DarthMeow504 Archive

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3	As today is Father’s Day, Disney+ has a new movie, Luca. The Little Mermaid. Actually, a ton of Disney cartoon movies now that I think of it, dead mothers are practically a recurring trope in their films.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/06/21 02:59 PM
7	As today is Father’s Day, Disney+ has a new movie, Luca. Guardians of the Galaxy vol 2: "He might have been your father, but he ain't your daddy, boy". One of the most touching scenes of the MCU, as Yondu proves you don't have to be a sperm donor to be a dad and Starlord realizes that the father he's been looking for all his life has always been there, it's the man who raised him and not the one who knocked up his mother.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/06/21 02:55 PM
-2	Leftist Loyalty to Feminism: Misguided and One Sided Yes, I would call them out as radical feminists because that's exactly what they are. What, do you think I'm afraid? What are they gonna do, not like me? Oooooh, I'm scared. Yell at me? Call me names? Big fucking deal. Pull a knife and stab me? Ok, I suppose today is a good day to die. If telling the truth carries the death penalty, so be it. I will die for truth rather than live a lie. You and several others here have completely bought into the radical hijacking of the feminist movement and ins…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/06/21 07:26 PM
-21	Leftist Loyalty to Feminism: Misguided and One Sided I've said this countless times --by definition, feminism means women's liberation and equal rights, no more and no less. The fact that there's a term for the misandrist type --radical feminism proves it, and we will never get anywhere unless we drive a wedge between the radical misandrists (whose agenda is just as harmful to women, by the way) and the mostly silent moderate majority. When we conflate the misandrist radicals with all of feminism, we're helping them de-legitimize the egalitarian a…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/06/21 07:53 PM
-19	Feminist org NOW recommends prioritizing women's needs in disaster relief programs (such as food lines after a hurricane.) No, misandrists hate men. Some misandrists pretend to be feminists. Doesn't mean they are.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/06/21 09:25 AM
12	Feminist org NOW recommends prioritizing women's needs in disaster relief programs (such as food lines after a hurricane.) The only upside is that sunlight is the best disinfectant. The radical fringe broke and was in the wilderness for at least a decade or two because they were way too open and honest about their extremist agenda. They've only been successful to this point by disguising their goals and pretending to have completely reasonable motivations for policies that oops! just happened to have the "unintended" consequence of harming men. Now they've become bold enough to throw off the camouflage and say the q…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/06/21 09:23 AM
10	Feminist org NOW recommends prioritizing women's needs in disaster relief programs (such as food lines after a hurricane.) Sadly not surprising. For all it's claims at being mainstream, NOW has rarely been less radical than "not as extreme as some and nowhere as bad as the real crazies out there". That is a hell of a low bar to clear and damning with faint praise if there was any. It would be of great benefit to feminism for the all too silent moderate majority to form an alternative, a group that actually speaks for all the reasonable and fair-minded women who are without representation.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/06/21 09:19 AM
2	"Patriarchy theory is demonstrably false and inherently anti-male." A kind of personal manifesto I worked on for about 6 hours. What do you guys think? I agree, and to me what that calls for is strict oversight without the sort of bias that might allow a group to get a free pass on things they wouldn't get away with if they didn't have such a privileged social position. A watchdog that allows for religious people and groups to do as they like so long as they aren't harming or harassing others but is ready to draw the line and put them in check when they go too far. We have a lot of that in place, especially with the principle firmly in legal pr…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/06/21 08:30 AM
4	What’s size got to do with it? Mocking a man’s manhood spurs a reverse #MeToo in South Korea "Ha, 31, said he was aware women were still at a disadvantage in South Korea and remembered his grandparents’ preference for sons growing up. Even so, he said the women’s movement was breeding discontent by lumping together all men without acknowledging the fast-changing circumstances under which today’s young men were raised." "Kim Seok-hwan, 28, said he was sympathetic to feminist causes and the need for equality, and knew violence against women was a problem, but felt increasingly turned off …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/06/21 08:17 AM
5	Misandry versus heterosexual relationships. Asking for help. she said she isn't that radical and extremist today Well there you go, that says all you need to know right there. The fact that she's willing to admit that proves she recognizes she had gone off course and that is the seed of positive change. Encourage that seed to grow, let her know how much you appreciate her willingness to re-examine her past decisions and correct where she'd gone wrong. Support her in it. Nobody's perfect, everyone makes mistakes and it can be very easy to be led astray by …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/06/21 03:42 AM
