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This is priceless! Back in the days before I was MGTOW, I still wasn't that patient. I'd tell them to meet me by the GameStop, or I'd fetch them if I was done. Of course, I was always doing the fetching which consisted of saying "We are going now!" It was always followed by their whining, that I inevitably ignored. Thankfully, I don't have to deal with that crap anymore.
/r/MGTOW03/10/19 09:19 PM
1

Wow, that is quite old, he obviously lived under good care!
/r/MGTOW23/09/19 05:58 PM
2

He's my 3rd Siamese, and I have a ten year-old Flame Point that has become a big brother to him. I've found pairing a young cat with an older cat helps the younger cat learn the ropes, and the older cat to remain more active. Loki has adapted well and now has the run of the house. He's always either playing/sleeping with his big brother, or myself. He is napping right now after having played a game of chase with me earlier.
/r/MGTOW23/09/19 05:52 PM
2

I had a grumpy Lilac Lynx Point Siamese (my first Siamese) that lived to 16, bright blue eyes. The Lilacs are very beautiful.
/r/MGTOW23/09/19 05:45 PM
1

Not at all, you just can't see his pupil from the camera angle. He has mildly crossed eyes however, but it doesn't cause him any issues.
/r/MGTOW23/09/19 05:44 PM
6

Thanks, I name my cats within 24 hours of adopting them. Loki seemed an appropriate name as the little one likes to play tricks like sneaking up, tapping me, then running off.
/r/MGTOW14/09/19 10:22 PM
8

Very true, cats essentially choose to be with humans. It is one of the reasons I enjoy them so much, they don't "need" me, so in a way it makes that bond all the more amazing. Cats get a bad rap, but I've found that generally it is by people who don't understand them well.
/r/MGTOW14/09/19 10:20 PM
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I love Siamese as well, they are such a unique breed. Indeed, they are often described as being "doglike" in their bonds with humans. Mine always remain close to me, so I find they are excellent companions.
/r/MGTOW14/09/19 10:17 PM
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He's three months old. Loki is actually my third Siamese (all rescues), I also have a ten year-old Flame Point, and my Lynx Point passed away just a few months ago (and why I decided to adopt another). As you mentioned, they are a very loyal and social breed, which is why I enjoy them so much.
/r/MGTOW14/09/19 10:15 PM
1

Such laws only add fuel for more men to go MGTOW, while even more women whine "Where are all the good men at", completely oblivious that they are the source of their own problems. It is akin to the common law marriage laws in the US, and just as asinine. If women are equal to men in every way, they shouldn't NEED us in any way, shape, or form. The bottom line is that it is bullshit, and the only ones they are fooling, are themselves.
/r/MGTOW14/09/19 06:47 PM
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His eyes are somewhat crossed, like many Siamese, but it is only evident when he focuses on something close. His left pupil seems to drift when that happens, so I call it "googly eyes"!
/r/MGTOW14/09/19 06:26 PM
1

How about calling him "it".
/r/MGTOW14/09/19 06:23 PM
1

What a handsome boy, I'm so glad you were able to get him back! It is disgusting that anyone would traumatize a pet like that just to hurt someone, but women are notoriously vindictive. I've always had a cat by my side for the last twenty years, and I remember each and every one of them fondly. I currently have a ten year-old Flame Point Siamese, and couldn't fathom someone taking him from me. He's my best friend, follows me everywhere, and has slept beside me every night of his life.
/r/MGTOW27/08/19 08:01 PM
3

Very true, I used to dislike cats, as my childhood neighbor was a "crazy cat lady". Her cats were ill-disciplined, crapped all over the house, and were generally just plain mean! After rescuing a cat from an alcoholic neighbor many years later, I came to realize what excellent companions they can be. I've raised two cats now, and as one recently passed, will likely be raising a third.
/r/MGTOW18/08/19 11:08 PM
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Pets are the best. My Flame Point Siamese cat has been by my side for ten years now, people come and go, but he's always there. My Lynx Point Siamese died last month at the ripe age of 16, I'm considering getting another cat so my Flame Point has a companion. There's a PetSmart "Adoption Day" event from Sep. 13-15 I'll likely attend, as all my cats have been rescues.
/r/MGTOW18/08/19 11:06 PM
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I went monk when it became undeniable that women simply weren't worth the hassle. There's always some kind or drama or bullshit attached, and at 46, I have enough self control to simply avoid it to begin with.
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 07:17 PM
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I smell fish!
/r/MGTOW02/08/19 02:05 PM
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Ebonics = A combination of English and stupid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/19 01:22 PM
1

Foamy fish flaps!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/19 10:21 PM
1

She could suck a golf ball through a garden hose!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/19 09:13 PM
1

"Don't take the cork off the fork!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/19 09:06 PM
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"Soylent Green is people!!!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/19 08:50 PM
4

