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It’s fun in moderation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:36 AM
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Too much prejudice and vitriol. I also tend to spend all day on the sub when I on it, which isn’t healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:31 AM
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Nah, I’m not going back to the psych ward
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:30 AM
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This community really isn’t for me ngl I think I’m dipping, night ✊
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:27 AM
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I don’t know you well enough to answer that question 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:24 AM
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I get what you were saying, but we were talking about how women apparently bring upon their own struggles on the trades. I’m not trying to participate in a dick measuring oppression contest, it’s pathetic. I’m getting fed up with this place lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:18 AM
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Pretty much, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 03:52 AM
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Just using the same logic on you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 03:45 AM
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Maybe you ain’t straight then buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 03:18 AM
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Strange. My crushes have all been feminine women. My gf is particularly femme. That’s a lie, btw. Most of our crushes are femme.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 03:18 AM
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Because birth rate is all you need to be successful. Also lol at the “feminist countries” and “patriarchal countries”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:36 AM
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I remember this stat! 98% of heterosexual women have had male-only perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:19 AM
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Go ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:04 AM
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Attacking all of my fashion choices, buddy? That’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:36 AM
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I wear t shirts on the daily so I would strongly disagree Let mfs wear what they want, it’s not about looking good Some people just want a physical manifestation of their interests
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:34 AM
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That is very unfair might I say but it doesn’t have anything to do with what we were talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:28 AM
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Sad read
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:20 AM
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I wouldn’t say the latter statement is correct. I also mentioned that, it was my first sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:16 AM
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Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:16 AM
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Im an autistic lesbian and I still found a woman. It’s harder for us to find mates. Although women have high standards, it’s not like what you are describing. But go on. Anyway, I’m saying SOME MEN, a small subset might feel this way. Not all men, not most men, not you, not the guy next to me, some men. Some people are just like that. Men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:16 AM
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That has nothing to do with what I was saying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:13 AM
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sounds like this bit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:09 AM
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My parents were heavily conservative and I’m fairly liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:08 AM
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Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:02 AM
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My N count is 1 and I don’t really care
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:01 AM
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I need actual examples
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:52 AM
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If you couldn’t tell,I’m joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:52 AM
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I’ve been taking up the guitar to hobbymax for my gf lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:50 AM
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I get that. The men I work with are so unprofessional that I wish that they could just be cut off from my line of work like women are from the trades. I think it would be a very beneficial idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:49 AM
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No, people cannot beat a woman gay, nor can they beat a woman straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:47 AM
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Holy shit dude. I have been saying this forever. I have had this claim flung at me over and over again. Thank you for finally refuting it. ✊✊✊✊
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:45 AM
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I don’t, but the women I’ve dated to. It really depends on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:43 AM
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Where do feminists send men to the slaughter? Also men can be feminists as well lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:42 AM
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I’ve seen them put forth fundraisers to get others out of oppressive countries. They’re not just sitting on their ass, you know. They also launch humanitarian efforts and help escort people on dire situations. Feminists exist im those countries and it is patronizing to think otherwise. It isn’t solely the job of western feminists to assess this, but they do try what they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:41 AM
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I think those who complain about women subreddit has a very hostile demeanor towards women. You can make a statement and make it clear that it only applies to a small subset of men, and they will act as if you are accusing all men ever of thinking one way or another. Then when people make extremely general and demeaning statements about women, they agree and even validate each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:28 AM
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I never said men didn’t experience issues like that. This wasn’t even about men, mate. I have no clue what you’re on about. Of course men face discrimination. I was never in denial about that. I have talked about the issues men face already.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:21 AM
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Thank you for being so respectful towards me. You sound completely unbiased and not hateful at all. They might be educated, it does not necessarily mean they are exposed to feminist ideals in a meaningful way or that they are free to openly embrace feminist principles without facing social or legal repercussions. “The Saudi state’s desire to strengthen its authoritarian grip on society is an internal political issue. As a result, the Saudi state does not support the feminist campaign: if women h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:18 AM
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News flash, humans aren’t monkeys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:03 AM
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Men aren’t only good for money, mate. That reduces men to only the romantic roles they can play in straight women’s lives. People just want autonomy, it’s not about men or taking things from them. Also, im not even into men and I want a career. It has nothing to do with a man at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:02 AM
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I mean, in countries where dissent is met with complete repression or retaliatory violence, women will very likely hesitate to openly identify as feminists or engage in feminist activism due to fear of repercussions. There’s also the matter of education. Lack of access to education or information about feminist principles and goals contribute heavily to misconceptions or resistance to feminism among women in these countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:55 PM
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Most women don’t say kill all men, and the ones who do should receive considerable reprimand. Women aren’t a monolithic group. One woman can say kill all men, another can be disturbed that they are seen as objects. It’s not just to say “kill all men” and it’s not just to reduce women to objects. I think this individuals statement more so is indicative of outgroup homogeneity bias than it is of Women’s nature. The majority of women do not express such views, and reducing their perspectives to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:53 PM
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If it were that simple, don’t you think someone would have tired already?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:41 PM
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There is rampant sexism in the trades. I applied for a few jobs in those areas and I was twice told that they don’t hire women/females.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:39 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:37 PM
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It’s much trouble even finding queer women. Nearly every woman I’ve crushed on has acted as if it would be disgusting to be with me just because I’m gay. It hurts. Some of them lead me on, make me feel like they like me, but they don’t. It’s a very confusing game to me because I don’t know what’s a hint and what isn’t. I don’t know how to play the game, as an autistic person. I actually gained an attraction for the mean girl type because they were the only women who would really show clear inves…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:29 PM
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You do realize that that character was depicted as a shitty person? Like the point of the character he’d played was that he was a miserable misanthrope
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:10 PM
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Bro, respectfully, that is a prejudiced way of thinking to imply that. His wording indicates a state of emotions that override reality, he has very hateful and vengeful wording. the absence of male attention may not be overtly harmful, the desire for them to regret their complaints carries an undercurrent of retribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:06 PM
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I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:43 PM
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News flash, bad people exist. This isn’t indicative that all or most men are like this, but some men genuine hate women and want them to suffer, that’s just the reality of it. I wouldn’t defend him if I were you tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:41 PM
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That’s the implication of what’s being said. The person clearly wants women to suffer a consequence, that’s the very clear implication. The core of the scenario is the idea that women who complain about male attention should experience the opposite. They even derive pleasure (“satisfying”) from seeing discomfort or regret that the women feel. That’s pretty much a hallmark revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:35 PM
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someone literally just admitted to that lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:58 PM
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It’s not about all or most men, it’s about specific people who just want to see others suffer because they do. It’s not exclusive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:56 PM
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It’s not really, I think it’s an average representation of what feminists are. I can guarantee you that average feminist doesn’t think all men are rapists or get behind the whole “kill all men” bs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:45 PM
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here’s a similar thread
