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What do I think? I think this has nothing to do with Men's Rights and is just an excuse to bash feminism.
/r/MensRights12/09/20 05:43 PM
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I actually live in the UK where this sort of harrassment seems to be rarer, at least where I live (hence why I was not sure of the true situation over there). I have seen (or rather noticed) this sort of thing only once, and my female friends have no fears about walking at night (in fact, they used to get offended when I used to offer to wait for a taxi with them). I guess a part of me wanted to believe that this was being exaggerated like so many other things online are.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 06:59 AM
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Fair enough. Thank you for answering and not taking offense. I was wondering just how bad things looked over there from a female perspective since such a big deal is made about it online and most of the women I have encountered from the US have been outspoken feminists of the worst kind. I am sorry that you have to go through this sort of thing regularly. I wish that there was something I could do to help change things over there for you to feel safer...
/r/MensRights09/09/20 11:30 PM
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I don't get to ask many educated feminists this, as opposed in those who are unwilling to listen to anything other than their own agenda, and I do not know how to phrase this in such a way as to not offend you in any way. I will try my best though. If I might ask, why exactly do you feel unsafe walking alone at night? Has anything actually happened to make you feel unsafe, or is it possible that it is due to being conditioned from an early age to be afraid? (I am genuinely interested in hearing …
/r/MensRights09/09/20 07:39 PM
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FDS is not a feminist sub. It openly admits to being a sexist group that puts the benefits of females first. They have very little to do with men's rights, which is what this sub is supposed to be about. By constantly attacking this sub, we run the risk of burying real issues and making ourselves look like the worst type of so-called 'incels' - which is exactly what they want. We know that the worst of the feminists would like nothing more than to shut us down. Please stop giving them the ammuni…
/r/MensRights09/09/20 08:21 AM
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If you can't drop it, use it to your advantage. Play along to get your grade, while learning the latest arguments and use your time to research if and why they are wrong. (Not all of them are wrong, but sometimes the good stuff is buried deep.) Once you are finished, you will be well armed to argue your side of things. Unfortunately, high school is not a place where you are allowed to have an opinion. You are 'too young to know what you are talking about' and 'you don't know how things work in t…
/r/MensRights08/09/20 06:36 AM
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This woman needs to be arrested and lose her license. She is openly posting about confidential sessions and deliberately not even changing the name of her client.
/r/MensRights06/09/20 10:08 AM
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I literally just made a post about this (which I have just deleted after this popped up in my feed. No point having two of them!) I feel that it is even worse than just outrage porn. We are already seen as anti-women by many, and using fds as a target is like feminists using incels against us. FDS are not the mainstream, and really have no effect on mens rights in general. By all means call them out in blatantsexism or wherever, but they do not belong here.
/r/MensRights03/09/20 09:51 PM
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My major problem with feminists in general is the fact that they treat sexism as a global problem and try to use problems that occur in one part of the world to apply pressure to people who cannot, in any way, influence what happens there. For example, there are many feminists who will use the poor treatment of women in certain Middle-Eastern countries as an excuse to put pressure on people in the US, or the UK or wherever. Many feminist arguments use similar tactics. The 'gender pay gap' that h…
/r/MensRights01/09/20 11:20 AM
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I don't know the statistics for the US, but here in the UK only 12.1% of adults (both male and female) experience some form of sexual assault in their lifetime ('only' is highlighted because it is still too damn many, but I can't think of a better word to use). Only 3.4% of people experience rape at some point in their life. Most sexual assaults seem to be in the form of unwanted touching. It has been a while since I was last able to go on a night out properly, but I have only ever seen one inci…
/r/MensRights01/09/20 09:21 AM
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As I said, I know very little about the long term problems, and frankly I don't believe it will make any difference in an argument. Very few people actually listen to inconvenient facts when it comes to issues like this. All that matters is their beliefs. I could state that I believe that circucised men are more likely to commit rape, since they were sexually assaulted without their as children they are less likely to care about other people's consent. As far as I know, there is no evidence to b…
/r/MensRights30/08/20 11:30 PM
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I don't have any statistics on how it effects anything. All I have is my opinion. They cut off a portion of a baby's body (however small a part), without any consent or medical reason. It may not have the same long-term problems the fgm does, but it is still very bad.
/r/MensRights30/08/20 07:55 PM
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They know enough about it to know that men literally collapse to their knees if they get hit there. If you are fighting for your life or something, then anything is fair game. Anything else, that shit is unacceptable.
