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Check out Leading Man Attraction on you tube bro. I’m a dating coach and I’ve helped dozens of men all over the world improve their dating life.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:46 PM
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Not a problem, you can improve your communication skills through practicing good habits and methods. Check out Leading Man Attraction on you tube bro. I’m a dating coach and I’ve helped dozens of men all over the world improve their dating life.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:45 PM
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Indirect. Take your time. Just don’t play too friendly for too long as you’ll end up in the friend zone. Check out Leading Man Attraction on you tube bro. I’m a dating coach and I’ve helped dozens of men all over the world improve their dating life.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:43 PM
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Check out Leading Man Attraction on you tube bro. I’m a dating coach and I’ve helped dozens of men all over the world improve their dating life.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:41 PM
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Check out Leading Man Attraction on you tube bro. I’m a dating coach and I’ve helped dozens of men all over the world improve their dating life.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:40 PM
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At 27 you’re at your physical prime. If you want to loose the V card check out Leading Man Attraction on you tube, it’s my channel. I’m a dating coach and I’ve helped dozens of guys out of this situation.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:37 PM
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Surround yourself with high class men, then learn from them. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself these things take time. If your social skills need improving check out Leading Man Attraction on you tube, a lot of guys are getting free insight on dating on my channel and seeing great results with women. You may also need coaching as you may be coming across as a friend not a potential sexual partner. Also take advice from the guys in the comments some good advice here
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:13 PM
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Exactly, listen to this man. You shouldn’t stop approaching just cause of some random girl in a bar. Keep up approaches and maybe reflect on them, is there some area in which you could improve. Focus on positives and not negatives. A good Mindset is essential
/r/seduction20/07/22 03:24 PM
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She must not feel pressured into sex or sense any desperation from you. Take your time when you have her back at yours, it’s about timing things well. It’s only awkward if you try too hard or become impatient. Get close to her, touch her and go in for the kiss. Then break away and talk for a little more, maybe play truth or dare. Then go for a kiss again when the moment is right. The less you make sex a big deal the more likely it will happen. If it doesn’t happen on the first 2 / 3 dates it doe…
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:35 AM
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It’s not dead man, it’s still there. It’s just not as prominent as it used to be because of the times that we are living in. Plenty of cool you tube channels out there with solid pua’s - check out leading man attraction 👊🏻
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:38 PM
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Exactly, listen to this bro. She’s got a life she’s living and lots of people that text her. She seems interested. You only have a problem where the girl has ignored you for a few days, then it’s over. But with your girl it’s on man, good luck
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:35 AM
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Sometimes it’s better to text more to build more rapport, however she has shown clear interest in you and agreed to a date. No point in over texting and chit chatting, it’s best to build rapport during the date. In This case you did well, however sometimes you may need to text for a little longer in order to build comfort and rapport with a girl, otherwise she may not agree to meeting up. Just don’t over text as that can quickly turn boring.
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:32 AM
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If you’re talking to a woman you’re interested in I recommend the following: Listen to her, then use the information that she gives you to tease her. When you tease her and she laughs you can even throw in physical touch to escalate (touch her shoulder). Make sure to lead the interaction to a resolution e.g. asking her out. Otherwise the conversation will run dry, you must have direction for why you’re talking with her
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:28 AM
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You got this 👊🏻
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:14 PM
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So the process that I teach and share with clients is simple, I’ll give you an overview below, Open - smile, hold eye contact, make sure to have her attention, try to stop her if she is moving but if she doesn’t walk next to her for a moment as you open. Ask if she speaks English. Get her name. Get logistics - what is she doing ? Where is she heading ? Will you have 2 minutes to talk to her cause she is busy or is she just seeing the sites / doing some shopping ? If she has more time you can ask…
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:31 PM
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The girls there will most likely speak some English as it is a capital city with lots of tourists. Simply ask at the start if they speak English, if there is 0 English then approach a different girl. Make sure to smile and speak slowly, if she asks you to repeat something because she doesn’t understand, say it in a simple and different way. If you don’t know how to pick up girls through conversation or you get nervous it will be a bit hard at the beginning, but with time you’ll pick up how it is…
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:18 PM
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If you’re alone it’s very hard. You’ll have to engage the whole group, hook the whole group, then find out their logistics, isolate the girl you are interested in, pass shit tests and cock blocking friends and then being the girl home. These are all difficult when you have to do it with a group of girls, best to have a wingman or 2 to approach with, makes the process much easier
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:13 PM
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Bars & cold approach, tinder sparingly but don’t focus too much energy on that unless you know exactly what you’re doing
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:10 PM
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Plenty of time for you man ! Don’t feel bad, this is how it sometimes goes. Keep your head up high and learn from your experiences. Check out some dating coaches on you tube, watch some free content that could help you. My channel gives tons of free advice on picking up girls and scoring dates. Let me know and I can share it with you. All the best man 👍
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:09 PM
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Yeah that sums it up really well 🙌
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:05 PM
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Move her to the bar, but dancing is not that difficult, no need to be like Chaning Tatum haha just grab her hand, spin her around and move side to side. Check out some YT tutorials too, hope this helps 👊🏻
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:03 PM
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Yeah if she says no thanks, it’s a rejection. Just don’t take it personally as it’s not that deep. Simply move on to the next hot girl, unless you feel like you’re doing something wrong verbally / with body language then maybe seek out help from a PUA with experience
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:02 PM
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Bars & clubs are best for one night stands where you can put in as little as a couple of hours effort (this includes meeting the girl and bringing her back to yours) The alternative is day game, this will take more time but you will be aiming to get a lot of numbers. Then you schedule dates and if your skill is good enough you’ll have lots of abundance. Good luck and always aim to have fun, relax and avoid chasing when you meet a woman
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:01 PM
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Some free tips below, 1 - dating apps want to make money, so they will not show your profile to loads of girls in your area unless you are paying for a premium feature, the algorithm may also work against you if girls are in matching you often or not responding to your texts, but that in itself doesn’t mean you can’t get success on them. 2 - you need to learn how to text girls, how to open, flirt over text and score a date. 3 - like the others said, you need to look good and have a great quality…
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:48 PM
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Not a good idea man, don’t repeat this mistake. Check out this channel for solid dating advice https://youtube.com/c/LeadingManAttractionDatingCoach4Men
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:31 PM
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Stop trying so hard. It’s simpler than you think.
/r/seduction12/07/22 10:32 AM
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