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I’m neither pretty nor confident. I still flirt a lot and get flirted with in return. Skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 04:07 PM
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Just take the rejection and move on bud I ain’t pretty but I still can pull when I want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:35 PM
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That’s the problem, most of the men here don’t know the difference between flirting and harassment and don’t want to learn. Even the basics of consent are foreign to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:32 PM
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If you unironically use any (word)maxxing term you may be in severe need of touching grass
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:37 AM
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It’s almost like what we think of as gendered behavior is by and large social constructs and not really rooted in anything other than tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:25 PM
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You clearly never talk to beautiful women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:44 AM
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That’s because yall go to advise to turn women on from Rich misogynistic assholes instead of talking to the women you supposedly want to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:58 PM
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Ah yes, everything is a grand conspiracy to make it harder for you to date. Drama queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:24 PM
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Men were never there for women outside if trying to fuck them in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:27 PM
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Lol I flirt with my friends all the time. It’s a lot of fun especially when they flirt back
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:24 PM
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Because we’re not all bitter and jaded like you lot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:25 PM
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I’d rather talk to my target audience about how to engage with them than men who complain about not getting women any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:27 AM
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Most of my friends are women and my closest friends are, y’all need to go outside more
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:07 PM
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Any red pill advice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:01 PM
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Because those guys have low self esteem, think they’re not attractive, and still want women to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:35 PM
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Passport bros are pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:27 PM
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Lesbians exist
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:32 PM
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Dude attracts someone and immediately gets insecure about it. Jesus Christ y’all need therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:06 PM
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Coworker wants to chat with you You: SHES GOADING ME!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:37 PM
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“Female women” not very concise there pal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:54 PM
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Y’all talk about relationships and dating like y’all are building a build in an mmo. You chronically online fucks desperately need to go outside and seek therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:43 PM
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I don’t know how I’d even begin to quantify that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:35 PM
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I have social anxiety and I have a healthier social life and outlook on things than this guy. Yeesh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:30 PM
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Y’all really don’t ever talk to women do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:21 PM
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As someone who plays a lot of video games. You may want to take a break pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:02 PM
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Because the guys angry at them aren’t the ones getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:39 PM
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It’s pretty good at making the shitty guys tell on themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:21 PM
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Look at the numbers. Women are harmed in domestic violence cases a lot more than men, women are raped a lot more than men, etc etc, and the perpetrators of these crimes is overwhelmingly men. That’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:11 PM
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It may be a shock but a lot of people have lives outside the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:33 PM
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If you’re too pathetic to attract local women just say so
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:56 AM
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Since when has society been gynocebtric? What fairy tale are you living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:26 PM
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Even if you take sex out of the equation, women don’t owe you their time, affection, or romantic attraction. You can’t force that shit, and even if you try you’ll just hurt people. Sorry but the onus of y’all being lonely isn’t on the ladies to fix. Find sone ways to get people to like you or deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:19 PM
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Not the “she won’t do anal for me” topic again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:13 PM
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R/niceguys exist for a reason. Women are attracted to men who are genuinely nice, but nice by itself isn’t getting anyone exited. You need an actual personality on top of not being a douchebag but since too many men see being nice as a tool to get laid they don’t actually meet any standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:27 PM
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A large part of gendered behavior is from generations of socialization between people. A lot of what’s considered masculine or feminine is pretty arbitrary, ie pink for girls blue for boys, same with gendered clothing. Skirts and dresses being feminine is a relatively modern thing when for a good chunk of history pretty much everyone wore various themes on robes. How one presents themselves doesn’t have to hinge on what’s between their legs. And none of that even touched the concept of trans peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:04 PM
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Most of my relationships with women are positive, many of my friends and of course family are women and with a couple exceptions I’ve had no reason to complain. I’m also very much not red pill. I think women are people, some are great some are not. And I think red pill guys never actually talk to women outside of trying to get laid tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:07 PM
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Part of why I kind of want to distance myself from men. I may be born one but I’m sick of gender norms in general
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:37 AM
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Toxic masculinity is a hell of a drug
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:36 AM
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Oh it lies to men all right. Lies to their faces about how they’ll never be good enough that they’ll never be “chad” breeding more insecure men to peddle pick up artist snake oil to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:31 AM
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Attraction is too subjective for that, y’all need to do yourselves a favor and stop sweating over some arbitrary hierarchy and touch sone fuckin grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:17 PM
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I don’t think men understand makeup at all really. Sure being seen as attractive is a factor. But as an rpg nerd I think a big part of the appeal is expression and character customization. You may not be able to control your height or bone structure. But you can enhance and modify your appearance to a degree with makeup. The main reason men don’t use it more is because it was deemed as feminine and therefore not comparable with the performative portrayal of masculinity that y’all cling to so har…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:10 PM
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One can be attracted to their partner and still think [insert pretty celebrity here] is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:02 PM
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No one likes a sausage fest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:09 PM
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I’d wager more than y’all think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:36 PM
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Men and women have different struggles related to dating. Yes they may have easier time finding guys willing to date, but a lot of those guys are the dick pic on the first message asshole variety. While men are expected to make the first move and therefore deal with rejection more often. No one owes you the hot women you think you deserve. If you’re struggling to attract what you’re attracted to that’s entirely on you to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:42 PM
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r/niceguys anyone? “I’m such a nice guy but I’m not hot”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:50 PM
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None of you understand consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:09 PM
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I’d be annoyed, if I’m not asking for one and I don’t have a rapport with them I want nothing to do with their genitalia.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:07 PM
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No one wants a random ass dick pic from a stranger. It’s about consent. If a women is turned on and into the person involved she may have a completely different reaction than you will ever get just shoving your penis on someone’s face. Do that irl and that’s a sexual assault charge. Why make it any different online?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:04 PM
