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HypocrisyDarkEnergy67/r/AntiFeminists10/12/22 07:05 AM
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All the usual stuff, go to gym etc. however, for me it was always a mental and perception thing, and I found reading philosophy was a game changer for me. My thing was stoicism, but maybe you might find another philosophy to help if that doesn’t suit you.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/24 07:46 AM
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Do not forget that in all this, from her perspective, you were far from perfect. Having said that, it sounds like she was a passive taker and not a giver. So, don’t kick yourself. You tried but she didn’t want to play the same game as you. So be it, part ways and move on. In this scenario, you were always onto a losing battle with no chance of success. Your error was unwisely choosing the wrong person at the start. Either you were unable to choose wisely or she hid her true self from you until a…
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/24 07:43 AM
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You still have work to do on yourself. Forget the ex and just focus on you.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/24 08:30 AM
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Sounds like she is trying hard to show you she is better without you, and you were the problem all along. Maybe she is trying too hard. Always take the long view. You can often only see truth and reality from a distance. Give another twenty years. In the meantime, move on and live your best life. It sounds like you played to her tune for decades, now it is time to play your own tune. Be a little selfish.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/24 02:31 PM
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Everyone makes mistakes and adults own up to their mistakes and fix them. Well done.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/24 02:26 PM
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Possible she is trying to stamp her “ownership “ of the house and this is psychological warfare to push you out?
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 08:49 AM
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Congratulations to you. I am glad it all worked out for you. To be fair, you did have the best platform for a divorce- no kids, no property and no debt. Nonetheless, well done on your success.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 08:40 AM
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She doesn’t know that her argument has been debunked many times for many years.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 07:00 AM
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Good post, thank you. More advice. Hop over to the women’s version of this sub and read there as well. Although different, they often have many similar issues. Seems good people come to Reddit for help, whatever the gender, dealing with bad people is tough. Remember, if you are on this sub because your stbxw is causing problems, then you are in good company, but not all women are as bad as she is, likewise, not all men are bad. So, be wise, protect yourself as necessary, but chill out every once…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 12:12 PM
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Really sad story, I hope it ends well. I suggest documenting and recording everything. Sometimes you have to prove yourself innocent.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 11:26 AM
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Don’t date, won’t date, so not an issue.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 11:23 AM
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Solid advice. Good luck
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 11:22 AM
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You cannot get reform until women consistently out earn men. Then it will all change, for a fairer society. Basic homosapien is man provide and woman take resources to run home and raise children. Yes I know society and culture have developed over time, but the basic firmware is still in place.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 07:15 AM
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Accountability is female kryptonite. I can’t remember who said this first, but it is so true.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 07:08 AM
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Indifference is the way forward because you have let go of the past. Is she is doing this to get a reaction out if you, then she is the one with the problem because she hasn’t let go of you yet.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 07:06 AM
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You did not lose anything real. You lost a dream, a hope, an aspiration, and possibly a delusion. It was all in your head and heart and hormones played you for a dumb fool. What remains is knowledge, wisdom, understanding and likely a little regret. You are literally better than you were before the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/24 07:16 AM
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Some parallels with me also. 30 years married. The thing is I just have zero interest in having a relationship with another woman. Checked out and doing fine.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/24 07:11 AM
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This is the untold truth of these situations. A simp is going to simp.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/24 07:05 AM
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I am a hurt man but my pain has pushed me towards “not caring “. Not an incel position but some have accused me of Being an incel on other boards. I am the type of man who just won’t play a game if I discover it is rigged, and marriage is rigged, but I discovered it too late. Oh well, live and learn.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 02:19 PM
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The older I get, the more I favour freedom and specifically freedom from the control of other people.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 02:14 PM
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Each to their own. I have always played fair, even if others don’t. I have lost out in the past to unscrupulous people, but I like to maintain my principles.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 02:12 PM
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Internally you have accepted that your marriage is over. This is good because it stops you from dreaming about something that will never be.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 09:51 AM
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Taking the cash is dodgy and probably not a good idea. Has she declared it for tax? Could be a problem for her? Just be glad you won’t be paying alimony or child support. If you let the situation drag on for too long, you may find she gets pregnant and uses the baby to extract money from you long term. Not guaranteed but has happened to far too many men. Paternity test is your friend.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 09:49 AM
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I spent time there and it did help.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 09:44 AM
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This is an online male space, so eventually it will get taken over or closed. This is the way.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 09:42 AM
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Isn’t it crazy that those conditions are considered a win in today’s society. Roughly 50% of marriages end in divorce, which just goes to show that men who refuse to marry are the wise ones because they learn from watching other men. I am old school traditional, but there is no way I would marry in today’s society, too many risks.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 09:39 AM
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Understandable but an error nonetheless. In these cases I always preach philosophy and especially stoicism. Reading stoicism helped me in my dark days, maybe it will help you? Not everyone’s cup of tea but worth a try at least.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/24 03:10 PM
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You sir, are a scholar and a gentleman. I salute you. I hope that more men read this and learn to do it in their own way. Congratulations on your winning moves.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/24 05:30 AM
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Many men stay in marriages that are not good, for many reasons. The commonest reason is for the children. Don’t hate on a man who is trapped because he loves his children. Chances are, he will adjust or change perspective in the future, but for now staying in a bad marriage might be the best option out of all the bad options. Sometimes life is just a bit shit.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/24 05:23 AM
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I understand, I too had the constantly shifting goal posts plus gaslighting. It is so common that I think it is part of the standard female playbook. Once you see it for what it is, you cannot unsee it.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/24 05:16 AM
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Hard notice here. You are coming from a place of weakness, you have to change this. Mental and emotional strength that is under the control of logic and reason is vital for your future. I always suggest stoicism, but there are many philosophies that will help. As a starter, sit down and watch an hour or two of stoicism videos on YouTube and if it fits you, then buy some books. It won’t hurt to give it a try.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 03:38 PM
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The more relief you feel, the worse the situation you are leaving. It is a sign you are doing the right thing.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 03:33 PM
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Sadly correct. If he leaves Germany then he leaves his kids.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 03:30 PM
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Thank you for the invitation but I think I shall pass. Happily I am not interested in dating another woman. Married for 30 years and have zero interest in trying it again. Happy as I am.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 03:28 PM
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Oops, my bad. Forgot we were on the internet and need to avoid censorship. My view is that men and women are pretty much the same wherever and whenever you are, with slight social differences. Example, I enjoyed reading about the fall of the Roman Empire- and the parallels to modern society are enlightening.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 01:54 PM
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I understand. Whilst there are far too many women like this, it looks to be more of a problem in America. Sadly, UK is trying really hard to catch up.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 10:03 AM
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When I first found Coach Greg Adam’s I was put off by all of his American “culture “, he was difficult for me to watch. However, after a while I found him extremely useful and instructive- he is not stupid. Turns out an average white guy in the UK has shared female experiences as a black guy in America with very different cultures. Goes to show that women are women, wherever they live.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 09:59 AM
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It is not all women, but it is too many women. I am in UK and there are still plenty of good women, not as many as there used to be, but much better odds than it appears to be in America. Best advice is to leave America to find a good woman as almost every other country has better women. Also, if you are in UK, then probably best to leave for other countries to find better women. Sadly, feminism rules and we have to adapt to survive. Some men do get lucky, but for the average guy, the risk is to…
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 09:49 AM
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Status
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 08:37 AM
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Mostly agree. I have found that women tend to be dominated or under the control of their emotions- sometimes created emotions and sometimes genuine emotions but based on low level thinking. It is difficult for men to really come to terms with female emotions because most men have learnt to control their emotions and wonder why women can’t do the same.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 08:36 AM
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Different motivations at different times in life. One big one is that women are motivated by men with status, and this gets confused with money sometimes.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 08:32 AM
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Thank you for your amazing post. I hope many other men read it and gain inspiration in their tough times. I am a cerebral guy and would add reading philosophy especially stoicism.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/24 06:36 PM
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Take as much time as you need. Accept that there will be good times and bad times. Hit the gym and read stoicism. Audio and video record interactions with her, if it is legal where you are. Just hold it in backup in case she goes crazy on you. Only use as last resort.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/24 06:28 PM
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Cotton controlling your emotions. Do not be ashamed of your emotions because they are a part of who you are, equally don’t be controlled by your emotions. My biggest gain was finally learning to understand what motivates women.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/24 06:25 PM
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Forget excuses . Judge yourself and her by what you both do. Be the best dad you can be but do not live under her control.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 04:10 PM
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Women going to women. I suggest document everything and record conversations and phone calls. If you are good and she is bad, she will eventually trip herself up. Security video cameras are also recommended. In our society it is “believe all women “. It sucks, but it is where we are at. For others to believe you, you have to prove she is lying. The same is not true in reverse.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 10:59 AM
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Wisdom
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 10:55 AM
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Sounds like you don’t want to be her bitch, which is reasonable. Therefore leave. But, plan your escape. Take your time and do your own research. Firstly, after divorce, you will be her pay pig, and it will destroy you over the years. Solution? Become ill and lose your job. It is only money and she will take it anyway so let it go. Plan carefully to protect yourself and install home and car security cameras. Make yourself into a man that she wants to leave because some women go crazy if a man re…
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 10:48 AM
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Your emotional attachment to your daughter is totally justified however it is also the route that she will use to control and manipulate you. As long as this return you can only lose in your dealings with her because she knows your weak spot. To escape you need to be willing to walk away, and this is hard. I suspect what you want is a partnership and not a dictatorship. I suspect she is unable to work in partnership without being the dictator. Document every communication and be open and honest,…
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 10:39 AM
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This is the system and you bought into it. It is too late for you but at least younger men will learn from your experience. Now, I am sure there are many ways you can get out of those alimony payments, but they cannot be openly shared on Reddit for legal reasons. Do some homework and make a long term plan.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 10:30 AM
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It is your choice. You can choose to be captain save a hoe, or not.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 10:26 AM
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Sadly bored and living in her feelings. Sad to see that honour, commitment and loyalty are absent. What women who do this do not understand is that other, younger men, are watching and learning.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 10:24 AM
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History tells us that appeasement never works.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 10:19 AM
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Does anything it bizarre that a man has to fight hard in a divorce just to get a fair result? Doesn’t this show how badly the game is rigged?
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/24 07:12 AM
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If ex has cluster b personality disorder then the best advice is to run, and don’t stop running. They are dangerous.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/24 07:10 AM
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Hmmmm. The last part is the big point. She wants you to end. This is basically evil. I hope you do your best to leave her behind and start a new life without her. If she is truth evil, then she will use your son against you, and there can be little defence for you. Play the long game and hopefully your son will come back to you when he is free of her influence.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 10:08 AM
