Dasque Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Friend in a major custody battle	Discrimination	Dasque	/r/MensRights	05/05/14 03:54 PM

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22	Breitbart covers MGTOW Yup. It couldn't be the men and boys who have spent generations being devalued, demonized, called misogynists, rapists, and pedophiles... Nope, the real victims here are the women who aren't haaaaappy. WON'T SOMEONE THINK OF THE POOR LONELY WOMEN?	/r/MGTOW	04/12/14 05:42 PM
8	Anger, is it just a phase? A question from a New guy getting into mgtow. The thing that made me angry was the feeling that I've had something important stolen from me. I know I'd be a better parent than 95% of the people on earth, but being aware of the risks involved means I can't be that man whose great-grandchildren love to be around. Having that future stripped away by the necessity of self-preservation... it hurts. And it pisses me off. Not traveling the traditional path means that I have more time and resources. I can use those to further my own goals for socie…	/r/MGTOW	20/11/14 12:45 AM
-9	Maybe its not just because they were men after all. In order to replicate the results of the infamous 10 hour walk through New York, an Australian Newspaper sent a 20 year old model in short shorts through Sydney. She received no "harassment" of any kind. Not one. [Citation needed]	/r/MensRights	04/11/14 06:21 PM
5	Feminists accuse Anti-Rape Culture rally by feminists of promoting rape culture When they say "respect", they mean "venerate". Once you make that switch all the statements and complaints about people who "don't respect women" start to make sense.	/r/MensRights	25/10/14 08:25 PM
29	Was It Rape? A handy flowchart, courtesy of lawcomic.net. Was the other person too drunk to know what they were doing? Doesn't matter, you were raped." But you only get to that question if you answered "yes" to "Did the other person know they were having sex with you against your will?" Then the whole thing is nonsense. If someone is too drunk to know what they're doing they by definition cannot know that they are having sex with you against your will, because they're too drunk to know what they're doing. The first question is important to establish me…	/r/MensRights	23/10/14 05:14 PM
2	Male student expelled for being raped by teacher. Only makes the last paragraph, in passing. Context. This student was bragging to friends. A school with a zero-tolerance sex policy basically has their hands tied here. They can enforce the policy or they can set precedent that the policy is toothless. Religious schools tend to be more forceful when it comes to female promiscuity, not less, so if you have a male teacher and a female student who brags repeatedly to her friends, she's going to get the book thrown at her, too.	/r/MensRights	23/10/14 03:56 PM
10	Was It Rape? A handy flowchart, courtesy of lawcomic.net. Yes, in the same way that we've seen D.A.'s offices and crown prosecutors infer that for years. This is the state of the legal system.	/r/MensRights	23/10/14 03:51 PM
98	Was It Rape? A handy flowchart, courtesy of lawcomic.net. The very end. "Was the other person too drunk to know what they were doing? Doesn't matter, you were raped." Applied equitably, this leads to the notion that both parties were raped. Present legal and social climate interprets that as male rapist and female victim.	/r/MensRights	23/10/14 03:40 PM
1	Male student expelled for being raped by teacher. Only makes the last paragraph, in passing. Misleading title. Private religious schools often have policies strictly stating disciplinary action for students who aren't abstinent. It's likely he was expelled for willfully violating that policy (repeatedly) and not for being the victim of statutory rape. File this one as WBB or in /r/pussypass if she gets a lenient sentence if you like, but this situation would likely be the same with reversed genders.	/r/MensRights	23/10/14 03:35 PM
167	Was It Rape? A handy flowchart, courtesy of lawcomic.net. Still not sure about this whole "we're both blackout drunk but only the woman was raped" thing. Otherwise a nice consolidated source.	/r/MensRights	23/10/14 03:25 PM
3	Was It Rape? A handy flowchart, courtesy of lawcomic.net. Out of the blue? Yeah, better start away from that. With prior agreement? Go for it.	/r/MensRights	23/10/14 03:23 PM
6	"Emergency food rations... made available first and sometimes exclusively to women as ‘female heads of households.'" We have these miraculous things called computers and databases. Easy fix for double-dipping: take ID or a piece of mail as an address listing, turn away after the first instance of the address. Allow for individual judgment calls on going over the head of the computer to account for multifamily dwellings and the like.	/r/MensRights	13/10/14 06:43 PM
7	Gone Girl is hitting a nerve. It was posted on avfm	/r/MensRights	06/10/14 05:38 PM
1	Male Circumcision IS comparable and equitable to female circumcision. The owning, buying, and selling of blacks and Irish was once the norm in the United States. Doesn't make it any less barbaric or wrong. If a story came out that some hospital was cutting off the left pinky toes of little boys and girls because of some "social norm" we'd be rightly incensed about it, and so would the rest of the world. MGM is no different.	/r/MensRights	28/09/14 03:57 AM
11	Please contact Calgary Transit and let them know that it is not acceptable to mutilate baby boys, let alone advertise it on city busses. I guess it just comes down to personal preference? So let the boy who owns the penis decide, maybe? Have you ever met anyone who regrets their circ? I, personally, would like to know what it's like to have sex and actually derive pleasure from it. But that couldn't possibly have anything to do with the removal of the most sensitive parts of my anatomy as an infant.	/r/MensRights	15/09/14 05:10 PM
