DaxMan12 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Men 30+ y.o. successful at game, do you get girls in their 20s? Oh yeah. 30s is where it’s at for dating 20 somethings	/r/seduction	25/06/22 01:14 AM
3	I don't know how to flirt or talk to guys Honestly I’m having a hard time even making sense of the very first sentence “Getting guys isn’t an issue…” okay got it “… that comes easy “ - ???	/r/seduction	07/06/22 02:06 AM
3	Did any of you do the whole “invest in yourself” and become non needy thing? Did it work? What’s your story? Super important point. You should be doing it for you anyways. The women will come (or at least, react well to) to guy who has his shit together.	/r/seduction	03/06/22 03:30 AM
1	Did any of you do the whole “invest in yourself” and become non needy thing? Did it work? What’s your story? Yes. Honestly I was already physically pretty close (was already in shape and attractive.. that feels weird to say but that’s what I get told) but my mental game was weak. I come from a household we’re there wasn’t the healthiest support system. I always lacked confidence and was super hard on myself, for no good reason. Models was a game changer. Still the most important book I’ve ever read I think. I knew some of the ideas in the book intuitively, but never heard articulated before. It cleared…	/r/seduction	03/06/22 03:28 AM
2	What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls? Hey, you see my friend over there? He’s super shy. He wants to know, do you think I’m cute?	/r/seduction	31/05/22 01:52 PM
1	"I'm not that kind of guy" Nice, yeah it’s one of my favourite reads ever. I reread it every couple of years	/r/seduction	29/05/22 10:11 PM
3	"I'm not that kind of guy" Read Models by Mark Manson	/r/seduction	29/05/22 07:27 PM
14	"I'm not that kind of guy" Yeah, I agree it shouldn’t be an audition, but you can be highly successful with women and still be compassionate to their problems. You know, like a good well-adjusted person would lmao.	/r/seduction	29/05/22 04:33 PM
3	Need advice for hooking up with a co worker, just one problem I’m agreeing with you lol	/r/seduction	21/02/22 06:29 PM
5	Need advice for hooking up with a co worker, just one problem Agreed about a hook up. However, my girlfriend and I met at work. Neither of us work at that company anymore and we are happily together living in our condo. Sometimes it is a good idea	/r/seduction	21/02/22 05:10 PM
1	Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar? Yes lol	/r/seduction	29/01/22 11:46 PM
1	Sexual Drought and no confidence with women Read Models by Mark Manson. Seriously do it.	/r/seduction	12/08/21 01:48 AM
9	Fear not rejection, fear not getting rejected enough Models is the best men’s mental health book I’ve ever read, and it’s the best book on seduction that I’ve read by a long shot as well.	/r/seduction	28/07/20 07:11 PM
3	Went out alone, best decision I've made All I can say is be brave and don’t stop pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. You will get there if you can do that. Be brave.	/r/seduction	13/01/20 01:44 AM
10	Went out alone, best decision I've made What worked for me starting out was the following - When your out at a bar or club or whatever, don’t stay in the same spot. My buddy and I would call it “doing laps”. We’d grab drinks and just stroll through the place. If I saw a girl I thought was cute, I’d make eye contact. If she made eye contact back and it held for a second or two, I’d either wave or just say hi. That’s it. 80% of the time I’d get a smile or a hi back. That’s my version of starting small. This actually led to me getting ph…	/r/seduction	12/01/20 10:23 PM
2	Went out alone, best decision I've made You can do it man. But you have to start small and try your best to stop caring how the approach will go. You’ll be so stoked you even had the balls to do it, which makes every approach after incrementally easier.	/r/seduction	12/01/20 09:28 PM
8	Is online dating a waste of time? Yeah I feel like workplace dating isn’t ideal but it’s not automatically a “no-no”. Depends on the situation.	/r/seduction	03/01/20 06:23 AM
2	My biggest regret in game so far +3 things I learned from it. Been beating myself over it for days now. Never again Man I really recommend doing some cold approaches. It really boosts your social confidence/ confidence in general. Make sure there is some sort of eye contact first before the approach. Have fun with it! It’s really not a big deal how it turns out, but it does wonders for you as a person for just doing it in the first place. Rejection can be a good thing (if it doesn’t reflect poor character/ hygiene/ presentation on your part)... there’s a good chance it means that you wouldn’t enjoy spending t…	/r/seduction	01/01/20 07:22 PM
