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No, I just recently discovered Soporno. It may be armchair theory, but its theory from a highly respected dating and relationship expert. I thought it worth sharing and very much on topic.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 03:37 AM
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Thanks. See my comment to u/JoOwZ above.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 02:13 PM
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True, but when she goes to order the 2nd, you stop the waiter and tell her, "listen, just before you take this, I'm happy to provide another drink, but I'd like you to know that accepting a second drink implies consent. The girl says "WHAT?" No, no, its not what you think. We are having a great time and if things go the way we both hope they will, we are going to end up together, but I know that after you have a 2nd drink, you can no longer be said to be able to make consent decisions, so I just…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 02:13 PM
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Is she "THE ONE?!?!?"
/r/askTRP12/08/17 11:12 PM
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There is a huge difference in sensation. But yes, ALWAYS wear a condom for the foreseeable future. There is absolutely nothing in your story so far that would indicate any kind of problem. If it happens again, just focus on pounding away on her till her eyes roll back in her head and she can't utter a rational thought. She'll tell all her friends that you are a monster sex god!
/r/askTRP12/08/17 09:37 PM
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Anyone want to reply instead of just downvoting?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 07:35 PM
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Johnny Soporno says it's okay to buy drinks as long as you explain before the 2nd drink that her accepting the 2nd drink equals her consent.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 04:43 PM
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Is this the same woman who you were calling "your wife" a month ago? What's the deal here? https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/64aj3q/wife_turns_very_dramatic_at_the_drop_of_a_hat/
/r/askMRP27/05/17 11:12 PM
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You aren't going on the trip, right?!?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 04:00 PM
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Sounds like the right choice. It would only get worse from there. Do it be "relationship free."
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:48 PM
2

man-in-the-world already gave you this answer: "I have decided to improve my productivity at work by eliminating interruptions such as texts and phone calls." Is there something wrong with this answer?
/r/askMRP29/04/17 05:24 PM
2

With the waiter: "What's the deal with "chief" and "boss?" Is that just something you call everybody . . . or do I seem extra boss-like?" Delivered in a purely inquisitive manner. There's 0% chance he will answer that he was trying to subtly put you in his frame to deal with some specific emotional issue he is having in his life. He will just say "yeah, that's what I call everyone" or something similar, even if he was trying to AMOG you. Result: you confirmed yourself as AMOG, defuse his bs emot…
/r/askMRP29/04/17 05:12 PM
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Have you gone Redpill Rambo? Is this a comfort test?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/17 02:56 PM
3

Face & ass 40s Red Pill Middle class
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 02:03 AM
1

I think this stuff works better if she doesn't know about it. Lifting back the curtain can ruin red pill if she isn't highly converted already.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 04:46 PM
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And no, don't cancel the event. You need these kinds of challenges to eventually get to your goal. Have a basic plan to lead conversations a bit more than you normally do, to bust balls in a fun manner, befriend this guy, and not get upset about anything.
/r/askMRP09/01/17 03:51 PM
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Would you like to become a concert pianist by next week too? No one is giving you a satisfactory straight answer here because you are asking the impossible. Being AMOG isn't something you can become in a week after getting a few tips. This event seems like an emergency to you. The next one will as well. Then the one after that. If you are focusing on the upcoming emergency and looking for tips on how to handle each one as it comes, you won't be playing the long game. Playing the long game once w…
/r/askMRP09/01/17 03:48 PM
1

