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God speed brother 🫡
/r/seduction04/10/24 08:11 PM
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Not worth it. Bang if you want I guess, but be prepared to deal with a possible crazy boyfriend. Otherwise, she’s probably just lying about him (ask me how I know lol)
/r/seduction04/10/24 06:12 PM
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Sounds like you had a great weekend
/r/seduction07/08/24 10:54 PM
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I think relationships and sex, for men, are often conflated with social acceptance, validation and, ultimately, success. Unlike women, who are generally conditioned to view strong interpersonal relationships with other people (friends, family, etc.) as essential to social validation and success, men are conditioned to believe that if they aren't sexually desirable, they've failed. This is why men often bring up finances and physical appearance along with sex, because, for most men, these things …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:34 PM
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Not specifically, but women who've had a lot of sex usually tell me about it (usually when they're trying to have sex with me) and it's definitely killed my interest in them at times either for fear of STDs or because I was looking for something more serious/ exclusive and didn't want to compete with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:57 PM
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It depends on the situation. I live with my mom (but split the rent) because 1. I'm in graduate school, so no high paying jobs will hire me atm 2. I don't like living in apartments (i've had my own before) but can't afford to pay for a house by myself. Not big on the idea of living with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:15 AM
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It was actually pretty funny (coming from a man), mostly because every guy had experienced similar situations lol but underneath that humor was certainly some sadness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:44 AM
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There was a really popular account a year or so ago called "Dudes who are down bad" which would post screenshots of conversations between men and women where men were getting turned down/ rejected real hard. It was also followed by a lot of men. I think men like to wallow in their own suffering as well as women's (which accounts for many of the self-loathing posts on this sub).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:21 PM
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I mean, I think the world’s just a different place now. It’s harder for everyone. Maybe someday it’ll change again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:28 AM
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2013-2018 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:42 AM
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There's nothing on this sub that could help that anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:01 AM
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Go to the college bar on the weekend. Talk to someone. Depending on the size of your college, you might know some people from class or around campus. Talk to people in class. Join one of the clubs on campus. Honestly, when I was in college, I would just hangout on this one bench, which was a very public place, every day. Eventually, people would just come up and talk to me because they saw me there 3-4 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:00 AM
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Exactly. Especially when you’re in the late high school/ college age. If you aren’t having sex, you aren’t trying at all or you don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:57 AM
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Dawg, drinking and driving is illegal, weed is illegal in half the states in the US, most other drugs are to. Has that really stopped anyone from doing it? To your second point, not really. At the age of 30, the average person will have had more opportunities to have sex than, say, at the age of 16. By the age of 30, 95% of people who wanted to have sex could have had it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:55 AM
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The easy things are: limit time on social media, delete dating apps, stay in on the weekends/ go to places where there are mostly dudes. Mentally, every time you see a girl you find attractive, just remind yourself, "I don't have time for this right now."
/r/seduction03/10/22 09:46 PM
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Unless you are incredibly unattractive or have the worst personality imaginable, being a virgin by the time you are 30, as a man, is basically a personal choice. Knowing someone who is 34 and a virgin, I can tell you that this dude could get laid 5 nights a week if he wanted. No, he's not religious nor is he ugly by any means. He's actually a very popular, well-liked guy who tours with pretty big named acts. Honestly, we've all seen girls (and guys) date/ hookup with people with no jobs, no car,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:36 PM
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I didn't mention it because there's nothing you can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:16 PM
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Nobody cares about your dick size (unless you have a micropenis) 2. Hunter’s eyes is just some weird fantasy bs. You can teach yourself how to convey certain things in the eyes. Actors do it all the time. 3. You can have surgery for a broader jaw line, take off fat, better nose shape, beard transplant, hair transplant, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:29 PM
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Attraction for women is more complicated than it is for men, but it tends to end the same way. Men are generally willing to give any woman who they find physically attractive a chance without really vetting who they are as a person beforehand. One of two things generally happen: 1. They go on a date and the guy realizes he detests this person 2. Guy moves into a relationship too fast (partly because of the very real fear he will lose this woman to some other guy by going too slow) and eventually…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:44 PM
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Every place is different. When I lived in Vegas, I felt like couples would be pretty matched, honestly. I moved to Colorado last year and i'm astounded by how many bland-looking dudes are with some of the hottest women i've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:52 AM
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It really depends. I'm getting a graduate degree, so i'm frequently around people on campus who are 10ish years younger than me (i'm only 28m). I do get hit on by 18yo's sometimes because I don't look as old as most people my age. I think it really just depends on the perceived age gape between two people. Women generally want someone who is a little bit older, but certainly not someone who looks significantly older. Conversely, i've found that younger women who look more matured often find them…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:58 PM
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I've gotta agree with the above comment. There are some people who just live to work and go home. There might be something interesting about their personality, but I know far too many people who have no longterm goals, passion projects, hobbies, etc.
