Dawk19 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Nice Guys claim that they are nice, but so do perpetrators of genocide. Exactly its not that nice guys are being the bare minimum of nice is just that being boring no matter how nice/good of person you are will really change attractiveness past a certain point. Reminds of the people who dedicate their whole lives to helping people to the point where its all they can really think about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/17 04:01 PM
4	If you had a son that was a 22 year old virgin, what sort of advice would you give him about women? ye	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/17 03:31 AM
2	RPW/RPWi: Are your partner's what you would consider 'out of your league'? Their leagues are completely subjective so they can form any argument they want when its convenient for them	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/17 03:14 PM
1	At what age would you have paid to lose your virginity? I wouldn't say fragile, paying for sex especially as your first time is like paying for friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/17 10:07 PM
1	when you talk about "men getting laid easily", do you mean without going out, approaching trying and playing the numbers game? What is this casual sex or just getting a date?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/17 03:01 AM
1	Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (14 January 2017) Thats exactly what I am saying, people talk about things they want to talk about, nobody forces anyone to say/respond to anything. If the topic is related to the sub and people want to talk about then who cares if it was a troll post/posted with malicious intent. I mean its a simple concept that everyone understands, everyday theres a thread here that barely gets 15 comments, why? Because people choose not to post in it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/17 06:10 AM
4	Not being able to comprehend concepts like "creepiness" is a kind of social color blindness that a lot of Red Pill guys seem to suffer from, a significant social handicap So you are saying that most if not all creepy, sexually unsuccessful people are secretly redpillers?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/17 05:56 AM
1	Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (14 January 2017) Everyday you could guarantee a 600+ thread	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/17 04:08 AM
2	Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (14 January 2017) there was like at least 400 comments on average per incel thread, which blows every single thread on the front page right now away. I think saying a passionate few is just being dishonest about how popular they were.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/17 04:07 AM
2	Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (14 January 2017) Doesnt that seem kind of forced? I mean if we're going to accept that there are some people that will never have a relationship then why not accept the fact that some people might never be happy? I dont expect child soldiers or kids born into starvation in some third world country to be able to find happiness so if a person truly feels that a life without romance/love is worthless then why not let them accept it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/17 04:02 AM
8	Not being able to comprehend concepts like "creepiness" is a kind of social color blindness that a lot of Red Pill guys seem to suffer from, a significant social handicap How do you know they're red pill?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/17 03:45 AM
2	[discussion] Men are not entitled to sex.... Eh still using earn implies that you have control though, I would say give cause even if one was the hardest working, most good person doesn't guarantee someone will be friends with them, date them, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/17 07:32 PM
1	CMV: People can't relate or connect to feminism's mascots, because it revolves around female privilege, as TRP says. Wow 5 tutors really? Like 5 personal tutors? With 5 tutors you could probably get a degree in anything tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/17 09:41 PM
3	"you only dated Chads" Any reasons to believe this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/16 03:07 AM
1	"you only dated Chads" Incels are just my little pony fans?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/16 03:05 AM
1	How many Friends do you have? Zero	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/16 07:25 AM
2	The world doesn't need to change to fit you, you need to find where you fit in the world You can approach this from an idealistic or pragmatic view. Obviously this is mostly subjective but generally most people would agree that in a perfect world attraction for all parties would be based solely on altruistic characteristics or at least solely on things that reflect one's personality(hair color to an extent, clothing, any characteristic that an individual can pick and choose to reflect who they are). So in a sense the world does need to change, I mean people are always going to try t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/16 06:07 AM
