilled as just a wife, without working on my goals and aspirations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:16 AM
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Men are definitely not the hottest in their late 30s. This sound absurd. Are there exeptions? Maybelle. Boston mostu men don't peak Bear their 40s. I see old men everyday, I have many older men at work, I see older men when I go out. They are not in their prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:59 PM
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This. I have a friend who used to say that she would have AT LEAST five kids. She married at 22, had her daughter at 23. Now she says that she doesn't want any more kids, that all of this it was a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:06 AM
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No, many men get angry when women enter this field. I'm active on different forums and groups, men write nasty, disgusting things about coding women and are super mean whenever a woman speaks up. Plus, if a woman fucks up it's because she os a woman and women can't code. But if a man makes a mistake, that's because he sucks, not all men. That the mentality many men have. Plus, in my country parti time job os very rare if you are not a student. Women just don't leave their fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:40 PM
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In my country women don't leave their careers when they have kids, it's not common here. And no, they don't do just "humanities" work. Another man who tries to paint women's role as insignificant. In my company alone women are fullstacks, same as men. Again, each year more and more women choose this path, despite men trying to gatekeep it. Plus, women here already make almost half of the doctors (and majority of dentists) and other important and well paid fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:05 AM
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No it's not, not anymore. More and more women work in this field every year, at least in my country. Also, many if my friends also work in IT. They are not socially awkward nerds. They all have girlfriends/boyfriends or spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:34 PM
3

These are normal guys, two of them are my type so I think they are good looking. They make really good money because we all work in IT. They are stupid because they don't confirm your weird fantasy about women over 30 not being able to find men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:06 PM
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I'm friends with women in their thirties. I was on three weddings this year, all of them were weaddings of women over 35 marrying men around their age they met a year or two ago (and one married a younger guy). I also work with some older, single women. None of them dates old dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:31 PM
2

I would agree on having only one child even if I was a sahm. And why would my man be making most of the decisions if I was a sahm and couldn't work because I would be raising three-four children? Sure, he would be making money but I would be taking care of our children. His job wouldn't be more Important than mine, of course I would deserve to make decisions and have time for my passions and for myself. But yeah, I would never agree on being a sahm exactly because of opinions like yours- that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:58 PM
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If women liked old men as a rule big age gaps would be the norm. Three or five years difference is not significant and doesn't matter. I'm talking about age gaps you described, where women date old dudes. It's rare, unless they are old themselves. I don't know older women who date much older men than them. Does it happen? Maybe, but it's not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:51 PM
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Lol, I'm 29, not 50. Of course I wouldn't have any problems with dating. But I'm getting married to a man my age. I'm not in minority, most women don't like old men. Big age gaps aren't the norm. And if I was single I still wouldn't have problems with finding men closer to my age. I have friends older than me who got married to great guys their age (one married even much younger). And honestly, not being in a relationship is better than being with almost retired dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:27 PM
1

I hate thick, lethear-like skin, deep wrinkles that men develope already in their thirties, balding, gray hair and beard (one of the worst).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:15 PM
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I don't think that 40 yo women would be attracted to 60 yo grandpas. I'm 29 now and the idea of touching a man in his 40s is gross, don't get me started about a man in his 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:44 PM
3

I'm not American and I'm in a relationship, so I'm not interested in dating at all. I never used a dating app. But thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:44 AM
2

I block them even when they text after week or longer. I'm just not interested. I already know I will block them when I give them my number.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:33 AM
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Everytime, but I block them as soon as they text or call me. I hate being approached and I was chased or called awful names when I refused to give my number. So now I just give it to not risk anything and to not make the situation awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:26 AM
1

There is no decline in society. We live in the best times possible. I would never want to live in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:12 AM
2

I mean, 40 year old men can't be "the best", so probably not. But most people are ok with not having the best partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:25 PM
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I'm 29 now and my life is much better than it was in my early 20s. Why would it suddenly get much worse when I become 30? It doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:47 AM
4

I don't know even those members of my ancestors who did reproduce except my parents and grandparents (because they are still alive and I met them). I have no idea who any of my great-grandfathers was and I don't care, I don't even know their names. My sister also don't know anything about them, I just asked her. It doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:37 AM
2

How do you know? My fiance is my age, most of my friends are with men their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:33 AM
2

If she is not old herself, she can have young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:56 AM
4

Yes, he still can probably have kids. But he is not an attractive option anymore if a woman wants kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:38 AM
10

I mean, tate is ugly. He has something really wrong with his jaw. He looks like he spits too much when he talks because of it. His face isn't pleasant in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:14 AM
7

It's just how boobs work. Especially when they are bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:51 AM
5

Ok, but 50 yo new father is a bad deal. He should be a grandpa at this point. So why would I choose someone old to be a father to my potential kids? Ans imagine sex with someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:35 AM
2

I do have a cake and I eat it too. My mother did the same. It's possible. I agree it would be harder if a family wanted to have a bigger family, but I would hate having more than one child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:17 AM
2

Yes, many men are mysogynistic. Men I went to school with, my male "friends", my brother and his friends, they all are super sexist. And yes, my fiance is not sexist, I wouldn't be with him if he was. Not all men, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:42 PM
3

Have you ever seen these dolls? I had tons of barbies and Bratz dolls. Thet were queens, doctors, super heros, singers and actors. Not obidient wifes. And women can have it all if they want to. My mother had it all, a buisness, career and a family. My friend's mothers had it all. Many of my friends have it all. I have already great career, literally do what I dreamed about as a kid, AND I'm getting married. I never nad to sacrifice my goals for my relationship. My goals are as important as my ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:02 AM
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Yeah, and my body can do it. Yours can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:49 PM
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Women also make the process happen. And everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:44 PM
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We literally grow a whole human inside of us and can feed it with our own body. A man cumming is really nothing compared to this ans if anything it's a woman who gives life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:37 PM
5

China has a long story of seeing women as useless. They literally used to teach girls that they are useless tree Brandes unfollow they gave birth to a boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:00 AM
4

It's true in my case. I don't expect men to appreciate my designer flares with unique turquise vintage blouse. Most of the men I know hate flares anyway. And I don't make fairy makeup to appeal to men either because, again, they don't like it anyway. But I sure as hell want other women to appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:13 PM
5

Well, I wouldn't want a man like this either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:44 PM
3

Ok, english is not my first language. I thought it meant having opinions and not being afraid of sharing them. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:35 PM
3

I'm empowered and opimionated and I'm getting married. It's the same with my sister in law and most of my friends. No problems here. Why being opinionated is wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:25 PM
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Yes, I would also expect my female friend to chase them. I would run after the thief myself, I would expect my brother and sister to help. I would do the same for them. I chased a guy who abused my friend on a party. It's not a gender thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:17 PM
1

In my country no man is forced tp fight. And we should get rid of mandatory army for everyone justin like we should get rid of abortion ban. And no man has to donate or borrow his organs to a person who needs them. No man has to donate his blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:48 AM
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No, it's not. My friend has to wear diapers, and she gave birth at 23. She is 27 now and struggles with post partum depretion and destroyed body. My others friend's vagina was ripped apart, she still can't have sex without enormous pain, even thought she gave birth over five years ago. She had depression as well. My cousin lost her teeth and tons of hair because of her baby, my mother also lost three teeth because of me and struggles with post partum side effects till this day. It's not like a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:33 AM
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This baby uses it's mother's body. Destroys it and feeds on it. Unwanted guests don't. If they did, it would be ok to kill them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:05 PM
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The difference is that a baby destroyes it's mother's body. And I'm not required to give my blood to a person that needs it. Nobody can use my body to save their lives. So why would an unborn child have this option?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:04 PM
1

I don't agree with this one. I always thought that's women's bodies are amazing because they can grow a human being and feed it. I don't know anything a man's body can do that is equally cool. But carrying heavy things never impressed me so maybe that's the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:44 PM
12

I saw men who do redpill podcasts (in my country and American ones). They are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:34 PM
14

I heard him saying that men peak at 45. He seemed to actually belive it, which was sad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:50 PM
1

But what's not to understand? When I was a teen I only liked dark, short haired boys, kind of like Jacob from twilight. I made fun of "feminine" type of guys. Now at 28, my type is a slim guy with long, blond hair, something like an elf. Think of Jamie Campbell, but with longer hair. Jacobs of this world do nothing for me at this point. Tastes change. Even my taste in music is not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:21 PM
5

It's not encouraged in Eastern Europe. Definitely not in Poland.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:42 PM
1

Polish women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:23 PM
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I'm from Eastern Europe. Everytime I hear those red pill wet dreams about submissive, traditional Polish or Ukrainian women I laugh so hard. We study, work, travel, enjoy our lives and we don't dream about serving men. We are not obidient trad wifes. It's funny because many Polish men complain that we are not traditional, call us different names, and created their own wet dreams about other parts of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:32 PM
1

Lol, resentful because of wasted life. It can be easily avoided by not marrying old people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:47 AM
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Then your father is an exception. I work with older people. Even men in their 50s already act super old, the difference is huge. Even when we discuss our vacation plans, they want to stay in all inclusive hotels, while we (younger people) talk about adventures, seeing and doing cool stuff. I also produce music and I'm active in music production communities. Older dudes are just used to old, outdated ways and criticize our techologies and the way we do stuff, even thought their music sounds much …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:38 AM
6

That's true for everyone. Looks always come first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:32 AM
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Doesn't matter if it was my husband. I would be resentful towards him and I would be miserable if I had to do it, my life would be awful. I would prefer to do it later when I don't have much energy to do it right, rather then waste the time I could enjoy my life to care for his old ass. Plus, let's not pretend that him acting old wouldn't start early. If I was 30, I would want to travel, maybe move to a different country, change career, have fun. If he was over 40 or 50, he would already want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:35 AM
4

How is that better? My mom at sixty, runs her buisness, has fun and just enjoys life. I want the same thing for myself, not cleaning some old fart's ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:43 AM
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Women in general prefer men their age or slightly older. Big age gaps are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:28 AM
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Both Henry and Ryan looked better when they were younger tho. Most famous men look worse in their 40, so obviously it's even more true for regular guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:25 AM
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Obviously. He was privleged because he was a man tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:54 PM
2

I used to be on the "men side", I was a hard anti-feminist. Partly because of my upbringing. But in general I belived that men were great and better than women. I was taught that it was ok that my brother got everything he asked for from my parents and I didn't. I was also taught that my brain is not capable of being a software engeneer because I'm a woman. With time, I started to realise that all of this was total bullshit. And then I discovered manosphere. You can call me a feminist now. Red p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:49 PM
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So you asked me a question and now you are pissed because I didn't answer how you expected me to? How am I an outliner? Most people date around their age, 5 years is a normal difference. You are the one claiming that real outliners (women dating much older guys) are the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:31 PM
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Learning all the time, working to buy things to pursue my hobbies and later career while my brother got everything from our parents and grandparents, studying to became great at my job... These are just view examples. Nobody gave me anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:43 AM
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My looks never bothered me because I realised I wasn't pretty when I was six or seven. I still remember myself looking in the mirror and realising that. So I grew up knowing this and never got a chance to be sad about it, it was sort of natural to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:48 AM
4

It's very often not pleasurable. Especially if it's mostly penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:56 AM
0

No. I had to work my ass off to be where I'm at. I had it much harder than my brother, he got everything on a silver plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:44 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:39 AM
1

Lol, no. We don't have it easier in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:37 AM
0

You asked me about women I know who are with younger guys. So I gave you examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:33 AM
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I don't think I'm attractive (I'm definitely not pretty). My fiance is much hotter than I am. He is tall, has amazing face, hands, everything. I do get hit on in real life, but I never used online dating so I don't know how would it work. I've never been rejected because I never approached a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:15 PM
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And where are these women who lament? All women lament? And yes, getting men is easy. Especially old men. And also, I'm just saying that her strategy is not generally good. Maybe she is happy. But in general most women don't wan't an old, balding husband to tries to put them in their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:36 PM
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And where do you get your info from? Most women in general date around their age, big age gaps are rare. My one friend married a man five years younger, another one married a four years younger man. My grandmother was six years older than my grandpa, a woman from my job married a 28 yo man when she was 36.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:31 PM
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I do get outside and most of my friends are women in their twenties. We all date men our age, just slightly older or younger. All of men I know also date and married women their age. Same with my family and my fiance's family. The biggest age gap is five years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:12 PM
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This chick married some old, balding dude who flirts with other women to keep her in check. How is this "success"? This sounds like a nightmare. And she didn't do anything special. Getting old, single men is the easiest thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:09 PM
1

I don't know, I've never been in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:38 PM
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Of course women can still get good and hot men in their 30s. I work with older women. That's literally what they do. I was on couple of weddings last Years, all the women were over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:47 PM
6

Huh? Most women mess around with men close to their age, not some old dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:26 PM
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Yep. I just checked this dude out. How is he high value? He is 40 and unatractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:21 PM
1

FDS, while shitty, was an exeption compared to tons of anti women subs. And it was created as a response to red pill/incel thing. There are still male only spaces. And really, no male only golf club is an excuse to say that women should be put in their place?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:40 AM
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Dude, we have whole podcasts created by men dedicated to discussing things like: women have no hobbies (and if the do, they are faking it) women are like children women can't decide for themselves so they should be controled by men. And many, many much worse things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:55 PM
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I know the history of feminism. I'm saying what brought me to feminism. Before I thought that today's feminism was pointless and that men were not against us (women). Then I heard my brother's friends talking about women, became a software engineer and work with tons of men, discovered red pill and the rest is history. But ngl, reading red pill stuff and watching their youtube channels radicalised me the most. And it did to same to many women (I showed all of this to my friends).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:06 PM
1

Which groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:57 PM
2

No, I don't think so. Women don't create spaces where they discuss women being useless unless they obey men, inferior, less inteligent etc. They didn't create whole religions to put women below men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:03 PM
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Yep, I used to be "team men". Then slowly I realised that's men see women as inferior to them and say things like the guy couple of posts before. It's not the only reason, but sexist men are a big part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:58 PM
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Same, red pill spaces, and male spaces in general made me a feminist. And it made most of my friends feminists as well when I showed these posts to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:44 AM
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Yep. Shit like that is a default view for most men, yet they don't understand why feminism happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:42 AM
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There will always be crazy people's apologists. Chris Watts had people excusing his behavior in manosphere. Including Rollo Tomassi. Jodie Arias also had people who defended her. Most people however hated on them. Just like most people hate on Amber (rightfully so).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:06 AM
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I don't care about them, I do what I want. If there are any rules they don't mattet to me. I will not live in a certain way just because I'm a woman. In my relationship, my man takes care of cooking, I make more money. I learn all the time to makr even more money. We both do feminine and masciline things. We don't think twice about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:08 PM
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Well, I wouldn't. Penetrative sex is "meh", without clitoral stimulation which gives me orgasm every time I would not want to have sex at all. It would be a chore to please my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:46 AM
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Because you can easily orgasm from penetration. We can't. A dick doesn't stimulate my clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:32 PM
2

I can't honestly thing of anything that's my man does and I don't. I can't also think about anything my mom did that my father didn't. My mother did definitly more overall and contributed much more than my dad. I was tought that mowing the grass was a woman's job, as well as everything in the garden. So growing up only my mom and I would do it, never my brother or my dad. And my mom was working full time and earnef more most of the time. When it came to choping wood, I did it many times, same wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:56 PM
2

Actually maybe your last point is true, I met my man and most of my friends as a teen. But I wasn't ignorant, I'm actually more optimistic now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:23 PM
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Just wanted to point out that life is much easier later. I'm 28, my life is much, much easier now than it was when I was 20. I make great money, I can afford things, I can do whatever I want, I don't depend on anyone's mercy, I'm in a loving relationship, great friends by my side... The list goes on. I think that late teens and early twenties were much harder and stressfull. But I'm not an American, so maybe you guys have it different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:07 PM
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Yes there was. All of those posts were disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:09 AM
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Someone above showes your disgusting things redpillers posted on redpill sub. And I saw many more. This is the reason for banking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:39 AM
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She just posted disgusting and sexmasterki things men write on red pill. And other men posting there didn't have a problem with these things. This alone justifies hating and censoring these spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:37 AM
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Men in MGTOW spaces said it. I've spent too much time out there, I know what the talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:10 PM
4

Sure. But I'm just showing that women aren't inferior to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:23 PM
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They do everything else, pretty much majority of the work. Plus, they half of the dna comes from the mother. Men only have easier time carrying some heavy things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:14 PM
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It's not equal at all. Men can't grow a human being inside of them, them can't birth them and can feed them with their bodies. Nothing a man can do can be compared to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:53 PM
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No. Women grow human beings inside of them, birth them and can feed them with their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:46 PM
1

Make up doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:53 PM
5

It still doesn't matter. I'm a much better person now than five years ago. So if men would prefer me being an unhappy mess than now as a happy, fulfilled person then focusing on what men want is not worth it. If I focused on being a woman red pill sees as "high value" I would have wasted my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:01 AM
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I'm not traditional in any other way. I'm ambitious and I focus on my goals. I don support my man's goals and I care about him, but my goals are as much important to me as his. I don't see a problem with me travelling alone or with friends. I'm faithful, I never cheated. If settling down young meant wasting my youth on staying at home and serving my man and losing my potential, I wouldn't have done it. No, I'm not submissive. And I love myślę mansi mucha that's it crushes myślę insides. I never …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:31 AM
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It doesn't matter. I don't work on my career on my goals to be more attractive to men. It never even crossed my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:22 AM
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I did that, I worked on myself while I was being with my man. We started dating right after high school. The difference is that I didn't have to sacrifice anything for him. I still traveled with him and alone, still focused on my career, still spent a lot of times on my hobbies, still went to festivals with my friends. So I "settled" with my man very early, but I'm not actually a traditional woman. I do everything a single woman would be doing, expect casual sex. When men here talk about wanting…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:30 AM
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Yep, that sounds awful. They sound like "don't live your life, don't work towards your dreams but sacrifice to fulfill a man's dreams and goals, don't make memories, don't travel, don't work on your passions. Just leave all of this behind you and serve a man as soon as you finish high school."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:37 AM
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My best wasn't when I was 22. Even if men thought I was more fuckable, it wasn't my best. I was stressed out, angry all the time and had face full of acne. Iwas a depressed mess with awful hair. Now at 28 I have my dream job, make great money, I'm already successful in two well paid proffessions, I'm happy, andI actually wake up everyday excited. And I actually get much more attention, which doesn't matter because I'm engaged. So 22 wasn't my best. Even if I was more fuckable or attractive, it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:33 AM
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It's not about being happy about going your own way. It's about saying that women's rights should be taken away, that women should know their place, that's women are inferior to men. Don't pretend like you are pure, innocent group of guys chosing your path, when you talk about making half of the population subservient.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:57 PM
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I never felt immediate sexual attraction. Even when I had butterflies in my stomach, I didn't even think about sex. But I also never felt attracted to a stranger. I didn't know people felt like that until I discovered reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:33 PM
1