5	Do drunk women have agency? That has nothing to do with anything. Forcing someone regardless of intoxication is assault. That isn't what the topic is about. It is about someone who has been drinking and affirmatively consents to sex but it is proclaimed after the fact that her consent didn't count.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/06/21 12:54 AM
2	Rape laws are bad. I give up That is absolutely fucked up. Here in the States, it's only illegal if one party is over 18 and the other is not. And many jurisdictions have had reforms passed in recent years that cover the "gap period", the perceived injustice of prosecuting an existing couple whose age difference was acceptable when they were both younger but when one turns 18 ahead of the other puts them on opposite sides of a barrier that didn't exist prior. IIRC, it's something like if they're a year or less apart in age …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/06/21 07:30 PM
8	Rape laws are bad. I give up Wait, you're telling me that it's illegal for an underage person to have sex with another underage person? I've never heard of a jurisdiction where that's the case, for it to be a crime one must be older than 18 and the other younger.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/06/21 09:11 AM
-7	How gender still shapes how we date Come on, that's no more disingenuous than the polite pretend refusal to accept a gift. It's a little ritual to not seem greedy or overeager in the face of a gift. When someone says "this is for you" and they say "oh you shouldn't have" and the giver says "take it" and the receiver says "oh but I can't!" and the giver says "I insist" and finally the receiver says "oh then thank you so much!" they both knew exactly what was going on. It's a dance of politeness, no more and no less. I myself am aut…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/06/21 08:39 AM
2	"Patriarchy theory is demonstrably false and inherently anti-male." A kind of personal manifesto I worked on for about 6 hours. What do you guys think? Don't sleep on the church. They didn't dominate the planet for two millennia by being poor strategists or being unwilling to play the long game with utter ruthlessness.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/06/21 06:57 AM
2	"Patriarchy theory is demonstrably false and inherently anti-male." A kind of personal manifesto I worked on for about 6 hours. What do you guys think? Honestly, the answer is "yes and no". The patriarchy does in fact exist, it's just not where the radfem misandrists claim it is. True patriarchy is in the Abrahamic church, and it's only the modern separation of church and state that prevents it from utterly dominating everyone. The secular world is largely free of it, and most of where it does have patriarchal tendencies is due to religious influence. If you don't believe me, take a good long look at Saudi Arabia, or Southern Alabama. The only …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/06/21 12:35 AM
5	I came across this. And I thought it was relevant for discussion here. People who are bullied for things outside of their control will lash out. That's why the idea of "acceptable targets" needs to stop. That's some victim-blaming bullshit right there. We're branded defective and then insult added to injury by claiming we're at fault. Most of us have been bullied all our lives, we're not incels because of anything we've done or anything we believe we're incels because society has smashed a REJECTED stamp into our forehead merely for being born. I've never hurt anyone in my life but they've sure as hell lined up to hurt me. I've been outcast from day one. Any incel who claims anyone is inferior i…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/05/21 10:25 PM
19	I came across this. And I thought it was relevant for discussion here. People who are bullied for things outside of their control will lash out. That's why the idea of "acceptable targets" needs to stop. Not saying that becoming an incel is reasonable, but you know What is this "becoming an incel" about? You don't become an incel, you are or you aren't. You don't have a choice in the matter. If you want to have sex and / or romance in your life and are unable to, you're an incel period. It simply means "involuntary celibacy", no more and no less. Me, I think that's too soft a euphemism. I'd prefer to be called what I am, no punches pulled --I'm a reject.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/05/21 07:00 PM
7	Internalised Misandry: What do you battle, and how do you battle it? Feeling shame for your gender isn't an internal thing, it's forced on you by outside sources. That's why they call it internalized, because it starts from outside and is transferred to inside.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/05/21 05:27 AM
8	Liberals and progressives increasingly supporting discrimination against men and white people ! As for gender I think you'd find that if you threw out identity, there'd be no difference in actual rates of need, since there isn't a history of sexism Even if there is, it doesn't matter if you help everyone in need and don't even keep count. Just make it so if anyone needs it, they get it period. I don't see why this is so difficult for some to understand.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/05/21 04:16 AM
3	Can we talk about the sex industry? A lot of pernicious anti-porn myths here, none of them supported by science or backed up with facts.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/05/21 07:28 AM