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You do not control hate. If you try to control hate you end up holding it tighter. The answer is to let it go, release it. This can be hard to do, but is possible through philosophy or counselling if you prefer. Love and hate are two sides of the same coin. The coin was your marriage, which no longer exists, so both love and hate need to go away. While you were married, your emotions served a purpose, but now you are divorced your emotions serve no purpose, so remove them.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 10:03 AM
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My level up was philosophy. Stoicism and Daoism plus some extras. I am now at a place that is close to nihilism but is not nihilistic. I just don’t give a shit anymore. It is a peaceful place to be. The big realisation was understanding that I can only control myself- and that is my focus.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 09:57 AM
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This particular hell was created by feminism and it is running its course. Sadly marriage is dying and will continue to decline and will eventually lead to the collapse of western civilisation- then our grand children get to rebuild again- and feminism will reappear to tear it all down again. Such is life.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 09:53 AM
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Brother hit the nail on the head. Follow this great advice. Play the long game while she plays the short game and you end up winning.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 09:44 AM
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OP is weak and needs to man up. Sounds horrible of me but I mean well. It is all about control. Ex wife controls OP because he still cares about what was in the past. She may not even know or care that she is in control. But ex wife has moved on and does not care anymore, sad but real. To be a man is to not be controlled by others, even ex wife. The way through this is to analyse the relationship thoroughly and recognise it is ended. OP needs to let go of a past that cannot be again. Then OP can…
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 09:41 AM
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50% divorce. Then bell curve remainder. 10% misery, 30% mixed happy and miserable, and last 10% happy. Adds up to 100%. So only 1 in 10 men remain happy in their marriage. Those odds do not look good and younger men are increasingly aware.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 09:31 AM
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What I find amazing is that there is never discussion about “alternative “ ways of spousal support removal.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 01:44 PM
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I hope you are right that it will be easy.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 11:55 AM
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It was the false accusation potential that had me worried. Early exposure of her actions may initiate a bad reaction whilst holding onto the information may make her think twice before a bad action. Depends on her nature but some women are evil whilst others are not. I guess you discover her true nature in the divorce procedure.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 10:19 AM
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Store and backup evidence of her poor choices. The backup is important and make sure it is at multiple offsite locations. Then choose to hold as leverage over her. Best option. Or share with family etc now to get some revenge. Worst option. Remember women care a great deal about their reputation so damaging it too soon may backfire.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 09:40 AM
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Just a comment. I find it interesting that our society is happy to force a man into indentured servitude to an ex wife. Women are great, marriage is great but divorce is hell for men. Wise young men today will not marry and it is simply because the risk and price of divorce is so high.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 09:34 AM
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Sounds like she still wants you to fulfil your husbandly duties of care and support of your children’s mother. The answer is, no. Just don’t be a dick about it. Nod along, ignore or whatever, just understand that her probate hers to deal with.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 09:28 AM
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Solid advice
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 09:24 AM
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She has realised that this time allocation gives her maximum child support.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/24 10:17 AM
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Assuming you are innocent then you are in trouble. You must divorce her because any woman who does this literally hates you and would be happy to see you stop breathing. She is doing evil things and will get away with it and she knows she will get away with it, which is why she is doing it. Check local laws, but I urge you to have video and audio recordings with you at all times, on you, in your car, at home/work. This might help you to prove your innocence in the future. Keep backup for years i…
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/24 10:14 AM
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Honestly, it all depends on your wife. She will make it hard or easy depending on her feelings. Best advice is be on best possible terms with your wife before, during and after the divorce. This is likely to be very difficult.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/24 10:06 AM
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I saw a post a while ago listing quite a few body positivity fat women from about 5-10 years ago. The thing they all have in common now is that they are dead.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/24 07:16 AM
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You, me, we - are all part of a growing social trend with an unpredictable future. You are far from alone in your experience and many men have it far worse than you. Thanks to the internet younger men are aware of how bad marriages can go, and are wisely choosing not to marry in the first place. The dark humour part is that it was women who started to abandon marriage, starting in 60’s and 70’s. Now men are belatedly agreeing with women and women aren’t happy.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/24 07:12 AM
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Bloody great reply. I hope men going through divorce read your comment and act on it. Some of the best advice I have seen here.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 09:37 PM
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No advice, but if she is rushing the sale then she has a very good reason to do so. You just don’t know her reason. Find out.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 09:33 PM
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Shitty situation. I think your problem is that you have not decided what you want your future to be. Make a decision and take action to make it happen. Prioritise yourself over your ex, maybe also your children because they can/will be used as weapons against you by your ex. Decide your path and go for it. Remember that every path has pro’s and con’s. You just have to be man enough to choose and live by the consequences of your choice.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 09:31 PM
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If she is captain evil then get security cameras installed, could be done as child monitors.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 07:23 PM
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Pain comes and goes. Just a heads up. Sounds like you are doing the childcare then kids sleep at hers. This might count against you later when lawyers get involved because technically she has the children all the time. You may find it more difficult to get time with your children after divorce. I advise having children sleep at yours as well as hers. If you read other threads here you will see how that kind of thing can go against the father in the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 07:21 PM
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Understand this: she will continue control and manipulate you for as long as she can, it is her nature. Your son is sadly just the tool she uses to manipulate you with. She cannot help herself and will not stop. Once you really understand who your ex is now, you can make mental and emotional adjustments. Before you even try to make adjustments to your relationship with your ex and son, you must work on improving yourself. Your post came over as weak and reactive and you need to be strong and pro…
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 05:28 PM
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In every scenario you lose, but different losses and wins for each pathway. Do your research and make a choice. I suspect many men choose the path of staying and riding it out- if that is an option you need to find ways to make it more to your liking- many alternatives can be negotiated. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 09:24 AM
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Sources. Office of national statistics in uK plus almost every western nation statistical body. Some variation but generally 50% divorce, 25% stay for kids etc leaving roughly 25% good marriages. Some countries do better but I think US is close to bottom of the pile for marriage statistics. Actually recent divorce data may be showing an improvement because marriage rates are plummeting. Basically a lot of people who probably shouldn’t get married are not getting married. So selection bias is cre…
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 04:37 PM
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Looking at stats, about 20% of marriages are good for both partners . If you were playing Russian roulette you would not play with those odds.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 03:38 PM
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Possible she is fighting for the dog as a proxy for fighting for kids. Be reasonable but stand your ground. The outcome could be used in fight for kids and demonstrates how you might behave with kids. Not speaking from knowledge, just speculation.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 02:29 PM
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Sounds like she played you well. Damage recovery is long and slow. Takes time and effort and you will have to prove to a judge that you are better. Recovery is absolutely possible.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 02:25 PM
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Not a diagnosis, but research narcissism and probably covert narcissism. You may find it helpful preparation.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 02:23 PM
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Stop wasting for her next move, you are reactive and you should be proactive. Decide what you want the outcome to look like and take the steps needed to achieve your goal. Divorce can be messy, so have a couple of back up plans. Set things in motion that you want to happen. If you do not she will end up making you dance to her tune for years to come.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 02:17 PM
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I do smile and I am happy, but I have a shadow which will not leave. It is not that I am not happy, it is that I have lost my innocence, that I believed for so long that my wife loved me. For information control, manipulation, bullying, shouting, silent treatment and hundreds of divorce threats, are not signs of love. I have contentment and understanding now.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 05:39 AM
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Nice guys finish last for a reason. I was the nice guy first 25 years of marriage until I understood I was also the dumb guy. I mentally emotionally and philosophically reframed the entirety of “me” and left mr nice guy behind. My refocus was on being “good” and not “nice”. And “good” definitely includes being good to me as well as others. An outside perspective of me right now would say I am more selfish than I was before, but this is incorrect, I just value myself more than I did previously. A…
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 05:32 AM
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Some the simplest best advice ever. I did similar many years ago but I was dumb and over did the gym because I lacked proper knowledge and ended up injuring myself. Do the gym but also research and do it wisely. I hope you learn from a stupid old man’s mistakes.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 05:24 AM
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Your story sounds so similar to many others. I understand the problem with externalising and many women do it and fail to take responsibility for themselves. Some men do this too but we are talking about women here. If you want to try to understand women then a YouTuber called Casey Zander produces content with top quality insights. He is not really my thing as he mostly focuses on dating advice for men, but his insights are very accurate. I am long past any desire to date. I suspect most women …
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 08:14 PM
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Different for everyone in every situation. Strong likelihood ex wife will use anything you do to cast shade on you, but do you care anymore? More basic stuff is potential STD and other relationship problems, but this is all common stuff that is your responsibility to negotiate a path through. Take care.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 05:58 AM
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Back to court. But document everything to back up your position. Video, texts, messages etc
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 05:33 AM
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Your wife is using the kids to inflict pain and suffering on you and this also causes pain and suffering for the kids. She knows this and does it anyway. She only cares about herself and is willing to sacrifice you and her own kids because of her feelings. Just understand what she does and why she does it. Then plot your own path forward. In cases like this there is no win, only slightly better alternatives. Hindsight shows you chose your wife poorly and now you just have to make the best decisi…
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 05:31 AM
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The answer is do whatever you want. Just understand that everything you do has consequences, both known and unknown. As long as you are able to accept those consequences, then you can date or not, FWB or not. Good luck in your journey.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 05:21 AM
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Damn that is rough. You were young and made some poor choices. But t you have to start making better choices. One suggestion is get cameras in your home and car etc. record interactions with ex. Don’t be a dick about it, but just use it as a way of proving your innocence, because if she is lying now it will only get worse.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 04:10 AM
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Definitely in her feelings then.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 08:48 PM
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The menopause change can be very real. It does not mean the past love was a lie, but it can mean that she is now a very different woman and she genuinely has no love for you today. Sometimes life is a bit shit. But you are not alone in experiencing this. Take time to heal and realise that the woman you love no longer exists and cannot return. I know this may not sound comforting but I speak from personal experience. You can rebuild yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 08:14 PM
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I noticed you said ‘compelled’. You are being manipulated, so just say no. Keep it simple and if asked for a reason for refusing to meet, then just explain you see no need to meet.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 08:00 PM
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The problem was her feelings. You have not mentioned anything, but it could be side effect of menopause.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 07:57 PM
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Debunking feminism is easy because it has been done so many times before. However the reality is no one cares to listen to logic. Hence men just walk away.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 08:35 PM
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I agree with the basic message, it is true. However I can, and do, also do all these things for myself. So what?
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 06:31 AM
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Yes. Primarily he is just making money. Occasionally he says something right.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 06:28 AM
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Yes. But this is exactly what female power is. So we shouldn’t be surprised when female power is on display. Similar to male power being a demonstration of strength, dominance or wealth. It is the hypocrisy that causes the problem.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 06:26 AM
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Maybe, but I am constantly amazed at how dumb some people can be. This precise example may not be real, but I have seen countless similar type posts of double standards and hypocrisy, also in real life.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 06:21 AM
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The last bit of OPs post is sad, true and real. Many men are simply choosing to avoid women socially or not have them as friends. The reality for men is that they have to be constantly on guard and self censor themselves in case they accidentally offend a woman. It becomes too much hassle for many men. So when it comes to social downtime and relaxation, they choose to hang with other men. This leads to many women getting less male attention. Of course, there are also the thirsty men who behave d…
/r/AntiFeminists17/12/22 07:09 AM
10

