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I think that people of both genders who want casual relationships are actually in the minority.
/r/seduction17/07/26 02:16 PM
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I believe that at this point, apps are broken for guys regardless of their height
/r/seduction15/06/26 05:39 PM
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I can relate to the 2nd part pretty well. Honestly, I wouldn't even consider dating a girl who regards herself as "vaguely spiritual" (other than for something super casual). You never know when she decides to end things with you just because she decideed she needed to go on a spiritual journey of self-discovery or something and you're not supportive enough and willing to join in.
/r/seduction13/06/26 12:12 PM
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Correlation is not causation. It's more likely that those without a strong pair-bonding affinity will end up having a high body count, not the other way round.
/r/seduction20/04/26 11:17 AM
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Exactly. I treat it as a valuable lesson about looking out for signs early on and setting firm boundaries. I don't blame her specifically, it's just how she was brought up. It's part of their culture, so this twisted relationship dynamic seems perfectly normal to them. It's all the more baffling considering she was definitely a career woman, and she made about as much money as I did (or just a little less, depending on how many clients she had). I should also mention that I'm saying this as some…
/r/seduction11/04/26 10:21 AM
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I try my best not to generalise based on an isolated incident, but having dated a Russian girl for three years, I can definitely confirm this. Her line of thinking was "having to maintain my standard of living will motivate you to do better in life" (her words, not mine). I don't even know what I was thinking, staying in that relationship that long. It obviously never got better, despite our frequent arguments about finances. I don't regret it though, I'm definitely a lot wiser now than I had be…
/r/seduction10/04/26 08:35 PM
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It doesn't seem unsuccesful to me; you had some fun banter with a girl and both of you enjoyed it, what's there not to like? Anyway, having a large and muscular frame like that, keep in mind that girls might find you intimidating. Don't let that scare you off, just make sure that you're approaching them in a way that won't scare them off, which might have been the case (but what do I know, I wasn't there with you).
/r/seduction05/04/26 02:48 PM
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The only people having issues with age gap relationships are terminally online no-lifers. You will almost certainly not encounter them in real life. You might be out of age scope for some young girls on dating apps, but they got so bad over the last couple of years that you shouldn't rely on them anyway. In social settings, your age will likely not even come up as a topic if you look like someone in his twenties. Also, you have no business having a mid-life crisis at 29.
/r/seduction03/04/26 03:49 PM
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It's been scientifically proven that men with some (not all) grey hair are perceived as more attractive by most women.
/r/seduction06/03/26 04:07 PM
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Do whatever you want, regardless of whether someone considers it weird or not. However, make sure it's actually perceived as a hookup by both parties, i.e. that neither one of you is trying to bring the relationship back to life through sex.
/r/seduction23/12/25 09:16 PM
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No offense, but it sounds like you have a rather boring life. Do you think living the same boring life as a slightly taller person will somehow change everything and turn your life around? If you have the means to do something like this, then just go on a sabbatical and spend that money travelling the world and creating stories that will actually make you an interesting person that people naturally gravitate to. Don't get a surgery that will make your life hell for several months or years, and p…
/r/seduction20/12/25 09:10 PM
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I'm 188 cm tall and I wouldn't want to be any taller. I just don't think it makes any real difference.
/r/seduction20/12/25 03:05 PM
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5'9" is a perfectly reasonable height and absolutely no reason for getting surgery that will leave you disabled for a year (and that is if you're lucky). I'm 6'2" and I'm getting pretty much no action, and I know his who are shorter than you who are plenty successful with women. I'm not saying height doesn't make any difference - I guess it can help, but its value is way overestimated. Whatever you think you're lacking in terms of height can be easily offset by other stuff that you can actually …
/r/seduction20/12/25 03:04 PM
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Btw if hooking up with a girl is a "miracle" in your book, I really think there's a problem you need to address that isn't necessarily age related
/r/seduction16/12/25 09:02 PM
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It evens out if you're meeting 100 times more women this way than you do through social circles, which is entirely achievable
/r/seduction16/12/25 08:13 PM
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That's a massive generalisation. At 32, I'm in the best physical shape I've ever been, and I'm pretty sure that I look better than I did a decade ago. My hair hasn't changed, accept I've actually learned how to style it by now, and I can grow a bear if I want to. A guy I became friends with recently was genuinely surprised when I told him my age, he just assumed I was around 27 - 29 (he's 23 himself, which in turn surprised me, because he acted very mature). Age really doesn't need to be an insu…
/r/seduction16/12/25 04:09 PM
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Seems like the worst place to go to meet women. If you're looking for a serious relationship, you're only gonna get someone who is deeply religious, nad anything non-serious is out of the picture.
