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Well, of course she lied about being a Virgin if the sex was great - that's the #1 tell, and she also got out of a 3 year relationship, its on the nose. But, in general that doesn't even matter, the fact that she clearly was cheating, or wanted sex with the boyfriend when you first found out should have been the sign to break up - rest is honestly your fault} But it happens to the best Fanfiction aside
/r/TheRedPill27/07/26 08:26 AM
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This sound like you're very young and you just read some theory books Some men give off head/raw sexual vibes, some (you) dont, its that simple. Its not a logical decision, its sexual intensity and chemistry, dominant energy, name it The waiting thing is a strategy. Ive had multi women tell me if they didnt see a guy as BF material but did find him hot, theyd do it right away and for BF+ its making him wait, personality building, making her look less loose name it Generally women dont wait long …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:23 PM
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Yes, thats very long on a hookup/dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:05 AM
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True. Go up to these 300 lets say women IRL, I guarentee you at least 50+ would agree to a date
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:04 AM
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Well, thats a lie Especially on a hookup app
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:55 AM
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Few bitter, backhanded statements in there Im not sure if thats true. Women often have their mothers or grandmothers very happy to babysit and help, too There are also a lot of situations where the man was forced out of the child-having conversation or is being restricted from seeing em Then there is child support. Where every man overpays by a lot, by law, to the mother, where only some of it goes to the child Also, dont you automatically have joint custody unless the mother specifically fights…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:19 PM
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I dont think this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:15 PM
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You are very wrong lol Look at documentaries on serial killers, women stranglers, tinder name it (good looking ones) Issue is you compared it to a shy guy. Shy guys by my definition are not even in the dating race/pool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:07 AM
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Its simply a double standard. But to be more real, its cause women are more vulnerable creatures, and they are usually more commonly suspect of stalking, men who are horny, assault. The man is also seen as the dominant/stronger one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:05 AM
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No it has nothing to do with black out, black out is obviously non consent OPs case is about any time a woman has some drinks in her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:03 AM
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Agreed. You also dont wife 8s, 9s and 10s They are for fun, 304s, paid for name it
/r/seduction10/06/26 08:43 AM
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A questionaire and a 5 star review on Yelp, he wasnt having it
/r/seduction25/05/26 01:48 PM
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We always hear sides of men wanting this but in my experience its always the woman wanting some freaky, rough, hairpulling ish and we do it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:13 PM
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Orange flag is fair, thats practically what I mean but better said
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:37 PM
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I said ''If a woman is willing to do any nasty thing/fantasy she has in mind with me, I can assure you she is incredibly attracted to me.' which means its natural from her side (In this situation atm) And for guy B ''this could have many factors, his vibe doesn't scream as sexual, different time in her life name it,'' Im saying it could be many things. Just in general, if a woman is her freakiest/most comfortable around me, to me that is a green indicator of her being into me/treating me well, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:44 PM
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Well, there is a give and take that is ideal. But no one is saying you should, Im just noting that it reduces to odds of finding/keeping a new man as you age. Life is funny in many ways like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:47 PM
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I mean, it's now law, but its more true than not. If a woman is willing to do any nasty thing/fantasy she has in mind with me, I can assure you she is incredibly attracted to me. That doesnt neccesarily equate to being ''treated better'' but it generally is. Since a woman that is that open and attracted to you will most likely in general try to please you more, be more patient with you, cook for you, name it. Guy B might come around and she is quite reserved with him but still decided to date hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:38 PM
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This. You see a lot of cases of older women saying they do less in the bedroom because they evolved from kinda saying yes to everything to please the guy they were with when they were younger to now having more boundaries and knowing what they want/dont want Unfortunately, this is very counterintuitive. You should probably get freakier/more open as you age since that counterbalances any potentially dropped market value (ugh term) - also leaning to why men like going for young women at times
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:31 PM
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You just described the problem with any activist, moral justice warrior, name it. Unfortunately, and ive made this conclusion now a few years ago; this means the only solution is macro programming, forcing situations and scenarios together (concept of marriage or religious punishment are more high key ones to name). I can tell the 'elites' think the same with certain laws and action
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:33 AM