Seems like a decent enough bloke despite the fact he's been making eyes at my woman (loads of men do) By this do you mean he's just "looking at" her, or do you mean he's making sexy looks at her. Its a huge difference and they way you phrased it makes it sound like he's overtly flirting with her.
/r/askMRP08/01/17 04:46 PM
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"do not ever lock me out of my room. If you dont want to see me, go sleep somewhere else". She cowered in fear and called me a psychopath, of course. Now I'm sitting on the couch Is she sleeping in the bed and you are on the couch after this commandment from you? How did that happen? That's the far more interesting part of the story.
/r/askMRP02/01/17 07:07 AM
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my plan now is to basically refuse all sex (she seems to want it more than me now) until she gives a BJ. Bad idea. You'll come across to her as a pouting, shallow crybaby. Extremely non-arousing!
/r/askMRP22/12/16 05:55 PM
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If Brad Pitt shoved his cock in her face, I'd bet she'd swallow it down like tequila shots at Cabo on spring break. Her husband probably isn't sexy enough for that yet. Nearly all (all?) women like dominance, so its good that he is upping that, but being dominant alone isn't enough. 95% of the guys who post on here and TRP need to be told to lift, read, and hold frame, so it makes sense that the advice gets repetitive.
/r/askMRP22/12/16 03:54 PM
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It sounds to me that she isn't attracted to you enough to be aroused for that. Slow down, lift, pass shit tests, and learn to lead more outside the bedroom. Slowly get back to ramping up the sexual dominance. It can be a long road.
/r/askMRP22/12/16 05:52 AM
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Have you read BluePillProfessors book, "Saving a Low Sex Marriage?" You simply must read and follow the book to the letter. It is designed for exactly your situation.
/r/askMRP20/12/16 03:23 AM
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It may seem that way but its mainly because most of us have been indoctrinated to act against our own best interests. It used to be that alpha men just did what came naturally, which is to act in red pill ways toward women. These days, the small percentage of men who aren't indoctrinated still act that way. But the majority of us who were taught to be "nice guys" have to put in work to overcome this indoctrination. So it may appear to be "robotic" or "scripted" or something, but that's just beca…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 06:23 PM
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Its not anxiety or panic, its excitement, passion, and desire. My beliefs don't come from an article or from others' research. Its from my life and the lives of people around me. I could be wrong, but the large majority of the evidence I've seen in my personal life lead to me believe the tenets of red pill philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 06:17 PM
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Experience has shown that a woman is more likely to have strong feelings toward a man who behaves like this than a man who puts her on a pedestal. So, yes, she might move on, but the odds are with a man who plays it cool.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 04:15 PM
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I'm not trying to change your mind, I just learn from interacting with people. I most definitely do not see women as a game and I understand that every person is complex and beautiful, I just try to see the world for how it really is rather than believe fairy tales. Generalizations about different peoples' behavior are very valuable given our limited time on earth and limits to our understanding. Ignore it at your peril. I know some things about how men and women's minds work differently. Wouldn…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 04:11 PM
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On top of that some woman may get it in their head that they can be sexy and a guy will do what they want. Unfortunately they are right much of the time. Guys will do what sexy women want. She will feel good about it for a while, maybe long enough for them to get married. Then the woman will lose interest in him and they will settle into a few decades of blasé existence, never knowing why it didn't work out the way they both hoped. Why would you feel sorry for the red pillers? They are the ones …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 03:42 AM
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Okay, then you've got a chance.
/r/askMRP17/12/16 02:27 AM
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I'm afraid it'll get worse as time goes on. Understand this: the large majority (almost all) of women will gain weight as they age. What body type does her mother have?
/r/askMRP17/12/16 01:56 AM
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Ah, the romantic in me is slowwwly dying "Romance, like the rabbit at the dog track, is the elusive, fake, and never attained reward which, for the benefit and amusement of our masters, keeps us running and thinking in safe circles." Romanticism, farewell! And 'The One'ism, adieu! Give me the love songs of ages past! Give me Don Juan! Give me Madame Venus! Give me elopement by ladder and rope on a moonlight night! Let the neighbors stare and adore, for their lives are measured by propriety and y…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 01:41 AM
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I respect your consistency. Have you read "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi? That book, more than any other, will let you know why we think the way we do.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 07:46 PM
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Glad I gave you a laugh. I was just testing if you apply the same standards to men and women, and with your statement, "These women do deserve to be punched in the face" you clearly do. Great.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 07:13 PM
