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That’s what I said.. Someone that has motherly characteristics so she’ll be a good mother to their kids. Are you even reading what I write or are you just responding?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:15 PM
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It’s like you’re not understanding what I’m writing. For the third time, most men don’t want a mother or “mommy”, they want some with motherly characteristics so she will be a good mother to their kids. Most women want a man with fatherly characteristics so he will be a good father to their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:39 PM
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The Institute for Family Studies. https://ifstudies.org/blog/on-internet-dating-sites-women-prefer-men-with-higher-incomes-and-more-education https://ifstudies.org/blog/better-educated-women-still-prefer-higher-earning-husbands Edit: slightly related article https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2017/09/20/americans-see-men-as-the-financial-providers-even-as-womens-contributions-grow/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:44 AM
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I said directly in my comment what I meant by nurture. I directly said not literally feed them and then you respond with breastfeeding? Again, I meant nurture as in support and encouragement to succeed and pursue a career or lifestyle. Most men don’t want a “mommy”. They want a woman that has motherly characteristics or traits, so she can become a good mother. The same way most women don’t want a “daddy”, they want a man with fatherly characteristics that can become a good father. It’s like you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:55 AM
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They didn’t say “most men”, they said “men”. They didn’t specify the amount. They didn’t say “some” or “a proportion of men”. If I said “women do this”, wouldn’t that imply a large proportion, if not the majority of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:50 AM
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The comment I was responding to was implying many men. They used “they” and “men”, they never said “some men”. But yeah, go ahead and speak for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:48 AM
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Most men do not want that. Most men want an actual partner. You’re describing a small portion of men and making it seem like a much larger proportion of men than it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:46 AM
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Dating apps are horrible, but how else are you supposed to meet people? Men have been conditioned, both overtly and covertly, to not cold approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:45 AM
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On average, women want a man that makes more than them and pays for all the dates. It’s not the same “providing” as it was in the ‘50s but sure isn’t a 50/50 split.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:43 AM
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I never once said womanhood is solely defined by a supporting role. I said men like a supportive partner. Women also like a supportive partner. I don’t think as anyone as a “main character” because life isn’t a movie or video game..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:01 PM
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It’s weird for a man to want a caring and nurturing woman as a partner? Really? So men should want a woman that doesn’t care about them or nurture them? Not nurture as in literally feed them, but nurture as in support and encourage their development/growth in a career or lifestyle. It’s like you have no idea what most men look for in a long term partner. Providing and caring for one’s partner is cringey? Obvious dual income households domestic labor should be split. I didn’t mention domestic lab…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:05 AM
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Most men do not want someone to clean up their messes and cook for them every day. Most men want an actual partner, that has characteristics and traits that would make a good mother. Most men know how to do their own laundry. You like just throw detergent in and hit a button. Do you honestly think most men don’t know how to work a washer machine? I can’t speak for your husband’s friend (if that story is even real), but he sounds like a bum. Do you honestly think he represents the average man? It…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:58 AM
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And in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:50 AM
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Most men know how to use a dishwasher or start the laundry machine.. You literally just hit a button. To suggest otherwise, you either are being disingenuous or must have a very low opinion of men’s intelligence. Or perhaps you’ve dated some individual men and think they represent all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:32 AM
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A lot of the traits of being a good father used to be synonymous with a good (traditional) husband, but a lot of the responsibility are rejected by modern women. Also, a lot of men are independent but it appears women don’t like how men live when they are independent. A ton of men can live with a mattress on the floor and lawn furniture, it’s become a meme for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:22 AM
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I completely agree with your definition of fathering, but most of your definition for fathering also used to be synonymous with husbandry in the traditional meaning. Modern women want to pick and choose traditional and modern concepts. They want a traditional man that provides, but has no authority or ability to discipline. They want to receive the benefits for a traditional relationship (the man provides more financially than the woman) but throw out all the traditional aspects of a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:13 AM