/r/MensRights30/08/20 12:28 PM
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Even IF a person is addicted to porn, there is so much free stuff available on the internet that a person still has a choice as to whether or not they pay for it. It is the same as a smoker who owns a tobacco field yet still buys cigarettes. He could get it for free, but chooses not to. The choice is still his. You make a lot of good points in your original post, but this reply sounds a lot like the 'false victimhood' excuse you accuse some women of using.
/r/MensRights29/08/20 02:38 PM
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Given that this is true, each and every woman who says 'kill all men' is publicly stating that half the population of the planet should be killed. So every person who says 'kill all men' is technically threatening 3.5 billion people. Multiply that by the thousands of people who say it (even if we only count the small percentage who actually 'mean it') and that leaves us with many more public threats than happen in private. I am not saying this to defend these threats, or to minimise them in any …
/r/MensRights29/08/20 10:49 AM
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With all due respect, but why would you bring that up here? This is exactly the same as saying 'but what about men' on any post about women being assaulted or whatever.
/r/MensRights26/08/20 02:30 PM
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Go ahead and sue her. She has ruined your life and reputation for at least the last year, and left a black mark on your record that may never be fully cleared. I don't know if it is possible, but I personally would look into suing the JAG for their clearly biased and disciminating 'investigation' too. That will never change unless somebody is held accountable! You also need to publicly challenge this accusation, on record. I don't know about the US, but in many countries military trials are not …
/r/MensRights15/08/20 09:16 AM
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I'm not sure how this might affect the actual tax payments themselves, but in the UK we get Child Tax Credits, which are mostly paid in the mother's name. Since this data only provides the total amounts paid without taking this into account, I would imagine that this is where a large chunk of the discrepency comes into play.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 10:21 PM
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To be fair, once kids come into the equation they will always take priority. Doesn't matter if you are the step dad, biological dad or even the mother or step mother. If you choose to add children to a relationship, or take on a relationship that already has children, you need to accept that those kids come first.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 02:13 PM
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Can I please just ask what you mean when you say that men are miseducated about consent? We understand yes, and we understand no. It really should not be more complicated than that.
/r/MensRights14/07/20 12:51 PM
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Typical. Johnny practically wore his mask right up until the door - well away from anybody else - before taking it off for the obligatory photo. On the other hand, Amber removed hers almost as soon as she got out of the car so that people would recognise her. I'm surprised they actually managed to get a photo of her in the mask considering how quickly she pulled it down!
/r/MensRights09/07/20 11:46 PM
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Third point is that four children have been killed by 'a parent' - not specifically fathers. And one of the cases studied involved 2 children killed by their father, so there are only 3 instances in the 5 year study...
/r/MensRights25/06/20 11:30 AM
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While this is certainly a problem, I don't see what this has to do with men's rights.
/r/MensRights21/06/20 10:59 AM
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You started out making some good points, but then you devolved into an anti-woman rant. 1-4) Good, solid reasons against marriage. 5) The fact that some women pull shit like this is not a reason to tar all women with the same brush. It's the same as saying women should avoid men because some men are rapists. 6) Marriage does not always result in less sex. Having children does though as both parents are usually tired from dealing with the children. 7) I do not know where you are getting your stat…
/r/MensRights21/06/20 10:28 AM
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It's a fake article that was doing the rounds years ago. Kotaku released this statement 4 years ago to denounce it.
/r/MensRights21/06/20 09:24 AM
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I suppose so, but I have always been interested in seeking out the root causes of problems. I don't believe that it is possible to find a solution if you do not know where the problem began. The best you can do is patch things up, but sooner or later another symptom will pop up. I am also interested because I am a dad myself and I am wondering if I have been inadvertantly causing future problems because I too have been guilty of being overprotective at times. I am trying to figure out if I have …
/r/MensRights20/06/20 12:20 PM
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That is true these days, but when I went to school back in the 80s most teachers (at least from my own personal experience) were male. In fact, according to this study the majority of teachers were male up until the late 70's. So I have to wonder if the education system is a symptom of the same condition. I may just be overthinking things though.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 12:01 PM
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If women were really paid less for the same work, 90% of the workforce would be female. No company willingly pays more than necessary, so if they could save money simply by hiring women instead of men they would. And they would have been doing so for a long time. The 'wage gap' does not exist in like-for-like situations. It does exist when wages are averaged out across a company because most higher-paid roles are taken by men for a number of reasons. Firstly, there is the 'old boys network' - it…
/r/MensRights18/06/20 01:10 PM
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I can't believe that I am going to defend the media here, but unfortunately I have to this one time... The media cannot legally use the term 'rape' in those cases since, according to law, a male cannot be raped by a female. Unless and until the law is changed, the woman would have a case to sue the media - even though they are technically correct...