A 2007 study that most don’t care about because it is inconvenient. This is the way.
/r/AntiFeminists16/12/22 10:57 AM
4

Having a high body count is a choice for men and women, obviously easier for women to choose high body count because many men will have sex with most women. The high body count is not the issue itself. The problem comes when a high body count woman decides she wants marriage etc. she doesn’t have the skill set for ltr and as it is often said, she comes with baggage and has lost the ability to pair bond. The high body count woman who marries has a win and the simp has a loss because based on her …
/r/AntiFeminists15/12/22 11:19 PM
9

Came here to say this and you beat me to it. The over reliance on emotion is the downfall of feminism.
/r/AntiFeminists15/12/22 11:09 PM
37

Agreed that feminism hurts women, but I have no shit left to give. Men are frequently attacked for resisting feminism, so, in the end we just walk away. Women can fix their own shit, or not, it isn’t my problem.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 10:04 PM
1

Nothing at the end of this link. Was it meant to link to my care and concern for feminism?
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 10:00 PM
14

Egalitarian could be seen as equality, feminism is just jealousy and hate, whilst MGTOW is men ghosting in plain sight.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 09:58 PM
1

I assumed that Karen’s were the result of once desirable women realising they had aged out and men didn’t want them anymore. Ego deflation hurts.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 09:55 PM
2

Sorry to say, but I find most female characters in TV and film boring. Poorly written and one dimensional. Must suck to be an actress.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 11:52 AM
2

Yeah. Britain and Australia are the same yet completely different. What we can agree on is we love defeating the other at cricket.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 11:50 AM
3

Egalitarian would be for both sexes. Feminism is putting female above male. When you see it and understand then you cannot be a feminist unless you actually want that outcome. Slowly people are starting to understand the reality of feminism, but too many still believe the lie.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 11:42 AM
4

