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DISCUSSIONDarlingMissLee/r/RedPillWomen10/07/18 04:59 AM
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Question For MenDarlingMissLee/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:30 AM
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LTR/MARRIAGEDarlingMissLee/r/RedPillWomen20/06/21 12:19 AM
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LIFESTYLEDarlingMissLee/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 09:37 PM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTDarlingMissLee/r/RedPillWomen06/07/18 09:54 PM
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DarlingMissLee/r/askTRP27/07/18 05:33 AM
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RELATIONSHIPSDarlingMissLee/r/RedPillWomen09/09/18 12:08 AM
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METADarlingMissLee/r/RedPillWomen29/06/18 09:57 PM
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DarlingMissLee/r/askTRP03/09/18 04:56 PM
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DATING ADVICEDarlingMissLee/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 11:26 PM
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DarlingMissLee/r/askTRP03/05/18 11:53 PM
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DISCUSSIONDarlingMissLee/r/RedPillWomen03/07/18 05:30 AM
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DarlingMissLee/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:09 AM
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DISCUSSIONDarlingMissLee/r/RedPillWomen25/08/18 02:01 AM
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DarlingMissLee/r/askTRP03/09/18 12:26 AM
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DarlingMissLee/r/askTRP09/09/18 12:04 AM
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DISCUSSIONDarlingMissLee/r/RedPillWomen10/07/18 03:28 AM
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DISCUSSIONDarlingMissLee/r/RedPillWomen08/08/18 07:14 PM
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Oh I see, I guess by your definition I don’t really still “love” my ex then. You feel that way for your exes?
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/21 07:16 AM
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She gave me an answer to a question I didn't ask and don't care for.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 06:03 PM
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You’re pretty annoying, I don’t really think you’ve helped at all and like the other guy said it seems like you missed the point
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 09:45 AM
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Expecting someone to be "indifferent" to being cheated on is unreasonable. Think about what you're asking for. The man that would be indifferent to that would be a total doormat, without any pride or self esteem. I'm not expecting him to be "indifferent" to being cheated on, I'm expecting him to be indifferent to her now that he's in a relationship with a woman he wants to marry and start a family with. I think we're talking about different things because I agree with the other things you said. …
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 04:01 AM
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Thanks so much for your answer! ​ In either case I would not worry that he will try to get back with her... A man feels a woman who cheats does not respect him, and he likewise cannot respect her. Thus, no incentive to rekindle anything. That's a very interesting point, it sounds very novel to me probably because I'm a woman. What is/are the reason(s) of the few(if any?) men who stay with or take back women who cheated on them even if they don't have to? Is it because those men have little self-…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 03:45 AM
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Thanks for your answer, it was really helpful! ​ Also, the age gap is a yellow flag, not a red one. It's also about attitude. I had an engineer buddy of mine who said he'd only date women who were 10s. He's smart, handsome, and interesting, but he's not THAT interesting. As a result, he's probably going to die a virgin. It all depends upon if he just likes dating only younger women, or if you two just clicked. To be honest, from what I gather he does have standards(education, looks, personality,…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 03:26 AM
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Nice to have the perspective of someone closer to my boyfriend's age! Just a question, what was the normal relationship timeline back then for meeting the parents, getting engaged, and getting married?
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 03:06 AM
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He mentioned his ex unprompted & unnecessarily twice(from what I can remember) and it was about how much he hates her because she cheated on him & how he didn't date for a year after they broke up. He's the kind of person who's every word has a purpose. I realize it's only twice but I'm erring on the side of caution since I'd like to marry him and have a family with him. I haven't mentioned my concerns to him yet. He said he hated her and hasn't talked to her in two years in response to another …
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 02:57 AM
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I originally posted to asktrp, so I used that phrase out of my fear of the incels, MGTOWS, & misogynists lurking there. I understand that there’s pill is not about misogyny :D
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/18 12:50 AM
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Besides 50’s music like /u/companyllc mentioned, I listen to classical music on the local state school’s radio station
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/18 09:52 PM
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Weak men allowed Marxism and feminism to become mainstream which made succeeding generations of men weak as well. This leads to masculinized women. The more masculine men are in a woman’s life, the more feminine she is. The less masculine the men in a woman’s life, the less feminine she is. Although men can make women feminine, women cannot make men masculine because while masculinity is an active force- femininity is a reactive force.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:27 AM
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Banter
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:33 AM
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Language is only 5-30%(comm is a soft science) of communication, which means we’d have to have more context on her tone of voice, intonation, body language, etc (: It does sound like she thought you were beta, I don’t think a woman in her right mind would ever say that to an alpha seriously unless she wanted to ruin her chances with him
/r/askTRP14/08/18 02:37 PM
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The women I know do it because they want to feel like “the cool girl”, like the girl who plays video games, drinks beer, eats pizza, goes shooting with the boys etc.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 12:36 AM