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:27 PM
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Yes, but they’d probably be mad that you would insinuate that they think that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:26 PM
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I give one bad study and suddenly I’m scientifically illiterate Fuck you, I’m going to prove your ass wrong. You just motivated me to try to become better than you could ever be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:23 PM
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They don’t say that in feminist spaces Source, I engage in them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:22 PM
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For some men it is, for others it isn’t. And I had said “some men” for that very reason, because it is few.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:13 PM
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So you regularly involve yourself in feminists spaces? Because I’ve heard plenty of hate-filled, dehumanizing comments from misogynists who happen to be men.. that we deserve to die, that we have lizard brains, that we are shallow and superficial, that we are incapable of feeling emotions a like men can, that the worst thing that’s ever happened to society is our attainment of rights, that men don’t rape women and the entire issue is a scam for lies and attention (apparently it’s every women’s f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:12 PM
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If a man visits ONLY prostitutes and refuses to date women and ONLY uses sex toys and refuses to date women Then yes, he is a misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:48 PM
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Reread the post title.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:48 PM
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I’m a feminist but have never identified with this ideology. I think you are confusing misandrists or extreme, self proclaimed feminists yet not true feminists with actual feminists. I engage in feminist discourse quite often and am involved in feminist spaces yet have never heard these takes once, save for the “every man is a polite risk rapist” It sounds more in line, but the reverse of, what I regularly hear from misogynists online. So no, that is not “typical feminist stuff”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:46 PM
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If they were exploiting women who they knew were sex trafficked then it would signify reduced empathy and contempt, but not full on hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:41 PM
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It depends on intent, I don’t think it’s a binary designation of hatred in any regard. Some might, some might not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:36 PM
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When I watch porn I’m not looking to replace my gf, no, so I’d assume it’s the same for men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:32 PM
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Wow, you actually read my source? That’s a new one. No one’s done that prior. Thanks for giving it the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:26 PM
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It indeed is what it is, what might have you heard from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:13 PM
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Dating apps should be condemned in general because their model is inherently exploitative towards men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:13 PM
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No, but if a man replaces women with that then likely. I am not saying it’s because men hate women. I have literally just relayed that most men don’t think this way, and provided an earlier link that says misogynistic individuals, not men, are more likely to be robosexual. So it’s not that men hate women, it’s that misogynistic individuals do. POD also doesn’t represent the majority of how men feel. Thats misandry to assume so in itself with the very uninformed and scathing takes presented on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:11 PM
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Did you make this statement because that’s how you feel? So you’re assuming others have your same perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:08 PM
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It’s not “the majority of men,” it’s actually been proven that men who are more likely to want sex robots are more likely to be misogynistic https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/02654075241234377
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:01 PM
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Bro you say worse shit than I’ve ever heard a feminist say
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:58 PM
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I don’t really care to be proven right, so be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:50 PM
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From what I’ve seen if a woman fails, it’s because she’s a woman, and women are incompetent, so it’s expected. This isn't my view but how society sees us
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:50 PM
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Women more commonly get sexual comments irl and online. I can’t tell you how many creepy or raped DMs I’ve gotten over the years, as well as disgusting sexual comments. Women report that they experience sexual remarks and harassment from ages as young as 9. I never said it doesn’t affect men or the above dilemma isn’t an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:44 PM
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Seeing as you’re diagnosed with ASPD, I’d warrant this perspective applies toy yourself, and not the whole of men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:40 PM
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Some men aren’t able to get girlfriends. This is the closest thing to a woman they can obtain, or they may feel too much anxiety to acquire true intimacy. Some people don’t want the complexity or hassle of a relationship. They may or may not see women as human beings, and view that they are too entitled or require too much maintenance. An AI or robotic woman can be subservient to them no matter what. They will never question them, they will never rebel, they will never act in a way that they dee…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:38 PM
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Many men just don’t really think about the implications or are too ashamed to discuss their SA. I would definitely warrant that they underreport comparatively. Some don’t even believe men can get raped at all. I have also observed that strange trend you’ve mentioned. when a woman fails, it’s because she’s a woman, but when a man fails, its because he’d just “made a mistake.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:22 PM
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I think it’s pretty well-known that rape and SA affects women to a greater degree, thank you for giving further examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:14 PM
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I see takes on accountability in regards to women and men nigh daily
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:57 PM
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Because it’s entertaining, and I like debate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:54 PM
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I think “mansplaining” is a strange term for it. It’s more “gender-based condescension” and it is a symptom of, of a larger issue at hand, I.e., the heightened assumption of female incompetence, which can then manifest in larger, more impactful behaviors that have consequences down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:54 PM
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I don’t think in the general sense, that men or women are more accountable. My father, for example, never admits when his stance is wrong, and also doesn’t apologize. He will just double down when he doesn’t know what he is talking about. Examples of people failing to take accountability include: Cheaters. “The opportunity just came up,” or “she/he wasn’t satisfying my needs,” etc. Creeps and SA. As a lesbian, I get that whole “our eyes are just drawn to it,” because mine are as well. But it’s n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:48 PM
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I think heterosexual women can, easily. Me? No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:20 PM
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Ngl, I used to think the same way when I was confused about my sexuality. I didn’t like the feeling it gave me and had a rather defensive reaction. It’s the social progression of fashion that many find jarring. What might seem provocative to some could be viewed as “normal summer attire” to others. During warmer weather, people often wear lighter and more breathable clothing. You say that things aren’t "that hot," but you fail to account that comfort levels are subjective. “Human females are mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:49 PM
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Nothing wrong with me, I just find the notion that men exist for women or women exist for men hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:41 PM
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Love the title lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:51 PM
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No, it was sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:11 PM
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Hot + a career Hot + no career I don’t mind either way ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:12 AM
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I concur
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:11 AM
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<image> Imo a woman like this is a snatch, can’t believe bro let her slip through 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:52 AM
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Right? These people really make me laugh as a gay woman, like damn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:38 AM
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You’ve just stated you hate them. Attractive women are great imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:03 AM
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It’s not a thing in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:01 AM
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They generally do, but many abusive people hide their abusiveness in most circumstances. That’s exactly how my ex gf was,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:58 AM
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What is your perception on attractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:56 AM
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I took the biggest shit of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:49 AM
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They do hate their lives in some regards, they just put on the mask because that’s what’s expected of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:48 AM
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Bruh exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:44 AM
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My lesbian ass wants equality but in reality I’m just trying to test men 💀 because I only exist for men, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:44 AM
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My great grandmother said she wanted autonomy and to become a doctor, but what she REALLY wanted was to test men!!, because Women’s lives revolve around them!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:43 AM
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Do you believe me too has done more harm than good?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:37 AM
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I think that is a severely reductionist view of what metoo is. I think the #MeToo movement generally led to an important conversation regarding sexual harassment and assault. It brought to light the pervasive nature of these issues and aimed to create safer environments for everyone, particularly women. However, your perception that it led to men being overly cautious or afraid to interact with female colleagues is flawed. Some men may feel uncertain about boundaries, but many organizations have…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:19 AM
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I would ask what might be wrong with me too culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:43 AM