Poland. Don't worry, my friends from Vietnam do that too. I saw myself how they destroyed an old french guy who tried to find a "wife" there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:12 PM
1

These men look like drunk grandmothers most of the time. I work with older men. I go to the gym with tons of older men. Even the ones who are well built look just old. They are not attractive and compared to younger guys in the gym, the times lose terribly. I told my friends about redpill theories that old men are hot, and we started looking around to see if it's true. We haven't found a single one. Not in the gym, not in pubs, not anywhere. If a guy was hot, he was young. Even more, there was a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:03 PM
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A hot, rich young guy is the fantasy. Not middle age rich guy. No one dreams of 40 yo dudes or even worse, Bezos. In this fantasy, the guy is youthful and hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:57 PM
1

I know mamy men who are successful with women and they are great, good guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:54 PM
1

They are not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:34 PM
1

No, you can't. High value man can't be a human trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:49 PM
1

You can't be a piece of shit and high value at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:37 PM
2

Red pillers call cheaters "high value". What redpill says doesn't matter. My man is higher value than any man I know. And definitely than any old guy out there. 28 years old man is always better than 40 yo grandpa. And what women wanty does matter. Most women don't date old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:35 AM
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Shit, was it too obvious? ;_;
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:07 AM
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They are high value. And they could have younger women, my brother dated younger girl. I also dated a younger guy. Now I'm marrying a man my age. He is extremely high value and beats all the old men (obviously). And what red pill sees as high value is not really high value. So it doesn't matter if you see them as "high value".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:01 AM
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They are great guys, especially my brother. He never had problems with women. Most people date around their age. Big age gaps are an exception (obviously, much older men are bleh).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:37 AM
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Redpillers have the same narrative. George Clooney is hot at old age (althought he is not), so all men are hot as they get old.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:09 AM
2

Actually I do, my grandmother is 6 years older than my grandpa. My sister in law is 3 years older than my brother, my fathers' brother is 7 years younger than his second wife. The rest marriges are the same age, maybe with one year difference. I don't know a single couple with an age gap larger than 7 years. My fiance is my age, all of my friends date men their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:04 AM
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They Might be fertile but nobody wants an old dad of a newborn. The thought oficjalnie having sex with a 50-60 yo dude is disgusting, him being fertile doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:14 AM
4

Nobody gets wet for bald dudes woth wrinkly balls and backs either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:11 AM
7

It is, most women aren't attracted to old dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:09 AM
9

Men in their 70s, 60s and 50s also aren't attractive or a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:08 AM
1

I didn't say anything about 30yo men looking younger. But if there are it's probably because 30 is not that old.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:24 PM
2

They don't tho. I've never met a guys near 40 who would look much younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:59 PM
3

I'm 28 and yes, 40 yo men are still grandpas. This will change when I'm 40 myself probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:48 AM
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I don't know a single person who does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:35 PM
4

Zendaya is beautiful but Tom is also hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:20 PM
5

I was once asked for my number in a café. I didn't want to give it but I didn't know how to say "no" without making in awkward. He tried to go for a beer with me. I went despite not wanting to but texted my friend to meet me and save me from this situation. He probably thought I was interested. I wasn't. You have no idea how many times my friends asked each other for help. Have you considered that these women aren't some evil creatures but just care about each other? Your cock is not the center …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:54 AM
1

So so men. Most of my male friends refuses to celebrate their 25th birthday and we're crying about "being old and irrelevant". My brother got depressed. They complain about being old at every occasion. They are 27,28 or 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:58 AM
2

You said that men peak later. That's not true. I see men around me, young ones are hotter. Women don't mind relationship with men slightly younger. Maybe not 15 years, buty 3,5,7 years in not an issue. I have friends who married younger men. I have friends who are 29 and date guys that are 23 and 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:41 PM
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I also get much more attention at almost 29 and I'm a woman. I took care of myself and look much better. So is my prime now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:04 AM
4

No they don't. It's clear that's Younger guys look better. Even in the gym you can see it clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:02 AM
2

Lol. No we don't. Wtf, who told you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:57 AM
4

I'm 28, I have friends who found love at 30, 32 and older. None of them had problems with dating. One of my friends found an amazing guy as a almost 30 single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:57 AM
2

Johnny Depp looks much, much worse than he used to. He aged horribly. So it's not like he can complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:52 AM
7

I do. I like men who look young. My fiance got me because of his boyish looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:45 PM
6

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:44 AM
4

No. Pick me is a doormat. Not a woman who doesn't hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:17 AM
1

And 2-6 is not a real difference, nobody cares about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:22 AM
1

Huh? About what? Yes, most women want hot guys their age or slightly older (five years is not a real difference). We don't even consider relationships with three-five years difference as age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:48 AM
1

So if I couldn't get with a hot attractive guy my age (which is false because I'm engaged to one) and had to go for an older dude instead, I would be settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:33 AM
2

When I think of older men I see men in their late thrties and forties. They are already too old. And five years is not a significant difference. 10 years is rare. I'm not masculine. I just like attractive men, like most women. Hot 28 yo is much better than a 37yo dude with a dad bod and a better job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:24 AM
1

Their age or a bit older, not middle aged dudes. Big age gaps are a minority. When I see an old guy in a suit I don't think "wow, I bet he is stable and successfull, so hot!". I just see an older guy and don't pay much attention to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:56 AM
2

I'm a 28 woman, most of my friends are my age. They still chose hotter guys, not old but stable guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:38 AM
5

Actually no, most women would chose a hot guy with abs if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:22 AM
3

That's true. I'm 28, no wrinkles, very hydrated skin. It's the same for my female friends. But guys? All of them have wrinkles, especially on their forheads, dry skin, some already have weird colors on their faces. Together with hairs loss it gives a really sad, tired effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:20 AM
1

Young is everything up up to early 30s. I work with old men earning really good money. Them being in cery good financial situation doesn't make them more attractive to any of my work friends. They arenie hot, they are tired and old. We also talked about it. If they looked like Cesar Domboy they would be attractive. But they look like older guys with money. Maybe my mom would be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:14 AM
11

They all looked much better young. Especially Clooney. He is a grandpa now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:13 PM
19

True. Since I discovered redpill spaces I started observing the world around me through redpiller eyes and started talking about it with my friends. Most red pill things don't seem to be true. My friends and I were comparing men in the gym. Older guys, even thought they were well built from working out were not hot to us and were losing compared to younger men, even skinny ones. Same in pubs, beaches etc. There were no older hot guys walking around. If we saw someone hot, he was young. And I liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:12 PM
1

7 years is not really a difference, so of course nobody cares about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:58 PM
13

No bodyguard has a problem with 5-7 years of difference. It's not even a real difference, I don't consider it an age gap. You are making things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:57 PM
8

No. I've heard too many horror stories about dating single dads. They always want their new partner to take care of their kids. And I'm not taking care of someone else's kid, I'm not spending my own money on the kid, I'm not cooking and wasting my weekend or vacation on someone's kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:59 AM
0

Kissing most of the times, but it's doesn't work If I'm focused on something oraz in the middle of the day. I can't tell if there is anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:42 AM
4

So yes, I don't get 5 minutes of arousal a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:40 AM
3

Because some of us can't figure it out. I have no idea what turns me on, the situation needs to be already sexual. I don't have kinks or fantasies, it just never happened. That's why masturbation never worked for me. But I will not be ready for sex If I'm not being prepared first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 07:26 AM
4

But I'm not aroused out of nothing. I don't get horny from thinking about sex. If myślę man doesn't kiss me oraz touch me, I will nothing be ready. I never got horny out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 07:23 AM
1

XD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:12 PM
1

Jesus, you people are hopeless. Yes, listen to more rollo tomassi. Women bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:30 PM
1

Please, women love men who buy them everything and make them feel like princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:00 AM
2

And do men like unhappy doormats?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:56 AM
1

I don't know. Definitely not by bothering me. I don't bother strangers, I expect the same energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:04 AM
2

No, he doesn't get the same treatment because I'm not a doormat anymore. I don't sacrifice my life for anyone anymore. My friends and family also don't getta the same treatment as they used to. I was a push over with extremely low self esteem. I hated doing it. I worked hard since then, I don't let people use me anymore. Do I cook for my fiance sometimes? Yes. But because I want and I'm not his cook. I don't let anyone use me anymore, I'm not a doormat. Should I let a man abuse me after I heald …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:06 AM
1

If my fiance's ex girlfriend was abusive bitch that was using him for money and then no, I would not be angry that's he heald and doesn't feel like he has to let me and abuse me. I never agreed on anal but I used to cook for my ex everyday even thought we didn't live together and I didn't want to do that. It messed up my schedule and I almost fucked up important thing for me because of commuting to his house. I did that because back then I felt worthless, he would get angry if I didn't and he wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:32 AM
2

I would do almost anything for my fiance. But only wouldn't make him degrade me or hurt me. If he wanted to do something like anal sex for me, which would mean he is ok with hurting me for his own pleasure, that would mean that he is a bad person. I don't hurt him for my orgasm. So why would he?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:39 AM
-1

No, I wouldn't do painful and degrading sex acts for love. Love wouldn't mean that I'm destroying myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:36 AM
12

It's a normal response. I don't bother men minding their own buisness or having fun with friends. I don't inrerrupt men's well deserved "me time" in a cafè to talk to them. I expect the same energy from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:34 AM
3

Her husband doesn't respect her and treats her in an awful way. So why would she stay? So he can write field reports on married RP subreddit about how he made his wife to do what he wants by making her feel "low value"? This man deserves to be divorced. If it happens it will be his fault.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 11:32 AM
8

It's just an assumption. And younger, hot guy is better than "mature" old dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:23 PM
9

Age doesn't automatically mean maturity. I work with old me, I have much older brother. They are not more mature. They might seem like it. But when I actually gotowa to spend time with them at work or work parties, they were cringy, easily offended and in general act not right. Especially around other young men who have great contact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:10 PM
2

I've been with myślę fiance since high school, almost ten years now. Why would our relationship suddenly end after marrige? Yes, my marrige will not be traditional or christian. Because I'm not traditional and I'm not christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:37 AM
2

I was egalitarian most of my life. I called myself "Anti-feminist" to show men I was on their side. And I was still a target of disgusting sexism. And even worse, I heard men saying that women like hearing "harsh truth" about women being inferior to men, because we didn't do anything about their awful takes. So sorry, but no. Men have been sexist for a very long time. There needs to be a push back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:35 AM
1

You gave me one link. And one google search shows much different results. Women aren't responsible for equal amount of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:17 AM
2

And whatever do you want me to do? Be nice to men who write awful shit about women? Accept it and be a bigger person? Why? It's like with women who started mocking alpha male podcasts. Other men cried that women are mocking them. These "alpha males" were saying disgusting, sexist things but somehow women were bad for responding and mocking their behavior. Men will not stop being sexist. The least we can do is to mock them back. Being a bigger person doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:15 AM
2

I will stop talking about men in absolutes when they stop doing it's to women. And yes, misogyny has been much more common than misandry. All the biggest religions are sexist, many social norms were sexist, Educational systems were sexist. And China became misogynistic when they discovered that men were actually needed to make a baby. Since then women were literally called useless, in one period of time a women bad to step away and look down if she saw that a man was walking her way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:10 AM
3

I think I have a pretty good idea. I just don't treat being a wife as a mission. I don't look at marrige through any ideology, I won't be a second mate to my captain, a trad wife. I will still be me, pursuing my goals. Just like I do it now, while living with my fiance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:03 AM
2

I'm 28 and I never really had a sex drive. So was I born on the wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:59 AM
2

In Europe patriarchy was wide an visible. In Asia patriarchy was on steroids, women were called useless tree branches untill they gave birth to a son. In Europe, in catholic countries, women were portrayed as worse kind of a man that can't be trusted abd needs to be controlled. And don't get me started about patriarchy in evangelical circles. These guys are crazy. Even thought I live in catholic country, I went to protestant school. Their teachings made me hate being a woman. Women in Rome were …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:37 AM
1

Just the truth. Men are naturally more impulsive and violent (that's Why I don't feel that any man can be superior to me). Most statistics show much greater number of female victims compared to male.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:22 AM
1

Of course this is the main narrative. Look around. I'm a software engineer. When I was growing up I was told be men that women can't code because our brains can't understand it. I belived it and almost resigned from pursuing it, that's how popular this opinion was. It's still popular around many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:59 AM
2

Please. Sexism and "women bad" memes were everywhere since I remember. Politicians in my country openly say that women should submit, are less inteligent and shouldn't work. Recently a girl posted pictures saying she became an engineer. Tons of men started writing that she is now a broken woman, that she should submit to a man and have his children, that she probably paid for it and much, much worse. And this is just one example out of many. Men are sexist and don't like women. The difference is…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:56 AM
6

JLo doesn't have any problems finding men. I justin read that she got together with Ben Affleck. According to red pill, he, as a rich and old actor, should be dating 20 year olds. She looks much better compared to Leo. So yes, if she was normal she would find men without any troubles. Leo would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:49 AM
3

Lol, I'm getting married and being a wife is definitely not my higher calling or my main goal in life. It's just a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:45 AM
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I, and most women, have no interest in dating old men, which make men go crazy when I say it. I got soo many angry messages every time I wrote it. If Leo and JLo weren't both famous, JLo still would have more options than Leo. Leo did not age well and the only thing he can do is buy sugar babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:27 AM
10

Leonardo also looks much worse than he did in Titanic. He os not attractive physically. He is just rich, that's it. He can pay his way for sex. If he was a normal guy, not a famous actor, he would be an example of a man who aged like milk. But he pays his way to women so now delusional men think he is actually better than he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:23 AM
2

The world is notatki gynocentric. It's just becoming less male dominated, which is a fantastic thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:14 AM
2

Nah, It's just an example showing that for most of our history "mISAndry" was not a thing at it's only response to male behavior. 20 were as sexist 20 years ago as red pill is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:11 AM
3

At the same time women are seen as less inteligentny, incompetent, too emotional, irritatating, without any hobbies or interests. In mamy countries they were seen as even useless (China for example). Now we have red pill which is not any different from male behavior 20,30,50 years ago, it's natural way men think. How is that "women are wonderful" effect?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:08 AM
1

Men do that all the time. Men hold as accoutable for other women's actions all the time. So it's only fair if we do the same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:23 AM
1

But men are going out of their way to mock women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:20 AM
1

First, I heard similar things long before I found red pill. I was just always told to ignore it. I showed red pill content to my because similar or even more disgusting things are said by young men in my country and I wanted to explain to them where it might come from. These things are often said by men supporting one political party that's is very popular among guys. And again, I did a good thing. Because they actually started criticizing men and calling out their bullshit. And Kevin Samuel, 21…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:11 AM
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I only found one study saying that, and tons of studies stating that it's much, much less. And the studies that say that half of the victims are male are supported by manosphere, which is not a good source of knowledge. So I don't belive it, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:03 AM
-2

Red pill is full of men saying that women are only good if the are obidient or that women doing anything other than being an obidient help meet are broken, that it's ok for for men to cheat, that women don't have any interests, that we wanty to suck dicks and obey. That a good woman should agree on every sex act, otherwise she is notatki commited enough. And much worse. I've spent a lot of time in red pill spaces to know that they are full of misogynysts. I just showed my friends how many men th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:59 PM
2

More men are abusers than women. Men are more violent. Men cause more physical harm and are more dangerous. And obviously emotional damage goes together with physical damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:46 PM
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I think they can be but much less than men and it's usually a response towarów sexist men. That's whatever happened to some of my friends when I showed them red pill. They started mocking men a criticizing them harshly after I showed them red pill content, subreddits and so on. For many men seing women as inferior is a default mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:21 PM
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Men are more successfull in commiting violent crimes. Nobody stops men from studying. Not a Long time women were not even allowed in Universities. Even Maria Skłodowska-Curie had to emigrate to study, only because she was a woman. And why do you think were have more domestic violence programs dedicated to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:19 PM
-1

Gynocentrism in Poland? In christian school? XD No, there is no gynocentrism. We are just walking away from male-centric society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:28 PM
-1

Women were always seen as a worse kind of a human. There is no "women are wonderful effect". There is" there is a woman for every man" lie. But that's it. Boysband don't grow up thinking that women are better than them. They actually start making sexist, even disgusting comment pretty early.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:35 PM
1

Men have always been sexist from my experience. All my life I listened to sexist opinions of boys from my school, male teachers, even guys who were suppoused to be be my friends. I couldn't browse the internet without seeing "women stupid/shallow/bad" jokes and serious takes. It started to change a little three or four years ago where I started seeing men who don't see women as a worse kind of a human. But at the same time red pill and incels started to grow. And red pill is full of gurus saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:31 PM
5

But most women don't orgasm from penetration. I never orgasm from penetrative sex and I knew that I will never orgasm even before I lost my virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:36 PM
1

I'm in a relationship and I don't thinking that my man is better than me. And we've been together since we were 19. I don't know a single man that's I would see as superior to me. Even if he knows more about something than me, I know more about other things and can do things he can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:20 AM
1

All my life I heard that women are pretty much worse than men in everything. That we are too emotional, less inteligentny, that we should listen to men, that I Shouldn't really want to be successfull because that will destroy myślę relationship. It took me a long time to built my self worth and do what I want. So of course I'm not going to accept every stupid "women bad" take from men. Most men tried to bring me down all my life. Listening to them is not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:40 PM
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Why is it sad? I'm actually a really happy person. I didn't know that there was something wrong with me, so I didn't feel the need to tell thay I don't feel any lust. I will never felt the need to "jump on it" towards any man and I never will. It just never happened to me. But I am in a happy relationship so I don't see a problem here. It's just the say I am. I just never felt horny towards anyone. But I do feel love, I don't have to act like a horny teenage boy to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:34 PM
1

But I never felt the need to "jump on it" towards anyone. I just don't feel any lust, I don't get horny by looking at anyone. So should I lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:31 PM
1

I never felt lust over anyone. So what am I suppoused to do? Leave a happy relationship? Be alone? Just because I don't have some mythical feeling from time to time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:13 PM
1