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Be Brad, not Chad
/r/askTRP13/08/18 01:09 PM
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Yes. Female passion is an intense fire that needs to be fueled else it subsides. Male passion is a constant river that needs less fuel.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 01:22 AM
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It applies to gender studies majors
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:30 PM
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Hot women are where the rich men are Upscale restaurants, lounges, gyms, etc
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:56 PM
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Women love Aqua De Gio- Armani but it’s quite common in my state, California.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:41 AM
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Show her(don’t tell her explicitly) that you are interested in her but have other options.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:53 AM
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Lol (: nobody wakes up and thinks “I wish I had a friend/SO that was superior to me” right
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:38 PM
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True... I wouldn’t date a guy who could cook better than me, knew more about homekeeping than me, or was better with kids than I am either. I feel the same way men do when women make more money than them, graduated from a better college, and are smarter than them
/r/askTRP05/08/18 11:30 AM
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Daddy issues leads to earlier puberty in young women Unfortunately. Very sad for these women. No one deserves a bad parent regardless of their gender.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 01:33 AM
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Well then she’s deliberately ignoring you. You ignore your friend’s texts sometimes too right? It’s probably not malicious.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:43 PM
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People have hobbies, obligations, and other priorities
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:36 PM
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Men are decisive- I’d wait 6-8 months for any signs that he would like to marry me and 1 year for the proposal
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/18 02:30 PM
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I gained 10 lbs and pedicure my toes regularly per his request
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/18 05:08 AM
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Once you’re past 13 years old it’s man versus man. If you’re strong enough then stand up to him like a man... Father lions(the only male in the pack, surrounded by females) exile their sons after puberty from the pride’s territory. The sons are left to replace another leader.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 04:06 PM
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Give her the pipe instead (:
/r/askTRP28/07/18 07:11 AM
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Gold digging women will exist as long as men who care only about looks do- it’s two sides of the same coin. These women and men exist everywhere.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 05:52 PM
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Getting laid without effort is reserved for the best of men
/r/askTRP26/07/18 03:24 PM
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Build civilization....
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:13 PM
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Oedipus complex is all I can think of
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:12 PM
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Books: Fascinating womanhood 50 Things Every Young Lady Should Know (Etiquette) A Guide to Elegance (Fashion) Resources: r/RedPillWomen Old-Timey Movies or TV shows (Gone With the Wind, Mad Men)
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:28 PM
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My father was speaking to a man his age(70) this morning. The man looked at me and then at my father and said “She’s beautiful” and my father said “Thank you.” This happens often in movies too but it gives me incest, pedo, creep vibes. I don’t know if it’s normal
/r/askTRP21/07/18 09:29 PM
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Yes, if she’s socially adept and smart
/r/askTRP18/07/18 03:38 PM
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I am enjoying the extra attention of being a pretty, feminine, and well-adjusted woman in comparison to my peers. As for the collapse, I didn’t think there’d be one... but luckily for me I didn’t have to think about it because according to the other users such a thing wouldn’t happen (:
/r/askTRP18/07/18 03:37 PM
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In all countries the economically dominant group has put forward its own ethnic features as the standard of beauty... when studying race relations in the West Indies in the 1960s, sociologist Harry Hoetink observed that the standards of physical attractiveness were always molded by the appearance of the dominant group. Those who “pass” as members of the group in power are more likely to rise in status and be considered “attractive" by that society’s standards. From “Survival of the Prettiest: Th…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 04:28 PM
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I, like you, am also naturally shy. I socialize well when I am in public, but often times I am alone. I prefer to be alone to pursue my hobbies in order to nurture my personal growth. I feel lonely only when I take my mind off my personal growth- and why would I want to do that? So I am focused on my personal growth and people hold me in high regard. Are you socially anxious and introverted, or socially anxious and extroverted- or you could just be introverted but have no meaningful way to spend…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 04:21 PM
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Now now... she seems to me like a sweet girl. Teach with kindness on your tongue.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 04:12 PM
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I meant well, I promise (:
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 02:23 PM
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Reading this made me feel emasculated for your boyfriend... why did this man forgo a full ride to a university which would put him in a situation where he could be masculine- to attend the same university as his girlfriend? I would have broken up with a man who put my educational & professional success above his. Masculinity(active) fosters femininity(reactive) but femininity(reactive) cannot foster masculinity(active). Let him lead, protect, & provide and if he doesn’t then I must ask why you a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 06:58 AM
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What is a shitstir? What should I have reported? Please don’t ban me!!!
