DavidStamina Archive

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1	Best countries to get laid? I just finished daygame coaching an 5'7 Indian born American client, 9 days infield coaching, in Bangkok Thailand. We did a full looksmaxxing make over, and tons of approaches. He already had 3 lays with girls 21, 22 and 25 (same day lay yesterday). He is 52 yo. He moved to Thailand specifically because it's easier to find a good girl there, petite short, cute, young etc. You wanna do the same?	/r/seduction	29/07/26 08:15 AM
-1	Daygame in Sweden, my experience How many approaches done in total in Sweden? How many approaches done in total on average in other cities? How many dates per approach in Sweden: (Dates_in_Sweden) ÷ (Approaches_in_Sweden) = ? How many dates per approach on average in other cities:(Dates_in_other_cities_average) ÷ (Approaches_in_other_cities_average) = ?	/r/seduction	17/04/26 11:27 AM
2	The only reason you are single is your location Location is one of the TOP deciding factors for dating success. I agree, I'd probably put it at #1 too, judging by my own experience. As soon as I moved out of my parents apartment back then and started living in city center, I suddenly started getting laid more often. But it's an illusion. Location is NOT the ONLY deciding factor - it's just one of many. In general these are most critically important: Looks - must be well groomed, e.g. old money esthetic works well. Or modern casual etc. You ca…	/r/seduction	10/01/26 04:41 AM
-1	I feel so jealous of all the guys women choose to have sex with You just need a simple step by step structure. And follow it for 2 weeks to 3 months - you'd lose your virginity quickly. It's very simple. I'm a daygame / dating and sex coach.	/r/seduction	04/01/26 07:09 PM
1	Dating Advice Look, with my clients the first step is always the exact Girl-Profile. With my recent client for example (daygame infield coaching) we sat down and first defined very specifically what type of girl he wants. Btw. he got the type girl he wanted (matched 80% of his criteria) in about 3 weeks of work. Here are some criteria: physically, emotionally, habits, education level, age, psycho-type, hobbies, submissiveness level, sex drive level extraverted vs introverted etc etc This is always the first s…	/r/seduction	30/12/25 06:07 PM
1	Dating Advice Fat women won't ghost you. You need to be more specific. If you don't know where you want to go, it doesn't matter which direction you go.	/r/seduction	30/12/25 06:01 PM
1	Dating Advice First define what YOU want.	/r/seduction	30/12/25 05:34 PM
1	What was your experience hiring a dating coach? He retired now and lives abroad. What is your goals in dating and the biggest challenge?	/r/seduction	30/12/25 12:26 PM
1	What was your experience hiring a dating coach? I invested ~20000$ into dating coaching, 1-3 mo trainings, seminars etc. I had 3 personal dating coaches: One in London in 2016 (you know who this is, don't wanna tell his name. It was pure waste of money, horrible experience), one weekend One in Yalta, Russia in 2018 (good decision), 2 weeks days long, mainly day/evening game, tons of value, 9 lays and one in Kiev Ukraine in 2020 (amazing decision) 3 weeks long, fantastic experience overall, 16 lays in 6 weeks total in Kiev I learned a lot from…	/r/seduction	30/12/25 09:50 AM
22	As a guy in his 30s, is it easier to get dates with women in their 40s or women in their 20s? As a guy in his 40s - stop ruminating and start taking action Stop caring for what anyone thinks is appropriate and start taking action Stop looking for ways why not and start acting because yes Forget all the shame and insecurities and remember - only one thing matters: going for it, taking all shots, being shameless about what you want, own it, going for it, making enough attempts/approaches/openers/convo starters and see from there.	/r/seduction	17/12/25 06:21 AM
0	Input on age difference resistance from daygame approach / number? Next time: ask her to guess your age, and add 1-3 years on top - you look 25 - close, 26	/r/seduction	11/12/25 03:40 AM
1	Most approaches you’ve done in one day? How did you feel afterwards? During my PUA training days in Moscow we had to do ~ 50-100 approaches sometimes for different tasks. Like: "25 in 30" task = approach 25 girls in 30 min and take her number or schedule a date for later. approach 20 girls and offer sex approach 20 girls non-verbally approach as many girls as needed to do [insert any task] But that is just for training, not for normal lifestyle. In real life, after getting over approach anxiety, 3-10 is more than enough. If you're approaching regularly, it starts…	/r/seduction	10/12/25 10:19 AM