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Thats me atm ngl, half obese just pulled the hottest latina here. Wasnt gonna date untill I was back, but ay I am charismatic, the best new hire (they all ask questions) and generally have a leadership/very social vibe im guessing is what makes me perceived as high value
/r/seduction11/05/26 02:48 PM
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Regret is the most useless emotion, is quite a powerful line
/r/seduction26/04/26 09:40 PM
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Its illogical yeah. There are also more women on earth than men, they have less time for kids, and men are the ones providing generally But ay, it is what it is
/r/seduction23/04/26 07:13 AM
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Before I read this thread I literally already knew this was gonna be the case 🤣
/r/seduction21/02/26 01:04 PM
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The one I agree with is that alpha and beta are more environmental based then people say At a local swimming competition the 1# Athlete is gonna have the most status with any woman that is there. In the club, or in college, he can appear as the lamest or lowest scoring in class knocking his appeal down I could have used a much better example but the idea is there lol Ive been at places where I was the only slightly exotic one that knew how to dance, and I was the flavor of all women. Ive been to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:46 AM
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I would agree with this tbh, but it also applies to women. Marry a 6 not a 10
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:30 AM
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I dont know if sadistic is the thing as in ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:15 PM
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Its hot for a man to take a dildo up his butt? Interesting Keeping mine closed for now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:29 AM
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This is a wild correlation to draw
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:15 PM
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Id call this a nice guy. A naive, inexperience man. We need to separate nice and good imo a bit more. You can have game, know what you want, say no, be fine with women and still be a good guy over a loverboy/bad guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:33 AM
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Youd be surprised how deeply we are steered or can be steered Just like the entire concept/creation of marriage, laws, social laws, you can create a society where there is a more realistic balance and thus expectations subconsiously lower Now to create this is another thing..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:11 AM
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This is a little odd of a remark Its usually looks, vain things over intelligence. Intelligence is a sign of potential, earning potential, status, curiosity, knowledge of the world, deep conversations Usually its about $ or looks convo
/r/seduction19/08/24 09:33 AM
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I agree with you btw We are unsterilized dogs wanting to hump everything. Women unleash the beast after comfort, vetting etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:38 PM
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Women are very, very sexual if they are into you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:02 PM
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Women like sensual, men like agressive thrusting. Porn only shows the latter, so they settle for lesbian sensuality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:02 AM
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Time to move to Algeria or Libya
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:00 AM
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Women cant go back in lifestyle, men can't go back sexually Patrice? I forgot
/r/TheRedPill17/02/24 07:48 AM
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Yeah here in EU its women going to aruba, curacao to find some young broke guys to support
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:53 AM
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I like the Dave Chapelle joke on this, it goes something like: Women, if you choose to keep a baby against a man's opinion that is completely fine.. As long as that man can choose not to pay a single cent or be obligated to take care of it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:52 AM
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You're not wrong per se, but it's a clearly defeatist and somewhat incelly attitude.Well yes, a 5'5 guy will never be seen as superior to a 6'4 genetical god. A guy making 15k a year is not going to be seen as superior to a guy making 80k a year. Does that mean that you can't find an equal or compensate in many other ways/and or stay alone forever? it doesnt It is also a bit interesting you are against all forms of body shaming but dont mind small penis humiliation posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:15 AM
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I dont know what that has to do with penetration %s. You can still have made your girl win else way that session and cared. Though generally, it would be a bit lower yea
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:56 AM
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Sure, they enjoy it. And what about the first paragraph?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:35 AM
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Stop putting all the blame and responsibility on yourself. If your partner chooses you, they chose you. They accepted that part of you and still found you worthy. Also 90%+ women cant orgasm from penetration alone anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:10 AM
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You're response to shame/insecurities is to hide and never have sex in fear? Thats obviously not great advice. Its like saying that the world doesnt like obese people so you should lock yourself in a room and cut off all friends and family just in case you disgust people watching
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:18 AM
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There is some slight layer of truth here but the conclusion wouldn't be that to me. It would be, why to get married to begin with (with all the drama, pain, divorce horrors, financial horrors) the conclusion would be to change marriage legally to something different or to remove it outright. There is no benefit to marriage for 2 years imo. There is some slight layer of truth here but the conclusion wouldn't be that to me. It would be, why to get married to begin with (with all the drama, pain, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:04 PM