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It’s almost be like women are capable of seeing men as individuals and liking someone for who they are, a foreign concept for you sad fucks I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:01 PM
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Wages have been stagnant while fist of living is rising, no one wants to work a 9-5 tgat won’t even cover rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:42 PM
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No, just guys pearl clutching because sone guys aren’t afraid of expressing themselves more now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:39 PM
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Older men going for younger women always feels a little predatory. Even though women can and should make their own decisions about who do date I don’t like older guys going for younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:11 PM
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Either sex can do whatever they want regarding makeup. A lot of my lady friends find guys wearing eyeliner or having painted nails hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:06 PM
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People getting scared of progressive ideas mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:00 PM
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I feel like there’s a lot of polarization. But I do worry that so many young men are going down misogynistic rabbit holes. Women aren’t your enemy guys. Relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:10 PM
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You can safely disregard anyone that says it’s in (X’s) nature to do (Y).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:43 PM
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My guy, if you can’t handle rejection with grace maybe you’re not as nice as you think you are. And what you are us entitled and whiney.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:44 PM
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Freud was a creep who projected his having the hots for his mom onto everyone around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:59 PM
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I wouldn’t be opposed to receiving flowers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:41 PM
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I’m pretty sure almost every cmv is made in a bad faith argument for some dude to vent about the chronically online takes they stew over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:38 PM
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Y’all acting like dating is a damn rpg and discussing pc Builds. Chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:38 PM
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Fuck the draft, citizens shouldn’t be press ganged into service regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:34 PM
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How often are y’all getting into fights? What is this an 80’s high school movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:33 AM
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Personally, I don’t really give a damn. As long as she’s been careful about sti’s, and communicates about what works in bed, it makes no difference to me who she’s slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:20 PM
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Red pill coaches are snake oil salesman and if you give them any money you’re a sucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:25 PM
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As I keep saying, many in trp say all sorts of sexist shit then get all surprised pikachu meme when women don’t like them. Y’all made your bed, lie in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:43 PM
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Red pillers will say the trp doesn’t hate women. My answer to that is that they should fucking act like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:39 PM
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A “nice guy” is someone using being polite or “nice” as a way to try to get into someone’s pants. It’s a transactional mindset that does no one any good. People that are actually kind do so because it’s the right thing. Be kind, not nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:36 PM
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I honestly don’t think they do, I think they believe or hope the relationship is more solid than it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:01 AM
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“Women won’t sleep with me so society is doomed “ bunch of dramatic ass crybabies in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:51 PM
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“Degeneracy” my guy played too much fallout new vegas
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:28 AM
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I think you misunderstood. Them not having sex isn’t the problem, it’s that they made their entire personality a big woe is me bitchfest about it and blame all their problems on women they’re probably to scared to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:52 PM
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If sex isn’t happening in a marriage the couple probably needs to work some shit out. Duty sex is not the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:08 PM
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It’s not hard in this sub but I’m pretty sure it is a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:22 PM
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I really hope this is a troll, unless op is ok with gay guys staring at his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:08 PM
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Of course, any paternity fraud is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:07 PM
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Since this seems to be the red pill hyperfocus of the week, how common is paternity fraud really?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:00 PM
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Here’s the thing, with many people the more I know them the more attractive they become to me. Yeah sone people are just straight up sexy but an emotional connection just makes attraction stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:20 PM
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If you prefer one height or another that’s your business, and tbh I think the height thing is a little overblown by a lot of guys. But the reason a lot of men push back against height preferences is because height isn’t something they can control and they see an injustice when they’re rejected for said uncontrollable trait. But, as I said, i think most women are content if the guy is at least taller than them, and a lot of guys get super hung up on not being above six feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:28 AM
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Because this sub is a trp wonderland where basement dwellers circle jerk about how they can’t get laid and blame all their problems on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:23 AM
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When it comes to medicine, a shocking amount of women report that doctors tend to outright ignore women when it comes to their symptoms. I’ve gone across many accounts where the women weren’t taken seriously by several doctors that something was wrong until the woman had to practically force the doc to listen, and lo and behold a problem was found and treated. Not to mention it’s pretty easy for a guy to get a vasectomy but a women getting her tubes tied is going to be turned down a lot more oft…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:55 AM
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Option b is stupid. You can appreciate a thirst trap without drooling lol. On a more serious note “I was groomed” who the fuck do you think groomed them 9/10 times? If you want to talk about accountability why not talk about the large amount of men who think grooming is ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:19 PM
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Every women I know has had sone kind of sexual harassment happen to them. Be it the more phycological cat calling to outright r*pe. Generally at the hands of men and pretty often when on a first date. And before you go “not all men” they’re well aware, but how do they know if the guy they’re meeting us safe or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:16 PM
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I don’t think that’s a uniquely male problem but yes I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:12 PM
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I’d argue that’s it’s not even biology as much as Millennia of cultural socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:22 AM
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Ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:13 AM
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Ironically the matrix is a big allegory for being trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:10 AM
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In this sub specifically? I have no endgame I’m just doom-scrolling or giving my two cents occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:08 AM
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My only concerns are that I’m not all that fiscally stable and I have some self esteem issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:46 AM
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Considering y’all panic at any mention of the harmful aspects of cultural masculinity I’d say most likely yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:42 AM
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The entire “alpha-beta” hierarchy is made up nonsense from a disproven observation on captive wolf populations, that was co-opted by insecure men to feel better about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:55 PM
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That’s it right there
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:56 AM
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How the fuck do you date an anime girl? Regardless that doesn’t seem like a healthy place to be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:38 AM
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I certainly hope not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:50 PM
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Nah, as long as no boundaries are being pushed it doesn’t matter to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:32 PM