/r/MensRights17/06/20 10:43 AM
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First of all, it is highly unlikely to ever happen to you. But, if you are seriously concerned about it there are a few precautions you can take. Wear a smartwatch with heart monitoring. If you can show a record that your heart rate was not elevated at the time of the attack then you are most likely not engaged in strenuous physical activity such as sexual intercourse at that time. A decent one can also connect to certain fitness apps that record your position for exercise purposes. If you can d…
/r/MensRights10/06/20 10:49 PM
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I acknowledge that it is my problem, but you specifically asked for examples. Being an ass about it when people give you what you ask for doesn't help your case.
/r/MensRights07/06/20 12:04 PM
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I don't want to make any assumptions about your age, but it has been getting better over the years. It is mostly a holdover from those of us who are older. I literally find it to be almost impossible to show emotions after being beaten half to death by bullies when I was in school nearly 40 years ago, so I do have personal experience of this.
/r/MensRights07/06/20 11:52 AM
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Personally, I believe that there is only one justification for doing anything that will have a permanent effect on my child, and that is out of medical necessity. If it doesn't endanger their health, it can wait until they are old enough to make the choice for themselves.
/r/MensRights06/06/20 12:24 PM
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As a bald man, I take offense at the tips on hairstyling! /s
/r/MensRights06/06/20 12:20 PM
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Yeah, been more than a few decades for me too. And I was never exactly interested in history at school, which is why I enjoy this type of conversation sometimes. It often leads me to learn something new.
/r/MensRights06/06/20 12:01 PM
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This is true, and I didn't actually know this until now so thank you. The final authority to launch military action does indeed lie with the Monarch, although it is very rare for her to actually use this to go against the will of an elected parliament. From what I can see in my (admittedly superficial so far) research is the main reason she vetoed that particular bill was not so much to prevent the war as it was to prevent Parliament from taking the power to declare military action away from the…
/r/MensRights06/06/20 11:56 AM
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Sorry, things get confusing when you discuss our Royal family. You would think there were only about 6 names to choose from! I am genuinely interested in what you consider to be her 'starting wars' though. Everything I was taught led me to believe that her policy was more defensive than anything else. It would be interesting to see an outside perspective as I admit that our education system can be a little one sided - like everyone elses, I imagine.
/r/MensRights06/06/20 11:47 AM
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Queen Elizabeth is a bad example to use here. She is mostly a figurehead and doesn't actually have the power start (or stop) a war. That power rests with Parliament.
/r/MensRights06/06/20 10:03 AM
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Fine by me. Get rid of any and all subreddits and accounts that advocate violence. Don't care if they are racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, whatever. I haven't seen any MRA accounts advocating violence, but if I did I would want them gone myself.
/r/MensRights06/06/20 09:31 AM
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Hate speech does exist, but a lot of what people call hate speech is not that. Hate speech (to me at least) is that which calls for deliberate acts of aggression against a group, such as those calling for he death of all homosexuals, or mexicans, or even the Kill All Men bullshit. But yeah, 'hate speech' has been co-opted to mean 'I don't like what you are saying, so I'm just gonna get you shut up'.
/r/MensRights05/06/20 04:48 PM
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We have had 10 police officers killed in the line of duty since 2010, while the US reported over 150 officers killed in the line of duty in 2018 alone. As for police brutality, this article shows that we are clearly not innocent, but again it seems to be less widespread than it is in the US.
/r/MensRights04/06/20 06:00 AM
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Most of them don't. We have a special group of police that do in case they need it, but that is uncommon.
/r/MensRights04/06/20 01:00 AM
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Unfortunately I am from the UK, so I only really hear the worst and loudest stories, which is why I am reluctant to comment on many stories because I don't feel it is my right to do so. I hadn't heard of any other stories like hers. That being the case, I do think that there is something seriously wrong with the kind of policy that allows the police to do that. If this is becoming an issue, then maybe I was wrong to try to seperate the two and it is time to add all of this to the ongoing discuss…
/r/MensRights04/06/20 12:15 AM
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Breonna Taylor's death was a tragedy and totally the result of a police screwup, but it was not comparable to the death of George Floyd. Her death was the result of questionable police tactics and a serious mistake in the dispatch office. Since officers were at the wrong house, there is no way that her death could be construed as a deliberate racist murder. The police had no idea who lived there, so it cannot possibly have been either racially motivated or murder! Whreas Floyd's murderer knew ex…
/r/MensRights03/06/20 11:03 PM
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There's no 'men's lives matter' movement because yu could never get it started. BLM would jump all over you for trying to take attention away from the racism, feminists would join them - or just say that men's lives don't matter at all. Since the 'kill all men' crap is allowed to exist, they would get away with it too...