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All this yes. Untill you realize that none of that matters. Its the best most beautiful thing you'll ever do. Its a new level of unconditional love and pride you'll never find elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:20 AM
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Most rappers/celebs pay for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:01 PM
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Women have higher standards. Online dating, women making more money Men have also been scared into being manly cause of the way teachers raise kids and cancel culture
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:13 PM
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Not sure where that is implied. I don't wanna go into the deeper topic of how we all lie and manipulate to get jobs, relationships, etc - this is basic human 101. But yes, women do treat the men they have as ONS or FWBs differently from boyfriend candidates, so they have to ''represent'' less. But that guy also doesn't get the full version of her - so it's not quite the same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:21 PM
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This is what women told me; If I sleep with a guy very fast, I have no respect for him (as in, not boyfriend material) If I make a guy wait, I do and I see him as boyfriend material. Of course for men, this is backward as always. Because we see it as a greater disrespect to make us wait longer, and more of a win if we get it right away. Regardless, it does make sense. If you want a future with a man you almost have to pretend you don't have the sexual history you do, and you're not capable of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:32 AM
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Men and women are different to be fair. The experience is quite opposite Funny remark regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:12 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:16 AM
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'' Does he show that the attractiveness of an otherwise ordinary guy can be greatly increased? Are men who are struggling in dating just doing it wrong ? '' What? He's the #1 YouTuber and one of the richest men on the planet. Women like Fame, Status, Achievement, and Money. He got those. Attractiveness has no point at that level. Looks aren't the most important thing for men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:41 AM
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Its simple. Men and women are different and are thus held to different standards. Stop looking for 'equality' in this term, it will never exist. Rationally: 5'2 women should be biologically paired with 5'4 men, yet they only want 6' and up. How is that fair? Women making 40k a year want men making 150k a year, how is that fair? We have different roles. Simply put as number 2, women are much more picky and judgemental. If as a guy, you can actually get 50 women to sleep with you, it requires effo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:13 AM
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This has always been the case. Women are always more liberal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:58 AM
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I was hoping everyone on earth knew this already to be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:15 AM
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A lot of men swear by Taiwan, brazil for these reasons yea.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:40 AM
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Im laughing. Chad?? Looksmaxxing? You sure they arnt just looking for self improvement guides
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:38 AM
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We'd be on Mars, have flying cars and jetpacks already
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:34 PM
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Define 'done well' though Be a guy you happen to be attracted to? Say the right thing? Have the right timing? All these things are hard to know before-hand
/r/seduction07/04/23 05:06 AM
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Of course. Its the same as general attraction You have one night stand type men and boyfriend types Types. If you come across as dominant she might feel more inclined to let you go further than the average mixed energy guy that just doesn't spark a desire to be dominated by
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:16 PM
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Men have this weird ignorance about girl-on-girl and don't feel threatened by it (might even turn them on). So they accept that much more over being cheated on with another guy involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:07 AM
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Yea, so they have to ban all social medias, social dating apps, somehow punish and analyze what 'close social circle' means Its practically a middle eastern/muslim relationship but with 20th century technology and westernism. Sounds unlikely without going back to putting rules on what women can do. But the way were headed now..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:56 AM
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I do agree that part of old structures and clearer sex roles were better than this. But that would require a complete mental and technological backstep which humans would never do. As it stands marriage is the worst option for men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:28 AM
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Religion = abstinence is a pretty dead concept nowadays (for the majority). That's not a (big enough) factor here imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:46 AM
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There are very few guys out there that can handle the truth of female b-count. Women lie/twist those for a reason. I was watching a few 'when is the last time you had sex' videos. Maybe 10% mentioned a number more than 10 days ago, and almost none were with boyfriends. Do the math. This is all fine tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:49 AM
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26% being virgins under 30 is insanely high wow. Even 10% is bad really. Nice data
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:39 AM
