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DastardlyDan/r/seduction28/12/16 08:09 PM
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A lot of that gets down to the kind of person she is, and I have no idea because I don't know her. Handle it as best you see fit.
/r/seduction12/04/17 08:37 PM
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You're right, you don't want to suddenly seem like you've lost interest. The best thing is to try to steer the conversation toward setting up the next time you two can get together - make plans, when and where and doing what. You are continuing to show interest, you aren't neglecting her texts, and you are moving the relationship in a direction you want to go. I guess it's the art of saying "I would rather discuss it with you in person" without using those exact words, because they can give the …
/r/seduction12/04/17 03:47 PM
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Don't text just to text. Don't initiate an interaction or respond to one unless you have something to genuinely contribute to the conversation, whether it is by expressing something, answering a queation, or asking a question. Scale back the casual texting - try to steer the conversation to setting up your next meeting. Save interesting conversations for those meetings. If she asks mentions that you aren't texting as much, just let her know that you're in the middle of work/school/"exciting" hob…
/r/seduction12/04/17 03:20 PM
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Only if they work with the persona you're presenting.
/r/seduction07/04/17 03:52 AM
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Fake it 'till you make it. If you repeat a lie often enough, you'll start to believe it's the truth. Okay, that second one has more of a negative connotatiom, but the core idea is the same. Keep at it. Eventually, the persona that you approach with will become second nature. Then it will become natural. Then you will become it. As long as that is what you want, it isn't really a bad thing. It takes time. It's a transformation. You've got a raw concept of the person you want to project - take som…
/r/seduction07/04/17 03:06 AM
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I'm afraid I don't understand what you're asking.
/r/seduction27/03/17 06:30 PM
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So don't go for a date. Go do something together that you would both enjoy, but try to avoid a "date" setting. Then, be flirty and find opportunities to escalate.
/r/seduction27/03/17 06:29 PM
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Inviting her to your place might be interpreted as expectation for something physical. It's spring, and nicer weather is coming. Ask her to go out and enjoy the nicer weather. A walk, bike ride, something like that. No pressure. Then find opportunities to escalate.
/r/seduction27/03/17 06:28 PM
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It'll vary from girl to girl, but I wouldn't wait to show your interest. Every time I've done that, thinking she will "need time" and wanting to respectfully give her space, she ended up dating another guy almost immediately.
/r/seduction27/03/17 06:11 PM
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Do you have any common interests? Movies, music, books?
/r/seduction10/01/17 04:48 PM
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I have almost zero experience with people who have this kind of issue, but I have encountered it before. I only have one idea that they used that might help. With some of the people I've known, it was particular pronunciation that tripped them up. A particular sound or syllable, that kind of thing. The person I am thinking of expanded their vocabulary, so they could use alternative words to communicate that did not contain the sounds that they had trouble with. But I cannot even tell you if thei…
/r/seduction04/01/17 05:08 AM
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Realize that you are far more critical about your body than anyone else will be. You will focus on every flaw and blemish individually to the point that it seems glaring to you...but anyone else is looking at the entire package, and probably doesn't even notice. Plus, he's your boyfriend. Odds are, he has strong feelings for you that are driving his attraction in just as much, if not more, than the physical attraction. It's not your body he will be having sex with, it's YOU. Your body is only on…
/r/seduction04/01/17 05:01 AM
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That's just it...I want to find ways to get her to start thinking about me positively (romantically, sexually, etc.) - at least more often if she isn't already. I want her to start associating good feelings with thoughts of me, basically. I just don't have many ideas on how to do that.
/r/seduction28/12/16 10:08 PM
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Yes I have it. She used to, but I don't think she uses it any more.
/r/seduction28/12/16 10:06 PM
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"Hi! How have you been?" Just continue the conversation, don't stress it. If it goes somewhere, great. If not, no loss on your part. She initiated the contact. Just be casual.
/r/seduction11/11/16 05:50 AM
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Make it clear you're not interested in any guy-on-guy action, and see if they're on board.
/r/seduction02/11/16 04:33 PM
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That's because I got all the looks in the family.
/r/seduction14/08/16 03:48 AM
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If you feel your looks aren't enough to get a girls attention, then you need to work on your own unique way to stand out. Maybe dress better, or in a different style. Be funny, always have a (tasteful) joke at the ready. Looks DO matter, but so long as you're not repulsive, you not being the hottest guy in the room doesn't need to be a problem.
/r/seduction02/08/15 07:32 PM
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Nut up and ask her out. The worst that can happen is she turns you down. I know exactly how you feel, because I'm working to overcome the same problem (have had it all my life). Every time I've worked up the courage to approach a woman, it has almost always ended up working out well (though not always in the way I expected.)
/r/seduction15/06/15 04:46 AM
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Don't ask her out to dates. Just so things together without referring to it as dating.
/r/seduction08/02/15 03:40 AM
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Depends on the woman, and how you deliver it. Just like any other line.
/r/seduction06/02/15 05:22 PM
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Old enough to know how to do it right, young enough to be enthusiastic about it.
/r/seduction06/02/15 05:05 PM
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You didn't look weak, you took a strong stance. You showed a lot of personal integrity.
/r/seduction04/02/15 02:05 AM
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No fate but what we make.
/r/seduction13/01/14 12:56 AM
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I disagree with contacting the ex. Contact the police instead. What she is doing already comes pretty close to illegal, if it isn't outright illegal already. The fact that you had to file a police report because a woman was soliciting you to spy on her ex will go a LONG way towards helping the man out if she ever does contact the police. AFTER talking to police, then talk to the ex husband. Let him know you filed a police report about it. Then not only does he know what she is doing, but he also…
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