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It is quite strange. You can be insulted or called slurs and have the other party call you emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:17 AM
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I am personally the opposite end of that perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:15 AM
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I apologize, I frequently hear those terms as insults. As for your response, I’d warrant it lacks nuance. “Lesbian” isn’t an activist group. In more recent times, the association of body hair with unattractiveness in women has been reinforced by media, advertising, and popular culture, which often depict hairless women as the ideal standard of beauty. This has led many women to feel pressured to remove their body hair in order to conform to societal expectations. while some lesbians may choose n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:05 AM
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No, my intonation is not neutral in the above comment. “It’s actually insane in some regards” indicates that. Though, your response is more emotional than my own initial statement. You’re quite hyperbolic for a self-proclaimed ‘thinking man.’ You ignore the complexity of how humans present and specific social standards. I see this quite often on Reddit, echo chambers tend to promote such thinking standards
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:51 PM
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A prevalent assumption on the internet I directed towards women is that we are inherently emotional or are coming from an emotional place. I’ve had online men in certain communities hurl insults at a more put together retort with substantiating evidence. Then the redditor’s word, despite being quite biased and having zero substantiation, is trusted over my own. My neutral tone is interpreted as “crying,” or “bitching.” It’s actually insane in some regards. I’m sure men experience this too online…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:42 PM
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I was forced to watch it once. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:38 PM
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Wrong. I do it because my gf likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:55 PM
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The way you use ‘lesbian’ as an insult made me cringe like bro 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:54 PM
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We also tore people’s fingers off for stealing. Just because we did it in the past doesn’t mean it’s moral
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:52 PM
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That was my point. They only have a superficial idea of who or what you are as a person if they are random or not acquainted with me. My gf technically doesn’t hold authority over me, yet I tend to listen to her. It has mended my relationship greatly and fosters better relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:20 PM
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I think it comes from personal experience. I used to get only misogynistic videos as I was engaging with them frequently, commenting and arguing with the very insane takes that they put forth. This doesn’t mean there’s not an underlying issue of misogyny in certain areas, however. I am very into the gaming sphere in regards to content creation and regularly see misogynistic takes related to topics I enjoy. I imagine the same is with misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:18 PM
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I think i view it differently than red pill individuals would. They have a rather simplified and extreme application of what standards women tend to have, mostly deriving their standards from dating apps. They generally concede that if an individual is of a certain height, they will never be loved by women. While short men are disadvantaged, just the proportion how many women tend to have a negative view of short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:13 PM
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I disagree, other’s opinions are worth assessing and evaluating. If such assessments are shallow or made by people without proper experience as to who I am, only then will I dismiss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:10 PM
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Nope, there are other reasons why she hasn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:59 PM
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Me? Im no sub 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:58 PM
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My gf is the same way. We’ve been discussing it for years but she’s never gone through
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:51 PM
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That was my point, that you can’t convince a woman to be attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:44 PM
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As a lesbian I have sex once a year and am fine with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:20 PM
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Bro really watched how 90s movies portray women and thought they were reality 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:18 PM
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Nah, you’ve gotta be kidding 💀 That one’s going in my funny gallery
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:16 PM
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A certain subset of men tend to take rejection personally, they feel as if it indicates that something is inherently wrong with them. They view attraction as a thing to be earned. If a woman doesn’t show initial attraction, they can continue working towards it and ultimately “earn” it. This is just how men are raised, and is heavily portrayed in the media. In reality, attraction is far more spontaneous and unpredictable in my experience. Once I accepted that, I felt calmer asking women out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:15 PM
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A tree, I have trust issues 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:40 PM
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2%-5% of rape accusations are false. Few women report rape at all. Yeah I’ve been discriminated at work. Do you really think such a large group of people would engage in a huge conspiracy to lie about that? I’ve been told to my face by interviewers that they don’t hire women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:16 AM
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You’re right. No women struggle at all in the west 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:56 PM
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Nahhhh 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:55 PM
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What are the struggles you are talking about specifically? And what behaviors?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:52 PM
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My biggest turn off in a partner is being a man Because I am gay Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:06 PM
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I’d warrant that it’s a purely social phenomenon. It’s that short individuals are more commonly mistreated, stripped of their confidence and infantilized. Taller people are perceived as more competent and thus favored with benefits, leadership positions and promotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:06 PM
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<image> Yup…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:52 PM
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They’re not even our immutable traits, he has it backwards. He’s Mormon, and the LDS Church teaches that men and women have distinct and divinely appointed roles. In his mind, women are sensitive and very sociable whereas men are stoic and don’t care whether they befriend anybody. It reinforces the ultimate authority of God and corroborates the beliefs that he was taught very heavily during his life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:11 PM
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Had a convo with my dad recently. “Autistic men and women are different in that autistic men van have no friends and not care. They’re not preoccupied with their social lives.” I told him that I had no friends and don’t care as an autistic woman and he accused me of lying 🫠 meanwhile my little autistic brother is very social and needs friends to function
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:50 PM
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me-irl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:32 PM
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It’s not “whining” and “crying.” A lot of it is genuinely brining up issues they go through. Though, there is a subset that tends to really want to be oppressed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:27 PM
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I’ve observed far more insults directed at women for being fat online than men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:25 PM
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I think it’s mostly slut shaming behavior, threats of sexual violence and looks-related comments. Women are around 3x more likely to be sexually harassed online. I’ve seen rape victims be insulted for what they were wearing. I’ve seen women who look slightly unattractive get insulted for not being 10/10. Ive seen tik toks where the woman wasn’t attractive get filled with snide comments about body shape, facial features and generally dehumanizing remarks. Ive also seen women get insulted for exis…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:23 PM
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I was talking about queer women, my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:41 AM
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Honestly that’s pretty much how I feel
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:55 PM
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One thing I’ve had to learn about women the hard way is that typical courtship behavior does not land me in the waters of attraction. I can work at something tirelessly, and it’s futile in the long run. I never really aimed to get large swathes of women at once. I just want one gf. Funnily enough, I’m actually a virgin. If I were hetero this definitely wouldn’t be the case. Attraction in the dating sphere is very spontaneous. They usually can’t control it. Even if I am to work for it, there is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:51 PM
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Women with tattoos and piercings are hot because it signals to me that they’re probably gay Though I prefer to date more effeminate women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:41 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/_RfyRTwQnAc?si=QA2ZeKoOKn564EoH I need a 3D printer now I’m willing to wait however long it may take
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:53 PM
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I said “continue to attend” How can they come back when they’ve never tried it in the first place? https://www.statista.com/statistics/872421/mental-health-treatment-adults-us-by-gender/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:37 PM
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Bruh 💀 then why do they continue to attend?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:29 PM
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I get shitty DMs all the time. I don’t even know what these bros look like, I’m just gay and in a relationship And it definitely is harassment. They are very creepy and straightforward with what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:26 PM
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WORKPRO 18 in 1
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:13 PM
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It’s not that they deem them to be inferior, they know nothing about them. They just don’t like being harassed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:07 PM
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She pulled both of those statistics out of her victim blaming flat ass
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:06 PM
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I have one in my backpack
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:05 PM
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It’s funny, because therapy has been shown to be 75% effective for men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:04 PM
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What a sad world it must be for women who have no opportunity to take these medications
