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2	Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing. Perhaps and perhaps this whole construct is sour grapes .. You've constructed one possible male position from a number of disparate piece of information into what you believe men think. I don't know a single man that would agree with your construct as whole. It is the exception a man can get two women to compete over him. I would agree a man doing this isn't worth (or very rarely worth) your time. It is the norm that attractive women have any number of males vying for her she pays against each o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 08:09 PM
1	The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to pegging Seems like a straight forward question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 05:47 AM
2	The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to pegging Is she wanting to do them, and you don't want it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:38 AM
1	The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to pegging Did you try asking for it and get turned down?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:17 AM
1	Men who continue to raise the kid after realizing it isn't there's are accepting the fruad Although Im not sure I agree the older father has no choices - he can still cut the kids off when he learns, inheritance, or affection, or access to other family. Sure thats a diff scenario than #2 Typically what happens in the second situation where the father stays while knowing and the kids arent out of the nest is that although they are "together" the nature of the relationship never recovers. OR he may turn a blind eye choosing to forget about that part of the relationship and truly start o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 08:46 PM
0	Men who continue to raise the kid after realizing it isn't there's are accepting the fruad There are shades of gray to this. One can accept it with one party and ignore or front and center it with the other. One could continue to love the kids or the wife the same - or hold the wife accountable and destroy that relationship in kind and still love the kids or vice versa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 07:38 PM
1	I don’t believe men are primarily valued for how many women they sleep with Men are not judged by this. No guy I've ever met, worked with, grew up, been to school, or been an acquaintance with care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 10:45 PM
1	I don’t believe men are primarily valued for how many women they sleep with They aren't, guys don't care. I cant remember asking any dude over known or met in my entire life how many women he's slept with, nor has any one of the guys I grew up with up with , worked or went to school with asked me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 10:21 PM
6	Would you hate even more the french dating scene ? So when it doesn't go so well between a couple how does child support, and paternity verification/assignment work?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 07:03 PM
1	Do you think weaponised incompetence around housework exists? If not, why not? If so, where do you think it comes from? I think its more accurate to say - some men don't care. Some of my friends are ridiculously neat and clean. If one is in a relationship with a total slob that just doesn't care then maybe there is a lack of compatibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 08:32 PM
2	Do you think weaponised incompetence around housework exists? If not, why not? If so, where do you think it comes from? It exists and an "out" but it's a teenage level strategy that only succeeds if allowed to. Unless the perpetrator is forced to live with their sloppy work it can succeed. At 7 I was given a folding board with my birthday present, and taught that I would be folding my own shirts and clothes going forward. If I didi a crap job I looked like a hobo and mom didn't save me from that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 02:50 PM
1	Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many women Well that's one layer of judgement anyway. It's kind of like the saying - nothing succeeds like success. When I went from not popular to popular my opportunities squared. It was weird because to me I was the same guy that couldnt land a gal regardless then I had multiple opportunities	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 03:57 AM
2	It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying it It's better to be alone than wish you were. Being alone doesn't mean you are necessarily lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 02:52 PM
1	Who do the really attractive women end up with? Usually men on par or greater than them looks and resource wise. Resources can trade for looks a few points - I'm kinda ugly but managed to land much better looking women than a poor guy with my looks could land. Being successful adds confidence and self esteem in a man both things that carry a level of attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 05:58 PM
1	Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties? First question - no. Son "A". He has zero interest in a relationship with women or men. He's the definition of asexual. Decent but not great looking, doing pretty well in life as an engineer. He's tried to date, but finds the women he can pull to be needy untenable bores and would rather just go it alone that deal with the ritual of dating. He'd rather be alone than wish he was. Son "B" has already been married and divorced by 30. Second question - cant speak to this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 02:47 PM