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 05:17 AM
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What does that mean? I’m confused!
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 05:12 AM
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What horrible things for a woman to do.... a woman like that is not worth your time!
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 10:11 PM
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Thank you, I will do my best. Do you think that I should leave the job if the situation continues? Hardship leads to maturity which is not attractive on women. I would rather keep my innocence than my paychecks
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/18 09:28 PM
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The Harvard Grant Study found that alcohol addiction is the number 1 predictor of overall life dissatisfaction- meaningful relationships being the number 1 predictor of overall life satisfaction. His alcoholism sounds like a lack of responsibility for his health and general self-discipline. If he can stop the drinking without problem then it’s not an addiction.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/18 03:34 PM
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I’m actually in training right now, so I don’t get any tips and I have only gotten maybe $5 total from customers not wanting their change. I think it could be possible that she doesn’t want me to get a cut of her tips, but the customers who come here are majority regulars who know her since she’s been here ever since it’s opened. The pecking order and zero sum game of the restaurant culture makes me think I shouldn’t be working here. I am very cooperative- not competitive. Maybe I should do secr…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/18 08:27 PM
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If you say you are who you are, I’m sure that your perfect woman who you will wife will be around 10-20 years younger than you are. Your libido at 70 years will be a fourth of what it is at its peak (30’s). By that time, your children will be in their teens and adulthood and your wife will still be relatively attractive for her age at 40-50(I’m assuming your perfect woman will age like Sofia Vergara, who’s 46). Life is more than sex, you are a man and men have better things to do- like invent an…
/r/askTRP10/07/18 01:16 PM
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Since you mentioned that you don’t know why you were placed on the list and others have already answered your question, I can think of some reasons why you were on the list: She knows about your sexual promiscuity and lack of commitment to women. She’s doing this to consciously “protect her sisters”/subconsciously regulate the SMP since women’s imperative is to gain commitment. She thinks you’re alpha so is attracted to you but is trying to hamster it away by labeling you as a potential rapist S…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 08:24 PM
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Lovely. Thank you, I love hearing what you have to say on matters like this
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/18 06:37 AM
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That sounded very backhanded. I don't know if that was your intention
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/18 06:34 AM
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I’m happy with a man who makes comfortable middle class salary. I’m looking to have a family life, not a luxurious one. Middle class is half of the American population anyways!
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/18 05:37 AM
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Ah, I understand. Thank you, that was good advice.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/18 10:44 PM
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Is self- reflection, prioritizing, and managing my finances not worth my time?
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/18 10:35 PM
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Yes, I was asking of qualities that I should prioritize
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/18 10:24 PM
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Thank you for this! Being a young Asian daughter of immigrant parents living in the San Fran Bay Area, I get looked down on for wanting to be a housewife ONLY and dropping out of college(only a year after I enrolled at age 16). Now, not only are we expected to get married and raise children- we all also need to be white-collar professionals with prestigious degrees?
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/18 02:39 AM
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But all of that is meaningless and despicable... there has to be traditional masculine men who make decent livings and wants to get married?
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:14 PM
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People ask me about religion since I live & work in a suburb. There are churches, mosques, and temples of all kinds here! I like the sense of belonging to a community, especially one whose purpose is spiritual growth. I don’t want to offend anyone by saying no- that I don’t believe in the mythology. I want to avoid being evangelized as well. You are right (: I should stop doing that.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:52 AM
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Hehe I haven’t gotten any replies. I didn’t expect to, not from TRP Some of my morals are: Never hell falsehood. Withholding the truth is a significant moral decision that should be made in the best interest of the personal growth of the person whom it’s withheld- not for your personal gain. Treat people with love- the will to extend yourself in order for your own and their growth. Pursue a meaningful life, not a pleasurable one I could find these in other religions.. but they’re actually morals…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:02 AM
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Thank you for your help. Protestantism is better to me than other major religions because of its focus on simplicity of living and gender relations while being not too odd of a belief for my race(Asian). Other religions that I know of- I don’t know too much about, but are generally traditional so I do not have a problem converting. Religion is a moral compass for me, not an absolute list of rules. I haven’t thought about religion thoroughly, I’m sorry if you thought I had! I am confused by the l…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:24 AM
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It seems to me like many women of history would have the same values as listed in my profile. However, after reading it again- it does sound a psycho since it’s very long, direct, and detailed. I’ll definitely redo it... I announced that I was a woman because it was relevant to the post, but maybe I should have framed my post from a man who encountered a woman’s profile?