3	How do you actually attract the calm, grounded guys instead of the high-energy party types? 1. Their photos reflect their lifestyle. Photo of a guy pouring a glass of wine sounds more like your type than a guy with bungee jumping photos. 2. After matching, ask these 3 questions: Are you more extraverted or more introverted? Please name 3 things you like to do in your free time? :) If you and me were a couple, what would a typical weekend look like for us?	/r/seduction	03/12/25 09:20 AM
1	Here are few open ended questions I came up with that sound interesting Option A Girl: I'm a doctor You: All doctors I know do XYZ Girl: really? blablabla Option B Girl: I'm a doctor You: No way, you rather look like a real estate agent // or an artist, singer etc Girl: really? blablabla	/r/seduction	03/12/25 06:55 AM
2	Lack of sexual motivation Exactly Option A = say nothing. Important point: it's a MYTH that you need to say anything. Guys have this belief sometimes. No, you don't need to. E.g. when you give her a massage, you CAN narrate it and spice things up, but you don't NEED to, sometimes you just wanna enjoy giving her the massage, then bury your face in her ass and pussy with some occasional compliments on the smell and view etc. Option B = describe what you see, get dirty progressively, maybe communicating, asking questions th…	/r/seduction	20/08/25 11:42 AM
5	Lack of sexual motivation You do NOT need to sexualize verbally at all. I don't do it in 95% of cases. I just pull on the first date and escalate at my place physically, never ever even having mentioned or hinted anything sexual. I can be talking about the nice weather with a slow voice while hugging her and smelling her hair, then kiss-close her. Always remember - humans have been fucking long before eloquently speaking. Let alone using innuendos.	/r/seduction	19/08/25 11:02 PM
1	How to approach women at malls? Nice, sounds good bro	/r/seduction	18/08/25 08:36 PM
32	How to approach women at malls? 1. Use universal daygame opening schemes: Hi → context = I just saw you from over there → neutral compliment = and just wanted to say you look really nice → expand / apmlify / explain why "nice" = I love your style / energy / you look like xyz → from then on just chit-chat, ideally find a topic she likes so you can vibe, check her logistics, then instant date her or suggest meeting later and exchange contacts. This style of openers works well in shopping malls, on the street and similar settings…	/r/seduction	17/08/25 02:46 PM
1	If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head… Thanks man for the motivation :)	/r/seduction	17/08/25 11:06 AM
-1	If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head… Thanks man, I appreciate :)	/r/seduction	16/08/25 03:44 PM
-5	If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head… Started out in Germany, first 30 lays I think +/-, then Russia Moscow, then Yalta Russia, then Thailand, then Kiev Ukraine (best 🥲), then Thailand again and recently Brazil. Majority of my girls used to be Russian/Ukrainian girls. Now it shifted to Thai/Brazil girls. Next destination not decided yet. You might wanna define "close rate". On one hand, yes - I do have a very high close-rate (date → to sex) - when I do get a date. My date → sex conversion used to be ~5-10%, when I started out, now i…	/r/seduction	16/08/25 03:43 PM
47	If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head… I went on 200+ dates and got laid over 120+ times here's what I've learned (repeating patterns also with clients I've coached). 1. If she turns her head and does not kiss back - it says NOTHING about her interest. Here are some of the main reasons why she does not kiss back: She is too shy to kiss in public She just had a break up and doesn't want to be seen with a new dude romantically yet She thinks she is a bad kisser She thinks her breath isn't clean (even if it is) She is afraid to lose you…	/r/seduction	16/08/25 09:58 AM
2	How to open up and escalate sexually? You do NOT need to sexualize verbally AT ALL. In 99% of cases I don't say anything sexual with my girls. All escalation (talk, vibe, hug, caress, massage, kiss, foreplay etc.) happens in 99% of time at my place, after pulling her home. In public - just socially normal touching is enough. Except if it's beach / swimming, some kissing and fooling around is ok. At your place: talk, vibe, hug, touch more, massage, kiss, foreplay, sex.	/r/seduction	14/08/25 11:08 PM