2	How do you explain successful men that end up marrying sluts? Id say the 80/20 rule applies and this is the 20% part. Sure it happens but it isn't the norm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/23 06:47 PM
2	Does the fact that a guy friend would bang his female friend if given the chance mean he's not really her friend? You are describing orbiters, not friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 11:15 AM
8	Does the fact that a guy friend would bang his female friend if given the chance mean he's not really her friend? A friend would never put you in a place to " give in", or resist to begin with. If they are pressuring you into sex they aren't friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 05:49 AM
7	Does the fact that a guy friend would bang his female friend if given the chance mean he's not really her friend? No, as long as you're really a friend and not an orbiter pretending to be a friend. A casual encounter could occur.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 05:47 AM
-1	Do Fresh and Fit bring women on the show to actually discuss dating topics or are they trying to embarrass them or something else? I dont think they hate women. At this point that being a women on that show is a bit like being on Jerry Springer - you know whats coming and if you don't you're dumb. 90% of the girls on that show are trash anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 12:41 AM
17	As a man, can you be interested in sex but not relationships? Sure, you can completely be into relationship-less sex. Can you get it though? Not likely if you are honest up front, it's going to be difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 12:51 AM
2	What do you think has lead to a decline in men "putting themselves out there"? Sometimes the only way to win, is to not play the game to start with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 03:47 AM
1	Does money automatically make you more attractive to women or is it more than just that? No but having money makes life with you a more attractive proposition. Its add points to your attractiveness and buys you face time. -its more than just money- Money has to be used properly to work for you so IF you got money but no game you aren't much better off. I call myself a 5 on the looks scale - but I'm rich, dress, well, have game, and pulled down dates and mates that were 8's and 9's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 04:25 AM
1	When does dating market decline for men? If you have money - never.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/23 08:21 PM
1	Why do people have a problem with men leaving the country to get a girlfriend and or wife? What if the man doesn't want an American woman, but prefers a woman from a different culture - like say a Canadian woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 02:16 AM
2	Why do people have a problem with men leaving the country to get a girlfriend and or wife? By "people" you mean women. Men have no problem with it. It's just hypocrisy. An attractive woman has global access to partners thanks to social media and cheap travel. They wouldn't dream of limiting themselves to a local man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 03:59 PM
1	Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men. I wouldn't say female friends "just aren't as good friends". I would say they are different. Just like not all guy friends are the same, neither are female friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 06:41 PM
1	Have you ever turned a woman down for her body count? Yes. It wasn't the n count per se, but the behavior patterns that lead to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 12:11 AM
1	ladies lets discuss Why men's preference for lower n-count women doesn't actually change anything You ask a few questions. Q - Are low N count women really racking up proposals? A. Yes, as are high N count women. The question is are they from high quality suitors? Q- So wouldn’t women with multiple proposals in their past tend to have higher n counts? A. Yes Guys aren't expecting no N count. A past is expected. High N count diminishes desirability. There is no getting around this. Men with choices will, if all else is equal, prefer a lower N count. Men without choices get what they can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 11:54 PM
0	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? Gender should play no role. The person that asks should pay for the date. Why? They extended the invitation. It's up to them to pay. If your date never offers to take you out it speaks leagues of their character.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 11:20 PM
3	ladies lets discuss Why men's preference for lower n-count women doesn't actually change anything Its true a high N count wont stop a woman from getting dates. What it limits are the amount of proposals for marriage a woman will get from high quality men. No hate just truth, a woman's past matters, and no amount of justification one can muster for it to be otherwise changes that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 05:35 AM