2	Do hardcore gamers hate women? Think of hardcore gamers as old timey Americans, if they notice any genera trends based off race or sex or location or whatever they will form opinions based off those characteristics. Of course there's confirmation bias but most aren't going to think that far. Nowadays I would say most people don't really prejudge women because they are so rare, now if your speaking Spanish or have an accent then get ready for some Peruvian hate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/16 07:26 AM
1	How did we elect a sexist male president over a woman? That was all white women too no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/16 04:29 PM
1	Muscular, buff, handsome guy makes video about why he can't get a girlfriend. More like most women who visit this place are complete Darwinist	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/16 08:44 AM
2	Q4All: What are the characteristics of men that have difficulty talking to women platonically without being seen as creepy? Yah how you met them I meant, cant imagine them having any friends or asking out people at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/16 01:21 AM
1	Q4All: What are the characteristics of men that have difficulty talking to women platonically without being seen as creepy? How did you even go on dates with foreveralone types?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/16 12:08 AM
3	CMV: Being short is not a death sentence in terms of dating. I mean this is all assuming that every little personal thing he spouts on the Internet he completely reflects in real life. He might, he might not but I do think its a stretch think to think that his friends that choose to be around him are able to gauge his body language to such an extent that they know when he is being misogynistic/spiteful/hateful/whatever. I would've passed you up if I were single because you are triggered by kindnesses and friends and families at this point. I mean how woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/16 07:52 AM
1	What We've Decided to Do About Incel Posts Well hes not necessarily wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/16 02:44 AM
3	Do beta men like insecure and anxious women? Beta men (i.e. the average dude)? No Omega men? Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/16 01:17 AM
2	What's the difference between an older virgin and an incel? Incel: When most people say incel they mean people who posts on r/incel, average human adult, has friend(s), a job, has some experience with the opposite sex (like dates, holding hands, etc). Pretty much an average dude who has had no sexual experience or just a long dry spell. Foreveralone: People who have failed catastrophically as humans. No friends, very little social experience. Think the kid who ate his lunch in the bathroom in high school 5, 10, 15 years down the line, or people with some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/16 04:10 PM
1	Q4BP: Why some prison inmates have girlfriends/wives? Huh, TIL then	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/16 08:21 PM
1	If you woke up the next morning as the opposite gender, how do you think your life will change? Eh	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/16 07:13 PM
1	Q4BP: Why some prison inmates have girlfriends/wives? What's wrong with coding?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/16 07:08 PM
1	Incel Moratorium Debrief Wasn't that just a CMV thread with him providing a counterexample?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/16 05:20 PM
1	Q4ALL How would you describe your romantic life? Khv too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/16 10:58 PM
1	Grooming Makes Little or no Difference to How Attractive You Are Yes in the same way a guy being 5'1 is considered less attractive than a guy being 5'8.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/16 04:14 PM
1	Why do you complain about women only noticing attractive men, when you only notice attractive women? Is that even really considered a legitimate privilege? I feel like that's like saying "white people are privileged because they get tax exemptions when their net worth equals a billion dollars." Like yah its privilege but nobody would actually list it as an example of white privilege because of how irrelevant it is to most people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/16 10:40 PM
1	Who's pickier; Men or Women? Don't those requirements seem kinda basic? I mean can you even be hot without make-up while being obese? Wouldn't most women inherently be submissive? Like if men are pickier in relationships and this is it then what the hell do women want from relationships then? Are their only requirements like have a lot money and be nice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/16 08:37 PM
2	Why is it that most guys I know are single while most girls I know have a boyfriend? Yah they're pretty much are no? Most girls can get off to girls by their looks alone no? While for guys they require personality, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/16 05:54 PM
2	Why is it that most guys I know are single while most girls I know have a boyfriend? Or their boyfriends graduated college	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/16 05:25 PM
5	Why is it that most guys I know are single while most girls I know have a boyfriend? If there is any disparity in college and/or high school this makes the most amount of sense to me. Girl dates boy who is 1-3 years older than her and boy graduates doesn't mean they just break up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/16 04:31 PM
