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I have a growing suspicion that fathers bolt because they aren't prepared for what pregnancy, birth and raising a child means. For all that talk about "men taking responsibility" it sure as hell doesn't show. I would never smear the parent that stays.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:06 PM
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This is probably going to get removed but regardless, no one cares that you're not going to get married or have a relationship. Why do you (as in MGTOW) feel the constant need to tell everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:28 PM
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😂😂😂 Nice trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:39 PM
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So you're a homophobe. Why are you trying projecting that shit onto me, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:36 PM
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Greater pleasure. Your prostate is your "g-spot", why don't you want a better, greater orgasm when you can?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:34 PM
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Not sure what gave you that idea, or why you put men in quotation marks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:29 PM
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I'm not surprised by your answer. I am surprised that men deny themselves greater pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:21 PM
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Enlighten me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:19 PM
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rape apology Well that hasn't really changed though has it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:05 PM
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I knew it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 09:50 PM
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I don't agree that sex means nothing, but regardless: Sex is consensual, consent needs to be given from the participants before the actual act. Rape is forcing yourself upon a victim, there is no consent. So even if you think sex "means nothing", if it's done against your will it's not sex, it's rape. If you don't understand this, I can only hope you never leave your mama's basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 09:48 PM
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Only if you enjoy it..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 09:11 PM
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Prostate play is generally pleasurable for dudes, that's your g-spot. But taking it in the ass makes you gay, right...?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 08:29 PM
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Do you seriously need someone to explain the difference between sex and rape to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 05:29 PM
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Because they aren't sleeping with them, usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:15 PM
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That's some real stupid advice but I honestly can't say I'm that surprised. You masturbate long before you have sex (hopefully) meaning the person who knows exactly how to give you pleasure is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:07 PM
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Sure buddy, or maybe she just wasn't that into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:50 AM
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You can teach a man how to give you pleasure and orgasms. You can't teach a man to be invested in your pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:11 AM
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It's copypasta.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:03 AM
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Yeah, it's the insecurity men are attracted to and take advantage of, further proving the fact that they are predators. 18 yr women can consent if they pick wrong that’s on them. Of course, why would a man ever hold another man responsible for his creepy, disgusting behavior.. Look, if you don't understand that a 30+ man wanting a teenager is in fact predatory, I can't help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:30 PM
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If you're an adult man swiping for 18 years olds, you are in fact a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:21 PM
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Well I have data to prove men are mostly likely to swipe at 18 yr old women (regardless of their own age) for online dating and women are not like this. Because women aren't usually predators. Neither do we want to settle for a predator. At least you admit men have these types of disgusting tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:19 PM
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Settling to me is having a relationship with someone that doesn't fully live up to your requirements, however big or small. As you don't know whether relationships will last it would still be considered settling. Although I have no idea if the average PPD woman is married but if they are I would assume the lack of "yes, I settled for my spouse" means they truly love them, unless you wanna go with ye old "women constantly lie" of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:36 PM
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Yeah, OP should have defined "settling" in his post. Regardless, there are plenty admitting they "settled" with someone they didn't "truly love", whether it meets your standard of the definition or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:06 PM
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Many (most) comments doesn't even state how long they dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:38 PM
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And the comments from women admitting to this in this very thread are what, invisible to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:55 PM
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Bro, this thread is 11 days old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:01 PM
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She is a victim, but not by her own making.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 08:14 PM
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Saying a young girl is "making herself" a victim because she didn't want to give someone a hug is disconcerting at best..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 08:00 PM
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Yeah, having your bodily boundaries violated makes you a snowflake... Or maybe the snowflake is the one getting upset over other's boundaries, hm?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 07:28 PM
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We should call them pigs, but that would be an insult to pigs as pigs are actually useful in many different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:53 PM
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The famous male empathy in progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:50 PM
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I agree. If you want to gamble do that, maybe you'll win.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 10:45 PM
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You answered your own question. Marry an adult if you want to marry, or deal with the consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 10:43 PM
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There are loads of men who do want to share labor equally, they're called mature adults. You won't find them here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 10:18 PM
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You should check out r/incelswithouthate Such ironic name for a sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:58 PM
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Men on PPD don't want to hear solutions to their problems, especially when it comes from women. It's sad, but can't help anyone who doesn't want to be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:57 PM
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While simultaneously proving her point that men will always blame women for their struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:23 PM
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I forgive you, this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 02:35 AM
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I think you read far too much into this, I saw a chance for a joke and I took it. I have no feelings over you or the nature of your marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 02:29 AM
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My big scoreboard? Where? I hate you? Where? If you're happy you are happy, why would my opinion matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 02:02 AM
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You have two crotch goblins yet only mentioned one in your first comment? Hmm.. It's a bit extreme to think sharing household chores is controlling someone. Instead, I would say that if you're not interested in sharing the workload you should never marry, but who am I to dictate anyone else's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 01:48 AM
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You do you, sister. Plenty women are happy being mommy bang-maids, ain't no shame in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 01:17 AM
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Sounds like you have two children at home, heh. Jokes aside, I get what you are saying. I wouldn't nag a man for confusing me with the maid we don't have. I would throw him out instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 12:16 AM
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If you say "all healthy romantic relationships must contain sex" you are gatekeeping, whether you agree or not. May I suggest improving your reading comprehension. And it excludes men's nature. And I fundamentally disagree. And no man should ever come to your perspective and think it's okay to put up with a woman that thinks it enough she'd act on it, dear. Are you saying men who don't like/want sex doesn't exist? Lol. I get that you're an allo and bitter (a combination that gives me a lot of sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 07:30 PM
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Oh dear.. It is gatekeeping because love without sex exists, you can't say it doesn't just based on that it isn't the norm. Heterosexual couples are also the norm, doesn't mean homosexual relationships are unhealthy, can't survive or flourish. Its existence doesn't disprove what most people want. Never claimed it disproved anything other than healthy relationships doesn't have to include sex. Because most people call what you are explaining as friends. Maybe most people would, but that doesn't m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 06:48 PM
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Good ol' gatekeeping. There's sexual orientations and clinical disorders where sex is unimportant and/or sometimes even impossible. You can't say these people have unhealthy relationships because it doesn't comply with your preferences, that really narrow minded. While sex and love might be inseparable to most people, plenty have no problems separating the two and that doesn't make their relationship unhealthy or flawed. Sex without love exists, so does love without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:44 PM
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Asexual means you don't experience sexual attraction. You can still have sexual desire to masturbate or have sex. Come on over to r/asexuality or r/asexual if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 12:03 PM
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You have to realize the audience here. The ability to be happy for other people and not become jealous or bitter for others success is sane and healthy. You won't find people like that here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 01:29 PM
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I am with you though, all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 12:45 PM
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Yes, it would be my asexual utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 12:43 PM
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I guess you have to be really specific so not to upset the fragile male ego in this place. Take care, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:00 AM
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OP is asking where we think this notion comes from. I think it comes from PPD, as in I don't apply what I see here on all men irl. I understand reading comprehension can be hard sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 12:51 AM
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Too much sanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 12:35 AM
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Seems neurotic to see others as competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 11:54 PM
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r/oddlyspecific
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:07 PM
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Why wouldn't the guy or the woman? Both. Why do you want to be in a relationship if you can't talk to each other, that's not something you should invest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:02 PM
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Why wouldn't you want to clear that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 07:53 PM
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There's nothing wrong with being unsure, but be honest and upfront if that's the case. Being unsure is not a yes, which it needs to be. I think this whole notion of "I want him to chase me" is utter bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 07:10 PM
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I disagree. I do respect people I meet because I have no reason to disrespect them, but to each his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 02:54 PM
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You misunderstood me. There are many responses in this sub from men specifically telling women they don't respect them. OP asked where that notion comes from, which is a weird question since many men are open with the fact and why. You can't point over to FDS to justify your hatred, that makes you as bad as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 02:27 PM
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Sure, but the question was if you think men don't respect women and why that is. If I can point to the vast majority of men on this sub telling us we are inferior, I've given you my thoughts on where that notion comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 02:10 PM
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Read the comments from men in this thread. Go and read comments on any other post on PPD. They are literally telling us this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:49 PM
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A lot of men view women as inferior to them, only ever good for one thing... Why would you need to respect someone like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 11:10 AM
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that's the gamble you take when entering a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:08 AM
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No, but it can change how you relate to it. It's pretty clear sign of emotional trauma thinking you can shut out your own emotions, not realizing how much they influence you subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:51 AM
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I guess it's the same reason why men don't believe women disclosing how prevalent harassment, abuse and rape is. You haven't experienced it, so you doubt it happens as often as they say. Or if you're an adult you will realize that the problem is people being shitty. Don't apply that to everyone you meet or talk to. If you do, you're kind of an asshole. Pray tell, what would you suggest? Getting emotional and vulnerable early on in the dating process? No, that would be self sabotage. But thinking…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:44 AM
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Another advice from men then: learn how to vet better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:10 AM
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I expect them to be mature enough to realize that this woman isn't a good partner and if it happens several times then maybe men should follow their own advise? Choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:01 AM
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aka, I can't generalize men the same way I do women. I'm reading through it now. I don't believe men lie about these experiences, but I do think the woman would have a different explanation and the truth would be somewhere in the middle. Regardless it's horryfing and can and will traumatize you - which is why these men need therapy and not a pill ideology to save them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:58 PM
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I don't know a single woman who haven't been harassed, assaulted or raped - by men. So by your own logic, "these are lived experiences that can not be tossed to the side because its unpalatable," hiding behind "not all men" to me is naive and demonstrates a lack of experience. ​ In your opinion, how should women reward men who demonstrate basic human interaction? Should, or do men already reward women for such behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:39 PM
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If that is your belief, why would you want to have a relationship with something innately evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:24 PM
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Sounds incredibly immature, ngl, most people understand that the world isn't black and white. Not all women will lose interest in you when you show vulnerability, even if you want to continue believe that because so many men have these stories. Many women have stories of abuse and rape, yet I don't think you would want to be in the same category as those men. Something to think about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:23 PM
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Not everybody is that primitive. More people than we'd like to admit use rational thinking. Emotions and rational thinking are not mutually exclusive. They also happen on a conscious and subconscious level. I am aware of my emotions. They're fine The royal you, not you specifically. At least you treat everybody equally delusionaly. Why would you want a debate with someone you think is delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:10 PM
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Would you consider it fair to generalize all men based on the actions of few or some?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:56 PM
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You misunderstood me then. Human beings have emotion and you are driven by those emotions, whether you're aware of it or not. When someone decides to bottle up their emotions it's unhealthy and I don't think I need to explain to you why that is. That's not me dictating how men should behave - that's me trying to get them to understand that there are healthier options for them. The biggest victim of their actions are themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:55 PM
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Not sure what you're implying. I based this on the numerous instances the men here say exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:21 PM
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I'm sorry you've had such bad experiences with women that this is how you view us. Also sad how you encourage others to it. For me and many other women it's the opposite. If you show no emotion or only a selected few it's a problem and our relationship probably couldn't develop any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 09:02 PM