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:00 PM
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You have a very simplified idea of how medications work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:58 PM
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Apologies, for my wording. It depends on where you date, but some women are in such a destitute situation that they would do anything to escape or.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:57 PM
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That’s not what I’m saying. I’m only pointing out that at times these relationships can become unhealthy and exploitative for both involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:55 PM
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Nah, man. Reality is dark as hell, but stereotypes don’t get your ass far
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:24 AM
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Misogyny and misandry all in tied up in one, how neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:35 AM
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Im so used to being seen as an absolute monolith on this sub that it was hard to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:19 AM
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Nah, I want the risks and rewards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:18 AM
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Bruh, I’m not my random ass ancestor from 200 years ago, this is neither of our faults, lmao. I think it’s more complex than that lool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:16 AM
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I said when the imbalance is removed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:14 PM
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We autistic people are notoriously shitty at any semblance of empathy and external social groups not related to our own. It’s not like we don’t feel it, we just have trouble applying it to external groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:13 PM
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No, no, it’s definitely your fault that society fucks over autistic men romantically, this must be why we have such a high suicide rate compared to neurotypicals /j
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:02 PM
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Fr. Even as an autistic woman who likes women, I have substantial issues with romance. Autistic people are just disadvantaged asf when it comes to romance in general, not just men, but it is more pronounced with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:58 PM
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As a loser with actually no friends, I relate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:29 PM
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Damn, didn’t even see your second statement there, Christ. Most women don’t just use men for sex or think that’s fine at all. Women are disproportionately objectified. This is a veritable truth that spans decades of research. A simple google search would do you wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:23 PM
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Ngl I don’t vibe with that sub at all. Seems a little creepy 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:12 PM
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Traits such as…? Also, responsibilities shift in marriage, many aren’t cut out for them. Whereas an initial relationship might start out fine, it may begin to fall apart only after union. For example, many begin to cohabitate after they marry, which may lead to issues not yet foreseen arising. This has little to do with mutual respect. You’re just trying to paint women as shallow to justify your worldview. That isn’t the fault of the woman’s supposed “poor choices” and lack of desire for mutual …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:47 PM
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Not necessarily, but he is the one who inevitably holds more power in the relationship and is likely aiming out of his league. He has more power and ability to control the relationship than the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:40 PM
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General, unforeseen incompatibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:38 PM
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I would rather be more economically advantaged and miss my family than have restrictions on my autonomy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:37 PM
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Im just saying. I have both experience dating women and being women, and I positively declare that the above from the guy who replied statement isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:34 PM
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Being on psychiatric medication does not imply dissatisfaction nor unhappiness. I’m medicated and am very happy to have the privilege to do so, as I inherited bipolar disorder from my grandmother. Other women don’t get that opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:33 PM
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If a man refuses to sign the divorce paperwork, and a woman is forced to, is that her fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:29 PM
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So is that the fault of the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:29 PM
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Choose a male therapist. Worked well for me and my brothers. Depends on where you get you therapy and who might ultimately be your therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:28 PM
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Generally, there aren’t very many opportunities for these women to be financially stable nor successful, so their options for a happy life are quite limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:26 PM
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So where is your data on that final statement regarding poor choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:21 PM
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Are those men in compromising situations that would otherwise force them to be in a relationship, where they don’t truly love the woman they’re dating and only decide to do so because they have no other choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:19 PM
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Hypersexuality itself isn’t a choice, but participation in gangbangs is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:15 PM
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I hadn’t implied otherwise? Something can be both a choice and a response to trauma lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:12 PM
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From my experience being a lesbian woman, I prefer mutual respect over looks any day of the week
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:11 PM
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Women do seek out relationships based on mutual respect though. 💀 I wasn’t lying about that at all Mutual attraction does entail mutual respect to some degree. I thought that’s what you were trying to convey, just in a strange way I was never lying in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:09 PM
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Indeed, but being transactional in excess detracts from a solid, healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:04 PM
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Because the latter entails desire, the former moreno entails transaction and disingenuous investment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:01 PM
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Yeah, lmao. Hypersexuality can be a trauma response in both men and women. “Hypersexuality is a common response to trauma, particularly sexual trauma. It is important to understand that hypersexuality is not a choice or a moral failing, but rather a coping mechanism that can arise from intense emotional pain and distress”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:56 PM
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That’s actually how some people deal with trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:50 PM
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I used to have that mindset, but it didn’t really get me so far and actually impeded my progress as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:46 PM
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That’s true indeed. as a queer woman I can see that quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:45 PM
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It’s not milder, we are just diagnosed later and are symptoms are misconstrued as bad behavior, which is then punished out of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:43 PM
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The thing about autistic men is that y’all are diagnosed far earlier and given much more support, which paradoxically impedes your social development in some areas. Autistic girls are usually punished or yelled at if they display autistic behaviors. We get the autism bullied out of us and are forced to adapt from an early age. This ultimately benefits us in the dating game as we learn how to hide our strange behaviors really well. Autistic women are also far more likely to be queer, see lthe ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:40 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:38 PM
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I do care about autistic men, I’m just not romantically interested in them as I’m queer… but many women in the ND space that I know date autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:38 PM
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Thank god bro I was reeling 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:37 PM
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Let’s take your sample here. First of all, you are deriving your data from Reddit, which is, in itself, majority male and not representative of the general population. Secondly, you are assuming that a single subreddit, AITA, is adequately generalizable to the whole of women. How did you know that it was women making those judgements? Let’s take the sister sub of AITA, r/amioverreacting, wherein the opposite trend can be observed. Does this mean men blame women for everything, or does it mean th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:35 PM
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There is nothing “logical” about this presumption because if assumes that women only work in the context of what they can provide for other men, namely the father. Women have lives outside of getting fucked, and will not always be heterosexual, especially if you traumatize her with this mindset. You are also concerningly presenting this hypothetical daughter as if she is supposed to procreate with the father. What’s rational is to remember that it is a human’s natural instinct to procreate. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:31 PM
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Oh okay, I see
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:26 PM
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I generally keep my mental health pursuits to myself ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:23 PM
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So seeking therapy can result in a loss of friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:21 PM
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In what way might this be life ruining?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:19 PM
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Everyone, regardless of occupation or situation, has the right to judge others. It’s just a matter of whether that judgement is accurate or acceptable enough to be externalized or humored
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:19 PM
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Social repercussions are indeed present if they don’t hold it in, but therein lies the risk of social rebellion in general
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:16 PM
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No one is a single, definitive victim. Both women and men suffer under the system significantly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:14 PM
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The power imbalance is gone, so no. The pursuit of transactional relationships, where men offer financial support or other benefits in exchange for companionship or intimacy, is a common theme among passport bros. This reduces relationships to mere transactions rather than genuine connections based on mutual respect and affection. Additionally, this passport bro phenomenon often thrives on socioeconomic disparities between Western men and women from less developed countries. This power imbalance…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:13 PM