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He knows this girls past, he knows her weaknesses, and he's pushing for his agenda at her expense. Is it selfish and exploitative if a woman makes herself attractive to a man to get him to behave in ways she wants? Do women sometimes find and exploit a man's weakness to get what she wants out of him?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 06:39 PM
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I hear ya. I'm jealous of anyone who found these truths while still young. I think of the life I could have had . . . but then I snap myself out of it because I still have a decade or so to crush it.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 04:37 PM
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After reading, I thought, "Hey, where are the examples of how he treats her badly?" Then I realized you might have meant the things like holding back and not letting her stay the night. Is that right? If so, that isn't really treating her badly - its just normal, proper male/female interaction.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 04:29 PM
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"Dread" isn't a threat. It sounds like you haven't read Bluepillprofessor's book, "Saving a Low Sex Marriage." If not, I strongly suggest that be the very next thing you do.
/r/askMRP16/12/16 04:21 PM
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I totally agree with you. I feel like its better to respond to people in ways they are ready to hear. In his world, currently, he won't leave her because of the kids, so I'm talking to him as if that is the case. He can still work the dread game and make progress even within the mindset of being with her forever.
/r/askMRP16/12/16 06:45 AM
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So the contract was, "as long as I stay fitter than her, she'll fuck me and be a good wife." Got it, thanks.
/r/askMRP15/12/16 08:45 PM
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I know that, but I'm just taking him at face value when he says doesn't believe I'm prepared to drop it all and leave right now (which to be fair, is true, because of the kids.)
/r/askMRP15/12/16 07:36 PM
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she was in worse shape than me (covert contract) That's not a covert contract, its just more hamstering.
/r/askMRP15/12/16 07:35 PM
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Ok, so that's worst case scenario. You'll survive and then be able to meet/fuck other girls.
/r/askMRP15/12/16 06:19 PM
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What would you do if she broke up with you?
/r/askMRP15/12/16 06:06 PM
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You are breaking it by trying to fix it. I know it seems backwards, but understand - all your ideas about how to help your wife/girlfriend are exactly backwards.
/r/askMRP15/12/16 06:04 PM
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Sounds like she needs a little healthy dread. You won't leave her because of the kids, but she doesn't need to know that. Have you read Bluepillprofessor's book? Which level are you on? Have you started flirting with women in front of her yet? Also, shit tests won't stop, even when she knows her SMV is far lower than yours. Its biological. Her shit testing you in no way means that she thinks she is the prize.
/r/askMRP15/12/16 05:56 PM
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If you buy what she wants, she'll know that she still controls your behavior despite all your silly lifting.
/r/askMRP14/12/16 11:10 PM
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Great comment! I really had an "ah-ha moment" when I read the part about the hamster stopping and then turning the other way around. She starts by hamstering, "I won't let this guy fuck me tonight, and here are all the reasons why..." And then, if you play your cards right, the hamster reverses to, "well, maybe its okay. Here are the reasons its okay to fuck him right now... it just feels so right, he's not some sleazy guy pushing me into it . . . etc"
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 08:37 PM
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So you have made some progress and continue to do so. Great. Have you done so much that you deserve sex everyday? When you become more attractive to her, she will change her tune. Don't take her seriously that she will never want sex every day. She is saying that based on how you arouse her now. She will not take any kind of future improvement into account, nor should she.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 07:17 PM
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The only advice you need: buy and follow Bluepill Prof's book "Saving a Low Sex Marriage" to the letter. Do not skip any steps or get creative in any way.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 08:12 AM
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Some relationships aren't worth saving. Do you truly believe this one is? You don't have any responsibility to cure anyone elses' sexual dysfunction.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 02:51 AM
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I'd guess this woman has never had an orgasm.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 02:47 AM
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I put in the work, all the shebang. You put in all the work but you are still losing your cool and trying to negotiate sex? Sounds to me that you have a lot of work left to do. Maybe you only deserve sex 3 times per week.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 02:35 AM
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"Great, you get to mow the lawn, fix that trim around the window, and change the tire on the car this weekend instead of me."
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/16 02:10 AM
3