3	Is social media giving women an inflated sense of attractiveness? It's a common thing I hear from girls who use tinder/okc is that they're really on there for the confidence boost. Knowing that people find you attractive and often that the internet allows no doubt inflates one's ego, especially for women since in a general sense a lot of their confidence does come from their looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/16 03:44 PM
2	CMV: Male height matters the same amount as a woman's cup size. I've honestly never heard that excerpt from BBW's trying to like boost their own confidence through shaming/stereotyping	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/16 10:07 PM
1	Q4All: What makes people ForeverAlone? Oh wow I'm in there	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/16 06:31 AM
2	(Q4All) Why are "foreveralones" "incels" and other sexual rejects mocked and stigmatized? Because people are fucking stupid so they generalize a whole group of people based off a few. First off incels and people who post in incels aren't foreveralone. Second somehow literally like 5 people who spam posts numerous threads manage to get all of foreveralone/incels, whatever your choice of term is, generalized. You can tell the people who shit talk FA spend pretty much less time on the actual subreddit than I do staring at the sun, they have no idea what they're talking about. The people…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/16 06:31 AM
5	Too ugly to date and false hope People suck. We live in an imperfect world and people's attraction are driven by mostly instincts and not by virtue. A large percentage of the human population live in poverty and people rationalize everything. I chose to be myself even if that means being foreveralone is a by product, I suggest doing what you find the most important and disregard everything else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/16 08:12 AM
1	Doesn't this post prove the OKCupid Study right? Women find most men unattractive? No doubt that men's ability to take quality pictures is less than women but I believe that women are just better looking on average to men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/16 08:04 AM
1	Q4All: What is the profile of the typical Incel or ForeverAlone Definitely just described the average foreveralone subscriber	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/16 04:49 PM
9	CMV: TRP is unnecessary for a good sex life. Not really a view since its a fact that people who arent a part of the red pill have a good sex life. While I dont like TRP I can see how it would make some men more attractive/get them laid. TRP is quick and dirty, hate does give one a certain kind of confidence that the majority people can achieve apposed to the bluepill thought process of like women as humans but dont like them too much. TRP advice is concise and to the point, it will work more often than just saying something like just to ta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/16 06:07 AM
0	Q4BP: do you think RP men are being disingenuous when they say they find the vast majority of young women attractive? I did, I figured they were just trying to expand on their original point i.e. the title so I decided to answer the title and not specifically the text. But my original point still stands nonetheless unless the girl in question has like a severe underbite or something if they have a plain face, white skin/bone structure, and are not overweight/chubby then you are a 6 to the average male at the very least. They would think all women are 6's cause to them they are unless you/OP is arguing that a de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/16 05:32 AM
1	Q4BP: do you think RP men are being disingenuous when they say they find the vast majority of young women attractive? But that's not what her title says?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/16 04:43 AM
2	Q4BP: do you think RP men are being disingenuous when they say they find the vast majority of young women attractive? Yah by red-pilled people, to the general male population who aren't as hyper-critical as they are those woman lean more towards attractive than ugly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/16 04:41 AM
5	Q4BP: do you think RP men are being disingenuous when they say they find the vast majority of young women attractive? If youre a young white woman that isnt overweight/chubby and barring any extreme/borderline disfigurements then youre automatically a 6 to the average male.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/16 11:58 PM
2	Red Pillers: how are these four famous YouTubers able to have girlfriends and successful relationships? You make what they have sound so simple. Fact is that they do possess charisma and to a large degree at that. I would say they are the life of the party and while im not trp if I was to use their terminology then they definitely lean more towards the alpha side.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/16 11:42 PM
1	CMV: Most normal people would NOT become suicidally depressed if they suddenly became ForeverAlone and knew they would go their entire lives without romance. I doubt a majority of foreveralones would believe that cause a a major of being foreveralone is having no friends/social life so it would be no romantic life and no social life. Can you give more details for your question? Are we talking about an 18 year old? 25? 30? Cause I doubt any normal not past 30 could stay sane if they knew they would never ever have someone have romantic/sexual feelings for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/16 05:48 AM
