Darkalchemist999 Archive

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10	Dating women closer to 40s If you’re in shape, stable, and have everything in order then younger girls will be fine. Just date a girl who’s mature and put together. Don’t go for any OF/IG girls, fine a modest traditional one. Maybe one in later 20’s early 30’s	/r/seduction	30/12/25 08:21 PM
2	What was your experience hiring a dating coach? I believe it’s on how we are raised and how our brains are wired. I hesitate a lot since I was raised very catholic and I am also an overthinker. Frankly, most of the girls I’ve dated have been because they make the move. But at some point, you just have to do it. Maybe with a drink or two	/r/seduction	29/12/25 08:44 PM
0	What was your experience hiring a dating coach? Don’t. Go on YouTube and get all the “advise” You would pay for. Most of the issues with people are things only they can fix. Just know looks and resource matter. You can improve but it won’t be perfect.	/r/seduction	29/12/25 06:43 PM
4	One of the girls I’m seeing is INSISTING on buying me an expensive Christmas gift. Don’t assume it’ll be an expensive gift. She is saying this so YOU feel guilty into buying HER an expensive gift. This happened to me when I was in high school and didn’t know any better.	/r/seduction	07/12/25 02:48 AM
6	Getting An Ex Back? You won’t. Even if you get her back (winning). She’ll never respect you and she’ll learn she can do whatever she wants. She’ll leave again	/r/seduction	02/12/25 01:54 AM
3	How can I date and have sex when I’m broke and living with my mom? I don’t think it matters as much as people make it out to be. Plenty of broke guys get laid. It’s all a mindset. With that being said, it’s hard to break from that idea if you’re used to doing things as certain way. I also think, you’ll get a certain girl, but if you just want to get laid, you can do it if you have confidence. Do cheap coffee, gym, walking dates. But everyone is right, focus on yourself, working out and figuring out another income avenue.	/r/seduction	24/11/25 05:54 PM
6	How to get more than sex from a certain girl The more you try and hook up the less she’ll want to. It’s like a push-pull tug of war. You have to truly not care if you have sex or not, based on what you wrote you’re way too invested. Pretend it’s a girl that you don’t want to have sex with and you’re doing her a favor. If that doesn’t work, then she’s not that into you. But based on the fact she hung out and was letting you touch her, just try less but be willing to just walk away. She will sense it.	/r/seduction	22/11/25 03:34 AM
1	Men who get one-night stands, how do you do it? Have you tried being attractive?	/r/seduction	13/10/25 09:49 PM
1	50 first dates, they all say no "spark" This is what I do and I honestly have the opposite problem. Most of the time I just ask them question, if they’re talking 80 percent of the time, then they think there is “chemistry”. DO NO BRAG ABOUT YOURSELF. Then move to another place, once you’re there most of the time they make excuses to get close to you, if they’re talking don’t that’s a sign they are not into you.	/r/seduction	26/06/25 04:40 PM
5	Why should NOT try to "keep the conversation going" I agree. Personally if someone does not make the same effort into the conversation, i just let it die. Either, they are boring, or they are not interested. one of the two.	/r/seduction	30/05/25 05:31 PM
1	How do i make it obvious that im looking for a serious relationship as a female? No guy is the same. all guys are different. But I will say that most people want a relationship, they are just deciding with who. traditional guys will sometimes try and have sex with you to see if you want to, if you don't they may see it as a good thing since you are not easy. Other guys will only want sex because they do not see you as a gf material, either because of looks or something else, there is no one answer. All you can do is be you and don't have sex, guys who just want sex will fizz…	/r/seduction	29/05/25 04:23 PM
8	Frustrated with no hookups while in my mind there are things happening, people are getting laid. i guess it depends. it has not gone away for me. got a t test to see if i was low and it was over 1000. doc even asked if i was on steroids.	/r/seduction	19/05/25 06:47 PM
162	Women says I’m attractive, but I just don’t turn them on. Any tips on how fix this? Dont listen to what they say, watch what they do. If a women finds you attractive, you'll know through her actions. how many times does someone say bad things about a guy, only to end up sleeping with them?	/r/seduction	12/11/24 06:33 PM
1	Would you date these "overweight" women? Attractiveness is subjective. It can change based on influences. I don’t personally like thin women or blondes. So it could be based on culture	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 07:38 PM
1	Would you date these "overweight" women? You’re thinking super modes. These are “average” models they use to appeal to average people. They’re attractive by regular standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 07:26 PM
6	Would you date these "overweight" women? If you look at it in a binary way, yes, people are "overweight". But humans are not all the same, there is no cookie cutter body like the BMI index portrays. Some people literally have thicker bones. So if we go based on weight alone, it may not paint the whole picture. Would you rather date a person that is not "overweight" on the chart, but when you touch and look at them she feel flabby and are carrying a lot of fat, or would you rather date a person who is seen as overweight on the BMI chart…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 04:43 PM
41	Would you date these "overweight" women? All of those girls are models for a reason. This is no very indicative of the real world. Most women are not this type of "obese". Go to a local mall or grocery store, you can get a more realistic look at what the average woman looks like. Also, the BMI chart for the standards is way off. I am apparently overweight for my height, but I have 13% body fat. They use a weight to height ratio and do not consider anything else. If you work out, you will typically weigh more. Also, i noticed that certa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 04:08 PM
5	Is it true most men are giving up on dating? The paradox of choice	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 03:34 AM
4	The double edged sword of high expectations for men Guys won’t comity if the girl is not ‘’good/attractive’ enough. That means girls are going for guys above their own level. They don’t give guys at their level a chance and thus the catch 22 happens. Guys will hook up, but not coming to most decent girls they find ok at best. Most people want a relationship, it’s just about with who they want it with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 05:12 AM
1	Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women? Media. It use to be tv	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 07:48 PM
32	Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women? Social media and feelings of inadequacy. ‘The grass is greener’ mentality. Comparing their life to a highlight reel	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 02:53 AM
5	How to have supreme confidence Ok. So russel Westbrook?	/r/seduction	19/02/22 05:53 AM
2	Have you been able to trust women since discovering the red pill? If so, how and if not, why not? The difference between men and women is that a man will make fun of you because they don’t see any harm in words . They will do this to your face, so you know the worst case scenario. A woman would be nice to you and pamper you Verbally, but if your life is in danger over theirs they would abandon you for their own safety while a man, at least in my case, would put theirs at risk to save you. Women are nice verbally, not through their actions. Most men learn to interact with other men through sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/22 10:09 PM
5	How do you guys act around your friends GF? I would say just act normal flirt and be respectful, avoid too much interaction. Also women will give you IOI as a way to test her boyfriend to see if they are jealous. A lot of the time they are testing the boyfriend to see where they stand in the hierarchy.	/r/seduction	02/01/22 05:27 AM
21	And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't. Holy crap. I’ve seen this so much. My co workers hates and talks about the ‘white men’ oppressing her and other Asians. Her boyfriend = white. Ex = white. lol. they are so indoctrinated	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/22 03:00 AM
41	Honestly. Quit OLD. Most girls will deny they use online dating when asked, which is what the research is based off of.	/r/seduction	12/10/21 04:14 AM