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Many people do talk about what father’s provide. They are supposed to provide discipline and a role model to how sons are supposed to act. They are supposed to be provide an example of a dutiful and supportive husband for a woman to look for in a man. It’s not really an insult for a man to look for motherly traits in a partner, or for a woman to look for fatherly traits in a partner. I mean don’t you want your partner to be a good mother/father when it’s time? It’s mostly woman that have an issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:08 AM
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Is a man providing for a woman not similar to the role a father provides for a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:04 AM
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No, your point just seems to keep changing. Maybe I’m allergic to inconsistency. You’re moving the goalpost. Domestic labor is obviously work, but it’s not work that is required to survive. Edit: If a wife refuses to do domestic work, her husband is most likely not going to make her homeless. If a husband was the sole earner and had a wife/family to support refuses to work, it likely would make them homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:02 AM
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No, your point just seems to keep changing. Maybe I’m allergic to inconsistency. You’re moving the goalpost. Domestic labor is obviously work, but it’s not work that is required to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:00 AM
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There’s no real way to prove either of our opinions about this over the internet so this argument is kinda pointless to continue but I would argue most men would not publicly say something about a woman’s “daddy issues” or women wanting a guy that has similar traits to a father figure purely out of the fear/belief that it will hinder dating. At the very least, it would likely torpedo a guy’s chances with a woman if she hears him say something like that. There is backlash.. It may not be extreme …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:56 AM
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If someone is providing for you, you don’t need to work to survive..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:50 AM
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It’s considered rude when a guy says a woman has “daddy issues”. People say it a lot, but it’s not something you could say publicly with no backlash from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:36 AM
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Wanting someone to provide for you financially is something a lot of women want. Most heterosexual men don’t care about their partner makes. I don’t know your gender, but even if you are a man and you do care how much your girlfriend/wife makes, you’d be an outlier. Tons of men can cook, clean, etc. and would still prefer someone to do those things for them and would prefer not to do it themselves. They are still capable of those things. The same way women are just as capable as men to go into p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:33 AM
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I could be misinterpreting your comment but none of what you said appears to refute or even disagree my statement. There’s a reason women with “daddy issues” are commonly said to be “searching for the father that walked out on them”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:29 AM
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It’s funny that a lot of people say men want a second mother (a caring, nurturing woman), but guys get hugely criticized if they were to say women want a second father (a man that provides).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:16 AM
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You have no reasoning skills if you think making a cuck pay for his wife’s/girlfriend’s baby with another dude is logical and can’t even defend it beyond “smh you’re dumb, lol”. Everyone who has read what you typed is now dumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:36 AM
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You’re the cuck if you want to pay for your wife’s kid with another man..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:22 PM
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I’m not sympathetic. I was being sarcastic. I was saying your idea makes no sense. If she doesn’t know who the father is, it’s not on the potential fathers. If the mother is this irresponsible that she both does not know who the father is and cannot pay for the child herself, what makes you think she would want to or be able to eventually pay back a huge loan with interest. It’s just a ridiculous idea. “Let’s make someone else pay because they were cuckolded, but don’t worry he’ll start getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:40 PM
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Okay but there’s a difference between taxes paying to help people and making one dude pay for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:39 PM
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Life isn’t fair, so let’s not even try to make it fair? Yeah that checks out. Your logic doesn’t make sense. I could say “life isn’t fair, not everyone has a father and some people are poor. The child should learn to live with it because life isn’t fair”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:14 PM
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How about the mother and the biological father pay for the kid. The biological father is more a chump for not taking responsibility himself. Edit: yes I’m sure the mother who lied about who the father is and cannot afford to raise the child herself will be able to pay back a huge loan with interest later in life. I know it’s a new and controversial idea that people need to bear the responsibility of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:13 PM
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Okay but why does someone who is also a victim in the situation have to be the one to pay? It’s further victimizing a victim..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:47 PM
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That’s exactly what they said. “Stop being stupid and read what’s written lmao” right back at ya. Edit: Maybe I am a communist. You have no idea about any of my political beliefs, so why don’t you keep sarcastic hypotheticals about me out of the argument and focus on what was actually said. You called the dude a “chump”. I can’t tell if you’re serious anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:44 PM