Sometimes it feels like race is brought into anti feminism to create unnecessary discord.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 05:45 AM
2

I too will ignore and move on. But I think this is more about men’s reactions to feminism rather than feminism.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 05:41 AM
3

It is the “control” aspect that bothers me. Why do they always need to control men?
/r/AntiFeminists10/12/22 05:12 PM
6

This is the UK
/r/AntiFeminists10/12/22 12:24 PM
1

Yep
/r/AntiFeminists10/12/22 12:23 PM
2

Thank you for fixing it.
/r/AntiFeminists10/12/22 12:22 PM
5

This is the reality.
/r/AntiFeminists10/12/22 11:41 AM
6

You would get a visit from the police for far less. Sadly, UK is going down.
/r/AntiFeminists10/12/22 11:40 AM
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Okay, but men tend to be better at violence than women.
/r/AntiFeminists10/12/22 11:10 AM
2

I wish this was the case, but there seems to be an endless supply of simps.
/r/AntiFeminists10/12/22 09:35 AM
3

Same experience here.
/r/AntiFeminists10/12/22 09:33 AM
2

Maybe, but it doesn’t work out well for many women. But not my problem.
/r/AntiFeminists10/12/22 09:31 AM
0

There are some crazy men out there, so caution is advised. Same for men dating women, there are some crazy women too, but they tend to take your money and not your life.
/r/AntiFeminists10/12/22 09:29 AM
0

I wish it was otherwise but I can’t disagree
/r/AntiFeminists09/12/22 01:03 PM
6

So ignoring and living your own life is attacking? I have seen MGTOW posts that are bashing women and I think they are coming from men in the early stages of red pill , when they realise they have been used all their life and are coming to terms with the loss of the blue pill dream. Very painful time, then they grow and move on, and are replaced by the next round of fresh red pill.
/r/AntiFeminists09/12/22 12:59 PM
3

Agreed
/r/AntiFeminists09/12/22 12:55 PM
4

I visited FDS once and it was great. I want every man alive to read that sub. Biggest red pill in the world.
/r/AntiFeminists09/12/22 12:55 PM
2

Typical feminist argument
/r/AntiFeminists09/12/22 12:53 PM
5

She knows but cannot break the sisterhood
/r/AntiFeminists09/12/22 12:51 PM
4

Women compete with women and pretend to compete with men.
/r/AntiFeminists09/12/22 12:49 PM
2

I am partial to a bit of replicantphish. Guy is often spot on and funny. It appears he learnt by experience and is happy to share his insights.
/r/AntiFeminists09/12/22 12:48 PM
3

Yes but we know that won’t happen
/r/AntiFeminists07/12/22 05:01 AM
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I think some women come here after realising feminism hurts women more than it helps them. Problem is they find that so many men have simply given up and are walking away and living their best life. Must suck when you realise how bad things have got.
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/22 08:05 PM
50

Always wrong. A promise is to be kept.
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/22 08:01 PM
5

Sad story of a woman doing bad stuff. Not really about feminism, but maybe an outcome from feminism, but this went on before feminism. Brother, try and let go if this anger towards women, it only hurts you. Walk away and become your own man. A good man accepts these things happen, but refuses to have them in his life. Yes, reject bad women, but grow out of the anger. When the things women do, no longer affects you, you will be free. I suspect this is a hard time for you as you learn about femini…
/r/AntiFeminists04/12/22 07:35 PM
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Good message. I agree. This is why I support men not engaging in marriage. Leave women to their own devices. A man should prioritise himself, his life, hobbies, career and his needs. Then from this position of strength he may choose to engage with women on a level that suits his character, needs and wants. All of this can be achieved without anger, hatred or spite. Indeed, these negative emotions often indicate that the man has not yet come into his position of freedom and strength.
/r/AntiFeminists04/12/22 07:25 PM
2

The concern for me is that some women believe that this is acceptable and see no issue. Men need to listen, learn and avoid these women. In my blue pilled days I would have defended women, today I just ignore and leave them to handle their own shit. The only exception is family, and I don’t have feminist friends.
/r/AntiFeminists04/12/22 11:35 AM
2

Okay. Try gender equality in non contact sports. Try tennis, there would be no women in the top 200.
/r/AntiFeminists04/12/22 11:27 AM
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In WW2 Russia had many women soldiers, who were so difficult for the Germans, when captured, that eventually Germany stopped capturing them and just killed them to prevent them being prisoners of war. Women weren’t great soldiers and they were even worse POWs.
/r/AntiFeminists04/12/22 11:24 AM
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Sadly, I don’t think most feminists wanted this outcome, but, it is what it is.
/r/AntiFeminists04/12/22 11:15 AM
3

Tbh a silly post. However, it would be interesting if when gaming and selecting a gender for your character , the character stats reflected gender norms. Fun thought.
/r/AntiFeminists04/12/22 11:12 AM
4

This should more widely known
/r/AntiFeminists04/12/22 07:12 AM
2

Not really, but I do think it is an unintended outcome, which is why that sub can be seen as a good thing.
/r/AntiFeminists04/12/22 07:11 AM
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So often, their attacks on men come down to “shame “ because, so often, it actually works. The key for men is to become immune to shaming tactics. Then we win. I was subject to shame up to the age of 45, when I realised it was a control tactic, at which point I rejected shame and became free.
/r/AntiFeminists04/12/22 07:05 AM
1

I don’t listen to their accusations
/r/AntiFeminists03/12/22 06:54 PM
14

Angry feminist is mad western men don’t want her. Not my problem, but I will grab some popcorn.
/r/AntiFeminists03/12/22 06:47 AM
6

True, but this is good. Let the crazies expose themselves, it only helps even more men learn the truth.
/r/AntiFeminists03/12/22 06:43 AM
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I am older and have no skin in the dating game, so choose to ignore if you want. But, I would not pay for dates. I would suggest sex first (if that is what I wanted) and then maybe I would take you out. Still split the bill, or take turns. Not being shitty, just honest. Why shouldn’t I state what I want at the start? Sure, many would say no, and that is good because I wouldn’t get what I wanted anyway plus I would save time and money. There is a rider to this. Things would be different if I actu…
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/22 10:43 PM
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I am still of the opinion that much of the race angst is caused by elites operating a divide and conquer strategy. Even feminism falls under this definition.
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/22 10:36 PM
2

Guessing there will be an 18 age limit.
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 06:40 PM
4

This we know.
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 06:39 PM
6

I hear what you say, but what if you had daughters and not sons? In that alternate world you would likely still be a feminist because you gain and do not experience any losses. Be that as it may, you are one of many who see the flaws in feminism. Be careful, as you may now be seen as a traitor to the cause. They don’t like traitors.
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 06:38 PM
3

Great video. Sexism and racism rolled into one. Pretty dumb.
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 10:25 PM
5

Both men and women can be alone, that is a fact. A non fact observation is that women tend towards loneliness more than men. Alone is a fact whilst loneliness is an emotion.
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 10:23 PM
1

Shroedinger’s cat. The state of a particle is only fixed when it is observed.
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 01:01 PM
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We can’t. I think we need the collapse first then the rebuild.
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 11:45 AM
2

Fair comment
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 11:44 AM
1

Nice post Wingflier. But those angry men posting are in the early stages, often called the red pill rage. They will grow out of it, only to be replaced by the next wave of newbies. It is just natural, but frustrating at times. Give them time, space and education and they will grow through the pain of realising their life foundation is a lie. The pain of having your world turned upside down and understanding how stupid you were to accept feminism is quite extraordinary and usually self directed, …
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 09:55 PM
4

Because he still thinks they can be reasoned with. He has hope still in his heart that women will see the errors of their ways and change their minds. Never going to happen.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 09:39 PM
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Both are bad but feminist men are dangerous.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 09:36 PM
4