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Don't be so defeatist, it's not hopeless, far from it. Men as a whole needs to realize the power they do have. Basically anyone can have a platform these days and influence so many people. You say pray, I say lead with example. When it comes to mental health I don't think anyone's issues is being taken seriously. It is very clear we need to do more. Sadly, with no clear plan how to tackle that, I think those problems will only escalate in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:49 PM
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I do agree that we don't raise men to express their emotions the same way we do to women and that it is a big problem. But the solution isn't to try and be apathetic or hide your feelings from your partner, that spell disaster. I could go even further and argue its a form of emotional abuse - on themselves and their partner. Instead those men should seek therapy, but getting men to therapy is another issue..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:29 PM
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Well that's one interpretation, but it is not the correct one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:09 PM
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Men who get in relationships without showing vulnerability and emotions. Can't wrap my head around it. What they don't seem to understand is that they do still have emotions and that it effects them in ways they aren't even aware of. Thinking that it leads to a good, strong, healthy relationship is really sad. Not to mention dishonest and egotistical imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:51 PM
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Or how do they don't find it shameful to fake their entire personality just to get their dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:05 PM
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Compelling argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 12:29 AM
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I wasn't talking about you specifically. But with that story you told on yourself. A HVM wouldn't buy a big ass teddy bear unless he is an immature teenager and he certainly wouldn't make her carry it around for him. It seems you have a weird fixation in how people view you, that's not how to HV. A HVW wouldn't want one either. They are probably not looking at you with envy, but with amusement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 11:07 PM
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I didn't, just made an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 10:40 PM
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When someone says they're HV, generally they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:36 PM
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At most it makes me see her as a challenge to be conquered Creep factor 5000
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 11:44 AM
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Why? Pretty clear you have no intention of changing your mind. I think you're just looking for someone to agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 11:16 PM
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No cats, catlady?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 11:07 PM
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You don't seem to know the real world. I would recommend getting to know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 11:00 PM
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But in terms of consent, I just assume it is? If assuming makes you feel more at ease when watching porn, then by all means. I just can't understand how it can make you horny when you're not certain, that's all. ​ Like if it wasn’t, wouldnt we visibly be able to tell? No, not necessarily. How good a performer do you think you would be under threat? Pretty damn good I bet. When ex-porn stars come out and talk about how shitty and unsafe the work enviroment is, about rape and assault, why not list…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:16 PM
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It sure does. I'd go even further, I have a hard time understanding how anyone can get turned on watching something when you don't actually know if it's consensual or not. There is no way of knowing for certain and that's reason enough not to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 06:23 PM
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Yeah, same. It would be incredibly easier and safer than now I think. Take me to this paradise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 06:06 PM
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So? It's their choice. You just angry they didn't pick you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 11:33 PM
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90% of young women ARE having the sex life they want. ¿Que? In terms of how much or how satisfying? And how young are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:44 PM
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Yeah, everyone is struggling in a pandemic. Naturally dating takes a backseat right now, as it should. It will pass. Also, we’re not allowed to pursue women at work after #MeToo. Oh, you're one of those people..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 08:41 PM
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Yeah, if you know something is making you miserable you should stop. If you're asking me the alternative to OLD, it's real life. You meet people in various different environments, you don't need me to tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 08:28 PM
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Right, if it makes you so miserable, why not just leave..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 06:35 PM
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The best defense you can have against TRP is understanding the patterns of narcissistic abuse. Learn it and encourage others too. Before anyone loses their minds: I'm not saying every RP is an abuser but I will say that TRP is incredibly narcissistic. There is a alot of common patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 02:25 PM
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This is where RP lacks guidance... as living without a family is not an ideal option. It lacks guidance because it says not to do that in the first place, living without family is the ideal option for RP. Why would they offer guidance on going against their core beliefs, that makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 10:43 AM
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You're saying marriage could be fine under certain conditions but since you have no way of making sure those requirements are met, and ultimately it would not end up in your favor, aren't you then also saying marriage isn't fine? Why do something if you believe you only get fucked in the end? What would you have gained?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 01:04 AM
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I'm asking if there would be a contract signed upon marriage or engagement for the woman not to ask for alimony and share custody if there is children involved? How do you make sure she will follow it? What other "rules" would there be at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 12:27 AM
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What power does a woman usually have in marriage that would be a dealbreaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 11:51 PM
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Doesn't TRP preach not to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 11:07 PM
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You have now. Not sure how many different ways I can say the same thing, but let me try one more time: even if you read every single comment and no one said they liked muscles, you'd still only have that one post where a very small fraction of women said that. I don't understand why it is so hard to grasp. I don't judge all other men from the opinions of the ones on here, it's incredibly easy not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 03:36 PM
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I like muscles, happy now? It's easy not to judge an entire gender after the opinions of some, it's not hard at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 02:56 PM
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When you generalize all women based on some comments on the internet, the problem is you, not what is being said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 02:26 PM
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even threatening to end friendships over it. Sounds like a healthy friendship.. I'm willing to bet a lot of PPD women had had a similar experience with their friends. I'm willing to bet it's the opposite. The question is now what is the logic behind this? Why are women bullying each other into pursuing the same type of men they all agree are attractive? Because they want what's best for their friend? Or rather what they think is best for their friend. Is that so hard to imagine?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 01:38 PM
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It's a common argument men here tend to spew: women constantly lie and women are inherently evil. If that's their belief, why would they listen to a womans opinion or advice about anything? Men made their bed, let them lie in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 01:31 PM
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You sound like a lovely person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 12:00 AM
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That's not healthy but no one is stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 10:55 PM
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Ok, so you stay single. What's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 10:51 PM
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I know what you mean, I would find you annoying as well. Anyways, you resort to petty insults instead of engaging me in a discussion, that's pitiful, particularly on a sub meant for debate. I also want to add you are displaying a textbook example of a narcissistic and unempathetic person. Hilarious given your first comment. I hope you find peace, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:17 PM
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My, you're easily offended.. And showing your lack of empathy once more, keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:04 PM
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So the answer is no, you don't. Thinking "women have no empathy for men" shows your lack of empathy (towards women). It's a pretty funny comment, thanks for the giggle I made while reading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:01 PM
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You do realize the irony in your statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 08:53 PM
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If women are humans, If? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:01 PM
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Sexual and romantic relationships are not even on my list of priorities and never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 05:29 PM
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This is going to get ugly, fast..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 09:53 AM
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Maturity has nothing to do with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:18 PM
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Lol, no they don't. Ever heard of OJ? Casey Anthony?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:48 PM
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Yeah, likewise..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 09:09 PM
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Oh yes, that's another argument you guys just love to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:56 PM
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Never said we should convict without compelling evidence. I said that men say false rape accusations are common because it's convenient for them. It goes with their arguments that women lie constantly and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:44 PM
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Yeah, I'm psychic alright
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 07:51 PM
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You know he'll just answer with every rape that was reported but never concluded or thrown out is false. That's how these men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 06:22 PM
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I see we've moved on to name-calling and ad hominem now. Enjoy the rest of your day, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 01:25 PM
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Thankfully you had a quote to copy & paste, otherwise you might have to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 01:13 PM
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40% of men can't get a relationship or most men can't, which is it love? A very few amount of men cheat with a lot of women and don't represent the male gender. There's your agenda. In general, men are more likely to cheat. It's not a reflection on you. You can't explain away statistics because incels exists, that's a red herring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 01:01 PM
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Thank you for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 12:22 PM
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Can tell you have an agenda, why mention men who can't get relationships and therefore cannot cheat to begin with, and why inflate inceldom numbers up to 40%? If in every age category men cheat more and women cheat more with one single procent between 18-29, I think everyone can deduce which gender cheat more on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:56 AM
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Aromantic and asexuals exist. Allos love to project their bitterness and insecurities on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:45 AM
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10% vs 11% for men vs. women between 18-29. In all other age categories men cheat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:32 AM
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you have no argument so you have to resort to logical fallacies like ad hominems Oh, the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:02 PM
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This shit again. You're comparing Shakespeare to a fanfiction writer glorifying abuse. Read Pride and Prejudice, Wuthering Heights and Jane Eyre and (hopefully) you'll come to a different conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 07:47 PM
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ridiculous how much the men here generalize the psychology of all women. While loosing their minds if it's done to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 03:08 PM
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Most men on PPD will tell you women benefit more in marriage. Men associate marriage with increased responsibilities and with a greater possibility of financial loss, while they seem to totally disregard the positives. Married men tend to live longer, be healthier, earn more, and report being more happy even in a 'mediocre' marriage. This is also true for women but only if they perceive their marriage as 'happy', which, judging by divorce rates, most do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 12:05 PM
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Yeez, getting major creep vibes from this guy, your boundaries are totally healthy and sane. It's ludicrous when other people get so worked up on others boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 11:13 PM
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How would I describe my appetite for sex? Nonexistent, thankfully. Bring on the downvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 08:22 PM
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I don't know why allos and high libido people need to project their belief on all of us so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:09 PM
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Ah yes, the regular PPD answer™️. Wanting an attractive partner may be unfair, but everyone does it, that's life. Far from everyone has standards like these however and it something this subreddit discusses on a weekly basis. I know steroid use has gone up, especially since social media, but please share your sources stating a third of tinder users do steroids, it sounds like an awful lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 12:09 PM
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If you're scared under a certain type of rule, it's not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:37 AM
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It was created 2019. You're exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 09:33 PM
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Just offering you some perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 09:26 PM
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Reddit has over 430 million monthly active users. Your fears are unfounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 09:12 PM
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126.000 kweens. They're taking over allright. RadFem will never be taken seriously, you have nothing to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 08:54 PM
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Give me an example of these unfair standards women have? I'm not familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 08:43 PM
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We knew women cheat as much as men do but we still think of men as cheaters. 10% vs 11% for men vs. women between 18-29. In all other categories men cheat more. ​ We know women can make a marriage miserable as fast as a man can, but we still blame the man when she hands him divorce papers. This piece states that the most common reason for divorce is infidelity. Edit: keep dem salty downvotes coming 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 12:17 AM
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If you have a better alternative I'm all ears, that's why I made the post you know..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:32 PM
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What do you think that would look like? Would group meetings (could also be over zoom) led by men for men be more effective?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:19 PM
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Do you think group meetings (could also be over zoom) led by men for men be more effective or same outcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:19 PM
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Also loved "professional narcissist" Like, you guys are getting paid?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 10:30 PM
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Men taking advantage of vulnerable women? Nah, I find that hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:44 PM
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Well they should have chosen better....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:25 PM
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Oh, this is going to get nasty..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:09 PM
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Agreed, women who put themselves in bad situations need to take responsibility. I was walking down the street, I mean what the hell was I thinking??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 10:09 PM
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That argument goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:40 PM
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Yeah exactly. OP is discrediting himself.. Love your username btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:40 PM
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That's what I meant, still going with that option. I'd much rather have an interesting conversation than anything physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:16 AM
1