3	(f) New to MRA. I am not a default victim. I am an adult and should be held accountable for my own actions. Feminism started out as anti-man. Seneca Falls, the Declaration of Sentiments in 1848. They began with "the people in power are men, therefore men have power" (the apex fallacy) and ignorance of the fact that franchise was limited by property ownership (and thus to one household = one vote), not by gender. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Declaration_of_Sentiments	/r/MensRights	12/09/14 08:11 PM
11	Fox guest host says "no man should hit a women or vice versa" and that causes offense to the women hosts Um, the "assault" was her fault. She started the hitting, she continued escalation. He defended himself.	/r/MensRights	12/09/14 04:01 PM
57	Why Women Need To Start Asking Men Out…Because Men Have No Balls 1) Be handsome 2) Be attractive 3) Don't be unatractive	/r/MensRights	10/09/14 10:45 PM
5	Spoke with radfem, mentioned the 3:1 suicide ratio of men to women. Her response? "I don't F*cking care, men are idiots." Standard disclaimer: generalities exist. Insisting they don't makes you a moron, insisting they apply to every individual makes you a bigot. Also, I'm not a psychologist, psychiatrist, or medical doctor - just an observer of humanity. Take this with appropriate grains of salt. Women have, due to socialization, an inherent belief that they are worth helping. If they ask for help, they tend to believe that they will get it. They also tend away from methods that will be disfiguring, preferring pill…	/r/MensRights	08/09/14 07:01 PM
1	No more Male Spaces! Despite having womens only gyms and spas, it's apparently not acceptable to have a male only barber. The sheer foolishness is bad enough, but it's the hypocrisy of allowing women Let me check my pilot light; it'll only take a minute.	/r/MensRights	05/09/14 01:23 AM
1	Surviving a Feminist Liberal Arts College as an MRA Oregon State '12 here, it's nowhere near as bad as what OP describes but it's on the way. Asking why there can be a women's center with no corresponding men's center gets the standard "men have the whole campus" BS. Looking around at the 60-40 F-M ratio somewhat belies that.	/r/MensRights	01/09/14 03:50 AM
7	Jessica Valenti jumps on the date rape nail polish: "Teach men not to rape! Don't tell women to use science!" Imagine if feminists had had this reaction to the pill. Don't tell me to take a pill, teach sperm not to fertilize eggs!	/r/MensRights	27/08/14 03:28 PM
2	‘Serious Money Troubles’ caused Robin Williams to commit suicide after divorces "from first wife Valerie Velardi in 1988, and from second wife, Marsha Garces in 2008 .. gutted his bank account" Substance abuse is nearly always self-medication. Something is wrong and the person doesn't have the tools or support system to deal with it, so they self-medicate. Alcohol, drugs, hobbies taken to unhealthy extremes - these are all possible ways of coping with trauma. Given that men are constantly told that they need to be independently strong through the worst life throws at them, most don't have those close friends to support them. Those that do tend to lose them in marriage and be in just as…	/r/MensRights	13/08/14 07:01 AM
13	Feminism is not, never was and never will be about equality Likely feeding a troll, but whatever. Feminism =/= women Disagreeing with feminism =/= misogyny Women are a group comprising roughly half of the people on earth. Feminism is an ideology, and an irrational and hateful one at that. Disagreeing with an ideology doesn't even imply hatred for those who claim to follow it, much less the vast majority of those women who want nothing to do with such a movement. So please leave your hand-wringing at the door. Disagreement and criticism are the building b…	/r/MensRights	08/08/14 03:55 PM
3	Studies Show that Women Sometimes Provoke Men Into Violence From the comments of the article itself: http://ajph.aphapublications.org/doi/abs/10.2105/AJPH.2005.079020	/r/MensRights	07/08/14 04:30 PM
2	it's not okay to rape or decide for women, but if you are a man, you should agree to marriage... Why WOULDN'T a woman want to get married in this country? Because she is aware of the moral hazard of violence-by-proxy and wants none of it. Frankly, if you describe your concerns about marriage backed by facts and a woman keeps pushing for it? Get out. "Here's the gun you'd have pointed at my head for the rest of my life or until you pulled the trigger" being followed by "oh yes I want that" is a clear sign that she doesn't give a damn about you.	/r/MensRights	06/08/14 04:34 PM
1	it's not okay to rape or decide for women, but if you are a man, you should agree to marriage... This is what my gf and I plan to do.	/r/MensRights	06/08/14 04:27 PM
3	Womens' shelters are hurting, and it's all because of MEN and the insistence of the government that some aide be given to those wicked, evil, naughty MEN! Projection of female behavior onto men and men's issues onto women is something feminists have dinner from the beginning.	/r/MensRights	05/08/14 02:53 PM
6	12 men circumcised by force by medical personnel — women approve, and say the victims are now clean and will perform better in bed. How is it anything but a moral argument? The difference between assault and surgery is the consent of the patient. The difference between rape and sex is consent of those involved. The difference between labiaplasty and FGM is consent of the woman. Baby boys in american hospitals are not consenting to being cut. Baby girls in the third world are not consenting to their vulvas being cut. Where is the difference? The crusade against FGM was in every way a moral crusade. It was and is a declaration…	/r/MensRights	04/08/14 04:08 PM