Don’t panic. Yes, the majority of men are weak and blue pilled, but not all. There will be a minority and maybe a significant minority of men who aren’t feminists. I have hope that men are learning and realising the truth. Andrew Tate is just the latest in a long line of men who stand and tell the truth, and get cancelled. There will be another man in 2023. They cannot suppress the truth.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 09:35 PM
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Men are not allowed to question women. It is the way you know who has real power.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 09:30 PM
5

I think some simps are already living in that future.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 09:29 PM
2

I think women should not take a man’s name. Because I don’t think marriage should be a thing. So, do I kind of agree with this feminist?
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 09:28 PM
1

Historically just about any part of the human body can be sexualised , today it is boobs, a couple of hundred years ago it was ankles. Not joking.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 09:26 PM
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Hey dude. Learn to chill and get past the angry phase. Honestly, this angry time is dangerous for you, you may make a mistake and get hit hard by the feminist machine. Keep your head down and watch them to learn their ways. May take years. I found out that it is pointless arguing with feminists, and be wary of white knight simps. Eventually you will just learn to focus on you and live your best life for you and not be a slave to the system. The next 5 years will be hard for you, hormones are rea…
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 08:35 PM
0

But only when you look.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 07:13 PM
2

A win today, but in ten years time we will be complaining Elon owns everything.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 07:10 PM
6

Yes. And this puts monetary value on different people. Stand back and look at it from a distance and it is repulsive.
/r/AntiFeminists26/11/22 08:58 AM
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Just wondering, if you included abortion in death statistics, who kills more, men or women? I know this is a distraction from the main point made, but I do wonder.
/r/AntiFeminists24/11/22 01:00 PM
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This OP sounds young frustrated and angry. This is an early stage in the journey a man must make. What we see hear is the realisation that the hopes and dreams are just smoke and mirrors. It is a painful place to be. At some point OP will be able to grow and move out of this painful place, into maturity. Hopefully, he will realise that he is a man and must rely on himself, build himself and become content with his life. Eventually when he is content, he will realise that he doesn’t need a woman,…
/r/AntiFeminists24/11/22 05:45 AM
4

In my experience I am open and honest about what I want. Also, women are not open, they like to live in the grey space if plausible deniability.
/r/AntiFeminists21/11/22 07:08 PM
4

Tate is traditionalist at heart. Me, not so much.
/r/AntiFeminists21/11/22 01:01 PM
2

We have been arguing facts and statistics for years and they turn it around to feelings. The argument cannot be won because feminists will not engage honestly. Just walk away, it is our last best hope.
/r/AntiFeminists21/11/22 12:59 PM
8

Exactly
/r/AntiFeminists20/11/22 08:02 PM
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You don’t defeat feminism by fighting it. You defeat feminists by ignoring them and walking away.
/r/AntiFeminists20/11/22 07:05 PM
3

Women don’t even know or understand themselves. Recent decades of feminism shouting for equality and at the same time the fastest selling book in history was 50 shades of Grey. Think about what that tells men about women.
/r/AntiFeminists20/11/22 10:10 AM
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I have similar experiences as well. Sadly some women just don’t know how to be happy and seem to live off creating drama. Must be hell to be inside their head… not even joking.
/r/AntiFeminists20/11/22 10:07 AM
3

This is the way
/r/AntiFeminists20/11/22 10:03 AM
2

Cannot see this in my life experience. I and other older men are not afraid of getting old. However, I know many older women who are very afraid of getting old. It is not the same in my experience. Older = 40/50
/r/AntiFeminists20/11/22 10:02 AM
1

Face it guys, they simply have no respect, which makes it easier for us to walk away.
/r/AntiFeminists20/11/22 08:02 AM
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I have practiced this for years. I get occasional push back, but I just don’t care anymore. I say this as someone who was super blue pilled for 45 years due to indoctrination. I am better now
/r/AntiFeminists20/11/22 08:00 AM
2

A useful article for younger MGTOW to read. I am 55 and couldn’t give a shit.
/r/AntiFeminists20/11/22 07:55 AM
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I understand that now, but it took me decades to realise actually how bad feminism really is. It was a painful but worthwhile journey for me. What amazes me is the huge number of young men who understand the badness in feminism at a young age. The next few decades will be interesting.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 10:02 PM
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A very sad story indeed, she couldn’t handle the reality of life for most men. I suspect her story will get repeated many times and it do matter to feminists because they won’t change because they don’t want to.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 07:23 PM
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Well said brother. I think Thunder is still new to all this and is still on his journey to understanding truth. Hopefully he will start to do his own research into what feminism is all about, and has always been about.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 07:19 PM
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Sad but true. Most men do not understand this yet, but men are slowly learning. And when men understand that society doesn’t care about them, men will stop caring about society… with obvious outcomes.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 07:14 PM
1

We are going to see more and more of these types of news stories. Already UK has had a few if “women becoming prostitutes due to recession “. Sorry, not my problem.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 07:11 PM
2

I think your response rate will be low. We have learnt that on these occasions we get misrepresented, vilified and not listened to. Maybe you are genuine, but thousands before you were not. Men are slowly learning how to play the game. Many of us just walk away.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 07:07 PM
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Agreed. The sensible thing to do is walk away and ignore them. It was never about lack of knowledge or stupidity. It was always hate based on fear resulting in control. I choose to walk away.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 07:03 PM
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Strange. I haven’t heard anything about international men’s day on the TV today. Maybe UK doesn’t recognise international men’s day?
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 07:00 PM
1

Not the case in UK. The elites wanted women in the workforce to pay taxes. It happened.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 06:58 PM
2

Good man
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 02:28 PM
0

This entire thread proves your premise wrong. You can indeed have a good conversation about feminism, here on the antisemitism sun. Bizarre isn’t it. Just goes to show you where the sane people are.
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/22 07:16 PM
2

Haha. This post highlights reddits shitty place. Survey removed from all feminist subs. Equality sub and antifeminists seem the only subs to allow it. Notice who you are allowed to question. Censorship is real. Good luck being allowed to find any real data. You are not supposed to question those in power. And I will probably get banned for pointing this obvious truth out.
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/22 07:12 PM
1

Your questions are not gender balanced properly. Questions are mostly superficial but okay, give it a go. Good luck with your project.
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/22 07:06 PM
4

Some great points made. Men need to listen to these feminists and put together a cohesive response. I suggest men should act in support and refuse all marriage. Yes, men should walk away from marriage, divorce your wives and never propose in the future. Seems like a solid plan to me.
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/22 06:57 PM
1

You are a scholar.
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 08:27 PM
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Don’t be angry and don’t self harm. Train yourself to not care, it is the best path I have found. By not caring it makes it harder for them to control you and you become free. Free to choose your own path in life that fits you the best. When you lose emotional attachment you become free.
/r/AntiFeminists15/11/22 11:20 AM
6

Truth
/r/AntiFeminists15/11/22 11:17 AM
8

True, but it wasn’t a dumb decision, she got exactly what she was after.
/r/AntiFeminists14/11/22 09:53 PM
1

Maybe, maybe not. They are here and that is a fact. We can choose to ignore them and live our best lives for ourselves. Try not to hate like they do, hate hurts you.
/r/AntiFeminists14/11/22 06:44 AM
1

You are entitled to your views. I just don’t care. I wish you well on your journey.
/r/AntiFeminists14/11/22 06:42 AM
3

Yea. The outcome is that more and more men are choosing for themselves, and this drives you crazy.
/r/AntiFeminists14/11/22 04:47 AM
3

I am not competing because I really am not interested in you. You were just a bit of entertainment for me on a slow Sunday afternoon.
/r/AntiFeminists14/11/22 04:11 AM
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I don’t need to.
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 09:26 PM
2

Straw man.
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 09:11 PM
2

Nope. You just don’t want men to be free of control. If you understood freedom, you would want it for men.
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 09:11 PM
3

You throw buzzwords around which makes them meaningless.
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 09:09 PM
3