0	CMV: Archetypal “beta” males make up a minority of men overall, but are a majority on Reddit and in the social circles of Redditors. This has helped cause RPers to have a skewed idea of what dating is like for genuinely average men. People conflate definitions a lot on here, I wish there was a sidebar just for terms. When some people say beta they actually mean omega and it can get confusing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/16 05:32 AM
1	Men who have difficulties with women and getting sexual relationships, what do you think are the reasons? Race mostly. People who are like my body don't like my body and vice versa. And since I'm 22 my lack of social experience as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/16 01:23 AM
2	Who deals better with being ForeverAlone: men or women? I always wondered how other FAs even got drugs, do you just ask random people at the gas station or something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/16 06:55 AM
3	Who deals better with being ForeverAlone: men or women? Foreveralone is lack of friends too, a better question would be which sex would fair better sitting in their house for long periods of time. Though I think depends more on the individual than sex really	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/16 11:56 PM
2	"just be yourself" is good advice. Isn't the best version of yourself completely subjective? Is going for the muscular look an improvement on the skinny in a band look? Long hair or short hair? Should my likes align with the lowest common denominator in society? I feel like when you say best version of yourself you're just saying appease the most amount of people possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/16 05:29 AM
0	CMV: FA communities only make it harder for them to connect with others and to get laid FA != incel, people use it so interchangablely that when an "incel" i.e a guy hasn't gotten laid in 6 months or is a virgin but everything else in their life is great does something FAs are generalized along side with them even when they are completely different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/16 05:57 PM
1	Why do you all like talking about incels so much? Does anyone else getting tired of it? No? People talk about it because it's a hot topic that involves a lot of discussion. Sure I agree that if one day the front page has the word incel in every sentence then maybe there's a problem but 2-3 threads a day means people are interested in talking about it. Otherwise the thread would only get like 30 comments like most threads people don't really care about talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/16 06:02 AM
2	Help me empathize with male incels For guys I would compare masterbating to eating instant noodles or a bland homemade sandwich, once in a blue moon it tastes great but for every other day you're just doing it cause you're just hungry. It's not something you really want to do, instead of scratching my itches I'd rather not have the itches in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/16 11:39 PM
2	Showerthoughts on Male vs Female incels Which is the problem with using incel and foreveralone/unwanted interchangablely because then everyone just assumes it's all about the lack of sex, like they have a normal life except that. An incel is just someone who can't have sex for any plethora of reasons for an extended period of time while an FA/FU is an incel but also includes an extended period of almost complete isolation/social experience of a middle schooler or a high schooler. I don't like bringing up "incel" topics nor do I usuall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/16 12:37 AM
1	Incels: Do you try or have you given up? 22 kv, literally no friends since I was 14 which makes me about on the same level as your average sixth grader so yah. I still do stuff for me and improve in the sense that I'm improving at things I want to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/16 03:28 AM
4	Physical attractiveness is 80% facial features and 20% body http://imgur.com/GOyiTPW	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/16 03:02 AM
2	[CMV] Incels do not try hard enough. Side question, when people say incel on this subreddit do they mean the broad literal definition or the interchangeable with foreveralone one?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/16 06:16 AM
1	ForeverAlone stereotypes and dignity I just embrace it, I want to be with someone who accepts me for me and if I have to sacrifice who I am to have friends or date then I'll hope for the best in the next life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/16 10:52 PM
2	CMV: incels are stuck because they have no abundance mentality. Well you did kiss someone	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/16 07:39 PM
1	CMV: incels are stuck because they have no abundance mentality. I think it's pretty safe to say once you're pass 30.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/16 07:34 PM