4	Am I being oversensitive here? I suppose I wasn't as clear as I thought first thing in the morning. I avoid citation-flooding with someone who is keen to debate, because it keeps them talking and allows me to more accurately select my arguments. They may also have something of worth that I can adopt myself. It's when countering someone who will likely not respond that I "show my work" entirely up front. With likely no response from the other person I have but one comment/post/whatever to get my argument in front of bystanders…	/r/MensRights	04/08/14 03:56 PM
4	12 men circumcised by force by medical personnel — women approve, and say the victims are now clean and will perform better in bed. Of course they're different! I mean, FGM is performed on infants and children who lack the experience and context to meaningfully consent, and circumcision is performed on infants and children who lack the experience and context to meaningfully consent. Hmm. Okay then, FGM unnecessarily removes genital tissue resulting in diminished sexual function and circumcision unnecessarily removes genital tissue resulting in diminished sexual function! No, that's not it either... Maybe...mutilated female g…	/r/MensRights	04/08/14 03:25 PM
3	Am I being oversensitive here? That depends on your audience. If you're debating to convince an open-minded opponent, slow-roll the sources. If you don't expect that they are anything but ideologues then front-load - your goal here is to win over other readers.	/r/MensRights	04/08/14 03:12 PM
6	12 men circumcised by force by medical personnel — women approve, and say the victims are now clean and will perform better in bed. women where I live in the US have consistently told me that they prefer cut. shrug If men overwhelmingly preferred sex with women who had had FGM performed on them as infants it would still be a deplorable and abhorrent practice. You get with a woman as an adult and decide to get cut to make her happy, that's your deal. Nobody has the right to cut an infant based on anyone's "preference".	/r/MensRights	04/08/14 03:03 PM
5	12 men circumcised by force by medical personnel — women approve, and say the victims are now clean and will perform better in bed. When it shouldn't be anyone's but his. This. A thousand times this.	/r/MensRights	04/08/14 02:52 PM
9	12 men circumcised by force by medical personnel — women approve, and say the victims are now clean and will perform better in bed. We're only talking about infant non-consensual circumcision. The fact that these were adult men doesn't make this any less wrong.	/r/MensRights	04/08/14 02:41 PM
8	Rape on college and university campuses is redefined by California's Senate Bill 967 - illogical, unenforceable, and sexist if you're a male and can't prove that you're not having sex with women in cali, you're rapist. FTFY	/r/MensRights	01/08/14 03:12 PM
9	More than 40% of domestic violence victims are male, report reveals Two wrongs don't make a right. IPV is not a gendered issue. Let's not lower ourselves to the level of feminists on this.	/r/MensRights	31/07/14 04:37 PM
7	It made me happy seeing a teenage girl share this on Facebook Poe's law claims another comment.	/r/MensRights	30/07/14 08:43 PM
2	Superb, short description of feminism from WomenforMen, a pro-MRA site One can be anti-feminist without being a men's rights supporter. The first bullet is already wrong - women have more rights in the west than men. They have the legally-backed right to genital integrity as infants.	/r/MensRights	25/07/14 03:56 PM
1	What ‘Women Against Feminism’ Gets Right Not bad, overall. This little gem of rewriting history is pretty disingenuous, though: In the 1970s...Phyllis Schlafly led opposition to the Equal Rights Amendment. But such anti-feminism was invariably about defending women’s traditional roles. Whitewashing the part influential feminists played in defeating the ERA because "it would be a step backwards". This has never been about equality for those running the show.	/r/MensRights	25/07/14 03:25 PM
3	What ‘Women Against Feminism’ Gets Right Patriarchy! No, wait. That would imply the opposite result. Umm... Patriarchy, shitlord!	/r/MensRights	25/07/14 03:24 PM
6	Why The Men’s Rights Movement Is Garbage: Men can't be ever be oppressed, misandry literally don't real and MRA's are violent and abusive towards Feminists because they pointed out Feminist vandalism of property Studies have shown time and again that in-group bias (as you put it: "bros before hoes") is strong in women and nearly nonexistent in men. So women are concerned with the welfare of women, and men are concerned with the welfare of women too. The moment men decide that they should support other men we get "misogyny! Mansplaining! Oppressors!" When women do the same they get "gender-traitor! Internalized misogyny! Oppression!" Who's reinforcing traditional gender roles here? It certainly isn't the…	/r/MensRights	23/07/14 04:19 PM
2	It's now illegal to be Homeless Okay, I'll bite (though I lean more anarchist than libertarian). How many of these homeless would not be if it weren't for the corruption in government and statutory make disposability (family courts, the VA, etc)? How many of them would be ecstatic to have an honest job paying below minimum wage, allowing them to get their foot in the door? How many of them would have options they don't today without excessive regulations about who is and isn't employable (e.g. the mentally handicapped)? How ma…	/r/MensRights	23/07/14 04:02 PM
10	Why is a mans "assumption to have sex" wrong and something to find distasteful and humourous, but a womans "assumption to have" intimacy is something to admire and promote? Joke's on you, he's a Levi's salesman.	/r/MensRights	22/07/14 12:19 PM