1	Do men lose attraction to their partners over time? Depends. I become less attracted to women I dont get along with over time no matter how beautiful they might have been or still are. IF the relationship is good they get more beautiful and attractive to me. When I look at my wife I see the same woman I saw 20 years ago and because our relationship is great - its even better. Im more in love than I was when we married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/22 03:06 PM
3	Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom? No prob. Happy to put on or bring into bed whatever gets her going. I want my woman to cum and cum hard. What if I have also been faking because she's a little too loose for me to get off - and I asked for oral, anal, or toys to compensate? Any reason she should be insecure learning her vagina wont really do it for me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 03:29 AM
3	To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think? I always heard you still have to pay up front some amount as well as pay for rentals(she cant work gotta protect the baby) , prenatal care, and some times housing as you go- you don't lose it all, but you lose a lot - plus the year of your life in starting a family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 04:52 PM
0	To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think? The big problem with that is that you cant actually control a surrogate after the child is born, but lets say in theory you can guarantee the outcome you want - thats perfectly acceptable for a guy that can afford it. Instead of giving a wife money - you simply pay for domestic help that likely stays in your house so often there is a dedicated room for that person. Trust me thats cheaper than my ex wife was. You do not need a wife to have and raise a family. A child raised in a financially secur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 04:40 PM
2	Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men? It isn't universally true that it's always " devastating to men". The heartbreak of betrayal isnt unique to men. Both sexes can be utterly devastated by the act. Other times either side can be amazingly casual about it. A cheating women presents a mans worst case potential for paternity fraud, and quite often completely disqualifies the women from being wife material/ worthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 03:01 PM
1	What’s the different between a close friendship and an emotional affair? If one NEEDS vs. values the other persons input, contact, feedback and validation its an emotional affair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 09:48 PM
1	The Oscars Megathread Actually the Academy publishes a set of rules and guideline for attendance and award acceptance you must agree to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 11:41 AM
0	How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think. IF you respect the person and they can articulate their position it can be great. I'm fiscally conservative - but socially liberal. Wife is liberal on every level. We get along superbly and have lively discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 01:38 AM
1	It seems like men don’t really approach women anymore, especially in the west. What are your thoughts on this? Couple of reasons Traditional roles are dead, they've been killed off and there simply isn't the need to do it anymore. The risk to reward ratio is way off, to put it simply - the juice isn't worth the squeeze.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 05:17 PM
5	The Oscars Megathread So was Mel Gibson. Will was an A lister - today he's damaged goods with a lifetime of work defined by losing his shit on the very day he hit the top.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 04:02 AM
2	What are the dating prospects for the bottom 20% of men? When they are young - pretty shitty. As they get older and the women in their potential circle age - not as bad as it sounds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 12:57 AM
2	The Oscars Megathread I imagine they are referring to activity outside the event which isnt really germaine to the situation. (I know... the god damm Germans got nothing to do with it) Up until this show there wasn't a security concern because every person in this audience is there by invitation and vetted thoroughly, as well as abided by the Academys agreed upon code of conduct. There is so much at stake and to lose by behaving like that, of those that had considered it all refrained because of the consequences of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 12:50 AM
3	The Oscars Megathread Who has done something worse at the academy awards ceremony than what Will did?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 12:02 AM
2	The Oscars Megathread Historically who? Has anyone every assault the host then threatened them before?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 11:39 PM
2	The Oscars Megathread eh...like who ? Has anyone flat out assaulted the Mcee before?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 11:37 PM
5	The Oscars Megathread As a person working in the TV/Film industry - Wills got to go. To not remove him completely from the community invites more of the same behavior and condones his actions. It's not ok to simply decide you dont like the target of a comedians joke, assault the comedian, and yell out threats and profanity. That isn't how the industry has or can be allowed to operate. The Academy needs to take a zero tolerance stance on this as they would if it were a random guy that did it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 02:55 PM