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No.. I’m not advocating for the government to do anything. You’re the one advocating for the government to force men to provide financially because of a coin flip..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:06 PM
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That’s just as bad. Do you think of fathers as just banks to take money from? Children need fathers*, not just cash. Edit: *fathers that care and are active in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:01 PM
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Why should someone be forced to raise a child that isn’t there’s? Do you think he’s gonna be a good dad with all that resentment? Most guys would hold resentment toward the mother and the obligation of being forced to raise someone they don’t actually want or care about, especially if they were originally tricked into thinking it’s their biological child. I’m sure men in situations like that will make great fathers and won’t effect the emotional well-being of the child in any way. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:58 PM
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Well yeah when it’s not your money or life, who cares right? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:48 PM
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You may be the exception, but for most people it’s an innate biological want/need that their kids are actually their own. It’s why people spends thousands on IVF and surrogacy instead of adoption. It’s not totally rational, but you can’t “explain this away” to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:39 PM
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I’m sorry if I’m misunderstanding you, but are you saying even if the dad is not the biological father he should have to provide if he loses a coin flip?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:36 PM
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Good. I wouldn’t want someone like you to be attracted to me anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:03 PM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:12 PM
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r/woooosh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:38 AM
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Yeah. How dare you bring logic and reasoning here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:01 AM
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I don’t think anything you said is unrealistic, but the fact that you can’t find a single straight guy that fits that description is unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:43 PM
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Are you saying that women expect men to act like fictional characters? If a man said that about women, he would be raked over the coals. Especially if he chose a fictional “traditional” relationship. If either gender expects the other to act like fictional characters, they’re going to be let down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:58 PM
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TIL I’m a boomer at 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:45 PM
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The wage gap may exist in your country. It doesn’t exist in the US, or at least not in the way most people think of it. Look at number 5: https://time.com/3222543/wage-pay-gap-myth-feminism/ Or is TIME magazine red pill too? Edit: it’s also written by a woman that cites scientific studies by economists on why the wage gap doesn’t actually exist before anyone claims the author is sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:45 PM
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If some women can’t tell a fuck boy is lying or pretending to like them just to sleep with them, then I doubt those same women would be able to tell if someone is lying about their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:38 PM
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As someone who is a graduate student in a major city, you would be amazed at how unintelligent some new PhD graduates are. Some of the least organized and worst professors I’ve ever had were recent PhD graduates who got a job at the university they graduated from. A PhD does not automatically mean you’re intelligent. It just means you had the connections to get good letter of recommendations, a decent GPA (which speaks more to hard work than intelligence), and perseverance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:18 PM
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Bruh are you serious? Please learn how to use punctuation. Your entire first paragraph is one run-on sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:35 AM
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I cited a study taken by professionals. Take their word for it, not mine. Edit: Or don’t. It’s up to you. I never said people had to listen to the study. I just said I think people should be told about it. Again I never specified women, I said people in general. All gender identities. Did you miss the comment above where I specifically stated that I never specified a gender and meant all people in general? What’s with people immediately making every issue all about them and their own gender iden…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:17 PM
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Your question could be asked about any type of knowledge. You’re basically arguing for ignorance. That’s like asking why tell people their chances of surviving cancer. “Why tell them they only have a 15% of living? It would only hurt their feelings.” Well because they need to know to make the best and most informed decisions. Sometimes statistics hurt, doesn’t mean they’re not important. People need to be aware of the situation they’re in or heading towards, so they can make the most informed an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:56 PM
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I’m not singling out women. I think men should be told too. It’s still their choice, be single if they want. No one’s stopping them. Statistics are against them, but they might be one of the people okay with being alone forever. Edit: I never said anything about women specifically. I said “people”. You’re the one who made it instantly only about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:20 PM
