Dark_Tint Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What was your ex wife’s career or job? Real estate. She cheat on me with her boss who was also married.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/26 06:41 AM
1	Wife had an “Emotional Affair”, now wants to fix the marriage. See details for full context. I’m going to say this as someone who stayed too long and thought through all the unconventional ways and ideas of doing things. It just needs to end. It hurts, it’s shitty, and you deserve better. Figure out a co-parenting arrangement that will work for both of you but other than that cut all other things off with her. When you talk to her keep it strictly about the kids and their activities. Block her on all social media, tell her you don’t want to know about her life or what’s happening in it,…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/26 08:16 AM
5	Questions for divorced people Get a prenuptial agreement	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/26 06:58 AM
4	Bed size post divorce? Downsized to a Queen because my apartment bedroom is smaller than the one I had at the house.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/26 05:15 AM
4	When the divorce was done, what did you do ? Grieved for a while, felt all the pain, sorrow, anger, sadness etc. and then in time I worked through it. There are things that I didn’t/couldn’t/ didn’t want to see when I was in the marriage that became much more obvious once I started working through things, deconstructing it, and working on myself. I’m an INFJ so I had to really sit with it for a long time. An important thing for me was to stay single and not try to escape into another relationship before I was really ready to move on and pa…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/26 07:10 PM
18	Does sexting deserve divorce? She’s already mentally checked out. Divorce and move on.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/12/25 04:30 AM
14	I told her I wanted a divorce. It did not go how I expected Dude you need to leave, rapidly. She’s going to give you just enough to drag you along until she’s got everything lined out. She’ll create the framework of an entire new life complete with a new man and then she’ll pull the plug on you and shove you out an airlock.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/25 03:35 PM
1	First few days without kid I told my kids that if they ever wanted to talk about any of that stuff that I was always here for them and I left it at that. Just keep the lines of communication open and they will come to you when they’re ready.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/25 05:16 PM
12	Tried to reconcile last night Ah yes, the blaming you for everything you did wrong and how everything is your fault, I’ve been there. No one is perfect and everyone makes bad decisions or mistakes at times. My favorite is when you’re blamed for everything while they did absolutely nothing wrong. And if by some miracle they admit they did something wrong, they will quickly shift the blame onto you or someone else and still not take responsibility for any of it.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/25 02:00 PM
17	So how many of you believe your ex wife is/was having a midlife crisis? Absolutely. Mine decided to throw it all away so she could relive her 20’s but without being married. My kids (all teenagers) tell me how embarrassing it is to go places with her because in their words, she’s almost 40 but she’s acting like a high schooler.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/24 07:41 AM
5	What do I do with her stuff? I’d let her know you have them and give them back. If she doesn’t get back to you about it then you can trash them, but I’d feel bad if I didn’t give her the opportunity to collect them, it’s a karma thing.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/12/24 06:05 AM
3	Wife told me today she retained an attorney and wants me to fill out a financial affidavit need help Stop talking to her and don’t sign ANYTHING until you have a lawyer to represent you that will help you through this.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/24 12:48 AM
1	I’m ready to do it. What’s going to happen to us? Can I ask what type of therapy? So many out there to choose from it’s really confusing.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/22 04:16 AM