7	I did it! That way I see it is this. If you ask for her number it’s - man signals to woman that he is interested by approaching, man signals interest to woman by asking her number, man signals interest again by texting her. If you give her your number it’s - man signals woman that he is interested by approaching, man signals interest in woman by giving her his number, woman signals interest to man again by texting her. It’s more balanced the second way and there’s a lot less bullshit. I think you should g…	/r/seduction	12/12/19 11:50 PM
6	I did it! Why is that? I usually give out my number (only after eye contact and a solid introduction/ approach) and have had solid results personally.	/r/seduction	12/12/19 08:32 PM
2	Going out alone It’s not too hard to meet/ hang out with new people if there is a pool table or dart board present FYI. Good luck you’ll be fine!	/r/seduction	25/10/19 06:37 PM
1	It all comes down to this! You’re taking it to an extreme and using hyperbole It’s called humour “You need to turn your back on what you want, show contempt and disdain”. This is douchey behaviour. You can attract and seduce people just fine by being confident and treating people like they matter.	/r/seduction	24/10/19 11:51 PM
2	It all comes down to this! Thanks :) Exactly, treating someone with disdain is a shitty thing to do. If you think someone is cute, just show interest and be genuine (I prefer after some solid eye contact or a cheeky wave). If they aren’t into that then you probably dodged a bullet anyway.	/r/seduction	24/10/19 08:39 PM
3	It all comes down to this! There is some truth to your post, but I still disagree. There is no need to treat somebody you’re interested in with disdain. And to do so to try and spark interest is manipulative. I do however agree that you should be happy and confident with yourself before approaching anyone. And you should be completely fine whether or not the girl reciprocates your advances.	/r/seduction	24/10/19 07:58 PM
2	It all comes down to this! Next time I’m at a bar and I see a girl I want to talk to I’ll just turn my back and say nothing. How could she possibly resist?? lol. Not only will this rarely ever work, it’s also a dishonest way to live. If you want to talk and get to know someone just own it and do so!	/r/seduction	24/10/19 07:45 PM
16	It all comes down to this! Next time I’m at a bar and I see a girl I want to talk to I’ll just turn back my back and say nothing. How could she possibly resist?? lol. Not only will this rarely ever work, it’s also a dishonest way to live. If you want to talk and get to know someone just own it and do so!	/r/seduction	24/10/19 07:44 PM
2	No experience = no confidence, and no confidence = no experience Good on you brother. Dealing with that kind of break up (I have too) will make you better person as it thickens your skin and inspires you to improve yourself and succeed more. You don’t always need to have the intent to “close out” woman, I try and focus on just getting to know them and seeing if we mesh! Anytime you approach a woman it is a success, because you didn’t cave into fear or anxiety. Doesn’t matter if they reciprocate everytime or not, the right ones will reciprocate eventually. Mak…	/r/seduction	23/10/19 05:59 PM
6	No experience = no confidence, and no confidence = no experience Man you and I have very similar stories. I have bounced from 5 relationships since I was 15 and I’m now 30. Split with my last girl in May and said fuck it I want to dominate when it comes to meeting random beautiful women. I’ve been devouring self help books like Models, Extreme Ownership, How to be a 3% Man etc. I’ve probably approached 20 woman in the last month and the responses keep better and better because I’m becoming much more competent at it. My confidence and charisma has never been b…	/r/seduction	22/10/19 11:57 PM
1	Thinking of going out Every Saturday to game and here’s my plan to get rid of Anxiety. What do you think? I’m not allowed to return home until i complete them. Nice work man keep stepping it up incrementally, that’s the key! I’ve been working on approaching as well and I think my new hurdle not using alcohol as a tool to decrease anxiety, but just acting despite having anxiety. Hopefully that will build up my capacity and make me less anxious in general.	/r/seduction	19/10/19 07:23 PM
1	Saw a girl whoes exactly my type and did the approach Nice work!!	/r/seduction	18/09/19 10:51 PM