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I think women are more pressured to look after self hygiene in some regards, yes. I thought that was pretty highly documented. It’s not a thing imposed upon by men, but by society in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:58 PM
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Why are some men so much more likely to hold onto old social precedents than men? When faced with the fact that men are forced to hold in their emotions, they are more likely to say “it is how it is” rather than assess that genuine mental health crisis and attempt to move the standard, which would be way better for society
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:56 PM
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It’s around 2-3x more. Both men and women are oppressed in their own ways, it’s just how it is factually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:51 PM
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I apologize, I would estimate that he attempt rate is about equal. Suicide isn’t a male nor female issue, and labeling it as such will likely cause more harm than good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:46 PM
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Advocate against misandry so that future generations of men don’t have to endure the pain of unequal treatment, as feminists of the past did. Advocate for male issues. Don’t run away, stand up to what you see. We aren’t spoiled nor hateful. I think you may need some grass to touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:38 PM
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Neurodivergent, as in autistic at the very least
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:23 PM
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Not really, the majority of autistic people I know are dating neurodivergent. Straight autistic women usually go for adhd men and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:08 PM
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Autistic men should date autistic or ADHD women, tbh. As an autistic woman myself it was difficult to find a gf because my social skills are atrocious. My sister and mother also dated autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:56 PM
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Looks matter, for both men and women. That’s obvious. But the average man cares more. Why do you think there’s so much emphasis on the male gaze and women looking good all of the time? “Our relative importance analysis shows greater male priority for attractiveness and physical build, compared to females, relative to all other traits”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:31 PM
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You’re talking out of your ass, sir. Can I have some sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:26 PM
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It’s not a cop out term, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:25 PM
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Got the misandry and misogyny combo right here 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:24 PM
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Its majority female because it primarily affects women. You aren’t going to be affected so greatly by systemic misogyny if you’re a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:23 PM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:21 PM
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Very low. The average conviction rate across all felonies is 68%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:20 PM
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It’s in subs like Askmen, and the commenters do mention that they are men, so yes. Again, men always assume male because that’s just the default assumption on the internet. Some men can’t fathom that there are women on the internet. Other than that, I’ve seen men assume someone was a woman multiple time because they were talking about feminist issues, as I’ve said before. I’d like to say men on reddit, not men in general as Reddit doesn’t reflect real life. Sometimes it’s clear that someone is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:18 PM
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What I’ve seen in heterosexual couples is that they generally lack adequate communication skills and empathy to some degrees. Gender roles enforce two major precedents that impede this: A. Men are raised to have negligent social skills. They don’t have very high emotional intelligence and generally miss subtle social cues that women give off. This gets in the way of relationship-building and friendship-making, causing a man to be lonelier. B. Women are generally raised not to be confrontational.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:53 PM
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Both men and women should be raising their kids. It shouldn’t be up to only the mom to sacrifice everything in order to raise her kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:46 PM
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Women should have to ability to pursue a career it’s called autonomy and it’s pretty nifty. Also, you have to be in a higher tax bracket to be a SAHM or SAHD these days. It’s just not feasible in this economy, unless you want your child to starve lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:36 PM
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You know when you se an AITA post that’s so obviously fake because no person would ever act in the way that they did in the post? Yeah, it’s basically that. I also have seen posters assume that people who were talking online were women simply for speaking about feminist issues, but the reason you might not see it as often is because male is the default on Reddit, so it’s a lot harder to break from that assumption than it is to conform to it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:34 PM
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Some Redditors with bad intentions will waltz over to women’s spaces and create a post that is so obviously from the perspective of a specific kind of male redditor that it hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:31 PM
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I can’t fight against either, but I’m picking man because I’m not getting mauled
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:29 PM
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I gotta do this too, tbh, they’re rotting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:27 PM
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The amount if shit I see from both men and women regarding SA is insane Men will be teased (“you’re a man so you must have liked it” or “men can’t be raped) and denied when confessing more often whereas women will be blamed (“what were you wearing?” Or “you chose that man over me do you deserved it) The male version of being sexually assaulted isn’t being falsely accused, it’s being sexually assaulted Rape has a very low reporting rate and an even lower conviction rate, at 5% Humans really are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:24 PM
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I found out how to make my father, who clings very strictly to gender roles (as a devoutly religious individual), do his seasonal chores that he’s been ignoring for years Offer to do it myself(as a woman) Either wait as he tries to prove that I’m just a woman and nothing more, or do it myself Either way, it gets done before the end of the week It’s not as hard to get done as I once thought
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:01 PM
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True that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:58 PM
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What’s the most you’re willing go do for $20?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:57 PM
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I guess it’s a hot take to say women are systematically oppressed in some ways and men are way more represented in media and medical studies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:52 PM
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I think it’s more complex than that tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:40 AM
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Women face pretty strong barriers to promotion and leadership positions. Women also disproportionately bear the burden of unpaid labor, including household chores and caregiving. This "second shift" limits their career advancement and financial independence. Women are far less represented than men in media. To be a man is the default setting in media. Media often portrays women in stereotypical roles, reinforcing harmful gender norms. Women are frequently depicted as passive, emotional, or depen…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:08 AM
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It’s been ingrained in society for thousands of years, the systemic part is gonna be really hard to get rid of in a few decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:48 AM
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My father could never drive and everyone was always chill with it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:33 PM
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As an autistic I much prefer when men talk to me in a monotone or callous voice lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:29 PM
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Most men don’t act like the ones I know. So nah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:50 PM
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Yup 🫠 but I like money so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:38 PM
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I work an hourly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:37 PM
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Nah, that’s lame
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:16 PM
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Sexist towards men, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:15 PM
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I love America, at work with the biggest migraine I’ve had in a while and I just have to deal with it because I’d be seen as lazy if I’d just left
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:13 PM
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If life experience were valid data, I would be sexist af
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:04 PM
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In the USA this was true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:52 PM
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It is a highly documented issue, if you would like to research it yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:41 PM
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https://www.nber.org/bah/2018no3/emergence-female-advantage-life-expectancy#:~:text=Starting%20around%201890%2C%20however%2C%20a,to%20less%20than%205%20years. Oops, you’re right. Indeed it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:40 PM
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Nah bro, I have pretty adhd and my thoughts are disorganized. Hence the several comments. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/when-did-women-start-to-outlive-men/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:13 PM
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And yet, women still had a shorter life expectancy through many eras
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:59 PM
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I would still much rather be a man in history than a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:56 PM
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So they lived slightly shorter, but were allowed to be people? Wow, what a trade-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:55 PM
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Reminder that double women died from childbirth than men from war in the 1900s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:52 PM
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It’s not a money thing, it’s a “I have more rights to be a full person and women don’t” thing Women weren’t recognized as full legal people under the law for many years. Think of coverture. Also, much higher rates? When? “Prior to 1890, male life expectancy at age 15 was about one year longer than female life expectancy,”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:48 PM
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Being ‘unremarkable’ doesn’t mean they didn’t hold more power relative to women. NFT bros are very unremarkable but are also trust fund babies and hold more power.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:41 PM