Well, I don't get horny out of the blue. Lile it doesn't happen. I can initiate but when I do it it's awkward and weird. So when I start it, sex is worse for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:06 PM
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He is sexual. And I didn't know there was something wrong with me so I didn't let him know that I don't get horny out of the blue. I just have sex when he proposes it, unless I'm tired or busy for example. But I don't feel lust and don't fantasize about actual sex or positions. I wouldn't care if I was on the receiving end. Because I don't really see a problem here. I found out that people get horny because they see someone hot quite recently when I discovered reddit and other similar platforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:44 PM
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Because people like to think that they will be an exeption. I have friends who used to say that's they wanted a big family with 3 children(or more). After them had their firsy all of them said that them will not do it again. My best friend, who used to want 5 kids said that if she gets pregnant with a second one her life will be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:24 PM
1

I never felt lust in my life. I don't even feel horny or think about sex unless the situation is strictly sexual. I honestly didn't know people could act this way untill I started reading reddit. So am I suppoused to leave my man and Destroy our happy and thriving relationship because I don't act like a horny teenage guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:25 AM
1

I never think about sex when I see someone attractive. Just seeing or meeting hot men doesn't make me want sex. Just like seeing naked men doesn't make me horny. Yes I see that they look good. But I need to be kissed or touched to think actually want sex. When I fantasize, it's never about real person. I don't even think about positions or sex acts. I always about how it would feel to have my neck kissed etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:13 AM
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And go where? To muslim countries? Asian countries? Where men are misigynists on steroids? Where in China women were called useless tree branches not that long time ago if they didn't give birth to a son? It's like jumping into an ocean to escape getting wet from rain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:26 PM
2

I mean, this signal is enough. But if a guy is too socially stupid and can't read it he is risking that the situation will be unpleasant. You are most definitely a man if you can't understand it and use "you a whAMeN" on me. Go listen to coachella red pill or other autists.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:23 PM
2

This signal is enough. If I'm reading or listening to music, leave me alone. No matter what you want. You can risk it but it will be very unpleasant. I only get approached in this kind of situations. If it was at a party I would be nice during rejection. But in this case I'm always irritated and don't even try to be polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:24 PM
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I know how at least one on them lives on daily basis because I meet her almost everyday. She is not miserable. I'm in a happy relationship, live with my fiance, and I spend almost all of my evenings alone because of my hobby. She has more social life than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:53 AM
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This is a bad deal for a woman, isn't it? It seems like bad intentions. It's not benefitial to have to take care of an old fart who is my husband and stop enjoying life much earlier than I could, is it? So for women it's still better to not marry old dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:36 AM
1

Lol. No. No sex is much better than bad sex or even "not that great" sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:25 AM
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I have the opposite experience. I know Two women who never had sex, one of them never even kissed ayone. They are still happy, calm and pretty successfull financially. One of them is really pretty, she just grew up in a religious family and, after she eskapad, she doesn't want to be with men. I also know couple of men who are forever alone. They get crazier every year that passes. I used to be friends with one, he became a nightmare to spend time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:11 AM
9

Like what? Would he go down on me? I don't think so. I would go down on a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:05 PM
15

This question literally is "can I use you for my pleasure and then leave you when I'm done, without seeing you as a human being but as a sex doll? ".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:25 PM
15

Well, I'm 28 and all of the boys from my high school look worse than they used to. Especially the ones than used to be cute but started balding. So did they hit the wall already?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:04 PM
3

Just because a man has money doesn't mean he can't be cringy, stupid or a creep. These guys are cringy. So the fact that they have money doesn't help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:37 AM
3

Why would I care what society says if it doesn't change anything for me? It doesn't change how I feel about people. I don't have more respect for older men at my work who make more than me. Money doesn't change anything. We still make fun of them, point out everytime them do something cringy and let everyone know when they try to flirt with on of us. I would say that they have lower smv, if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:22 AM
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I'm good. I'm getting married to a man my own age. And I don't see men who make more than me as above me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:53 AM
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A man who earns less is not repulsive. But an older man? Absolutely. I'm 28. If I was single and my only options were men near 40 I would die. That would be awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:34 AM
3

And when did you get that? The only loveless relationships I know I the ones on conservative circles where I grew up. And these people did everything in a traditional way. And there is not a big difference between finding love as a 23 yo and as a 28 yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:18 AM
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In real life a 28, 29 or 30 yo woman will not have problems finding a life partner. It's actually normal. And being in a relationship since early twenties doesn't guarantee anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:34 AM
3

Lol, I'm equal contributor. I own half of the place and pay half of everything. It's the same with all of my friends. Literally all of them pay half or more of everything. I made a good decision to not be a traditional woman/houswife. Because you yourself admitted that it would give me less rights and less autonomy in my own relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:16 PM
3

But it's my house as well. My fiance is not the only owner of the house we live in. And they own their apartments where we meet as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:01 PM
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Their boyfriends or husbands are not my friends and I don't trust them the way I trust my friends. Just like my fiance is not my friend's friend. So yes, I wouldn't trust you if I didn't have a close relationship with you. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:54 PM
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It doesn't matter. I don't talk about important/intimate things when I'm at my best friend's house if her husband can hear them. I don't discuss intimate things with my friends in my house if my fiance can hear them as well. I don't want their men to listen to it and they don't want my man to listen to what they tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:42 PM
3

Sorry, I meant "they".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:37 PM
6

I have best friends that I knew since elementary school. They were always there for me and they are all women. But men let me down many times. So I don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:21 PM
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Probably forever. I don't get horny out of nowhere and I didn't feel the need to have sex before I lost my virginity and I don't feel this need now. Sex is a nice addotion to life but I never craved it. Like, my libido never woke up. Now I have sex pretty often because I'm in a relationship. But if it suddenly stopped I probably wouldn't care at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:28 PM
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But mostu women don't enjoy plain piv. Most women need clitoral stimulation to enjoy piv. But in this case, she still wouldn't enjoy ot because of your dick, but because of her fingers or your pelvis. So are you willing to look for a rare unicorn that get crazy from having a dick inside?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:44 PM
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I and most people know that most men orgasm during penetration and feel pleasure during the act. And that's great. And I understand that men want their partners to enjoy penetration. But Physical it will notatki happen for many, many women. It's just the fact. So wouldn't it be better to just accept it and move on? Why do you try to make something impossible to happen, instead of enjoying sex the way it is? First have piv, then you eat her out for her orgasm or finger her, or whatever you guys l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:06 PM
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It's not like I don't feel anything. I feel everything. It just isn't pleasurable. Just like strocking my arm is not pleasurable, but I feel everything when I do it. It's not about smaller men avoiding penetration. It's about letting men know that clitoris is an equivalent of a penis, not vagina. Because men do think that penetration should because the main act during sex, when most women need something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:07 PM
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Look who I was responding to first. Doing hobbies and working on my aspirations never has any downsides. Being with a man who requires me not to focus on the things I like is one big downside. No matter how high value he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:50 PM
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So you don't have friends because them might tell you tobie leave your wife? And you must have shitty people around you. I get to be in a loving relationship AND I have my hobbies, and professional that started as a passion. And I can freely speak my mind and I don't submitting. Even If I didn't work, I still wouldn't be submissive and would keep my friends and hobbies. As work at home ans taking care of kids is not less important and a man who brings money is not a boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:59 PM
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Of course it's a choice. I chose tobie do what I want. I could've been married to some conservative alpha idiot if I wanted to. I knew any of them. But I wasn't interested in destroying my own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:45 PM
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Ok, but why would I care that I can't feel anything during penetration when I can orgasm from oral? I can't change it, I will never feel pleasure during piv. So why is it a red flag when it's normal? And why is it's bad to advice men to do things that actually bring us pleasure instead of forcing us to enjoy penetration?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:37 PM
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But penetrative sex is just... meh. And I feel everything. It's justin not what gives pleasure. All of my friends agree. Sure, we moan to create the mood, I scream anove, but it's not actually pleasurable. Clitoral stimulation feels much better. It's just our anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:34 PM
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So women who matter are servents who can't do things they are passionate about? Then it's better to be a woman who don't matter. Seems like I'm the one and it's going better for me. I'm in a happy relationship, make great money, have friends and can work on my hobbies. If I was a woman "that matters" I would be serving all day and do what I'm told. Seems like I won.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:22 PM
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A woman with friends, dreams and hobbies will lead to divorce? So being a woman who won't lead to divorce must be awful. No hobbies, no friends, no say in my own life, just submitting and serving. Sounds like a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:50 PM
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Or maybe just women who don't want to be bossed around and who have, idk, hobbies, aspirations and friends? And don't want to just follow and agree on everything their man says? We are people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:42 AM
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According to red pill men being good is not enough. They expect their women to be obidient, stay at home, not have aspirations and interesting hobbies and just serve them. The biggest clowns even say that women should be ok with their men cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:33 AM
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Reclaiming masculinity means not allowing a woman to have hobbies, friends and aspirations? And just expecting her to be a helper/servant? Then masculinity is a shitty thing, isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:31 AM
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Yes. I never my life felt "initial spark". For most of my life I thought it was just a fiction created for film and literature. Every time I felt in love with someone, it was a guy I already knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:26 PM
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No, just don't dehumanize people that's didn't do anything to you. It makes you a shitty person and your behavior deserves to be called out. If you mock them, it's ok for them to mock you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:54 AM
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How is it bullshit? We literally responded to what fresh and fit said for example. And mocked them. They started it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:25 AM
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Feminism was a justified and needed mnie movement. And it's not a reason for incel behavior. Secondly, it's absurd to pretend that feminists would stop routinely hurting men if people like incels caved in and be obedient slaves. When we mocked incels and red pill men on tik tok we didn't do it out of nothing. We used their awful takes Against them and mocked them because of what they did first. Fresh and fit didn't get made fun of and mockef for nothing. And nothing Calling women femoids, cumdum…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:53 AM
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Not dating you is not the reason to degrade women and call thema bitches and dogshit. So yes, incels started it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:48 AM
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Ugly men can also be shitty. Unattractive doesn't mean good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:50 PM
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Why? They started it. We're just biting back. It's justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:58 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:57 PM
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We do insult what the are doing. But they also insult women's appereance and pretty much everything else. So we just give them the same treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:08 PM
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They started it. There needs to be a push back. What do you suggest? Just being nice and not talking back? Why would shitty men be left in peace? Shitty men will remain shitty, they are lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:47 PM
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Just like men mock women for everything, for having short hair, being career oriented or having high self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:46 PM
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It's not thought. It's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:48 PM
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I don't hate all men. I just mock those men who hate and degrade women. It's only fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:47 PM
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There is no point of helping incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:19 PM
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Nah, just fair. They started it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:19 PM
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Yes, the point was to insult them. They were insulting and dehumanizing us, so of course we meant to hurt them. And it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:19 PM
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Just like women see hatefull red pill and incel content and become feminists and lose trust in men (that what happened to me). When they stop, we will stop as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:09 PM
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Why not? They started it and create spaces where they discuss raping us or taking away our rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:08 PM
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There is not an equivalent of a whore for men. Of course we will use other insults that will hurt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:39 PM
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Why? They starte it. They deserve to be treated like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:37 PM
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Why not? We obviously mock their belives. But they also call women whales, sluts, bitches, dumb etc. So why wouldn't we mock their baldness or height?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:13 PM
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That's why we hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:11 PM
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Why? They deserve to be hurt for how they behave. Just justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:10 PM
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Because they are hateful. So it's ok to use things that will offend them back. Just like we don't hate men who are balding But if these men host red pill and hateful podcasts, we will use their balding to mock them (just like we did on tik tok recently).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:30 PM
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Different people have different needs. I'm a woman, 28, and I would die if I had to have sex everyday. Once a week is enough to keep it's going.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:23 PM
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Not always. I never got horny from looking someone or thinking about sex, and it takes time for me to get in the mood. All of the sex I have begins from me faking a little, because I don't really get pleasure from it. Penetration just isn't pleasurable for me. And I'm healthy, I checked my hormones, I don't have any traumas. This is just the way I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:22 PM
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I was following red pill spaces for entertainment, to make fun of them and cringe. I found this sub by accident, probably by looking up some incels or mgtow content.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:33 AM
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I think that she wasn't inferior to a man, she was in the process of growing life. And still, while prrgnant she would work hard in the field or as a servant if she wasn't at least middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:38 AM
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Nobody sees masculinity as inferior. Especially men. Well, a man just need to move his hips couple of times. A woman does everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:56 PM
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Just read a history book. Or google it. I never had a problem with finding this info
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:44 PM
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Where is the evidence of this? Why don't you show me historical evidence that's men did not see women as inferior? Men put lives of their infants in the hands of women. Of course they thought that women care for their kids, it was feminine task, something women were made for. This task was beneath them. As it's now for many men, who won't even change a diaper. Where is the evidence of this? In Historical books? In handbooks written for servants? In the work of classical philosophers? Wanty me to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:13 PM
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Richer farmer's wifes also worked. In Poland for example. I've never seen this said except by feminists who insist the only truly valuable work is the work men do. And I have seen it. For certain tasks yes, not overall. You wouldn't let someone you think is too emotional and hysterical to be relied on to raise your kids. Well, men did that. Wha...? Please provide any example of this being anywhere near a common thing For example in Victorian Englad were it was always a female servant's fault if …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:41 PM
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First, women were working on the fields, along with men. Women's work was seen as beneath men, that's the truth. It has never been the other way. Women had lower status than men from the same societal class. And women were seen as too emotiobal, hysterical, inferior and often responsible for men's promiscuity. For example amongst catholic societies. Why can't you admit that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:15 PM
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Men saw women's roles as beneath them. Both taking care of children, cooking or sewing. Of course these things needed to be done. But just because these things were extremely important it doesn't change the fact that they had lower status than men's responsibilities. Men hated the idea of being treated like women (beginning od feminist movement). Women were literally called useless in one of the biggest civilizations in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:45 PM
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Men weren't seen as inferior in doing feminine tasks. Men saw these tasks as beneath them. Women's tasks were seen as inferior compared to men's tasks. Have you seen posters created by anti women's liberation movements from over century ago? They portrayed the horrors of men taking care of children or preparing meals for their families. As something beneath them. They showed men not being able to go out to have a drink with their friends, because they would have to stay with kids. Just like wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:19 PM
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Many men failed and they still could do those things. How could they know in 18 century that those women would not be able to do learn and study? When they obviously could, as we see now? These women didn't even get the chance to try. Women were giving birth, raising kids, were midwives, found and cooked food, made clothes and were still seen as inferior useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:54 PM
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Because they were femimine. They were raised to be submissive, to not to speak over men, to follow them. Despite doing the most important job in the world - having babies and taking care of them. Women were never useless - but they were treated as such. And we weren't allowed to change our destiny- men hated the idea of us studying or deciding how to spend our money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:43 PM
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No, femininity has always been seen as inferior. In some cultures this view was more obvious than in others, but femininity in general was seen as less than masculinity. In China women were told they were just useless tree branches untill they gave birth to a son. In Europe women were seen as weak and hysterical, so their husbands had a great power over them. In Poland women were seen as too emotional, weak and unable to logically think, and because of that they weren't allowed to study. Maria S…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:11 PM
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No, pick mr is not a trsditional wife. Pick me is a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:35 PM
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For the same reason simps are criticized by men. Pick me is not a houswife. Pick me is a doormat. That's the definition of a pick me. So pick me allows her man to cheat, or talk shit about women. She does much more for him than he does for her. She sacrifices herself hoping that he will finally show her kindness. She will trash other women who don't suck their men dicks 24/7. Why is it weird that we criticize them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:33 PM
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Same. I'm not submissive, I'm opinionated I don't want to be a houswife and I work on my career and goals. And still I'm in a happy relationship and I'm getting married. How weird, I should be lonely and sad according to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:10 AM
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Yep. Finding red pill and watching red pill youtube channels made me stop being intimitaded był men. I just see them as emotional people who are not more logical than women. I just can't respect Kevin Samuel or fresh and fit. I used to be insecure whenever a man talked over me. Now I take my space back and actually find pleasure in intimitading men instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:47 AM
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Why? I follow 30+forever alone sub even thought I'm below 30 and in a happy relationship since high school. I started following red pill out of curiosity. It gives me cringe, fun and allows me to see men as thethey really are. Thanks to following red pill men spaces I'm not intimitaded by men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:41 AM
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Definitely not. I would never agree on being a step mom. I heard too many horror stories of men expecting their new partners to take care of their kids, feed them andrzej so on, while them go out and chill. If the kid was living with their mom, I would probably have to pay allimony if I married their dad (my money would become common money). And the idea of spending my own money on a random kid is awful. Plus, I would hate having to consider this kid in my plans. If the kid lived with their dad,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:22 AM
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I agree. Women on tik tok don't make fun of all short men. Them make fun of short men who are red pilled/dating gurus. Recently there were tons of tik toks making fun of two different short guys, who were saying how women should be submissive. Now one of the biggest Trends is women mocking men with podcasts. Buty not all men with podcasts. Just men talking about how it's ok for them to cheat, how women need to be obidient and other red pill stuff. It's just a well deserved payback.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:20 AM
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But it's not the same. Awful food will still satisfy my hunger. Bad sex will not give me orgasm. Most women don't even orgasm from penetration in general, so why even try? Also, the need for sex can be easily ignored and goes away. The need to eat won't go anywhere untill you have a meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:10 AM
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Just because I see a handsome man it doesn't mean that I will feel sexual attraction towards him. So yes, even hot men are neutral. I meet many hot guys but it doesn't mean I feel anything. Do you feel sexual attraction towards every hot woman you meet? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:03 AM
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First, there is a big difference between 10% and 20%, so which one is it? Second, even 10% seems to much. Maybe some outliner women like grandpas as a fetish. But that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:19 PM
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The dude is literally a rock star and women get crazy over him. Just because americans don't know them it doesn't mean anything. Leo is not physically hot even for an old man. Fame is what keeps him going. He would not be getting any if he was a regular dude. Women who like older men like older men who look great. And most women who like older men like them slightly older, not almost a generation older. And the point of this conversation is that's men don't getta better with age. Even famous Act…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:38 PM
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Heidi Klimatu is almost 50, her husband is a 30 yo rock star. He is old yucky man. The only thing he has is fame. If he was a normal men, he would be the creepy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:37 PM
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None of the aged like fine wine. None of them look better now. There are older Famous women married to much younger men (Heidi Klum, Megan Mullaly, Julianne Moore). But these are also exeptions. Brad Pitt was way cuter in his twenties and early thirties. He aged out and now he is just grandpa. Leo is not attractive. He "hit the wall" In his twenties. If he didn't have fame, he would be lonely, probably divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:06 PM
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Sure you do. Most men think they look better with age when they actually don't. Brad Pitt looked better in his twenties. Same with James McAvoy, Johnny Depp and most of these guys. And remember that they are rich, so have more resources to maintain their looks. Brad Pitt is not hot anymore. He looks good for his age and probably better than other grandpas. But he is not hot. And he has money and fame. Normal men won't even have that his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:55 PM
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Emm, no? Then make similar money. The moms that are doctors oraz have their own buisnes make even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:50 PM
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No, they are not. I see older people all the time. Most moms look much better than their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:09 PM
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Well, in this case, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:11 PM
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Most old men can't date young women. And mo, old men aren't more attractive then old women. I work with old men, I see old men old the time. They are not "fine wine", they are not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:10 PM
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Most women can orgasm and the do it by stimulating their clit. Women know this. It's men who are clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:50 PM
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Well, older men aren't hot, so they don't have looks anyway. That's why old man is less attractive than young man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:17 PM
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Making a woman orgasm is pretty easy if you stimulate the clit. Men think it's hard because they want us to orgasm from penetration alone, so they focus on stupid things like angle instead of touching the body part that's was actually created to bring women pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:08 PM
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Of course it does. Looks are the first thing people care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:06 PM
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How hard it is to touch it during regular positions? Those crazy ones are uncomfortable and even painful anyway. If you don't treat sex like gymnastics, it's easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:16 AM
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Well, for me it makes it pointless if I don't get anything out of it and have to masturbate DURING sex. What's the point of sex then? And exactly, penis and vagina are not the same. Penis and clitoris are more similar. So men should focus on clitoris, not vagina. If a man gets to penetrate me, the least he can do is to make it pleasurable. Otherwise, why would I agree on penetration?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:03 AM
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His dick is literally being stimulated when it is inside. And me having to please myself during penetration makes the whole penetration pointless. Dick inside makes it harder, not easier. So if a man can't please me during penetration, why would I do it? And btw, he can stimulate the clit, he just needs to try. My man does it everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:52 AM
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Why would I have sex if I have to please myself anyway then? What's the point? It's obvious that if I have to take care of his dick, he should take care of my clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:49 AM
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No one is angry. Men justin don't look better with age especially 40 yo men. If a man is lucky and looks good when he is old, he was much hotter in his twenties (just like James McAvoy was much hotter before, Brad Pitt etc). Most men look worse with age. I work with old men. I go out with friends and see old men around me. The are not attractive. We just see them as old.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:13 AM
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Idę she is not brainwashed she will not agree on having upleasurable sex with someone she is not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:59 AM
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Comments like this make me happy that feminism happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:57 AM
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I do. To the point when they were waiting untill they fall in love with their husbands and "learn to want sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:54 AM
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I talked to many of them, I grew up in a church pretty much, weny to christian school and watched my friends and other people escaping this madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:45 AM
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I grrw up in Conservative Christian church. I know what the can teach. And I listen to preachers ans Christian women l. This is what they say, together with "natural use of a woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:44 AM
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These women are told that their pleasure is not important because they should get pleasure from pleasing their husbands. They are told to submit and not challenge their man, some more hardcore preachers say that women shouldn't even have hobbies. So that's the reason. Hardcore christian women are suppoused to be servants/doormats. They can't stop having sex when they don't get any pleasure from it. The have to suck it up and let their husbands use them. How is that good?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:07 AM
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Of course, atak least where I came from. Only me or my mother would do it, never my brother or my dad. Same with anything in the garden. My grandmother also did all of this, despite working full time. Ot was the same for myślę friends. Everything around the house was a feminine task. From cooking to mowing grass and cleaning our car.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:26 PM
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I've seen women crying in marriges saying that their lives are over. It's my grandmother who told me to never submit to a man or to focus my life on having a man. It's my mom who agreed with her. My grandmother is much happier now that my grandfather is dead. She herself said that's she can finally live.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:44 AM
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Yep, my grandmother started to live again after my grandfather died. She is finally happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:40 AM
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My mom shovels it at almost 60, my grandmother mowes the lawn at 86. These are feminine tasks btw (traditionally).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:38 AM
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We've been together for almost 10 years, since high school. So where will this feelings go away exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:10 PM
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I'm here for an entertainment. I read many different subs and watchs content that is not for me out of curiosity, especially when I think that something is ridicolous or weird. Together with red pill stuff I watcht conspiracy theorists, incels, fat acceptance people and so on. It's my guilty pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:48 AM
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I expect him to do housework on regularnie basis, just like I do. And he does that. We don't have a list or schedule, we just do whatever needs to be done. I never had to pick up his socks or tell him to make loundry, or vacuum the floor. He does it himself without asking. Yes, I'm still attracted to him and madly in love. Seeing him cooking an awesome meal while he listens to his favorite music is the best view ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:19 AM
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A man isn't superior to me even if he is taller, stronger or has bigger knowledge about something. Because I can give Birth and have bigger knowledge about something else and can do things he can do. Even the hottest man shits, farts,makes stupid faces, doesn't know tons of things and is just a human. So no superiors here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:18 AM
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Exactly. It's obvious that a cheating man is low value and honestly deserve the worst. You can't be high value and a piece of shit.But red pill gurus are delusional, Kevin Samuels or freshandfit probably think that they are high value when they are not, especially divorced and angry Kevin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:13 AM
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What red pill describes as high value is not really high value anyway. A man who cheats is a piece of shit and is, by definition, the worst kind of a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:10 AM
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Red pill women don't give a good adive, but this one is one of the worst. They are like "be a doormat, don't expect too mucha from life, don't do anything other than Service to not be seen as a problem". Shitty life advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:05 AM
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Exactly. My friend's sister was a late bloomer. She didn't date untill she was 32 or 33. She is a beautiful woman but grew up in a super religious home. She didn't want to date any man from the church (none of us did). She escaped it but it took her some time to get some courage to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:49 AM
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Well, it wasn't a problem for me or other women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:10 PM
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I don't know a single woman who dates or is married to an old men. Most women don't date much older guys, most age gaps are insignificant because they are small.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:19 AM
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I don't work on my success and fulfily passions to be more attractive to men. Not everything we do is about you. I'm ambitious, always busy and I didn't have a problem with finding a perfect husband who is my biggest fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:08 AM
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Most of them are a big NO for me. But especially anything BDSM, any butt stuff and anything with degradation, these would be the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:45 AM
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Oh trust me, men do care and will speak ridicolous shit about periods, cycleor women's anatomy. I know from autopsy. But also men don't like when women know more about many topics. Maybe they don't worry about it when it's just two of them, but they hate it when it happens around other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:36 AM
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I don't think that people mature too much after twenties. Most adults don't know what they are doing. I work with older man, my brother is in his Late thirties. They may look old or older, but you actually get to know them they are often cringy, awkward or their ego is too big. Which again is cringy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:46 AM
3