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Rude or realistic? It can be both. Most people I’ve met that have never married are not happy. That’s a anecdotal, but statistics back it up. https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-getting-married-really-make-you-happier
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:09 PM
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They never said anything about wider selection of people to sleep with. They said wider selection in general. Women (on average) have a wider selection than men for both casual sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:22 PM
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Ah I understand now, you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:52 PM
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I’m trying to reach a common ground and you’re still arguing. No behavior is unacceptable across the board? I just listed some and you said they didn’t count. I never said anything about dating specific behaviors, I just provided examples of something most agree men shouldn’t do to women. You just keep changing the rules every time I make a good point that you can’t refute. Edit: Can we at least agree that men should not lie to women or gaslight them? Which unfortunately can happen in dating or …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:28 PM
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I understand individuals are different and complex. People still need to know what behavior they absolutely cannot engage in. You’re telling people they have to “just figure it out”. I’m not sure what you’re not getting by guys just want to know what behavior is unacceptable across the board. I think we could agree on a few things that are unacceptable for men to do: Hit or harass women. Lie to women. Gaslight women. SA. Or are these things you think depends on each individual’s point of view?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:05 PM
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I can’t tell if you’re being purposefully ignorant, but it’s become common to shame men that say they aren’t attracted to an obese woman. If you say Lizzo is unhealthily obese, lots of people will berate and shame you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:54 PM
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Why can’t I generalize men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:52 PM
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Yes. That doesn’t mean we can ignore societal standards with no repercussion. Edit: what if that was used for crimes? Like murder or rape. Imagine if someone just said “society has rules and laws against rape and murder, but I don’t.” We would keep an eye on that person and they would probably be a social pariah. If they act on those words, they go to prison or are executed. Society’s rules matter, you can’t just ignore them completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:50 PM
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Are you a man or woman? Because I feel like you’ve never actually been in a men’s locker room in high school and are just imaging what conversations happen in there. No I don’t only mean physical violence for bullying. No most young men don’t only have humor that involves misogyny or homophobia. Have you met any Gen Z kids? That type of humor is heavily spoken against and disliked. Maybe 20 years ago when you were in high school that was common, but not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:48 PM
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You can say the same thing about obese women. God forbid a man say he’s not attracted to Lizzo. Edit: the difference is obese women can lose the weight. Short men disregarded by a decent percentage of western women. No need to sugar coat it. I’m not disagreeing, I just asked if you realize how hopeless that seems to short men. And btw my friend that is 5’ 5” has a steady girlfriend. So obviously I’m aware “not all woman” care about height. It’s not hopeless, but it can feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:43 PM
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We make a distinction of not allowed behavior in society. We can debate on good all day, but bad needs to be definitely defined. You may ask why? Well we define what is acceptable or not because it is needed to function in society. If we don’t define what’s bad until after it happens, then society would be chaos. That’s like having no laws and we just decide after a crime that the action was illegal based on how we felt at that moment. No one said women are NPCs. Obviously every woman is differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:42 PM
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I’m not short so I wasn’t talking about myself. I was talking in generalities. I’m just trying to be empathetic because I have a short brother and a very short friend. Edit: I see your point, but I have a friend that is a woman who straight up tells me that they won’t date guys who are short, even if their personality is a match. She says this in front of my friend who is only 5’ 5”. We all tell her it’s a little shallow but if that’s her attraction point then it’s not like anyone can change it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:27 PM
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Not true? Have you seen divorce statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:51 PM
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The way you worded it implied that most young men are bullies, violent, or misogynists? Most of the guys in my high school would not have been described like that at all. A minority of young men are bullies. I’m sorry you think so negatively of men but it seems like you’ve already decided how men are going to be and nothing will change your mind. How sad it is to have your mind made up and unwilling to even listen to reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:48 PM
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Well put. Your last lines especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:39 PM