40	Pay Gap: Can't Say Men Work Harder So Call it "Overwork" Men work themselves to death sooner. This is obviously a women's issue. /s	/r/MensRights	21/07/14 07:02 AM
2	7 year old boy will be forced to register as sex offender for playing doctor at age six And who decides merit?	/r/MensRights	12/07/14 02:54 PM
17	Guilty until proven Innocent? Accused men must prove that the sex was consensual. Obviously both rapists.	/r/MensRights	10/07/14 07:00 PM
2	Feminists scream rape at Marvel Comics after Captain America rape scene (Disclaimer: It wasn't rape) I would tend to argue that those actions are part and parcel of the ideology itself, but I can see where you're coming from. I find that arguing against feminists rather than feminism can turn into ad hominem and overbroad generalizations very quickly, and that's not really helping anyone.	/r/MensRights	04/07/14 02:36 PM
3	Feminists scream rape at Marvel Comics after Captain America rape scene (Disclaimer: It wasn't rape) Feminism poisons everything it touches. FTFY?	/r/MensRights	04/07/14 01:16 AM
1	Live stream of Men's Rights Conference in Detroit If you define "effective" as "winning no seats in congress", sure.	/r/MensRights	27/06/14 09:43 PM
2	Oxford updated their "rapist" definition to "...typically a man". US she'd have to use an object or body part to penetrate for it to be considered rape. Possible, but not by any means the common form of female perpetration.	/r/MensRights	27/06/14 09:30 PM
3	Not a male nurse, just a nurse, thanks There exists a pronoun for this situation: "they". Eg. "what do they do for a living?"	/r/MensRights	20/06/14 03:06 PM
3	Obama finally working on a program specifically to help young minority(black) boys --- People ignoring all the exclusive women and girls programs cry afoul. Someone who hates all men hates black men, as black men are a subset of all men. But yes, make that explicit. Get the PC brigade on your side.	/r/MensRights	19/06/14 06:47 PM
7	Woman attacks man with knife, caught on camera. NOT GUILTY! Unless it's a rape case and the defendant is male. Then he's a rapist from the moment charges are filed.	/r/MensRights	18/06/14 12:48 PM
2	"10-year-old suspended over finger gun:". I think a lot of these zero-tolerance rules at schools are designed to shame and weaken boys. A toaster pastry	/r/MensRights	18/06/14 12:32 PM
9	Man writes article critical of college campus rape tribunals, so the wife of the White House media director tried to get him fired Logic oppresses women! /s	/r/MensRights	13/06/14 05:32 PM
3	[via r/SRSsucks] Male feminist suffers cognitive dissonance after experiencing false accusation Person does not imply woman.	/r/MensRights	11/06/14 02:00 PM
1	Female teacher claims she is victim for having sex with underage male student. Women are wonderful effect in action.	/r/MensRights	06/06/14 03:35 PM
1	Female teacher claims she is victim for having sex with underage male student. The most direct way to get reform of laws in a gynocentric world is to show how they hurt women.	/r/MensRights	06/06/14 03:24 PM
3	38yo woman avoids jail for raping 15yo boy because she was lonely That IS feminism. No, that's arguing that women are not to be treated as blameless (read: infants) which would be the centerpiece of a rational women's rights movement. Feminism has shown itself to be anything but rational in the internet space. Sad, but true.	/r/MensRights	06/06/14 02:30 PM
4	Two Girls Attempt To Brutally Murder a Middle School Classmate. The Mainstream Media offers sympathetic excuses. Nah, they'd have to admit that women get basically no punishment for rape to take that line.	/r/MensRights	03/06/14 10:39 PM
30	Dear men:STFU Haven't you heard? They are the main victims! All the men in their life go off and die, the selfish bastards.	/r/MensRights	01/06/14 04:31 PM
4	MSNBC describes the Men's Rights Movement, lol. Really, you need to see this. As though the right-leaning trad-cons are any better....	/r/MensRights	29/05/14 04:17 PM
43	Aussie judge asks: If an underage boy and underage girl have sex, why is only the boy charged with a crime? It's only discrimination if it hurts women. /s	/r/MensRights	28/05/14 03:17 PM
1	Why is spousal support still a thing? (assuming both men and women have an equal opportunity to acquire it)? There's the rub. This isn't the case. If you have a job as a homemaker (stay-at-home supporting spouse) then your salary is access to your partner's labor. If you quit that job or are fired (divorce) why should you continue to draw a salary for it? Why should that salary for a job you no longer perform be enforced by people in silly uniforms backed by state violence?	/r/MensRights	24/05/14 06:41 PM
1	Solange and Jay-Z: it's simply not the same if a man is hit by a woman Self-defense excepted, no?	/r/MensRights	18/05/14 11:55 PM
2	"You go, girl! Great argument!" as a conversation between two women, as requested. The reason so many of us here are anti-feminist is because our reasonable requests are endlessly blocked by those "asshole feminists". Claiming NAFALT (which is true) doesn't change anything because enough feminists are like that, and the vast majority who aren't sit on their hands and do nothing to self-police their movement. All that is required for evil to flourish is for good people to sit by and do nothing. You want anti-feminism to go away? Clean up your movement and take out the trash.	/r/MensRights	15/05/14 06:01 PM
3	Women are Human beings, Men are Human Doings. -Remains true as of 5/13/2014 edit: oh my god, is it that hard? Here you go people: /s Poe's Law strikes again.	/r/MensRights	14/05/14 04:08 PM