But men do look better in their twenties. Even famous men. James McAvoy was way cuter when he was young. Same with Brad Pitt or Orlando Bloom. I'm 28 and all of my male friends from high school look worse, especially the ones that were cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:39 AM
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Dude, that's because you are still young. I'm 28 and I'm a woman. I started getting attention after my glow up at 25-26 by men of all ages ( although being hit on by old men is not a compliment). It's not surprising, it's our twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:30 AM
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My mom gave birth at 43. Most of my friends mom were 35-42 when they gave birth to them. None of us have a mother who was in her twenties when she had a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:59 PM
18

Yep. Tik tok is full of young women talking about it and sharing their disgust. These men refuse to see it. At the same time redpillers gotowa crazy when Orlando Bloom started dating "post wall" Katy Perry, or when Miranda Kerr married younger billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:30 PM
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Yep, they are coping. Recently a girl made a tik tok saying how disgusted she was when old men hit on her. All the girls agreed with her and said that they don't give old men a chance. And men got crazy, they tried to convince us that old dudes look better and make better partners xD There was another tik tok in which a girl told a story abour her older "friend" who tried to make out with her and how awful it was. Men gave the same reaction as above and some of them were asking if being older is…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:23 PM
3

I don't see that. All the women I know have good jobs and are just happy people. I'm friends with older women. They are pretty successful and don't have problem with finding men. I went to couple of weddings last year, all brides were over 34 and married other successful men. One of them married a hot 26 year old guy. The only sad people I know happen to be men. I know three guys that I'm pretty sure never had a woman, and they are my age. Older guys that are still lonely are just hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:02 PM
5

I'm 28 and myślę life is much better now than it was when I was 18 or 20. I make good money, I have resources to do my hobbies, I have amazing people in my life, amazing fance, I'm valuable on the job market due to my experience and get to dictate conditions. This year I started another project that I dreamed of. So what exactly will I lose when I'm 30? I'm friends with older women and literally all of them are happy and successful. The only lonely people and angry people that I know happen to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:45 PM
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Of course they get angry, they have a good reason to be pissed. Even If I don't know that he is cheating he is still a human trash. Him being good looking doesn't make him less disgusting. If he doesn't want to stop sleeping with other women, he shouldn't start a relationship with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:29 PM
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It's still a shitty deal and would make him an awful partner if he wanted that. So still no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:25 PM
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Second option is definitely better. I don't date human trash and a man who cheats is a human trash. Also, what red pill call "beta" sounds mucha better than what they call "alpha".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:56 PM
1

had this with my father, he was almost 40 when he had me and I hated him because of his narrow minded ideas and view on life. He wanted to control me and my decisions, while resting on the couch. My mom was Almost his age and is my best friend. Old fathers are awful as well, if not worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:07 AM
2

So? I will only agree on having one child, no matter if I have it now or in five years. Age has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:41 AM
1

I was 10 or 11, my parents friends told me I was "full of sex". He was a teacher and was insisting on giving me private lessons. And yep, many old men were creeping on me when I was a kid. And I looked my age, like a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:10 PM
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One. But the student didn't like it's and reprted him. We treated teachers as our enemies (sort of), it was us against them. And every teacher was an old fart for us, none of them was in their twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:19 AM
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We are not talking about breakups. We are talking about cheating. And if he does abandon you he will be forced to pay child support If he is cheating on me he is destroying our relationship. Divirce is a natural result of cheating. He knows that it we be te end if he fucks someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:41 AM
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No, men cheating is disgusting. Especially if he does it when she is pregnant or just had a child. It means he is even a bigger trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:39 AM
1

What red pill sees as a high value man is not really high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:52 PM
5

Yep. There was a thread on twitter asking women if they would date a man with a child. Most said no, so men started writing them that they will be post wall soon, or already are, so they shouldn't reject men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:50 PM
-1

Nah, here he is just old. And he always had ugly face, for me at least and all the women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:32 PM
5

He is not attractive, just checked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:55 AM
2

It just happened. He tried and it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:28 PM
2

https://pleasurebetter.com/orgasm-statistics/ But even if it was 33%, it would będzie too low and, especially compared to men. It would stil mean that majority of women don't orgasm from penetration alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:26 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:19 PM
2

I just checked, it's 18% for 2021. 33% would still be low, compared to men who orgasm from penetration almost 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:19 PM
2

Huh? I don't hate penises. Penises just don't give most of us pleasure. I doesn't mean I hate them. It's just a body part, nothing to hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:17 PM
2

I'm almost always on the top. Never orgasmed from it. Penetration justin doesn't give me pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:36 PM
0

I will, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:34 PM
1

I wasn't talking about you. I was talking about the guy who wrote a comment I responded to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:34 PM
1

Clitoris has only one purpose, which os giving women pleasure. So it's natural as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:33 PM
2

Only aroun 18% orgasm from penetration alone. Most need additional clitoral stimulation to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:32 PM
2

Did you also have to tell her that your penis needs to be involved somehow? Via penetration for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:28 PM
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Everyone knows that clit is responsible for women's pleasure. Everyone knows that it's extremly sensitive to stimuli. Men still expect women to orgasm from penetration. You don't expect your penis to be stimulated? You don't expect to penetrate or to have your penis touched in other ways? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:52 PM
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Really? So you don't need your penis to be inside of a vagina or touched, or licked to orgasm? Wow, lucky you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:49 PM
1

Do you have to communicate to your partner that your penis needs to be stimulated for you to orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:09 PM
6

Men expect women to stimulate their penises during sex. And we don't have to ask that they need that to orgasm. Why is it so hard for men to know that we need to have our clits stimulated? You don't need to read minds to know it, it's a common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:08 PM
2

It very much is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:06 PM
1

Sure, it's not to please your partner. But being the one who always please the other person and is never taken care of doesn't seem so cool anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:01 AM
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I do, because my partner cares about my pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:03 AM
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Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Men orgasm mostu of the time when they do the "work on the top". Women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:02 AM
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The point is that it's not actually my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:01 AM
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But he wrote that's it would be nicer to date women who are fine with just penetration. Because he wouldn't have to try or put work into sex. The reality is that majority of women don't orgasm from penetrative sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:40 AM
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I don't actually think that men should be fine with just eating out women. I just wrote a ridiculous response for a ridiculous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:38 AM
4

Why would I have sex if it didn't give me pleasure? Men think that's they are owned orgasms btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:37 AM
3

I was just answering to a comment. Do you think that's op doesn't like clits?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:36 AM
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You mean, does he care about my pleasure and do the things that will please me? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:06 AM
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Sure. It would be nicer to date men who don't need to have a penis stimulated and orgasm from eating pussy as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:58 AM
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I never had to learn that penis needs to be stimulated for men to orgasm. But for some reason men are surprised over and over again when women tell them how we work. I only slept with my man and he focuses on me. However he did have this weird idea at the beginning that I should orgasm during penetration. Which was weird to me, because of course penetrative sex will not give me orgasm. But in general, men expect women to feel mad pleasure from penetrative sex. And they don't see clitoral stimula…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:42 AM
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Men just don't want to understand that penetration is not it for us, it doesn't give most of us orgasms due to our anatomy. They need to focus on clitoris but many hate the idea of stimulating it everytime them have sex. Men just want to put it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:27 AM
1

I'm 28. If I was single I would date 8 years younger or 5 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:46 PM
4

And then they say that they weren't attracted to them when they were young. But you ignore that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:50 AM
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There is no such effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:25 PM
1

Many polish people are on the left. Especially young people. The ruling party, while Catholic and with conservative ideas, is socialist and won from promising and then giving money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:47 AM
7

Oh, trust me. We are far from being trad. It's just some old men and angry boys would want us to go back to the old times. Women are angry and definitely not "based and trad pilled".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:19 AM
17

I'm not American. Also, you had Trump. And don't get me started about those crazy evangelicals who mostly describe themselves as republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:12 PM
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Poland
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:09 PM
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This. I'm libertarian, support free market and in general I'm a capitalist. But I will never vote for a conservative and libetarian parties in my country. I will not support men who openly say that's wifes should be husbands' properties, that's women's careers are bad, that women should be silent, that women shouldn't be encouraged to study and fullfil their aspirations. And these are just view of the things that men from this parties and men who support them say about women. I was on a forum fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:09 PM
2

When l got my first guitar, I loved it's from the beginning. Even thought myślę fingers hurt, I felt great practicing and played formie hours. And yes, the fact that some sexual thing are embarrassing or painful is enough to not do it. I never tried anal and I know that I will never give it a chance. I hate the idea of it. And that's enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:47 PM
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Playinh guitar was definitely fun when I started. Same with skiing and snowboarding. And it wasn't degrading, but anal is. And I'm not degrading myself for my man's orgasm. I don't degrade him for my pleasure. Also, he doesn't do anything painful for my pleasure. So why would I do ot for his? And if he was ok with me suffering so he can orgasm, that would be a giant red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:33 PM
1

Most of the kinks I heard of are painful or degrading to women. I can't think of a kink that is full of love, care, and pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:31 AM
6

Yep, there are tons of sex acts I will never try, no matter what. Just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:01 AM
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I did, but It didn't make me horny. I wanted to spend time with him, felt nervour buty didn't want to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:55 AM
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Exactly. For the most part of my life I thought that being horny just from looking at someone was made up by movie industry or book authors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:54 AM
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Same. It never happened in my life. I could never understand people in movies talking about wanting to have sex with someone they had a crash on. I never felt horny just from seeing someone attractive. Even in my sexual fantasies I never pictured any specific sex act or specific person. Just kissing, whispering and overall feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:53 AM
2

Why would I be ok with being degraded or being in pain? Why does not agreeing on it surprise you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:48 AM
2

And men are agreeing and push it even further. One woman, the rest is men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:45 AM
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But it's fun the first time. And you don't have to strech your asshole. If I was in pain when I first tried snowboardingu, I wouldn't try it again. I would just spend the rest of the weeknd drinking not chocolate and enjoying the mountains.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:43 AM
0

So that's why women don't mind titty fuck but don't want to try anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:41 AM
1

Men are saying it here. One woman and the rest is men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:26 AM
3

It's not a standard. Anal is (luckily) not a standard in general. You guys just make things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:18 AM
7

If snowboarding was known to be painful or degrading I wouldn't have even tried it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:15 AM
1

I never tried anal and I'm sure I don't like it. I don't like painful things, I don't like being degraded.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:06 AM
1

Titty fuck won't be painful or dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:03 AM
4

After reading this I'm even more sure that I will never try anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:00 AM
4

Men with your attitude are the reason why it's a good idea for women to not be virgins who wait for one man. Because if we end up with someone like you, we are fucked. Also, men like you are the reason why it's a good thing that's feminism happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:54 PM
6

I'm low n count and I will never even consider trying many sexual things. So being loe n count doesn't mean I'm open for painful or degrading experiments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:37 AM
2

Men do the same for hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:29 AM
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No, men are never the prize. Nobody worships men oraz see them as the prize, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:08 AM
2

I had sex only with one man. I wasn't happy and satisfied untill I orgasmed. I knew that sex can be amazing for women from other women, and that's what I expected. If I never orgasmed, I would be craving another experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:32 AM
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I had sex with only one man and the analogy with ice cream doesn't work. If I never finally orgasmed I would know that something is wrong and that it might be my man's fault. I would not be satisfied untill I orgasmed. I knew from the internet and other friends that sex can be amazing for women. And that's what I expected, nothing less. I went to christian school. Many girls married as virginis. Most of them are divorced now, often because of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:30 AM
7

Oh, please. I heard similar things and I'm 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:16 AM
2

I never met as "Chad", I have no idea what I'm missing. So why not getting him would be a problem when I hit 30? And "chad" sounds like an awful man, so even more, why would not getting him be a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:08 PM
3

I also don't gossip and I'm loyal to my friends. But I don't say that other women don't do it. Men do it all the time. I see it at my work, I saw it in my previous jobs, at school, everywhere. It's a myth that they don't. Just like it's a myth that men are not emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:18 PM
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Among men. Men aren't great, pure creature. You do this shit all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:05 PM
5

It's really common.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:05 AM
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Men gossip. I work with men, went to school with men, have a brother and spent a lot of time with him. I'm in a relationship and spend a lot of time with my man's male friends as well. Men gossip. And talk shit about their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:47 AM
1

