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Dude I’m done. I shared my piece and my experience, you have your own views. OP would be a better person to talk to about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:18 AM
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Well I’d say being a defeatist doesn’t help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:29 AM
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Okay let’s have the OP u/rubydiscus discuss this. I’m telling you my piece. She’s the one who mentioned bonus. Let her explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:44 PM
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My mentor is 5”10ft and average looking and chubby build (Kevin James build). Why does he do well? He’s extremely ambitious. His outlying factor is he has a deep voice. The guys are exaggerating or lying than. People on drugs and alcohol make stuff up or are delusional. I did shrooms and I thought I was the next messiah… but I’m an atheist and was obviously not myself. Locker room talk of both guys and girls is not reality, of what happens. As you said actions speak louder than words. Most woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:16 PM
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Sure, it's not necessary for dating, but I'm sure you get a lot of sex, and women come back for more even if you're not dating. Sure you get many FWBs or exs looking for hookups. *My life mentor is averaged sized and has many FWB. I’m not monogamous so theirs that (yes they know).do I have many fwb yes, but if I was average sized i would do just as well. No I don’t hook up with ex’s, not my thing. Many guys would love to be sexually desired the same way women sesxually desire hung guys. That's t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:20 PM
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Look than you agree with me that it’s overhyped as it makes no big life impacts. Sex wise, like I said mouth and tongue will do 10x what a dick can do to make a woman orgasm. I’ve never had sex with a woman who orgasm from penetration. They exist but they are again… outliers. Now if a majority of woman orgasm from penetration than I’d be wrong and you would be right. But that’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:06 PM
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Positive ? If you want to be a porn star sure and dating a size queen (outliers). For other life aspects, no. Does having a big dick get me promoted to an executive level of a Fortune 500 company ? Will I become a billionaire from it ? Will I solve world problems from it ? The answer is no. In fact name me a positive aspect besides wowing someone for the first 5 seconds of getting undressed and then becoming a faint memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:56 PM
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My dating life would be the same if I had an average sized penis. You think having a big dick would make your dating life any better ?! Tell me what advantages it gives? Makes a woman orgasm more easily ? That’s a minority of woman, my mouth and fingers does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:42 PM
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Having a big dick is really an overhyped thing. It didn’t save me from having shit relationships (our chemistry was off) or having a very mean partner (I had only one and learned from this). This was when I was younger and I got better with dating from experience as I got older. Not one girl ever asked my penis size on a first date or an app. That would just be very weird/awkward. What I’m trying to say is you’re really not missing out on much. If you magically grew a 7 inch dick your dating lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:03 PM
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I don’t want to get married so this doesn’t apply to me. However my only requirement for dating someone is just be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:16 PM
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I was not talking about cigarettes bad breath, I don’t hook up or date with smokers (my preference) and it wasn’t on my mind when writing this. I’m talking about general oral hygiene. imagine making out with someone who skips brushing their teeth every few days, hasn’t flossed in year, has cavities, and has gingivitis. I would run away. But if this turns you on and you have a fetish for bad breath, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:07 PM
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Most people even if they are basically hygienic are not properly orally hygienic. Lots of people don’t even floss before going to bed daily. **To all lurkers reading this, Brushing your teeth 1x a day is not enough, you should aim for 2x. Also floss your teeth people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:40 PM
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This is underrated, having good breath Not having stinky bad breath haha this is not talked about enough. I’m a dude and I always have a mint,gum, and brush my teeth 3x a day. Imagine kissing a dude with terrible smelly bad breath, sex will not be enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:24 PM
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We wear clothing most of the time, except on the beach, or pool (which I’ll agree with you there) and when we shower/bath. I’m not understanding how it makes someone more attractive on a day to day basis. If anything the regiment, having goals and reaching them boosts self esteem which boost confidence which makes someone more attractive by vibe and socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:40 PM
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As someone who was thin and muscular, it really made no difference in my dating life. I’m currently thin again and it’s never been a problem for me finding dates on tinder, hinge, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:51 PM
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As someone who was thin and muscular, it really made no difference in my dating life. I’m currently thin again and it’s never been a problem for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:48 PM
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I think larger cities are better with more diversified types of folks. For example I went out with a variety of woman: goth, a hipster, teacher, dancer, etc. I like meeting different types of people with different personalities with hobbies and interests. Larger Cities would work better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:32 PM
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I’m afraid to break to you that space marines from warhammer 40k don’t exist. The amount of tall handsome dudes I know are not confident. In fact most men these days have no cojones. The ones I did know who had balls were average looking guys, who were very ambitious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:28 PM
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Okay I’d say masculinity is attitude (confidence and other traits). Imagine a tall and handsome guy screeching like a 5 year old if they see a spider or a mouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:13 PM