42	As a woman trying to fight misandry, I'm feeling tired and alone. Never think what you're doing is useless or unappreciated. The hateful might not listen, but others whose minds are not fully closed can be reached. Even if they don't agree or change their minds right away, just hearing a different viewpoint than the one they're immersed in can plant a seed that might later spout and grow. Your compassion for other human beings is a credit to you, refusing to indiscriminately hate and instead extend consideration and kindness to all who need and deserve it rega…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/21 04:24 AM
0	Anyone else notice that a feminist's definition of a man doing the 'bare minimum' is often far more than a man doing the actual bare minimum? The better strategy, in my opinion, is to boost an egalitarian post-feminist women's rights movement So your plan is to invent a new word that means the same thing as the one we already have, get this new term spread and accepted, and then promote the philosophy it describes? Ok, see you in a couple of decades, during which the radical misandrists will have continued to reign unchecked and done untold damage, just to get back to where we are right now. Umm, how is that a "better strategy"? The f…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/05/21 08:07 PM
1	Anyone else notice that a feminist's definition of a man doing the 'bare minimum' is often far more than a man doing the actual bare minimum? That post references "thousands and thousands", "X, y, and z organization" and the like. It sounds like a pretty impressive list, but it's hardly representative of the fully four billion women on the planet. You seem to miss my point. I'm not seeking to absolve feminism by pointing out the vocal fringe minority as bad apples --I'm seeking to isolate the bad apples to inoculate the bunch. The dictionary definition of feminism is exactly what I stated, and I'm seeking to strengthen that and make i…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/05/21 08:52 PM
-16	Anyone else notice that a feminist's definition of a man doing the 'bare minimum' is often far more than a man doing the actual bare minimum? That was a misandrist, she might identify as a feminist but her actions have nothing to do with the core goal of feminism which is securing equal rights and freedoms for women.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/21 10:19 PM
-28	Anyone else notice that a feminist's definition of a man doing the 'bare minimum' is often far more than a man doing the actual bare minimum? I'd argue that feminism left you, or what you perceive as feminism as warped by the radical misandrists. As I often say, if you still believe that women deserve the same rights of self-determination and equal protection under the law and such as everyone else, then congratulations you are a feminist. The hatemongers who seek to hijack the name and movement for their radical misandrist agenda do not get to define the term, women as a whole do. That's your clubhouse by birthright, which means you …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/21 10:15 PM
1	Hate in the mainstream. You're absolutely right, when they lost the war for the mainstream at the end of the Second Wave they took a long game strategy and entrenched themselves in academia as a key part of the strategy. The other primary strategy is a "boil the frog" sort of incrementalism and policies designed to claim one goal and yet achieve another. It's basically the radical misandrist version of the Lee Atwater strategy. ^(You start out in 1954 by saying, “N\gger, ngger, ngger.” By 1968 you can’t say “n*gger”—…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/21 01:17 AM
5	Decent video on male dating and sex struggles, the apparent lack of empathy from mainstream progressivism, and the flaws (and good points) of PUA stuff. Dating for straight guys is hard in a way that is specific to men: guys have to be proactive. This is complicated by the fact that it is less and less the case that there is a commonly understood courtship etiquette that people are able to fall back on, which means that everyone is just flailing about like a bunch of idiots, nobody knows what they want anymore, nobody knows how to communicate or navigate boundaries or interest, and people are flaky as shit. Sometimes it feels like you need to be…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/04/21 04:33 AM
20	Why I’m done talking to conservative men about men’s issues I see this debate as being framed the wrong way from the start. The question being asked is if men (on average) are probably at least somewhat sexually interested in anything that looks moderately good. The answer is that yes, of course. That's nature. And there's nothing wrong with that. To even accept the terms of this debate as it is framed is to cede the point on the condemnation if not outright criminalization of heterosexual male desire. No other form of desire is demonized this way, you c…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/04/21 01:41 AM
7	Hate in the mainstream. Valerie Solanas went to jail, her attempted murder of Andy Worhol shocked pretty much everyone and her SCUM Manifesto was so insane and so thoroughly rejected that some have resorted to claiming it was always satirical as a form of damage control. Andrea Dworkin and Catherine MacKinnon's attempts to outlaw pornography and roll back the Sexual Revolution failed miserably, and the radical misandrist movement broke on the shoals of the "Feminist Sex Wars". It wasn't until the AIDS crisis and rise o…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/04/21 12:57 AM