8	"The other woman". Three men gang up to take vicious revenge on an unfaithful slut, feeding her hormones, causing spine injury, ruining her financially. A hilarious comedy. (Reversing genders on a movie in theaters near you.) Something about women in the bible... How about Proverbs 31? biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+31%3A10-31&version=KJV Owning fields, knowing the value of her goods, working with her hands, and in all of it being praised. Sounds like an empowered woman, highly valued in society.	/r/MensRights	12/05/14 08:17 PM
4	Almost lost my job, asexuality saved it. The good groups don't mind overloading their acronyms. Many will use A for ace and ally, Q for queer and questioning, etc etc.	/r/MensRights	12/05/14 08:23 AM
2	A boy who is modest about his body needs professional help; a girl who is modest deserves privacy Poe's law check, please.	/r/MensRights	07/05/14 07:39 AM
4	So a girl slapped the shit out of me the other day, and her friends pulled her off of me.... TIL = Today I Learned, so TWL = Today We Learned?	/r/MensRights	07/05/14 07:24 AM
5	Feminists file false sexual assault report during "sexual assault awareness week" at my campus. No repercussions for false reporter. Sorry, your wording "in the real world" seemed to me to be supporting that position.	/r/MensRights	06/05/14 05:51 PM
15	Feminists file false sexual assault report during "sexual assault awareness week" at my campus. No repercussions for false reporter. A) There is absolutely no evidence anywhere that feminists were involved in this. You're right. The only thing that would infer feminist involvement is circumstantial evidence. OP made a clickbait title. B) No one was actually accused, so what sort of 'repercussions' would be appropriate? There was allegedly a breach of law in that a false report was allegedly filed. In most jurisdictions that's something that can be prosecuted. If convicted, the most the accused would face is likely a fine.	/r/MensRights	06/05/14 05:49 PM
7	Feminists file false sexual assault report during "sexual assault awareness week" at my campus. No repercussions for false reporter. But out in the real world, it makes sense. Don't send mixed messages. Trying to pursuade people to come forward and then punishing people that do is a mixed message. Punishing people who maliciously misuse the courts by filling false reports of any crime only makes the court system more trustworthy. The key here is that those alleged to have falsely filed get all the same due process protections that those they accused did. The alternatives of ignoring due process in cases of false reporting or …	/r/MensRights	06/05/14 05:38 PM
1	When feminists say "male privilege," I think they may have forgotten about this. /u/johnmarkley covered my responses pretty well, actually. When I was contemplating suicide myself lethality was a high priority, second only to keeping the site and my corpse "clean". I've wondered this every time it's been brought up: When I talk about male victims of violence, the immediate reaction is nearly-always some variation of "yes, but they were victimized by other men" followed by dismissal. What bearing does the gender of the perpetrator have on the victims need for empathy and just…	/r/MensRights	05/05/14 04:19 PM
8	When feminists say "male privilege," I think they may have forgotten about this. What can we learn from the methods chosen by men and women for their suicide attempts? A man who puts a pistol to his temple and pulls the trigger intends to die. A woman who swallows the whole bottle of an OTC medication and immediately phones for an ambulance does not intend to die. She intends to show her pain to the world in the hope of being helped. For the man, the tragedy is that he does not believe he will receive help. For the woman, it is that she has no other way to ask. These are bot…	/r/MensRights	02/05/14 04:52 PM
22	Never made sense to me Assuming for the moment that I accept your sources and arguments, why is this supportive of neonatal MGC? Last I checked, infants aren't typically sexually active, so this is not a health decision that needs to be made on their behalf. It can be deferred until the boy/man makes the choice himself.	/r/MensRights	01/05/14 07:27 AM
3	Can someone help me with my mother? 19 y/o. Can you rent a room from him to get out of this current situation faster?	/r/MensRights	29/04/14 05:04 PM
1	Teacher gives middle-schooler full contact lapdance. Article justifies whether he liked it or not because "he did slap [her] ass a few times." This woman isn't being called out on Wicca, she's being called out as a sexual predictor. Yes, but the reasoning of "well X people saw this so we can skip that whole inconvenient due process thing by whipping up hysteria" is exactly the same. A lawful trial is not negotiable no matter how open-and-shut the case appears. This is the basic principle of the U.S. justice system and just because that system is horridly broken doesn't mean we just leave the good principles behind with the corrupt peop…	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 08:20 AM
1	Teacher gives middle-schooler full contact lapdance. Article justifies whether he liked it or not because "he did slap [her] ass a few times." The video is evidence. The only place we have things that live up to the word "proof" is in mathematics. Evidence, like this video, is displayed in a court, and a verdict is given by a jury of peers. Just because this looks like a slam dunk case doesn't mean you get to skip over the process. The "real issues in the article" - the pandering language implying that this is something good for the boy and so forth, are not something this commenter has given me reason to believe I disagree with him. H…	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 08:10 AM
