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5

Confidence is very important if you want to seduce older women. You must show your confidence but also show your maturity. Next time you can say something like "Age is just a number".
/r/seduction19/09/19 04:00 AM
4

"You're too young for me" was a test, and you failed.
/r/seduction19/09/19 03:54 AM
1

When you discus with a girl you can say that the next week you will visit an exhibition/go to a fancy bar. If she is interested, she will probably react, ask questions. Then you can always say "oh yeah, let's go together, give me your phone number and I'll text you".
/r/seduction22/07/19 02:24 AM
3

"I'm not jealous" "Me, I have a dog"
/r/seduction16/06/19 11:14 PM
1

Confidence and a coffee or a glass of wine.
/r/seduction01/06/19 12:37 PM
1

"Hi"
/r/seduction30/05/19 11:51 AM
2

Any work with customer interaction. But I would also suggest to not focus only on women but also on global - social interactions ( women, men, young - Old people,...) .
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:06 AM
1

I prefer offline dating, it's much more fun, direct, no bad surprise.
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:25 AM
1

"Real life", it's just behind the door.
/r/seduction20/05/19 02:50 AM
-5

First thing do not mention the age gap. You can respond something like (always with a large smile and looking into her eyes) : Age is just a number (like 69...) Don't worry I am legal Don't worry I know how to make you feel young again Old enough to know how and young enough to last the whole night. I don't care about age, I care about connections Don't worry I can slow down for you Are you worried you won't be able to keep up with me
/r/seduction16/04/19 11:49 AM
2

If you are waiting for university to start, I would suggest to go to gym at different moments during the week. People have a routine: wake up at 6.30am, drop children at school at 8.00, gym from 9.00 to 10.00am You will have the opportunity to meet other people.
/r/seduction26/03/19 04:33 AM
1

Do you really think that milfs go to the gym at around 7.30-8.00am? They go to the gym during school hours...
/r/seduction26/03/19 04:21 AM
16

Do not see her outside of the bedroom. No afternoon at the beach, no friendly plans, only sexual plans.
/r/seduction17/02/19 01:32 AM
1

Have a look on Google Maps, with "coffee places" or any places of interest.
/r/seduction11/02/19 02:03 AM
3

"I'm not jealous"
/r/seduction03/02/19 08:20 PM
2

Movie for a first date is not a good plan. You are sit in the dark during almost 90 minutes and you can't talk and it can be "expensive" I would recommend to show her your best coffee place, go to a minigolf, ping-pong bar, arcade game bar, cat coffee,....
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:14 PM
6

Never make plans, it never turns how you planned your plans, never.
/r/seduction03/01/19 03:35 AM
6

Start dating other girls.
/r/seduction01/01/19 01:18 AM
28

Stop talking or asking for responses from her, act like a man. Set up a typical "movie/Netflix night at my place or at your place" and you will know.
/r/seduction26/12/18 05:00 AM
1

Hi/Good evening
/r/seduction17/12/18 01:29 AM
7

In real life, since 2019 BC
/r/seduction15/12/18 01:37 PM
1

You know your problem, so why not taking some dance initiation classes?
/r/seduction09/12/18 11:45 PM
3

There is no secret, practice, practice and practice. Learn from your mistakes and see other girls.
/r/seduction09/12/18 12:25 AM
3

Find another bird, trust act and never talk. Your parakeet told you she is not happy but continues to see the other pigeon.
/r/seduction09/12/18 12:19 AM
2

A little change every day/week, progress step by step, do not try to change/improve your life in one day. It will be a daily challenge and you will slowly see your progress.
/r/seduction08/12/18 05:39 PM
1

Excellent idea but going to the arcade place and mini-golf for the same date is maybe too much and too similar. You can say for the arcade place "the looser will pay for the coffee/ice cream" and you can go to your favorite coffee place. You can also install a "bet game" and say "If you win..." and adapt depending on your situation.
/r/seduction05/12/18 01:57 AM
7

I would suggest some activities where you can initiate physical contacts so I do not think trampolin Park is a good idea. I suggest snooker and you can always "teach" her how to play, show her where she should put her hands. The best to initiate physical contact is a dance class but if you have no experience it's sometimes a bad idea.
/r/seduction04/12/18 04:03 AM
2

Because you are more than 18 year old 🙄
/r/seduction02/12/18 03:05 AM
24

Definitely not, it's self confidence.
/r/seduction01/12/18 11:49 AM
4

Next time, to be sure that the phone number is correct (or not fake), call her directly and say something like "now you have my number too, don't harass me to much" and you give a wink. You can also take her phone, create a contact for you, (you can give you a super nickname) and then you directly call you, so like that you will have her phone number too.
/r/seduction29/11/18 04:44 AM
9

I suggest to remain polite but not more, not less. Are you sure she gave you her correct phone number?
/r/seduction29/11/18 04:22 AM
1

Well, if she is 16 - 17, it's normal. How old is she? Otherwise, it means that your texting is bad. Text messages at which she can reply something else than "lol". Use open questions, ask her opinion like "Are you more coffee and tea?" "What kind of music do you listen when you run? And in your car?".
/r/seduction24/11/18 01:08 PM
2

Start by breaking up with your partner.
/r/seduction23/11/18 01:32 AM
1

Send her "I lost my phone number, may I borrow your?"
/r/seduction20/11/18 01:24 AM
3