/r/seduction14/09/22 12:58 AM
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I have a very strong personality. A lot of people have said they thought I was basically an unhinged madman when they first met me. Then they would say, “after a few months, I realized you just have a lot of social energy.” My personality doesn’t fit who I actually am I guess hahah
/r/seduction18/08/22 03:17 AM
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Attraction, especially for women, can be cyclical. I'd say about half the women i've been involved with turned me down or didn't seem interested but would come back months to years later. I think I make bad first impressions haha
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:18 PM
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I think this is true of all people, but, for most women, I can figure out, within a few minutes of conversation, whether or not I would date them. It has a lot to do with personality, personal interests, lifestyle, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:24 PM
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My dad was in his 20s throughout the 80s. We have conversations about how different dating is all the time. He said, any given night, he could go to a random bar and it would be full of single women his age looking to meet people, dance, etc. When I was in my early 20s, he didn't understand how I wasn't going home with a new woman every night. Then I started taking him out with me and showing him that 1. there really weren't women around in general, and 2. they were either there with friends/ pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:38 PM
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Jesus, those boys were cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:57 AM
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In my experience, dating success with women is almost entirely based on familiarity. Most men are very visual people and have less anxiety about strangers (in terms of chances of domestic abuse, assault, etc.). Women, in general, are more psychologically and emotionally driven. The couples we all see that look totally mismatched are a direct result of the fact that that guy was simply THERE. He was the best option around at the time and, therefore, his girlfriend chose him. This isn't just exclu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:05 AM
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I actually think it will start to swing back at some point. Maybe not ALL the way back to the 50s, but a pushback will come.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:05 AM
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Do you have data to back that up? I’d imagine that married women are having more regular, unprotected sex than single women. We’re talking MAYBE 1-2 abortions over a lifetime. Married or unmarried. Again, abortion is not a primary form of birth control for anyone. It’s a last resort. It’s expensive, invasive and uncomfortable. There is NOT an abortion crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:56 PM
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I think the problem with this thread is a bunch of people are operating under the assumption that women are having monthly/ yearly abortions because they “sleep around.” Just because you perceive women to be “sluts” and “thots” doesn’t mean they’re having abortions left and right. Nobody WANTS an abortion. It’s not a fun thing to have. Women aren’t getting their yearly abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:42 PM
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By being present, honestly. Just being around. Them getting to know me better and feel more comfortable around me.
/r/seduction21/05/22 11:15 PM
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I’m talking about US culture. Concepts surrounding masculinity have changed. In 1950, there was a script for what it meant to be a man or woman and successful (not saying that it was the healthiest or the correct script, but it gave people a path). Now, that script has been thrown out and hasn’t been replaced. There’s no direction. Plus, those pathways to success are out of reach for most of us. It’s not surprising that there are more acts of domestic terror
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:08 PM
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I think the pervading feeling i've gotten from a lot of these types of people is an overwhelming sense of loneliness and isolation, a feeling of being tossed aside or forgotten. That feeling then festers into anger. I notice it most in incel rhetoric, where there's this hyper-aggression towards women because they feel powerless in social society, particularly dating. It's been a growing concern in gender studies over the past decade. The diminishing of socio-political and cultural status for men…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:53 PM
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I was having this conversation with a regular at my coffee shop yesterday. We both agreed that we thought general acts of violence (especially violence against women) would go way down if everyone had an easy way to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:46 PM
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You are the format
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:19 AM
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I'm trying to figure out how you forget about a sex tape lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 04:11 AM
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Yeah, but are they hobbies that actually interest people (here, women), or make them roll their eyes? Most guys I know, especially younger ones, would list (video)gaming as a hobby. That's not really an attractive hobby to most women. In fact, many women see it as a problem/ waste of time. From my own experience, I would certainly agree. Just having a hobby is okay, but the specifics of that hobby should also be taken into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:12 PM
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The craziest part is he isn’t haha he’s just a very artsy looking dude. He’s 5’11, 125lbs soaking wet and hasn’t lifted a weight in his life lol great personality though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 04:46 AM