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I never said women didn’t struggle with this either, but this discussion was specifically about a man’s point of view.. I mean look at the title of the post. It’s like some women just can’t wrap their heads around the other gender’s perspective, while screaming how men can’t understand a woman’s perspective. Edit: it’s clear we can understand each other perspectives given our explanations, so why are you claiming I don’t understand it happens to women too? This discussion is about society being …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:21 PM
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No “good” man will want a woman to be obligated to have sex with them. Most want a woman who actually wants them. It’s like you don’t know anything about how most men think and have formed these opinions from a specific type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:12 PM
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I mean “nice guys” usually aren’t on anyone’s radar. Women or other men don’t give a shit about “nice guys.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:03 PM
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I never said said there needed to be a “method”. Men need to know which behaviors are unacceptable to women. You can’t just say “you have to just know.” Society sets standards for behavior. I’m not saying everyone need to follow standards, but societies function because of standards. You wonder why men are frustrated? It’s because they don’t know the “rules.” It can seem (true or not) the rules depend more on the guy doing the approaching than the girl being approached. Some guys (correct or inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:01 PM
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I feel like you’re just trolling here but I honestly can’t tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:56 PM
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We as society do have standards for behavior. If you approach women a certain way, it is deemed wrong. But the fact that people can’t describe what that wrong way is, is concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:56 PM
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Are you a robot? Go ahead and just work on stuff and build things if that fulfills you. Most humans need human interaction and relationships, platonic or sexual. Look what happens to people in solitary confinement or stranded on deserted islands: they go crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:56 AM
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That is one of the most non-answer answers I’ve ever read. You’re basically saying “You can never know what a woman will be okay with.” How are men supposed to try and approach women when there’s no standard? Some men can be assholes and it’s cool. It’s answers like this that lead men to make claims like “women will tolerate bad behavior if it’s hot dude or rich guy.” I’m not saying that those claims are true, but it’s most likely comments like this that lead to that line of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:45 AM
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Basically no young men behave nice or respectful? Are you serious? And people wonder why men think society has turned on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:38 AM
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Bruh relationships are an inherent human need. Telling someone “you don’t need a relationship” is basically like telling someone that’s depressed they should “just be happy”. Maybe I’m misunderstanding you, but I don’t think that just telling people “don’t prioritize relationships” will work or help people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:29 AM
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Do you think all men benefit from a patriarchy? Most men under patriarchies have suffered and not have a good time. It’s like you’re only looking at the men at the time of patriarchy and ignoring all the men that don’t have enough status for you to care enough about them. Edit: Under a patriarchal system, sure two “unsuccessful” people may be in an arranged marriage, but no family in their right mind would give away their daughter (and possible dowry) to a bum simply because it’s a man. Maybe hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:58 PM
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So no one will have kids and our species will die out after millions of years of evolution leading to it being the most intelligent and technologically innovative species (that we know of) in the entire universe. I’m not responding anymore. This debate was originally about the mental health of men and now you’re just complaining about how terrible it is to be a woman. Again, I’ve never said women have it easy, but you’re refusing to admit men also don’t have it easy. You’re just want to hate men…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:10 PM
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I can also find studies that show women in their 40’s without children are the least happy. https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/high-octane-women/201109/meet-the-least-happy-people-in-america To answer your statement on women raising young: that’s biology and you’re right it’s not fair, but females in every mammalian species are “relegated” to take care of their young. Life isn’t fair for men or women, or for anyone for that matter. The answer is not to stop having children. Edit: that sourc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:21 PM
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No offense, but as an antinatalist I’m going to assume your opinion is very biased against having children. Some women love having children and don’t view it as such a horrible thing. It seems you always look for a biological reason rather than a societal or cultural reason. Having weaker upper body strength is only one factor in women not choosing more physically labor intensive careers. Another is a lot of women don’t seem to want to work as electricians, plumbers, etc. They have the option to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:09 PM
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Hahah good point, I can’t refute that. But I was just trying to say that doesn’t make it right. I’m not trying to downplay the struggles of women, but it seems a lot of women assume men automatically have it better. In some ways they do, but in other ways women do. There’s no point in arguing over who has it worse in modern society, in the past women obviously had it worse, but we live in 2022, not 1822 or 1922. There’s still work to be done, but you will only anger men struggling with mental il…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:43 PM