14	HAVE YOU EVER BEEN DIRECT AND TOLD A WOMAN?: “LET’S FUCK.” Yes, it worked. It was in Düsseldorf Germany, at the train station, she was on the phone and eye-flirting with me while talking. I was there just to say good bye to my friends who were waiting for the train. When she finished talking I said, smirking: - I have an offer to you - what is it? h:)) - Let's have group sex. Me, you and my friends (pointing to me, her and my friends) - I don't know about your friends haha :) - Ok, then just me ) - But I don't know yet if I want you :) - Well, you will …	/r/seduction	12/08/25 01:16 PM
2	How do you approach women when you have that fear of doing it? What kind of approach anxiety do you have exactly? Usually there are 3-4 main fear-triggers with AA. Rejected because the crowd / surroundings didn't approve. "What will THEY say?". Being seen approaching in a crowded place => easier when no one watching Rejected because she's out of your league (SMV status) => easier when you feel she's on your level Rejected because of your looks (SMV looks) => easier if her looks aren't above yours Rejected because her friends didn't like you / 2+ girl set fe…	/r/seduction	06/08/25 02:46 PM
2	I left my date because she wants me to pay You should have pulled her to your place instead of paying and ejecting. 1. How do you know she was DTF? Btw. you can't know for sure she's dtf, so you always just assume it and act like that. 2. The main strategy is buying 1 round of drinks, then pull home. So when she asked about more drinks, your answer should push towards pulling: - is it okay to get more drinks ? - yea sure, let's get some and drink at my place It can be beers for example.. If she doesn't want beer, you say you have wine or…	/r/seduction	05/08/25 09:25 PM
1	Cafes for dates - how pick good ones? it's not bad it's just that you don't have the environment working for you "for free" so to speak, because dimmed light = easier intimacy. Bright light = on the spot for everyone to see, visible, amygdala (anxiety center of the brain) is way more likely to be noticably active, not conducive for intimacy mood etc. Dimmed light = easier to "hide" in a bubble with her, more anonymous, amygdala can calm down easier, drinks, transition into intimate mood easier. All that is definitely also possible i…	/r/seduction	29/07/25 01:24 PM
1	Cafes for dates - how pick good ones? The perfect pick for a cafe is "anticafe" = which is your home. First of all, are you sure you meant cafes and not bars? I don't do regular "cafe" dates in 99,9% of cases. Because cafe = daytime = bright light, wrong atmosphere etc. Sometimes I do bars, if it's near my house, where you can buy cocktails/drinks and then pull the girl right after drinks finished. But MOSTLY I just pull home straight away after meeting her in 5-10 min distance of my apartment.	/r/seduction	29/07/25 10:25 AM
2	Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating? The common denominator among men successful in dating is not political views but high SMV display + taking action. High SMV + taking action + leftist = good success High SMV + taking action + rightist = good success Low SMV + taking action + leftist or rightist = still success Low SMV + taking no action + leftist or rightist = no success	/r/seduction	28/07/25 07:32 PM
0	How come for some guys dating and relationships are easy while others struggle ? SMV	/r/seduction	27/07/25 06:55 PM
6	Age gaps in seduction Never been to US, these last girls specifically are 2 from Brazil, 1 from Moldova, 1 asian Oh and also had another one recently from Brazil, 19, but it was just makeout and handjob so forgot to mention, but still relevant	/r/seduction	25/07/25 05:57 PM
20	Age gaps in seduction Your question might be divided into 2: 1) is it morally ok or am I a creep for dating girls in their early 20s being a 43 yo ? and 2) will I have success ? --------- I'm 41 and my last 4 girls were these ages: 20, 22, 29, 23. So: 1) Is it morally ok or creepy? Who gives a shit. If she's above 18 and game, all good. The problem is something else. 18-22 yo girls are usually not as smart and experienced, tiktok brains, sometimes childish and naive, usually difficult to have deeper conversation. (wh…	/r/seduction	25/07/25 03:46 PM
1	How should I act when she starts to get cold in text replies? 1. It's just statistics. Whenever you kiss before pulling, chances of getting laid with that girl drops. If she's super dtf and into you or has her agenda, she'll still f you, but those are rather exceptions. 2. Kiss/Make out = factually foreplay (you get hard, don't you) = she sees clear as day that it's about sex now, and she does want it in the moment. Her rational brain is not interfering much. 3. But then you stop and do not have sex on the spot. She wakes up. Her rational brain (prefrontal…	/r/seduction	25/07/25 09:10 AM