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As long as they don’t resurrect the multitude of “my gf won’t do anal with me but she did it for an ex” threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:21 PM
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Because a 28 year old women is still pretty damn young. Why are men allowed to age and not women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:50 PM
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Option three happens to me pretty often, I just assume they’re being friendly so when I get told by a coworker or friend later that they were flirting I’m like “oh…”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:53 PM
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That old is a sausage fest and everyone, at least on old, is superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:40 PM
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I don’t think that’s all the common pal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:38 PM
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I don’t get that attitude either, why are so many here desperate to date when they clearly don’t even like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:22 AM
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I think so in a purely academic way. Women tend to deal with a lot more safety issues in the dating scene. Sexual assault or even just straight up being killed in a few cases, on a less extreme side they are used for a quick one night stand more often then they’ed like. Which is disappointing when you want a relationship. Plus a lot of men are still pretty sexist in general. Many may have more options than a lot of guys but when its fuckboy mcgee and basement dwelling red piller those options ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:20 AM
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Q for women so I’ll put my two bits here. Trp says a lot of sexist shit then act like surprised pikachu when women don’t like them or want to date them, like buddy, what did you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:41 PM
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So that’s a lie. Y’all don’t shut up about awalt
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:37 PM
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And y’all wonder why people say trp is sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:13 PM
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Trp and fds are two sides of the same toxic coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:05 PM
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I thought the trp rejected dating advice from women wholesale.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:06 PM
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Most of my non binary friends, regardless of presentation or assigned gender, tend not to like men. At least not as much as they like women. But that’s just the enby’s I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:11 PM
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“Red pill ideology isn’t meant to be attractive to women” then y’all should act like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:33 AM
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As if legislation will fix anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:12 PM
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I don’t believe in any pill, I’m here because it’s like watching a train wreck. Can’t look away
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:25 PM
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Tbh I’d rather have a hard time finding a date than be worried about sexual violence, or violence in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:22 PM
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As long as things didn’t end messily I don’t see why not remain friends of you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:21 PM
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Because real life doesn’t agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:48 PM
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Mfer really believes we live in a matriarchy? My guy you need to step away from Reddit for a while you’ve got brain rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:14 PM
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There are benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:16 PM
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¯\ (ツ)/¯ who knows with these guys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:58 PM
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More like 20
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:17 PM
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I’ve said it before but y’all say all sort of sexist shit in here and expect the ladies to like you? Not gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:13 PM
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Because the red pill is snake oil for insecure men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:01 PM
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Considering I’ve seen guys get called simp for being nice to their freaking girlfriends. I think that term has lost any meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:46 PM
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“Feminine wiles” what is this the 1800’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:26 PM
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Why is mens bad behavior (lying) on the woman to fix?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:37 PM
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Because there’s a certain social stigma against a guy being an adult virgin. It’s bull shot when you think about it but people are always at least a little stupid about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:40 AM
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Rejection is normal. Frustrating definitely, no one likes it. But if it’s consistent rejection then you start to believe something is wrong with you. That can be hard to shake. Especially since a lot of guys aren’t the best at regulating our mental health that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:16 PM
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What if the world was made of pudding?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:50 PM
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Movies get to me way too often lol. Lord of the rings the return of the king gets me chocked up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:37 PM
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Jesus like 60% of the responses are removed because it’s a question for women. You guys really can’t seem to be able to follow instructions can’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:34 PM
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There’s a reason I keep referring to trp as snake oil.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:58 PM
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Incels
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:53 PM
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I’m sure they do they just don’t broadcast it as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:31 PM
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They’re not going to like this one op
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:16 AM
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I feel like on the height thing, for most women as long as the guy is taller than them they don’t care too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:47 PM
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I mean, that coupled with my poor mental health is definitely why I struggle to date. I’m sure if I put more effort into social efforts I’d meet someone I’d click with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:17 PM
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The only one that confuses me is the cat one. What’s wrong with big cats? But I digress. For me it’s alcohol in every picture (I don’t care if you drink but if it’s your only idea of fun then I’m out) -every picture is a group pic. -conservative politics -I tend to swipe left on the cookie cutter Kylie Jenner type of look
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:49 PM
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Technically speaking, we all start out as female in the fetal stages then as we develop the gender specific traits like genitals develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:44 PM
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If a group of women wants a ladies only gym or whatever that’s no skin off my back. I personally don’t care about Mens only spaces because, tbh that sounds boring lol. Sure I’m a guy but I tend to prefer to hang out with women most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:42 PM
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Listen, yes, men have our unique problems enforced on us by society. But here’s the thing, the same goes for women I’d doubt you’d last very long in your average woman’s shoes. Sexism is still very much a thing, they deal with periods etc. (I’ve seen a couple videos where men experienced stimulated period cramps they could not handle it) not to mention a lot of the attention they receive is from guys who think only with their dicks, so a lot of bull hit from desperate horny asses. Etc etc. in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:15 AM
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A sane response
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:08 AM
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Trp is all snake-oil concocted to appeal to insecure men. If you give money to these coaches you’re a sucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:10 PM
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To be frank, unless you’re part of the extremely wealthy, society has failed everyone. Capitalism only benefits the wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:03 PM
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The “male hierarchy” is made up nonsense for insecure guys to feel better about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:47 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:04 AM
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I don’t think they’re trying to sexualize themselves it’s just workout clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:17 PM
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I want mutual feelings, so no thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:50 AM
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If someone isn’t into they’re not into you. Most of the time it’s not malicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:18 PM
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Rejection sucks. It really does I’m not going to diminish the hurt that causes. But too many guys let that fester into bitterness. If she doesn’t like you, move on. Letting rejection make you bitter and jaded just shows emotional immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:14 PM
0