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No one is saying men have it worse! At least I’m not, I can’t speak for others, but I have not seen anyone claim that. I don’t think blaming biology (without actual facts to back it up) is a good way of making an argument. How would you feel if misogynists claimed certain things about women based on their perspective of biology? Edit: it seems like you just want to argue about the patriarchy and men being violent or misogynistic. There are political subreddits for that purpose of that is what yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:59 AM
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No one said men have it worse. Just a majority don’t care about men suffering, or like you deny it. “But the patriarchy means men have it good.” Nope, just the few men at the top. Most men suffer under the patriarchy, albeit in different ways than women. You’re the one making it a “pissing contest” by always saying women have it worse. I’m not trying to say men have it worse, just that it’s not great for them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:43 AM
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Okay so societies aren’t bad for women in the exact same ways too? Just because they’re not bad in the same ways, doesn’t mean they’re good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:36 AM
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Laughable to you maybe, not to all the men killing themselves or others because their mental health isn’t being addressed. In almost every mass killing, the man who committed it had untreated mental health issues. This is an epidemic that doesn’t just affect the men, it’s affecting society and causing the unfortunate and unnecessary deaths of many. Whether society or biology is to blame like you claim, it’s a societal issue that must be addressed. Edit: just saying “it’s testosterone’s fault” wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:34 AM
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Maybe China doesn’t care about mental health for either gender..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:29 AM
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It’s not biological, it’s societal and cultural. No one’s trying to control you, you’re just wrong on this topic and provided no factual evidence for your claims. You just state your opinion as fact. Not all guys are conservative or religious misogynists. No one’s trying to control you just because we tell you you’re wrong on one topic. Please read more on the topic if you want to know the facts, not just what you feel is the reason men commit suicide. If not do whatever you want. I really don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:24 AM
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Oh so again it’s other men’s fault for men committing suicide? Patriarchy only benefits the few men at the top, the majority of men also suffer under it. I think we’re done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:18 AM
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Then why did you use a bridge as an example? I feel like you’re literally just here to argue. Temporary sadness? Suicidal thoughts and idealization are recurrent, maybe temporary in the long run of a life span but can last for weeks, months, or years. Men commit suicide at a higher rate even without guns, especially in countries without civilian access to guns. Someone else already provided those statistics earlier in this thread when they responded to proof saying even when men and women use th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:14 AM
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Are you just here to argue? You’re not addressing my point and just bringing up another semi-related topic. Most societies and cultures in the world do not emphasize or care about men’s mental health. Especially Saudi Arabia. Have you ever been there? They still execute (behead) men and women for witchcraft. Many people with mental illness have been accused of being a witch in both Western and Arab/Islamic countries. Edit: in the west we no longer accuse people of witchcraft for mental illness, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:09 AM
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Okay? That doesn’t address the point. Their attempt wasn’t the first time they thought about doing it. They had thought about it for a long time before attempting. Just because they regret it doesn’t mean it was a complete impulse decision that they just came up with. They drove out to a bridge with the intent of jumping off it. That requires thought and planning, which is not an impulse decision like you’re thinking. Again, you’re part of the problem with men’s mental health being ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:05 AM
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No they are not the reason men commit suicide. Mental health is why, along with society’s lack of care about men’s mental health. Edit: which you’re playing into by ignoring the giant mental health problem with men and blaming their hormones and genetics. You’re part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:00 AM
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You are victim blaming. Men may be more impulsive, but impulsivity and testosterone are not the only reasons for suicide. Edit: It seems like you think people just think about commit suicide and immediately do it. Please read about people with suicidal thoughts, they are recurrent and people deal and think about them for a long time before actually committing suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:58 AM
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From all the responses you’ve made to comments, it seems like you just want to argue with everyone. Imagine the self-delusion of posting to an entire subreddit expecting to change the minds of everyone there because you think you know better/more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:28 PM
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1 in 3 men under 30 are either virgins or haven’t had sex in over a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:31 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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