3	CMV: incels are stuck because they have no abundance mentality. Yah but depression is the symptom not the cause, anyone who hasnt had friends in like 5 years and never dated/have a social life is going to develop depression (generalization).	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/16 05:44 AM
1	Are there any virtues that are socioethically desirable in one gender but not the other? umm real men should never hit a woman? That's the only thing I can think but I'm not sure if that even counts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/16 08:16 PM
3	Have you ever seen or heard of a guy that was an ultra nice, pushover doormat, then when rejected suddenly turned into a violent, angry asshole? I feel like this is the crux of the problem too. As of right now people considers someone a nice guy if they show any ill-intent to a woman concerning dating. The frat dude that berates and kicks out women as soon as he realize they won't sleep with them is put on the same level as the dude that complains on Facebook about how women only likes assholes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/16 03:28 AM
1	CMV: A man cannot be confident with women unless he attains sexual experience. Yah losing not your virginity in high school obviously sucks because it pretty much means you weren't part of any "popular/cool" crowd but it's not that bad at all. You're expected to catch up in the next 2 years, give or take. Now graduating college or just making it to like 23-24 while being a virgin, especially a kissless virgin, is pretty much a death sentence if you plan on being honest about yourself unless they are extremely desperate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/16 05:15 AM
1	Is it possible for a physically attractive girl to be unattractive to most guys? Is it possible for her to struggle with relationships and friendships if she's pretty? Can a cute girl be low value? If so, how? Does that really count as getting sex easily for men? If it is then thats pretty demoralizing at how much effort you have to spend for that little	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/16 03:37 PM
0	CMV: Life isn't fair. Push through it. Come out on top. Personally I think that free will does not exist and the will to "push through and get what you want" is completely dependent on factors outside of your control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/16 04:11 AM
2	Non-whites are inherently inferior to whites, and I'm tired of trash whites trying to push the idea that their nigger boyfriends are on par with me. While I was watching Jessica Jones I wondered how many people stopped watching cause of the interracial scenes	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/16 04:06 AM
1	What is 'Blue Pill'? Isn't bluepill just a feminist based subreddit? I always thought of the bluepill as a sect of feminist dedicated to making fun of theredpill, not just anyone whos against theredpill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/16 03:47 AM
2	How much do looks matter when attracted women? I remember reading an askreddit thread or maybe askwomen where they asked something pertaining to looks. It boiled down to looks only get you in the door and I kind of felt like they downplayed the importance of looks a tad bit. The most important step is the first since without you wouldn't even have a chance without it. If a person isn't physically attracted to you then yes you need charisma/confidence/whatever but the amount of charisma needed crosses into the unrealistic territory when conce…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/16 04:30 AM
1	What do you think of Machiavellian maxim "Love doesn’t conquer psychopathy"? Wouldn't most billionaires be considered psychopaths? I agree that love is probably better as a trait for the species but if you consider winning as being as rich as possible then wouldn't being psychopath suit your needs more?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/16 07:13 AM
2	Self-identified "incels" and childhood development Who sets the "real definition"? Because even the sidebar of /r/foreveralone states: Do not tell anyone they are not forever alone enough to be here. Foreveralone has no firm definition So it sounds like you're just pulling this out your ass. If you honestly believe that then you must literally visit foreveralone once in a blue moon. Did foreveralone come together as a group and vote that literally anyone can be foreveralone or was that rule placed by one to three people? There have been numerous…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/16 12:34 AM
1	Self-identified "incels" and childhood development If theyre 21 then usually they're nearing the end of college and if they are going by the real definition of FA then that means they most likely had no meaningful relationships through middle school, high school, and finally college. If one can make it all the way through college with no friends or meaningful relationships then its only natural to assume that there is a very decent chance that they will be foreveralone for the rest of their lives. Unless you have some reasoning that suggests tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/16 10:52 PM
2	Self-identified "incels" and childhood development FA does mean incel, it's one of the few things on the sub right now that's a hot topic. If you're having ONS and still feel lonely then you're better off going to r/lonely and not foreveralone, a sub for people who are forever alone. The reason a decent portion of FAs don't really stay FA is because they're not really FA. If someone is self-identifying as FA but has had a girlfriend before, has friends/regularly goes out, or has had sex before then I'm willing to bet that yes they will eventuall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/16 04:41 AM