Wow, so much projection. Great use of meaningless buzzwords. As I said before, I want men to have real freedom to choose their own path in life, free from control and manipulation. Sounds like we both want the same thing for our respective genders. So no need to argue. Have a nice day.
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 08:32 PM
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No confusion on my part. I advocate that men should have freedom to choose their life path, without control or manipulation by others. Basically the foundation of feminism for women, but for men. And feminists hate men having freedom to choose.
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 07:07 PM
4

I actually agree. I am really pro masculine. But this place is close enough for me.
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 06:55 PM
3

Your question came over to me as rhetorical, therefore my statement stands.
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 06:38 PM
5

Sad but true
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 05:47 PM
2

Thank you for sharing a feminist victim mentality for men to see. Every reminder of feminist gas lighting is golden. I thank you for your valuable contribution.
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 05:42 PM
5

It is never about them, they will not be held responsible. We are men and we will always be held responsible. So, fighting back is difficult because our hands are tied whilst theirs are not. Therefore, we just walk away. This is our power because while we need each other, they need us more than we need them.
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 07:32 AM
1

Women are chaos and men are order. Feminism is just an expression of chaos.
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 06:30 AM
2

Arguing with feminists is a pointless waste of time. Because I have time to spare, and it is a fun sport, I often argue with feminists, but I do it for entertainment rather than hoping they will change. The key is to recognise that they will avoid logic and reason and go straight into creating an emotional response from you. Their goal is to knock over your emotional foundation, and they are very skilled at this. They have to do this because they cannot win with logic and reason. Before you argu…
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 06:25 AM
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Not cool bro. Not eliminated, but ghosted, ignored and sidelined because she has placed herself outside of value to a man.
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 06:03 AM
2

Agreed
/r/AntiFeminists12/11/22 03:46 PM
10

Okay, this is funny and all that. But seriously, nazis and feminism have many things in common and one of those things is eugenics. I actually find this terrifying.
/r/AntiFeminists12/11/22 03:27 AM
5

Yes, yea, yes. We men are not allowed to complain, if we do, we will be shamed. This is reality and also why we should continue to talk about it.
/r/AntiFeminists12/11/22 03:23 AM
4

Thank you.
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/22 11:05 AM
11

Most men naturally have a tendency to duty and honour, and this is good when there is reciprocation. What we see today is that feminism tells women not to reciprocate, and thus is fine. The outcome is that men learn to walk away from duty and honour towards women, and this too is fine. Feminism asked for equality but doesn’t like the logical outcome, too bad. I do not advocate for hatred towards women, rather I advocate that men should walk away from a bad deal. Women seem to view this as misogy…
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/22 06:53 AM
1

I agree, but have you seen our leaders? Not what I would call leadership.
/r/AntiFeminists10/11/22 12:58 PM
2

Lesson learnt. Don’t approach women, ever.
/r/AntiFeminists10/11/22 10:21 AM
1

Well, they certainly have the meds.
/r/AntiFeminists10/11/22 10:20 AM
3

Traditional men would die for traditional women. That is history. Not going to risk dying anymore because that would be “toxic masculinity “. Sometimes equality isn’t what you expect.
/r/AntiFeminists10/11/22 10:19 AM
2

I love the “showing out of context clips” as an excuse. That makes my entire life “an out of context clip”.
/r/AntiFeminists10/11/22 10:16 AM
6

In older times a king went to war or sent his son the prince. Maybe we should bring this back? A leader who goes to war, goes as well or sends their son or closest relatives. It would be interesting to see what happens.
/r/AntiFeminists10/11/22 10:14 AM
4

It is already too late. Many men are just giving up on women and this will only increase. Very sad and there is no intention to change things.
/r/AntiFeminists09/11/22 01:10 PM
2

Sounds like someone is using gender as a political club.
/r/AntiFeminists08/11/22 02:10 PM
24

I suspect they are projecting. I have noticed many men seem “heartless “ out of self protection. Who knows, maybe this is projecting as well?
/r/AntiFeminists08/11/22 06:19 AM
11

India makes me sad. So blue.
/r/AntiFeminists07/11/22 11:15 PM
5

This just shows a level of hatred and evil that makes me sad. Reinforces my belief that it is right to walk away from women. Leave them in the dust and when they cry for help , do not help them. Do this with no hatred, in fact, do this without any emotion.
/r/AntiFeminists07/11/22 12:49 PM
3

I know. I am in UK and the law is so lopsided it makes me think this country hates men. Fortunately, I am not a hateful person, so it just makes me stop caring about this country. I don’t think I am alone.
/r/AntiFeminists06/11/22 07:52 PM
7

Which is why standards are manipulated
/r/AntiFeminists06/11/22 02:15 PM
2

Sad but true
/r/AntiFeminists06/11/22 01:59 PM
4

Only some men have the strength to walk away. It takes about 10% if a population to really engage and bring about change. I suspect that in the next few decades the 10% will be reached in the west. Men don’t need to walk away from society. Just refuse long term relationships and especially marriage and the society shift will happen. But it will take decades unless we hit collapse for another reason.
/r/AntiFeminists06/11/22 11:20 AM
19

Nearly all men CAN be rapists. But few have the will. Other men punish rapists. Maybe not ideal, but it mostly works. Now can we talk about women who rape?
/r/AntiFeminists06/11/22 11:15 AM
11

And we can watch it happen today. Sit back and get some popcorn.
/r/AntiFeminists06/11/22 07:35 AM
5

There is no answer to this double standard because feminists will not negotiate. Mens best option is to walk away.
/r/AntiFeminists06/11/22 07:34 AM
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Brothers need to learn. Women care about women, not men. Just accept it and move on with your life and learn not to care about women because you will always lose in an unbalanced world. Caring for yourself should be a man’s number one priority.
/r/AntiFeminists05/11/22 06:24 AM
2

We all know that men are disposable and it is a bitter pill to swallow. Once you understand the reality you can move on and build yourself for you. This is an example of short term pain and long term gain. Very sadly, some men do not survive the pain stage.
/r/AntiFeminists05/11/22 06:20 AM
3

Single mums should not be ostracised, no one should. However, a wise man would do well not to get involved with a single mum. The two are different but I can see why those wanting to manipulate men would conflate the two.
/r/AntiFeminists05/11/22 06:17 AM
4

Sadly no. Smiles etc are an outcome of your emotional state and indicates your personality and character, and this makes it hard for bad people. It is much easier to get surgery to make it look like you are a good and kind person. It takes a lot of effort for some people to actually be good.
/r/AntiFeminists05/11/22 06:14 AM
5

Anyone who stands against feminism will be attacked socially or even physically. You can do what you want, but it is already too late, feminism is finished and they don’t know yet. The reason is too many men have decided to walk away from women and they won’t come back. Many men are rejecting marriage and long term relationships. It wouldn’t matter if it was men who women did want, and some are, but a lot are the calibre of man that women would want. I am in my 50’s and married for decades and a…
/r/AntiFeminists04/11/22 11:49 AM
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I feel sorry for young men today. The rules for men are based on how a woman feels, which means rules are not fixed, therefore there are no rules that have meaning. Rules exist to set standards and they need to be consistent, which they are not. I wish the best for young men, good luck.
/r/AntiFeminists04/11/22 06:20 AM
2

Sometimes
/r/AntiFeminists04/11/22 06:15 AM
10

I don’t and no they don’t.
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/22 05:13 PM
13

Wow. So many words to say, ‘men are bad’. What feminists are having a hard time with, is men are stopping listening to them.
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/22 05:12 PM
18

Yep. Feminists and overlords. Enjoy your time here while you can. It will either be controlled or removed. I got a three day ban last week, so I know time is limited. If you want free speech then head over to communities . Win and look for MGTOW. That place has its own issues but censorship is not one of them.
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/22 05:06 PM
6

I have heard that East European women are not easy at any level. They may not be feminists but they are demanding.
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/22 04:24 PM
11

Enjoy this place while it lasts. Don’t get too invested because our overlords are watching.
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/22 06:15 AM
1

That’s fine
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/22 06:13 AM
13

If saying women have periods is banned, can you get banned for saying men have testicles?
/r/AntiFeminists02/11/22 10:31 PM
16