The fish lickers can have her, in fact, that would be preferable! Please take this worn out thot, remove her beef flaps from our sight, PLEASE!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/19 08:41 PM
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Exactly what they are thinking. I'm 46 and live with my 88 year-old father as his caregiver. Really no sense in having two properties when he needs assistance on a daily basis. Besides, it is a very nice property, no reason to live somewhere else. Though I have no interest in dating, there have been "friends of friends" that have inquired. It works to my advantage to simply say that I live with my dad, providing no explanation. Women immediately assume I'm a basement troll, when I'm far from it.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/19 08:35 PM
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Oh dear lord, my eyes, my EYES, they burn with fat and nasty!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/19 01:24 AM
1

Fee fees, that is priceless! "Aww, do you have fee fees"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/19 01:18 AM
1

I think maybe she has a son?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/19 01:15 AM
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Precisely what I was thinking, she's a real moral authority for certain!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/19 12:16 AM
1

It was her only card left to play. Then again, women cry RAPE when men even look in their general direction these days.
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 09:35 PM
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"Hoefacts" network!
/r/MGTOW24/07/19 09:38 PM
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Do I smell fish?
/r/MGTOW10/07/19 03:36 PM
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I compose electronic music. I got interested as a boy when my mom bought an organ in the 70's. I recently just picked up a few more pieces of gear to add to my collection.
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 09:52 PM
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I wish I could provide you with more peace of mind, but I'll share what I can and give you my two cents based on experience. You don't have any children with her, so that is a big plus right there. Alimony would be the only concern, but that depends on how vindictive she is to go after it. In that case, it is all up to your lawyer. ​ My ex-wife was passive-aggressive. Though I initiated the divorce, once we were separated, she just wanted to be free of me, to not have to ever deal with me again.…
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 06:56 PM
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Don't feel bad, I know how it is when it comes to holding out hope for a unicorn. I held onto that for many years. It was that breakup that made me realize if such a thing even exists, the probability is far too low to waste the time to search for it. Until her, I always bounced back, but that one was so devastating and life-altering, I came to my senses.
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 06:28 PM
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That is a good question. In my experience, some aren't good chameleons, and they are the ones that fail, as they are unable to use a man for any period of time without the man catching on quickly. Those who are successful become like my ex, they are able to go from man to man, use them for an extended period of time, without being obvious. ​ It is truly sad. The reality was if she had put the same effort into herself that she put into deceiving me, she could have made something of herself. All h…
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 06:24 PM
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Thanks brother, it has been three years since I got out of that nightmare. That situation is what turned me MGTOW, and I'll never look back. She was a good bullshit artist, but there's only so long you can get away with that, actions speak for themselves. After we had been involved for some time, I realized she had a child's mentality about money, and many other things. Her folks had always bailed her out, so she never knew how to handle anything herself. ​ It was constant anxiety living with he…
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 11:54 PM
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I'm so glad I was able to provide some perspective, I don't want anyone to go through the shit I did, it took me over a year to come to terms with what was going on. Women pull you in slowly, it starts out as dating, and the next thing you know, you are deeply involved. Without a doubt, she was playing the field, and trying to determine if you were too. Sometimes if there is more competition, women will step up their game, other times they'll look elsewhere. At least you saw the red flags. Women…
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 07:57 PM
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Yep, all you need is a pet when it comes to company, they fill the need and you can actually trust them! They make it very clear they love you when they follow you around wherever you go in the house, and want to sleep next to you every night. I raised my cat from a kitten, so he views me as a parental figure, in nine years he's never left my side. If he is sleeping and wakes up to me gone, he'll go look for me immediately. It is that kind of dedication that men want.
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 07:52 PM
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Absolutely right, women think they want something, so they bitch about it. However, once they actually have it, they then bitch about how much work it is. An example is years ago when my ex-wife wanted a damn Christmas tree. I bought her the damn Christmas tree, and then she complained about how much work it was so set up. Ridiculous!
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 07:47 PM
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Congratulations! I know how it feels to finally get that piece of paper saying that it is finally over, a tremendous weight lifted off your back. For me it was ten years of an absolutely Hellish marriage to the Ice Queen of the Harpies!
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 06:11 PM
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This is the kind of behavior that just makes me appreciate MGTOW even more. I don't ever have to worry about a woman cheating on me, I never have to deal with the feeling in the back of my mind that I'm being betrayed behind my back. There's a great sense of freedom in that.
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 05:19 PM
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"I think we’re all human and I am a good person. This is just not me at all. You can make silly mistakes." Silly mistake? You couldn't get more deliberate! As far as "not me at all", it is obvious she is just showing her true nature by her actions, and the only mistake she made was getting caught. Disgusting and pathetic how women always play the victim, as if they can do no wrong. The irony is that she incriminates herself by both playing the victim, and later admitting to her actions being a "…
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 05:13 PM
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The message is likely intended to be "It is the cross we bear". Consider the female mentality, always the victim, always in the right, always subjugated and crucified by "toxic masculinity". Essentially, they view themselves as the bulwark of humanity.
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 05:04 PM
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I wish I could convince you to avoid her, but I can tell you are determined. I did the dating game after my divorce, and regretted it sorely. I was foolishly involved with a single mother for six years, and the end result was a nightmare. Her and the kids were a significant financial drain, and though she assured me she was going to get her career going, she never did. In addition, once you get involved, their children are NOT yours, so if you break up with the woman, you will never see them aga…
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 03:52 PM
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I feel for you brother, I was almost in the same boat. When I left my last (literally last) girlfriend and moved in with my dad to become his caregiver, I ended up almost getting shafted due to her piss-poor money management. She was going to have to move since she couldn't afford the rent, and would be there at least another three months. However, in the meantime, her mom was supporting her by sending money. ​ Her mom was about the only family member she'd hadn't alienated by always asking for …
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 02:58 PM
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Just goes to show even they realize their pussy is all they have to offer. However, they have vastly overestimated its value!
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 02:28 PM
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I'm surprised those fish flaps didn't balloon out like Dumbo and send her flying across the room!
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 02:21 PM
2