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There is a distinction between nice and kind/good. Nice is generally not something you ever wanna be (despite being taught this constantly in school) unless it's a situation where empathy is indeed needed. You should lose weight. - Is an act of kindness. Person A will give you negative emotions temporarily, but in the end this might help person A live longer. You look great, omg, I'm sure you'll find someone - is niceness. It usually comes from a more selfish place of avoiding conflict, avoiding…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:24 PM
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This screams ''I wanna get the quickest nut'' I laughed though I admit, that's a really funny response even if not intended ''I choose your place!'' You can't directly tell a woman lets to have a quick F- even if she'd be down for it and wants the same. Like the rest is saying, outside drink - had sex would have worked here.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/23 01:41 PM
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This is kind of a silly take, not cause you're wrong but because that applies to everything. It's the Halo effect, the 1. be attractive 2. don't be attractive. We know that a woman's beauty is highly regarded, just like a man's status. A woman will stay longer with a man who has status, and riches (or is handsome) versus a man who is average. You have more time/forgiveness so to speak. Attractive women under the ages of 30 rule the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:27 PM
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Older women (35-40) do like younger men. More energy in bed, and it gives them great validation. But indeed, women from 18-25-30 don't seem to. At least, in most relationships, the guy is older.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:00 PM
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That's funny. I remember a time when all women wanted was just to cuddle and men just wanted the quick lay. Now women are on the go faster
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:23 PM
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Ah don't say that sentence word for word, meant that more as in, find a way to translate that initial attention into man-to-woman energy/sexual energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:18 PM
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I mean, yea. Appearance has to do with how you appear. You have friendly energy and sexual energy. The same goes for women with glasses that have a ''cute'' physique, versus the more sex bomb type. You find out, the ''cute'' ones are as sexual or even more so. It's the whole feminine versus masculine men debate/issue. In general, there are fewer masculine men now because women/society wanted this. But in the end.. did not actually want this. You can use this to your advantage tbh. I have a frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:42 AM
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Why is it always the extreme 1% that gets mentioned : (. There were regular couples too with a stay at home mom and a dude working 60hrs a week lol What you mentioned obviously can't go back to what it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:19 AM
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I'm not sure working in mines, 50-hour risky wage jobs, or sacrificing their lives in armies, was the heavenly haven that keeps getting described by some for men. All I'm saying is, that freedom is more of a curse than people understand. We need some sort of system, or glue, to almost ''force'' things together. It's controversial sure but has truth. The old system needs changes, this is fact. Im just saying, it wasn't ALL wrong. Without law, we'd all live in a purge movie, like beasts. Without s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:30 PM
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This will sound controversial, but it worked. People were together. And a lot learned to love each other, even if that involved some dependence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:39 PM
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The bar for men is increasing over the years and hasn't decreased yet. Online dating statistics indicate that men swipe right 80-90% of the time and women swipe right 5-15% of the time. 8s for men match up with 5s for women. 6s for women match up with any number up to 10/10. A man with even one mental issue is a red-flag incel. A woman with mental illnesses is almost irrelevant. I can't count the number of guys that would date women with insane amount of psychological issues. Its ''cute''. Men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:01 AM
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I only realized this 2 days ago, I legit thought she was 24-ish on the come-up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:34 PM
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You guys want to eat cake but don't gain the calories. You can't have it all. Life is about sacrifice, everything is a double sided-coin. Yes, this means to become more attractive to men you shouldn't just blindly sleep with whoever you feel like, even if that's fun and what you want. Some men wanna play dungeons and dragons and smoke weed every day but still attract high-level women, I'm sorry, you can't have both. We seem to understand this more than women. I will say, this discussion is point…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:45 AM
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The best summary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:17 AM
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Men and women are equal in terms of human worth, but we are not equal in terms of social rules/standards and realities. A women's high N count is not the same as a man's N count. Just like how most men don't need their women to make as much money as them. A man's money is valued more than a women's money for example. Him not giving head and asking for it is definitely entitlement though. Don't give him head if he does not want to give it to you, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:56 AM
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Wild thing is, I'm considering the potential success of this. Scratch board games, at least find the middle-ground; cards. I can see me finding a way to playfully bring up playing cards (maybe who wins pays for the next drink, or if I win at <x> you kiss me) etc. It sounds to me like the main problem is that you might not have enough interesting things to do or say during the coffee date, which is the main issue.