“The basic idea of the red pill is you don’t lament women wanting to fuck someone who isn’t yourself” Then the majority of y’all should act like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:12 PM
1

Because sone guys are so emotionally stunted that rejection makes them become eager douchebags.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:05 PM
2

That’s too sane for this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:53 PM
2

An eye for an eye leaves the world blind
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:24 PM
3

How can y’all expect women to like you when y’all post gross sexist shit? This sub is nasty sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:16 PM
5

Y’all moan and groan about women not taking accountability and then say shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:15 PM
2

Because the entire world is out to get you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:40 PM
30

I don’t hate incels because they’re ugly. I hate them because their bitter wannabe fascist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:39 PM
4

Because it gives them an excuse on why they struggle to get laid that’s not their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:30 PM
5

Well that’s a neurotic take. Who the hell cares if you use emojis?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:24 AM
35

I actually kind of agree, surprisingly. Shaming guys for being virgins doesn’t do any good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:07 AM
1

Pfft no they won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:31 AM
3

Go touch some grass. Get out if your mothers basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:32 PM
3

Well you sound like them. And the f slur, cute. Judging by your reaction you’re a miserable sack of shit who’s chronically online and desperately needs a reality check.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:29 PM
3

How about contributing to help your fellow man. Your average guy has more if a chance than you know. You’re just to blinded by red pill misogynistic snake oil, I believe in being good to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:21 PM
4

That’s bleak
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:37 PM
3

There’s more to life than sex, and I pity you if that’s all you see in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:16 PM
12

That women being choosy with their sexual partners leads to the downfall of nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:35 PM
2

There’s a difference between someone who’s genuinely kind and “nice guys” usually if you have to trumpet how nice you are, people are going to assume it’s an act.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:43 PM
–

All the feminist I know tend to be pretty well adjusted people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:23 PM
–

The friendzone just means that they want to be friends. I’m not sure why that such a horrible thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:17 PM
1

Because incels won’t shut the duck up about how miserable and mistreated they are. Plus women don’t have a track record for mass shootings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:16 PM
1

Fuck the draft
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:11 PM
2

Depends on the wale
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:40 AM
1

ha ha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:30 AM
1

Seriously. I don’t have much faith in a lot if guys but at least I try to assume positive intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:13 AM
134

If a random woman DMed me about a date I’d think something is up and I’m about to get pranked or scammed. Same logic as these ladies I’d imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:10 AM
4

Trp’s entire existence is a bunch of guys in their feels about not getting laid making up “intellectual” reasons on why their desperate asses got rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:08 AM
2

“Women being choosy about their partners is going to doom civilization.” If you believe that I have a bridge to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:02 AM
0

Incels hands down sexism actually happens. But incels equate not getting a date with oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:54 PM
9

You know most of the rp guys will just say you’re lying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:18 PM
6

You nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:30 AM
3

We know they definitely don’t like women that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:28 AM
1

I mean it is the purge
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:26 PM
2

Jesus Christ dude are you trying to admit to something at this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:42 PM
4

That just proves mens gatekeeping lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:12 PM
2

Hell no, she’s nuttier than a fruitcake
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:32 PM
1

You know it boo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:28 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:00 PM
1

I’m sure this is a shitpost, but god I hope you don’t have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:56 PM
2

Oh I’m definitely insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:57 PM
3