1	Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide. Some men may but not all. Friendship is a give and take regardless of the sexes involved. If attention and energy only flow one way - the friendship will die.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 02:50 PM
2	Going to the gym won't really change much Incorrect. Regardless of how you may look you will build stamina, strength, and confidence. You will feel better about yourself, and self esteem goes a long way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 03:33 AM
1	Honestly, would you leave a 7 in looks who you loved and had other shared interests/ values with, for a 10? Nope. I divorced a 9 with no one else in tow because she was always miserable. Married a 7 that loves me to death and she's become a 10 to me because of the way she is, and treats me. Never been happier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 06:22 AM
1	Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that? As a whole more men are in management/leadership/boardroom positions at work, and conflict is more prevalent with more direct reports. Not saying this should be the case, only that it is. I believe the last study I read was that in the US something like 86% of all managers are male. I believe if the question of agreeableness were posited to a group of Woman business leaders, boardroom managers she would also prioritize agreeableness as a trait in a mate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 04:16 PM
-1	Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that? Work your way up a corporate ladder then ask that question. Deal with difficult clients, suppliers, employees, for decades on end and ask that question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 04:31 AM
2	Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that? Men desire this trait because most of their working life is filled with combat, tension, and strife. At the end of the they do not want that to continue at home.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 04:28 AM
7	Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy? No. Not more important but its a cornerstone in terms of importance. If thats all there is, the relationship almost always fails, without it it almost always fails.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 06:59 PM
1	How many men actually prefer monogamy? Im rich, travel a lot, and spend lots of time around beautiful women all over the world. Im one of the rare guys that has a hall pass. I've never felt the desire to play the card. If I didnt get what I needed from my wife i'd play around. I do though. I have complex needs that so far only my wife can fulfill. She knows just how to do all the things I want and need, and does them perfectly. It took a long time to get there. I get it better at home that I have with anyone else so I find myself…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 04:42 AM
1	Tattoos are a cheat code for getting girls I needed a laugh today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 04:22 AM
1	Weed legalization I think the problem isnt weed, its prescription anti depression drugs. SSRI's.	/r/MGTOW	14/02/21 01:10 AM
7	This weeks chuck award goes to.... Girlfriend is pregnant.	/r/MGTOW	09/12/20 03:36 AM
1	Why do people see MGTOW as toxic. Its seems to me like people have ruined its true meaning. ..because radical content always gets more attention than reasonable content, the radical content gets associated in every group as its view /belief/ mantra. Mgtow isnt about hate its about understanding and focusing on yourself vs spending time money and effort fixating on females and female approval. There are plenty of sites that promote relationships and relatively few that promote an inward journey of being happy with yourself vs depending on something you cannot control for happiness, or f…	/r/MGTOW2	14/11/20 06:19 PM
7	This is getting crazy. Having taken half the original income from the gentleman that earned it. Now i'd guess the province gets to take half of it again when he pays her. Is palimony deductible in Ontario?	/r/MGTOW	11/09/20 03:28 AM
1	Don't let sons be simps Doesnt look that way to me. If Marty is so well off or he wouldnt complain about the money the kid spent or spend more time getting it back. Seems money is the first issue and content/context of spend is secondary.	/r/MGTOW	08/09/20 02:41 PM
1	Don't let sons be simps If the message is that dad is ruled by emotions vs. logic then he did a great job. Such moves probably felt good, but is ultimately a foolish waste of resources that can be recovered or simply relocated, gifted, or given to someone disadvantaged.	/r/MGTOW	07/09/20 04:58 PM
8	Don't let sons be simps Why not sell the laptop vs destroy it Marty?	/r/MGTOW	07/09/20 02:56 AM
2	You reap what you sow. GYOW, men. No one was wondering.	/r/MGTOW	03/09/20 10:44 PM
2	Dr. Dre getting divorced, wife says the prenup was signed under pressure. What are your thoughts on this? 2 things kill the "under pressure" claim If its been signed by her attorney that wont fly. If it was signed at least 30 days prior to the wedding it won't fly.	/r/MGTOW	07/08/20 05:25 AM