/r/seduction15/12/25 04:31 PM
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Alcohol is a crutch. You don't want to be in a position where you have to rely on it. Then again, I don't think there's anything wrong about having a beer or two in a social setting
/r/seduction08/12/25 09:01 PM
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I'm in a similar position - 32, quit my job this year and moved to Denmark to pursue a master's degree. Your age is absolutely inconsequential, provided you've been taking good enough care of yourself. I've never felt out of place. Nobody cares, or I guess they just assume I'm somewhere in my mid- to late twenties like the majority of people doing their masters here. At our age, it's kinda hard to guess. I've been hanging out with everybody in my class. I haven't had a lot of luck with girls so …
/r/seduction08/12/25 08:33 PM
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I once started a conversation with a girl on a train about a book she was reading. You can just point out anything you find mildly interesting about her and begin from there. There's a pretty good chance that she actually wants to talk to you too, so don't overthink it and don't disappoint her by waiting it out.
/r/seduction06/12/25 11:22 AM
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I think I can live with that.
/r/seduction24/11/25 11:19 AM
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Taking a break from your job to focus on your personal goals, see the world and live a little is gonna look on anybody, virgin or not. OP is clearly not someone who won't be able to get that job back ever again.
/r/seduction23/11/25 11:42 PM
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Having a sense of identity outside of work is incredibly important no matter ho succesful at your career you are. Which the OP probably is, considering he can afford to put it on hold for a year to focus on his personal life.
/r/seduction23/11/25 11:34 PM
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You don't seem like a very good dating coach with a judgemental attitude like that
/r/seduction23/11/25 11:30 PM
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I'm 32, I ended a serious relationship a few months ago, and I'm definitely not planning on taking another attempt at a serious relationship any time soon. So I very much hope that I get to have a "ho phase". It's not really going anywhere just yet, but that's on me, I suppose - I just need to put myself out there more. I guess it would be easier if I didn't hate clubbing as much as I do, though. People generally say that it tends to be much easier in your 30s compared to your 20s, provided you …
/r/seduction18/11/25 06:02 PM
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"Please help me, my steak is too juicy and my lobster is too buttery"
/r/seduction18/11/25 05:56 PM
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I find it strange how we use the word "confess", as though expressing positive emotions was somehow a bad thing.
/r/seduction18/11/25 05:55 PM
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Well, that's neither a great wingman nor a good friend, what do you expect us to say
/r/seduction12/10/25 02:08 PM
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I never really enjoyed clubbing to be honest. I find the music annoying and loud to the point that it's hard to even have a conversation. I don't go to clubs because I know I'd have to force myself to stay there, which isn't really the right mindset if you want to get to know new people. I still want opportunities to meet girls and get results (without getting into a relationship) - what do you think are reasonably effective alternatives to night clubs?
/r/seduction24/09/25 12:19 AM
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I tried to pay for platinum for a month just to see if it's worth anything (they had a significant discount, do I decided I'd give it a shot). From my personal experience, it is absolutely not worth it. I used to get regular matches 4+ years ago even with the free version, and I think my profile is better now (better photos mainly). It's way worse today, even with platinum. Don't waste money on Tinder, it's pure garbage these days. Keep that money and spend it in the real world instead. It will …
/r/seduction21/09/25 09:12 PM
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As a former 23-year-old virgin who had never felt pathetic about himself, I guess I'm qualified to answer this. First of all, you're far from being the only one. I know guys who are around my current age (26/27) with (afaik) no experience with girls and calling them pathetic is the last thing on my mind. They just have other stuff going on in their lives that's keeping them busy. You obviously created an identity around being a virgin, which is completely stupid. It's like identifying as "someon…
/r/seduction29/09/20 12:21 AM
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