3	CMV: If a man is short, he's pretty much invisible to women, and is bound to be doomed in dating market. Did I ever imply that they were equal? All I said was ANYTHING that fell under the category of physical traits that are generally not considered attractive (assuming United States). It can range from being short, black, having scars, only one leg, micro-penis, whatever. Obviously all of those characteristics aren't equal as they shouldn't be but they all share the characteristic in that they are widely considered dealbreakers for a decent amount of the population, with some being a lot more (nea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/16 09:02 PM
3	CMV: If a man is short, he's pretty much invisible to women, and is bound to be doomed in dating market. You're right that there are people who are genuinely attracted to smaller height but I'm mostly basing my argument on the idea that a majority of women that date short men is because their other traits make up for it, but that's besides the point as I can just as easily replace short men with burn victims, amputees, etc, just anything that is generally not considered attractive. I never said there was anything wrong with only dating people one finds physically attractive, I would neither add nor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/16 08:19 PM
2	CMV: If a man is short, he's pretty much invisible to women, and is bound to be doomed in dating market. I wouldn't go as far to say that dating a short person makes you a good person but I think it does show that someone isn't that shallow. As if you can look beyond someone's physical looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/16 03:24 AM
1	Q4BP: Why do you believe in a cluster-type model of dating, sex, and attraction? I would argue that it's being rejected for things you can't really change. Using an easy example, say if someone didn't want to date me because I liked going out all the time and they liked staying in most days of the week then that's completely understandable and I wouldn't lose no sleep nor hold a grudge against said person. If they said no cause I was short I definitely feel bad about there	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/16 08:07 PM
1	Introverts, reserved people and "fake it til you make it" That's pretty cool, do you get asked out/approached a lot?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/16 05:59 PM
1	Most men on the manosphere equate being incel to not getting 6+ white women One of the problems of this subreddit is that people operate on different variations of terms. Some equate beta to omega while others equate beta to pretty much everyone else that isn't alpha. When people say incel I assume they mean incels like the people at foreveralone while others equate it to people who are still virgins but have friends and a somewhat limited social life. So I agree that the incels in your text arent really involuntary celibate but I would argue against that chubby sociall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/16 05:03 AM
1	CMV: Nice guys aren't rejected because they are nice to get sex, they are rejected because they use niceness instead of being confident. The problem with that is that someone who genuinely wants to help as much people as they can will appear no different from someone who sounds like a doormat. The former is being punished for the formed opinions of the latter. Its just like nice guys vs nice guys tm, nice guys are legitimate nice guys who do good things cause they want and they feel that one of their best qualities is that they're nicer than most people but are punished because they're lumped in the same group as nice guys tm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/16 07:51 PM
2	CMV: Nice guys aren't rejected because they are nice to get sex, they are rejected because they use niceness instead of being confident. In a sense you are right, I guess I would change it too being somewhat confident is the minimum in general. I keep forgetting that the opinions and thoughts from women on reddit doesn't necessarily represent reality. I think being a good person has its own merit, deciding whether to help someone out or not should not be based on if thats the kind of thing women like. At the end of the day its no different from how men would pick a 9/10 with a dull personality over a 6/10 with a great personality…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/16 06:02 PM
2	CMV: Nice guys aren't rejected because they are nice to get sex, they are rejected because they use niceness instead of being confident. I think nice guys base attraction on traits that are generally considered good. That being a good person should not only hold inherent worth on how attractive someone is but their degree of goodness should determine their level of attractiveness. I imagine in most nice guys mind someone like ghandi or jesus should be the object of every girls attention. Which obviously isn't true, people say that being a nice or good person is the minimum requirement, which is true, but they're good in the most …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/16 07:43 AM
