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If she doesn’t believe in God, no amount of money is going to change that. You have no right to demand that she adopt your faith. Believing in God is usually something that people were raised with, or it developed naturally over time. No agnostic, or atheist can just decide to now be a believer. If she isn’t a good fit for you anymore, you either find a nanny who shares your religious beliefs, or you raise your daughters yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/26 01:54 PM
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I am a woman in my 50s. I think men are physically most attractive in their 30s. That is an observation, nothing else. It doesn’t mean that I want to date a 30-something guy, or that I want to trade in my husband. I assume it’s the same for most men. When they say that women in their 20s are most attractive, it’s an observation and it does not mean they are all just waiting to dump their wives. Jeff Bezos is one of the world‘s richest men. If he wanted to marry a 22-year old, there can be no dou…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/26 11:19 PM
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Do whatever works for you. I would not settle like that. I would never agree to my husband having affairs whenever he feels like it. You say he is marriage minded. He may feel like that now, but men have walked away from their wives and children. Once you have been married for a few years, the honeymoon phase is over and routine has set in and your husband gets to have hookups with whoever he likes, there is a pretty good chance that he will fall for one of his fuckbuddies. His affair partners w…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/26 05:36 PM
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Your weight is in the healthy range. There is no need to lose weight for health reasons. After four children, your body will never be the same as before children. Pregnancy, normal aging and the hormone changes that slowly start in our 30s, all change how our bodies look. Don’t pay attention to what influencers and wannabe influencers post on social media. Most of it is lies and deception for clicks. There is a sub here called instagramreality, check it out. There are women in their 50s who weig…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/26 12:47 PM
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You need to understand that he does not want to commit to you. That is all there is to it. Don’t play games trying to change the outcome. It will not work. He does not want to commit to you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/26 03:22 AM
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I’m not a gamer, so it would depend on how much time is spent gaming. That would apply to other hobbies as well. Everybody has the right to pursue an interest that does not include their spouse/partner, but if it becomes all-consuming, it will lead to problems. My cousin divorced a gamer. He came home from work and went straight to gaming. Every spare moment was spent gaming.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/26 10:55 PM
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What men (and women) think is the age when the opposite sex is at their physical peak, is not necessarily the age they are looking to date/marry. If men say that women look their best in their early 20s, that does not mean that every 40-year old man actually wants to marry a 22-year old. If you meet a man who feels that a woman loses value after age 30, it’s best to stay away from him. Jeff Bezos is one of the richest men on earth and, without doubt, he could have had his pick of 20-year olds to…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/26 02:01 AM
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It may be cultural, I’m European and splitting bills, especially the first few times, is pretty normal. But seeing that he asked you out and he chose the restaurant, I would have expected that he pays. We don’t know why he did it that way. He may have thought that the bill was already split and thought it’s no big deal for you to pay your share. Maybe he discovered that he is not interested in you and didn’t want to pay for you. If he contacts you and you go out with him again, you can see what …
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/26 06:13 PM
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These hypothetical questions games just need to stop. There are no good answers and they create unnecessary drama. You basically asked him if it was ok if you went out looking like a streetwalker and then don’t like his honest answer. Seems like you were just looking for an argument. Would you still love me if i was a worm? Probably not, how would I even know you. If there was a fire, would you save me or our child? Why am I capable of saving only one of you and why are you incapacitated?