So he talks non-stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:08 AM
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Since you said: he can talk your ear off I'm going with that option. So long as we also can enjoy comfortable silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:06 AM
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college writing class Graded on your level of writing, not what you wrote about, correct? There are bad people and good people. Which seems to be a fantasy novel.. If you want to have a proper discourse, publish part of you "paper" that you want to discuss and cite your sources, otherwise I'm convinced you're just trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 10:30 AM
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Of course you do if you're an adult - because you treat people with respect, as I have already stated. However, at some point if you've tried to be upfront but it hasn't been heard nor respected you'd have to change tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 07:00 PM
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Like I said, it depends on the circumstances. You wouldn't call me disrespectful for ghosting my stalker would you? The fact that you seem to think ghosting is the highest form of disrespect says alot..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:47 PM
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No actually, ghosting is just a way to cut off communication. I wouldn't call it disrespectful but I guess it depends alot on circumstances. Even if you were ghosted, does that give you the right to disrespect others?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:40 PM
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Yeah, I called the police after one text, aren't you supposed to? /s Not sure what this has to do with showing respect towards others?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:23 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kxqf2m/kindness_and_respect_are_not_sexually_attractive/ https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kymsse/q4w_what_qualities_make_you_fall_in_love_with_a/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:14 PM
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Yes, as that was the advise given to me by the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:11 PM
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"Why should I treat human beings with respect if they are not going to be sexually attracted to me? " 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:19 PM
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It's a good question. Don't understand why they don't leave at the first sign, let alone birth his babies 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 04:34 PM
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It's nonexistent and I am eternally satisfied and happy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 04:04 PM
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While dating the man should pay for everything as the woman has more to loose in a relationship and to show he is financially stable/successful. I'm paraphrasing but that's the gist of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 11:32 AM
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I'd appreciate an example, and where would you draw the line? Cause I'm hoping you'd see more of an issue if you were selling products for children at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:37 PM
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Let's see if I've understood you correctly: it's okay to sell whatever product using sex so long as it doesn't glorify sex? Cause you'd have to give me an example what that would look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:27 PM
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She can support herself because of her job and education, but it would seem he would have to shower her with gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:23 PM
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The issue is that sex is where forced where it is not needed, and it is my personal opinion that it shouldn't be. It has nothing to do with my orientation. Minorities aren't the only ones that "suffer" from oversexualization, we all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 05:52 PM
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It shouldn't be "a no brainer" to sell bubblegum, food or shoes etc. with sexual undertones, it's just ridiculously primitive. It does no good, there's no reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 05:36 PM
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We oversexualize everything. Commercials that are straight up soft porn, sex scenes in every movie ever made that has no affect on the story being told etc. We act like having sex (the first time) is this life altering event when it isn't and most people's first time is awful. If we can stop doing that then I think we would see a shift, however small.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 05:26 PM
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Can anyone even afford to support a partner to sit at home and do nothing? If you want to sit home all day and be treated like a princess you might as well try and get married to a Saudi billionaire. If you're okay with being his 20th concubine or 10th wife then go for it lol. You've misunderstood their ideology here. Part of their "leveling up" strategy is getting an education and having a career so that they don't build a life that revolve around the HVM they're in search of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 04:50 PM
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No, because I have to regard the childs well-being first and foremost, good parenting is a necessity and I don't qualify for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 12:06 PM
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Not sure what you would define as the average woman, but I grew up with those phrases as well. I'm honestly surprised if you haven't been raised with "no one cares, they will never care and you have to be okay with that -- it's all up to you." It sounds cynical but such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 01:09 AM
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It's not that men are children who don't understand spoken and/or body language, it's that they don't agree with it. At some point the problem is comprehension, not communication. Keep pushing after the first 'no' you can't very well be surprised when there are consequences for it, but men will feign ignorance to avoid responsibility. "She was an open book, he was illiterate."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 12:37 AM
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I don't disagree with you, except for when you said: A better way to communicate about consent is making it really clear no is no. It's not that men don't understand what no means, they aren't children who don't understand spoken language, it's that they don't agree with it. If you keep pushing after the first no, there should be consequences for it, just like you say there is consequences for not running away if you feel unsafe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:46 PM
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Of course, but men needs to be held accountable for their behavior. If they don't listen or respect a no, then it's not about communicating, it's about comprehension. Men who don't take no for an answer aren't stupid, they know what they are doing. So I'm saying you can't be surprised when there's consequences for your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 09:59 PM
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If you need to start crying, screaming and flee then the issue is clearly on the man. You don't keep pushing after you've gotten a no, it shouldn't be that hard to understand. If you kept pushing her boundaries until she caves, you can't get all surprised pikachu face if she is distraught about it afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 09:00 PM
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I agree with this, although I have to say that I don't blame the men in these situations, but I don't blame myself either. It happened and I've moved on. Also, you're not going to get good faith answers here, there's no real point trying. Most of these men barely have empathy for rape victims, let alone someone who was guilted into consent. 💯!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 06:56 PM
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Thank you, it's nice to see asexuality spoken about in a positive light for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:52 PM
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I wish you success in all your future endeavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 02:45 PM
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Happiness is subjective. It's my belief you can be just as happy without being romantically in love with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 02:38 PM
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A bit late to the party, but just wanted to add that asexuality is such a broad spectrum and plenty of aces do want and have sex. I guess asexuality has become synonym to not wanting sex and that's fine, just wanted to add some nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 12:34 PM
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Happiness is self-created, not found, it comes from your own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 11:07 AM
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Take my upvote, because I completely agree and it's nice to see some sanity around here. I couldn't date a man if I didn't think they could relate to and be friends with women. This is way more important than people realize. It's a reg flag if he can't have platonic friendships with opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:57 AM
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I think everyone faces some sort of discrimination but women in the west least of all, it makes them look silly and honestly somewhat pathetic when they moan about being 'oppressed'. This is your original statement, there are women of color in the west that are oppressed because of race and gender. White people are not, they're top of the hierarchy, facing the least amount of oppression overall. So my comment was an addendum or correction if you will. But listen, we can't really have a productiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 12:39 AM
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LeBron James has rich privilege but can still be a victim of racial oppression. There is no oppression Jim-Bob faces because he is white. No need to downvote me if you disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:52 PM
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White people aren't oppressed, men or women. People of color is another subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:36 PM
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He cheated in his first marriage which was before he was famous but I see you point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:10 PM
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Except there absolutely was... Einstein had lots of mistresses, there are loads of letters where he writes he is "showered with affection from women"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:50 PM
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Yes, when it comes to men. Most are terrified of being homo and don't want to loose the capacity to complain they ain't getting enough sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:18 PM
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You ain't faking it hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:00 AM
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Women can sell sex, but men can't buy. Meaning? ​ Women can choose to abort, while men have no choices but all the responsibility. Just because you don't like the choice doesn't mean you don't have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:51 PM
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No one is saying the woman caused the man to commit the violent act. Seen my fair share of those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:35 PM
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"Just leave" is a common narrative from people who don't understand or haven't taken the time to research said subject. It's complex and requires you to have an open mind, because if you haven't been there yourself, you probably won't understand it. I say this probably once a week on PPD but I'll say it again: abusive relationships don't start out abusive, it starts with lovebombing and idealization. I strongly encourage you to look this up, it's good and healthy to be able to see the signs, in …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:35 PM
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Has this ever happened to you? Yes. Is it a common occurrence? I believe so. Like you said there isn't any numbers to back this up but all my girlfriends have similar stories. Their friends have similar stories, their friends have similar stories... Does this justify indirect rejections? When you clearly say no (several times) but it isn't being heard or respected, you have to change tactics. But you always assume he will listen and be able to handle a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:36 PM
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"she should have chosen better"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 11:23 AM
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"Losing your kids and half your things, and having to pay alimony is basically death to most men. Do you know how many men suicide after being divorce raped?" You're implying here that you have some sort of insight into how many men are driven to suicide because of divorce "rape".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:23 AM
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Can you provide an actual link? One that proves that these men were driven to suicide because of divorce "rape"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:06 AM
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Sorry, I should have specified. He claims that many men suicide because of divorce "rape", I'd like his source on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:01 AM
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You seem to know, will you share your source?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 03:44 AM
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Who set up the system?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:26 AM
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You hate women for how the justice system works?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:07 AM
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Pump and dump culture requires a woman to select the pump and dumper over the men who wouldn't do that. Assuming that men are honest with their intentions..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 11:34 PM
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I'd probably be bitter and make delusional posts about how opressed white men are on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:13 PM
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https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/overusing-vibrator-sensitivity#The-answer?-No,-your-vibe-isnt-going-to-wreck-your-V “It’s a complete myth that you can desensitize your vagina or clitoris from using a vibrator,” says Dr. Carolyn DeLucia, FACOG, who’s based in Hillsborough, New Jersey." "In fact, contrary to the beliefs of vibrator alarmists, there was overwhelming evidence that vibrator use contributed to positive outcomes. These included: orgasm increased lubrication decreased pain…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:23 PM
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Ding ding ding!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 02:42 PM
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Not true, men aren't emotionally intimate in a healthy way, that's the issue. If you don't have healthy emotionally intimacy, it's really easy to leave a relationship because of it. Again, I don't understand why this is so hard to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:41 AM
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Instead of wishing (maybe even suggesting) he'd get professional help to resolve his issues and get better you'd wish he take it out on his wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:58 PM
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It's not hard to understand what both of them mean if you're willing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:43 PM
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Women have made it pretty clear that they don't want emotional intimacy from a partner because that's something they reserve for their platonic female friends and they really wish men would do the same so women didn't have to be burdened by emotional labor. Nice bait? In a healthy relationship you need emotional intimacy. If it goes to a point where your partner expect you to solve their problems, or isn't doing anything to solve them themselves (therapy) it becomes a problem that will result in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:18 PM
1

