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0

If I saw that I'd think you're a player and I'd lose interest instantly.
/r/seduction12/11/23 06:48 AM
7

Asian men are super handsome!
/r/seduction01/11/22 09:41 PM
3

Yes of course.
/r/seduction30/10/22 08:32 PM
5

Nobody thinks looks don't matter. Looks always help But so can a great personality. I have had encounters with men who are first glance were not my type at all, but because we got along so well I still fell for them and started finding them hot. Looks and personality both matter, and the more you have of each, the better, but you can make up for a lack of one with the other - to an extent. If there is zero spark or attraction then nothing can save that.
/r/seduction30/10/22 08:10 PM
10

A guy who immediately starts talking about sex is an easy pass.
/r/seduction25/10/22 08:29 PM
1

Nothing, I just wouldn't sleep with a guy yet or any other intimacy.
/r/seduction23/10/22 06:23 AM
3

I would never have sex by date 3, I need to know the guy isn't seeing any other women, ew.
/r/seduction22/10/22 08:22 PM
4

For me personally, whether or not a guy goes into the friendzone has nothing to do with how sexual he acts and everything to do with how I just feel about him. On the contrary I've called things off with much more men for getting sexual too fast (even just talking online while maybe planning a first date and they can't stop talking nsfw) A guy acting purely friendly with clearly no sexual/romantic signals would only throw me off after a very extended period of time.
/r/seduction19/09/22 06:34 AM
9

Yes, there's always some scumbags who do this. Be better. Don't lead a girl on in order to get sex unless you would be fine with a girl manipulating you into a relationship or faking pregnancy to tie you down or some shit. Is that cool? No, so don't be that person.
/r/seduction18/09/22 06:41 AM
1

I pretty much only go out to grocery shop and to walk for exercise and the only people I meet are retired seniors.
/r/seduction14/09/22 07:47 PM
1

I've never seen anyone say that looks don't matter period. What I see often and agree with as that looks alone aren't everything and that a great personality an elevate someone's looks and make them more attractive to you.
/r/seduction13/09/22 08:14 PM
1

I've been single for so long I'd welcome a man approaching me buy I don't really go anywhere where it could realistically happen lol.
/r/seduction13/09/22 08:12 PM
45

It can be, everyone's allowed to see a high body count as a no go in potential partners. I'm a woman and I'd rather not date a man with a high body count, it's just personal preference.
/r/seduction11/09/22 06:56 AM
2

Which way are you walking though?
/r/seduction10/09/22 08:56 PM
1

I don't know anybody who had sex as a teenager. I was 24 myself, and that's probably the best time to start.
/r/seduction10/09/22 05:57 AM
-1

I like feminine men too. Or geeks. And don't care about height. Of course the guys here would rather stay wallowing in self pity.
/r/seduction08/09/22 06:35 AM
2

Look for other women.
/r/seduction06/09/22 06:11 AM
1

Ugh it's success
/r/seduction03/09/22 08:52 PM
1

Being ambitious and passionate is attractive, which can be about a job or any hobby. Personally if a guy plays the right video games I am very much into that.
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:32 AM
1

Subjectively an 8
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:08 PM
2

I would never sleep with a guy before I'm ready and if he doesn't like that then bye. Also, if I like a man and want to be with him, I'd just treat him well, be attentive, want to spend time with him, support him etc. My body is never just available. Sex is between two people not one man deciding when and where he wants it, yuck.
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:30 AM
2

I would never let a guy kiss me on the first date. And if he can't respect that or acts pushy, I won't meet him again either.
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:21 PM
1

You do you lmao But no, it's normal to tell unless you're ashamed or trying to get with someone you know will disapprove.
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:41 PM
4

In my opinion being seen as a friend is a good thing, it means she likes you and trusts you and enjoys spending time. Personally I can't imagine doing anything with a guy who I don't get friendly vibes from. Maybe if you're into hookups with strangers you'll never see again.
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:04 AM
1

Just saying that plenty of women would prefer to hear the truth aka he's a virgin, or has only had a low number of partners. Telling OP his only option is to lie or not say anything is absurd.
/r/seduction28/08/22 07:59 PM
2

Refusing to tell sounds suspicious to me and would turn me off.
/r/seduction28/08/22 07:51 PM
3

I would always prefer the truth, and being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of. I'd rather date a virgin than a player 100% of the time.
/r/seduction28/08/22 07:49 PM
2

You could be a sex-repulsed asexual. Only you can decide if sex is something you want or need or not, and there is nothing wrong with that. Even for people with a normal sex drive, there can be times or moments where the thought of sex is not arousing, just like eww.
/r/seduction22/08/22 06:23 AM
1

That wasn't just for you but also the first guy who immediately assumed that I as a woman am just trying to pass the blame onto men.
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:15 PM
1

I'm sure that's the case sometimes but oftentimes early in OLD the conversation just naturally fizzles out. Both people respond less or with less enthusiasm until the gaps get bigger and then they just stop talking. It's redundant to try and blame one side. This happened to me very often, and I always thought this is what ghosting includes I'd I don't end it with a specific message saying so. But of courses that also means that the men ghosted me all the same. So yeah, I'm not saying ghosting is…
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:51 PM
1