Nice
/r/AntiFeminists02/11/22 10:13 PM
8

I don’t think misinformation is the problem. You are exposing reality and feelings get hurt. With an anti feminist place run by the mods who have feminists as overlords, this post is a problem. Good work brother. See you after the ban. This is my first post after a 3 day ban suggesting that paying for sex is a viable alternative to dating. Let’s see how long I last this time.
/r/AntiFeminists02/11/22 03:49 PM
1

Do what are men to do? Perhaps we should leave women alone, no dating or marriage and when we want sex just pay for it.
/r/AntiFeminists29/10/22 05:37 AM
2

Leave them to expose themselves.
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/22 07:39 PM
4

A tragic woman.
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/22 07:37 PM
7

Talking sense.
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/22 07:35 PM
8

Wow. I just listened to her latest rambling podcast. I am older UK man and I hear a lot of shit about American young women and always think it is over exaggerated. Damn, she is the personification of American women. Constant double standards and self contradictions, unbelievably entitled, self centred and spoilt written. Amazing. American men, go listen to her and tell me if she is like most American women. If she is, then American men need to leave.
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/22 05:34 PM
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I am simple. I believe in equality. I believe no women are worth defending. I believe women are strong and independent and can fix their own shit. Anything else would be the patriarchy.
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/22 05:09 PM
5

This sort of man hating is brilliant. It just tells more and more men the truth of women. I really hope men listen to this podcast. Maybe more will wake up?
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/22 05:07 PM
1

Sorry to offend you brother. Sadly, I was agreeing with you and trying to be funny. My bad. I guess sarcasm needs to be flagged.
/r/AntiFeminists27/10/22 06:27 PM
2

That was a great sub. Go to communities.win to find them again.
/r/AntiFeminists27/10/22 06:21 PM
8

Maybe. Why don’t we find out for real. Test everyone?
/r/AntiFeminists27/10/22 06:19 PM
1

Just because you are paranoid, doesn’t mean the feminists aren’t out to get you.
/r/AntiFeminists27/10/22 05:05 AM
1

I get that you would not have satisfaction in that scenario, but majority of women still take and use that power. I heard a woman openly say she got a very good job because she was the only female Candidate the company said they needed to balance employee genders. She seemed happy to have got a job that better male candidates got looked over for. I suspect she was unaware of the implications of what she was saying. Just a small example of feminism being used by women for their advantage. It is t…
/r/AntiFeminists27/10/22 05:00 AM
2

I think there are still some, but demand outstrips supply.
/r/AntiFeminists25/10/22 07:33 PM
5

No need. This is just divisive rhetoric. In essence, men and women should be a team and women left the team which means men are slowly realising that they need to stop playing the team game.
/r/AntiFeminists25/10/22 05:05 PM
12

I think this is an overblown account of what traditional women are supposed to do, now, find me a traditional woman.
/r/AntiFeminists25/10/22 05:01 PM
1

Hardly
/r/AntiFeminists25/10/22 01:46 PM
1

Companies advertise to make money, so what? For me, it highlights the double standard men have to face. I encourage men to walk away from all of this bovine evacuation and live their own best lives. In other words, men need to be more selfish, which is hard because men naturally want to provide for their woman. Men need to step away from their traditional role.
/r/AntiFeminists25/10/22 05:42 AM
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I cannot speak for young men. As an older man I just refuse the double standard that proliferates through feminism. I will not take part in a rigged game and I am amazed so many younger men are catching on so quickly. Congratulations young men, you are doing life better than me.
/r/AntiFeminists24/10/22 05:51 PM
5

True, but overall men pay more tax than women and take less out than women. Most men are okay with this unless women go crazy and start blaming men for everything
/r/AntiFeminists24/10/22 07:43 AM
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It is unchecked and enough men won’t fight back. Therefore, just check out, leave them alone and live your best life as a man and choose not to give a fuck about feminists.
/r/AntiFeminists24/10/22 07:39 AM
1

I don’t have instagram and can’t read link unless I log into instagram.
/r/AntiFeminists24/10/22 06:01 AM
2

Sadly, this is the only answer. I am an older man who grew up traditional with feminism indoctrination. It took me a long time to learn the truth. My bad. However, I cannot see why any man would marry today.
/r/AntiFeminists24/10/22 05:58 AM
2

How to identify a feminist? Listen to her friends. Watch her friends. Follow them on social media and check history. A feminist trying to role play a traditional woman will do a good enough job to confuse you. Her friends won’t.
/r/AntiFeminists24/10/22 05:54 AM
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Two aspects. There have always been bachelors in society, some gay and some straight. Secondly, modern feminism and how society bashes men, makes MGTOW just logical self protection. The problem is the MGTOW philosophy is growing, which is great for the individual man, but bad for wider society. Society doesn’t want to abandon feminism so MGTOW and similar will only grow. The names will change, but men will continue to walk away. One sad aspect is some women will realise this and try to return to…
/r/AntiFeminists24/10/22 05:48 AM
1

I have no political affiliation. I do want equality, which we don’t have. This is why I am against feminism. Sadly I believed in feminism up until I was around 45. Then I realised what was going on. My regret is believing the feminist lies for so long. I am at a point now where I care less and less about society and it is a react to feminism. Feminism hates men and if I point this out I get hated even more. End result is I, and other men, just walk away. Sad, but not my problem. My fear for soci…
/r/AntiFeminists24/10/22 05:37 AM
2

She is entitled to her opinion, even if it is kill all men. My reaction is to simply not have such pain my life, or help them in any way. I also am shocked that this hatred is allowed, accepted and possibly encouraged in our society. Therefore I will not help society either. Step away boys and let them destroy themselves And society. Survive and rebuild after the chaos.
/r/AntiFeminists23/10/22 08:27 AM
1

Life is better when you find peace.
/r/AntiFeminists22/10/22 07:22 AM
1

Sadly I disagree. Knowledge is spreading amongst those who look. The majority of people don’t look and to them this is just weird. I wish it was otherwise
/r/MensRights21/10/22 12:40 PM
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She does a pretty good job but it is based on self interest. She is supporting mens rights because she has sons and is looking out for their best interests, which is entirely proper in itself.
/r/AntiFeminists21/10/22 11:06 AM
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I am old school. I think the best environment for a kid is to have a mother and a father. Anything else is less than optimum. Lacking a dad is an excuse but when you Become an adult it becomes your problem to fix, it isn’t easy or fair, in reality it is hard, but it is still up to you to fix. Sometimes life sucks.
/r/AntiFeminists21/10/22 11:03 AM
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Because few women have ever felt the actual power of a man, they get away with this kind of bullshit and delusion. Most men are not going to attack a woman but there are some really bad men who will and they won’t be intimidated by a few keys. In almost every real life violent encounter if you are a man or a woman, the best advice is to run.
/r/AntiFeminists21/10/22 10:57 AM
2

Yeah. I get where you are coming from. I am now in the position where I simply do not care anymore, I feel no great joy at feminist fails, just sadness that humans have got it so wrong. Up until maybe 10 years ago I was the bluest of blue pills and swallowed the feminist line, hook, line and sinker. Funny how life teaches you lessons and makes you stronger.
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/22 12:12 PM
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I don’t think it really matters what the mod does, this sub is running on borrowed time because it goes against society’s narrative. I am here, while it lasts. Eventually this sub will be removed just like other male voices. Feminism does not allow contrary voices. This is the way.
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/22 08:04 AM
1

This site is yet another example of women ‘shaming’ men in order to exact control over them. Men need to wake up to what is going on, this type of control, shaming and manipulation is common place. It is approved of by women and society. There is an answer. Avoid long term relationships and do not marry. I am an old traditional man, but logic and reason cannot persuade me that relationships with women have any future in our society. I wish things were different, but they aren’t.
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/22 07:57 AM
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As a man I do think it is all about choice. I have fully taken on board that I, as a man, have free choice to do what the hell I want to do, without reference to others… the extra point to this, is that I am fully responsible for all outcomes of my choices. Feminism gets so close, but drops short of the responsibility part. This is why I cannot take feminists seriously. If feminists want to be taken seriously by men, then they need to be fully self responsible first.
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/22 07:48 AM
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No one knows what feminism is. I have researched it and there is no answer. Feminism is whatever a woman wants it to be and she changes her mind everyday.
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 09:33 PM
1