/r/seduction09/05/22 09:45 AM
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You already gave the answer in your first paragraph. I really doubt the majority of the reason has to do with fathers not wanting to be dads. For a mother to give up a child to the father without a death involved or a strong legal case, I just don't see happening. A mother is closest to the child, will win most battles for the custody and is generally seen as the primary caretaker in general (she literally carried and birthed it) more controversial reason; parenting is a lot of women's main pass…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:29 AM
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I disagree. Will was laughing until he noticed that Jada did not like the joke. Chris rock had been making fun of his wife for years before this. Mix that in with the internet thinking he's a ''punk'' he slapped Chris, defending his woman. He also slept with plenty of celebrities, its not just Jada who had entanglements lmao. Relationships are complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:54 PM
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Do it. They are very engaging. Maybe even the 5vs5 (Guys vs Men), combined ones
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:12 PM
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Interesting. I gotta be honest I instantly said ''What, nooo'' when I googled him. He has a .. ''bobblehead figurine'' type look going facially imo. I respect the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:23 PM
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I get what you're saying tbh, it also feels bad rating him that low. Though, seeing his body language in real life he really would not be above a 6. Though, because he has certain features he can adjust that. His skin color also hides certain features more than it would on for example 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:12 PM
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#7 is the most upsetting to me lol. Like, a 1-3 score is like .. my 600lbs life type of stuff. He looks very clean, his personality is a 9, hair nice, pose cool, watch on, it feels wrong giving him a low score. But being small really does affect things ay. He looks boyish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:08 PM
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Only one I disagree with both you and the Vid guy is black girl #2, if you can look past race, you can tell she's actually pretty with good proportions, clean face, tall if you like that. Actually, I don't see why #8 and #5 are rated so high. #1 is much prettier than main guy gave her. Clear winner is 2#. Women/wifes focus too much on being ''nice'' not ''truthful'' as shown by your wifes responses. I'm basing this purely of a still I took at 2:26.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:45 PM
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I feel like we are making different points here. Why not work full-time with a degree vs half-time with a degree? It still shows a lack of full commitment/love to the (masculine) domain of the work environment. (Which is also one of the 18? reasons why women earn less than men they say) I'm not arguing why they follow the line per se, I'm just saying that a guy without a degree might still be as knowledgeable and even more successful than you with a degree (in terms of choosing who to date)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 12:12 PM
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Women statistically follow through and are more successful at finishing College. Not to be ''that'' guy, but that doesn't indicate that there are less desirable men logically. Unfortunately, women don't like to date below their degree belt, but; Men are more rebellious and women follow the line more. So men will drop out to follow their own paths/businesses/hustles while women go along with the norm. Many women after getting their degree start working part-time, men full-time. So the degrees are…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:50 AM
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TBF, most people can't dance well enough and it takes longer. I am the spotlight if I do go clubbin' so it might be a bit different. I still feel being in the moment and enjoying self attract more than being too logical there. I get it though
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:59 PM
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I disagree with that completely IMO. Maybe it depends. I ALWAYS go to the club to actually dance. I ignore everything and everybody for an hour or two, I then look up, and see groups of girls eyeing me. It builds comfort, it's safe for them, they see I'm having fun and here for me. Girls can sense when you are there just to get ass. If you go to the club, you go for yourself first, and you see what else gets attracted. If you go to the library, you go there to read a book, then you look around a…
/r/seduction03/03/22 12:44 PM
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What has monogamy to do with being a virgin though? That would mean he can't get into relationships (And then have sex). Which also indicates... above. Depends on which age range we're speaking on too. Very conservative men are rare nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:35 PM
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Hm, yes mostly. Stereotypical Cold approaching is almost like Tinder to me. Most men ask for a phone number after a 5-10 minute conversation. There is no chemistry, connection, deepness, story there. She saw your face/body - attracted to you, and gave you a number after 5 minutes. It's like OLD, that just transitions into casual sex more often. Change the method, talk to them for longer if you don't, take them out right there, take it slower. A number is only as strong as the conversation you ha…
/r/seduction03/03/22 12:32 PM
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It's an indication that men can't get women though, which usually would mean they are ugly/autistic/socially akward. Unless we're talking 20, 18<