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/26 02:22 PM
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I find very few men truly handsome and the older I get, the fewer handsome men there are. However, most men are not repulsive and most have some attractive feature going for them. A good personality goes a long way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:37 AM
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I haven’t seen many of those posts, just a few. You realize that a lot of it is click-bait? The more outrageous the demands, the more engagement and they monetize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:32 PM
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I’m 5’10”, so I do prefer men to be at least my height. One of the nicest guys I dated as a young adult was several inches shorter than me. It’s not my preference, but not a deal breaker. Short men tend to have problems with dating because they are so hung up on it, if they were as self-assured as a tall guy, it might not be so much of a problem. I would never date a criminal, murderer etc., no matter their height or looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:38 PM
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If she insists to split, she is probably not interested in having another date and doesn’t want to feel obligated or feel like a user.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/26 07:52 PM
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If I want to meet him, I pay for my own flight. If there is no attraction after all, I don’t owe him anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:48 PM
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I would not date a trans man and I would most likely not date a man who has dated a trans woman. Trans women are biological male and, as far as I’m concerned, I would not date a man who dates men as well as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:25 PM
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I’m a woman and this doesn’t sound like me at all. We eloped because neither one of us wanted a big, formal wedding. We got married 3 months after our first date and also didn’t have time to plan a wedding, so we had a fun party afterwards. That was almost 30 years ago. I’ve cooked every meal that was prepared in our home, I enjoy having sex with my husband and I have never badmouthed him to anybody, no matter how annoyed I might be. There is just no taking it back and I do not want my family an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:15 PM
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According to the bible, Adam and Eve had three sons. No mention of daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:44 PM
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All the children would be half siblings and if they mate with each other, that island population would not flourish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:07 PM
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Honestly, I would be very worried that he is a victim of a crypto scam. The whole idea of “one more deal” that has to successfully close sounds a lot like a crypto scam. Add to that the fact that he keeps his finances secret from you and you have another red flag pointing to a scam. Being intelligent and having gone to a top university does not make anybody immune to falling for a scam. Even if it’s not a scam and he is trading crypto legitimately, that doesn’t mean he isn’t potentially gambling…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/25 06:06 PM
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How would random women know that the guy you are with is wealthy? And if they did know, why would they care? Are you sure you are getting dirty looks? It sounds as if you are a bit insecure about your weight and are projecting.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 06:15 PM
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Not everybody is into constantly being available to texts or calls. If he has a demanding job, he may only check his phone once or twice. I often take hours to answer a text. I don’t just sit around all day with my phone in hand. He may have answered you quickly in the very beginning and is now perfectly happy to contact you at, what seems to him, more normal intervals. When you needed a ride, he came to get you. That shows that he cares for you. Don’t demand constant attention, that is a good w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/24 08:02 PM
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He is frustrated with his failures and he seems to feel inadequate, hence stating that your career makes you less feminine. He resents that you are more successful than him. He is putting you down to make himself feel better. Honestly, those are not the actions of somebody who loves you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/24 08:14 PM
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So, for about 1.5 years everything was ok and then he suddenly started finding fault with who you are and how you behave? Have a talk with him to find out what happened to change his view of you. Not finishing the drink when you were made the designated driver was the responsible thing to do and your boyfriend criticizing that is absurd.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/24 07:29 PM
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So he is not going to tell his family about you until after he gets his masters? Those are excuses. My husband was still in med school when we met. I was introduced to his parents within two weeks and we got married three months later. When a man is serious about a woman, he will find a way to be with her. Still being at university is a good reason to wait to have children, it is no reason to keep your girlfriend a secret.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/24 01:28 PM
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I am really not sure what morals have to do with being able to change a tire.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 01:07 PM
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As long as it’s a nice enough place and not some sort of dive bar, I don’t think there is anything wrong with going for drinks as a first date. I don’t think going for drinks has anything to do with wanting something casual or not. I also see no reason to assume that he wants to get you drunk in order to take advantage of you. Most people are hopefully able to go to a bar without getting wasted. The advantage of going for drinks is that if there is no chemistry, the date can be ended quickly and…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 08:43 PM
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I meant to reply to OP, not your post.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 02:41 PM
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Are you saying that his views on domestic abuse are ok as long as you are not in the group of women who can be abused? Nobody deserves abuse. It is a fact that more women are victims of domestic abuse than men. Men severely injure and kill their spouses at much, much higher rates than the other way. Maybe he is not the right man to ask to take the lead. Not every man has the potential to be a good leader. If it was me, I would keep looking. His views on domestic abuse, the fact that he lied seve…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 02:03 PM