Women use all kinds of overpriced cleansers that are little more than junk science. They then bitch about the cost, when if they simply stuck with a bar of soap vs "ass bodywash", they wouldn't have that problem.
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 02:15 PM
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Shortly after women get married, they tend to start grazing. Within a year or two, you can hear the thundering clomp and their mooing down the hall. My ex-wife didn't balloon up too badly after the wedding, but she wasn't exactly thin anymore either.
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 02:13 PM
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It is always amusing when women shoot themselves in the foot and don't even realize it. I have no interest in women anymore at 46, but have known several women in the last few years that were clearly "seeing what I had to offer". I have an ace up my sleeve that shuts them down right off, I simply say "I'm a live-in caregiver for my dad". ​ Immediately they lose interest, as from their perspective, I don't have my own place, and certainly wouldn't have free time. However, they would only be parti…
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 02:09 PM
1

Many of us have been there, and felt that same pain. I went though it myself after my last (and final) relationship. I have no idea if she cheated on me (probably did based on a few red flags), but she certainly used me. I was little more than an ATM for her spending, and though she was able to conceal it for a time, eventually I caught on. The real pain was when I saw her do the exact same thing to some other guy, and realized just how stupid I had been for so long. Nonetheless, in time that pa…
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 01:35 AM
1

LOL, "ass water"! It is certainly true about dating, unless you are a Chad, forget it. Thankfully, I've been out of the dating game for some time.
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 01:28 AM
2

No kidding, what a catch alright, as in catch of STD's! It never ceases to amaze me how fat, ugly women can look into the mirror and convince themselves they look good. No realism whatsoever, totally deluded.
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 01:06 AM
2

Think of it, she wrote a whole article to justify herself, to convince herself she is a "great catch" and poor Chad lost out. I'm sure if the guy even read her article, he's laughing his ass off while he's plowing his next conquest. This woman illustrates perfectly how women deceive themselves into believing all their actions are the right ones instead of analyzing their actions and learning from the experience.
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 01:02 AM
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I'm 46 and can definitely attest to what you are saying. When I hit 43, I kicked my last woman to the curb and I never looked back. I still have a sex drive, but it is far milder, and just as easy to take matters into my own hands. There's really nothing a woman has to offer me that is of any interest. As far as companionship, that is what pets are for. I've had a cat for nine years now, and he's great company.
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 12:51 AM
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Retired at 43 (now 46), and moved in with my dad (now 88) to become his caregiver. I had been dating a woman for six years and had come to realize beyond a shadow of a doubt I was little more than an ATM for her. My dad had been having difficulties with maintaining his independence after my mom died of cancer, so I volunteered to help him out. I kicked the bitch to the curb, and moved back to my home state, and in with my dad. I consider it an honor to care for him in his twilight years, given a…
/r/MGTOW06/07/19 11:02 PM
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Bingo, ergo my response was "unconditional love my ass, the only thing you are in love with is the lifestyle you have with me." In the end, she couldn't argue, I had her cornered based on all the crap she had done. I went MGTOW after her, I came to the harsh realization every woman I had been involved with only wanted the same thing she did, and I'm not willing to support someone else's lifestyle.
/r/MGTOW06/07/19 10:52 PM
1

Typical, she isn't taking responsiblity for her own choices. SHE chose to have the child, now she's dealing with the consequences. If you can't feed 'em, don't breed 'em.
/r/MGTOW06/07/19 07:20 PM
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Oh yeah, heard that line from the last woman I ever bothered to be involved with. Her version was tied with "but I loved you for who you are...unconditionally" (her response when I told her it was over). Women have all kinds of lines they use to manipulate men. Catch onto them, call them out on it, and you'll see them backpedal, and try another tactic.
/r/MGTOW06/07/19 07:13 PM
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Gonorrhea...yeah..nooo!
/r/MGTOW06/07/19 06:56 PM
3