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Men had more power than women. Though it wasn’t as much as those at the top. The patriarchy is a very highly documented phenomenon and it isn’t meant to blame men. It’s just how things were, factually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:39 PM
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That’s fine, but using a few people to make generalizations isn’t ok (imo)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:27 PM
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I don’t want a matriarchy or a patriarchy. I just want a world where the power is shared equally. I don’t care if men are independent or not. I don’t really care about men at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:26 PM
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Bro, that’s victim blaming at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:19 PM
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“Men had all the power in history? What do you mean? That was very few men.” “Men built science, history, literature, art” But wasn’t that very few men? Most were pretty unremarkable like you just said
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:18 PM
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<image> Hm
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:39 PM
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It’s not even close to 11 PM right now for me. It’s over messaging on discord
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:01 AM
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You’re too deep in denial to care
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:56 AM
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My historian friends are laughing at you btw
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:53 AM
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I do care for that sort of nuance, but war isn’t a constant conflict that was always in the lives of men. Childbirth was constant. Also, almost every woman was stripped of rights. Most men didn’t go to war
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:52 AM
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They simply had more rights is all. Were higher up in the hierarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:45 AM
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Never said they did
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:39 AM
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Female privilege? These women were sold as property at a young age to their husbands 💀 they had no choice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:34 AM
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My point is women were denied medical privileges globally. Women also didn’t have a choice in having kids.they had to and were raped, even if they really didn’t want to. It’s just how life was back then. I was comparing war deaths during the 1900s to maternal deaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:32 AM
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And women would die horribly during childbirth, at double the rate, with no compensation nor any rights
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:24 AM
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But men had more rights than women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:17 AM
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I never even implied that men forced women to die in childbirth. I wasn’t saying “men bad” I was saying “life for women sucked back then”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:17 AM
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While peasant men might not have owned land or held power, they generally had more legal rights than women. Under coverture laws, married women couldn't own property, enter contracts, or earn a salary in their own name, which wasn't the case for men. It’s not these men’s faults that this was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:16 AM
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I’m not talking about men. I’m not blaming men. I’m not saying men were the reason why this happened. I’m talking about women, not men. I’m not even radfem or idpol. I never said men were monoliths that oppressed women. All I said was that society oppressed them, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:13 AM
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Yeah, and women died during childbirth easily and commonly. Nearly double of how many men died during wartime in the height of our battles. In many cultures, women were denied the right to own property or inherit wealth. Think of coverture. Women were often not considered full legal persons. At all. Historically, women were frequently denied access to education, so they couldn’t pursue anything other than motherhood and would be raped freely by their husbands. Women's employment opportunities we…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:02 AM
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‘‘Twas a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:24 PM
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…why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:22 PM
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“Men are more violent than women” Women: https://youtube.com/shorts/o_yxXmDRKsU?si=ehhUaZhs_ITx6aQG
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:22 PM
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It’s not that I don’t have a clue, I’d just like to hear your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:33 PM
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How does this division of labor integrate itself into modern society?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:19 PM
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Indeed they are, but is this nature or nurture?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:16 PM
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Is evolution about a winning strategy? No. The average person has learned in the past that evolution is about survival of the fittest. However, this is not the case. It’s more so “survival of the fittest enough” Women did hunt. Smaller game while using tools. A good, yet not “winning” strategy is variation based upon environmental conditions… and we had shown that significantly during our hunter gatherer period.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:08 PM
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I know what systemizing is. I’m a neuro major. Brains can’t “show traits,” and certainly can’t tell you much about ingrained traits. You can make a correlation based upon data, but you can’t make a definitive conclusion regarding nature or nurture. Each area of the brain is known for such a complex range of tasks that our inferences become questionable at best in some regards. For example, a study I’ve just found says “ We observed that the female participants (n = 10) showed stronger activation…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:02 PM
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No, not really. At least not as much as we like to traditionally think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:39 PM
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every single society in history? I don’t usually use emojis, but 🤣 Did we not just discuss hunter gatherers who were egalitarian? Also, we had plenty of matrilineal societies, they were just killed off by the shitty oppressive ones. They still exist today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:35 PM
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I’d literally just said that not all men ever had a conspiracy to oppress women. The men at the upper echelons of society did. Does this mean slavery is how society evolved?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:31 PM
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I didn’t say there was no conscious effort, did I?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:30 PM
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What do you mean by “division of labor based upon sex?” What labor duties were restricted to men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:23 PM
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No, this implies a conscious effort. The idea that "all men" consciously banded together to oppress women is a gross oversimplification. Gender roles and norms developed over centuries and were influenced by a variety of factors including economics, religion, and social structures. While many men throughout history did uphold and benefit from patriarchal systems, it doesn't mean all men consciously aimed to oppress women. Gender oppression intersected with other forms of oppression such as class…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:22 PM
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We aren’t mindless animals, though. We have every capacity we did then as we do now, and if you had placed someone from the modern world in the previous world, they would fare awfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:33 PM
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Indeed, I never said otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:13 PM
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Humans were pretty fucked up back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:48 PM
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Men were oppressed under the system, too. So is that natural? And ask anthropologists, I’ve discussed it with them and they said that hunter gatherers, our more ‘Natural’ selves, were far more egalitarian. It wasn’t until we became agrarian that patriarchy was formed and oppressed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:48 PM
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It’s not biological, though. That’s complete bull. Why is there such a fight against it if it’s supposed to be natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:34 PM
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Blame the women? Like, the .0002% of women? I have never seen or heard of something like that working, ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:05 AM
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As a gay woman I want nothing of the sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:48 AM
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What’s the fun on being overly reliant on someone else? There’s no autonomy there. Especially at the current divorce rate, if women were to be stripped of these rights, they would be forced to stay with men they don’t love because they’d have no skills to support themselves or their children. Additionally, divorce would be even harder on men than it is now as he would have to pay far more to provide for his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:47 AM
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Aren’t men making more than women, still? It is true that American women today have unprecedented access to education and opportunities compared to previous generations. However, this does not negate the existence of ongoing gender disparities. For instance, women still face significant challenges in fields like STEM and leadership positions. Additionally, women have served and continue to serve in the military actively, and their contributions and sacrifices should not be minimized. Women's suf…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:45 AM
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This. This annoys the absolute shit out of me. They really think that their sad sorry porn videos can come to life if they join our apps. It’s disgusting. These men’s minds are literally blown out of their damned heads when they realize that women live their lives without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:41 AM
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Apologies for the confusion. It means women had fewer rights and freedoms than men did. Though it wasn’t as pronounced as slavery, it still had profound impacts on their freedom and general attitudes towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:38 AM
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Now? Now everyone is better off. Men, women, children, everybody. I’m glad we have progressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:33 AM
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It was fairly recent. Women weren’t allowed to have a checking account until the 70’s and were largely excluded form pursuing a career until very recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:32 AM
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Women were disproportionately oppressed. Men had more rights and freedoms than women. I am merely stating facts.m
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:29 AM
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23% of main characters were female in 2023, so please enlighten me as to how it might be shoving it down your throat. Also, not killing people isn’t being a pussy. men don’t deserve to die just because women aren’t treated fairly in some regards. That’s not how you gain favor by society, especially nowadays. I also don’t care if men “rule the world.” I don’t think highly of our current world leaders as they are running everything into the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:28 AM