Maybe you should resume payment on your reality check then? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 05:50 PM
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This is why I asked your age, because you are either a child or immature beyond measure and sense. I said to OP before that this was probably the most delusional post since purge. I'd like to withdraw that statement, because you've beaten it by miles. But anyways thanks for your reply and a good laugh, man. Hope you have an amazing 2021 and I wish you success in all your future endeavors :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 05:34 PM
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These men did not choose to become bitter. After being treated so unfairly, they just did. If they could let go of their bitterness, they obviously would. However, it is not reasonable to expect them to forget what happened. That expectation would simply be another unfairness. After something bad happens to you, you will be traumatized. Sometimes even for life. That is simply the way it works. Bitterness is most definitely a choice, everyone can let their bitterness go if they wanted to but it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:56 PM
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Bingo. Her future is being dumped when he finds someone prettier and younger than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:11 PM
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Improving and finding worth is not something that TRP has monopoly on. They don't even do it that well to be honest. Why didn't you just get therapy from a professional? This is either bad trolling or the most delusional post since purge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:23 PM
2

You introduced your BF to an ideology that teaches men to stay single?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:34 PM
2

Do you (as in both of you) want a marriage and children?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:29 PM
2

Yes there are side effects you need to be aware of. If you feel like you'd do anything for it to stop, you might want to look into it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 07:45 PM
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Chemical castration? It reduces your sex drive, while the feelings remain they're less obsessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 06:47 PM
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Like I said, look up abuse patterns (preferably narcissistic abuse) and hybristophilia and maybe you'll learn something new.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 05:44 PM
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Might even be months, there is a reason wedding coordinator/planner is a profession. Just thinking about it gives me anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 05:34 PM
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I agree with every part of this. My energy would be depleted before even getting the wedding dress on..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 05:19 PM
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The logical gender does it again.. People who write serial killers have issues and there are men who write women who have committed heinous crimes. It doesn't tell us much about the general man or woman. Abusive relationships rarely, if ever, start out abusive. Look up lovebombing and idealization in abuse patterns if you're interested. Bring on the downvotes, cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:35 PM
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Passion enough to spark a global movement, nah most people don't have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 12:57 PM
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Typical macho bullshit. Honestly though, I'm sorry that happened to you, I hope you'll be able to find better friends. Be well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:57 PM
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It is. Court will look who the primary caregiver is in the marriage. If it ain't you, well at least you know who to blame. Good luck in school, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:13 PM
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This is obviously a sore spot for you. Maybe if you been a more active parent you would have gotten shared custody, bitter cock. Have a nice evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:47 PM
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Exactly. Don't listen to what men say, watch what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:28 PM
0

Money more important than kids, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:04 PM
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Men: stop shaming small penises !!! Also men: hahah ugly pussy beef curtains!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:54 AM
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You too 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:35 AM
1

Purge week baby
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:26 AM
1

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:47 PM
1

Call it "Whipple tickle"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:35 PM
0

Disgraceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:54 PM
2

As you accurately stated, that wouldn't be rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:31 PM
1

The hell is regret raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:15 PM
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Blaming women is what you want to do. If you want to blame all women over the actions of some, go right ahead, but don't pretend like they said it because they are women. ​ Example, I was told at an early age that men would rape me. I was raped by a man. I'm emotionally mature enough to not blame or generalize all men because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:06 PM
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Sorry you've been hurt so badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:37 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:27 PM
4

Seriously I learned this shit when I was like 15 from my own parents. Sads
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:02 PM
1

What camp do you put feminists who use #killallmen in? FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:32 PM
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"Some" does not the "whole" make, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:13 PM
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This is a debate sub. Not a ask for help sub. These men don't want your help. You obviously know that now. It's more of a "opinions I don't want challenged" sub, lol. Regardless I don't think she meant she was offering psychotherapy, but to understand how their viewpoint was formed, which is an important aspect if you want a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:31 PM
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I'll admit I find it really hard to emphasize with PPD men. Maybe if they weren't so hateful I'd be more inclined to listen and understand their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:13 PM
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Don't listen to what men say, watch what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:03 PM
2

Covert self-harm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:47 AM
1

" I will return in three days. Don't wash! "
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 04:10 PM
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Once every leap year.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 10:17 PM
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So you agree that men "only want one thing" or did I misinterpret you? ​ But we pretend women are wonderful always just like in Disney. I think you are just thinking of Disney princesses, to which I would agree. But Cruella di Vil, Ursula, Cinderellas evil step mother, Maleficent, Queen of Hearts etc beg to differ. Obviously not every woman in Disney are wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:06 PM
1

No, most would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 12:40 PM
1

Have you considered the possibility that society pushes us so much to have sex that the pressure to perform is somewhat a cause of sexless marriage? How could we value it anymore than we already do?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 12:38 PM
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Yes, although they don't have to identify as ace publicly but the premise that there will be no sex needs to be understood and respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 12:14 PM
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No, I don't think that would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 10:57 AM
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Men were deceived by a romantic "Disney" era Women grew up with this too, hence looking for prince charming with a castle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 10:42 PM
2