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While I agree, when I first started dating and was monogamous (I’m not monogamous anymore) and was dating a woman for 3 months who loved my size, however we rapidly became distant as we had nothing in common and broke up. In hindsight she would be a good FB not a girlfriend which would be better for us both. Hindsight is 20/20
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:05 PM
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Be yourself “Be the Best Version of Yourself” maximize the positive, and minimize the negative. This is my advice. Show feelings *No, this is dumb advice Looks don't matter Looks do matter to a degree. However you don’t have to be a male model, but you should present yourself in the best way possible. Have fucked up teeth, get braces. Have bad hair style, get a good barber to help. Have no fashion style, look up fashion style on instagram and order cheap versions from temu instead of spending to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:41 PM
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Use dating apps. But use very good quality photos. Why dating apps? It’s less exhausting. It’s saves me time and energy especially if you’re a busy person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:31 PM
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Okay my sisters are both doctors and married professionals because they want someone who can relate to them on an educational level. Should they have not worked and not saved lives to be a “trad wife” since morality of this concept this takes over morality of life saving ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:51 PM
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Well it depends, are you attractive?? From my experience being an ugly teenager throughout middle school and high school, no girl was interested in me, I was called ugly to my face from others. During college my freshman year my face changed up. (My eyebrows went from invisible blonde to dark brown, and my face went from chubby to thin). I have a picture of me currently on my profile, if nobody believes me. The difference was obvious, I never had an issue dating or hooking up ever since. Compare…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:20 PM
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From my experience being an ugly teenager thought middle school and high school, no girl was interested in me, I was called ugly to my face from others. During college my freshman year my face changed up. (My eyebrows went from invisible blonde to dark brown, and my face went from chubby to thin). I have a picture of me currently on my profile, if nobody believes me. The difference was obvious, I never had an issue dating or hooking up ever since. Compared to my friends, dating apps were and sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:08 PM
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No your making out being average is not good. Is it an advantage? No. Is it bad ? No. So what is it than ? Average. My question to you is can an average guy succeed with woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:03 AM
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I never said that. I said it’s okay to be average looking and you can still do well with woman. In fact their was an average looking who was homeless. Yet he was sleeping with woman and picking them up (not my style at all or encouraging his lifestyle) Here’s the video documenting him. https://youtu.be/bmav517MQJc?si=3kCcbhfqOp-2FwE4 No excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:55 AM
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You don’t have to be attractive, you can be average and have woman still be interested in you. I’ve known way too many average looking guys who did very well with woman. In fact I had a fraternity brother who was good looking. You know what happened his girlfriend cheated on him with an average looking guy and broke it off with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:50 AM
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Well yea. One time me and a celebrity at a comic con, (not naming names out of privacy)were both at a booth. A very attractive woman working at the comic con was talking to both of us. She gave me her number later and was repelled by the celebrity as he came across as emotionally crazy (body language and her facial expressions showed it). I came across as chill. She came over to my place and we fucked. Afterwards I asked what she thought of the celebrity. She said he was unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:34 AM
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Well being attractive doesn’t mean shit. if someone is a raging crazed lunatic no normal woman will want to be near them no matter how attractive they are. Trust me, I’ve seen good looking dudes blow it because they come across as unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:28 AM
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Okay u/solondthewookiee what is Chris Hemsworth importance in this debate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:20 AM
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Okay I’m completely lost in this debate? Why does Chris Hemsworth have anything to do with this? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:16 AM
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Okay OP I’m going to do you (and other guys on here a favor). You know what is extremely attractive emotions to have? It’s a personality similar 007 in this scene from “Dr.No” https://youtu.be/b15-P12gIf0?si=czfk6R-FerRqbD8e James Bond in this scene demonstrates: He’s cool He’s polite He’s confident He’s calm He’s suave
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:02 AM
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Well yea, nobody wants an emotional baby. You know what else is highly valued, not giving a damn and having a life mission.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:51 AM
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I feel like it depends on context. From my experience as someone who was an ugly teenager from middle school to high school, dating was impossible for me, I couldn’t attract someone. In fact I was called ugly to my face a few times My face changed up when I entered my freshman year of college my chubby face slimed down, and my pale blond eyebrows darkened up. I never had an issue when it comes to attracting a partner since than. So I have my own bias based on experience. Now keeping someone attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:29 PM
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I was both skinny and muscular, and currently skinny (note: I have natural broad shoulders). being muscular didn’t make any difference in my dating life. Unless someone is malnourished or overweight I feel like it won’t make a difference, however your confidence in your body is what makes the difference. Confidence is the most crucial factor in all life factors, including dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:40 PM