De Nile is a river in Egypt
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:51 PM
6

To add, don’t say sexist shit and expect the ladies to like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:44 PM
1

I want companionship and affection. Not a sex toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:47 PM
2

And we’re back on the “she won’t do anal” thing. Make like Elsa and let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:45 PM
1

Cute
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:47 PM
1

Most of mine are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:20 PM
4

Ok I’m gonna need some citations here pal because I have no idea where you pulled this from. Except probably your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:19 PM
3

Hell Im a guy and got cold approached at work, it was awkward as hell. Definitely get why the ladies don’t like being approached at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:35 PM
4

Considering how much these guys go on about “traditional” this and “traditional” that they’re probably not fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:17 PM
6

Is the a rehash of the anal thing again? This feels like a rehash of the anal thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:02 AM
9

Seems pretty cold to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:26 PM
1

The example you posted is too full of steroids to be attractive to me, not that I don’t find string sone. attractive I just find the roid filled body builder body grotesque on anyone, both man and woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:13 PM
1

¯\ (ツ)/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:44 PM
2

If it becomes a problem they haven’t said anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:34 PM
5

Fine I guess. I don’t flirt with them or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:31 PM
3

Some are married, some single, ones a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:26 PM
4

Regardless trp dudes will say all sorts of gross stuff about women. They don’t like women they just wanna fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:22 PM
2

Y’all certainly don’t act like you don’t like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:20 PM
2

Anything gory, or vore. Not a fan of interracial either but because it feels fetishizing people based on race.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:21 PM
3

No, why would I? Sounds entertaining lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:14 PM
2

If I’m honest, I don’t find that particular individual attractive. So not every goth girl, but I’ve met quite a few that I am attracted too, but then again there’s women of almost any “type” that I’ve found attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:09 PM
6

Alpha, sigma, beta, it’s all astrology for dudebros anyways. Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:05 PM
9

I tip everyone because American restaurants are bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:04 PM
2

I’m not sure, alternative styles do tend to have an allure because they stand out but I’m not sure what the current trend with liking “big tiddy goth gf’s” came from. I’d be lying if I didn’t find goth women attractive though. ¯\ (ツ)/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:02 PM
35

I don’t think that’s true. Men are perfectly capable of deep connections with women. Hell most of my best friends are women. While there’s a lot of guys who don’t like women at all, as proved by trp and the like. It’s not impossible by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:00 PM
4

That’s the catch 22 isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:46 PM
3

Because I see the shut you post. This sub isn’t people in general. Try some reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:38 PM
6

The projection is strong here. Good lord. Sure I don’t have a high opinion of the men in this sub specifically, but in general I view people as people. Something most of y’all are incapable of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:37 PM
38

Because a lot of guys on this sub will tell a woman they’re lying for putting in their two bits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:32 AM
2

Y’all just care too much about n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:31 AM
7

I think a woman’s taste depends on the individual, because they’re, you know, individuals. Yes trends exist but there’s plenty of room for individual tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:29 AM
2

Might help if you can afford it, your health insurance may cover some.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:45 PM
2

Not to sound cliche but are you talking to a therapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:38 PM
2

If you’ve been hurt by shitty guys in the past it’s understandable to be on guard around guys. You’ll be ok, healing can take time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:02 PM
1

I don’t see why not. As long as you’re not too socially awkward etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:00 PM
1

Have you tried growing a beard?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:57 PM
26

Because you’ll be rejected for lack of dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:45 PM
2

Same, and I’m a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:43 PM
1

So almost none of the guys here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:04 AM
-1

One can be masculine as hell and it’s not a problem. No one cares if you’re a stereotypically manly lumberjack of a man. But as soon as you start seeing femininity as a bad thing or trying to enforce performative masculinity in others, that’s when shit gets toxic. Really it all boils down to how you treat others you deem as “less masculine” than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:02 PM
1

It’s just homophobia
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:58 PM
-2

More proof that non of y’all ever talk to women, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:57 PM
23

“At the very core of trp sexual strategy lies the belief that women are hypergamous, children, want alpha males…etc” Read that part again, slowly, and I think you’ll find the answer as to why trp gets hate. Y’all say frankly sexist shit then wonder why women don’t like you. If you don’t realize that then y’all are beyond reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:12 PM
2

Actually that’s something I’ve been thinking about. Traditional gender roles are beginning to fade and there’s a lot of men who can’t seem to find their place in how things are changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:06 AM
2

Chivalry is an outdated battle code for an obsolete warrior castes that worked for a rich lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:49 PM
3

I don’t think this is a common scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:47 PM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:08 PM
2

Lol self sabotage happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:17 PM
3

I’m sorry but there’s plenty of people having kids that were not dying out anytime soon. Civilization won’t fall because you can’t get laid buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:14 PM
3

Well New Zealand’s treatment of the indigenous people there is definitely not great, similar to Australia Canada the us etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:32 PM
4

I’m going to tell on myself here but If lack of intimacy killed I’d be dead by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:29 PM
17

“A women won’t choose my jaded ass so society is doomed”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:57 PM
1