1	Got way more attractive -> Way harder to get girls online I always write like this	/r/seduction	24/07/25 02:27 PM
1	Self-Improvement is Making me Worse with Women What holds you back from doing A (more action) ?	/r/seduction	24/07/25 10:48 AM
1	Got way more attractive -> Way harder to get girls online I'll take that as a compliment What I don't understand - why would anyone wanna try ChatGPT for such a topic? I'm confused please explain	/r/seduction	24/07/25 10:46 AM
1	Help with my text game 1. Some girls have HIGH interest in you, most girls have MEDIUM or LOW interest after matching with you. 2. The way you text will work just fine with high interest girls. (Except your message about her being boring, not a good move since you need to provide value first, read below). But you'll need a lot of matches. 3. To improve texting with medium/low interested girls, try to give value instead of taking. Interesting observations (cold reading), funny remarks = giving value Telling cool stuff …	/r/seduction	23/07/25 09:21 PM
5	Got way more attractive -> Way harder to get girls online 1. Yes, you look better now, as in more manly. But less youthful. Very good body shape too. Nice thick brows, full hair. The elephant in the room is your beard situation. Looks pretty off to me, not clean, chunky, like you let it just grow carelessly, not sharp on point. Should either be a full beard, trimmed in a nice barber shop, so either a full beard but done well or shaved, or just keep the mustache. That being said, I wouldn't go as far to say that your looks changed your conversion. Maybe…	/r/seduction	23/07/25 08:42 PM
1	Self-Improvement is Making me Worse with Women Self-improvement doesn't seem to be the "problem". It sounds more like you: A) don't do as much action as you would need to get laid more. You need to DO more, to get more. or B) you do lots of action but have blind spots (basically signal low SMV), thus low conversion. Most likely A. ___________ Btw. try not to compare yourself to your friend. Everyone is genetically different. You got your hand, play it right. Everyone has his own way to get girls. Maybe it's online game for you, maybe daygame…	/r/seduction	23/07/25 08:32 PM
29	Got way more attractive -> Way harder to get girls online Show before after	/r/seduction	23/07/25 01:16 PM
4	How should I act when she starts to get cold in text replies? Basically you ask "what should I do now, after she already lost interest". Of course there are ways to spark interest after it's gone, but it's WAY easier to keep it and here's how. 1. Wrong question. The right question = "what should I do, so she doesn't lose interest?" It's a typical newbie story: things go well → date → make out → newbie doesn't pull → no sex → she loses interest (for various reasons). Rinse and repeat, classic. 2. Don't try to kiss unless you're trying to get laid on that da…	/r/seduction	23/07/25 12:46 AM
2	hate towards women: how to get rid of it? That's the Dunning Kruger effect in full force. You think you're smart af and "know" the girls, but ya don't buddy. Reality check: There are tons of dumb af girls. There are tons of smart girls, 100 x smarter than you'll ever be. Logical af. There are many "normal" girls, who are balancing being logic and emotional, while being very feminine. A good goal to have is to find a good match. Logical / smart enough for you two to have good conversations and feminine enough for sex. You will have to go…	/r/seduction	22/07/25 10:15 AM
3	Lost All Confidence After a Date. All Hope is Gone 1. "looking for a casual fling" = "don't do boyfriend dates with a doggy kiss at the end", → instead, be forward and make it happen. 2. Make it happen / Being forward = A) invite to cook / drink whine at your place B) meet in a cafe 5 min from your house, buy drinks, finish, pull her home to watch a movie or without any explanation ("let's go") to your place and escalate there after 5-10-15 min. If you do not do that, but try to "bf-date" her, she'll lose interest, since you aren't taking what s…	/r/seduction	20/07/25 03:27 PM