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good-looking Me: (it only helped so much, you have to put in effort, I know many good looking guys who can’t get a date to save their life. Their game and confidence is shit). short wear lifts This is not socially acceptable to do, and once you've secured attention from a woman, they will have to come off eventually and she will realize how short you are. The bigger the lifts, the worse it will be when they come off. Me: (Wear 1-2 inches at most, I wear one inch and I’m average height 5’9ft and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:49 PM
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Dude I’m good looking and 5’8ft and had trouble till late college. It was trial and error. Also the people I did get advice from were mediocre/average looking. What separated them from other guys is that they put into time to learn how to date and trial and error (I asked them). Also dudes overall make themselves feel like they are unattractive/ugly. Most guys are average looking. Hair loss take finasteride, short wear lifts, facial structure bad plastic surgery (extreme case). No excuses unless…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:30 PM
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If someone is putting in minimal effort to improve then I can’t help them and no body else on this earth can. This is common sense, as everything comes from within, putting in no effort won’t accomplish shit. If Tom Brady put no effort into being a good quarterback then he’d be mediocre football quarterback. Also I could start up a business in this and do very well, however many others are doing this already and it doesn’t make too much money. I have my current business with a niche already, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:54 PM
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It was not normal and easy for me. It took me effort and time of trial and error I had to learn myself as people give sh!t advice. The difference between you and me is that you tell someone socially anxious to give up. Well I tell them rehearse with me as it makes things way easier for them. I tell them fortune rewards the brave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:41 PM
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any social skill like how to talk to the opposite sex is very is learnable and easy, they need to rehearse with someone like me or someone else who is also experienced to learn how to flow conversation and get critique, till it becomes second nature. This is no different than learning any other skill. You’re making out like this is a very unique and abstract skill only a select few can learn like neurosurgery or astrophysics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:32 PM
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Well I mean stuff more like opposite sex conversations as it seems dudes lack this social skill these days, or how to meet people on dating apps which is easier than people make it out to be. I helped someone that later became a friend of mine with his dating profile pictures and how to make dates quickly from tinder or other dating apps instead of writing a boring back to back conversations that goes nowhere and not getting a single date. He had good results now and is very grateful I helped hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:25 PM
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I agree, however sometimes people give advice on certain situations is good to have. It’s why some entrepreneurs hire consultants or even ask family members or friends who are in entrepreneurs themselves for advice before they start up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:14 PM
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Learn to dress. I.E. Look on men’s fashion instagram which is very easy to do, or hire a fashion consultant if you want to spend the money. Frankly my advice is probably better than yours from what I see you just wrote. I’m willing to give advice for free that other guys would charge for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:10 PM
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Sounds like you ran into assholes. Unfortunately not to many people are nice and tend to be selfish regardless of age or gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:10 PM
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some of us are “outliers” I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:34 AM
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Thanks for the all those tips 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:06 AM
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2 questions, 1.) What would you recommend if the guy is short like 5”8ft (real 5”8ft not the inflated one a 5”5ft guy adding 3 inches calls himself ?) if they are conventionally handsome would it balance things out ? 2) what do you recommend for wearing on a first date a at nice bar in your opinion ? Not to overdress and not underdress 3.) what is the 5 most important thing in SMV in your opinion, from most important to least important?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:38 PM
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Dating apps you can bypass the filter if you get a monthly premium
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:52 PM
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What was online dating like for you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:20 PM
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What’s it like in dating apps or dating in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:42 PM
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“always have baggage.” Is a bit of an extreme absolutist statement, which is false imo, as we don’t know the entire male population 35+ and their issues or non issues. For example maybe the guy has kids, depression, bad divorce, debt, etc. However there are men who have none of those problems and the same for woman (in fact I knew a woman who was 34 without kids and single since she was in medical school and finished a residency and rarely had time to date). so I don’t understand how you arrived…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:40 PM
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Well we have different experiences than haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:45 PM
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My cousins are Dutch so Its different tbh. I do know Dutch doctors make good money compared to the Swiss. My American neighbor is an orthopedic surgeon and does investments and does own real estate (cool dude btw). Did I answer your question ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:22 PM
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It’s an American cultural thing. In Europe it’s not rude per say but seems noses from my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:04 PM
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Woman find men who are: ambitious, hard working, attractive because it makes a guy confident and gives off a good aura. They then get dates which makes a guy even more confident than more attractive as he gains more confidence. Do something ambitious and work hard at it, would be my best advice as the rest falls into place. Society doesn’t want ambitious people they want drones who do whatever they are told.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:45 PM
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