/r/MensRights03/06/20 09:58 AM
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Quite possibly, but at the time there were a bunch of pedophile cases being reported on endlessly in the news, so that probably contributed too. She was the extreme case that I encountered personally, but I do get tired og the constant sidelong looks from women when i am out walking or especially the outright stares I used to get when I dared to wait outside the school to pick up my kids. (That was always fun!) ​ Mostly though, it's the constantly having to be on your guard that is exhausting. W…
/r/MensRights01/06/20 11:12 PM
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Honestly there really shouldn't have been anything threatening about me. I was overweight, balding and needed a cane to actually walk at the time. She could have crawled away from me backwards and I still wouldn't have been able to catch up!
/r/MensRights01/06/20 10:57 PM
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I have had women practically run from me when I was walking home at night, and I have had at least one encounter where a woman literally pushed her daughter to safety behind her back when I was walking through a busy park - plenty of witnesses, but she still felt so threatened that she needed to hide her daughter from me. But my worst encounter was with a couple of women from Social Services. Somebody had called them on me (actually for a valid reason, but it should have been a simple matter to …
/r/MensRights01/06/20 10:49 PM
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If you are feeling like this now, and recognising it, I would recommend seeing a therapist asap and trying to get some help. I closed myself off while I was at school over 30 years ago due to a massive bullying campaign that almost killed me. (Yes, it was because I was an emotional child.) I was able to lie to myself and believe that my lack of feeling was normal for a very long time. It was made clear to me how abnormal it was after my wife died and I felt only a slight sadness. I started to se…
/r/MensRights01/06/20 10:24 PM
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I honestly feel that girl's razors are better than men's razors when you compare similar types. Obviously higher quality items work better, but even the 'cheap' disposable razors seem to better. Maybe because they are made for different skin type or whatever, but for myself they just seem to work better. Obviously, this is just from my own personal experience and won't apply to everyone.
/r/MensRights01/06/20 09:50 AM
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I mean no offense here, but why are we arguing about this? We can all agree that the police are getting out of hand and the organisation as a whole needs an overhaul. Instead of arguing amongst ourselves over who has it worse, we should be working together to use our combined power to actually get something done! Right now we are risking falling into the same trap that the more extreme feminists fell into - focussing on our own problems and minimising other groups. We will alienate our allies be…
/r/MensRights01/06/20 08:31 AM
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Oh yes. I fully agree that we are our own worst enemy. Until we can redefine what it means to be a 'man', situations like this will always come up...
/r/MensRights30/05/20 11:35 AM
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There is also the seriously misguided, but seemingly popular, opinion that men who want to work with children - at any level - are seen as potential pedophiles. No 'real' man can possibly surround himself with children willingly without having an ulterior motive...
/r/MensRights30/05/20 10:57 AM
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None of this is any justification for police brutality, which I agree needs to be stamped out at every possible juction, but it is a lot more complicated than the statistics alone make it seem. While men are more likely to be shot by police, the truth is that men are also more likely to argue back with police - especially black men (although this stems, in part, from a justifiable frustration from being stopped far more frequently and for far less cause). In addition, men tend to look more threa…
/r/MensRights30/05/20 10:52 AM
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I don't know who you think that you are speaking for, but personally I don't have any enemies beyond the culture that has made us this way. Even the most toxic feminists I view as adversaries, at worst. I don't blame them for lashing out at a society that treats them the way ours does. I don't believe it helps their cause, but I can understand why they do it. On the other hand, you don't seem to know what it is that you want. On one hand you claim you want the worst of the 'toxic' masculinity - …
/r/MensRights29/05/20 07:49 PM
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It is supposed to build women up to be equal to men. Unfortunately, it is easier to destroy than it is to build, and so 'equality' has come to lowering men to be equal to women rather than the opposite...
/r/MensRights23/05/20 05:59 PM
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Then try to change things in one of those countries. You can't expect Americans to treat women better than men to balance out the fact that women abroad are treated like shit... The ONLY way for America to change how things operate in other countries realistically is to conquer them and force a change. And even that won't end well.
/r/MensRights23/05/20 05:54 PM
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Why does it always have to be the father who is stern? This only leads to the dad being seen as the bad guy, which leads further into the 'man bad' mindset...
/r/MensRights23/05/20 12:51 PM
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