Daruj sobie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 08:30 PM
0

It's 9. I'm in a place in life where I go to sleep excited about the next day. I'm 28 but my life is much better when it was when I was 20. And I was a happy 20 yeat old woman. I make my own money and I can afford all the Instruments, softwares and courses I wanted before. And I CAN do what I want. I get more attention than I did when I was 20, because I look better and I'm a cooler person. But I'm in a relationship so I don't really care about it. Looking at myself and my friends, it's higher. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:58 AM
0

Yep. It was suppoused to be "low". So why did you ask me if I'm submissive and stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:21 PM
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So you serve those who give you orgasms? The bar is so łów.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:29 PM
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The question. You asked if I'm submissive and do everything at home when I said that he cares about my pleasure. Then I asked if he should submit to me since I give him orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:51 PM
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What does it mean? And you didn't answer my question. " I make him orgasm, does it mean That he should do everything at home and summit to me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:14 PM
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Why would him givin me orgasms mean That I have to do everything and be submissive? I make him orgasm, does it mean That he should do everything at home and summit to me? He usually cooks, we both clean and take care of the houshold. We both work, I even make more. I'm not submissive, but I'm pleasant to be around. We have sex very often, but when I'm sometimes not in the mood, I decline. He does the same when he is tired. But why does it matter in this topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:49 PM
1

Just "a relationship" is not enough. Just having a man for the sake of it is worthless. Good sex is an important part of a relationship. Why would I be with a man who doesn't satisfy me? But let's say thay you are her first and turns out you don't eat pussy and greet in general don't care about stimulating her clit. She would be destined to live in a pleasureless relationship, because if she left you after finding out you don't please her, she would be already "used up". And I'm not arguing for …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:09 PM
-1

What is she commits to you as a virgin and then finds out you can't give her orgasm? Because, for example, you don't eat pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 09:10 AM
4

I would never fuck a friend unless we become a couple first. Having sex with a friend would make everything awkward (not mentioning other problems).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:19 AM
1

Consistency? At18 I dreamed about being a lawyer, I was obsessed with it and started learning before I got into university. Now, at 28, with masters in law, I'm a software engineer and do my own music. The last thing I want is to be a lawyer. People change. And I didn't have sex with anyone in high schol. If I was single now, would it be ok to wait a year with sex just like I did when I was younger? To be consistent?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:06 AM
1

Same with women. We don't reach full maturity at 18. So why would men get excused for their behavior when they are young and we wouldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:00 AM
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I can't know If I'm attracted to a man when I first meet him. It never happened to me. Even if I see a really handsome man, I don't get horny. I never wished to sleep with a man I just met, mo matter how Hot he was, my body doesn't respond like that. I need time to start to feel a "butterfly" in my stomach. And I wouldn't sleep with a man untill we are in a relationship anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:20 AM
0

Yea, we do have hobbies. And usually more interesting than sport or cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 09:32 AM
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My father was also bitter and became abusive, because my mom was more succesfull, he worked for her and she was really ambitious. Men are bitter when women don't only focus on pleasing them. I make more than my fiance and my brother for some reason hates that. He thinks that feminism damaged me because I make great money and want to do more things instead of being a houswife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 08:32 AM
1

When I said I didn't care what men find attractive I meant that I don't mold myself into traditional or red pill ideal of a woman. I wouldn't stop working on my aspirations or goals just because men don't find it hot. I wouldn't be submissive or a doormat for any man. It doesn't mean I don't put effort into my relationship. I do, it's one of the most Important things in my life. But at the same time, I work on ny goals and remain myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:07 AM
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He is not hot now. He looks good for a grandpa. Compared to younger men, or his own younger version, he loses by a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:21 AM
1

What deniability? I never said that women are always good. Btw, nobody thinks that, quite the opposite. Especially in religious environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:18 AM
1

I don't really care what men find attractive. I never cared and I found a great fiance. With age (I'm 28) I got more confident, I'm not calm or submissive as well, and I have a lot of attention from men, despite not wanting it or looking for it. Seems like mant men like confident, happy and ambitious women after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:16 AM
1

I'm feminine. I'm a woman. Feminine doesn't mean submissive and quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:17 PM
2

I agree but I don't think that anyone actually thinks that their partner is a "god". A healthy person with healthy self esteem and boundries would not pedestalize anyone. Being in love or being proud of having a specific woman is not pedestalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:17 PM
1

My bias? You were like "but women do it tooo" when nobody asked and when it's not relevant to the topic. Men are cruel, men gaslight, make fun of people they find inferior. Women aren't more evil or cruel than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:24 PM
4

Yep, I work with mostly older men. Not a single one of them is cute or attractive, I would never even consider them an option for me. When I'm out with friends, all hot guys are young. Not a single friend of mine dates or married a guy in his 30s or 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:23 PM
1

I want to be adored by my man. And I am. That's one of the reasons why I'm happy with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:28 AM
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No. But any man who calls all women whores, talks how we are not capable of love, how we should not have other aspirations than serving our man, and who says that women's rights is a mistake hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:25 AM
1

So why do you think I lack empathy? Also there's generally a much smaller difference between what men say and what they do than between what women say and what they do right? No, not right. You can't prove me wrong here. I will not stop seeing the reality just because you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:09 AM
0

I don't see taller men as better than me. Or men who earn more than me. They are not superior, I don't look up to them. I argue Just fine with "masculine" men and put them in their place at work. Even if they are my managers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:53 PM
1

We are not that different. There are differences but we are not like day and night. Women have aspirations, want to learn grow just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:50 PM
1

So? Women still do the most important job. And yes, I know that men rape and they would try to rape us. It doesn't make them superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:47 PM
4

Women are not completely defensless, especially childless women. And none of that makes men superior. Women can do and did things, Important things, that no men cab do (giving birth and nurturing humans).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:04 PM
5

He is not better than me. And I can grow a whole human, and feed it with my body. It's much more important and impressive than being strong. And I still can carry heavy things. I'm not as strong as men but I'm also not defendless. Men are just stronger, I can give and nurture life while studying, working and being successfull.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:44 AM
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A taller or reacher man isn't better than me. Male traits aren't superior to female traits. I don't have more respect for older men who have higher positions, I find most of them cringy. And all these men fart, shit, make stupid faces, don't know many things I know. None of themcan play the guitar as good as I do. So why would they be better than me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:46 AM
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No. I cut contact with misogynysts. I'm not dating one. I'm not dating a gut who thinks that women should be seen, not heardd. And I'm not dating a guy who thinks that my aspirations and freedom destroys the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:41 AM
6

Same. I can't have sex when I'm angry and hurt. The last thing I want is to be touched when we argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:37 AM
2

I see what I see. Men aren't good angels mocked by evil women. I work with men. I have a brother, I know him and his friends. I went to school with men. I've stent hours on male forums. I see all the time how they behave. Watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:35 AM
2

I don't know, maybe. But I only saw men mocking other men or ugly girls. Women were always the ones who would cheer the victims after. And I also work with mem, I hear how they mock women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:14 PM
5

I love feeling like the hottest woman in the world (even thought I'm not one), so I would go for the second option. Men are cruel to people they find inferior. I don't think that any man is better than me but if a guy thought that I was worse than him, he wouldn't care about my pleasure and he would be a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 09:29 PM
1

I want to be with my man because I love him but I don't really care about marrige as an institution. I am getting married soon but If he never proposed it wouldn't bother me. I'm not religious or traditional,so marrige is indeed just a paper. I am excited for the party thought. When it comes to kids, I don't want them. I'm 28, in a loving relationship, I have a great job and stable situation, and I still panic when my period is late. I see kids as the end of my happiness. Like it would be the en…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:29 PM
1

If you aren’t doing those things in bed then what are you even doing? Like just make out a little, maybe oral, PIV, and then that’s it? Every time? Yes. And that's enough. I don't have to pretend that my man hates me to have good sex. Would you like to have your hair pulled? Not be able to move? Why only a woman have to suffer during "spicing it up"? Sex is not just about men's pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:53 AM
2

No, not wanting to be spita at or chocked is healthy. Men who want tobie do that are sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:45 AM
2

Trump was your president not even a year ago. It's not a matriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:19 PM
1

If your space is full of disgusting and violent views then don't be surprised that it's being taken down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:18 PM
1

I'm not responsible for grown people's good mood. Especially if these people call me a whore or say that I should have my rights taken away just because I'm a woman. It's not my fault if it gets worse. It's on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:13 PM
1

Well, I'm not going to be empathetic towards men who call women bitches and whine how awful it is that we have rights. I don't care if it's just on the internet, if they could they would say it irl. At this point I don't see why would I want to listen to their problems. Them hate me so...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:09 PM
2

None. I don't Live in shitty US, in my country nobody does that. But female genital mutilation is much worse by the way. Both are bad thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:06 PM
1

I hope You keep the same energy with feminazis and fds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:21 PM
2

No. In my opinion people who dehumanize others, talk about taking their rights away and harrass them (online or not) don't deserve a space.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:21 PM
1

Truth? No it doesn't tell the truth about women. And we don't live in matriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:53 PM
9

They don't keep it to themselves. I saw their posts on reddit. But it's not the worst. I saw their posts under youtube videos of women who dared to be over 30. Or on tik tok. And it's not just one comment, it's like they share links to bash these women together, for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:54 PM
41

Mgtow doesn't have a bad reputation for wanting to be alone and focus on themselves. The problem is not in the name. People criticize it because of the amount of hate and dehumanization of women. That's the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:52 AM
1

Yep, sorry. That's the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 10:14 PM
2

Wanted to say this. Especially red pill men, they are crazy about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:18 PM
6

Not in My circle. One of My grandpas was just 2 years older, another was a year younger than my grandmother. There is no real age gap in my family. And Clooney or Deep stoped being hot pieces long time ago. Especially Deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:02 PM
3

Nah, I'm fine. It's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:16 AM
6

Honestly, I don't agree. Penetrative sex doesn't give me any of the things you described and if I wouldn't get an orgasm one way or another then having sex would be a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 10:17 PM
3

Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:48 PM
7

Doing sex acts you don't like is unhealthy as well. And probably painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:33 PM
6

The point is that, for me at least, shrimps are always disgusting. Same with anal, it can't believe good. Doesn't matter what you do. Some things are bad, no matter who does them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:14 PM
10

So why would you put her in pain if you loved her? You would know that's she was in pain the first time, it wouldn't be any different with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:10 PM
1

Pleasurable sex act. No painful one. Men have to try and care as well. Again, They don't do us a favour by sleeping with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:15 PM
2

These women are lucky enough to have longer clitoral legs or head of theit clit closer to the vagina. The vagina itself doesn't provide sexual pleasure, it's always the clit. Most women need direct stimulation of clitoral head because it can't be reached by penis. And 25% is really low. And it's still thanks to the placement of their clit. Btw, penis used to be clit, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:03 PM
3

Nature created woman's body the way it did. Clit is for women's pleasure what penis is for men's pleasure. And clit was created only for this purpose, to bring women pleasure. It is outside vagina and penetration is not the way to stimulate it. So it's natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:46 PM
1

Nature placed woman's clit, the center of pleasure, outside of a vagina. Penis is not able to stimulate it. So stimulating it in other ways is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:40 PM
1

And they should work to accomodate us to let them do that. Men don't do us any favour for sleeping with us. I don't need to accept painful sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:38 PM
5

It's completely normal. Most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation. Dick doesn't stimulate clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:28 PM
4

No, she doesn't need to get used to pain for men's enjoyment. Her pleasure is just as important as his.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:26 PM
5

Women are different. I never did anything rough. We exist. Yes, my man has to pay attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:24 PM
9

Yep. My grandmother became happy and started to live again when my grandfather died. She said that her life was a path of servitude. Both of my grandmothers say that they wish the world looked like ours in their youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:14 AM
9

It's not hard to find positions, many of them are natural. I didn't even need kamasutra. Same with oral sex, I think that eating pussy comes naturally for men. Also, I feel that porn is only about male pleasure and fantasy. So I don't think that I would find there something that would please me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:53 PM
2

Also the fact that you never know if they wipe their ass right or not This. That's one of the reasons why casual sex always seemed diagusting to me. I can't have sex if I didn't just take a shower. So how could I be sure that a guy I just met took a shower right before he met me? How can I know that's he didn't come to the party straight from work? What if he just was in a toilet? Or sweat? Or didn't brush his teeth? Just because a guy is handsome and well dressed it doesn't mean that's he is cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:08 AM
1

I'm not the OP but in my relationship we take turns. If he had a final say the last time we don't agree on something, I'm deciding next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:56 AM
15

Pick me's are doormats who let men take advantage of them. Why does it surprise you that they are criticized? Just because men like doormats and use women doesn't mean that it's good for us and should be encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:57 PM
18

Pick me is not the same as a normal, loving woman who cares About her man but also about herself. Pick me is a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:55 PM
0

Sory, I don't buy It. My man can't enjoy chocking me and love me at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:52 PM
11

Yes, fucking other women does make you a terrible husband. If he cheats, the divorce is only his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:47 PM
5

My mom had it all. Same with most of my friend's moms. I have a great man live and a career. My friends have families and careers or buisnesses. But their husbands and boyfriends take care of kids, most of them took parental leave, and they do their fair share of housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:38 PM
2

Bdsm is not the norm. Women in bdsm aren't all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:24 PM
4

Yep, I honestly don't think that people who like these things are ok. I would freak out and think that a guy is a disgusting psycho if he wanted to do it to me. So you might be right. I don't think that a man can treat his woman like this and love her at the same time. And these women probably know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:23 PM
1

He mentioned kinky sex. Isn't kinky the same as bdsm?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:19 PM
1

It's not always about chosing to develope a technique. I tried for years, many times, and I still can't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:15 PM
11

I understand you. That's one of the reasons I don't watch porn. I would feel the same if my man watched it. Also, I'm just against porn, it's too violent and disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 09:43 PM
3

Wanted to say the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 02:14 PM
11

I have a career and a great relationship. I just don't submit and don't and follow. I have my own money, so I can do the things I love AND I have a relationship. We can have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:41 AM
1

"sorry if im been rude byt what you mean by "a man who would easily replace me" I mean a man who doesn't love me. My idea of love is not me doing whatever I want or my man doing whatever he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:32 AM
2

Because I don't want to be with a man who would easily replace me. Just like I wouldn't easily replace him because he is too special to me. It's about love. For example, I don't give a fuck about other men. I don't care what they think and if they admire me. Shaun Mendes, while super hot, doesn't mean shit to me and I wouldn't suffer if he died. If my man died, I would be I would be extremaly miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:59 PM
2

For him? Yes. In general? No, no one is. We became special to each other when we felt in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:47 PM
6

I'm with mine almost 10 years and it still makes me happy. Being with a man who doesn't adore me and doesn't show me how special and important I am would make me miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 12:58 PM
4

I see a difference. We had two older guys in my friends group and we stopped inviting them because they were annoying. Everything new is stupid for them, they only talked about themselves and their "important job" (even thought most of us "younger one's" have better and cooler professions). I also work mostly with guys in their late thirties and forties. When we go for a work beer they criticize everything we and other younger people do. According to them, our movies are stupid, music is stupid,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 08:06 AM
7

3-5 years is not a real age gap. My best friends are 6 years older than me, My btother is five years order. There is no difference in looks or personalities between us. But men from my work who are 10 years older than me and more are already too old and hard to understand. The difference is really visible and everyone would know that they are old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:17 AM
11

This! It never happened to me. Even hot actors don't arouse me or make me wet. I just see that they have nice faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:28 PM
3

But not everyone likes penetration. It does nothing to me and isn't as sexy as eating me out. And I don't masturbate, so it's not like I can do anything by myself. I guess different women need different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:54 AM
8

I don't do degrading sex acts, I never tried anything related to bdsm, I'm not in open relationship, I'm not lonely. I'm getting married, have education, career and I'm starting my new buisness. I have everything. I would miss out if I lived as a traditional woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:43 PM
1

Pregnancy literally destroy woman's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:27 AM
0

How do you know? Women Never did That to men. But men did that to women. We can be 100% sure that men could destroy women's lives like that, and zero prove That women could do that to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:21 AM
1

War is stupid. The one who stsrts a war is the biggest idiot and is never right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:11 AM
2

I live in Poland.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:08 AM
-2

He? Look how feministic western society is. Women didn't have to run around like stupid soldiers at kill people to make it the way it is. You know that I meant education and societal structures. The situation in Afghanistan is men's fault. These men are run by patriatchal ideology. It's their mess. And it's an example why patriarchy sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:58 PM
1

Yes It does. It does matter who is at fault. Why would women clean up men's mess? These men destroyed their lives. These men have weapons and are stronger. And are run by pure evil. And, yes, by patriarchal ideology (islam in this case). It's funny, you try to be sarcastic. But yes, what these dudes are doing is evil and os an example of patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:55 PM
-2

First, patriarchy also harms men. Second, once everything calms down, men will get their freedoms and rights. Women are being counted so "warriors" can marry them and they will be forced to be posessions again. They already have to disappear from the public. Can't take a bus of work and live normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:51 PM
1

Why would these women fight stupid men's battles? Why would women clean after men? They didn't start it, it's not their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:20 PM
2

Nah. It's time for traditional men to show us how awesome patriarchy is and how good it is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:06 PM
1

Not my fault. It's men who fucked up (tabils).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:03 PM
2

Dude, we already are winning with patriarchy. Look around. Education and emancipation of women changed a lot. We just need to keep it that way. These afghan men showed us that not going forward will harm women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:56 PM
-2

Why? It's not my fault. It's men who fucked up and are destroying people's lives. What I can do is to actively work on not allowing patriarchy in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:32 PM
1

This situation convinced me even more that fighting patriarchy is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:24 PM
2

Yes!! If some older woman ever saved me from being with an older dude, I want to send her flowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:07 AM
5

You see women as inferior and have weird kink live. Anything you say to me I see as invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:15 AM
8

You admitted that you think women are inferior and you project your sick kinks onto others. You are not a representative of "older women".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:48 AM
5

Exactly. Older women gave me nothing but support and helped me regain my self esteem. If anyone ever tried to bring me down, it was older man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:45 AM
1

What this situation showed is how easily patriatchy and religion can destroy women's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:28 AM
0

Yep. Like I said, it doesn't sound healthy. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:12 PM
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Aren't You for Women's submission and husband having a final say?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:13 PM
17