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My best friend, before he started dating his gf, fucked almost every woman I knew over a period of 4-5 years. I have a friend now who women just obsess over. It's the weirdest thing I've ever seen. Once, we were at a bar together and this random girl just came up to him, introduced herself and they started making out. At another place, the bartender followed him into the bathroom and they fucked. So, there are definitely people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:26 AM
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I always say no one does anything drunk that they haven't wanted to do sober. it's the lowering of inhibitions that causes this (this, of course, doesn't include people who are incoherently drunk and have something done to them). But I do find it strange. The more drunk I get, the less i'm interested in any sexual stuff, but many women i've dated get horny as hell when they are drunk. I know that part of that is that they know me, so they're not necessarily worried about being drunk around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:06 AM
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Agreed. Most of my success has been with women i've been friends/ acquaintances with for months/ years. Many of them initially turned me down when I first approached them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:51 AM
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I think people should also understand that attraction can be cyclical. It can come and go over long periods of time. For instance, there are women that i've known for a long time (3+ years) where i've initially been attracted to them, then not been attracted to them, then been attracted to them again, etc. Many of the women who I know and consider my friends are people who I was initially trying to flirt with and got turned down by. Even after I get turned down by them, I make a genuine effort t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:03 AM
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Mhmm mhmm okay, I’ve realized I must just be ugly. Thank you for allowing me to compare notes 😎
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:57 AM
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Bro, where you going in Denver? I just moved here and i'm sustaining massive Ls haha
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:07 AM
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27m, at least 1 a year. The past 4-5ish i've dated a few people for about a year, so it's hard to say what I could have done. Early 20s I think about 3-4 a year. Struggling a little bit in my later 20s because I look really young (20-22ish), so women my age aren't really interested. Also, just moved cities and loads of people in my new city just assume i'm gay??? I think it really depends on how large your network is.
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:05 AM
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She's not interested. Probably just being nice or responding out of boredom. People who are genuinely interested will make it very apparent.
/r/seduction24/12/21 05:31 PM
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I humorously say my career aspirations are being a stay-at-home husband all the time. But, on a serious note, I think it can be intimidating for sure. Would it stop me if I liked someone? I like to think not, but i've honestly never been in that situation. I'm 27 and went straight through my undergrad to my masters and now i'm getting my PhD. Basically, i'm saying I haven't made shit for money ever in my life because I have been working on my education. It doesn't bother me too much, but it is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:30 PM
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I think it's worth mentioning that most women (perhaps most people) on dating apps are bored more than anything. 90% of the time you're interacting with them, they aren't actually interested. Not because of you, but just because they aren't actually looking for anything really. You have to go into it with that in mind. For me, I get a decent amount of matches. Some women never respond (and never un-match me). I forget about them. Some women respond, but put in minimal effort. I'll probe it a lit…
/r/seduction07/12/21 12:23 AM
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I have long hair. All my friends have long hair. Most women love it. Some don't, but I get compliments on it all the time. Also, i've seen so many metalheads that date women who are also metalheads. That's what you have to do.
/r/seduction06/12/21 01:55 AM
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You have to read social cues. If you’re not getting the right social cues, do not engage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:51 PM
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*Checks notes*: OP was cockblocked by..... himself?
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:42 PM
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As a man, I have the same tendencies, as do a lot of my male and female friends. I think the distinction to make here is that women don't just automatically become physically less attracted to you. It's more of a "oh, this person has nothing going on in their life. This isn't someone I want to spend sexual/ romantic/ platonic time with." I've met so many physically attractive women that I just don't want to get involved with because they have no hobbies, goals, ambitions, DREAMS. I mean, you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:01 PM
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I've also learned that attraction can change over time. I've definitely met women that wanted nothing to do with me when they first met me (romantically/ sexually, anyway) and a few years later they're wild about me out of no where. Attraction isn't a static thing.
/r/seduction11/09/21 01:57 PM
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Just hit her up on social media if you have it. Also realize that you might get caught in the fallout of her relationship though
/r/seduction05/09/21 07:10 AM
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I can’t wait to read these comments
/r/seduction01/09/21 11:21 PM
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I think it’s also about appealing to the type of girl you’re trying to attract. A lot of women aren’t necessarily impressed with body-builder type dudes between the superficial “wow, he’s put in a lot of work.” What I’ve noticed is the most successful people know the type of women they want to attract and appeal to that aesthetic. That’s also where I have the most success. I know what kind of women like me and which ones don’t.
