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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
224	This is why we can’t even trust the “good” guys. Yesssss!!! This is something I’ve come up against time and time again. Men don’t believe women when we disclose, they try to downplay it and dismiss your experience because the guy in question has never treated them that way (duh? They aren’t attracted to you). I’ve had male friends, partners and even my own brothers do this to me on multiple occasions with different guys who’ve been creeps/inappropriate/ given me the ick. It’s so frustrating and makes me so enraged because they are deliberately…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/21 04:17 AM
87	i felt this one deep within my soul I do this, I just keep speaking until I’ve finished my point. When they ask me to repeat myself I just stare at them pointedly for a few seconds. Doesn’t always work but it points out their behaviour without being aggressive or rude.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 05:51 AM
10	Could your lack of sexual interest in your man actually be the result of hidden contempt? I’d love to read this study!! Also seconded to the respect! My ex and I had an amazing sex life for most of our relationship.. then after multiple breaches of trust I found I didn’t respect him anymore and my interest in having sex with him dwindled completely... in fact I was actually slightly disgusted by him. Thankfully I was aware of that being the reason for my drop in libido and I didn’t go through the self doubt and blame that a lot of women on this thread went through. But it’s pretty in…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 11:24 AM
2	Men using LinkedIn to pick up Yes! Happened to me for the first time this year! I've received the usual recruiter messages before so when this guy sent me a message I didn't hesitate to open it - regretted it immediately. We had no connections and don't work in the same industry at all and his message was very creepy and not professional at all. Why are men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/20 08:48 AM
1	A (male) professor admitted he never had any intention of learning his wife's first tongue Haha I have worked with so many male academics like this! When I ask them why they never learnt they just shrug and when I keep pushing they don't understand why it's a big deal.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/20 08:14 AM

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