A woman can be a literal angel and he can still cheat on her. That's what happened to my friend some time ago. She was with her husband 10 years, since they were 17. She sacrificed everything for him, never even kissed another man. And she is much prettier than he is. He still cheated on her, had couple of lovers that he tried to hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:45 AM
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And how always putting men's desires is better? Plese, explain. I've been in a 50 50 relationship for nine years now. It is great. But again, please explain why would It be better if my aspirations and desires were less important.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:05 AM
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It's better this way that doing only what a man wants. My desires and wants are as important as myśliwski fiance's.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:34 AM
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It doesn't sound like healthy ltr. If I only did what my fiance wanted to do, I would not have done many things I wanted or dreamed about. Sometimes he sacrifices for me, sometimes I sacrifice for him. But puting always him and his desires as more important would not be healthy. And men aren't more important than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:33 AM
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It doesn't matter! Finding out why was she hitchhiking would not help to prosecute the trash of a man who abused her. The only important thing would be that she was raped by a disgusting monster, and That he should be punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:26 AM
1

I also never felt raw sexual attraction but I don't consider myself asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:58 AM
6

Being Vanilla doesn't mean that we don't care about sex. I just don't want my man to put me in pain or degrade me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:35 PM
9

I couldn't. I'm surprised she was that young back then, she looked much older.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:49 PM
6

Well, for the woman it would be disgusting. I can't imagine kissing a 60 or 50 yo man. I'm much younger, buty I doubt it will change when I'm 40. Maybe when I'm 60 it will be less gross for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:16 AM
3

So what is submissivness? Could I not give him a final say everytime and be submissive? Could I not do what I'm told and be submissive? Could I be ambitious and work towards acheiving my goals instead of only supporting historii goals and be submissive? Men's standards tells a lot about them. And yes, it does. Justin because manosphere sees a man as high value it doesn't mean That hę is valuable to me. A man who is attractive buty is a fuck boy and cheats is a useless trash, not suitable for rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:49 AM
0

Don't act like you don't know how men talk and what men expect from their wifes. Men aren't known for being supportive for their wife's goals, they aren't chearliders There are milions of men who are the way I described. Even here, on this forum. Men hesr admitted many times that they expect women to be submissive, mean, sweet. That's they don't care about women's hobbies, education or career. So you stop lying that's you don't understand what I mean. I never said that there are no good men wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:14 PM
1

Red pill men say that women start to expire at 23-25. Some are generous and say it's at 30. I'm 28 and I was called post wall thot by red pill dudes when I said my age. I literally slept only with my fiance, buty they still called me a "thot". I don't preach " Don't Get married before 30!". I'm just showing that it's ok to enjoy your twenties as a woman, to travel, study, experiment with career, jobs, develope skills and just be free, instead of focusing on finding a husband as soon as possible.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:25 PM
1

First, I am happy with my choices. I have great life, great fiance, buisness, career and soon will fullfil my biggest dream. That's why I share my experience and share my friends experience, who didn't pick traditional way and are happy, successfull and found love. I was told that that if I don't agree on marrige at 21, my fiance will leave me. That I should stop doing the things I was doing (like creating music, studying etc) because I would be a wife soon. I didn't listen (thank god) but I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:04 PM
1

No, from my perspective a woman most likely loses more, in general. I was thinking of a scenerio in which a woman who stays at home still has money and time for her developement, interests and is free to start working or create a buisness whenever she wants. You know, she has access to all the money, they are equal and their desires are treated equally. He doesn't have a final say all the time just because he works because her work at home is seen as equally important. I just assumed that, in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:33 PM
2

Well, if both parties agree on it, both have a chance to do the things they like and one is not more important than another, then I also think that it can be egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:00 PM
1

I'm not cynical. I'm in a happy relationship because I took care of my needs and worked on myself. And no, it's not only my experience. Literally tons of women agree with me, even in this thread. Should we be telling girls that they shouldn't work on their goals or dreams, but marry as soon as possible? What's wrong with telling them the truth- that life doesn't end at 25 and that they can explore the world, study, work, travel, find their place in life, be succesfull and have love? That they do…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:58 PM
1

I will not ignore my own life experience, or my friends life experience. I see what I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:24 PM
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YEP. I'm in a egalitarian relationship. We've been together for nine years. We never had a crisis, we rarely argue. We are both valued and our goals and dreams are equally important. He is my biggest chirleader and I'm his. We both work, both have space and time for ourselves. We don't have specific roles. He usually cooks, but it's because he likes to do it. I usually clean after meals. We usually clean our apartment together, but sometimes only I do it if he doesn't have time or energy, someti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:23 PM
5

A man who wants to dominate me, expects me to be a servant and to always have final say, and who would not support me in my goals, would not be high value. He would not Add value to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:09 AM
4

Nah, men don't see women's hobbies or aspirations as important, so they will see them as waste of time and money. They want women to serve them and praise them when they do their hobbies, or just don't interrupt them when they chill with their friends. Men will expect to have free time after work, but will not give free time after work or from small children to their women. It is really common. I was told by many women that fun and music would and for me when I get married. Most women in My fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:21 PM
3

Further, you are implying that marriage gets in the way of cycling, concerts and photography. What? Hear that ladies? When you get married, no more creativity! Well, yeah. I always heard growing up that when I get married, the fun would stop. That's why, despite being with My fiance since we were 19, I said That I would become his wife when I'm sure that I would not be dependent on anyone and mature enough to not let him take them away from me. I know that he probably would never do it. But my m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:39 PM
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I live in Poland. I am a Polish woman and live tons of Polish women. I have better idea what we are than some foreign men. Just because we are nice or can compromise, it doesn't make us submissive. If it does, than 80% of men are submissive. Calling polish women "submissive" Is offensive to us. Some disgusting traditional polititians try that. Women get pissed every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:50 AM
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I'm not aggresive and I compromise in my relationship all the time. We never argue. This doesn't make me submissive thought. And if ot does, than my fiance is submissive as well. And yes, I got angry because here we have another Foreign dude painting Slavic women as submissive and eager to serve. You have no idea how much it pisses us off. So how am I suppused to talk about It? Oraz should I just show off my "feminine side" and let him speak like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:25 AM
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No, we don't allow men to lead. When polish polititian mentioned something about teaching women to be traditionally feminine, there way a giant outrage from women (Rightfully so). No, we are not submissive. Men don't get a final say. Why would they? Men's opinions and desires aren't more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:44 AM
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No, we are not. Even being a sahm is not a thing. The thoghugt of serving men is offensive, and younger women are openly fighting with being servants. Femimism is so strong to the point men won't shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:16 AM
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Just one question, why do men think that women in Eastern Europe are submissive? I can assure you, we are not. Many of us is also ambitius and opininated, which pisses polish trad cons of (which is a good thing).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:02 AM
1

Agreed. And most of them are 18-24 And they were there when I had 18-24. I didn't have any advantage finding desirable men. And I never feared my "competition". I found a hot man who proposed to me and loves to to the moon and back despite being cringy, unnatractive and invisible for most men. If I was single now and wanted to find a partner, there would still be other 27-30 years old women more attractive than me who would chase 26-30 yo men. And I would still find a man I would want, and it wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:45 PM
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Escaping old men is not just my preference. We all expressed irritation and disgust, that why we decided to save each other from them trying to pick us up. The general idea among young women is that old men are gross or creepy, not that They are hot and dateble. My sister is 18. She and her friends call older men who hit on them "pedophiles".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:08 AM
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Why would it be wrong if My friend saved me from a 40 yo dude just because he was 40? If I was single I would expect women in my social circle to do it for me. Older men are more dangerous and give less in return. You get a tired, grey haired dude who wants to still our best years. So of course, focus should be on them. When we (I and my friends) were cockblocking men in clubs for each other, the idea was that we should mostly save ech other from older dudes. So it makes sense that we are warned…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:39 AM
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But honestly I don't see anything wrong with older women sharing their experiene and warning younger women of older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:22 AM
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Buty women don't like old dudes. We prefer men our age, so It doesn't matter that some grandpa would prefer us. Older women don't have to warn us about old men. We warn ourselves. My sister is 18 and she calls men in their 30 who hit on her "pedophiles" 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:51 AM
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But older men can't be high value. Dating old man was always considered a loser move across my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:48 AM
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Yep. I don't know a single old dude who is hot. If I was single I wouldn't even see them as an option. I'm 28 and I still see old men who approach me as creepy. They really think That women secretly want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:47 AM
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Younger women warn other women about older men as well. I don't know why you think it's only older women who do it. In my cricle, being with old men is considered a loser move. My friends and I were cockblocking older men in clubs since we were 17, when these guys were trying to use/pick up one of our friends. We had an agreement that whenever some old dude or a creep aprroaches one of our friends, we go and save her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:54 AM
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You think aging women don't notice the disparity in treatment between themselves and their past selves? Or more importantly, themselves and their younger, prettier peers in the workplace? There are always prettier, hotter women. No matter what. Most of my friends are still hotter than me, women in my work place are still hotter than me (and many of them are older). So hurrying quickly into marrige because of possible future "competition" doesn't make sense. There are always more attractive women…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:46 AM
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First, I'm not an anomaly. Women at 28 are still attractive, I'm not old and no one considers me old except manosphere men. So of course I'm in my prime. So what meanung does "the wall" have if a woman can be attractive later as well? I have older friends and friends my age, none of them has problems with men. Even if they were hotter five years ago why does it matter when they still get the same treatment? None of them had problems with finding great husbands or boyfriend. So even if it's true,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 08:49 PM
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These relationships still aren't the norm. Most women don't chase much older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:55 PM
1

No, tell me. I'm curious now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:48 PM
2

How can I know them as a person If I rejects them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:47 PM
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How else can I answer this question? I'm not looking for a man, I'm in a relationship. So I don't wonder if I would want them. Normal mem, some attractive, some not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:31 PM
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Two of these women are pregnant. My mom had my sister at 42. All of my friends mothers were closer to 40 when they gave birth to them. Women don't become infertile at 30. We loose most of our eggs when we hit puberty abd we still have more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:00 PM
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Money or height don't make a man high value. Trump is low value as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:58 PM
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I don't want any of them, I'm in a relationship. But yeah, many of them are young men that I would find attractive. Sometimes they are old creeps. So it's both.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:56 PM
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But it's not what happens old men with young women are rare. People usually date around their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:37 PM
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I don't know what that was then. My face was full and round before, now it's smooth and more oval, with visible bone structure. I don't know if that's what made me hotter. My point is I started getting attention long after my 18th birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:45 PM
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My point is that women don't become ugly and invisible when they hit 25 or 30. And this is what red pill men claim. Some say that women past 23 are grandmas. I get hit on everytime I go out. To the point I getirritated easily by it now. I get approached when I walk on the street or buy food. If it's not "a lot" then I feel sorry for hotter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:41 PM
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I was never fat. My sking got better and my face got longer and smoother when I lost baby fat, now I have visible cheakbones. That's it. I didn't even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:38 PM
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But then I had my glow up and got tons of attention when I should be "running to the wall". Was I on the wall and escaped it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:22 PM
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Well, but it's the same with men. I have an older brother in his thirties and he is the only one married. Most of his friends are forever alones. Same with some men from my work, and some of them are over 40. Nice attractive people most likely won't have problems if they take care of their body and mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:18 PM
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No pill is the best pill but blue pilled is definitely better than any other pill. At this moment I just cringe so hard when I hear them talking. Especially old, angry polish dudes who poorly translate red pill lingo on tik tok. Any man who listens to coach red pill or Kevin Samuels is a walking mess and a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:10 PM
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Really? Because I saw red pill men claiming that the wall is at 25 or 23 and past that age women become invisible. Not true in my case, it's the opposite. None of my friends became invisible either, many of them found partners at 29,30 or 32. I'm in my prime now at 28 (never looked better). Or who knows, maybe I will be in my prime. Anyway, I'm getting older and the attention is much bigger than it was when I was 20 (and I Understand why women complain, it's irritating). I also work and hang out…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:08 PM
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I was never able to use my looks to get what I wanted. I was invisible to most men until my glow up at 25-26. So how does it work? Was on the wall before? Can I now use my looks, since I became attractive? How do I do that? Whatever could I get for it? I don't want a man, I'm engaged. So how does it work?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:17 PM
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True. I work with older women. None of them have problem with men, this year couple of them got married. All of them are over 36, one of them married much younger cute guy, the rest found men their age. When we go out, they get approached everytime. The wall is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:13 PM
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What do you mean? Him kissing me arouses me, him touching me arouses me. He is hot and handsome, but I don't get horny by just looking at someone attractive. It literally never happened to me. Not in real life, not when I was watching movies with hot actors. I found the best man there is. If he is "billy beta" then billy betas are superior to alphas. No, House chores don't arouse me. Just like outside chores don't arouse me, going to the gym don't arouse me or him eating breakfest don't arouse m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:26 AM
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He shares house chores with me, cooks everyday. Treats me like I'm the best woman in the world. And I saw many time red pillers saying that a man should put himself first and act like he is more important. He loves to cuddle, is sweet and wholesome. I don't feel Threatened because I know that he loves me to the moon and back. What turns me on? Depends on the situation, but usually the way he kisses my neck or whispers to my ear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:34 AM
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I've been with my fiance 9 years, he is "beta" by red pill standards and eats my pussy everytime we have sex (that's my favorit and the most necessary sexual thing). We don't have dead bedroom. And no, him doing dishes doesn't turn me on. Just like him going to work, eating, going to the gym doesn't turn me on. Sexual situations turn me in, licking pussy or kissing turn me on. If I had all the housework on my head, I would be pissed and irritated, and sex would be the last thing on my "to do" li…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:34 AM
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Were, in my relationship there is no role division. We both work, clean, Cook and do everything atak home. Sometimes I pay the bills, sometimes he does. Sometimes I make planszą, sometimes he does. I don't leave things for him to do because "he is the man", I just do what needs to be done. He is the same towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:27 AM
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No, I need to be encouraged and cheered as well. I need to be praised for my successfull by my fiance. He is my biggest cheerleader because he understands that. I honestly don't get how isn't it obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:23 AM
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No, it's not normal. My friends are the best people I know, we are loyal to each others. We met when we were all 7 and I could always count on them. One of my best friends dumped a guy she was crazy about for months just because he said some awful stuff about me to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:18 AM
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In short, releasing my dream album and being a fantastic programmer, and owning a top software house. I want to be remembered and acknowledged. It's more complex obviously, these is just a general idea. Ans I'm more than half way there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:51 PM
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If I compromised last time on something, the he sompromise another time. Most of the times we agree on things. If we don't, we take turns. None of us is more important. We are both people with dreams and aspirations so making me submit and follow would make my life miserable. I'm not just a helper. My life and goals are as much important, so it's the only healthy way to be in a relationship. Why would I sacrifice more?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 10:17 PM
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No, his voice is not more important. He is not a leader, neither am I. We both compromise. Just like his career or his aspirations and dreams aren't more important than mine. I'm not just a second plan character. I am as important as he is,my aspirations and ambitions are as important as his.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:41 PM
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I'm in a relationship, not in a company. Our desires and aspirations are equally important, even thought some of them are different. So why would only he make final calls? And if we didn't need one of us to be a leader for nine years, when we had to make many important decisions, then why would we need it now? And why would his voice be more important than mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:24 PM
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What would change? We lived together for years. And how exactly would having a leader work? Why would I need it in my relationship if you claim it's so important?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:37 PM
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My relationship works like that, we've been together for 9 years now. If any of us has "more power" It's impossible to tell. None of us has a final say. Because none of us is more important and my aspirations and desires are as important as his.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:20 PM
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There is no leader in my relationship. Sonetimes I have a final say, sometimes my fiance. If he wants to spend Vacation somwhere, but he decided last time, I get a fiance final say. And vice versa. Same with everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:38 PM
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Even if we assume that this difference is real, it doesn't matter here. Cheating is cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:39 PM
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No, it's the same. Men cheating is as bad. "I didn't catch any feelings" ir " she means nothing to me " is a shitty excuse and doesn't make it better. You don't cheat, period. A husband who cheats on his wife doesn't respect her. Doesn't matter if he loves these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 10:12 PM
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Fucking other people, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 09:22 PM
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Doesn't matter if it's different. A man who cheat is a human trash, just like cheating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 08:07 PM
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It's literally the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:48 PM
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I met most of these men, they are not unattractive or losers. And no, just because people don't marry in their twenties doesn't mean that they can't find love later. Red pill didn't teach you shit. You just want to belive it because it makes you feel better. Even your coaches are scammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:27 PM
1