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I would have thought that history books during school would have taught you about women’s extensive history of oppression. Women have faced systematic oppression and violence across cultures and historical periods. This includes lack of political rights, limited access to education, economic dependency, and gender-based violence. witch hunts in Europe and America predominantly women were tortured and executed. women faced gender-specific violence such as rape, domestic abuse, and societal restri…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:25 AM
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Why not just use weapons of force if they’re so concerned about physical power? Or do you mean power dynamics that exclude women? Because in our hunter gatherer era, we were largely egalitarian. Modern tribes still are. It wasn’t until our agrarian era that we began to establish patriarchal structures.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:20 AM
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So you admit women are oppressed then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:16 AM
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No, not really. Though sleeping around is more normalized, which I dislike, it’s still stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:38 AM
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That’s based right there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:36 AM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:08 AM
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This is a mid allegory because women have the capacity to wash themselves easily The pussy is legit a self cleaning machine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:06 AM
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What an awful day to have eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:05 AM
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As a fellow autistic I assure you that this doesn’t work lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:03 AM
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There nothing wrong with enjoying activities associated with tradwives. It’s relegating one’s own role solely to that of a ‘tradwife’ that is the issue. A world where a man can aspire to be night anything and a woman must child rear is a world in which I’d prefer not to live.. especially because I bear no attraction towards men and dislike most things associated with tradwives. I would have assuredly been lobotomized way back when lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:03 AM
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“Scream” and “nag,” lmao. Such loaded words used to dismiss women’s struggles, cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:55 AM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:44 AM
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Damn, never even heard of this. If anything, my youngest brother was taken to restaurants the most as a kid, lmao. Bro’s spoiled
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:53 PM
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No because I was incorrect, I apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:39 PM
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The average man benefits from the patriarchy more than the average woman by being the default in society. Read Invisible women or look up a summary. 12.9% of women are in poverty compared to 10% of men. https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2019/09/payday-poverty-and-women.html Women earn 82 cents for every dollar that a man does. 7 in 10 trafficking victims are women https://www.unodc.org/documents/data-and-analysis/tip/2021/GLOTiP_2020_15jan_web.pdf 92% of a large, racially diverse sample of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:34 PM
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Women make up 70% of the nations’s poor and 83% of the extreme poor. Most of the women who are homeless are trafficked or forced into prostitution. Women who are homeless are also far more likely to go to shelters as there is a very high rate of sexual abuse and rape for them. Men prefer not to use the shelters because they can camp if they please and they will be free to use drugs and chill with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:06 PM
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A patriarchy is a society in which those who hold power are largely male. You just feel attacked because you think patriarchy = man, and that’s the end of what is being said. In our society, this is not the case at all because men generally earn far more than women. There are far more women in extreme poverty than men. Though, I would not classify such as a patriarchy if those who hold the majority of power in society were female.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:47 PM
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I assure you I am not “screaming” anything. You really extrapolated incredibly biased information, some of which was not present in my initial comment, from my above statement. There is not desire for men to be deprived of their rights to any degree. I was merely stating a fact: men still hold most of the power. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:40 PM
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What if she’s intersex? XY chromosomes, but a woman outwardly by every definition. I’ve heard of women with XY chromosomes giving birth but later finding out they were intersex to some degree. Is the man who impregnated her gay now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:59 PM
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Then why is it that resumes with male names are rated higher than resumes with female names with the exact same criteria. women are also often expected to take on a larger share of domestic responsibilities, which can limit their career advancement opportunities. Women who exhibit strong leadership qualities might be judged more harshly compared to their male counterparts. This is repeatedly documented. There’s also an issue of networking. Men will more often have more access to informal network…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:55 PM
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Men aren’t unfairly judged in court or given prolonged sentences. It’s a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:49 PM
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The very definition of patriarchy entails large, yet not total exclusion. It does not necessarily imply that women are wholly prevented from the acquisition of power, but implies that systemic and cultural norms favor men and impede women from gaining access to the top. Admittedly, significant progress has been made in the name of gender equality, and more women are getting recognized in positions of power. Despite this ostensible progress, however, there are still barriers in the form of implic…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:48 PM
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Patriarchy: a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it. Or a society or community organized on patriarchal lines. That seems pretty close imo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:44 PM
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It’s always “what is a woman?” And never “why is a woman?” 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:36 PM
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Patriarchy doesn’t say men in general hold all of the power. It just says that the majority of power is held by men. That’s not the same thing. Men have more power than women, but most women aren’t at the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:31 PM
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I think it’s the way they are used. Men being more “visual” or liking “younger women” is usually used as justification or an excuse for socially less acceptable behavior. Some if it is true, and a biological fact, though some of it is an oversimplification. The data speaks for itself. I’m not into men, but that seems accurate. I feel you misinterpreted what they were saying. It wasn’t the data that was used as a blame, it was the way it was being used. You see, women aren’t very visual at all. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:30 PM
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Tbh, I don’t care for fridays
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:19 PM
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Send her the request
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:19 PM
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Not everyone is the same. Whereas I was completely happy single with no friends, (as I have AuDHD and friendships are tiring for me) others might not at all. I think people here fail to take into account the variability that humans possess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:18 PM
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Damn bro, thanks for actually bringing this whole college thing up. I barely seeing it being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:16 PM
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Patriarchy still exists. Men still hold most of the power. They’re most CEOs, CFOs, etc., most government leaders, most political leaders, most bosses, most managers. We need to stop humanity from becoming a matriarchy at all costs though. So ideally we should start with affirmative action in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:14 PM
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Bro, cut off his genitals 💀? The fuck? Hell no, I’m not cheering that on. I also have fucked up humor. If I see a comedy movie where a woman gets hit by a man I laugh. It’s just a movie. Though I don’t laugh at ball kicks often at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:11 PM
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Delicious 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:09 PM
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People should do that, but they dont
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:09 PM
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The nature of my dating pool encourages very politically left leaning women as a lesbian. It’s annoying, but I don’t mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:59 PM
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Incorrect. However, the disparity is nigh eliminated when a female judge presided over the case
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:01 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:32 PM
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I get this, but I don’t, you can make female friends. Missed the mark there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:46 PM
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Dunno who that is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:22 PM
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Hetero Redditors try not to think of the opposite sex purely in a sexual context challenge [IMPOSSIBLE] Also, here’s a hot take: Porn is targeting young men at an early age and forcing on them the idea of objectification. Modern men are so bad at dating because the only idea they get about women is from porn videos and social media. It impedes their social and romantic development and gives them the complete wrong idea of what a woman is like. Pornography often depicts exaggerated and unrealisti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:06 PM
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Neuroscience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:03 PM
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Men w podcasts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:44 PM
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Based. My partner and I do the same thing for each other. 🤘🤘🤘
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:41 PM
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He buys into incel rhetoric. I don’t think they’re referring to being into incels, but misunderstanding what incel rhetoric is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:40 PM
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Nah, are you kidding? I’ve seen it way more acceptable for men to hold onto childhood hobbies. Men game and buy toys way into adulthood and no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:40 PM
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Nope. Men like video games and toy cars way into adulthood. So do I. Be a child at heart. It’s not as normalized in women sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:38 PM