0	Does Being a Misogynist Make a Man "Better" with Women? assertiveness is aggressive, I agree. I wouldn't say arrogance if its true, having confidence knowing that youre part of the 1% wouldn't be arrogance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/16 08:50 PM
-1	Does Being a Misogynist Make a Man "Better" with Women? Yea and no? I think the importance on confidence/assertiveness makes it so as a sexual strategy if you had to choose between being a genuinely really nice guy but passive (think someone who likes to volunteer, help people out but has low confidence when it comes to dating) vs your stereotypical asshole/douche type of guy then the latter would be better. People always say "why can't you just keep the redpill the same but without all the misogynism" but as you said in your post hate is a very easy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/16 07:17 PM
1	Some interesting local stats from my local OkCupid: Women strongly prefer dominant men. I felt this way as well and I do follow by it cause I just honestly dont want to take the chance of someone feeling like they were taken advantaged of, but it can be hard sometimes when it seems like the majority of people go with that way of thinking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/16 09:00 AM
1	Redpillers, if men aren't interested in a woman's money how is it that Serena Williams dates high profile men? Just dumped Drake for co-founder of Reddit. Well i mean everyone (generalization) is interested in money, its just that if you took a bunch of guys and gals and sat them down to ask what characteristics they would like in a dating partner I think more women would mention money or a good job. Probably just remnants of old gender roles of where how much a man can provide was tied to his worth as a human being. I think there was some kind of experiment where they did that, ill have to look for it. In the case of serena and most celebrities I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/16 06:37 AM
4	Attraction creates confidence (not the other way around) Is that really what causes confidence? Just treating women like people? That explains why those loser virgins have such low self-esteem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/15 06:02 AM
2	Actual niceness actually has almost nothing to do with being attractive to women. The analogy I like to use for qualities describing nice, good, or assholish people is through activities. Like normal attractive that aren't too nice and aren't arrgoant/assholish would be football/soccer/martials arts/etc, something a decent amount of people like, not boring, and has an element of danger. Being an asshole would be something like street racing, something dangerous with extreme repercussions but is still attractive to decent size of the population. And nice guys would be like a g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/15 05:33 AM
3	The Female Incel Delusion Frequently go to r9k and foreveralone, there are numerous threads asking what they want in a woman and most of them always say some variation of this: they have to be alive and like me. Of course thats setting the bar really low but I would argue that a majority of incel/foreveralone people are realistic and youre just generalizing every incel because of a small subset but very vocal group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/15 01:54 AM
1	In your ideal world, who should the hot (specifically talking about the hot ones here) girls be getting with? Hot girls should get with whoever they want, it's more like I wish the most good-natured people had their ideal/hot bodies. Chances are in this world if you're an extremely good person you're more likely than not a boring person as well, which is a bigger sin in the dating world than being a non-boring asshole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 02:48 AM
2	How are ugly guys supposed to hook up/have sex? Jus b canfident bruh lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/15 08:19 AM
26	How are ugly guys supposed to hook up/have sex? You don't, hookups/casual sex and active social lives are reserved for normal/average people and above for the most part. I feel like this kind of question is like a starving African child asking how he can escape poverty and live a happy life, through luck? You're fucked from the beginning and it would require a large amount of luck (being born in a great family, making lifelong, loyal friends, or just a good support group) to have the tools to do so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/15 08:10 AM
1	There's no such thing as 'alpha' or 'beta', just be yourself. When people say "I'm a <insert number> year old virgin" in most cases they're just using it as all catch all phrase. Saying you're a 31 year old virgin is a lot easier/simpler way of saying "I haven't had friends since the 9th grade, last time I did stuff with people was 14 years ago, never had a first kiss or date, etc."	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/15 05:21 PM
4	The real problem with nice guys. like a player	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/15 12:54 AM
1	The real problem with nice guys. Wait is a nice guy tm whatever a beta or omega? I always figured they were betas cause they usually have friends and a facebook so they always have some form of social connection. Anyways I wouldnt say nice guys are necessarily socially inept, more like just ignorant on social norms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/15 12:52 AM