16	Hate in the mainstream. Look up "political lesbianism", a horrific and gendercidal dogma that, among other things, demands that all women refuse to have sex with any and all men as a strategic weapon to punish men as a whole. It doesn't matter what the women themselves want, a commitment is demanded to go full Lysistrata permanently as a matter of sociopolitical policy. These radical extremists consider all men the enemy, and any woman who refuses to adopt the strategy and practice it without exception is considered a …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/04/21 08:33 PM
41	As a men's rights advocate you can't avoid being called a misogynist. you can change your tone as much as you want but just for being a men's advocate is enough to disqualify you. Sounds to me like the basis for a lawsuit for violating their freedom of association. and discrimination on the basis of sex, which is a part of most modern constitutions. If I were in their position I'd form the damned club anyway, self-funded and without asking for any resources like a clubroom set aside for them or whatever. Meet in a dorm room or gazebo or coffee shop or someone's home or whatever, and dare the fuckers to do something about it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/04/21 05:49 AM
0	Anyone else notice how toxic so many male feminists are? Feminists, really? Which ones? All, some, what proportion? You seem to fail to realize there are many branches of feminism both organized and not, and a wide range of philosophies under that banner. And as I've argued elsewhere, to ignore the pro-sex egalitarian branch of feminism is to cede the battleground to the radical misandrist fringe --which is what they want. They want to monopolize the debate and hijack the movement for their insane agenda. And the best way to counter their strategy is …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/04/21 01:25 PM
9	Anyone else notice how toxic so many male feminists are? Perhaps I'm weird, but I am both a male feminist and men's rights supporter. It's not a zero sum game, everyone can have rights without taking them away from others. ...ok, I'm definitely weird but still I stand by my point.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/04/21 01:03 AM
9	How did Women and Men both working become an ideal Restriction on automation Absolutely not. What needs to happen is for automation to be taxed and the revenue distributed to the population. Imagine if a company is taxed at a rate that they still come out ahead over hiring labor, and everyone gets a share of the revenue generated. Then extend that to every company that employs automation. We'd all be paid for machines to work for us, and companies still would profit as well. That's the model we should be looking towards, one where we all collect…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/04/21 09:18 PM
5	How did Women and Men both working become an ideal We don't need to accept a decline - not when the wealthy have more wealth than ever. We have more than enough resources to give everyone a good life. You are absolutely right, and to think otherwise is a dangerous mythconception. It is in fact exactly what the wealthy 1% ownership class wants people to think, "oh, there's not enough to go around, poverty is inevitable, so we should just accept things how they are and don't advocate for change, a better life for everyone is just a pipe dream". Bu…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/04/21 07:17 PM
-1	"Fathers just want custody to pay less child support". Yes, and there are good reasons for that, and it's also in line with ending gender norms. Men are more than just walking ATMs for other people to use and abuse for money. So a platform from 170 years ago is valid, but the Second Wave culture war between the pro-sex egalitarians and the misandrist radicals is not? I remind you, the egalitarians won that round, and the radicals went dormant for years and were thought defeated permanently before they staged a covert comeback and learned to disguise their goals through deceptive layers of false meaning and implement them through deceptive bait and switch incrementalism. You can doubt me as you wish, but I'm telling y…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/04/21 11:48 PM
-8	"Fathers just want custody to pay less child support". Yes, and there are good reasons for that, and it's also in line with ending gender norms. Men are more than just walking ATMs for other people to use and abuse for money. Then you should ban me next, because I am absolutely supportive of egalitarian feminism and in fact believe that awakening it to the parasitic manipulation from the misandrist radical branch is the key to victory. If you want me to reject women's rights and liberation and embrace misogyny, then this sub isn't as left wing as it claims and it's nothing that I thought it was. If that's the case, ban me next please.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/04/21 10:46 PM
3	"Fathers just want custody to pay less child support". Yes, and there are good reasons for that, and it's also in line with ending gender norms. Men are more than just walking ATMs for other people to use and abuse for money. Misandrist radical feminism absolutely exists, but so does equality-based traditional feminism. There was a whole internal culture war about it in the 60s and 70s and the pro-sex, egalitarian branch actually won. What has happened since then is that the radicals have come back and used incrementalism and disingenuous tactics and a lot of other underhanded shit to push an agenda 90% of women were never on board with then and still aren't now if they're stated plainly without manipulative, decepti…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/04/21 10:42 PM