7	Wendy Williams (and her entire audience) Advises A Woman To Trick Her Husband Into Having A Baby He Doesn't Want She was literally incapable of seeing anything wrong with this. Run. Get out now.	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 07:56 AM
3	Teacher gives middle-schooler full contact lapdance. Article justifies whether he liked it or not because "he did slap [her] ass a few times." There was that one town in Massachusetts.... Go on. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Salem_witch_trials I never stated she should be denied due processe; you can reinstate people after you fire them. She should have been fired until the verdict was in however. This presumes she is guilty until she is proven innocent. I agree to give her, her day in court but it's stupid to allow her to continue on the job while awaiting so. It's called administrative leave. They tell you not to come in to work whi…	/r/MensRights	26/04/14 07:16 PM
5	Teacher gives middle-schooler full contact lapdance. Article justifies whether he liked it or not because "he did slap [her] ass a few times." How often do 20+ people agree on something? There was that one town in Massachusetts.... If you got a whole classroom of people telling you something there might be some truth to it. That doesn't mean you throw out due process, it means the trial should be an easy job for the prosecutor.	/r/MensRights	26/04/14 06:44 PM
3	Teacher gives middle-schooler full contact lapdance. Article justifies whether he liked it or not because "he did slap [her] ass a few times." [citation needed] A simple Google search reveals that Ms. Mayer doesn't consider herself a feminist and that the feminist establishment is displeased with that.	/r/MensRights	26/04/14 06:23 PM
4	Teacher gives middle-schooler full contact lapdance. Article justifies whether he liked it or not because "he did slap [her] ass a few times." Guilty because accused? Take that thinking back to /r/feminism. If you're going to push for equality under the law then you can't pick and choose when to do so.	/r/MensRights	26/04/14 06:17 PM
4	Want a Vasectomy? Get Your Wife's Permission I would suggest that a partner who undergoes a surgery like this in secret is an indication of a very unhealthy relationship. On either side.	/r/MensRights	15/04/14 04:09 PM
43	Wil Wheaton posts an infographic on Tumblr regarding a survey of this subreddit. Where did this come from? Is it legitimate? Also a dick.	/r/MensRights	15/04/14 03:42 PM
5	TAA: False Rape Accusations Are Real The problem comes when she tries to promote her SJW/feminist views. Which are integral to her videos. You can't make it through a single one without running into something that needs a Poe's check.	/r/MensRights	05/04/14 06:39 PM
1	RAINN's president stands behind comments distancing itself from "rape culture" cultural factors and myths that might increase the likelihood rape, or that rapists might be able to exploit. You mean like telling people in risky environments that they have no responsibility for their personal safety whatsoever? That seems like a cultural myth that rapists might be able to exploit to me.	/r/MensRights	31/03/14 05:58 PM
1	"Fake" rape culture story exposed, used a 7 year old attacked by a kangaroo. The same thing the boy in the fable was trying to achieve - attention. There's possibly also a profit motive if the story is on an ad-supported site.	/r/MensRights	23/03/14 08:54 AM
3	"Fake" rape culture story exposed, used a 7 year old attacked by a kangaroo. I thought most people in western nations learned this kind of thing from the fable of the boy who cried wolf. When you lie about something enough, people don't believe you when it's true and you're worse off.	/r/MensRights	23/03/14 08:52 AM
9	Great response to a common disingenuous fem tactic Don't stoop to the level of telling people how they are defined. Telling them that they should define themselves some other way? Sure! Defining them absolutely, with you as the sole arbiter? No better than the "real men" shaming that's all too common. I'm a humanist. I support your right to call yourself whatever the heck you want, but I will not associate myself with the actions of institutional feminism and I will back up my argument by producing facts about those actions in an attempt to get …	/r/MensRights	23/03/14 08:50 AM
0	Just saw this in another sub. The Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation is donating $50 million to fund the circumcision of 650,000 African men. I dispute that this counts as helping.	/r/MensRights	20/03/14 08:09 AM
3	Just saw this in another sub. The Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation is donating $50 million to fund the circumcision of 650,000 African men. So perhaps the gates foundation should put that money toward water access programs rather than encouraging the mutilation of more men? 650k buys a fair bit of infrastructure in the developing world.	/r/MensRights	19/03/14 03:39 PM
10	Xavier University in the USA is facing trial for branding innocent student 'rapist' Part of rational discourse is citing your sources. Another part is realizing that if Bob says something sensible it's worth considering even if Bob is a raving lunatic. Citation of sources isn't about the credibility of the source, it's about exposing the source of your information so that all involved can make their own judgment about the claim. That said, thank you for the corroborating source!	/r/MensRights	17/03/14 04:36 PM
9	Police: Teenage girls use knife to force autistic boy to perform sex acts You are correct in that this doesn't fall into the rape category, however there is a strong argument that it should fall under the purview of sexual assault.	/r/MensRights	13/03/14 05:00 PM
