DaughtersofLilith Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
130	Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name? Same, but me and my hubby decided on a new name together, and we share that now. We both like it way better than our given names.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/21 05:16 AM
15	How Men Became "Emotional Gold Diggers" Good term	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/21 05:11 AM
18	The controversy on engagement rings shows how far liberal feminism has gone "I truly think liberal feminism has set women up to be used and abused with no repercussions" Preach, sis.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/08/21 04:17 AM
10	“Can’t make a wife out of a ho*” and more bullshit I dunno, I can imagine a world where women might pay for an actually good sex experience with a man who has put sufficient time and effort into understanding how to really please a woman in body and mind and make a sexual encounter all about her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/21 06:28 PM
32	Never stop getting the bag Queens! 💰 It would help a lot of we had reasonable paid time off for maternity leave and care giving responsibilities. As it is, women often have to choose between financial independence or being able to actually be there for her kids in the way she wants to.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 10:29 PM
56	Reddit admins and powermods having a staff meeting to discuss r/abortion Reddit is so gross. This sub is literally the only reason I am here anymore	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/21 09:52 PM
56	UNICEF Report Says Pornography Not Always Harmful to Children I don't doubt it. They flock to positions authority over vulnerable children, so why the hell wouldn't they seek out UNICEF jobs.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/21 09:48 PM
12	UNICEF Report Says Pornography Not Always Harmful to Children <screaming>	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/21 09:47 PM
82	Girls-Only Gym In The US Ignites Discussion On Whether It’s ‘Segregation’ Or Protection Of Women Problem is even "women's only" spaces are inclusive to men now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/21 04:45 AM
6	All the men in the replies saying that it's unfair, getting immediately shut down 💅 South Korea has a really rad feminist scene. Granted, it's because things are pretty terrible for women there, but those ladies fighting back are damn amazing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/04/21 03:43 AM
5	All the men in the replies saying that it's unfair, getting immediately shut down 💅 I got fired for my last job for underperforming while on my period.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/04/21 03:41 AM
8	All the men in the replies saying that it's unfair, getting immediately shut down 💅 Don't forget "ejaculators", "prostate people" and "scrotum havers". Shit, I don't even men's groups that are "open to people who identify as male". Somehow men get to just be men while women tie ourselves in knots to redefine ourselves so as to not make anyone feel bad.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/04/21 03:40 AM
2	The connection between women's progress and misogynist backlash Andrea Dworkin was right about so. many. things.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/04/21 03:26 AM
7	Men frame women's sexuality as desiring to be looked at, as passive object brought to life by lustful male gazes. Women's sexual desire is suppressed by men using shame and gaslighting. Yep, Me! Started in my teens by male bosses in their 40's. You nailed it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 04:45 AM
57	The connection between women's progress and misogynist backlash This is so good, thank you. I think it's no coincidence that in the western world, pretty much at the exact moment women started getting some power (1970's), porn began to explode. It's like men can only tolerate pretending to respect us publicly if the get to jerk off to images of us being dominated, humiliated and in pain from them privately. The more public power we got, the more deranged porn got. And the more exacting standards of beauty got. In the past few years, as it seemed like our pow…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/21 05:23 AM
10	How To Avoid The “Nice Guy” Wow. I wish I could send that back in time to my younger self.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/21 05:55 AM
13	“Your body is more than a vehicle for desire” YES QUEEN. Breasts👏🏻don’t👏🏻exist👏🏻for👏🏻grown👏🏻men👏🏻. End of. Same! Braless and lawless over here. I tried to put one back on recently and after an hour it felt like a mild torture device.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 11:28 PM
77	She didn't lie I love that smart women are finally starting to connect the dots.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 04:30 AM
43	Trailer for "Kevin Can Go F Himself"; between this and Promising Young Woman, it feels we might be in the middle of a cultural reckoning. The going back and forth between the sitcom version of her life and the bleaker reality seems potentially potent. It reminds me of a blogger I read during MeToo talking about going back through a lot of her past experiences with men which she thought of as funny stories of bad dates and realizing - wait, that wasn't a bad date, that was assault/attempted assault. She made a comparison to feeling like she had been living in the recut version of the trailer of silence of the lambs that made it loo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/21 01:31 AM
102	Older women aren't taking men's BS after divorce and widowhood. It's so affirming to see older women enjoying lives that aren't centered around men. I think we're going to see a lot more of this as these next generations reach retirement age Another reason to prioritize our female friendships.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/21 01:20 AM