Many men try to adhere to the belief their experience with marriage will be different, but in the end, it won't. I lived it, and would never wish it upon anyone. Marriage is a soul-crushing experience, it robs us of our very identity, turns us into someone we don't want to be, all to please someone else. It isn't worth it, and I have known no one that has ever said it truly was. Even the so called "happily married men" illustrate some level of regret having gotten married. In essence, they are l…
/r/MGTOW06/07/19 06:54 PM
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Ever notice how with women, it is "never their fault"? Talk to just about any woman about her past, and you are overwhelmed with stories of her misfortune, as well as the tyranny of the men she dated.
/r/MGTOW06/07/19 06:45 PM
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I've heard that line so many times in reference not just to sex, but interaction in general, it is a pretty lie to attempt to disarm you and create the illusion that "you are special". In reality, you are just another resource to be used up. The irony is that I didn't believe that line even before I was MGTOW, I just wasn't smart enough to realize there was no ROI when it came to women.
/r/MGTOW06/07/19 06:41 PM
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Right on, better to learn early than to find out the hard way. It took me until 46 to learn, as MGTOW did not exist when I was younger. I've seen female hypergamy firsthand, and the unicorns men chase after simply do not exist. Even if they did, the odds of finding one are so negligible, your chance of winning the lottery is higher. Young men should be guided towards the truth, not wishful thinking.
/r/MGTOW06/07/19 06:37 PM
1

Holy shit, that woman is full of some serious crazy!!!
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 10:11 PM
6

No kidding, women turn every platform into a way for them to sell their bodies, it really gets old after a while. The only reason they don't use PornHub is they feel Twitch is more respectable, never mind the fact it is the behavior that determines if something is respectable or not.
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 08:56 PM
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Precisely, if it were the other way around, she would be yammering for the prenup. Hopefully this will act as a red flag for the man to kick her to the curb.
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 08:08 PM
2

Exactly, at one time you'd only see those kind of women on porn sites, now they are everywhere. I find it amusing they complain about men objectifying them, then go right out and do it to themselves!
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 08:05 PM
1

I'm sure it smells like fish sticks! lol :)
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 08:01 PM
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Agreed, once they pop out a kid, they really have you by the short hairs. I refused to have a child with my ex, as our marriage was shitty enough as it was. I saw no logic in raising a child in a home where there was conflict, not to mention the fact I would have been divorce-raped. I told her as much, and of course, she tried the "it will bring us closer together" line, which I dismissed as complete bullshit! A year later, I divorced her and cut my losses.
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 07:57 PM
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Yep, didn't believe it myself until I looked. She sold out in no time flat, clearly showing the quantity of basement trolls there are out there. Pretty pathetic.
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 07:46 PM
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Reminds me of that Plexus shit the soccer moms sell with the promises of curing everything that ails you.
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 05:54 PM
1

As with many, it was a culmination of experiences. A ten year nightmarish marriage, followed by dating experiences that quickly revealed women were all seeking the same thing, a meal ticket. Combine that with how skewed things are in favor of women, and logic dictates staying far away from them is the wisest course of action. The truth is, you are not "Mr. Right", you are just "Mr. Right Now".
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 05:16 PM
2

Exactly, men are simply resources to be used up from a woman's point of view.
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 05:10 PM
1

As unpleasant as that situation was, at least you dodged a bullet. Women and hypergamy go hand-in-hand, they are always looking for something "more", even if they don't know what that is. From her behavior, I'd say she was setting you up ahead of time, biding her time until she had found your replacement. As others have said, I wouldn't be surprised you get a text from her out of the blue in a couple of years when she's "had her fun", and is ready to settle down (or empty your pocketbook rather)…
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 05:05 PM
1

Thanks for the PDF link, very good read!
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 04:53 PM
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There's nothing like the unconditional love and companionship of a pet. My cat is my best friend, he follows me everywhere I go, and has slept next to me every night since he was a kitten nine years ago. No woman has even come close to showing me that kind of loyalty. With my cat, I always know what to expect, and there is no "hidden agenda".
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 04:51 PM
1

No doubt, "Look what a cool mom I am!" It's a lot easier to seek a child's approval than to fulfill the role of a parent.
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 03:46 PM
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Awesome, I just ordered the MODX6 to compliment my Casio MZ-X500 arranger.
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 03:27 PM
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I currently have a Flame Point Siamese who is nine years old. He follows me everywhere I go in the house, and is never more than two feet from me. He's a great companion, and unlike a woman, he has no agenda, he just wants to be close.
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 03:23 PM
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Trick question, no one is 😁!
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 01:26 AM
1

I concur, give him time to heal, and offer to spend time with him doing the things you enjoy. Eventually, he should open up again. I lost my mom to cancer in 2014, and it was almost a year or more before my dad really came to terms with it (they had been married 55 years). My father and I share a very close relationship now.
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 12:03 AM
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Thank you for the update, we knew there had to be drama, there always is when a woman is involved.
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 11:59 PM
1

That is a woman, seriously?! Burn it, burn it with fire!!!
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 11:57 PM
1