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Most women I know are very hard workers (I’m an honors student in college and we are mostly female), does this mean they’re men? I didn’t know being hard working was masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:37 PM
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Bc it’s debasing to act like a woman in this society
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:35 PM
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As I woman I don’t care either.. but my gf does and that is important to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:34 PM
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He hit the nail on the head… as someone who has once dated a narcissistic woman, a truer representation has never been shown
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:29 PM
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Sir, do you know the difference between romantic and sexual love?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:21 PM
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I’m talking about what’s been recorded consistently in statistics, not about what random people you know experienced. That’s not much of evidence at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:25 PM
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Not caring is a pretty big pattern im seeing from you. Also, I don’t think it should be “believe women” it should be “look into a woman’s claims to see if there is anything substantive to what she’s saying.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:49 AM
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How can I keep seething when I wasn’t doing so in the first place, dawg?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:22 AM
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Nah I ain’t mad, I just find it funny ngl Hence the skull emoji
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:17 AM
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Bro just victim blamed people who were systemically oppressed throughout history because he was too stupid to understand how powerful structural and systemic oppression is💀 You know what’s a skill issue? Oppressing perfectly capable people because they can’t swing a sword Oh, you can’t throw a knife as hard as a man? That means you shouldn’t have the rights to be a doctor… just imagine how much society has been prevented from progressing because half of the population was stripped of their right…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:03 AM
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Your lack of understanding and logic is a skill issue in itself, mate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:55 AM
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Then how could they have earned rights when they were barred from fighting in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:53 AM
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Isn’t that, like, the bare minimum?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:53 AM
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Why weren’t women allowed to fight wars?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:52 AM
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Women in the 1900s: barely have the ability to pursue their dreams to any degree, forced to child rear against their will. Lack voting rights and legal protections against violence, rape, or sexual assault. Forced to endure domestic violence, normalized. Seen as children or second class citizens at best. Career seeking may result in significant stigma. Lobotomized against will if different to any degree. No reproductive rights. Neglected by medical community in every regard. Symptoms completely …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:51 AM
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Male. I’d rather die than be deprived of my basic rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:35 AM
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Bruh, what? Rapists are criminals. That’s what I was referring to. Risk avoidance is not the most logical solution to the issue because it ignores both the nature and complexity of rape. While risk avoidance might reduce exposure to some risky situations, it is not a comprehensive solution. Telling people to avoid certain situations implies that if they follow the rules, they will be safe. This is simply not true. Rape can happen anywhere, anytime, and to anyone. Women already do a shit to preve…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:12 AM
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I too am a masculine lesbian and I feel bad for this person’s dating life if they think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:19 AM
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Someone’s pissed, goddamn. Nobody wants to put innocent men AND WOMEN in jail. Are you aware that 1 in 8 men are SAed? Very few report it. This isn’t a woman’s crime. not even remotely. It’s not about men or women. It’s about consequences. There are plenty of people who go around raping and aren’t jailed for it. I never wanted to lower ANY standard of proof. I never said any of that, nor did I imply it. A sad amount of rape kits aren’t even used. The cops don’t care as much as they should, espec…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:26 PM
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Nah. Wear a condom. Emergency contraception isn’t going to work all of the time. You’re also letting yourself get STIs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:14 PM
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Nope. I’m wearing a condom every time. That’s on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:12 PM
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Only 5%? That’s really fucked up. The system is awful for SA survivors. Most rapes aren’t even reported
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:11 PM
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The conviction rate is so low because it’s hard to prove. It’s not even close to 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:10 PM
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Statistically speaking, around 95% of accusations are true, so I’d go by that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:41 AM
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Not from anecdotes, that’s for sure. Knowing of examples isn’t sufficient. You have to collect data and the calculate in the most basic terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:40 AM
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Considering I’ve taken two statistics classes in college I think I might be a little more knowledgeable than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:38 AM
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I mean, still. It’s common sense that no contraception will lead to a chance of pregnancy. It is absolutely the responsibility of both parties to prevent this from happening
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:43 AM
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Yes it does. You really are 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:11 AM
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The most common cause of unplanned pregnancy is a lack of contraception So yeah, both parties should have known full well what they were getting themselves it into.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:08 AM
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I’m blind in one eye
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:16 PM
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As a neurodivergent I can confidently say that men and women are equally as cringe as one another
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:16 PM
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The child has to have their basic needs covered, as single parenthood takes a very large toll on finances, obviously. It’s usually on the custodial parent to ensure that the noncustodial pays. So one can evade payments if they want to, and it will result in fewer consequences than you might think. It’s an exhausting process to ensure that the noncustodial parent pays if they choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:10 PM
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This depends on so many factors. What lead to the pregnancy? Did protection fail, or did they opt not to use it, resulting in a pregnancy? Was it consensual? Child support really isn’t much at all compared to what the mother is going to have to pay for the child. If you decide not to use protection, it’s both of the individuals’ responsibilities to take action, whether involves keeping the baby or aborting it. There are also more repercussions for a woman keeping a baby. It’s not just “I want th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:04 PM
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Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:27 PM
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R u fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:14 PM
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Why did women start calling “turn offs” icks? It went from “what’s your weirdest turn-off?” (which everyone has at least 1) to the far less relatable “what’s your strangest ick?”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:13 PM
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Seems reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:11 PM
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What’s your BMI, brother?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:11 PM
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It’s hard to listen to women because I’m deaf in one ear
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:10 PM
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I used procreate I want to really imbue a surreal, otherworldly, almost disconnected vibe with a prompt I was given The theme is disconnection from reality through excess media consumption Wasting one’s life away as the nature of life, death is too heavy, even incomprehensible to handle I dunno lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:09 PM
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Nah should I finish this? https://preview.redd.it/4xg1kmt6hg0d1.png?width=1997&format=png&auto=webp&s=c8cfb086a98dde7d48690a1edb71f9c42783de50
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:57 PM
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During the nineteenth century, women were excluded from most formal scientific education, but they began to be admitted into learned societies during this period. In the later nineteenth century, the rise of the women's college provided jobs for women scientists and opportunities for education. Women first gained entry to institutions of higher education in the United States when Oberlin College admitted female students in 1837- more than 200 years after Harvard College was founded for the educa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:35 PM
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“Put in the simplest terms: women were the chattel property of men under law until the early part of the twentieth century. Married women could not own property because they were property. A wo- man's body, her children, and the clothes on her back belonged to her husband.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:32 PM
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Lol no one wants that. They simply would favor the option to be able to surgically modify themselves, not others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:30 PM
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Women aren’t seen as equal. Why is it seen as degrading for a man to have feminine interests but not for women to have masculine interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:29 PM
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Anyone who identifies as such in full earnestness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:28 PM
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Saw a dude do the same thing and bro ruined it 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:26 PM
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The beauty of humanity is in its variability. Not everyone is going to abide by the same slate. Humans are different from one another. One woman might be driven, independent and tomboyish whereas another might abide by traditional values. thats what feminism has been advocating for: the option to finally be free to be themselves. Confining women to this very limited role is counterproductive to the progression of society. You are also heavily stereotyping men, assuming that they (despite being t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:23 PM
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do you dislike it because you’re not attracted to it? You’re judging people because they’re not hitting the imaginary boxes in your head that you deem attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:08 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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