Wrong, we both just stop talking. He doesn't send any messages. I usually think about that a while later and then wonder if I should message him again to sat I'm not into it but then usually decide that since he hasn't contacted me at all either, it's fine to just let it fade away. If anything, we ghost each other. I have never just blocked/ignored a guy who still actively messaged me unless he was harassing me.
/r/seduction11/08/22 07:51 AM
8

I thought I ghosted a lot of guys but then someone said it's not ghosting if both people just stop talking, so turns out I ghosted nobody.
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:41 AM
5

He sure can do that, but I'm not obligated to still be interested.
/r/seduction09/08/22 08:14 PM
36

If I gave a guy my number and then saw him do any thing like approach another girl, I would no longer be interested. Seeing that you're just one of many and a guy probably tries with every girl there, you're no longer any special. The guy didn't pick you because he thought you were pretty or because he just had to get your number, it doesn't matter who you are. Big turnoff.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:06 AM
3

A guy who is already busy with another woman is a no go for me, complete turn off.
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:55 AM
8

Also, if you think that women never choose you, reevaluate your standards cause they might be too high. I know some guys are waiting for the perfect girl who'll be a 8/10 or higher and they might miss out on less attractive women who actually are interested. Not saying to have no standards, a level of attraction is necessary.
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:07 AM
3

To me it means a man who stands up for what he believes in, and who has passions/hobbies that he pursues thar he’s confident about. It doesn’t mean a guy has to know what to do or how to act in bed or with a girl in general. But shouldn’t always stay quiet, always give in when he in truth wants something else, or flee the scene when he gets uncomfortable.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:27 PM
1

I wouldn’t sleep with a guy sooner than when I feel ready, and that has nothing to do with finding him attractive or not. If a guy can’t be patient then yeah we don’t fit together, simple as that.
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:15 PM
0

Yes I get lots of matches too. And then lots pf those don’t reply or ghost after one or two messages. A good amount of men ask for nudes or video with no intention of ever meeting up. Another part of men will open with an insult. And the ones that do talk a bit and don’t turn out to be nice guys who will call me a bitch if I take longer to reply usually also ghost eventually, or ask for nudes out of the blue.
/r/seduction20/06/22 08:33 PM
1

Usually no. But now I’m so lonely I’d like a little bit of attention and if a guy actually liked me at first glance, I’d love to know it.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:54 AM
1

Wow you sure sound like the kinda guy I’d never wanna meet! Who the fuck gets pissed off at someone caring about their safety?
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:47 AM
1

You work as hard as you see fit. If you’re thinking the woman isn’t worth all that, you can stop, but you might not get her.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:11 AM
4

20 girls - how many were actually single? How many of the single ones were looking for a man or interested in dating? And then how many of those’s type were you at first glance? It’s not that simple and none of those girls were obligated to give anyone a chance.
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:17 PM
1

Within the first few dates you can still find brand new deal breakers about the other person. It’s absolutely normal to not yet be 100% into someone until you know them better.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:58 PM
18

A comment that relates to one of their photos or a fact in their bio like their hobbies.
/r/seduction24/04/22 06:55 AM
1

I mean true but those often are the lowest of the low kinda guys. I often only get matches from men who are morbidly obese and unemployed or those who hope to get nudes and aren’t unto even a real date. Finding a decent guy isn’t automatically easy just cause you’re a woman.
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:44 AM
7

Guys do this too. They’re preoccupied, bored, or not really interested.
/r/seduction18/04/22 01:36 PM
1

For a hookup I’d just care that he’s hot and confident - and if he is then I wouldn’t care if he’s short.
/r/seduction13/04/22 07:56 PM
6

“Women are so cancerous” yeah sounds like giving up is a good idea. If you have a resentment against women in general, that’s not gonna end well.
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:10 AM
1

If he’s more attractive and more of a catch then he’ll get the hotter women, that’s just how it is.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:47 AM
1

Wrong, narcissism is a terrible trait to live with in people.
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:42 PM
2

I do think a nice body can save an ugly face is some cases. I have swooned over guys’ pecs in OLD even though their face wasn’t my type at least. However if personality sucks then not even a 6 pack can help in the long run.
/r/seduction27/03/22 07:14 AM
0

No, stop generalizing. It happens in some cases, not all.
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:15 PM
1

The difference among average or below men who can and can’t get hot girls is their charm and personality. Looks still do matter but a guy with an outstanding personality who is funny, charming, respectful, etc, automatically looks more attractive too. I know I’ve met some guys who I considered unattractive or not my type at all but they were such a joy to be around, they became attractive to me.
/r/seduction21/03/22 09:53 PM
1

Video games
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:52 AM
2

Just definitely make it clear. Do not match with girls looking for relationships and then drop them after sex like “oh i was just looking fir casual sex sorry”. There’s plenty of women looking for the same. If they have it in their profile, choose them.
/r/seduction16/03/22 07:04 AM
1

No, just like men are not aware of how much effort a woman has to put into getting a worthwhile relationship.
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:33 PM
0