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:10 PM
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Depending on which level of concept you're dissecting this topic, going on a date is paying for sex. It all depends on what makes you feel morally oke. It's just the difference between Direct >>>>> Indirect. I enjoy not paying directly because I like the skill aspect of it, and I like the idea of using other traits but money to get the cookie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:47 PM
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I will say this; Texting destroys attraction/sexual tension. Red Pill or not this is true. Part of the reason couples break up so fast is because they are in their faces so much, all the time. Save a story for the end of the week, save what happened to you today for your next date, etc. It's a waste. I'm a texter so I enjoy a good back and forth, the point is to always keep the meetup in mind and never let it substitute for it. Problem with over texting is, women get comfortable with that and do…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:00 PM
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It's one of my pet peeves really lol, bugs me. I don't like to socialize every hour, or even every day. I might even have read it, but we don't have to destroy our attraction by constantly texting. But ay, different roads for different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:59 PM
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There is no ''self-control'' for 95% of men, because most men can't get women easy. Most men have be very skilled to actually bed a lot of women - or clearly high value (attractive +8, charisma +8) it's a skill. A women could walk into a bar, scream UUUUGHHHH - Point to her Vagina while spit is drooling from her mouth - and at least 10 men would take her offer right there. So, it's the opposite - its giving in to zero effort. Its the easy way out. It's very simple but for some reason still seen …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:30 PM
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I feel like the title statement and what you wrote are two separate issues. There have been theories that men are doing all this in some sort of cock contest to impress OTHER men, this I won't dispute as much tbh. Women do this too by bragging about how much their BF makes, the job he has, income, etc. Replying to the title alone, I disagree. I don't think men that just use women to ''smash'' care about how many men she slept with before. It's probably the opposite, the relationship type, the av…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:12 PM
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I disagree with the first statement, the second statement defines the main issue we have with dating imo. There are ''bodybuilding'' forums that discuss sex and difficulties dating. These men are all at least 8+ and have a ton of trouble with women (Because mentally, yada-yada, they arn't up to par to their bodies) - there are also cute feminists. I do agree that the bitter people are usually gonna be less desired
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:39 PM
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The problem with this statement in relation to what OP is discussing is define ''treating like shit'' and ''ignoring''. This is part of the high-standard discussion. I've no joke, met women that decided to block/ghost me cause I didn't reply within 2 hours to a text. Or they say I'm not communicating, but they are the ones that are vague and won't directly say what they want. The bar for unworthy is overblown
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:38 PM
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Very interesting main point, I just argued with myself that it IS a step up from a one-night-stands. At least she's trying to be in a relationship even if they all last around 2 months. It's really more a glorified friends with benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:34 PM
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Not gonna lie, I'm obsessed with FDSs toxicity. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/p96mda/boundaries_in_bed/ ^. That man screams HVM to me. With an erection, MID-sex, he respected a ''queen's'' decision to not mess up her curly hair. Obv ruins the mood, so he stood up and took her home. No screaming, complaining, no continuing after the no, he just realized she was not for him. Beautiful reaction to the situation. But of course, FDS interprets this as something bad on his par…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:52 PM
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Part of why I laugh at the social justice phase we are in. It's so pretentious. Stand up for human rights, but in private and close conversations treat your closest like trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:06 AM
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Honest question, how many times in the middle of chemistry, the mood being right. Did a guy stop, go ''Oh uh btw. Can I kiss you now?"' since you were an adult? The consent part is non-verbal. You lean in 80/90% and wait until she closes in the other 10%.
/r/seduction05/08/21 01:44 PM
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Been asked before, but I disagree somewhat. TRP Focuses on self-growth, and constant accountability taking. FDS is more like a rant Reddit, where the only thing being done is complain and pin-point which men to avoid. In a way they are strategies, and ''darker'' places where men and women can vent/rant without being judged too harshly. Both needed. FDS more toxic imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:31 PM
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A man. A young woman is considered high value just by being born. It is harder to maintain it for women as they age though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 11:02 AM
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Ahhh haha, that's the guy from the steam seducer games!