I'd strongly advise you to never brush off a comment from BPP.
/r/askMRP12/12/16 03:59 AM
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Are you going step by step through the 12 levels of dread? What level are you on? Do you want to save the marriage for the kids' sake? It seems like you are ready for divorce, which is nearly certainly the best option. You could dread-game her into more sex, but you can't make her become a fantastic person. She likely doesn't have enough redeeming qualities to keep around. Are you working on pick up? Collecting numbers?
/r/askMRP12/12/16 03:55 AM
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I suspect because part of me is in her frame. That is, I am still afraid of her being mad. If you are still afraid of her being mad, then ALL of you is in her frame. Why are you afraid? What power does she have over you and why do you choose to give that power to her?
/r/askMRP12/12/16 03:16 AM
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we've paid off the mortgage Are you on the deed?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/16 03:10 AM
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well if only you could find one who would settle for a single mom with a mortgage This is alright but shows you were ruffled. Shows you care. I disagree - this is the right reply for him. The first time he used it it shut her up. He should use this every single time she makes this kind of comment about other men. Every single time.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/16 03:08 AM
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Women don't "love" men. They love the way a man makes them feel. Women love their children unconditionally, but they "love" their men as long as they feel it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/16 02:55 AM
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Okay, good luck.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/16 02:44 AM
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Most of my friends are fairly attractive, and whenever we went to parties all the girls would be really interested in them Its the confidence, not the looks.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/16 03:56 PM
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She doesn't deserve cuddles. She has to earn your cuddles. She needs some caveman sex first.
/r/askMRP25/10/16 05:13 PM
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Look at your wife deeply in her eyes and think of how you could have done nasty, dirty things with that young, hot girl. Smile a mischievous grin while you stare unwaveringly at her. She'll get the message.
/r/askMRP25/10/16 05:09 PM
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You are actually NOT the prize right now. If you were, she wouldn't have these feelz for this other guy. You have to convince yourself that you are the prize so that you can someday be the prize. You haven't done enough work on yourself yet.
/r/askMRP25/10/16 04:38 PM
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I have had 3 long term relationships in my life and they all end the same way. That is because you were the same blue pill dude in all 3 of those situations. You have to change, then your relationships can change. Focus on yourself. Lift and read.
/r/askMRP25/10/16 04:36 PM
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You have a lot of work to do on yourself. You are trying to fix a problem without the tools needed to get the job done. It sounds like leaving her would be a good move, since there is a ton of baggage in this relationship and no kids to complicate things. You have to fix you, not the relationship.
/r/askMRP25/10/16 04:34 PM
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Is it mate guarding to tell your LTR that she can't have an affair or you are done? Is there a difference between emotional and sexual affairs in this regard? Does outcome independence include not caring if your LTR is fucking or true-loving another guy? Sure doesn't seem like it to me. It seems like a reasonable and honest thing to do. If AWALT, anyone could fall victim to a hypergamous LTR, and why wouldn't you say if you follow through with that, then you are no longer acceptable to me?
/r/askMRP22/10/16 04:40 PM
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You have a LOT of work to do on yourself. Read more, lift more, MAP more. Do you have a written out MAP? This one will likely get away from you. Consider the rest of this relationship as practice being assertive and masculine. If you salvage the relationship, fine, but you have to NGAF and act accordingly.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 03:34 PM
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Why would you hate to think that? Those are the normal things any man must do to be a valuable person. The only alternative would be to expect a high SMV woman to just fall in love and stay in love with a low SMV man for no apparent reason. Pook says there is nothing wrong with having high standards but to have high standards for women, you must apply those same high standards to yourself.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 07:28 AM
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Instead men have to jump through a whole bunch of hoops - providing, game, fitness, managing shit tests It sounds like you are characterizing self-improvement as some kind of chore you really would rather not do. Is that correct or am I misinterpreting you?
/r/askMRP19/10/16 05:14 PM
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What gives you the impression that he is sticking out his bottom lip and pouting? Or acting like a jerk for that matter?
/r/askMRP15/10/16 06:47 PM
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Is your s.o. aware of redpill? What has he read, and does he lift?
/r/askMRP13/10/16 07:27 AM
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Are you afraid she'll say no? No, its because women talk, men act. But it sounds like you are aware of and moving through the dread levels, so its all good. My wife and I just had a "conversation" that would have been a "fight" last year. From the work I have done here, I can now defuse her bad feelz and turn it into an interaction that actually increases her attraction to me rather than blowing up into "fights." Its incredible the change this strategy makes!
/r/askMRP10/10/16 11:26 PM
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You may have caused the fight by telling her your plans. Don't tell her your plans - just make the changes.
/r/askMRP10/10/16 04:57 AM
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Unless I misunderstand, dread level 3 isn't where you begin withdrawing your time, attention, presence, and affection is reaction to her bad behavior. That's level 4. Level 3 is just you getting some friends and hobbies that give you fun things to do outside the house.
/r/askMRP08/10/16 12:41 AM
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This is an extremely important insight! Everyone read and understand this!
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 06:37 PM
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Sex God Method She needs some hard caveman pounding - on her next ovulation day. Are you tracking her?
/r/askMRP07/10/16 02:31 AM
2