6	Støjberg's bill on boy circumcision is medically and ethically unsound This sort of thing infuriates me. All the major faiths do it, too, they either insist the law enforces their religious belief or use their faith to claim immunity from laws that are reasonable and accepted for the entire population. They demand special privilege and rights no one else gets the benefit of. And they get away with it because religion still dominates the culture in so many places and in so many ways. The majority is either blind to their own privilege or feel entitled to it, either …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/04/21 07:55 PM
5	TW - Male Suicide This is slightly off-topic, but I feel it's a positive thing that needs to be said. Thank you genuinely for proving that, outside of extremist radfem circles, at least a great many and probably by far most women are not misandrist and are fully capable of empathy and understanding. In a space like this, where it's mostly bad news and negative observations of the problems we face, it's all too easy to focus on the vocal minority of hate activists and consider them more representative of women as …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/04/21 10:24 PM
1	"The Future Is Female" And it just goes to show you how toxic even to other women the radical lesbian misandrist feminist movement is. I mean, ok fine if a woman is a lesbian and has no use for men in her life, more power to her. In fact, if a bunch of 'em wanna make themselves a separatist society with no men and parthenogenesis chambers or whatever, that's just fine by me. Their lives, their freedom of association. I will happily live and let live. But that's not good enough for the radicals. They're not satisfied w…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/04/21 03:34 AM
2	Antagonism and dismissiveness toward male sexuality - a look at a thread asking if it’s cruel for someone to expect their partner to use condoms for the rest of their life. somehow called a rapist a) don't have sex with someone b) get called a rapist What in the fucking fuck.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/04/21 02:31 AM
1	Have we been here before? I always thought the "superpredator" thing missed the forest for the trees. I mean, ok, if these young men exist --and I think they do-- the real question is why? Attacking the symptom doesn't help much (if at all) if you don't address the cause, and it's a lose-lose situation if you look at it objectively. The first lost life is the young man themselves, who is destined for a bad end either in the ground or in prison. The second is any victims they take with them before they're taken down. The …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/04/21 09:01 PM
4	Gynocentrism and The Male Gaze Like so many other things, "sexual objectification" is a former useful concept made so broad as to be meaningless. It used to mean treating a woman only as a sex object, typically when entirely inappropriate or to the exclusion of all else. To ignore her personhood and agency and only view her as a means to sexual gratification regardless of all other factors. An example of this might be if your doctor happens to be an attractive woman, and instead of listening to her medical advice and cooperat…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/04/21 02:14 AM
2	The Church Of Woke It's funny, but this is the second thing recently I've seen that links the rise of the SJW / Woker-than-thou movement with the Occupy Wall Street protests in terms of inception date. It really does make a compelling theory that activism was deliberately diverted into social issues and a new culture war ginned up precisely as a lightning rod to ground that energy away from economic inequality and demand for genuine change that could upset the power balance that favors the economic elite. If this …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/04/21 01:49 AM
1	How Am I Supposed To Escape? the suicide rate among me is so high Considering you are most likely posting this while alive, the suicide rate among you is 0%. It's simple math. Ok, sorry, I just saw the typo and had to make the joke. No offense was intended, and I hope you got a laugh out of it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/04/21 01:28 AM
6	Where are we supposed to meet each other to date? The "political lesbianism" movement at the extremist fringe of the already extremist radical feminist movement never went away, they just stopped speaking openly about it. In that philosophy, all men must be punished by having any sex with women withheld from them, permanently, and all women should choose lesbianism instead whether they're attracted to women or not just so that they don't give men sex. Women who don't go along with this are considered "gender traitors" who are literally sleeping…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/04/21 03:22 AM
26	Where are we supposed to meet each other to date? This is a feature, not a bug. The radical feminist movement has considered all heterosexual sex to be rape for decades now, and they couldn't get any traction with that insane idea and being too honest about their agenda caused their rejection by both mainstream feminism and the culture at large. Relatively recently, they have adopted an incrementalist approach designed to stigmatize and whenever possible criminalize straight sex in a proverbial death by a thousand cuts. Things like "male gaze" …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/21 07:28 PM