/r/seduction29/07/21 02:32 AM
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I've been using various dating apps (Tinder being the oldest) on and off for about 7 years. I think i've met ONE woman in real life through a dating app that entire time. I'm fairly confident that i'm a pretty good looking guy too. Not a god amongst men, but not a bad catch by any means. I've got a job, a car, 2 degrees, etc., but online dating just doesn't work for me for whatever reason. However, just randomly meeting people in real life has worked out really well for me throughout my life. I …
/r/seduction13/06/21 06:27 PM
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Just started seeing a professional ballet dancer. Of course her shoulders were on point, but i've never felt such powerful hip muscles in my life. So hot
/r/seduction12/06/21 05:48 PM
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Oops this is worded oddly. I meant that before I get involved with anyone I use post-nut clarity which helps me realize that I was just horny and not actually interested in them, so I don’t engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 09:13 PM
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I use it to my advantage. I’m not interested in most of the women I meet, so, to avoid getting involved with someone I don’t really care about, I use the post-nut clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:15 PM
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Well, i'd say bars and clubs, especially clubs, are going to have people who are a little more stuck-up and superficial in my experience (both men and women). I wouldn't take it too personally in these cases. If they respond rudely (as long as you're being polite), just shrug, smile, say "okay" and walk away as if it means nothing to you. As far as advice goes, every person is different. I always tell people that, if they approach 100 women, they might get 10 who show any interest. That's just t…
/r/seduction18/01/21 12:37 AM
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People, especially women, are also most interested in people that they know/ are familiar with (in my own experience). That doesn't mean you have to necessarily be a friend to have a chance, but being a co-worker, neighbor, guy at the gym, coffee shop patron, etc. that they interact with or sometimes talk to goes a long way. Obviously, this doesn't apply to ALL people, but your chances are much better if someone knows you even a little bit. Don't judge your worth by your success at online dating…
/r/seduction03/01/21 02:19 AM
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You seem like a real pleasure to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:57 AM
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I know stereotypes, but I honestly couldn’t give you the typical description of a whites woman’s face beyond blue eyes and thin lips I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:54 AM
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Cause I don’t walk around cataloging facial variations by race in my day to day life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:49 AM
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Idk what the facial features of a white woman means.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:11 AM
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I will say that I’ve also developed attraction over time to women I wasn’t initially attracted to. So, really, anything could happen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 06:55 AM
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I think certain people are just attracted to certain characteristics. Not saying that you’re saying every black woman looks like Beyoncé, but Beyoncé is just one type of woman. I’m personally not attracted to Beyoncé, but I find Gugulethu Mbatha-raw very attractive. It’s more about type of woman, and black women come in all types Edit: I’m more attracted to thinner women (because I’m thin myself) than curvy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 06:43 AM
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Sup chad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:20 PM
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Sounds like she just wants to keep hooking up with you
/r/seduction15/09/20 11:10 PM
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Well, if I hadn't, I would've shown up and she wouldn't have been there, so...
/r/seduction15/09/20 08:07 AM
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I thinking blocking is a bit too far, but I agree. This goes for everyone, if they don’t text back, just forget about it. It’s not gonna happen. I had a date with this girl last week. Mind you, she texts me asking to go out on Friday. I say sure. On Friday, I text her asking if we’re still on at around 12pm. She doesn’t respond until 8:30pm and says she’d been asleep (no she wasn’t, she was tweeting all day haha and we follow each other so idk what she was thinking). Anyway, at that point I just…
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:13 AM
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Do you know how... body types work??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:17 AM
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Try joining some sort of club or recurring social outing thing. That’s usually the best way to meet new people. Also, sometimes it’s not so bad going out by yourself if you’re okay with some discomfort. I do it semi-frequently and usually end up getting approached by people.
/r/seduction24/04/20 05:10 AM
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Depends on what you’re trying to get out of the other person. As a guy, i’d be a bit confused/ hesitant just getting a nude out of the blue. But if a girl I thought was cute struck up a conversation and then sent nudes after a few messages, I’d be more into it.
/r/seduction26/03/20 06:15 AM
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Uh? First of all, don’t get the tattoo? Second, don’t rush a relationship
/r/seduction30/11/19 07:50 PM
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