Its telling about our ridiculous feminized world that you stating things calmly but firmly could be seen as "calling her out." The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off.
/r/askMRP04/10/16 05:40 PM
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RPT at its core is about validation from others. Do you still hold this to be true?
/r/askMRP04/10/16 05:35 PM
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Keep improving yourself. You aren't attractive enough to her yet to correct her in front of others without her getting upset. When you are attractive enough to her, she won't get butthurt over things like this.
/r/askMRP04/10/16 05:07 PM
1

I was taught all my life that the way to have a good relationship with a woman was to be nice and sweet to her, buy her stuff, and have long intimate conversations about our feelz. Then I discovered red pill. RPT showed me that everything I was taught is backwards. I now know that those behaviors are extremely UNattractive to women. Armed with this knowledge, I consciously have changed the way I relate to my wife and others. I’m behaving in ways that make me more attractive to others. Am I doing…
/r/askMRP04/10/16 04:25 PM
1

Think of yourself on your deathbed. You are looking back on your life knowing you'll never get out of this bed again. Will you think, "Yeah, that was great how impressed those people were of me."?
/r/askMRP04/10/16 04:10 PM
1

Are you improving yourself as much as you can at the moment? It sounds like you are doing better with shit tests and you mentioned the gym. Hopefully that means you are already showing some improvements that she can see. You know that you fucked up asking her if she wanted to talk. When she cries and screams, up the pressure by calmly stating that when she can talk like an adult, you'll be happy to talk more, then go do something fun. She is really uncomfortable with the changes you are making a…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/16 03:47 PM
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What I mean is let it go for now - he has no proof, just hunches and feelings. He could put all his energy into digging into this or improve himself. It doesn't sound like he will be able to do both. It can be looked into later if needed.
/r/askMRP04/10/16 05:47 AM
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I don't understand...why are you not ready to swallow the pill? Is it because it seems like you then won't be able to blame other people for the bad things that happen in your life? Is it important to you to hold on to that?
/r/askMRP03/10/16 05:59 AM
2

Is there any possibility of forcing the issue and getting her to admit infidelity or is she too scared of losing her meal ticket? Wrong approach. Fix you, not her. Let the possible infidelity go. The only answer is becoming a fucking stud that she can't live without. Read those books asap and start lifting.
/r/askMRP03/10/16 05:53 AM
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she won't listen to logic about 50/50 on household duties/parenting. Women don't listen to logic. She just doesn't feel like doing those duties. You trying to use logic to explain to her why she should do those duties are why she doesn't want to do those duties.
/r/askMRP03/10/16 05:48 AM
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"Super subtle clues" like you actually being butthurt?
/r/askMRP02/10/16 07:45 AM
2

Oh, I'm sure there are a bunch of us here!
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 02:13 AM
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Uh oh... Don't think that you can change her fundamental behavior, no matter how alpha you get. Was she a hard-working badass before she met you and for the first bit of your relationship, only to start this behavior recently? If not, there's no reason to think you'll be able to turn her around. You can get her to screw you though.
/r/askMRP30/09/16 12:45 AM
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You are going down the wrong path. Backwards, actually. Read, lift, and improve yourself. She may actually WANT to fuck you someday. Keep this up and she never will.
/r/askMRP30/09/16 12:32 AM
1

No, that is not actually a tenet of mine. But really, we don't need to get into an philosophical debate on anarchism here. I'm just pointing out that feeling like you aren't able to protect yourself and wanting to outsource it to others is quite beta and reflects a need to do more sidebar reading.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 11:48 PM
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"Allowed to see" your brother again...? How old is your half-brother? She could only keep him from you until he's 18, and even that would be difficult/impossible. You don't have to have a relationship with this psycho, but like the others are saying, you need to find out the official legal ownership of that house regardless of if you want it.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 08:30 PM
1

Only governments can provide protection? Are you sure? How do you know this?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 08:16 PM
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Your unstated premise is that only violent monopolies can defend an area. Why are you so sure of this?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 08:05 PM
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You need daddy govt to make you feel safe? You need to do more sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 05:14 PM
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At this point telling the wife that I want to hit dinner with them and that the other wife and I have been texting may be awkward. Only if you are awkward about this. I can't tell if I'm being my normal self or being weirdly secretive. Ahhh, you are awkward about this. What do you see as the negative outcome of telling your wife you are texting her and want to get together?
/r/askMRP29/09/16 01:33 AM
5

Oh, but get a cycle tracker app - you don't want to have to dig through the trash to find out how to reply.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/16 02:25 AM
4

Sounds like you done good, sir. The right mix of alpha and oak.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/16 02:22 AM
0

Improve yourself, for yourself. Be happy with your improvements. If she stays with you, fine. If she doesn't, fine. Commence plate spinning.
/r/askMRP22/09/16 07:01 PM
2

Do you want children with this person? You said she wants children but didn't say you want them. I suspect you don't really want to stay in the relationship but are too scared to end it.
/r/askMRP20/09/16 06:25 AM
2

Sounds like you need new friends!
/r/askMRP26/08/16 04:30 PM
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