A lot of guys do take rejection, etc too personally. As another poster said they’re a little too tied up in their idea if masculinity and if that’s threatened it can cause them to lash out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:54 PM
4

I mean having most of my friends be women helped me understand them more. It does help.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:52 PM
6

Most the women I know hate musk and bezos lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:36 PM
11

I’m sure a lot of them do, especially the ones who believe women being choosy about their partners is going to be the downfall of civilization. What an over dramatic crock of shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:33 PM
1

Do trp guys have lady friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:19 PM
1

Most of my friends are if the opposite sex, and no topics are off limits, depending on the individual woman’s comfort level of course. Hell I’ve had more frank conversations about sex etc with my lady friends than my guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:15 PM
1

The responses here are just proof that none of these guys ever actually talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:12 PM
6

How is the victim ever to blame for an abusers actions? What sort of backwards ass nonsense is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:23 PM
5

We are tired of the same post fifteen times a day you’re not getting a different answer just shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:19 AM
4

No one cares let it fucking go
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:55 PM
4

Can we please stop beating this horse, it’s dead and rotted. Jesus Christ move the fuck on. No one cares if she won’t let to do anal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:54 PM
5

There’s nothing wrong with being trans, sex work shouldn’t be as taboo as it is, reproductive rights matter, marriage isn’t always necessary for a family to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:51 PM
5

Don’t need to paint you in a bad light pal, you did that yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:19 PM
2

Insert beating dead horse gif
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:37 PM
5

I wonder how many of you know the definition of insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:36 PM
3

I think this topic is beating a dead horse. My potential partners sexual past is not something I really care about. As long as she communicates her needs with me and we are on the same page I don’t give a fuck. And Jesus Christ can we move on to another topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:17 PM
1

How is the left anti men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:35 PM
1

So definitely not you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:58 PM
11

This “male social hierarchy” is a bunch of made up nonsense by men desperate to look better than others. If you seriously think people are categorized into silly little boxes like alpha or beta then I have a bridge to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:52 PM
41

Considering the political right in America (and in general) tends to have ideologies and policies that are not in women’s best interests, this shouldn’t be surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:50 PM
2

Right? Trp is brain rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:02 PM
5

The entire “male hierarchy” is astrology for sexist men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:54 PM
5

Most feminist I know don’t actually hate men as individuals. The ones that do are the ones who have been abused most of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:16 PM
16

What sort of tinfoil hat is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:36 PM
70

The fact that you can’t believe men would endorse feminism without an ulterior motive just means you have a worse view of men than many feminist do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:31 PM
8

Why is this sub so obsessed with this? Third one this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:59 AM
2

More often than we realize I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:51 PM
4

Honestly, if you can afford it, find a therapist. It’s there job to help you sort that kind of thing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:11 AM
1

“Yes there are trends” reading comprehension, try it sometime. Cleopatra was considered one of the most beautiful women of her era, but by today’s standards she’s not as attractive. For a long time chubby women were the beauty standard. Taste change its all relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:22 PM
1

Attraction is subjective. Yes there are trends but what I find attractive in a potent partner can vary widely from what you find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:06 AM
3

Reading through this, it’s amazing men get dates/relationships at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:54 PM
2

It’s so odd to me that red pillars think they know women better than women do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:40 PM
1

I’ve never heard of wgtow before.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:20 AM
3

If you’re only personality trait is being nice then of course you’re not a good choice. Being kind is a bare minimum thing, you’ve got to be interesting on top of being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:46 PM
5

Imagine anyone outside of middle school complaining about the “friendzone”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:59 PM
4

I swear trp has a more bleak view of men than terfs do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:48 PM
0

Where did I say I was blue pilled or a Democrat? You’re conflating women being choosy about sexual partners to ending civilizations. Anyone with an intact frontal lobe knows that your dating problems are no where near that level of catastrophic. But what do I expect from trp. Bunch of guys being crybabies because they can’t get laid as often as they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:15 PM
7

“Destroys civilization” and I thought I was dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:52 PM
6

Seriously, these trp guys are fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:48 PM
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Talk to anyone that’s been on a shelter, they’re no help
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:06 PM
4

I’m pretty sure most people don’t believe sexism can be applied to men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:53 PM
2

Not sure how this is relevant but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:00 AM
3

I don’t know about other guys, but that sounds like a waste, you’d get more rejections than anything and I’d rather actually do something fun and I’d I meet someone I meet someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:23 AM
2

Their general attitude towards men is pretty off putting and they expect the stars and the moon without any reciprocating. I want a partnership, not an entitled dependent. Edit: to be clear I have the exact same issues with TRP only flipped
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:43 PM
1

Problem is I’m nearing 30 not a lot of women my age with no experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:22 PM
12

There’s a few reasons why it’s potentially a bad idea. If the relationship were to go south that could create an unhealthy work environment for both parties etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:18 PM
1

I’ve been intimidated by women before. Usually I don’t even approach those women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 03:17 PM
1

It seems like men are expected to do all the damn work in starting a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 07:42 PM
2

I don’t like the idea of chasing a partner. Chasing imply a they don’t want to be caught. I want someone to match my energy. I want someone who actually wants to be with me. Not just present a series of test and have romantic affection handed to them on a silver platter. I want a partner not a passive dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 07:39 PM
2