I honestly don't know what is worse, her behavior, or the pedantic losers who piss away money on her garbage. Though some might applaud her business sense (which I can't fault), I have to laugh as the only thing she has to market is her own whorish self. When the looks eventually fail, her "greatest accomplishment" will be selling her bath water. Can you imagine what her job applications will look like in regards to past experience?
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 11:56 PM
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Her "daughter is her best friend", ergo she's a shitty parent. Your children are children, NOT friends. If she's buddy buddy with her daughter, she's not properly assuming her parental role. This is not to say she can't have an amicable relationship, but a mom needs to be viewed as "mom". Then again, she's probably playing Fortnite instead of being a parent.
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 11:52 PM
3

You are self-aware, so that is a good start. At your age, my head was completely up my ass, I was blue-pilled and really believed in a "picket fence dream". In your case I'd say it might kick in around your early 30's or so. A lot of that depends on how big your social circle is. The smaller it is, the fewer people you have to please to begin with. ​ When you reach the point of knowing exactly what you want out of life, odds are it will start to take priority, particularly if you are a "people p…
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 11:44 PM
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I'm deeply sorry for your loss brother. I've lost a couple of cats in my lifetime (old age, stroke) and know how painful it can be. It is essentially the loss of what is both a child and a best friend all in one. Ironically, I used to despise cats in my youth, as I grew up next to a "crazy cat lady". However, after I rescued a cat in college, I came to realize they can be loyal, appreciative animals if given the right environment. I've always had a cat since. In the last twenty years, I couldn't…
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 11:10 PM
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I acquired that trait as a grew older (I'm 46 now). I'd say it was around my 40's when I quit caring what other people thought about me, sans a select few I respected, such as my father. When you realize time is running out, you become more fixated on your personal wants and needs. It is kind of a slow transition, you don't even notice it until after it has happened.
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 11:02 PM
2

Short-term perhaps, but then again, women tend more towards short-term thinking. As soon as they hit the wall, and reality starts to sink in. When they realize they have no marketable skills, no future prospects, and no children, said happiness will go right out the window. "Leading expert in happiness", what a joke. Is that actually a job description now? ​ I wish it was true, as then perhaps they'd leave men the Hell alone, instead of flocking like vultures over our wallets. Reality tells a ve…
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 09:25 PM
8

Ahh, a degree in bullshit.
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 09:13 PM
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There is nothing like the unconditional love of a pet. I lost my 16 year-old cat not long ago, he was a good and loyal friend, and though he will be missed, he lived a good life.
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 08:32 PM
1

For that she stirs it up with a fish stick!
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 07:32 PM
1

Women are ALWAYS scheming, it is merely that those of us who are red-pilled are aware of that fact. If a woman shows interest in you, the first thing you should ask yourself is "What does she have to gain from me?" If she doesn't know outright, she has some rough idea based on how you dress or carry yourself. There is always an agenda. ​ I had to learn the hard way, but at least I did learn, as some never do, sadly. It is difficult to accept that anyone could be so coldly utilitarian in their me…
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 06:43 PM
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Same here, there are more of us out there than you realize brother. Our introverted nature makes it such that we aren't noticed. Bottom line, it is just who we are, don't let society even attempt to dictate who you should be.
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 05:36 PM
2

Yep, exactly. Women never outright say what they are thinking, it is all innuendo, supposition, and reading between the lines. I've long since had enough of that crap, and happy I'm MGTOW!
/r/MGTOW30/06/19 04:03 PM
1

I agree with what many have said about trying to hide your assets, especially if your wife is vindictive. Whether or not you can keep yourself from getting fucked over too badly depends on your wife's personality type. I was very lucky and didn't end up paying alimony. The fact I didn't have any children with her was of course, was a major factor as well. ​ My ex-wife was/is passive aggressive. She never went the direct route when it came to discussing anything, including our piss-poor relations…
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 04:32 PM
2

If that is how your dad feels, you don't need him in your life, it is obvious where his loyalties lie. Go your own way brother!
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 03:52 PM
1

I just tell them the truth, I'm my father's live-in caregiver. With me providing 24-hour care, I do limited contract work from home, which brings in enough to cover my bills, period. I'm not a suitable ATM for them, and I live with my dad, so they don't see cohabitation in the future either.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 03:48 PM
1

That's just too awesome, I'll have to remember that!
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 07:54 PM
5

My thoughts exactly.
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 07:51 PM
1

Absurd and degrading. Even when I was married, I would have told her to go to Hell. Women have the false impression they have some kind of authority, I often had to remind my ex that she had none, and the door was always open if she wanted to go. Of course, not having any children helped.
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 07:44 PM
2

Good article, thanks for sharing. Cohabitation is just asking for problems. Even if they don't go after you after the relationship ends, they sure as heck milk you for whatever they can get during it, that is for certain. Been there, done that, never going to endure that crap again.
/r/MGTOW08/06/19 07:57 PM
1

"I just drive to a Starbucks and blow their shit up." Hahha, that is awesome...
/r/MGTOW06/06/19 09:19 PM
2