If you’re a good and fun-to-be-around person, you certainly can get a gf. Most of is are totally fine with a guy the same height as us, or even shorter.
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:21 PM
1

Well you have a choice here. Work on yourself to better fit into what “attractive women” want, to have a better chance at scoring them, or be alone if you are sick of “dating down”.
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:15 PM
2

I’m a submissive girl and I need a man to be a least somewhat dominant. Matched with this ultra hot guy with a sexy name, tattoos, he’s an artist and we hit it off joking about what life as an artist is like (I am one as well) But after just a day he asked me if he should come visit me, which was too sudden and soon for me to consider. We live in different countries, but I still wanna get to know a man better before committing to a meeting. I told him it’s too early for that and he basically sai…
/r/seduction08/03/22 08:37 AM
1

If thar bothers you, choose a woman who’s fine with a cheap first date or somewhere you can easily split the bill. If a man offered to buy me drinks, coffee, or dinner, i would be impressed but I wouldn’t expect it either - just like I’m not jumping into bed with them.
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:12 AM
14

It’s not about money, lots of women from certain countries want to score a guy from other certain countries to marry and relocate, even if they are relatively poor.
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:38 PM
2

Nobody is surprised that a good looking guy gets matches. Anyone would choose the better looking partner in any case as long as the personality, etc, are both good.
/r/seduction05/03/22 09:03 PM
2

You gotta be confident in SOMETHING. Nobody’s required to be confident in everything.
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:11 PM
1

A good personality elevates a person and makes them more attractive.
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:30 PM
1

If a guy i was seeing told me he had a sex doll, or I found out some way, I’d be massively turned off. If you just wanna get off get something smaller that isnt an entire fake woman.
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:09 AM
7

As a girl I can tell you this shit isn’t gonna get you anywhere and if a guy I was dating showed me this as his guide I’d be gone in an instant. If you want respect from women, first of all you might wanna respect women in turn and saying most of them are hoes isn’t it.
/r/seduction14/02/22 07:22 AM
17

I agree cause it sounds like he led her on to get head, while she expected more. Of course anyone’s allowed to change their mind or say yes to one thing and no to another, but it would help to communicate this beforehand. If this guy had just said so, she could have chosen what to do and it wouldn’t have been awkward later on.
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:51 PM
3

I may crave sex and be horny for someone right at the first date, but I would never jump into bed with someone I don’t know well enough. Hinting or asking of she’s ready is fine but no man should be upset if she wants more time.
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:25 AM
2

Don’t be too pushy on the first date unless maybe she really gives off signals... i know some go a lot faster but personally I’d never make out with a guy on a first date, I wanna trust the man a bit before getting physical and that’s not possible without spending more time together.
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:04 AM
42

Block them or pull her away?? No, holy shit! She had no obligation to you, she chose another guy, move on.
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:13 PM
1

Not gonna like I would worship a guy with pecs oh my god.... but too much muscles aren’t attractive to me either.
/r/seduction18/12/21 08:05 PM
0

I would say similar to what you wrote. If I had just a ONS then the looks are incredibly important but for long term personality weighs more. I think a great personality and matching with someone in terms of goals, interests, humor, etc will automatically make them more attractive than they might have been when you first saw them.
/r/seduction30/11/21 07:49 AM
1

I usually move on and file those under “we just had zero chemistry”. Sometimes the questions suck, sometimes there’s no desire to put effort into responses... sometimes this is because you just don’t work out and sometimes it’s because the external factors like the net someone more interesting or they are stressed at the job, etc.
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:03 AM
2

You’re conventionally attractive so in theory you should have women interested in you. If you give off bad vibes, seem unapproachable, have a bad personality, or look for women in the wrong places, that might change things.
/r/seduction03/09/21 06:04 AM
8

Non-asians are probably just generally popular. I’m a white girl and when I was in Japan I got lots of guys checking me out, smiling, some trying to hit on me (I’m not very approachable) while I’m very average looking.
/r/seduction02/09/21 07:03 AM
2

Its not too late and it isn’t rare. I was 22 went I got my first boyfriend and like 24 when I lost my virginity.
/r/seduction31/08/21 06:21 AM
6

Height. A nice face is much more attractive than height.
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:32 AM
2

I’ve never seen or heard of women making fun of or rejecting guys due to their height. Not saying it doesn’t happen - of course it does, but if a woman says you’re not her type cause you’re too short, this isn’t different than a guy saying she’s not his type for any other physical reason. Some people are more bothered than others. My parents are the same height and they are both 5.4”. I’m like 5.5” and I don’t need a guy to be taller than me. If you don’t find any women interested in you, you’re…
/r/seduction29/08/21 06:16 AM
5

Girl i haven’t had sex in like 5+ years, its ok. If a man finds it weird, he’s probably not worth it.
/r/seduction05/08/21 12:45 PM
4

To me it matters somewhat. Perfect height would be slightly taller than I. If he is too tall, I’d find that worse than if he were shorter than I. But if I love his personality then it matters less.
/r/seduction03/08/21 08:42 PM
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