We’re quoting the Simpson’s, groundskeeper willy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:54 PM
1

You came to the realization that we are, in fact, human. Now we need the rest of this sub, men and women to realize the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:25 PM
1

Yes sexism is bad, anyone who says otherwise needs to do sone serious introspection. If that’s possible for your average Redditor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:07 PM
1

Not great, but I do have some anxiety and depression so that will skew my happiness levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:05 PM
1

You Scots sure are contentious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:02 PM
1

Trp and fds are two sides of the same toxic coin. Both villainize and dehumanize the opposite gender and believe their shit don’t stink
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:17 PM
5

I’ve had people be surprised I’ve been single most of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:10 PM
3

Looksmaxing? What is this a shitty dating rpg?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:08 PM
1

I hear they chuck wood
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:29 PM
1

Beauty is subjective Abd I definitely wouldn’t trust an ai to judge someone’s aesthetics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:16 PM
1

From my understanding chuck holding is a kink, not one I have for that matter. If people are into it they’re into it, what they do in the bedroom is none of my concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:25 PM
1

While relationships can develop from friendships, it seems disingenuous to befriend someone just to get in their pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 02:46 PM
1

Jesus so many removed comments
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 06:43 PM
1

No, most morons near my preferred to pretended the pandemic doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 06:42 PM
1

Depends on what you want in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 06:41 PM
3

Y’all Just love to throw the word abuse around don’t ya. You can be sexually attracted to someone with no romantic feelings involved. Or I know people that are ace and don’t feel sexual attraction to anyone but they can fall in love. You’re just pissed because you’re lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 06:11 PM
3

More nuanced than yall will ever give credit for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:55 PM
10

That’s any influencers tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:55 AM
2

I don’t know about you but I’m tired of being single lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:32 AM
3

If hard work made you rich, farm laborers would be richer than bezos
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:30 AM
1

I mean I had no sense of style till a few years ago, and while I’m not saying I’m a fashionista I do believe I’ve managed to come up with a personal style that’s not just jeans and a t shirt or frat bro or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:23 AM
1

I’ve made more meaningful connections on freaking tik tok than any old app.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:20 PM
1

I wouldn’t. Depending on my attraction to you I’d probably like to sleep with you regardless, but buying me dinner is just a nice thing to do without any sort of strings attached. Just like when I’d buy a lady dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:30 PM
1

You need better friends lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:38 PM
9

There’s not a shortage of women. It’s that women no longer rely on men for social and fiscal stability so a lot of straight women are being more choosy with their partners. And unfortunately a lot of guys don’t seem to fit the bill once the pressure to marry is off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:07 PM
2

Definitely not lol only incredibly jaded dumbasses would believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:05 PM
1

Pretty much this, we’re taught our role in a patriarchal society is to provide. If you provide nothing then you’re not needed. It sucks our only social value is with our labor and potential fiscal stability but I can’t change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:36 PM
2

Because a patriarchal society browbeats the idea that the man is supposed to have the provider role in a relationship and if the guy can’t meet those needs for his partner than he has nothing of value to contribute to the relationship. We’re taught we are only valued for our ability to provide. And a lot of men can’t get over that very well if their partner put earns them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:31 PM
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How are young men being gaslit?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 12:08 AM
2

I’m not “pilled” in any fashion, but I’m also curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:44 PM
2

Chivalry is an obsolete battle code for a medieval warrior class toadies for up to the rich lords, and had to have that code enforced so they wouldn’t be complete brutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:02 PM
3

Vampirism is a perfect term for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:36 PM
3

I swear these guys have never heard of lesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:44 PM
1

Thing is, I can’t change the size of my pecker, so there’s not much point stressing about it too much. If it’s not the size a potential partner wants then that’s not a good partner for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:50 PM
1

I’m not exactly what they consider a high value man. Not much point trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:20 PM
2

Ad hominem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:02 PM
3

Reason #1636 I’m glad I’m a guy. I deal with a lot less creeps and assorted bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:38 PM
2

Points for trying I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:36 PM
11

“Understand your enemy” you see that right there is why people consider red pill guys sexist. Women aren’t the enemy, they’re not these inherently selfish “hypergamous” witches y’all bitch about. Y’all have about as much nuance as a cartoon character.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:24 PM
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Since I’m a guy I’m putting my two bits here, most red pill guys are pretty misogynistic and their entire motivation for “self improvement” is to get laid, they’re jaded wannabe pick up artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:05 PM
1

Ideally we both gain companionship, someone who compliments the other and helps them become better, romantic love,and intimacy, both physical and emotional and someone to shoulder life’s burdens with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:38 PM
1

Overwhelming no’s all around. It’s not amusing and not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:25 PM
1

You’re really invested in calling them a liar. Relax you don’t need to take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:47 PM
1

So median wage is not good enough for men but good enough for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:57 PM
1

Depends on both our boundaries and comfort level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:07 PM
19

Not subscribing to red pill ideology doesn’t make one a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:44 AM
10

“If he doesn’t pursue he’s not interested” you severely underestimate a lot of guys fear of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:07 PM
6

