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| 2 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?Yeah it's interesting. Women would generally be heart broken if she found out he lied and used her for sex. But if I found out she did that, I'd be like "wow, really? I feel so flattered right now. You lied to me, manipulated me, you did all that work... just so you could get in my pants? Wow, I must be like a f*cking mega sexually irresistable hunk to you. I will remember this feeling for the rest of my life. Thank you for lying and manipulating me. Sincerely. *sheds tear*" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Guys, it’s actually weird to be willing to sleep with any woman that is attractiveIt's rare to find someone interesting. And it's rare to find someone hot. Finding someone who is both is like looking for Bigfoot. I did see one woman on OkCupid who had an interesting personality. That was over a year ago. And I still think about her. That's how rare it is to find interesting people on this planet. We actually had things in common. And she was also pretty hot. Too bad she didn't respond. I still wish I could had her in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?That's what I feared. I don't wanna be Madonna zoned. I wanna be a Whore. It's much more flattering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?When I say 'deprived', I'm not saying that we should blame or pressure others for it. I'm merely saying that it's an experience he won't get to have, which is unfortunate for him (if he desires that experience). I'm not blaming anyone for it. "accusing them of not loving / being as attractive to them if they won’t do it" Why are you using the word 'accusing'? It's just a personal insecurity, not about necessarily accusing someone. Just like if your boyfriend suggested a threesome, you (the gener… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?I ain't no conservative. I need those sexually liberal women. I've had enough sex negativity and shame for about 10 life times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?Finding partners (casual or serious) is not easy for everyone. Let alone finding a threesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:52 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?-_- | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?How can I get women to see me as a Whore and not Madonna zone me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?It's like comparing a right wing conservative to a normal Republican. Aren't they the same thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?Okay, that makes sense, I get it. The validation is there, which is a very important aspect. I get it. But he still will be deprived of that experience whereas the hookup guy will get that fantasy fulfilled. So that's unfortunate for the relationship guy (if he desires the threesome experience). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:16 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?Doesn't it seem like there are women who do that though? I don't know how common it is, but you've seen women who do give men a chance or go into relationships even though the guy was not her physical type, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?Okay. Fair play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?It doesn't matter. All human beings are sluts in their fantasies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?But you just admitted that your fiancee is not a guy you would have normally hooked up with? Can't you feel a little empathy if he (or another man in his situation) would feel insecure about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?Poor guy. This is my fear, that women will give me a chance, even though they don't find me physically / sexually attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?So you didn't think he was relationship material, and that's why you had a threesome with him? But if you thought that he was relationship material, you wouldn't have had a threesome with him? Isn't that what the OP is suggesting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 12:41 AM |
| 0 | CMV : personality is just as shallow a reason to be with somebody as looksNah, the vast majority of people are painfully uninteresting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 11:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV : personality is just as shallow a reason to be with somebody as looksYou may be the smartest or kindest person in the world, but if you're just sitting silently or unable to communicate well, they won't be able to see that facet of you. Which is exactly why I think it's shallow to judge someone for their external performance like that. Just because someone isn't showing off. That's the thing. People are too complex to judge them and label them into a little box, all based on a short 5 min interaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 05:24 PM |
| 0 | CMV : personality is just as shallow a reason to be with somebody as looksAbsolutely agree. "Confidence" or "charisma" are not deep parts of someone. They're just external acts / performance. I think it's just as shallow (as looks) to judge someone based on their "confidence" (arrogance) in a certain situation. It's just one situation. It doesn't tell you how that person is in other respects. I think it's shallow to categorize people as "this person is confident" or "this person is insecure." I think people are much more complex than that. We all have things we feel g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 03:32 PM |
| 4 | CMV : personality is just as shallow a reason to be with somebody as looksBut someone's looks makes you feel things too. I don't see how feeling attracted to someone's "confidence" or "charisma" is any less shallow than being attracted to someone's looks. "Confidence" or "charisma" are not deep parts of someone, they're just external acts / performance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 03:25 PM |
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