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:12 AM
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Perfect height (6’1”) is more important than facial aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 06:47 AM
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If he is less likely to commit to any woman and a woman does secure his commitment, then she can be sure he won’t spread resources thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:56 PM
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Q4All: In addition to what others said about aggressive men being ABLE to lead, protect, and provide- they are less likely to give away their resources(commitment) to many other women. Similar to how men like reserved rather than obnoxious women because the reserved women are less likely to have many sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 06:30 PM
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I was 16 he was 25, I am 17 he is 20. I prefer the larger difference since the 25M was more experienced, intelligent, masculine, and established while the 20 year old was less so. With the 25M, I felt stability, safety, and confidence in his judgement.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 06:29 PM
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I’ve dated two men, one of a 3-4 (20-21 YO) year age gap and one of a 8-9 (25-26 YO) year age gap.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 06:01 PM
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There’s nothing “wrong” about your situation that you can’t fix! From what you’ve written, I feel that it would help to do three things: meet more people be, act, and look receptive to romantic advances keep the BMI around around 18-21. The BMI is a number I’ve concluded through experience and research, so the “ideal” may be lower or higher. For context, playboy playmates have an average BMI of 18.5 and pornographic actresses is 19.5
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/18 03:35 AM
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All expenses are covered, as /u/salty-bastard suggested, lucky me! Initially I wanted to get a BS but changed priorities. I’ve been here learning CompSci & business so that I could apply the knowledge in an iOS app I’m releasing in June this year and dropout. I’ve got a waitressing job lined up for me at a sports bar starting June, so I’ll be working full time and have a “side hustle.” I'm doing this is to be able to provide for myself before I get married, get some valuable life and work experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:11 PM
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Hehe I underestimated. I live frugally, want a husband who is frugal as well, and plan on moving to a “flyover” state (as /u/OnTheRoadtoRed mentioned) once I get married to said frugal man. My perception of frugal might be different from others since I live in the Silicon Valley, but my if my parents raised me here on 25k and it had no significant unnecessary negative impact on my life, I would expect to do be fine on an income 3.6X that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:01 PM
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Being a good wife and mother is noble. Raising children is invaluable to the family, society, and humanity- it isn’t something for the lazy and it is evident how children turn out when raised by lazy parents. I think I deserve someone who makes at least $90,000 a year because I am a person of character and a woman of femininity and domesticity. I feel that serving the needs of me and my family is the most meaningful pursuit in my life, therefor I would not want a career while I have children. Si…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 01:31 AM
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Thank you for the suggestion. I’d rather be a fully present mother to my children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 01:02 AM
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I am quite young, yes. I’ve been in college since I was 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 12:21 AM
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The question involved only two variables: wealth & physical fitness. The average salary for men around 35-40 is around $50,000 which is $40,000 less than what I’d consider the minimum ideal for a single income family of four.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 12:20 AM
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I am 17 I would rather date a chubby rich man than an athletic working class man because money is a more valuable asset in raising a family than physical fitness/aesthetics is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:32 PM
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I do feel power over a man, although it is spiritual rather than physical or mental. I realized that particular power of a young, beautiful, feminine woman when I discovered /r/TheRedPill at 16 years old. For context, I just turned 17. It makes me feel special because I am- other people value my youth, beauty, and femininity as a woman. However, I won’t be “special” for long which is why worthy character is invaluable and the ultimate goal for all humans. Nikola Tesla said in an interview in 192…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:09 PM
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A man needs to be masculine in order for me to be attracted. Masculinity is: headstrong, dominant, independent, rough, courageous, but has a soft spot in his heart for select people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 01:34 AM
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I would not compromise on marriage. High quality men would date high quality women. These men should know that their women are of good judgement and character and would not do such a thing. If a high quality man would not marry me, I would question what about me makes him hesitant about marriage with me. If it is me, I would change those aspects about myself until I can show the high quality man that I am a good person, wife, and mother so that marriage can be an option with him. Marriage is an …
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 12:08 AM
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A woman’s beauty (facial structure & waist-hip ratio) is largely genetic. Beauty doesn’t make her existentially special... none of it matters. She is a human, as you are. Admirable character is something that intimidates me because it is deserved, not given. A beautiful woman, largely, did not work for her facial structure and waist-hip ratio. She is not special! I am a cute girl and I know that men feel nervous around me, but I know there’s nothing inherently special about me so treat everyone …
/r/askTRP22/03/18 05:26 PM
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I’m 17 but I’m in college so my friends are older 18-20 & redpilled, so I think I can answer this(: We go to libraries, cafes, grocery stores, thrift shops, mountains for hiking, charity events, community events, country clubs, the park, and farmers markets. Funny story, an old friend of mine goes partying, drinking, and smoking every week but on Sunday she goes to church to confess her sins. Be careful! I wish you good luck on finding your conservative woman (:
/r/RedPillWives22/03/18 03:11 PM
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