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I would see it as nudging rather than chasing. Chasing would be if he turned you down and you kept pursuing him regardless.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 10:09 PM
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Can you find out from someone who knows him well if he is indeed shy? If he is shy, you could ask him out. The worst that can happen is that he will turn you down. It’s not pleasant, but not the end of the world.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 08:34 PM
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I wouldn’t do that. There is no need to try and “fix” him for another woman. There are probably many women who would like a man who leaves decisions to them. All you need to say is that you feel you are not compatible and leave it at that. You have spoken only for a few weeks, you are not in a long-standing relationship where you would owe your partner an explanation as to why you want to end it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 09:21 PM
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I have never been asked what my body count is and I would have questioned if I want to date a man who needs to know that. The only thing that matters to my husband and me, is that since we met, we both had a body count of 1.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 07:21 PM
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You don’t need to go back in time to not be with him. You can break up now, if you want.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 02:22 PM
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If a man I was seeing for three months wasn’t sure if he wants to be in a relationship with me, I would take that as a NO. My husband proposed one month after our first date. While not everybody has to move that fast, I firmly believe that most people know pretty quickly if they want to be in a serious relationship. There is nothing wrong with dating casually as long as that is what both partners want. To me it looks as if the man you are dating likes you enough to continue seeing you, but not e…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 05:56 PM
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I like men with broad shoulders. Overly muscular (bodybuilder type) isn’t something that I find attractive. Having a six pack is not anything that I find necessary. I find big bellies unattractive and am more drawn to slim men.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/23 04:26 PM
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The reason he did not pick one of the sexier dresses, is because you will meet his family. A sexy dress for date night is one thing, but when you meet the parents, you want to look nice, not sexy. It’s a good thing!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 05:09 PM
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“ But idk will I ever find a guy who will do so much to sleep with me. And I didn’t sleep with him.” Do so much to sleep with you? What kind of low bar is this? You can fly across the country for a few hundred $ and renting a car isn’t out of most people’s budget either. He didn’t move heaven and earth to come see you. He broke up with you ”because he wasn’t feeling it” . There is your answer. Sometimes a person can look good on paper and when you meet in person, there is no chemistry. It happen…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 11:42 AM
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Then go ahead and tell him that. It doesn’t sound as if he is a rich man if he has to save in order to pay for your move. Are you sure you want to add to his financial burden by asking for luxuries, rather than necessities?
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/23 07:53 PM
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I don’t think there is a good way to tell a man that your sex life is going to be better if he pays for expensive skincare. That implies that your sexual relationship isn’t great to start with. Your sex life should be good because you are in love with each other/ are strongly attracted to each other, not because of what he can buy for you. What is next? Honey, I think a Lamborghini would really improve sex?
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/23 05:43 PM
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Wouldn’t the card owner have to sign for the charge, or is boyfriend going to forge the signature and sign as Emma Jones? In any case, I think it would be silly. I see absolutely no reason to pretend that the man is paying. Nobody cares, or have you ever been in a restaurant and a) noticed who paid at the neighboring table and b) thought it is strange that the woman pays? I certainly have not.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/23 06:59 PM
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My husband proposed to me exactly one month after our first date. So, it can be very quick. It probably depends a lot on circumstances.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 03:03 PM
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Mined diamonds are actually not rare. Lab grown diamonds are real diamonds, they have the exact same chemical and physical properties as mined diamonds. The only difference is one was grown in the earth and the other in a lab. My engagement ring is mined diamonds and has a 2.5 carat center stone with round brilliants and baguettes all around the shaft. It’s big and wide and very much a late 90’s style. I am currently looking into getting another, more modern ring and am looking at lab diamonds. …
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/23 10:30 PM
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It is typical for an abuser to blame the victim. This will not get better, it will get worse. Do not waste years trying to fix your marriage. You can not fix this. He is abusing you and it is not your fault, no matter what he says. Leave now, go home and get your life back on track.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 02:29 PM
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If a man needs proof that you are a virgin, he is not worth being in a relationship with. Many virgins do not bleed the first time they have intercourse. Some women damage their hymen during sports, some have very small hymen that simply don’t tear the first time. “Virgins bleed” is a myth that was debunked decades ago.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 05:34 PM
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I just realized that I deleted my comment. I meant to edit. Ah well, that is what happens when multitasking.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/23 11:40 PM
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If you feel that your face looks slutty because you had too much lip filler, you can get the filler dissolved. In any case, forget about that guy, he was beyond rude.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 10:33 AM
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Red Pill guys like to pretend that men get better looking with age. A look around in real life shows that this is not the case. Around age 30, testosterone levels start declining in men. Both men and women are in their physical prime from their mid-20s to mid-30s and no amount of wishful thinking changes that. While Andropause doesn’t hit men as suddenly as Menopause affects women, men go through hormonal changes as they age as well. Evening TV programs are filled with commercials for Viagra, Ci…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:12 PM