And you know this because Kevin Samuels told you? Or Rollo Tomassi?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 08:27 PM
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I literally spend time with these women. I'm not active on social media other than tik tok, so I wouldn't even know what they post there. And no, their men are great. One of them married a younger, handsome guy. The rest married cute men their age from what I know. I find many men creepy and I still think that their men are definitely ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 11:21 AM
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How creating music or graphic design are men's hobbies?? And there are many women who have expensive passions. My friends ride horses, one of them creates instruments, another one makes clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 11:17 AM
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Yeah. My grandmother started living again when my grandfather died. She just become happy. She doesn't have to cook everyday, clean after him constantly (he was extremely messy), and finally can go out and go on vacation. My grandma still has friends from her high school and they travel and spend time together. If my grandma died and my grandfather lived, he would not survive. He didn't have any friends, any connections, nothing. He was just angry and tired all the time. He wouldn't even make hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 11:14 AM
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I work with women and men in their thirties and forties. Women who are still single are thriving (other MET their husbands at 36 or so). They are great to be around, are passionate about things, some run their own buisnesses. Oh, and they still date if they want to. Most of the single men however, especially three guys in their late thirties, are always angry. They look bad and are always miserable. Like they hate the world. It's so it's also my experience that single women actually do great.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:27 AM
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It's not just men, it's certain people of both genders. I do spend money on skincare, but I also spend a lot on my instruments, classes, concerts, graphic tablets. When we were buying our apartments, my main requirement was to have a seperate room for my studio. My fiance's hobby does cost US even half as much as mine. But I did my best to pay for everything without struggling, so I took a well paid job and I'm working on my projects to not make him feel like I'm a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 08:15 AM
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Having a rich guy who would expect me to be subservient and stop working towards my goals and doing my hobbies would make my life miserable and much worse than it is now. So he wouldn't add value to my life. And just to clarify, being well-traveled or having money being tall etc don't make a man high value. He can still be a piece of shit I'm well traveled myseld. I voulunteered and had hardcore trips on almost every continent, starting in high school. Same with money, I have my own. And I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:41 PM
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I don't have to be submissive and subservient to be in a fullfilling relationship. I am ambitious, I love working on my projects, I love being successfull. I'm not a submissive houswife materiał. Yet I'm engaged to the most amazing man in this world That has been supporting my dreams since we were 19. If my man needed me to be subservient then he wouldn't be high value. Such men don't have value to me as my life would get worse if I had to be subservient and only follow his lead without working …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:55 PM
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People usually take advantage of doormats. Pick me is a womans who does everything for her men without getting as much or even anything in return. It's a woman who will tolerate her man cheating, not allowing her to do her hobbies or other things etc. It's a girl who will allow her man walk all over her. It's a woman who will work in a full time job and then do all the house work because her man wouldn't help her anyway (when she should leave his lazy ass). It's a female version of a simp. Being…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:38 PM
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Then I wouldn't be a pick me. Pick me is a doormat, not a person who lives in a mutualy loving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:28 PM
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So wifey material meandra doormat? Then being a "wifey material" is not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:03 PM
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No. My fiance is a simp according to red pill standards and I'm attracted to him. There is nothing sexier than a hot man dreaming of pleasing me or giving me orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:58 AM
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It is bad. If I was a pick me, IT would be bad for me. Life is not about men, I don't live Only to please my fiance. What would be in it for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:57 AM
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Why not? It's men who Put their strenght as a reason why women should submit and why we are inferior. So I wanted to point out a thing that women do and that is much more important than being strong. Do I really think that it makes me superior? No. But I also don't see men as better than me and I don't think I should submit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:53 AM
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I just added it as a example because it's men who put their strenght why they are superior to women. Just wanted to point out that women are superior in other things, which makes the idea of men being better ridicolous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:50 AM
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It is more impressive than lifting heavy things from time to time. And much cooler.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:27 PM
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No man is superior in everything. His woman will probably superior in other things. If my fiance earned more than I do, he still wouldn't be superior to me. Him being stronger than me doesn't make him superior either, because I can grow a whole human if I choose to and feed it with my body, and it's much more important and impresive than lifting heavy things. We are even.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:41 PM
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All the while most dudes are starting to get comfortable with their life and have a lower libido than a decade earlier, so it makes a pretty big shift in dynamic for this period for the men that both worked on themselves and want kids. Consequences of childbirth would be where to look at if you're looking for something making a woman less attractive This is true also for many women. In my social circle it's mostly women who wait with marrige and kids, while their boyfriends would like to start a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:52 PM
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I work with older women. None of them had problems with dating in their mid thirties, all of them found attractive husband, one of them married much younger, hot guy. Women don't become ugly as soon as they become 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:09 PM
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I'm 28, had my glow up at 25 and I get hit on much more often than I did in my early twenties or when I was 18. Back then almost nobody looked at me, now it happens everywhere. I doubt that it will stop when I'm 30 (why would it be different than now, it's less than two years). Although it would be great if it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:36 PM
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Nah, I would definitely prefer a normal guy than someone who looks this old. Yes, Clooney has a nice face but his age is extremely visible and I can't see him as someone attractive. I was wondering how his wife can sleep with him honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:10 PM
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No, it's not. Especially when I'm not inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:14 AM
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It does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:29 AM
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No. We don't call all older men creepy. Just those who hit on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:22 AM
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Tons of young women find it creepy. Men here just don't want to see this. Untill recently we had a group for young women in my country where w would warn each other about creepy men and places where these men can be. 90% of dudes we posted were older (late thirties-forties). And their age was the main reason why they were creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:44 AM
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Agree. I never considered older men as an option, I always saw a big "it's a trap" signs whenever older men tried to "be our friends" on festivals, conerts or vacation. So do my friends. We would warn each other to not go to certain places because there were older men creeping on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:32 AM
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Well, older men aren't higher value. Young woman has much higher value than any dude 10 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:17 AM
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I left quickly after that. Luckily, I found another job pretty soon. Yes, now I know that men are pretty similar too women. Some are good, some are bad, we are not that different after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:26 AM
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How does not seing men as gods made me jaded? I don't praise them and don't feel inferior to them, but I'm not jaded. If anything, I feel much better about myself now, that I don't feel like a worst kind of a human. I was raised super catholic and went to Christian school. For most of my life I was closed in this environment and, despite wanting to do many things, I was bade to belive that I'm too delicate, too emotional and can't face the outside professional world as well as men. It was an awf…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:19 AM
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When I started working with them. I grew up beliveing that men were superior to me (I lived in quite coservative family). You know, this whole bullshit about men being leaders, etc. I was told that men were calm and logical. Even thought I saw men in my family throwing tantrums, being emotional and doing stupid things, I actually belived it deep down. But when I got my first job after high school in a restaurant, as the only woman working only with guys in their therties and twenties, I saw thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 09:57 PM
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So what does it mean to allow man to lead? Would I be able to do things without his permission (buy a guitar, go out with my friends). Would I be able to decide for myself? Would I be able to decide with him where to live or where to go on Vacation? If no, what's in it for me? If yes, how is it different from egalitarian relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:18 PM
2

"I'm not like the other men".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:03 AM
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Perfectly said. Being traditionaly feminine means not working on my own goals, not fullfiling them, geting rid of any ambition. It means serving, following and only supporting my man in being successfull. How it that benefitial? And don't forget that traditional feminine role is seen as trivial and less important. When men want to offend women they tell them to go back to the kitchen or make them a sandwich. Tons of men here said that women didn't play a role in creating a civilazation. So of co…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:15 PM
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I think so. He shared her posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:07 AM
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No. We literally had a group with thousands of young women who would warn each other about old men hitting on us. We shared their number, profiles and so on. Some men hated it and it was taken down but we will create it again. Old men aren't the prize like they think they are. Most of us don't wont them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:59 AM
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Yep. Also, men forget how they get angry when women refuse to date older guys. I'm 28 and I wouldn't date someone over 35 if I was single. When I say old men who hit on me that they are too old they get angry. When I wrote on the Internet that I would never give an old man a chance, I was called an angry feminist, looser and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:34 AM
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Jason Mamoa looks creepy. Try Harry Style.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:31 AM
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A dick is not a prize, it doesn't even give orgasms. Safety from... other men? Security meaning what? Would I have to sacrifice my goals to get this security? Would I have to be submissive? If yes then it's not worth it. I'm engaged. I didn't have to sacrifice my goals and freedom for being in a happy relationship. I have both, feminism and a great man. Trading feminism for what you listed sounds like a big loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:18 AM
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And these changes were made thanks to Saudi feminists, not thanka to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:08 AM
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How is it "men bad" when I'm literally putting Harry as an example of a high value man? And I don't see the situation with the Royal Family as only Megan's fault. If they treated her badly then the only decent thing that Harry could do as a husband was to be on her side. If the roles were reversed and she left a country and a great position for him, red pill men would praise Harry for being alpha, and for leading his wife. How is putting his wife first a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:06 PM
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No, I just never really heard about "bad things" she did besides not being submissive and in her early thirties. What is so bad that she has done to Harry? Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:38 PM
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Agreed. I would never want to live in different times. Both my grandmothers say that I'm lucky to be a woman in current times and that they wish the world was the same as today when they were young.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:28 PM
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I don't remember her name, I wasn't on her profile for a while. I usually could access her through Noah Revoy's twitter profle but he blocked me couple months ago xD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:01 PM
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Yeah, I agree. I think she is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:07 PM
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Of course. The words about losing value are not mine. I'm just repeating what red pill men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:05 PM
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She got in a relationship with a billionaire as "used up" divorced woman with a kid in her thirties. According to red pill men, a young and hot billionaire can get any woman he wants and would never pick a chick "past her prime", especially older than him. That's why they were losing their shit. These aren't my words, I don't by into red pill theory. It's what these men claim to be the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:29 PM
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I agree, she is hot af. But they red pill dudes got mad because she was a divorced woman in her mid thirties marrying a prince. According to red pill crowd this should have never happened because "she has lost her value".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:23 PM
2

I think you are reaching a little, but you are entitled to your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:40 AM
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Yes, I don't see why would be anything wrong with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:23 AM
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Redpillers see a harpy in every woman who isn't a submissive virgin. Especially is she is successfull and over thirty. She seems completely normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:52 AM
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If roles were reversed we would see red pill men praising him for being an "alpha" and for leading his submissive wife. Rollo bragged how his wife would follow him anywhere, no questions asked. And the Royal family suppousedly trated Megan badly. So why would it be a bad thing that Harry stood up for his wife? And why do you think that he did all of this against his will?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:39 AM
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I didn't watch Oprah interview, only saw some clips on the internet. He seemed normal, and gathered my sympathy. He seems like a great, loving husband. I don't see why marrying Megan makes him cucked. Because she isn't submissive? Because he didn't expect her to live his way?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:21 AM
17

Keanu has much higher value and is much more of a Chad than Rollo Tomassi or Kevin Samuels.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:09 AM
12

And what was the mistake? Marrying a beautiful, successfull woman? Red pill men claim than successfull, high value men would not marry a woman in her thirties, especially if she isn't submissive. These men showed that they are wrong. Harry has much higher value than Rollo Tomassi, Kevin Samuels or "Coach" Greg Adams. And he married a "post wall" woman who shouldn't even get a chance according to their movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:05 AM
6

They were commenting how he is blind, beta or cucked before Harry left the family and before even they got married. It was enough that she was older than him and in her mid thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:00 AM
10

Red Pill men were discussing it, commenting and calling these men "beta" or "cucks".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:51 AM
6

These comments were from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:27 PM
43

I saw it many times. Redpillers got furious when prince Harry married Megan. Or when Orlando Bloom started dating Katy Perry who was in her thirties. Or were discussing how Miranda Kerr, a single divorced mother in her thirties, managed to marry a hot billionaire in his twenties. There is also a conservative woman on twitter who's twitts where often shared by redpill and conservative dudes (that's how I found her). Once she wrote something about her husband who was 10 years younger than her. Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:24 PM
-1

Thank god that men here don't generalise women. That would be dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:49 PM
1

We do make these cobtributions. We literally done, more and more each year.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:46 AM
1

Actually women perfected it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:39 AM
1

Women didn't do less. Women grew food, did houswork, took care of children or made clothes. Childcare and giving birth to child are much more than yard work, and women did all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:36 AM
3

Women did yard work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:33 AM
2

But I won't because if I'm uncomfortable I can't focus and relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:24 PM
2

Or he can wait because he loves me? I also don't expect him to eat me out when he is not in the mood for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:23 PM
2

Why would I seduce the guy if I don't feel like having sex in that moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:46 PM
4

No, I'm not pushing myself to have sex if I don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:44 PM
1

Foreplay is one of the best parts of sex. Even better than sex itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:20 PM
5

No, it doesn't work like that. Not for me. If I'm uncomfortable or not in the mood I can't focus and sex becomes an awful experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:18 PM
5

I can't get aroused if I'm uncomfortable from not being wet enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:24 PM
12

Yeah, but sex is not just for men. Our pleasure is as much important. I'm not having sex if I'm not aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:23 PM
13

I never felt horny just from being with someone I find hot. I only get horny when I'm comfortable and the situation is strictly sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:22 PM
6

Agree, Harry Styles is hot as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:52 AM
7

Mine dated Stacy. I mean, she was definitely hotter than I was. I never cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:35 PM
1

I'm not talking about abusive customs of Catholic church (or other churches) that required total submission and sacrifice from women. I'm talking about healthy and loving relationships/marriges.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:39 PM
1

No. Good relationship is not "I'll be with you no matter how badly you treat me". That leads to abuse and no woman should stay. I told him that if hurts me I would leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:26 PM
1

But I can keep it Just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:36 PM
1

But I did promise to stay. And I will promise even more on our wedding day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:22 PM
1

How a man leaving his faithful wife, and loving relationship in general because he found someone hotter not a piece of shit? If I left my man because I met a hot, tall, wouldn't that make a bitch? Really? No l, most women don't leave good relationships without a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:02 PM
1

I used high value because red pill uses it. Obviously if I neglected my man it would be ok fir him to leave and it wouldn't make him a bad person or "low value". I would leave a bad relationship as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:22 PM
1

I'm not FDS woman xD So he would leave me for a woman ge doesn't really know? Doesn't have a connection? Why would he leave a happy relationship for a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:56 AM
1

That depends. Is he a cheater? Then he is low value, just like all cheaters. And yes, I know. Women bad, it's never men's fault, blablabla.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:35 AM
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Because having a kid means that a woman has to sacrifice a lot. It doesn't matter if the kid was adopted or not. She sacrifices time for her hobbies, for things she likes, her plans and aspirations. From what I've seen men still go out and spend money on things they enjoy, but as soon as a woman leaves a baby with the father and goes out, they call her and want her to come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:28 AM
25

Well, for many of us it's not a problem. Not being a mother doesn't eat me alive. I could have a child. I'm healthy, in a long term relationship and getting married soon. I have a great job and a stable life. I just really, really don't want to waste my life for a kid. A thought of taking care of a crying baby for couple of years, then spending free time on the playground, having to sacrifice so much is just awful. My friend wanted to have five kids. After her first she said that's she doesn't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:16 AM
1

No. Him leaving me because I don't want to be abused, in pain or degraded during sex is not the same as him leaving me because there is no love anymore for example. A man who would be ok with hurting me because it excites him is low value to me. It would just reveal his true nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:09 AM
1

We've been together for nine years and he never did that. So I'm pretty sure about him. We are all free to do as we wish, we choose to be together. If he ever does it, it will mean that's he is low value (all abusers are low value). So it wouldn't be a loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:03 AM
1

Nah, I'm not degrading myself. I wouldn't be keeping a man who would abuse me. Market or not, doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:47 AM
3

You do you. It doesn't change anything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:38 AM
2

If a man puts a woman in pain, hurts her for his own pleasure than that's abuse. And you think that this will continue for another 30-40 years? Yes. He never even tried any if abusive things in bed. But if he suddenly decides to put me in pain or degrade me for his pleasure, he is free to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:10 AM
3

That's not realistic in a time when all guys have unlimited porn on their phones He has been having access to unlimited porn for the last nine years. We are fine. Guys can leave too when they get a better offer. Or just because they get bored. If he left me because he couldn't abuse me then it would mean that he wasn't worth it. So it wouldn't be a loss. Abusers should go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:55 AM
2

Exactly. I wouldn't be with a man who would abuse me. So it wouldn't last for life if it was any other way, because I would leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:49 AM
2

Only for the purpose of this sub. I don't agree with the red pill, it doesn't confirm what I see in my life. I just pretend to acknowledge It, to keep the duscussion going.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:17 AM
5

They definitely can. I've been in a relationship with my man for nine years and we're vanilla as fuck. We are one of the best couples we know. But I don't watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:01 AM
4

My friends have always been my source of attention until I met my man. And still they are one of my main sources of support, fun and a good time. Men's attention is never free. They always want something and you can feel it. And men are much less pleasant to be around. Either they are too nice because they want to fuck us, or they are rude and try to lower our self esteem whenever we show that we know more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:38 AM
3

I don't. You expect women to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:27 AM
6

Nah. Hovewer, I do give condolences to your eventual partner. Being bossed around and treated like a servant sounds like waste of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:10 AM
6

I've been in an egalitarian relationship for almost nine years. And men are not superior to me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:21 AM
3

There is a good saying in the manosphere "watch what They do, not what they say". Members of the red pill dehumanize women, call them all sorts of things. So it doesn't matter what the sidebar if these men do much more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:56 AM
6

If humanity never existed there would be no problem. If men suddenly disapear it would be a shit storm - same thing would happen if women disapear. After that people would start look for solutions. No idea what phased out means.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:33 PM
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We would be fine. Women have been growing and providing food since always. Also, women were held back by men, we were suppoused to give birth and submit. In Poland women couldn't study, that's why Maria Skłodowska-Curie had to move to France. Now women have been enjoying same opportunities as man for much shorter time. We are getting better and acheiving more with each generation. So again, we would be just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:05 PM
6

I was invisible to men until I was around 25. I'm now 28 and the attention is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:45 PM
5

Lol, no. Life is about much more than sex. If I became a submissive wife at 20 (the kind of wife that manosphere talks about all the time) I would never acheive the things I wanted and I would waste my life. I'm enjoying my twenties as much as I can. I've been engaged since I was 21 but But I waited till I was 27 to start planning my wedding. Taking wifes duties in my twenties, before I'm sure that I'll be successful and will not have to ask for money, would be a waste of my youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:35 PM
1

When I was "direct" I got called an entitled Polish (yes, some polish men in Poland use it as an insult) and followed by him to my uber. And honestly, not talking to a guy, not responding to his questions is clear enough. Being bothered stresses me out and I'm not going to make it easier for a man who doesn't want to leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:25 AM
2

If a man doesn't leave me alone and ceep trying, he is creepy and me seeing him like that is only his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:18 AM
4

Not only. If someone is ugly but nice it's not creepy. I a guy tries to touch me, talks to me everytime I pass by him, comes too close that I can feel his breath, says things about my boobs- it's creepy. Hot guys can be creepy too, but it's usually old dudes who have no boundries. Younger ones walk away when they see I'm not interested after their first attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:22 PM
2

Men who had pretty faces would turn out disgusting too. When a good guy starts acting weird, is too sexual for example or farts, he looses the charm. For example, there is a hot young politician in my country that I actually met on my university. But his views and opinions are so awful that I feel disgusted when I see him and I can't help but despise him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:19 PM
5

I used to be invisible to almost everyone untill I was 25 or so. Now everytime I go out there are dudes asking me out or trying to talk to me. And most of It is just annoying so the fear that some men have that they will be seen as creepy, in my opinion, is justified. I do see them as creepy. Mostly old ones thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:45 PM
1

I honestly don't see a moral solution that would force women to have more kids. I don't want to have more than one and not sooner than in my thirties. My fiance said he could have more but I have a final say (as I will risk and sacrifice more). There is nothing that could change my mind. I have money, bought my own apartament, my man has money as well so in theory, I have what's needed for starting a family. But I also actually love my life, I'm active, I'm ambitious, I want to succeed. I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:36 PM
1

And how is that not a woman's burden? I need to care about these things and I need to handle them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:21 PM
-1

We will when you do the same for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:27 AM
11

Yep, it sucks and is disgusting most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:10 PM
7

Penetrative sex? Not really. Definitely not worth it. Being eaten out? Sure, but I don't think that's popular in not long term relationships. Sex is definitely better for men, in general. It makes sense that they have to work more for it. Them just want it more. I could live without sex, not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:28 PM
5

Well, I would definitely hate to be it. I don't want to submit and ask for permission to buy something for myself. I don't want to agree on every sexual thing he wants because "he is a provider" but I feel that I would be obligated to do so. And, of course, I want to be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:53 PM
6

Yep. Most women in my family worked and men still tried to control them and make them submissive. I can't imagine how bad would It be if they didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:50 PM
3

He always eats me out, so yes. I'm always satisfied. But penetration still doesn't bring pleasure. How could it? I can't even imagine it. I out fingers there and no extasy. Vagina is not as sensitive as clit. I could live without it for the rest of my life. Being eaten out is much, much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:04 PM
2