1	What makes someone go from attractive to just a friend before anything even starts? Girls lose interest for 2 reasons: 1. They realize your SMV is actually lower than they assumed. Does it need be explained? or: 2. You don't take RISKs / chances = low value coward = bad genes. You act like a good boy, without being forward and making it happen, e.g. you do not figuratively and literally take her by her hand and lead her through the good old sequence from date to sex: date → vibe → pull home → vibe & wine → escalate → sex That's what LOVERS do. If you just milk the "get to know …	/r/seduction	18/07/25 08:53 PM
3	I’ve heard that some men are doing about 50-100 approaches a day, how is that possible? Where do these "approach monster" live? The actual problem is not finding time or energy to do the approaches but finding them. I did approaches in Germany (Düsseldorf, Berlin, Essen, Frankfurt mainly), in Russia (Moscow, Yalta), in Kiev Ukraine, in London, in Bangkok Thailand, in Brazil, Bulgaria, Moldova etc. And the only few places where you can find hundreds of women within 3-5h - who are actually hot enough - are cities like Moscow, Bangkok center and maybe Berlin. Otherwise you'd have to a…	/r/seduction	15/07/25 06:42 PM
0	How do I stop building women up in my head? 1. Visualization is actually good. The more vivid the better. But first try to not do it with specific women. Just visualize it in general, you'll have a certain woman image in mind with which you do it. 2. The more you do it the more you'll shift your predominant vibe which radiates from you and the universe will send you the opportunities to materialize and get what you visualized. 3. The final step is then to actually GO for it when the universe begins throwing those opportunities to you.	/r/seduction	11/07/25 07:05 PM
3	Can putting standards in your dating app bio (ex. No _, must be at least _) make you seem like a higher-value male and give you more matches? If you have high SMV photos, you won't need this If you have low SMV photos, then tweaking your bio won't raise your SMV Better keep bio short and and simple	/r/seduction	11/07/25 06:20 PM
1	How to remove the guilt of a failed approach 1. Very good that you did something. That's the start. 2. Realize it's a part of the journey. First step of your evolution you just think "I might say this and that". Next step you go and say it (but don't know how to continue). Next step is you do it many times, think about it afterwards and now are able to continue, just like in your example. 3. In order to remove the "guilt" you need: 1) to realize it's a journey and you did well, you're always better than before 2) you need to frame you fiel…	/r/seduction	11/07/25 02:39 PM
1	For 40s Men I'm 41 and even recently had a 20yo (cheated on her 20yo boyfriend with me for 2 weeks lol), then a 22yo and 2 days ago a 23yo. 1. Do some minor looksmaxxing, old money style, nice clothes from Zara, good haircut, take care of the beard situation, good fragrance 2. From then on it's just a numbers game. Some % of girls say no, and some % say yes, don't even see the age gap. 3. Realize - the younger the woman is, the less accurate can she guess your age. Because she will guess from her own age up…	/r/seduction	11/07/25 01:24 PM
1	Does asking "are you single" makes you weird? 1. "are you single" is way more effective than listening to your guy friend and doing nothing 2. in fact, "are you single" can be a really nice conversation starter and can speed things up, it's just important that you use her answer the right frame. If you say "are single" - "yes" - "nice, uhmmm aaammm what are your hobbies", that might actually sound weird, and even then - if she likes you she will suffer through. Here are some better ways to continue: - are you single? - yes :) - oh, such a b…	/r/seduction	09/07/25 10:44 PM
5	Some limiting beliefs i have about women, let me know how true they actually are. Your beliefs are incomplete. Belief 1 = women have less sex drive and THUS [do not want to approached / seduced ?] You can fill in the blank if you want. And the first part of it is true - less T, less desire most time. During ovulation however many women can't stop thinking about sex, and this is when you take them haha. Also there is a simple distribution between LD (low drive), ND (normal drive) and HD (high sex drive nymphomaniacs) among women. One key mindset bit I can give you is - women w…	/r/seduction	08/07/25 08:06 PM
21	(24M KHHV)Girl invited to the beach tomorrow Learn the main rule in seduction: AAA = Always Assume Attraction, as in always assume she wants you, what ever she says or does = you see in it a confirmation of her wanting you. - It was my sister 😭😭 - so you already told my sister you love me? and then change topic, be normal again, like - anyways, blabla [other topic]	/r/seduction	04/07/25 12:23 AM