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If you had “many conversations about marriage and kids etc“ during your first four dates, that may have been too much for him. Even for a traditionally minded man, it is a lot to tell him that you want children, stay at home and expect him to provide for you, without having an established relationship. That is a big responsibility to put on somebody you just met. It is very likely making him feel that you are not interested in him as person, but only in what he can do for you. Big turn-off As a …
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/23 01:48 PM
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If you feel overwhelmed by your choice of future career, you should talk to a trusted instructor/ student counselor about it. Honestly, your boyfriend should not be the deciding factor if that particular career is right for you. There are many other jobs that you could do and he could be proud of you. When you say “dancer”, do you mean stripper? If so and he doesn’t have a problem with that, I would assume that he doesn’t care much what you do for a living.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 04:00 PM
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You can not lose 30-40 Kilo by December 2023. It’s impossible even if you keep a super strict diet. Sorry. When you start a strict weight loss program, you might lose up to 2 Kg per week for a couple of weeks. That is mostly water-weight and that rate of weight loss will not last. After that, you can lose approximately 1Kilo per week and even that will not be the case every single week. Even with a very strict diet and exercise program, you have to count on it taking close to a year to lose 40 k…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/23 05:49 PM
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Then tell that to your boyfriend. Tell him you had a stressful day and that you are sorry that you let it out on the waitress. These situation will come up occasionally. I am a native German speaker and my husband doesn’t speak or understand more than 10 words. Sometimes somebody speaks German to me in my husband’s presence and he just waits till we are done. I do try to make it as short as possible without being rude. You say that you also had other waitstaff. That sounds as if that waitress wa…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 10:29 PM
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It depends. The sad truth is that half of all marriages end in divorce. Another sad truth is, that in many, many cases the man will financially recover fairly quickly and the woman will take a a significant loss of income. That loss of income is usually because she was either stay at home, or only worked part-time. Do you have a career/skill set where you could easily enter the work force again after many years of not being employed? Does your career/skills enable you to live comfortably if you …
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 10:46 PM
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In my opinion, the only thing that you can do is letting him know that you are single. If he is as crazy about you as you think and you are as great of a catch as you say, he will reach out to you. If he doesn’t reach out to you, you will have to accept that he has moved on.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 06:19 PM
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You left a good man for an alcoholic who can’t hold a job and had a child with the alcoholic. That doesn’t make you appear in a good light. If the HVM has any sense, he will see that too. Your ex-boyfriend may have been crazy about you, but that was before you left him for a loser. I would think that the fact that you left him for an unemployed alcoholic changed his view about you. Now that the ex boyfriend has a high income, it may not matter if the girlfriend is a good homemaker. I’ve had hous…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 03:56 PM
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Since you were together things have changed. You left him for another man and had a child. Why should he take you back now? You are not the only woman who can make him happy, maybe he is happier with his current girlfriend than he was with you. Move on, don’t try to break up his relationship. You are most likely wasting your time and going to look foolish.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 03:24 PM
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Did I say that I admire those women? They are examples given because they are well known. The women who I know and admire in real life are not celebrities and therefore not the best choice to be named on a public forum.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 03:59 PM
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You were only 19 when you got into that relationship. Nobody is going to wonder why it didn’t last. Early 20s are still a time of developing and changing personality and values. You still have many years ahead of you to get married and start a family. Due to education and careers, more and more women have children later without problems. Turning 30 is not some magic point where your fertility and desirability suddenly disappear. Look at women who you admire and see if any of them got married and…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 12:54 PM
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Sarah Flint and Marion Parke are my favorite brands - beautiful and comfortable.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 12:23 AM
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My husband and I both dated quite a bit before me met. In April my husband told his extended family at a party that marriage is not for him. In May we met and had our first date, in July he proposed and in August we got married. That was over 20 years ago. We just knew it was right and it still is. Obviously we didn’t have time to plan a big, fancy wedding and looking back, I am glad I didn't have to stress out over planning a wedding.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/23 01:00 AM
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I’ve been married for over 20 years. We are still going strong and there is nobody else I would rather be with. I think attraction is paramount and I don’t mean just physical attraction, you must be drawn to the man you intend to spend the rest of your life with and you should want to spend time together. I dated a couple of guys who were better looking than my husband, were taller (I’m 5’10” so tall is kind of important), more muscular, richer… When we met, my husband was still in medical schoo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/23 02:43 AM
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You say that he is currently having a lot of stress. It is possible that, because he is under a lot of stress, he is simply not in the mood for your playfulness and that it annoys him more than it amuses him. Playfulness asks for a response and he may not be in the right frame of mind to respond to you in that way. That doesn’t mean that he is falling out of love, he just needs something else from you at this time. He may simply need you to allow him to deal with his issues without demanding he …
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 12:11 PM
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