Choosing a partner is not solely based on looks you know. If rich people live better lives than that is actual best.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:29 PM
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Why do would you have to think about the entire species when picking a partner? Richer people live better lives than poorer overall, why would you not want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:10 PM
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It's reasons like this that makes me thankful for being ugly, I almost never get approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 07:42 PM
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I actually knew 4 people living in a polyamorous relationship when I was studying. It was a long time ago but I remember them sharing google calendars so they could schedule dates with one another so it wouldn't be in secret. There was a newspaper that came and interviewed them about it too so they were open with their situation. I guess it is something I could consider if I wanted a relationship to begin with, but I don't see that happening anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 07:07 PM
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Shia makes my coochie dry up and retract so far up my body I'm certain it won't come back out. Dude is clearly unbalanced and give me the creeps. But there ain't nothing wrong with how his body looks, I'll agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 04:43 PM
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If society collectively valued sex and physical attraction more Are we not already doing this to the brim?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 09:50 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bd9BP2PkVMQ
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 02:51 PM
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just because you're different doesn't make you special. Never claimed this, just want to be seen as a normal, healthy human without a trauma altering my sexual orientation. SJW translation: 'I can now claim anything and everything as being discrimination'. You looked at me funny, DISCRIMINATION!!! You don't like the color of my shoes, DISCRIMINATION!!! Funny. Homophobia have been around a long time. I think you know this. inventing oppression where none exists. Never claimed to be oppressed eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 02:39 PM
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Discrimination against asexual people encompasses a range of negative attitudes, behaviours, and feelings toward asexuality or people who identify as part of the asexual spectrum. Negative feelings or characterisations toward asexuality include dehumanisation, the belief that asexuality is a mental illness, that asexual people cannot feel love, and the refusal to accept asexuality as a genuine sexual orientation. Being asexual is not normal. because you're weird. EDIT: I noticed the lack of scie…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 01:56 PM
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Defend your position, or GTFO. I am doing one of those things. ​ Being asexual is not normal, and for many hormonal treatment is often effective. Please, give me a scientific source that claims this. And thanks for the dehumanization.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 01:45 PM
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It's easy to lie when you delete all your comments, super convenient. You did put all asexuals and people suffering from HSDD into the same category, whether you admit it or not. In your "apology" from today you still say that hormone is a viable treatment for asexuals who are uncomfortable in their orientation. There is no treatment, cure or fix for your sexual orientation, thinking like that makes you a homophobe. I don't get why this is so hard for you to understand. Again, you have bias from…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 01:16 PM
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Your original comment 5 days ago was "asexuals don't need a fucking, they need hormone therapy." You then went on several comments saying we need hormone therapy to be fixed and that asexuality to you seems to come from a place of trauma. How did I misinterpret it exactly? I provided you with a source disproving your claim. This is something that has also affected my life massively. You know what affects my life massively? When people call my sexual orientation something that needs fixing. Sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 12:30 PM
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You deleted your comments because you came off as cruel yet still hold on to your opinons? How spineless. People who are distressed by their sexuality should go to a therapist and work on how to relate to it better. No licensed therapist would ever recommend hormone therapy, not to asexuals, homosexuals, bisexuals etc. (Note that I am not talking about transgender hormone therapy, as that is different as I'm sure you can agree.) As an example, if I think my nose is too big, do you think a therap…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 11:40 AM
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Great, another expert... What does sound asexual to you? I am not on twitter no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 11:13 AM
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Never had cheetos* therefore don't know if I would like them. Without turning this into a dissertation, sexual attraction is finding a person sexually appealing and wanting to have sex with them. Sexual desire is an interest in sexual activites, mastrubation included.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 11:02 AM
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Asexuality means you lack sexual attraction, you can still have desire to have sex. While I don't, many asexuals do. Full disclosure, I've never had cheetos, they look gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:45 AM
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Too much eggnog? I remember it because I was shaking for hours. It sounds as unhealthy as it was. I've heard some demeaning shit about asexuality, but never that we need hormone therapy to be fixed. Disgraceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:41 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kjatof/men_need_sex_to_thrive_women_do_not/ggw5r4c/?context=8&depth=9 ​ If you want to play a guessing game..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:25 AM
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She sure did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:19 AM
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May I remind you that not 5 days ago you said asexuals are in need of hormone therapy to be fixed, implying they are broken, sick etc. Deleting your comments are not the same as withdrawing your statement, but if you wish to do that now I'm all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:06 AM
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We are force fed images of (Instagram) celebrities photoshopped to hell. Being insecure in your body is more normal than not normal, how is this fascinating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 12:27 AM
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I'm glad to hear that you feel comfortable with talking to a professional. Hopefully one day you want to share your stories with your friends and then I hope they will listen and try to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:53 PM
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Are you afraid to be vulnerable in front of your friends? Do the people online provide you with better solutions than the friends that already know your situation? How do you know they wouldn't understand? How can you have meaningful conversations about the future, relationships and such without emotions? I don't charge by the hour btw..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:10 PM
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Thanks for your reply. If you are happy, who I am to say differently. A therapist would be an excellent choice to open up about your emotions, if you want and need, you don't have to be ill to get support. I found it interesting when you say you'd be okay opening up to your spouse but not friends because you want to spend the rest of your life with her. Don't you want your friendships to last as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 05:47 PM
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You know you can do both, right? Surely your therapist want you to have a strong support group? I'm a little confused how you build healthy relationships out of apathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 05:40 PM
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Your world is really black and white, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 04:53 PM
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Whatever works for you, but I'll be honest - it doesn't sound healthy if you mean that you consciously bury your emotions. Do your friends think the same way? What is it that makes it okay to be emotional with your spouse but not your friends? Would you rather have an emotionless partner as well? Sorry for bombarding you with questions, I'm genuinely interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 03:40 PM
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Haven't you heard how feminism rule the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:50 PM
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I have to ask, you prefer to keep your relationships with other people "emotion-free"? What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:44 PM
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I absolutely love how offended you are by all the comments. Never change man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:39 PM
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It's really hard to debate with people so unwilling to broaden their perspectives. In the end they only hurt themselves the most, hopefully that can bring you some comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 11:07 AM
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I agree, don't understand why we need to "debate" this constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 11:48 PM
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Well she deleted her comments, right? Hopefully because she realized how offensive and demeaning she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 10:00 PM
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You mean unconsciously in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:31 PM
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Worrying about infidelity would be a sign of insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:16 PM
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I don't disagree but comparing yourself to your partners previous sexual history is ridiculous, imo. She/he is with you now. Communicate well about sex, satisfy each other and it won't be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:09 PM
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Therapy can help with low self-esteem. Good luck 🎄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:02 PM
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It's funny and sad when men here admit the reason for not wanting an experienced partner: they don't want to be compared to her previous ones. Screams insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 06:53 PM
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Thank you, this should be top comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 08:14 AM
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Yeah people lie, it sucks. Neither is it fair that you don't recognize your homophobia and deal with it like an adult, this isn't the 50s. Like the link I sent you, you have confused two things thinking they are the same. If his therapist have told you this, dump him and get a new one, since he obviously shouldn't be doing it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 10:20 AM
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Yes. You don't want to be seen as mentally ill. Did you read the link I posted before? Hones? What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 11:18 PM
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Merry crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 09:37 PM
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Well if people you knew viewed you as mentally ill you'd be hesitant to come out, surely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 09:31 PM
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Your opinions doesn't offend me - your ignorance does. Saying asexuals need hormone therapy to be fixed is incredibly uneducated and demeaning. Asexuality is a sexual orientation, not a dysfunction. HSDD (or ISD) is regarded as a clinical disorder and is treated through therapy and/or medicine. ​ I think asexuals differ from other sexualities, and it mostly does come with symptoms of distress. Yeah, usually that distress is caused when people claiming you are sick, not normal and need fixing...?…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 01:14 PM
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Again, you can't change your sexuality, it doesn't work like that. Asexuality means you lack sexual attraction to other people. Libido has nothing to do with it, I'm sex-repulsed yet have a high libido, it's not a contradiction. Your friend has trauma that has caused him not being able to have sex (if I've understood you correctly) and he is suffering from it, yet this has nothing to do with his sexuality. You might say he has some ace tendencies because of his trauma, this does not make him ase…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 12:18 PM
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They don't. Anyone unhappy with their sexuality needs therapy to get comfortable in their own skin, but you can't change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 11:54 AM
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There is no therapy that can fix your sexuality because there is nothing to fix. I think you mean he can change how he relates to it, which isn't the same thing. Either way I hope your friend can be happy someday. You don't change your sexuality, it just is. Would you say to a homosexual to get hormone therapy to fix him/her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 11:22 AM
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I've seen you write some real smart shit on this subreddit, be smarter than this. Asexuality isn't something that needs to be fixed, thinking like that is straight up acephobia, or should I call it homophobia to get the point across?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 10:58 AM
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I'm sorry? Asexuals need hormone therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 10:02 AM
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If anything is easy in this subreddit, it is to spot narcissism. Also what makes it so entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:25 PM
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This is the correct answer. You can't always get what you want, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 07:46 PM
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I sincerely apologise for hitting a nerve. Must be hard being this easily offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 11:23 AM
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Can't believe I have to say this again: source, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 11:33 PM
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Sounds interesting, do you perhaps have a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 11:28 PM
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As a doctor, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 11:26 PM
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We’re all human. Humans like having sex. *laughs in asexual*
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 11:22 PM
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Men aren't fertile forever, fertility generally starts to reduce around age 40-45 years when sperm quality decreases. Over 45 years increases risk of the child’s mental health and developmental disorders. If you want healthy children and you haven't found a partner yet, you should freeze some sperm as a precaution. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 09:54 PM
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It is too much, but it isn't common. That is my whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 06:15 PM
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"He also points out that false allegations are exceptionally rare. - We do need to keep that in mind when it comes to fear surrounding false allegations. Though research is difficult to pin down on this topic, it does tend to show that false allegations represent between 2% and 10% of all claims." Are you too lazy to read these yourself, pal?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 06:01 PM
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This alone doesn't mean porn is more helpful than harmful, some perspective please..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:39 PM
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Source, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:33 PM
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Is this a serious question? I asked for sources when claimed false rape accusations were common. I have seen one such story, doesn't prove it to be common. ​ Internet is not a fictional world. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:31 PM
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This is actully good advise for women too. Don't listen to what men say, look at what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:57 PM
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Helpful because....?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:24 PM
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So you really could have answered my first question with a "I pulled it out of my arse" Good debate, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:22 PM
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Not sure where I said that? I have read some stories on the internet, but never irl. Regardless, if you have evidence, please share.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:12 PM
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It's a variety of reasons, most because having evidence of rape is hard. But you have no source, article, study, report etc. to back up your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:10 PM
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So you think empathy is biological for men yet linked an article disproving your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:07 PM
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Source please
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 03:41 PM
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Don't think you read this correctly since it proves my point. "In fact, women may show greater empathy simply because of their upbringing, life experience and social differences." Not biology, but environment. I have other concerns regarding the study this article mentions, but it doesn't contradict my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 03:02 PM
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Not a trope, there are studies showing this, it's a product of environment not biology. If you have studies proving you point, please share.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 02:39 PM
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There are differences in the capacity for empathy between males and females. Stereotypically, females are raised to be more nurturing and empathetic, while males are brought up to be more selfish, forward etc. If we take this as a fact, it isn't a big shock that some women do have a "I can fix him" mindset, hence why I think some women choose assholes. Although, "niceguys" aren't exactly nice, it's an act. ​ " Furthermore, studies of human infants report evidence that females exhibit higher rate…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 01:22 PM
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/ totally not written by a man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 12:33 AM
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Does anyone make a living on OF only? Unlikely, doesn't pay that well does it? Also, for those feminists sex = empowerment, as you can see in the thread about feminism yesterday, far from everyone think like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:19 PM
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Porn is a blight and should be purged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:02 PM
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Wasn't he informed of the possibility of chronic pain beforehand by his doctor?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 05:36 PM
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Freeze your sperm before vasectomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 04:50 PM
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1) When there is a clear commitment towards a relationship but after sex he ghosts you. 2) No clue. I don't hear this as much irl as online. 3) You can lower the risk of getting pumped and dumped by vetting the man and not having sex early. Not sure if it can be avoided completely. As many men here have shown, they have no issue with manipulating you to get into bed with them. Set clear boundaries and stick to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:45 PM
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You admit you shame women for not sleeping with you instead of just getting a hobby and not be a bitter c...?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:18 PM
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Porn addiction damages your dopamine receptors in a very similar way that cocaine or other drugs of abuse would. Look up neuroplasticity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 12:05 PM
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Men are kings at complaining, hence complaining about the nagging wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 11:58 AM
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If you have defeatist look on life, you'll never gather them resources to challenge the people in power, it requires a movement and it starts with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 01:51 AM
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I don't understand some of your points. You are comparing being a woman to being homeless? We, as a society, make sure your kid is on a good, healthy place is a problem... how? I don't think anyone is denying the fact that men do more dangerous work, I wish it needn't be done in the first place. How do you think that issue can be solved?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 01:47 AM
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Because most men really really reeeeeally want to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 12:50 AM
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Don't let perfect be the enemy of good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 12:28 AM
2