Handsome fellow! I've had cats for years, and find them to be excellent companions. It takes time to understand them, but once a strong bond it formed, they can be extremely loyal pets. My current cat is a Flame Point Siamese that is nine years old, and without a doubt is my best buddy. He follows me everywhere in the house, sleeps next to me, and eagerly greets me at the door when I return home from errands. ​ When I was young, I despised cats, as I lived next door to a quintessential "crazy ca…
/r/MGTOW18/05/19 05:48 PM
6

I'm with you brother, I've had cats for almost 20 years. Most negative stereotypes are due to not understanding the species. They don't "need" anyone to survive, and they can form extremely strong bonds with humans if one takes the time to understand them. My current cat is nine years old and is without a doubt my best friend. He follows me everywhere in the house, and has slept next to me every night since he was a kitten.
/r/MGTOW18/05/19 05:14 PM
3

Typical modern mentality, "If you don't agree with me, you are an -ist". Well bitch, I'm a IDon'tGiveAShit-ist.
/r/MGTOW16/05/19 04:29 PM
5

Exactly, you can replace many things, but not your honor.
/r/MGTOW15/05/19 11:15 PM
11

I can feel nothing other than a temporary sexual attraction. I know exactly what will happen if I attempt to pursue a relationship, the outcome will be no different than any other time. In that regard, I am quite incapable of loving a woman. I cannot have feelings for a parasite like that.
/r/MGTOW15/05/19 11:08 PM
14

Very typical behavior. My ex-girlfriend used to take out cash, then piss it away on crap for herself and say it was for her kid. I eventually caught her when I put two and two together after she let it slip she'd hide spending from her ex-husband. Women don't change, if they are cheaters, they will always cheat. If they are sneaky spenders, that will always be in their nature.
/r/MGTOW15/05/19 11:01 PM
1

I got a vasectomy six years ago, and don't regret it one bit. I don't want to bring a child into this world to begin with. Even so, there is always that possibility of being accused of rape, so I simply avoid women as a whole. It really isn't that difficult once a couple of years pass.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 05:39 PM
2

Though women aren't worth the risk to begin with, single mothers are the worst to get involved with. Odds are, she was asking you for money because she pissed away the child support on herself. I've experienced that firsthand when my last ex would whine for me to pay for her youngest child's clothing. Her excuse was that child support wasn't enough. Though she was only getting a pittance, had she saved it instead of pissing it away on crap for herself, she could have spend it on what it was appr…
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 05:34 PM
1

Great share! Different experience, but the same type of underhanded, deceptive behavior from the woman. I'm sorry you had to go through that, no good man should endure that kind of abuse. I am all too familiar with the realization a woman is pilfering funds. My girlfriend was good enough at it that I didn't notice until she slipped up.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 04:09 PM
2

Joint information, always a freaking nightmare. I can relate, as my ex-wife opted to buy a new car after I all but handed her a job at the place I was working. Never mind the fact I had given her my Ford Explorer Sport, which was still in pretty good shape at the time. She just HAD to have a new car. I'll be 46 when I own my first truly new car to put things in perspective. ​ Anyway, I had nothing to do with her car purchase, wasn't on the paperwork, didn't co-sign, etc. However, the sales team …
/r/MGTOW05/05/19 12:48 AM
2

Certainly, I wouldn't want any good man to go through the crap that I did. I was lucky, and came out on top, others don't always end up as fortunate. If it weren't for my dad, my retirement would have been severely delayed, best case. The least I can do is try to make sure his final years are good ones. In the end, we've helped one another. ​ I'm very pleased you are able to learn from my mistakes, it means it wasn't all for nothing. At 23, you are exactly where I was at that age, and you've got…
/r/MGTOW05/05/19 12:34 AM
1

Congratulations and good job brother! It really hits you like a ton of bricks just how much of a drain women are once you ditch them and your finances improve by several fold.
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 08:50 PM
3

Thanks, it is much appreciated brother! I certainly view it as an upcoming accomplishment, as this will be the first vehicle I will have purchased brand new and won't have car payments for. Odds are, it will be a Jeep Renegade Limited. I'm partial to compact SUV's, and my dad has trouble getting into anything else. He can't get into his sedan anymore, but we've kept it as a backup in case my Jeep Patriot craps out before I can trade it in. Indeed, our entire society does nothing but enable the f…
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 08:37 PM
2

It is always difficult when pets get old, you are always on "death watch" after a certain age. You have the right mindset, just enjoy your time together while you have it. My older cat, a Lynx Point Siamese of eighteen years just died a month ago. Though he will always be remembered, and certainly missed, he had a great life, and died peacefully at a ripe old age. We can't ask for much more than that.
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 08:04 PM
2

Growing up, I didn't like cats, my neighbor was the quintessential "crazy cat lady". Her house smelled like cat piss (she didn't clean the litter properly), and she let her cats behave however they wanted. I viewed cats as aloof and ungrateful. Long story short, when my began my career out on my own, I ended up rescuing the alcoholic neighbor's cat (terribly abusive situation). The cat was obviously grateful, and I took the time to read up on cats, and understand their behavior and communication…
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 08:01 PM
2

(Gag)...Those fat folds on the land whale in front. Dear God, talk about disgusting, cover that shit up!
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 07:10 PM
3