2	Which gender gets more education (MapPorn xpost) Link?	/r/MensRights	13/03/14 04:52 PM
3	My sister just shared this on Facebook. . . Pretty disappointed Yep, we avoid linking to summaries that ignore the very data they collected. Read the whole study. On a 12-month scale (the time frame with the fewest memory artifacts) men were found to be made to penetrate (nonconsensual sex) at a nearly identical rate to that at which women were "made to envelop" (nonconsensual sex). It was decided that only one of those would be counted as rape and the other completely ignored. They give the rationale and everything if you're willing to dig 40-odd pages into…	/r/MensRights	13/03/14 09:20 AM
7	My sister just shared this on Facebook. . . Pretty disappointed The problem is that if the fact of the matter were that men were doing most of the raping, the statistics would also read this way. Couldn't it be that the science is correct, the deck isn't stacked, and we should look at the problem for what it is, honestly? That's a hypothesis worth pursuing. Step 1 is to make the legal definitions of rape reflect a nongendered crime. Step 2 then becomes to look into the resulting data. But you can't take step 2 with definitions that exclude male victims of fe…	/r/MensRights	12/03/14 07:43 PM
3	My sister just shared this on Facebook. . . Pretty disappointed Having a forced-to-penetrate statistics should happen regardless of the political dimensions of the discussion. Science is about discovery and finding out something new, something no one has known before. But would this phenomenon be rape? My gut says no, that there is something about "penetration" and "rape" that are somehow coextensive, and that forced-envelopment is a problem that needs its own sphere or thought and research, but I fully admit that could be my intuition talking. Rape is under…	/r/MensRights	12/03/14 07:32 PM
0	I was a boy that was "taught not to rape" by his mother, let me tell you exactly why and how that has harmed me throughout my life. Skip ballroom? Maybe you've only ever seen it on the very basic level, but as soon as you get even slightly involved you discover that every standard dance is designed to be danced with body contact and is much easier when you let yourself be that close to someone else. Worked wonders on my fear of contact after a physically abusive childhood.	/r/MensRights	12/03/14 09:20 AM
6	I was a boy that was "taught not to rape" by his mother, let me tell you exactly why and how that has harmed me throughout my life. As a 26M raised in as nonfeminist an environment as possible (trad-con parents, religious schools), I can vouch that this is not limited to feminist upbringings, though OP's experience is orders of magnitude worse than mine. Hell, it was only months after finding the MHRM that I was able to voice a rejection of those baked-in feelings of shame at finding a woman (gf of a friend) stripping attractive.	/r/MensRights	12/03/14 09:09 AM
4	Seen on /r/law... This is ridiculous. Where on earth is easier?? Ballroom, swing, or Latin dance lessons - the "no partner required" ones are perennially female heavy in every town I've had the pleasure of visiting. In some of the more reasonable areas it's even common for the women to make the approach.	/r/MensRights	11/03/14 10:08 AM
3	I'm a woman, and I want to ask you about circumcision We are victims. we asked why we are not taken as adults A victim has no agency in the area of their victimhood. One proclaiming to the skies that they are a victim has abrogated their agency, but one cannot be an adult while insisting on having no agency. To be an adult, a fully realized human, one must embrace all that comes with that label. You can't pick and choose like some cosmic buffet line, total commitment is necessary.	/r/MensRights	05/03/14 07:11 PM
0	The SpeakUp website is now live. Go to SpeakUp.org.au to see how... We can deduce violence against women. Please confirm sarcasm for those unable to recognize it. ;)	/r/MensRights	05/03/14 05:49 PM
9	I'm a woman, and I want to ask you about circumcision It all comes down to the social idea that men are disposable and women are valuable. Men are disposable, so their preferences and pain are immaterial. Women are valuable, so their preferences guide the world and their pain sets policy. Men will fight for women more than for themselves and the reverse is not true. This is why MGC is seen as okay in the mainstream but FGC is anathema.	/r/MensRights	05/03/14 05:31 PM
9	#FGM and male #circumcision: time to confront the double standard #i2 That's just me though. Yup, it is. And in an ethical society you don't get to inflict your personal preference for a medically unnecessary amputation on a days-old baby of any gender. You can have your views and preferences of whatever sort you choose. The line is drawn when you start inflicting harm on others.	/r/MensRights	03/03/14 07:18 PM
2	Conor Oberst tries to clear his name after false rape claims. Feminst tell him: "vilifying discussion of sexual assault by filing a lawsuit only adds to the problem of under-reporting that enables sexual assault to proliferate at alarming rates." Truth = Vilification. And what the hell do they expect him to do instead? Just sit back and accept being accused of this? Yes! He should clearly be admonished like a good little worker drone and go back to being objectified, grateful for the divine gift of female attention. /s	/r/MensRights	27/02/14 08:20 PM
3	Code Academy gives $100 to girls if they complete a Javascript class. Not boys who do so. Men don't need encouragement to teach - there used to be plenty of male teachers. What we need to be interested in teaching again is to have the current anti-male practices in the field dealt with. So long as a male teacher is instantly suspect of sexual misconduct simply for being a teacher, the rational men will be dissuaded.	/r/MensRights	27/02/14 08:05 PM