Copypasta?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 11:57 PM
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Men like to complain, let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:41 PM
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Froot is her best album, written by her. Not sure about this new album, I remember a BBC article where she said that co-writing is killing pop-music some time ago, so likely she wrote it herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:29 PM
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I think the average person can see how rich and poor people are treated differently, no problemo. Last part is like really threatening, should we be worried?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:18 PM
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Lemme get some popcorn 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 09:09 PM
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If you want to deny history go ahead. I guess you think suffragettes just did it for the hell of it..? My question is really if you think the end justify the means? Machiavelli? Maybe he never existed in your history either..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 07:04 PM
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Allright, let's call them terrorists then. Doesn't change the fact that no one actually died from their terrorism, only themselves. So back to my first question : when you are on the same level as the mentally ill and not seen as a human being with no right to vote etc and every time you make a peaceful protest you get ridiculed by media, men in power and assaulted by policemen.. What in your opinion could they have done differently with the same result?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:29 PM
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Well I thank you for a long reply but my question wasn't if you believed women have been lower on the hierarchy or not. My question was how they should have fought for the right to vote etc. Saying they were terrorists is falsification of history. Compare to other terrorist groups and you will see what I mean. I'll even help you: IRA, nazis, ISIS...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:28 PM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:59 PM
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It was always a supremacy hate movement. Those people that say 'it was good in the past' never read up on what the initial suffragettes and other feminists were up to. By modern day standards they'd be terrorists. In your opinion, what should they have done differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:50 PM
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He is also preaching about God to the other inmates and in phone calls to his parents. I wouldn't be surprised if many of his "fangirls" are other religious people who believe that God has forgiven him and therefore so should we.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:56 AM
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I'm confused. What answer were they expecting/wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:24 AM
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Thanks, but asexuality means you feel no sexual attraction towards others, that's it. Not how low/high libido, how much sex you have or if you are sex-repulsed. Those are subcategories.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 09:48 PM
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You need to educate yourself. Asexuality has many different subcategories. We still have a libido and some of us have sex. Others are sex-repulsed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 09:12 PM
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Nice gatekeeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 08:59 PM
2

Are you saying how much the man pay for date(s) is not in his control?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:00 PM
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Sex is always a risk, STI, pregnancy etc. I don't think I have to tell you that sex doesn't equate to pleasure, orgasms do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 04:50 PM
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TIL, women are walking uteruses, breeders for mens pedigree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 04:48 PM
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It's a difference between saying "you are fat and it's your own fault" and "I see you are struggling with your weight, I can help you with diet and we can work out together." agree? Which one would you say is more mature?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 07:17 PM
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If you call someone fat, I'll call you immature. Weight varies alot over the years and you don't necessarily know the reason behind it. Anti-depressants and other medicine for example, can make you gain alot of weight without changing your food intake.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 07:08 PM
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People who use your weight, height or overall looks to drag you down are immature, no matter gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 06:56 PM
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Trying to quote Mark Twain are we? In that case I'll apply the correct quote on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 06:55 PM
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My mistake, I was under the impression maturity was something to strive for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 06:47 PM
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Ever considered taking the high road?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 06:39 PM
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While I do agree with you, I would never pass up an opportunity to hear several different ideas to help broaden your mind. It should be the very reason to be here in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 10:33 PM
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Your tongue and finger won't get anyone pregnant. I will say however, that it is so gratifying and rare to hear a man say that he has other talents than his dick. Kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 10:20 PM
2

It's free then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 02:22 PM
1

Do you charge by the hour?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 02:11 PM
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Not first, simultaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:26 PM
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You are entitled to your opinions, as I am to mine. If you don't want to wait I certainly won't be standing in your way or shame your choices. ​ Sexual compatibility matters if you want to have sex in a relationship and I realise that most people do. However, I disagree when you say it's easy to determinate early on. Sex, like everything else, is rarely great the first time, it's something that requires work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 04:28 PM
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Is expressing my opinion shaming those that don't agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 03:57 PM
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You invest sexually after (if at all) you have emotionally invested. This is not contradictory. ​ Trust fam, no one here is remotely interested in that, or pretty much anywhere else for that matter. Gaslighting\^
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 03:35 PM
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What's the term when someone assumes you take on a diametrically opposed view simply because they disagree with your position? ​ If your solution is to gaslight me, you've run out of arguments and should refrain from participating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 03:20 PM
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My offer is that I will also invest those things. If you see that as unappealing, kindly move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 12:14 AM
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Keep tellin' on yourself, it's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 10:16 PM
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If we have an emotional connection I expect that he would want to put in the effort to make the sex great.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 10:09 PM
3

Please, elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 10:04 PM
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It's an excuse to have sex and then bail. If you had emotional connection to her you'd be willing to work to make the sex good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 09:59 PM
3

More like respecting my own sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 09:48 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 09:45 PM
5

It's convenient when men claim they need to have sex with you before he decides to commit, effectively telling women they need to put out before potentially be seen as a love interest. If you want post-nut clarity there is nothing stopping you from having a wank.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:11 PM
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It's convenient to claim men need to have sex with you before making the choice to commit to you or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 06:53 PM
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Wouldn't have sex before committing, or rather not have sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 06:26 PM
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Isn't that convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 04:37 PM
2