That, and anyone you meet is a walking dumpster fire.
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 06:10 PM
2

I've known some acquaintances that have gone back, but realistically, they weren't MGTOW in the first place, they were just distressed over their breakup. Once they emotionally recovered, they lost any objectivity they had, and went right back to the plantation, thinking something would be different. I know one fellow that has been married four times now, and still thinks he's going to find what he's looking for. He was never the brightest bulb in the fixture, but at this point I cannot see him …
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 06:09 PM
9

Quite so, it was my last and final lesson. After her, I looked back only to realize the sad truth that every woman I had ever been involved with had a similar mentality. I laugh when friends suggest I date. I'm 45, am finally out of debt, and for the first time in over 20 years, my life is my own. I would be a fool to give that up. It will be nice to own a brand new vehicle and know I'll be the only one driving it.
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 05:45 PM
5

Germany is the one place I do plan to travel to when my father passes. My parents did a lot of traveling when I was young, so I've "been there, done that". Germany is the one place above all others I'd truly enjoy seeing. Dad and I often chat about it, as he's been there a couple of times.
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 05:39 PM
1

OMG, my eyes, quick...burn it with fire!!!
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 05:35 PM
9

Summation: "The dumpster fire known as Madonna is bitter that her beef flaps are all worn out and no one pays attention to her anymore". What a train wreck...
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 05:06 PM
2

Kittens can sleep anywhere. My cat used to sleep in my bathrobe pocket when he was a kitten. When I got home from work, he'd climb in and fall asleep. Even as a kitten, he always stayed close.
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 04:41 PM
1

As my father always told me, "Hindsight is 20/20". When we look back in time, we now possess objectivity that in the past we did not, whether it be the foolishness we engaged in during our teenage years, or our utter stupidity in our relationships. It is easy to self-deprecate and demean one's self over such things, but I always keep in mind that the women in my life had done enough of that to last me a lifetime (and then some).
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 03:59 PM
1

Thank you for your kind response. Today's society is so twisted that getting involved is just an absurd idea for a man now, as sad as that is. Even more so at my age, given I would like to retire one day. Nonetheless, I can't complain, as I have a good life now, and enjoy being able to spend so much time with my father. ​ My dad is a good man, and it is an honor to be able to help him. I wasn't sure about living with him long-term, but now it is necessary regardless to ensure his well-being, and…
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 04:28 AM
4

Thank brother, he's one of the great joys in my life. Follows me everywhere I go in the house, greets me when I return home, and sleeps besides me every night. The photo is his usual morning behavior after breakfast. He'd climb on my lap, but he's way too big. Not a matter of being overweight either, he's just a very big cat (18 lbs).
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 03:21 AM
1

Really sorry to hear about your situation brother, feel free to drop me a line if it suits you. What really saved me from a nightmarish divorce and alimony was keeping calm. Had I completely flown off the handle (as a part of me wanted to), there was a high probability of her getting defensive. My ex-wife would become notoriously hostile when she was defensive (I mean HATEFUL). Most of the time, she was just passive-aggressive.
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 03:14 AM
9

Cats can really be great companions if one bonds with them. Mine always knows when I'm having a rough day, and does his best to cheer me up. He sleeps with me every night and doesn't steal the covers either!
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 12:18 AM
5

Thanks! I believe it helps to share our experiences as a way to support one another. You said it, life is SO much better now, no drama, no debt, no bullshit. There is nothing a woman can offer that can possibly compare.
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 12:09 AM
2

Sure thing brother, hang in there, feel free to drop me a message if you'd like. I've certain been where you are, there are a lot of ups and downs, often feeling like you've lost everything. In actuality, you've gained something priceless, freedom.
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 12:03 AM
2

When you don't have the hassle and expenses of a woman, you can focus on yourself, your wants and needs. You quickly realize who your true friends are, and often they are one's pets. I adopted my cat shortly after I divorced my now ex-wife, and he's been by my side for nine years now.
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 11:40 PM
2

Way to go brother! It is a beautiful vehicle, nothing like being able to get that special car one has worked so hard for! I'll be getting a new vehicle next year, likely a Jeep Renegade Limited. I currently drive a Jeep Patriot, and it is at the point where it is starting run into issues.
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 10:51 PM
2

I concur, it is why I do contract work, I won't live off my father. He won't let me pay him rent, but I pay for all my needs, as well as a portion of the grocery bill. Often, people who come into any sum of money immediately start to live beyond their means, or soon become irresponsible with money. I've seen it before myself. My experiences in life have taught me to live very modestly. My father has actually had to get me to loosen up on some things, as I'm so used to being extremely frugal. My …
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 10:42 PM
1

Quality post, and I certainly agree. Those in the MGTOW community are supportive because we've "been there, done that" in regards to women. We know the pain others have been through, and good men support good men. Rebuilding your life isn't necessarily easy, and it helps to have a supportive community behind you.
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 07:58 PM
1