3	Are there people who, no matter how much they desire it, will not find satisfying, loving romantic relationships? Didnt the OP say satisfying, loving romantic relationships and not sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/15 02:29 AM
-1	I've never actually witnessed so called redpill truths offline Does this apply to unconventional places too? Like say a magic the gathering tournament or a civil war reanactment or whatever?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/15 03:17 PM
1	Do you wish that you could be a different race? Holy shit that's long as fuck	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/15 02:14 AM
6	Do you wish that you could be a different race? Black male. People tell me I look good for being black, if you look at my history enough you'll find a couple pictures. Black and I would change to white easily. I think people think of race in a weird way, since they can't change their race they have no choice but to become extremely prideful in it. I think of race the same way I think of race in like skyrim or choosing your favorite color, in skyrim I choose certain races either because of how they look or their racial bonuses. There are some …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/15 02:14 AM
1	How does meme culture affect gender discourse on the internet? I really really like this meme :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 08:59 AM
1	Women only find 20% of men attractive, meanwhile men only find women attractive from ages 16-25 (less than 20% of all women). Isn't it safe to say both genders are shallow and picky? I agree both are shallow but I feel like people are scared to even suggest one side might be more shallow than the other because feelings might be hurt. Like if shallowness could measured in points I doubt that both would be the same total. And I can't really say which is more shallow since my view would be unbelievably skewed with me being incel/foreveralone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/14 10:10 PM
2	Tall, Dark and Handsome? How about Petite, Blonde and Hot? Its pretty common to see stuff like "ONLY GUYS WHO ARE 5"8 OR HIGHER, sorry I just cant date a short man" or "NO BLACK GUYS" at the end of a woman's dating profile, which i find strange cause what if they're attractive and exactly what they're looking for except that one small difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/14 06:13 PM
4	29 year old virgin. What would you do. Unless he hates himself even more afterwards, could be the straw that breaks the camel's back	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/14 03:29 PM
3	29 year old virgin. What would you do. I imagine it would be because of the shame of others, nobody is going to pat him on the back for it in this day and age	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/14 03:19 PM
6	29 year old virgin. What would you do. Losing his virginity to a prostitute would only solidify how much of a loser he feels like	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/14 02:54 PM
3	why is there so much hate in trp? I'm pretty sure most boys fell for this "lie". Like you see often on the big subreddits, "she only dates douchebags and not nice guys like me." I just think people who were around girls more often, be it family or friends, was dispelled of that myth a lot sooner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/14 03:01 PM
1	They say confidence is important when approaching women, BUT, were you aware the word "con" in "con man," is for confidence? Is the question are all guys faking confidence/hiding insecurities until their insecurities are gone? And if (most) women can look pass a man's insecurities and still date them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/14 06:40 AM
1	Anyone find it hard to relate to regular people? I think this is a different kind of pill, black pill maybe?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/14 12:02 AM
4	BPers, are these women "shallow?" Not BP but yeah, everyone is shallow though it's just that most men have lower standards when it comes to sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/14 06:50 PM
2	TRP and feminism BOTH assert that nobody is ever entitled to sex...so why do I often see conflicting messages about who we are entitled to? People always bring this up but I don't think most guys who complain about rejection are going for 8s or 9s. An 8 or 9 is like model status for girls and I can't imagine some 5/6 guy approaching a girl who's as pretty as a Victoria's Secret model. I think it's just the fact that it's common for girls to date guys who are even or higher in looks while for guys it's the opposite	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/14 07:33 PM
1	CMV: Being a "genuine nice guy" will NOT get you action, and in many situations is even worse than being a "fake nice guy" From looking at this thread I feel like people don't consider GNG a real GNG because he lacks confidence or too considerate? I confuse the two.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/14 05:36 AM
2	"Involuntary celibacy." Do people who identify with and adopt that title deny they have personal responsibility? Your not alone brother	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/14 12:05 AM