3	They're not calling him an asshole, but in-fact telling him to get a divorce and then get another dog. Little do they know, he WILL be raped in family court with 3 kids on the hook. Oh boy... She already killed one dog and lied about it. I wouldn't give her a shot at killing another. Sounds like a terrible woman, you're fucked mate.	/r/MGTOW	15/07/20 09:16 PM
1	Usefulness of prenups Get both her lawyer and your lawyer to sign it independently and it means a something. Saved me a mint.	/r/MGTOW	14/08/19 03:12 AM
0	Set your standards and stop spending time with people who you don’t really want to spend time with. Stop being easily accessible to everyone and every time. In many places you can compete with busy hospitals for much lower cost - and the machine is an investment. My hospital charges 10K on its face to do one- a third party will do it for 1500.00 - there is room for independents	/r/MGTOW	05/08/19 07:05 PM
1	300k in debt -> decides to have a child 4 degrees and cant figure out how loans work.......	/r/MGTOW	09/07/19 04:19 AM
1	Pregnant and only interested in platonic friendship until I drop Chad baby Where do I sign up! lol	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	29/06/19 11:37 PM
1	Mandingo was here. She already has a pre-made family by Tyrone. She just wants something real. Something real expensive and rich. She’s a hairdresser and probably serviced Tyrone. Now her son needs a father figure coz Tyrone drifted off to never land and he ain’t payin’ no child support. Bye!	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	29/06/19 11:36 PM
1	What's the Deal with Women in Their Mid-Twenties Being Interested in Middle-Aged Guys? Money.	/r/MGTOW	18/05/19 04:30 PM
25	Men in high positions are not taking chances with women in the workplace. Guess who the media blames. Hilarious - " men continue to miss the point" - actually that's incorrect - we get it. The #metoo movement reaps what it sows.	/r/MGTOW	17/05/19 10:18 PM
1	Usefulness of a Pre-Nup Quebec has you in common law after 12 months of living together.	/r/MGTOW	08/05/19 01:01 AM
1	Usefulness of a Pre-Nup Bullshit - ever heard of palimony? The "safest" way to go is to avoid all relationships.	/r/MGTOW	08/05/19 12:54 AM
1	Usefulness of a Pre-Nup It worked for me in California - pretty tough place for a divorce. With both attorneys sigs its really hard to claim it was illegal, unfair or not understood and judges pay attention to these details. Get a copy from your friend, redact the personal data and post it up- I bet he tried to shortcut the details.	/r/MGTOW	08/05/19 12:53 AM
-1	Usefulness of a Pre-Nup Bullshit - a real prenup is solid protection By real I mean and actual document signed by each person and by their representative attorney. It also needs to be done at least 30 days before marriage or you one can claim coercion. You cant hand out a typed copy of some list in the morning the day you get married and say " oh bye the way sign this". That shit won't fly. DO this update it every 10 years and never co mingle funds and you will have some measure of protection.	/r/MGTOW	07/05/19 03:00 AM
2	Yup The magic stick that makes mens toys disappear.	/r/MGTOW	05/05/19 02:46 AM
2	I wish I could buy my private plane and give it a codename : THOTNATOR 100+ combat wins - zero combat losses. Being the best comes at a price.	/r/MGTOW	03/05/19 12:12 AM
1	She may be hot now but you’ll do better in the future bruddahs, focus on yourself and your life. To be fair - she wasn't hot then either.	/r/MGTOW	02/05/19 11:59 PM
3	"Democrats in the California Legislature have embraced the feminist notion that women claiming rape should always be believed, and more importantly, never questioned." They didn't embrace Juanita Broaderick ????	/r/MensRights	29/04/19 01:12 AM
1	At your job, NEVER let anyone know that you're a single bachelor. Now my manager has me in her crosshairs. Be smart. You dont have to fake shit. Unless you are just being a bitch ass whiner over one issue and this is untrue. Go to HR and complain you are being discriminated against. If you are telling the truth - you are. This sounds like a hostile work environment where you are repeatedly assigned others duties. Its also possible you are being discriminated against because of your chosen lifestyle is a minority in the workplace. Insist on unbiased rotation - period.	/r/MGTOW	28/04/19 05:06 PM
1	[34F] Stay at home mom (3) who can’t drive and works on the side “for fun” has “plenty of time for a man”. “Do not waste my time with a hookup!” “Want passion! ❤️” Whoa.....more forehead than Rhianna. Had to scroll to the next page....	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	01/04/19 11:43 PM
2	Time to come out of the closet. How many of us have been assaulted by girlfriends or wives and N.E.V.E.R. called the cops because we sucked it up? Time for #men too. I have 1st time I blew it off. 2nd time I told her never to do it again because if I hit her back it could permanently hurt her so I have no other choice if she did it again but to call the cops. 3rd time She blind sucker punched me and pushed my glasses into the side of my head and cut my face up. I called the cops. What happened? said the cops after initially approaching me as if Id done something wrong - I told him (she didn't work) from what I can tell - she was home all day drinking and l…	/r/MGTOW	05/03/19 02:42 AM
3	Dating sites explained perfectly Hollywood Sex wars - not as funny as the original boys and girls guide to getting down.	/r/MGTOW	04/03/19 11:13 PM
1	Men who have been to marriage counseling, Did it help? Nope - waste of money time and effort.	/r/MGTOW	24/02/19 02:17 PM