2	Oh look, another image identifying what "real men" are Why is this getting downvotes? Taking out a gf's wandering loyalties on the guy she's flirting with is seriously backwards even without getting into the disproportionate response side of the matter.	/r/MensRights	22/02/14 05:20 PM
27	Sex after drinking and the war on men Advocating for traditionalism and chivalry doesn't make her an ally, because she's still pushing the "women get rights, men get responsibilities" line.	/r/MensRights	22/02/14 05:05 PM
2	Oh look, another image identifying what "real men" are Absolutely stealing this.	/r/MensRights	22/02/14 10:09 AM
3	Woman who gave oral sex to 5 y/o not a pedophile I hope I'm wrong, but I'm not terribly optimistic. I'll match /u/TrouserTorpedo's 200 doge on no prison time, though.	/r/MensRights	22/02/14 09:58 AM
9	FGM and circumcision: confronting the double standard Oh, I had this terrible thing done to me and it doesn't bother me at all, so clearly my anecdote trumps the basic morality of cutting a baby or child's genitals for no reason. /s You want negative side effects? How about complete sexual dysfunction due to vastly reduced sensitivity (E.D. and lack of sensation). I'm so happy you don't notice any negative effects, but not all of us are so lucky.	/r/MensRights	22/02/14 08:46 AM
2	Woman who gave oral sex to 5 y/o not a pedophile It's why she's going to go to prison. Don't count your chickens before they hatch. My prediction is some insignificant amount of community service and probation.	/r/MensRights	22/02/14 08:06 AM
5	Wives often divorce husbands who lose their jobs, says Govt. research... Both because of the social expectation and because of the high cost of leaving said unhappy marriage.	/r/MensRights	22/02/14 07:59 AM
1	I wish more women would understand the kind of predicament this puts men in Exactly. You don't just start doing the non-consent play. You sit down before anything even started happening and you work out that for this time "no" has nothing to do with lack of consent. "No"has been replaced in that role by "pumpernickels" or some other word that you two agree on. Then once you've mutually outlined the boundaries that everyone is comfortable with, you can start.	/r/MensRights	21/02/14 08:36 PM
1	I wish more women would understand the kind of predicament this puts men in It's not necessarily just rough sex. There are times when a woman says "just fuck me" - this leads to rough sex and is fine. Then there are the girls who won't say a thing about it and expect you to basically entertain their rape fantasy without ever mentioning it to you. They then complain that they aren't getting what they need despite never saying a word.	/r/MensRights	21/02/14 08:26 PM
7	I wish more women would understand the kind of predicament this puts men in You forget, this is a feminist. Taboo means you stfu and she gets to make whatever comments she wants.	/r/MensRights	21/02/14 08:21 PM
6	Wife who turned detective to clear the man she was divorcing of rape. He served 13 months in jail for a crime he did not commit. We should really reframe cases like these. It's always "a crime he didn't commit", like there was a bank robbery and they got the wrong guy. The accuser still gets to play the victim because the narrative acknowledges that there was a crime committed. He was convicted and imprisoned for a crime which never happened. He was exonerated because he didn't rape her but also because no rape occurred.	/r/MensRights	20/02/14 06:37 PM
1	Comic strip on Feminism outlining the perils and pitfalls of it in modern society in America I misspoke. My own fault for trying to get that across on a mobile platform on a short time. The definition does not exclude male victims per se. What it excludes by defining rape as non-consensual penetration and not (as goes the common definition today) as non-consensual sex is female perpetration, especially of the brand that's been hidden in the corner as "made to penetrate". This leads back around to the perception that woman can do no wrong and men are only victimized by other men. By remo…	/r/MensRights	20/02/14 01:28 AM
1	Comic strip on Feminism outlining the perils and pitfalls of it in modern society in America And if there's room for it, pointing out the injustice of the "made to penetrate" category as a way to minimize the rape numbers for men in that same publication.	/r/MensRights	19/02/14 10:19 PM
2	Comic strip on Feminism outlining the perils and pitfalls of it in modern society in America Pardon the link to Time (and their wonderfully gynocentric title), but this is probably something worth including in the discussion of the pay gap take down. http://content.time.com/time/business/article/0,8599,2015274,00.html	/r/MensRights	19/02/14 10:17 PM
1	Women complain that men are failing to protect them from violent crimes. 9 AM. When those expected to provide for others financially will likely be... working?	/r/MensRights	19/02/14 09:57 PM
4	Women complain that men are failing to protect them from violent crimes. He pointed out that the old code of the streets, that thieves don't hurt women and children, is no longer honored. I don't recall anything in the article about children being attacked. Can we lose the tired "women and children" line? You're claiming equality with men? Great! Welcome to adulthood! Now stop trying to have it both ways by claiming to be equal while demanding the protections that children need.	/r/MensRights	19/02/14 09:51 PM
8	Women complain that men are failing to protect them from violent crimes. Excellent point. There's a huge difference between equality under the law and equality of outcome.	/r/MensRights	19/02/14 09:40 PM