Keyword: some. And did they claim to speak for all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 01:31 AM
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Evidence please. Women rarely agree on anything. Go to any other "questions for women" and see for yourself. Accidentally how?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 01:06 AM
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The women of PPD often act like they know what all women are up to and can speak for them all. This is the part you lost me. When has this ever happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 12:49 AM
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What on earth are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 07:57 PM
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I walk my dog alone therefore I must be sad. What kind of argument is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 05:30 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 12:11 PM
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Didn't know I hindering anyone making a choice, I was genuinely interested and wanted to know more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 11:23 PM
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Wouldn't that put you in a (potentially) abusive relationship, or would you expect the same level of altruism from your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 09:44 PM
1

Wow, really? You would give up your desires if your partner asked you to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 09:39 PM
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Fair enough, I'm just saying if forced to choose between respectful and loyal or cheating abuser the answer shouldn't be that hard for anyone really.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 02:37 PM
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I'm gonna go out on a limb and say most women would want respect, loyalty and compassion before the opposite. So option one, all the way baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 02:17 PM
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Men want to feel beautiful and wanted too, women want respect and a sense of belonging too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 01:05 AM
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Men can have multiple orgasms too..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 08:05 PM
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It's too bad he didn't answer to this, it has some valid points.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 06:51 PM
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And you are totally entitled to your opinions and potential hurt that came with it. Like I said, I hear many women around me say exactly what you posted. And the discussion needs to be had - even if most on PPD will by default disagree with you. ​ As mentioned in the article, when women ask men, men's acceptance is perceived as coming from a place of pity, as in asking is only something a truly desperate woman would do. There's also the idea that men's masculinity gets threatened when women do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 06:22 PM
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Good for you, I hope you and your family will be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 03:59 PM
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I see men claiming that men like to be approached. These claims are very false according to my experience. Any relational assertiveness from a women is interpreted as unforgivable desperation. It can and will be held against us for as long as we associate with the person. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-psychology-relationships/202011/what-happens-when-men-and-women-reverse-dating-roles An interesting article that was up on r/MensLib yesterday I think you should read. I have a link f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 03:41 PM
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I feel ya, I think a spinster is an unmarried woman, typically a bit older. Someone correct me if I am wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 02:42 PM
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Also, childless people tend to be lonley, miserable and bitter, IDK if not having offspring is good decision, if somebody can convince me otherwise, I'll be more than happy. I think you are confusing people who wanted to have kids but for whatever reason couldn't. People/couples who don't want kids and don't have kids are not anymore bitter than the rest of humanity.. Swing by r/childfree sometime if you want. Those "rants" aren't bitter about being without kids, it's about others ignorance that…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 02:19 PM
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You're missing the point. When I say well adjusted I mean just that, the mask they wear and have been wearing their entire life is such a well practised behaviour they even believe it themselves. No one is perfect so when the mask do fall they use the tactics of abuse to keep their victim in their grip. The signs are not always visible, therefore saying "they knew what they were getting themselves into" is only telling how ignorant you are about the subject. It's really quite harful too, victims…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 10:23 PM
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"Working on yourself" is almost always in a physical way, not a mental one where most of is actually needed, agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 10:07 PM
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You'd be surprised how well adjusted covert narcissts can be, you wouldn't suspect a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 10:03 PM
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Thats exactly what I said. If you ain't willing to work and make sacrifices, don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:20 PM
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If you go into a marriage thinking your partner will divorce you at any point, she/he will. It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Marriage is always a risk, you have to be willing to work 24/7, compromise, seek professinal help if needed and deal with deadbedroom, lack of lust etc like an adult, if not, don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 05:50 PM
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Basically what you are saying is if you are infertile you can never be a parent? Because if you use your spouses egg with a sperm donor the kid wouldn't be yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 05:42 PM
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What about traditional or gestational surrogacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 05:19 PM
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But you realise that those topics wouldn't interest a child unless you taught them in a very educated and fun way? If you want an intellectual conversation, shouldn't that be with someone equally intellectual as you? ​ I understand that it is hard for parents to limit their child screen time, it's like all parents talk about... But it also ain't all bad, several games have gotten me interested in topics I otherwise wouldn't have gripped me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 05:14 PM
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Dating anyone who isn’t a Virgin makes you a cuck.. my god don’t you know this? Your essentially gay if you fuck a woman who’s had another pp in her. I didn't even raise my eyebrows at this, you seriously could have fooled me to the moon and back. Maybe I spend too much time on this subreddit if I feel like this could be a genuine response ..?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:50 PM
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I can't remember my stepdaughter saying anything interesting. What would you consider interesting to hear from a child? The theory of quantum physics? The dissolution of the Ottoman Empire? Wall Street crash of 1929? How to attain Nirvana? If a child tells you something it is because they found it interesting an wanted to share and get input from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:23 PM
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Good on you, too many people out there put their new partners in front of their kids, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:03 PM
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Are adopted children included in this? As in if they are not your flesh and blood then you are not the "real" father?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 12:20 PM
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What would it mean to live a good life as a man? Chances are they are not that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 12:27 AM
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Did you hear a woooosh?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 10:32 PM
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You have never seen an abusive relationship for what it is if this is you conclusion. Abusive partners start off as loving, caring, compassionate and all other things you are looking for. They lovebomb and make you feel like your life is perfect together. Until the mask falls. It's nothing that happens over a night, it is a process. When the "discard" and "devaluing" begin the victim will stay either because they fear for their lives and/or because the abuser will manipulate the victim to give h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 08:29 PM
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Question: how delusional would you have to be to think self-improvement was invented by some red piller in the 21th century? Answer: 801735
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 06:59 PM
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You could probably find people who mastrubate over Elon Musk, though? ​ How about this: Benedict Cumberbatch or Adam Driver (and so on..) are not perceived as "hot, sexy" men based on their looks, but more on their competence, right? As in they are so competent they become sexy, hot etc. I'm sure you could apply this to other fields, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 05:41 PM
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I'm almost tempted to see if you can dig your grave even deeper, but I think I'll just leave it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 05:25 PM
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If you didn't see it, find the post about "girl inches" a couple of days ago. It's hilarious. It's filled with men taking the opportunity to tell us that they have "bigger than average" size dick.... wink wink. Men measure things with their dicks, constantly talk, boast and compare their dick to other dicks, jerk off together(?) I'm willing to go as far as to say most men think their entire personality is about their dick: men are crazy about dicks, CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 05:22 PM
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Brother, that is victim blaming. If a man gets raped would you place the blame on him "because he choose poorly" or on the rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 04:25 PM
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the risk of getting assaulted or rape but i mean maybe girls in general should be better at choosing guys Victim blaming is real easy, huh? If a man gets raped would you place the blame on him "because he choose poorly" or the rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 04:10 PM
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Amendment : Francoise Bettencourt Meyers is wealthiest woman in the world, second place is Alice Walton, neither of them got their wealth from divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 04:08 PM
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You realise that all these salty men telling you that your future is dating divorced LV men who don't want another failed marriage or more children is assuming alot about what you will want and projecting their own shit on you, right? Take care sis, hope you enjoy the shit out of your life. Whether that is with a partner or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 12:00 AM
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Wanting to work on one character is not something we can solely and exclusively connect with TRP, I'm sure you'd find some in FDS that will say the exact same thing. It's nothing the TRP created neither, they don't have a monopoly. Everyone is in need of self-reflection. ​ And honestly, telling someone that has decided to work on oneself "good luck, it never ends" is discouraging.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 11:48 PM
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It sounds like typical "younger child behavior" but I wouldn't say that women are the only ones that do it, or in a larger extent. Regardless, it's irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 06:40 PM
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Great, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 06:24 PM
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Not sure if I agree.. If a woman starts questioning her marriage only after a colleague shows of their engagment ring, which is more expensive than hers, I'd wager they weren't that happy with their marriage to begin with for whatever reason. So the ring in this example is only the catalyst if you get my meaning. Maybe it depends on class and it's true most people put way too much value in inanimate objects, yet this behaviour is something straight out of a hollywood movie, not real life imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 06:19 PM
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Just curious, what are these demands women make that are too high? Because if I just base this on the women around me it's really just: Take care of the living situations (cook, clean, wash, mow the lawn if you have one..) Have a steady income or educate yourself to secure steady income later. Respect my boundaries. ​ Not sure if I can think of anything else, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:47 PM
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Could you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:20 PM
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If you want, not a detail I care about. All the information I needed, you don't care about consent. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 11:26 AM
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You are proving my point that incels don't want to listen and challenge their views. I want to explore, otherwise I wouldn't be here, but you aren't really giving me anything of worth. You assume I said something I didn't, and now you assume you know me.. My point yet again, I think that there are less women are on dating sites because they are cautious of men from their previous experience of them. Meaning, they meet IRL instead because as I also stated, personality doesn't come across in writt…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 11:16 AM
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he's still being treated like a poor victim. They abused each other - making them both victims of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 11:02 AM
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There is proof of him being abusive towards her yet still he is revered like a holy saint. Jennfer Lawrence was shamed over those photos. The photos were attained illegally and leaked illegally so it makes it revenge porn, correct? ​ Yeah, people support the man and shame the woman. Thank you for an excellent example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 10:58 AM