I was a virgin and I still knew that sex sucked and expected my man to work more on my pleasure and held him to higher standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:46 AM
10

Because we are told that it's normal, that men need sex and that we can learn feeling pleasure from penetration. Took me eight years to figure that the last thing is definitely not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:54 AM
0

Yes they would. Men do it all the times, but suddenly they wouldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:06 PM
1

Yeah, I'm pretty open about it. Being open doesn't change anything. Penetration can't give me pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:32 AM
1

Yes, they would. And they would project it to all feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:10 AM
2

Obviously. What I ment was that these guys will justify Rooshe's disgusting and predatory behaviour. But if a woman did thay, they would hold ger accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:40 AM
4

Well, he shouldn't be forgiven.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:08 AM
4

Imagine if a woman wrote something similar, for example that castrating men when they enter women's space should be legall. Men here would take it as a serious post and use it as an argument that all feminists hate men. But Rooshe's posts about raping women? "He wAS JuSt PrOVokInG".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:05 AM
3

So another reason why sex is overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:22 PM
2

Try never orgasming and just watching your partner having amazing pleasure, while you are being penetrated. It's frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:27 PM
3

Do you mean coital alligment techinque? Yeah, I tried it with My fiance. But it's still not that great, it doesn't stimulate clit the right way. Although it is much better than literally any other position.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:24 PM
3

I don't think that penetration can be pleasurable for me, no matter what. In general sex is overrated. When it comes to bonding, simple hugging or cooking together works much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:56 PM
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Sex is overrated, at Least for women. All of My friends think the same way. When I was growing up I thought that penetration would give me an amazing pleasure. Turned out it's a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:37 PM
4

Really? Volunteering in Finland while married? Spending all evening at band practice as a married woman? Changing jobs to find out what we really want to do in my live while having to be a wife? I've been with my man since we were really young and I still didn't want to get married untill now (we are 28 now, he proposed at 21). Not because I didn't want to be with him, but because being a wife is a big responsibility and it's easier to try things out (not sex) before marrige. If I settled down a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:33 AM
1

Not much younger. I wouldn't date younger than 23. And five years is not a real difference. 10-15 is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:03 PM
6

Younger always ok (if they aren't pushy). Younger men hitting on me are a complement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:58 PM
11

Well, yeah. All of the men that we didn't want to date because we thought they were losers or pathetic, were trying to date girls from high school. I'm 28 and when older men hit on my, I find them sad and it's not a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:09 PM
0

Why would I feel empathy for men who call me a slut? Or useless? Or who say that I should be subservient? I don't expect you to understand, men don't have empathy towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:17 PM
0

Yes, pretty much. Just that red pill started it so I don't feel bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:35 PM
0

It's a balance for red pill community that calls women sluts, useless and want to make them subservient.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:29 PM
1

I also don't need a strategy. I'm in long term relationship. But as long as there are red pill subs who talk awful shit about women, I will support fds with all my heart. It's a good balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:25 AM
2

But It's not pro-women. Red pill women is all about benefiting men. Red pill women is abou men's sexual pleasure, men's goals, men's happiness. His voice is more important, his desires are more important. And they are connected to red pill, while red pill men call women sluts, cumdumpsters and look for ways to boss around and dominate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:24 AM
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Bitches? And you wonder wht feminism happened? It's not just with 30 year old chicks. Bitches 25-30 prefer you over some broke 20 something that it isn't a sure thing. We see how they call those guys LVM. No, we do not. I wouldn't give an old man a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:10 AM
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Honestly, women and men would all be much happier if we accepted that a larger age gap is ideal for both parties. Why would I be happier with older men? I don't like them now, so accepting it and being with old men would make me and my friends miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:07 AM
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You are still young. I'm a woman and also 28. I didn't get attention untill I was 25-26, I had a glow up at that time. Now I get hit on, men who didn't see me now ask me out and complement the fact that I look so good, that I've changed so much. Old men, Younger men are interested now. But yeah, we're still young. Nothing you see is weird. The difderence between us is that I don't lie about my age. Most of them already know my age they still hit on me. If I was single, I would do just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:29 AM
1

Either this is a typo or we have a holy man with us. Haha :D But, yeah, you're right. Everyone is my "background". Men, women, choleren. Everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:56 PM
1

I can't get horny just from looking at hot men. I see that they have nice faces or bowiem, I like what I see but it doesn't make me wet. I don't think about sex untill my man starts to kiss me or touch me. If he suddenly had to leave for couple of months, I would survive without fucking just fine. But I always had low libido, I masturbated maybe twice a year when I was singlesingle and a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:47 AM
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Nah, I have the same. It's not just men. All people are my background when go through my day. It's not sexist. I see both, men and women like that. I just focus on different things that human connection when I work, exorcist, read a book or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:39 AM
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She doesn't have to be on bc or be older. I have the same as her. I don't think about sex unless I'm in a strictly sexual situation, when my man kisses me for example. I don't even think about men during my day, they are just a background. Just like all people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:35 AM
5

It's completely normal. I Never got horny just from being around a super attractive man. I could be in Love, like have butterflies in my stomach, and still Not feel the need to have sex. I don't get aroused if a situation is not sexual. Jason Mamoa is not hot in my opinion. But Shaun Mendes is, ans I still don't get horny when I see him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:16 AM
2

I'm 28, in a long term relationship, getting married soon. We both earn good money, I bought an apartament. I have good conditions to have kids. But I don't want to do it right now. I have my hobbies that take a lot of my time. I have side projects that I want to work on. I want to have social live, I wont to have time to enjoy myself. Most of my friends don't have kids but those who do are tired all the time and won't stop complaining. They are tired and angry all the time, and before the kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:55 PM
1

Depends on the person. I don't feel the need to have sex in general. I don't think about it when I don't have it, I never had dreams abour sex or never had any sexual fantasies. Ans I fantasie about other non-sexual things on daily basis. I could live without sex, not a big deal. I never really masturbated. I try it very rarely and only when I read articles and feel that I might be missing something. If my man couldn't have sex for the rest of our lives, I would be ok. I just always had a really…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:49 AM
1

Right. Another angry redpiller. Go your own way, kiss Rollo Tomassi or whatever you guys are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:28 PM
0

You aren't. If you were, you wouldn't be here, screaming I am woman hear me mewl. Huh? Not agreeing with you is equal to "i'm a woman, hear me roar"?? Dude, we are doing it. It's your problem that you don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:52 PM
3

Dude, look at his face. He is ugly. And old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:25 PM
1

So far, we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:17 PM
1

We can. Easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:35 PM
1

Again, I am not the one in here going "I am woman, hear me ROAR, I am so independent, don't need nobody else, don't need help". YOU are. YOU ARE I'm not. You implied that women can't survive on their own. Pointing out that it's not true is not "hear me roar" attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:57 PM
1

Just because you sit in your comfortable office and do some pretend to work it doesn't mean that other people do it as well. Don't project your life onto me. Volunteer... uh huh. Doing paperwork at the site and maybe telling a couple of guys to take some shit here or there, after which you went to your nice air conditioned hotel room and the Golden Corrall buffet that Habitat for Humanity paid for, I'm sure. Wtf?? Dude, I literally built it. I worked physically. Yes, men carried shit for you in …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:40 PM
1

I was a voulunteer as at a construction worker and build two houses. In a hit, worked for 10-12 hour a day for free. If women had to do it, they would. No one ever carried anything for me in the office, and when I in the restaurant in the kitchen I carried all heavy things by myself. Women work in police and as firewighters. You can't even get your cars into next week without men. What would you do without your smartphones and your social media and your computers, all supplied by and serviced by…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:06 PM
34

Only one thing Kevin Samuels is a very attractive No, he is not. And the narcissism is strong there. Almost whole screen is covered with his photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:27 PM
2

Exactly. I have an impression that they created this model woman in their head and now they try to convince everyone that all women are like that. But we all still have a man in their life This. We never aspired to be a submissive houswives, we were always goal oriented since elementary school. We are all in relationships, and I wasn't even that hot untill I was 25-26. So this myth that non-submissive women who focus on their career end up lonely is bullshit. What's also funny is that manosphere…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:28 AM
2

Yep. Men talk about how useless we are and how we need to serve them and be submissive to make them respect us. They say that they could easily destroy us and take away our rights and they make a surprised Pikachu face when more and more women turn into feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:50 AM
4

Literally all of my friends are self sufficient. Two of them are medical doctors, another one is a scientists who already gets invited by world class research departments to work with them. And she is in her twenties. My other friend is an electritian, two other work with people with heavy disabilities. Most of us bought our own apartments. But I live in Poland, not in the US. Maybe US does produce more losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:11 AM
1

Why would she? Do you expect the same from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:58 AM
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From reading manoaphere twitter I figured that they don't like when women do anything other than being submissive houwives/housewives to be. She wants to work and be successful? A stupid feminazi. She loves to travel? She must be a slut and she doesn't do anything interesting on her trips (bullshit, I met tons of women during my travel who did impressive things). She has hobbies? Either they are stupid because not masculine enough, or she does it to impress men. They really think that everything…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:56 AM
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I'm 28 and only three out of my and my man's two friends groups with over 30 people have kids. And half of these people are married almost all of them are in long term relationships They still openly talk about not wanting kids, mostly women. Nothing surprising about that, kids take a lot out of their parents. A women can destroy her health, will not sleep for a long time, will not have time for her hobbies. It's just too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:49 AM
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Yes, they created a scenario in their heads and they defend it as if real was real. Young women don't spend their time fucking guys all the time. They study, worry about their future, travel, work, have hobbies and try to figure out their lives. Most women in their thirties work, are educated and don't rely on their husbands to survive. At least in my country, but my country is believed to be more "conservative" than US, and we still have independent young and older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:51 AM
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If a man hurts a woman psychically, he also does it mentally. You can't have a psychically abusive husband who doesn't mentally harm his wife. If you abuse someone you life a mark on their mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:24 PM
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True. Rollo Tomassi blamed Shannan for what Chris did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:18 PM
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No they don't. Most women date men around their age. 3-5 years is not a significant difference. Most young women don't date old men. It's not what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:05 PM
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I complain when old men approach me. My friends feel grossed out when old dudes Try to date us. It's not just older women whi are grossed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:18 AM
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They will not listen to you. Them would rather listen to delusional coaches who tell them that they will acheive their peak attractivness at 40 xD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:42 AM
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I'm a woman. All of my friends date men in their twenties. Literally all of them. Most women don't date much older men. It's just the fact. My man is my age. When an old man approaches me I don't see it as a complement. Again: we don't chase old men. Why would I be with an old man who already did it all? I still want to travel, work, experience new things. Not settle down. And I was already well traveled when I was 19. I earned my own money for my travels. I bought an apartament before covid, ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 07:21 AM
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People don't peak when they are old.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:04 AM
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This. If any of our friends would date an old man to n his late thirties we would think that she failed in life. We would be nice to him thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:04 PM
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I'm so sorry this happened to you. But unfortunately, men on this sub will ingore this comment. Just like they ingore every comment that disapproves their point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 08:59 PM
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This. When I was around 10-11 I remember reading tons of articles about toxic old men destroying lives of young women. It was a known thing in Poland back then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 08:45 PM
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Dude, look around. Old men aren't considered a hot shit. I literally live and hang out with with men in their twenties as I'm one of them. Being with an old man is considered a failure. Most women date women around their age, not some bulky grandpas
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 08:42 PM
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Men’s sexual market value peaks around 40, No it doesn't. Where are these men who became hotter when they got old? Only red pill dudes belive that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:51 AM
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What's BETTER about 40 year old man than a 60 year old one? Everything. Just like 20 something is much better than 40 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:48 AM
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So far it's men who showed us that they are willing to kill other nations and send people to death for their benefit. Women aren't responsible for most of the masacers, men are. Men took money and other benefits as soldiers, and invaded other countries, destroying lives of many people and endangaring lives of their own families. Or they Just fought to "dEfEnd thEIr HonOur". And women did have a big part in creating our civilization. They worked in feild, preparacji food, raised children, gave bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:36 AM
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I was raised catholic. Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:07 AM
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Men have been shitting on women since always. They pretty much started it. Church saints wrote their shitty papers about women being "broken men" or sack of shit. Many philosophers saw women as inferior, and other men didn't see a problem with that. The are still considered valid. In my country there is a saying that translates to: if a devil can't do something, he will send a woman to do It for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:06 AM
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I bought my apartment, I make my own Money, I can fix everything in my apartment and if I don't, there is internet and youtube that gived me enough knowledge. How exactly do I need my man more than he needs me? Women are contributing in innovations, medicine and science more and more every year. Don't expect us to be on the same level, when we started mach later than you. And women didn't just give birth and cook (although being a mother is extremely important). They producet food, work in facto…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:02 AM
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When It comes to positions, there is no difference for me. Almost always I ride him and then he is on top of me, or he starts and then I finish. But it doesn't change anything in terms of feeling of excitment. I guess this concept of top/bottom is not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 07:10 AM
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Then if I have to give them a chance to talk to me without knowing them and basing only on their looks, it's impossible to tell. I don't know how they look. All of them could have nice faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 07:05 AM
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No one has to be in charge. When my man eats me out, is he a top or a bottom? If he is a bottom, does he become "a top" when I blow him after that? Am I a bottom when I please him and do what he wants? Be he always does what I want and pleases me as well. So how does it work? Are we bottoms and tops at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 07:00 AM
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I'm not an op but that depends. Without knowing any of them? Basing in their looks only? If a poor guy is cute, the the poor one obviously. When I met my fiance he was still in high school with no money at all. I make more money than him now as well. I could be with a shorter guy if his face was cute but from my experience, short guys don't like women who wear high heels, and I wear them all the time. About recessed chin, a guy can still have a nice face with it. Strong jaw doesn't necessary mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 05:49 AM
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I saw posts where they were pissed that divorced, over thirty Miranda Kerr married much younger, hot billionaire. There was also a youtube video were some "red pill" dude criticized Orlando Bloom for being with "post wall" Katy Perry and having a kid with her. And don't forget about their meltdown when prince Harry married Meghan Markle :D
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:50 AM
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And there are many women who date and marriedd younger, hot men. Many celebrities and many normal women. Still, It's not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:23 PM
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Most women don't date old men. 10 years older men. A man in his late thirties would not get me or any of my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:48 PM
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Which part wasn't clear?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:41 PM
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Not everyone has bdsm sex, not everyone has kinks. Bdsm is not biology. I'm not dominant and I'm not submissive, same with my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:28 PM
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Me neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:07 AM
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I actually really like my job and I mostly work from home. And I don't have to spend time with these guys, watching them is an entertainment. Especially when one of them throws tantrums.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:07 PM
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I don't destroy keyboards when I'm angry, I don't try to boss everyone around, I don't try to push bad ideas. I don't get PiS-sędziego and give lectures when someone says that coffee A is better than coffee B.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:15 PM
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Everywhere. 90% men from my workplace have awful personalities. They are always angry and always "know better".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:32 PM
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Well, people are different I guess. Twice a week is enough for me. But if you prefer more often, more power to you and your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:30 PM
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I would run if I had to have sex everyday, couple of times a day. That's sound exhausting and I can't even imagine how sore and tired it would make me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:38 AM
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Dude, 50 yo men are not in their prime. Women don't chase old men. It's just redpill fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:18 AM
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I can read andI hear Just fine. I saw too many red pill videos, too mamy reddit posts and twitts to think that they respect women. One of them wrote that women who travel are sluts. The other one that women are inferior. And these are just two examples. God forbid a woman has a passion and doesn't want to just follow men. She must be "brainwashed by feminism". Believe me, if beta-simping worked, then TRP would be all about strategies for beta-simpiing. It worked for my fiance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:40 PM
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Beta simp today is a code for a man who doesn't hate women and doesn't expect them tobie be servant. Everytime a man says something nice about women on the internet, he is called beta or a simp. So betas are definitely better than conservative morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:25 AM
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I'm with one :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:23 AM
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Yes. I wouldn't start dating my man if he was conservative. My mom is a liberal and my dad is a catholic tradcon. They always argue about it, especially during elections. I don't want the same for myself. And many men with conservative views seem mean and expect women to be submissive servants, which is awful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:46 AM
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I wouldn't mold myself tobie fit anyone's taste. I wouldn't change my view only to suit him. I can change my opinion on things if I decide that I was wrong. Just like my man did with some of his views.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:29 PM
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Huh? And when didI say that? We were discussing and he agreed with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:34 PM
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I love my man deeply, I never loved anyone like I love him. But I would never stop doing the things I love or change my opinion only to please him. Actually, I managed to convince him to change some of his views. Just because I am my own person it doesn't mean That I don't love him deeply.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:39 PM
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I don't love older men. Not a single friend of mine likes or dates old men. When old men hit on us, it's not a compliment. Most women don't date much older men. Literally it's not the norm. Relationships with old men are rare. Just like relationships with older women. They still happen but are not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:48 PM
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There are also older women who get young, successfull men. For example Miranda Kerr, Priyanka Chopra, Sam Taylor-Johnson and many more. These are exeptions. Just like your older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:39 PM
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The point is that these men are not high value for a younger woman. If I was 35, any 50 yo guy would be low value to me. Just like now 40 yo men are low value. You are saying that if I was older and wanted to have a valuable man, I would have to choose older guys. My point is that in this case, there wouldn't be any man that would be high value. So I wouldn't be able to find a valuable partner at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:15 PM
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if you want a rich successful highstatus man at age 35 he will have to be older. otherwise settle for men at the age of 35 that are pooer and less successful. This situation would be settling. Getting together with an old man, any old man, is always settling. Unless a woman is old as well. it doesn't matter what you value, rich successful or famous men are higherstatus than the average man earning average income no matter the age Not if they are old. Amal Clooney has much higher value than her h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 10:05 AM
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You are forgetting that young women don't chase old men. I'm not interested in anyone much older, most women date around their age. So it doesn't matter what old men want. They are not actually of higher value. if you want a high status successful man at 35 you wont have a choice but to marry an older man Having to settle for someone much older is always a failure. Doesn't matter if he is "successfull". Having a 50 yo man at 35 would be a failure 100% . A man that old would not be a good option,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:40 AM
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I understand what you are saying. I just don't agree. You made a mistake assuming that old men are better just because They have money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:08 AM
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and i'm going to repeat once again if you're okay with lower-status men that are poor or have an average income, this doesn't matter to you, stick with men at your age and lower wealth bracket. So what if an old man would take me on vacation, if that meant that I would havr to suck his dick? You know that young people can earn great money, right? I've been earning great money for a while now. And probably will earn more soon. And younger men are not lower status, that's what I'm saying. The are …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:51 AM
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