Nope. I just can’t be bothered with you today. Maybe another day when I am in the mood.
/r/AntiFeminists01/10/22 08:41 PM
1

Nope. Do your own research
/r/AntiFeminists30/09/22 04:45 PM
1

Hey bud. You do you. Not judging your tastes
/r/AntiFeminists30/09/22 10:42 AM
2

Biology. Didn’t say it was fair, just reality
/r/AntiFeminists30/09/22 10:41 AM
3

Nope. Women choose who to have sex with and men choose who to be in a relationship with.
/r/AntiFeminists29/09/22 07:57 PM
2

But a lock can be opened by a key, so the original analogy still stands.
/r/AntiFeminists29/09/22 07:56 PM
3

I don’t think a key can be opened.
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/22 12:09 PM
1

I am not an MRA. I just no longer give a fuck. Living my best life.
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/22 12:06 PM
4

The background story is that a high body count for women means those men chose not to be in a relationship with her. She is not relationship material.
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/22 09:02 AM
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How do you open a key?
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/22 08:59 AM
10

Great take on the situation
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/22 11:35 AM
4

Even feminists can’t agree on a definition of feminism, so why should we be bothered?
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/22 11:31 AM
5

I read an article that explained they added drunk sex and persuaded sex to rape figures for women. However they did not add them in the same way for men. Strange that.
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/22 10:17 AM
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Eventually you learn that feminists can’t speak with logic and they lie frequently - therefore, you stop talking to feminists because you realise that they have no concept of truth that is transferable to others - in other words they generate “their own lived truths”, which is pointless to anyone except themselves.
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/22 10:35 AM
1

I too wish people were better, but I am a realist. This may offend. I think it is my responsibility to not place myself in danger as far as possible, because I know there are some bad people around. Example, I would not walk around certain areas at night showing wealth that someone might want to take from me. This would be stupid and inviting bad people to do bad things to me. Similar for women, and this is where women get angry, but realism and common sense is how we should operate. Apparently …
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/22 11:36 AM
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Thank you for the response. Honestly, I am confused as I know little of what you are talking about. It is all outside of my experience. But I wish you well and I hope America finds a way to heal. Good luck.
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/22 09:19 AM
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All I can add to this is from personal experience of women family and friends over 55 years and I have seen the desire for babies hit women around the age of 30 every single time, without exception. I am sure there are some women who do not go through this , but I have never met them. Classic example, my mum told me she dumped her long standing boyfriend because he would not marry her and instead married my dad so she could have her babies. Callous.
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/22 09:00 AM
1

MGTOW is a philosophy that is great, but beyond most men because most men desire women and this makes them weak and easily manipulated. Many men learn MGTOW through decades of marriage, but a change has been happening where younger men learn MGTOW and avoid marriage before it is too late. It will be fascinating to see how MGTOW evolves and grows over the coming decades. I suspect it will always be a minority choice, but it’s growth is undeniable.
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/22 08:52 AM
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Not the cause of low birth rate, but you totally nailed a massive topic that will cause lower birth rate in the coming decades. Yet few, if any, want to talk about this.
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/22 08:45 AM
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Disagree. I think every individual is responsible for their own actions and the consequences of those actions. Feminism protects women from their consequences, which is why I am an anti feminist. I am also against men being protected from consequences of their actions as well, but this usually revolves around money and power and is not the experience of most men.
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/22 08:38 AM
2

I am from the UK and find the American obsession with race to be bizarre. The rest of the world isn’t like America.
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/22 08:30 AM
3

Roe did it
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/22 12:01 AM
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I am not sure I want to change society because I don’t think society wants to change. I will just continue my path of simply not caring what women want, after all, why should I care?
/r/AntiFeminists13/09/22 02:53 PM
2

You hit the nail on the head, and society supports it. Crazy world we live in .
/r/AntiFeminists13/09/22 02:36 PM
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I am older and long past any desire to date. If I really wanted sex, I would just pay upfront. At least it is honest.
/r/AntiFeminists13/09/22 02:30 PM
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Walking away is best. I still try to debate online in Reddit, but in the real world I have walked away and just follow my own path free from caring about what women think or feel. It is very liberating, like finding myself free from bondage after a lifetime of slavery.
/r/AntiFeminists13/09/22 02:28 PM
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This is the way
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/22 02:15 PM
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I haven’t tried to win with women for years. It is just not worth the effort. I have found it much easier and peaceful to just get on and do my own thing. Before anyone calls me an incel, I was married for 30 years. To be fair, I was a slow learner and wish I had moved women out of my life a long time ago.
/r/AntiFeminists03/09/22 03:58 PM
2

If you know some history, then you will understand the parallels to the fall of Rome.
/r/AntiFeminists26/08/22 09:17 AM
2

But your suggestions are on point.
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 10:33 AM
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I spoke to a UK police officer specifically about this and I asked him to define ‘drunk’ and he was unable to. So it is possible for a woman to be totally sober and claim she was drunk and it becomes rape. The context was a police talk on this topic in a school.
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 10:31 AM
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Agreed, but the law is not very nuanced in these cases, so act as you see fit, but be careful.
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 10:27 AM
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Apparently not
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 10:26 AM
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Wise men should take note of this and act accordingly.
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 10:25 AM
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Nope, because women can’t rape men. Bizarre.
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 10:24 AM
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The.Guardian is full on left wing bias. I read it for several decades, but I am better now and can see the manipulations.
/r/AntiFeminists24/08/22 07:14 AM
1

Not going to watch this. I did watch a review on YouTube by thecriticaldrinker which was funny and on point. Sadly, marvel is just garbage now.
/r/AntiFeminists24/08/22 07:11 AM
1

Not going to read the article. But nature objectifies nature. Males and females objectify each other, across all species. So what?
/r/AntiFeminists24/08/22 07:09 AM
1

I cannot find anything to explain the reason why black women are more likely to die in childbirth. I find this strange. I guess it is being looked into somewhere.
/r/AntiFeminists24/08/22 06:59 AM
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Women getting fed up of feminism is never going to be enough. Women need to actively live lives they desire and be personally responsible for all outcomes. This will be the first step towards ending feminism, but it won’t happen because responsibility is too high a price for most. Sadly, feminism will end when we hit hard times and everyone suffers. We have a long downward slope to go down.
/r/AntiFeminists23/08/22 12:19 PM
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The question men need to ask is , why stand up for women? I see no positives. I will stand up for close family and friends, but that is it, gender is irrelevant to me. I think some women view this as misogyny.
/r/AntiFeminists23/08/22 12:14 PM
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In my experience they do not know they even lost the argument. Too much emotion and too little logic.
/r/AntiFeminists23/08/22 12:04 PM
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There is noise about this in UK as well. Some call it racist, but when all variables are accounted for, it turns out black women are more likely to die in childbirth than white women. This goes across the whole world, including Africa. Very sad, just not racism.
/r/AntiFeminists23/08/22 12:02 PM
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It went downhill in the first wave because they got privilege without responsibility.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 05:35 PM
1

This is how it is.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 05:28 PM
2

Rats. I only just found you guys. Oh well, eventually men will just leave Reddit altogether.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 05:27 PM
1

Nah not this one
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 12:42 PM
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Interesting points. Your best one is husbands just need to talk to their wives. 30 years marriage here, and I know this is difficult because over the years my wife has steadily removed topics from permissible conversation, until there is little to talk about except mundane stuff like the weather and pets. Just saying, sometimes women make it hard or even impossible to talk about anything if real importance. Maybe I am just unlucky.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 11:15 AM
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This is the way. Chad plays while Billy pays.
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