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But I do think personality matter in casual hook ups too, no one is going home with you if you are being an asshole, a creep etc. Plenty of guys who are below average looking but have a positive personalites have no problem with hookups. Your look might make it easier for you, but it isn't the determining factor imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 02:40 AM
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I don't think we should downplay the abuse he did suffer from Amber, some of the calls that circulate on YT are disgusting behaviour from her part, he is a victim in that sense. That being said, I agree with you that he is being treated as a holy saint when fact of the matter is he abused her too. Look how many millions of people signed the petition to give him his job back and have Amber loose hers. Where is the shit comming from exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 12:46 AM
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I think you hear what you want to hear, and we are both assuming, yes? What do you think of OP speculating on the lack of women on OLD sites? ​ Selective based on their own safety, sure. I have no problem seeing some points that my opinions and incels have in common, but they are inherently misogynistic whereas I am not. ​ EDIT: Also, what data? All we have is you posting the same "data" three times in the same post..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 12:41 AM
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My point was that I think women shy away from OLD because it isn't as safe therefore explaining why there are less women on said sites. Also the post in question is speculating whether the lack of women on dating sites is a product that women do care more about personality more than apperance. It's hard displaying personality through text. I didn't say women partake in less sexual activites than men. In fact, we didn't mention sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 12:12 AM
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I know what I am looking for: subreddit that follows the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 11:53 PM
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Women aren't more cautious when dating than men. If that was the case, more men would be having sex than women. The opposite is true. What is this logic? Women are cautious when dating though, lot of shit can happen that men generally don't have to fear in the same amount. And I did say "I think" I don't have source, I'm speculating based on my own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 11:37 PM
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If this is true, wouldn't incels be more sympathetic tp your view point i.e that women would consider their personalities over looks? OLD has been the subject of many posts here recently, let me summarize: - Women swim in a sea of dick and men in the desert. They cannot leave the desert and it's womens fault. - Women are shallow, this is also womens fault. - Women like violent men. Suprise, it is also the womans fault. ​ Do you see a pattern here? They outright refuse to believe the overwhelming…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 10:30 PM
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Is there a back up sub ​ it’s called the real world ​ Helpful and hella woke
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 09:20 PM
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You'd think r/IncelTear but I have my suspicions.. If nothing else it's a good place to unwind after growing the braintumor this subreddit gives you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 09:02 PM
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Depends on how fat he is though and why. If he is too fat to even take care of his own hygiene I wouldn't trust him with anyone else's. Perhaps he is fat because he doesn't know how to cook nutritious, healthy food, thus making the baby fat too. We also need to account for the various diseases obesity can cause, fat people live shorter lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 08:44 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/9hraly/fact_checking_false_rape_accusations_and_why_we/ "Out of all the women you meet you have a 0.005% chance of being falsely charged of Rape." Whenever reddit debates FRA it makes it seem like men are being accused and sent to prison is something that happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 05:06 PM
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The amount of shit Johnny is getting? Not sure what you mean, Johnny Depp is like everyones favorite human being right now. Jennifer Lawrence naked photos was attained illegally, and made it to the front page of reddit.. And how does this play into false accusations of sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 04:55 PM
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Which one though, the wife or the mistress?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 03:52 PM
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Hot take: Most men have no idea what morals and values the women around them have either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 12:28 PM
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It's an interesting take. I think generally women are more cautious when dating while men aren't, which could explain the ratio to some extent. Imho, it seems this subreddit is overwhelmingly incels that don't actually want a debate or change their views so I wouldn't hold my breath finding users that want to discuss it from this viewpoint. Good luck though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 12:24 PM
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Honest question: you made this post CMV, you realise what that means?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 11:27 AM
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Well yeah, you cook as it supposed to hence showing it respect. Or you respect that a living being had to die for you to eat it. Or you respect the butcher doing a job you couldn't. What's your point? Edit: respect the farmer too, early mornings and smelly shit all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 11:01 AM
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This absolutely needs to be taken into account. I also think their respective bios needs to be included.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 09:29 PM
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Since you don't seem to be interested in discussing this any further I'll conclude: - Women could kill men and want to kill men, but they can't or won't (because they are cowardly and weak) - Women can't handle guns, even if they could handle it, they couldn't. That is why women can't be in the military or police. ​ Excellent logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 09:12 PM
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Please elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 11:36 PM
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Recoil takes a lot of strength to handle and aim is difficult. Sure, but if women wanted men dead they could just go to a gun range and practise, you know like most of male perpetrators do. ​ you cannot just go to the drug store and get poison. Yes you can, you can also make an online purchase delivered straight to your door. Just like you can make a bomb from household items. ​ And yet she keeps her job while Johnny lost his based on a false accusation alone lol. Because as of right now Johnny …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 11:35 PM
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Also, you do know that most men get away with rape? Their crime didn't count either..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 10:03 PM
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You are deflecting and didn't answer my question, if women wanted men dead, why aren't they? Guns have no restrictions and women can handle them last so checked, poison are very easy to get a hold of as well. Amber Turd is not innocent or guilty as of yet, the domestic abuse hasn't even been settled in court yet, don't confuse Johnny Depp losing his libel against the Sun with that, please. Illegal for women to go to prison? Give me a source on this please.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 09:56 PM
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Hold them accountable for their "desperation". No person on this earth is put here for your pleasure. It's really simple, show respect and decency. Check your friends if they display any "desperation" and listen to them if they are telling you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 08:36 PM
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But that is the point I'm making, shooting someone from afar doesn't require you to be big and strong. You would rather be in a concentration camp than be free?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 07:11 PM
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Lower punishment doesn't mean getting away with crime though does it? Getting away with it would be walking out of court free of any sentence. Perhaps I should have phrased it differently but my point was that most, if not all, women in US do have the power to kill men because anyone can buy a gun and go on killing sprees. Yet women don't do it anywhere near as often as men do. If women are as bad a nazis why aren't there several thousands of concentration camps killing men by the thousands?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 06:49 PM
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I think you need to read the comment again. You can't just become a hermit to avoid harassment - we all need to able to live in this world. If you get harassed by doing something so fundamental as getting groceries or a haircut maybe the problem is the "desperate" one. You probably wouldn't give the woman a pass for harassment / assault /rape because "she was desperate" would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 06:17 PM
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You're probably the kind of person who claim women can get away with everything, murder included. Guns are not under any(?) restriction in the US yet it's not women who go on killing sprees. So if women wanted men dead, why isn't this reality since we do have the power to kill?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 03:30 PM
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Convenient how the men in here claim to have a larger than average penis size yet it is women who are bad at estimating their size. Didn't know I was supposed to bring a tape measure into the bedroom to know if you are lying or not. For real though, the only people in my immediate circle who claim size is important and frequently talk about dick size are all male. "Are women bad at estimating size and don't quite care enough to verify? Are they inflating the numbers for bragging rights and becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:52 AM
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Yeah, comparing John Green, even if you don't like his books he is a fantastic author, to a glorified fanfiction writer. Not sure if that is a valid comparison. ​ EDIT: two glorified fanfiction writers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 11:31 AM
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You should avoid generalizing to make yourself feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 04:18 PM
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After reading the comments I feel like I need to remind people that a violent and abusive relationship seldom begins that way. It's part of the MO of narcissistic abuse that there are phases of "lovebombing" and "idealization" making the victim stuck in such a relationship. Therefore saying "women just want a man who is violent etc." is indeed an invalid argument, because the reason the victim is there in the first place was because she felt loved and appreciated in the beginning, and will do ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 12:52 PM
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Do you think "meek and passive" or "agressive and physically dominant" are the only two options?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 12:26 PM
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You should be proud of your mindset, you sound like a nice person. I just don't understand how to trust someone else to that level Or maybe I should say trust yourself not to give up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 06:17 PM
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Yeah I hear you, I thank you for your long reply. People change and you can't know if you or your partner will want to make things work in the future but again, that makes me sound like a cynical asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 05:43 PM
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It doesn't take into consideration as to the reason for infidelity but other than that a good summary. This is also from IFS about recurring infidelity, which I found interesting: https://ifstudies.org/blog/cheating-then-and-again ​ https://www.lehmiller.com/blog/2018/3/2/our-reasons-for-cheating-depend-on-our-personality-gender-and-attachment-style Also an interesting read with attached sources if you want to read on. ​ Sorry if this comment is really messy, I'm not good at this Reddit thing..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 01:10 PM
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I can find you a source on it if you wish but statistically men cheat more than women. And If I remember correctly with age the probability of a man cheating goes up while for a women it goes down. I read about this in several reports when studying gender studies, but like I said, I can find a source should you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 12:01 PM
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I'll probably sound like a cynical asshole but; ​ knowing that she really isn't going anywhere. ​ How do you know that? Maybe something to do with my own mental problems but how do you have this level of trust in someone else? How do you know they won't fall out of love and find someone else? It's a serious question, not trying to make fun of you. I would love to have that level of trust in people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 11:47 AM
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Everyone was welcome to the festival, cis-men too. It was just advertised as being male-free, so just their advertising was found guilty of discrimination. A screenshot of a headline isn't going to tell you the whole story. Edit: I should also probably add that the festival took place with 5000 participants in 2018, if I remember correctly. No crimes were reported. They plan on another festival in 2021.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/10/20 06:53 PM
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Yes, I remember Sweden before immigration, when rape didn't exist. Also, it's good that the Swedish government stopped investigating sex crimes as it is a job far better suited for the police...
/r/PussyPassDenied24/10/20 06:31 PM
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You deserve gold too
/r/PussyPassDenied09/10/20 07:44 AM
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