/r/seduction01/08/21 10:35 AM
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To be honest, Red-pill or not, I do believe our overthinking and analyzing this shit is our main problem at the moment. Regardless if attractive people have more success quicker, social awkwardness and not having the balls to even approach is a bigger issue. Even as a 6/10. I remember back when I wasn't as good-looking as now I got girls purely from approaching the ones that looked my way, in class, at work fast with no fear. Just striking convos with no purpose in the beginning. The game, to ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:17 PM
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Some of the replies below are confusing. When anybody gets asked about an N-count in real life, no one counts kissing, making-out or even oral. N-count to me is penetration, P/A. This also includes 3 second seasons, bad sex, vacation sex, club sex, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:00 PM
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You put some time in this ay Interesting tho, would not surprise me. I hope someone does one for Men/Redpillers as well. I believe RP > FDS in terms of mindset, but im guessing it still has somewhat similar results.s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:49 PM
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There could be a thousand reasons for that. But, considering she already found you somewhat attractive enough to go on a date with, it's most likely: Friend vs Partner vibe. You most likely approach dates as if they were with friends or buddies. There is a huge difference between friendly energyy and date/sexual energy. It sounds to be like you are not letting her know you want her sexually. Which has to do with escalating also yea
/r/seduction05/07/21 07:59 AM
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Men don't start showing their value/getting women at ages 30+ Women have been getting men since, lets just say since 18 - 30 non-stop. They've had the experience already and want to settle, men are just realizing their strengths and value and are then seeing succes. Especially with today's demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 02:23 PM
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They are no way similar, people need to stop saying this. Go on the TRP board right now Go on the FDS board right now TRP board will show TIPS on how a man should better themselves, hold themselves accountable, and be a better, alpha male. Conclusion = we are wrong, improve and take accountability. (With the occasional, bitter - rough - view on women) The FDS board will show a bunch of women complaining about men, posting videos of men that say the exact things they want to hear, while also comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 10:34 AM
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Men had too much before. Of course you’re getting less. That’s what equality and women’s liberation are all about. .. You're overestimating how ''amazing'' a man's life was. I'm not talking rich class+ Don't forget men had to work 60-hour shifts in mines, fields, with super high rates of physical injuries/death. I can't name one uncle that hasn't lost at least two fingers. We didn't sit on our ass. We died making money, fought in the wars, and as a result, women had to stay at home and take care…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 10:12 AM
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It depends. If you are fine with a modern man vs a traditional man it all works out. Splitting the bill on dates/splitting house-costs, splitting the households, allowing men to be emotional and weak sometimes, etc. It just seems that women don't want that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 04:16 PM
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say a woman earning 150K and her husband 70K is then expected to also do all of the other duties on top of being the primary breadwinner? ... In modern times, women are playing both roles, but men are still playing the old roles, so it's double work for women to get married, but less work for men. It's been proven that women that make more have a much harder time finding partners. The issue with what you said above is that no woman that makes 150k will ever be with a man who makes 70k, that goes…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 03:34 PM
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The main tips I'd give are: - Go slow. Fast sex is overrated - Be the one leading. If a woman gets on top, it's game over for me too - DON'T clench your muscles (Booty, pelvic, leg area) try to have a sex with all muscles relaxed. - When you're about to blow, pull out and start using your fingers and hands - Rub one out a few hours before sex
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:29 AM
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Women are relationship-oriented creatures, men are ''things'' oriented. This will never change. Everything you just mentioned, remembering dates, emotional talk, birthdays has to do with ''relationship management''. Men don't remember even remember anniversaries, it's not our way of showing love, its yours. A men's duty is to protect, bring the money and be the structure of the house so to speak. He absorbs all his pain to shield you. That's his love language. I disagree that men generally load …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 10:39 AM
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Be consistently, inconsistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:43 AM
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I've never had half as many 18-22-year-olds chase me back when I was 22 as I do now late 20s. To the point I removed the ages 18-21 from dating apps cause there were so many. Women, especially women that are desired by a lot of boys their age want an older man. Everything that says masculine, gets more refined with age for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:31 AM
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Might have something to do with the ethnicity statistics of Redditors, but I definitely like a girl with some fat in the right places (booty, breasts, hips) Those women might be a bit overweight but carry it well. I don't see those as the obese/fat women we speak of in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:48 AM
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Stop having sex with her as if you wanna marry her.
/r/seduction06/04/21 08:03 AM
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I don't think the ''men are wired to fuck all, women are wired to fuck the top 10%/20%' is a controversial statement. Nor do I think those women that sleep with those men (who do like casual sex IMO, I disagree with that part) are the definition of slutty. The above statement is the reason why men keep evolving the way we do, so it's necessary. The part that gets me personally, is when I see the bottom women expect all men to actually be those fictional perfectly seeming (seeming is key here) to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:58 AM
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That's another Redpill rule; always put your women second, to, an ambition/career/passion/hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:36 AM
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Thats the truth. Notice how none of those women could really pinpoint ''why''. Everything about all these men was perfect, these men were probably out of their leagues on paper, but..still nothing. Unfortunately when groups like TRP then say, ''see, don't be too nice, don't be too affectionate, don't be the perfect boyfriend, don't be easy, don't say I love you every day'' <- it's in reference to that ''he's perfect but also..not?'' and women respond very harshly to those statements in brackets,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:44 AM
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The definition kind of explains the why. Men, in general, are like that often ways. If a woman has sex with 1 of the 4 men only, it's not a weird connection to make that she most likely has that guy as her #1. Men want sex, and quality men don't waste time. So, move on to the next or indeed move her down the priority list for just sex only.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:06 AM
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