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| 2 | Saw Mystery, the PUA from the Game at a Toronto Lair meetup. Here is his 15 second advise."Now the next (blank) smile big" what is he saying here? | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 05:57 PM |
| 1 | I fall apart in a wreck when I get touched in flirty ways 24mFull disclosure, the pathing NLP routine is straight out of Art of Charm 295, available on stitcher. Worth a listen. Still, the whole "hands off the merchandise" bit is gold, allows you to broach the contact anxiety without coming off like you have baggage, and I definitely recommend playing up the stoicism angle. You never explained whether you were comfortable touching others, and I think playful, non-sexual touching like the tag game would help you get past the initial discomfort that you hav… | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Meet the first german female Pickup Artist. THIS should happen more often!Yeah, it is. Do you really think your cheesy openers or stupid routines are what lands you the close? No. It's confidence, rapport building, and the person having a good time. Openers and routines are just tools to get past your own anxiety and avoid awkwardness that can trigger flight mechanisms in the target, and break down barriers that prevent attraction from occuring. True, while men have less of these barriers than women, on an approach they have the same anxiety and hangups that guys have… | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 04:31 PM |
| 1 | I love seddit, but...Is having confidence not a way of manipulating peoples opinions about you? All these lines and routines are, are ways of building and exhibiting confidence. Telling a joke to make someone laugh is just as manipulative as making someone like you by exhibiting value. Dressing nice influences other peoples opinions of you. You're selling yourself to buy consent, no matter what way you go about it. You're basically equating social dynamics to rape. That's not the case at all. | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 04:22 PM |
| 1 | I fall apart in a wreck when I get touched in flirty ways 24mIf her touching you is making you uncomfortable, you need to stop it from the getgo. First thing, make a scene. As soon as you begint o feel uncomfortable, exclaim, "WHOA!! Hands off the merchandise!" and wave your arms around in and make space. But do it in a funny, playful way. This can actually gain you ground by creating sexual tension. I read some of your responses. Here's an NLP technique that may help you get past that voice in your head. Do this now, before it happens again. Think of it … | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Party GameI have been told I am good looking I lift weights 6 times a week and am very large/cut. Seems like you are qualifying yourself to much to us. Likelihood is, you're doing this when you approach women as well. This, in turn, makes you come off as an AMOG and you get shut down. This, in turn, lowers your self esteem, and makes you uncomfortable around women. Essentially, you're a geek in a jock's body. You want to know what the best opener is? A smile. Positive, relaxed body language. And not looki… | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 03:44 PM |
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