31	What other women's contributions throughout history were attributed to men by sheer default? We may never know. Just looked it up! This looks really good. Thank you, it's on my to-be-read list now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/21 06:40 AM
191	What other women's contributions throughout history were attributed to men by sheer default? We may never know. If you want to blow your mind even further, find a copy of the book The Great Cosmic Mother. It has a lot of good theories and evidence that early women also invited language, pottery, early science, cooking with fire and so many other things. The book helped me reorient my ideas of what it means to be a woman.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/21 05:19 AM
8	They’ll Just Have Sex With Anything Won’t They? What is this language? "Attempting to engage in sexual intercourse" NO. Attempting to rape. Call it what it is. Also, thank you dog. It will now be harder for this man to go on raping.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 08:36 PM
82	Why is it “gross” for women to have body hair despite the fact that every adult woman's body naturally grows hair, but when a guy has hair on his body and armpits it's okay? I stopped shaving my pits and legs a few years ago. It was hard at first, and I went a whole summer without wearing shorts, but now I love it. It's also a great deterrent for the kinds of men I don't want to be with anyway.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 07:53 PM
36	Hollywood's indoctrination and social conditioning of women We can get more specific. Mediocre, unattractive men produced most of the movies.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/21 02:45 AM
4	Remember: You're allowed to have creative time. The dishes can wait (or someone else can do them) I've read and re-read this book many times. It is so full of wisdom. At this point, I have so many highlighted portions, I can just flip it open randomly when I need some inspiration.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/21 04:32 AM
30	This is nice but if you’re on a date at Hooters it’s already not going well. This is one of the many reasons why women's only bathrooms are so necessary. If a predator knows this, he's going to do everything his power to make sure you never go to the bar by yourself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/21 06:07 PM
13	"Sex work is empowering" sounds suspiciously a lot like "trauma induced hypersexuality" I think you're on to something.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 12:44 AM
13	Ashamed to say I’ve been there. Got the dummy prize of “wow he’s spending $60 on me so this can be more pleasurable” and the “I’m a dumb pick me tshirt” lol grateful for this message and FDS, merry Christmas. Vasectomies before female sterilization, always. For us, it's invasive abdominal surgery, for them it's a 10 minute out patient procedure.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/20 01:28 AM
31	Where is the lie? Glad to hear he's your ex.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/20 01:12 AM
10	Why This Isn't Working: They Can't Reconcile Their Image of "The One" With Their Fundamental Contempt for Us Well said!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/12/20 03:30 AM
66	Why This Isn't Working: They Can't Reconcile Their Image of "The One" With Their Fundamental Contempt for Us I think this is really insightful. Men make us creatures beneath them, and then are surprised that they don't feel fulfilled by our love. Or they make us into a goddess, and then are disgusted at our humanity.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/12/20 12:41 AM
16	Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member. This sounds like absolute heaven. I love the sense of freedom and safety you got to grow up with. What a gift. The Mediterranean is also my favorite part of Earth. I think I am going to try to train my brain to dream about this place when I sleep.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/20 01:15 AM
41	Did you know that "aftercare" was a thing with BDSM? I think 'WHY' is the question so critically lacking when it comes to a lot of stuff to do with liberal feminism/choice feminism. OK, so you feel empowered taking stripper classes. Why? No really, why?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/20 01:09 AM
12	Never Give an Inch—Its Small and Fragile and the Only Thing Worth Having This book is great. I'm reading it right now. I wish I could go back in time and give it to my 18 year old self. I got a lot out of the part of how predators "interview" you to get information and figure out how likely you are to be able to say no or not, to protect yourself or not.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/20 09:58 PM
37	Why don’t men get karma as severe as we do? My view is that it's not Karma so much as Patriarchy in action. It's a system set up by men for men, to assist men over women at every turn. Men consistently get to "fail forward". The dominate and subjugate us in order to do so.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/20 06:21 AM
11	Exactly Women's oppression is the foundation upon which all of civilization, in every corner of the globe, is built. Therefore, it is invisible to most of us. Like water to a fish. Misogyny and oppression are what we swim in.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/20 06:06 AM
1	I wanna thank this sub for helping me recognize my strength... Congrats to you. It takes a lot of strength and bravery to leavel. Stay safe. Consider a restraining order if possible.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 01:17 AM
1	I wanna thank this sub for helping me recognize my strength... Truly. Hell hath no fury like an LVM scored. For real tho.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 01:15 AM