Buy a guy dinner first, sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:06 PM
3

Wgat part of “not abnormal on either end of the spectrum” did you not understand, reading comprehension, try it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:19 PM
9

From my understanding, women care less about dick size than men do. As long as your not abnormal on either end of the spectrum, your performance in bed matters more than your size.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:19 PM
5

Eh I just style myself how I feel like, I’ve gotten enough compliments that I know I don’t dress completely ugly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:21 PM
4

Bruh just do your workout don’t worry about what the ladies are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:34 PM
20

There’s a difference between kinky time in bed and how one wants to be treated irl. I really hope you understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:30 PM
18

Here’s the kicker on that one. It’s about consent. Being ogled by strangers when your just existing is different than being sexy for a partner etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:27 PM
16

I think shaming people for virginity just fuels incel types tbh it shouldn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:07 AM
0

True enough. I’m not exactly confident so you’re definitely not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:25 PM
0

Honestly I think a lot of red pill guys on here are too afraid of women to talk to them irl outside a customer service situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:13 PM
1

I’m a guy, but you can’t go wrong with a t shirt and a casual blazer in my opinion. Get some black jeans and ok looking shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:15 PM
2

Ironic, y’all complain that guys pics on old suck then you reject them if they actually have good pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:48 PM
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You don’t know that. Regardless of credibility it’s incredibly fucked up to threaten to rape someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:06 PM
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Considering the rampant misogynistic takes I see from them…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:21 PM
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Most decent men are secure enough that they don’t take women complaining about bad men as a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:10 PM
2

The problem with mgtow isn’t men going their own way. It’s that they don’t shut the fuck up about how they hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:45 PM
0

The term has lost all meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:29 AM
1

I’d say just put sone effort into how you style yourself, be it your outfit or actually combing your hair r etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:51 PM
1

Just because it’s not a ten page red pill word salad doesn’t make it low effort
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:33 PM
1

They freaking removed this for “low effort” I guess to the point is low effort now next time I’ll have a ten page essay for these pretentious Fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:31 PM
2

Hell I almost fell down the incel hole as a teenager. Glad I didn’t. Still single, but a hell of a lot happier than those miserable bastards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:25 PM
4

Jesus the biphobia here is ridiculous,
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:51 PM
1

I’d totally date bi women. No reason why I shouldn’t really.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:49 PM
5

Sometimes I feel like being a guy is enough to be intimidating to a lot of women,
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:22 PM
7

This ain’t it pal. Why does everyone in this sub think women are sone sort of hive mind? Yes sone woman want nsa sex, but sone just want a partner. Trp really turns y’all misogynistic doesn’t it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:48 PM
5

More homophobia
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:54 PM
14

They think bi men having attraction to men is emasculating. Idk about you but that’s pretty homophobic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:21 PM
34

Judging by these comments. It’s mostly homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:03 PM
24

So it’s homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:48 PM
1

Probably my most popular cosplay was Spider-Man Noir from the spider-verse movie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:40 AM
1

As a guy, one hobby that will always pique my interest is cosplay. Primarily because that’s my main hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:20 AM
4

Also your claim that men can’t see women as people just plays into gebder essentialism and helps contribute to toxic masculinity by taking the accountability away from men because they’re “hard wired” to it. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:22 PM
4

You can fuck right off with that. Most of my friends are lgbtqa+ in sone form or another including lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:19 PM
2

I’ve met more people I vibe with off of tik tok than any online dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:57 PM
7

Travel isn’t free mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:16 AM
1

Tell that to the porn bots and Instagram/onlyfans farmers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 03:26 AM
1

So you’re saying being introverted and drained by social situations is a flaw? Fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:58 AM
1

R/nice-guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:09 AM
1

There’s a big difference between toxic masculinity and being masculine. You can be a lumberjack man into all the stereotypical “manly” interests and not be toxic. It’s when you try to enforce arbitrary standards of masculinity on other, or see femininity as weakness that it becomes toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:35 AM
3

Different people have different relationships. I’d wager my relationship with any certain women would look different from the relationship she had with another partner. Just find what works for you as a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:54 PM
28

I can already tell you’re going to approach anything a guy said with bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:21 PM
2

No, I actually agree here. Most of these guys could get a woman to like them if they had a shred of self awareness and actually tried to better themselves instead if bitching. (Myself included to an extent but I blame my poor dating life on being an extreme introvert) but that requires actual effort on their end.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:10 AM
1

Maybe it’s just me but I feel like the men who try to listen to women and empathize with them when it comes to gender issues are usually the ones more sensitive to the constant “men are trash” barrage. Most misogynistic guys will shrug it off as women being hateful, but the guys who try to give a damn will just feel worse and worse for being “the enemy” when they’re the ones actually trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:28 AM
1

This feels misogynistic as hell tbh. Most if my friends are women, regardless of if I’m attracted to them. Hell I tend to get along with women better anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:23 AM
2

This. I’m constantly trying to ensure I’m not being creepy or threatening to the point where I get paranoid about casual flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:46 AM
1

Definitely not, good god that’s a dehumanizing thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:37 AM
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