Start new hobbies, continue exercising, running, it's good for your health and your physical appearance. Learn cooking, you can cook for her one evening. Learn photography, read books, continue to see your friends, go for a drink with then... You will have an interesting lifestyle, learn n new things and you will have a lot of things to discuss and show her when you will see her. She should be a plus to your life and your life shouldn't be only focus on this woman.
/r/seduction18/11/18 11:10 PM
5

It's all about life balance. You need time to work/study, time to relax of your work/school. But also need time for your hobbies, clean your home, buy groceries. I would also recommend to avoid routine, like seeing her Tuesday evening and Thursday evening. But create something dynamic and see her when you want to see her or she wants to see you.
/r/seduction18/11/18 11:01 PM
6

It's all about your self-confidence.
/r/seduction18/11/18 12:47 AM
1

Check local events, concerts or happy hours events on FB near your work or home. Have a look on meetup and see if you can join some group or events of interest. If possible, use public transportation but do not keep your eyes on your smartphone all the time and don't use headphones.
/r/seduction13/11/18 01:59 AM
1

The only where you can't meet new people is on your couch at home. Go for a walk, use public transportation (no headphones, do not use your smartphone but start looking people, smiling greeting them). Go for a drink after work, start a new hobby. When you go for shopping or buy groceries, you can meet new people. As previously mentioned, meetup is a nice idea to find people with a common interest. Go to events (FB is good to see a list of local event). I would also say, as soon as you know which…
/r/seduction11/11/18 03:39 PM
5

Next time, ask for her number...
/r/seduction11/11/18 02:07 AM
1

Continue your game with her, be playful, flirty but also show that you are a confident young man. Show her that you know what you want. She is a lady so she wants to have fun, that she can still be attractive but she is a little bit mature (never mention your age difference or say she is old) so she also wants someone confident and well educated with good manner, well dressed (casual, no baggy), who knows how to manage his life, independent. Do not "ask" her for a drink but say something "Hey we…
/r/seduction29/10/18 12:38 PM
1

How old are you and how old is she?
/r/seduction29/10/18 12:19 PM
11

She is single?
/r/seduction29/10/18 12:08 PM
3

"Hey HerName, sorry I was quite busy with work these last two weeks, are you up for drink/coffee/glass of wine? I know an excellent bar/coffee shop/wine bar, are you free Wednesday or Thursday evening? "
/r/seduction29/10/18 11:47 AM
1

And casual attire, not too fancy and do not dress like a teenager.
/r/seduction13/10/18 11:52 PM
2

"Old enough to know how and young enough to last all night" "Age is only a number, like 69" "Yeah, you probably need more sleep at your age. I promise that I will let you sleep after 3 or 4 orgasms." "Don't worry, I know how to make you feel young again". "Don't worry, I'm legal" "I'm not into girls, I'm into women"
/r/seduction13/10/18 11:49 PM
5

She is 42, you are 24. If you go for a date it's probably not because she is looking for a puzzle partner :)
/r/seduction13/10/18 10:34 PM
2

Be confident, good manners, be a good conversationalist (good topics), and know how to treat a lady at the wine bar (and in the bedroom...).
/r/seduction13/10/18 10:27 PM
1

Don't waste your time in texting. Use texting to set up a date/logistics and use the date to discuss, develop interest.
/r/seduction04/10/18 03:45 AM
7

No big deal
/r/seduction13/09/18 03:24 AM
5

You should respond "Kennedy, you shot the words out of my head”. More easy to understand and girls like seeing and hearing their first names.
/r/seduction13/09/18 03:23 AM
1

It's true that you should setup a date as fast as possible. However, you shouldn't be to fast too because you need to install a minimum of trust before setting up a date. If the person doesn't know you enough, (s)he will for sure flake you.
/r/seduction08/09/18 11:01 PM
2

Personally, when I date someone it's not to play chess... She already knows what you want. After a date in a bar, you can suggest a future date at her/your place to watch a movie. If you can cook, bonus point. You can also cook together or if the date is at her place, you can also bring the ingredients and a bottle of wine.
/r/seduction08/09/18 10:31 PM
3

You are a guy and she is a woman, both of you are humans and adults and know what could potentially happen so it's not necessary to mention it (and it's creepy). Women are looking for confident guys, who know what they want. At the moment, I would suggest to contact her, set up a date at a bar as soon as possible (next week).
/r/seduction08/09/18 10:21 PM
17

It is more difficult to approach workers than customers when you are opening in a store. You experienced one reason... A second reason is that workers can have rules of conduct (be polite with customers, do not flirt/date with them,...) and the interaction between you and the worker is not "real". She will be polite and respectful with you even she is not interested. If you want to practice approach, you can go to parks, streets, or to a mall, but in the hallways, not in the stores.
/r/seduction08/09/18 02:21 AM
13

Do not accept the friendship and do not use it for revenge, it is pitiful. Continue your life and progress. If she wants to keep friendship, it's only when she will have bad moments and one day she will come to you to ask you for emotional support when she will meet a new guy.
/r/seduction04/09/18 03:58 AM
1

Did you keep contact with her? Facebook, text, email?
/r/seduction04/09/18 02:59 AM
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