I'm with you brother, the world has changed quite a bit since I was young. The only individuals I truly trust these days are my father, and my cat. Other members of my family have never been there for me in any capacity, and friends come and go. My father is the only person who has ever consistently been supportive, and in turn, I am doing the best to provide the same in his twilight years.
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 07:55 PM
2

Indeed I agree regarding enjoying lunch with my father. My statement was based on my initial assessment when I first came to live with him. I was quite unaware of the precise level of his financial solvency, I only had a rough idea. He had asked me to make a list of overhead costs, and I had included lunches. We laugh about it now. We go out to lunch twice a week when he's up to it. I actually spent five years working in a nursing home in my youth, so I'm painfully aware of what is likely to com…
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 07:43 PM
12

Beautiful! I'm full German by blood (born in the USA), and really would love to visit the homeland one day, it is on my bucket list.
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 07:06 PM
1

Dead on. I know all about the frivolous spending, as I experienced it firsthand. Women are notorious about trying to justify it, and when that doesn't work, they try to hide it.
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 07:01 PM
1

Fake or not, this is exactly the type of behavior that is considered "acceptable" by women today. I recall several years ago when I was still dating I went out to a club with an ex-girlfriend who opted to flirt with every man she saw. The end result was me dumping her the moment I got home after dead silence in the car.
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 06:58 PM
1

Congratulations brother, great to hear you made it through the rough patches and your life is back on track! Sounds like you are really embracing life. Pets are great companions, I have a Siamese cat myself, and contrary to what some might think, he's extremely social and loyal (and snuggly, sleeps with me every night). I ended up moving in with my father as well, but that was primarily because he needed a caregiver. Regardless, I know that feeling of making sense of one's life and couldn't be h…
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 06:54 PM
1

You are a good friend brother, and that goes a long way. Ten years ago when my marriage ended, my friends helped me remember who I really was, and I am forever grateful. I have a good life now, financial independence, and the honor of caring for my dad in his twilight years. I wouldn't trade the MGTOW life for the world!
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 03:06 PM
2

Marriage often leads to a slow breaking down of a man's individuality and self-esteem, it is insidious in nature. Eventually, self-loathing sets in and one of two things will happen, either the man will continue to break down, or decide he's had enough. It can take some time for that to occur, if it ever does, as the man knows full well he's the one with everything on the line. The more vindictive the woman, the more virulent the fight will likely be. ​ Before I was married, I had the "it will n…
/r/MGTOW02/05/19 07:27 PM
1

Right on! Low maintenance, and if you have a social breed like Siamese, they are very affectionate and responsive. I like dogs as well, but as I am a caregiver for my father, I don't have the time to care for one. My cat has been a wonderful companion over the years. He follows me everywhere I go in the house, and watches over my father when I'm out.
/r/MGTOW01/05/19 11:24 PM
3

I concur. Years ago I was dating a woman that was a compulsive spender. When I gave her Hell for pissing away money outside of the budget, she simply became more deceitful. Whatever the pattern is, it will always be maintained, simply with a different strategy.
/r/MGTOW01/05/19 10:53 PM
2

Just goes to show the more things change, the more they stay the same. I'm just glad you are aware, no good man should have to endure that kind of crap. At least you can have the pleasure of watching them fail.
/r/MGTOW01/05/19 10:31 PM
2

Divorce courts favor women. The best bet is to not get married, and avoid cohabitation, as from a legal standpoint it can be considered "common law" marriage in some states after a certain period of time. If you have children with a woman, generally you are even more screwed. ​ My father is quite comfortable financially, and during my last relationship I asked my lawyer if a prenuptial agreement would be legally binding. The answer, in short, is that there are ways around them. Once things went …
/r/MGTOW01/05/19 08:51 PM
2

As many have said, tread with caution. I experienced something similar in my 30's (I'm now 45). Many were obviously gold diggers, but some were more cunning. The one thing they all had in common was in the end they were looking for someone to take care of them and their kids. There's always a pattern, though it can be difficult to see until after the fact. I had a vasectomy as 38, so I at least didn't have to worry about being trapped that way, but it is still a rough sea to navigate. ​ A woman …
/r/MGTOW01/05/19 06:48 PM
2

Exactly! Our choice is the result of analyzing not only past events, but risk versus reward. I'm not bitter or angry, I simply don't see any long-term benefit in getting involved with women. I don't need someone to cook or take care of me, and my cat provides ample company.
/r/MGTOW01/05/19 05:53 PM
2

" I am strong and independent, but you support me", right on target.
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 08:43 PM
1

Accurate analysis, as it took me some time to accept anyone could be so intentionally underhanded. Initially, I surmised it must be a "one off", until I saw the same behaviors across the board.
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 08:35 PM
2

The father's response reminds me of 24 years ago, when I was in college and started dating a young woman I met on a BBS (older folks might remember those). I was having dinner with her family and the young woman started having a tantrum about something and stomped off. Her father pulled me aside and said, "She's just like her mother". After a few dates I came to understand what he meant, as it was obvious he was brow-beaten by the mother. The daughter tried the same garbage with me, so I kicked …
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 08:17 PM
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