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I think this is also directly related to the sink cost fallacy. Being so terrified of it ending because you feel you’ve invested, and what else do you have? Such a toxic place to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:26 PM
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society is pushing women to co-sign their own suppression and oppression. Holy bejeezuz, THIS RIGHT HERE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:32 AM
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Right. I have my own areas of expertise, but let’s say my partner knew a lot about and did research on, idk, the long term effects of deforestation, I wouldn’t be an expert but I’d like to know more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:18 PM
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I used to look up to certain women for the ways they managed dating and relationships. Now I see they are in one form or another, pickmes. I thought I needed to be like them, do better. Now I can confidently say I have surpassed them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:54 AM
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The best gift for me was for him to end it. It was like my life flashed before my eyes. The shock of it made me see all of his indiscretions from the past in a different light. I felt some shame for not having seen them earlier. But now I truly feel the BEST THING to have happened to me was when he broke it off. I have no shame now, I’m just grateful I can see the truth now for what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:52 AM
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YESSSS there’s saying something like “I can’t believe you chose me” or “I’m not good enough for you” cuz yep that’s true. Now if he says something like, “I got so lucky to find you” that’s also true cuz I am unique and there’s not many out there, so you did get lucky. Hopefully we both got lucky. I’ll be happy one day when I can say that to an SO because goddammit is it hard to find a good one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:46 AM
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Basement dwelling human pond scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:24 PM
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Yeah I gotcha. It’s crazy how our mindsets can change so dramatically and what we realize in retrospect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:13 PM
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I’ve only been cheated on a few times Love that you found FDS and are still vetting, but some people never cheat/get cheated on. Saying “only a few times” reinforces that it’s inevitable and not a big deal cuz it didn’t happen, idk, 5 times. Cheating is not an “only a few times” thing. Just wanted to point that out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:54 PM
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Jesus wept hahaha I am dead 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:58 PM
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I fucking love my tiny studio apartment and it’s too small for anyone but me, wouldn’t have it any different 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:53 PM
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With a name like Ca$aNoVa, it has to be LVM. * read like smuckers commercial *
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:28 PM
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So. Frickin. True. I refuse to have the “what are we” conversation ever again. I won’t do it. I’ll just walk away. That convo never ends up going where you want it to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:44 AM
11

It’s okay I didn’t know this and English is my first language 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:24 AM
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Wow this happened to me too. I used to be more unsure of myself and didn’t get asked out much, but since leaving my pickme days behind, I’ve been pursued and definitely dropped after a few days cuz the fuckbois realize they’re not gonna get some.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 04:45 AM
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No hate but my question is “Is he a believer” if yes, he’s fake, haha. Just complete opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:31 AM
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It’s definitely scripted. If you follow their videos this is kinda their style. This one is not funny to me though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:02 AM
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He does have a master’s degree. In Dumbfuckery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:11 AM
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Christian men...some of the lowest of low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:03 AM
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And that’s on enmeshment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:57 PM
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Literally ANYTHING. Never stop vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:04 AM
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Don’t kick yourself. At all. Pat yourself on the back for waking up, and acknowledge that you are not the person you were before. Think of it this way: if you were to talk to your former self, would you actually kick her and yell at her? Probably not. You’d reveal what you know now with some painful but truthful love. It’s hard to learn something and fully grasp it if you don’t experience it, so sometimes going through the pickme stage is the best way to level up. You’ll find a lot of FDS member…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:45 AM
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Honestly, low effort isn’t exclusive. FDS honestly helps you weed out anyone who drains you and keeps you from being your badass self. And that includes all low effort friends and partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:33 AM
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Comic sans just radiates low effort font energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:31 AM
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Yep. I love it when people say things like “well he was so sweet and he cuddled with me and said these nice things,” and then they are shocked when they’re ghosted. Honey, he likes cuddling. You were available. Him saying those nice things means you’re more likely to continue being available. Stop believing the first thing someone says. He’s not dIFfErEnT until he consistently shows up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:28 AM
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“I felt like he was different and really genuine. Also we barely know each other.” Yep. Checks out. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:24 AM
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I 100% get this. I feel like having kids in this day and age is a bit selfish and unethical, if I’m completely honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:35 PM
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Also, “thank you for telling me” translates to “shit, you got me.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:23 PM
9

Yep. 789 (so far) people upvoting this is concerning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:23 PM
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Stop normalizing the praise of bare minimum behavior. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:21 PM
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Mmm I just vomited a little in my mouth. Can I unwatch that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:15 AM
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Umm I’m really not sure how tf you could have an “otherwise great relationship” when your bf shoved silverware up your asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:41 PM
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That dog said: “HALP. ME.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:31 PM
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I used to be a one person at a time woman and couldn’t imagine anything else. And then I’d wonder why I’d get attached so quickly (lots of reasons for that that I was blind to, but one being I would throw myself into one person). Now I will take it slow with different people because like you, more often than not, they aren’t HV, or there’s simply nothing there between us and won’t ever be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:12 AM
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It’s the face squinch at the very end for me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:13 AM
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You KNOW Amex and everywhere else is getting a TON of applicants right now just because of this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 10:05 PM
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Oh my gooood this happened to me two weeks ago!! Yes, I hear what you’re saying, but I’m fine, and I don’t need to talk cuz “closure” means nothing to me 👋🏼💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 09:54 PM
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Wow, I never thought of that. Such bullshit when even a gay man taking the mothering role can’t get some credit for shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:00 AM
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I’ve definitely met Frosty the Fuccboi, hope he melts for good this spring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:17 PM
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Oh do NOT get me started on LV Christian men. They are truly some of the WORST.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:02 PM
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Honestly, telling a man your standards directly in the beginning just gives them to opportunity to know what they need to do so you’ll stick around for awhile, fuck you, and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:18 PM
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Also there is FDS approved media in the wiki just not a ton.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:19 AM
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Yes!! Céline Sciamma is a GODDESS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:18 AM
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Oh my gooood you’re right, I totally forgot about the first one where he totally wanted to fuck that blonde chick! He really is a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:34 AM
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Why do I feel like she’s genuinely talking to me 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:05 AM
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On the same note of film but completely different in that it’s quality material, Portrait of a Lady on Fire should be in the list of FDS approved films. Those are some boss ladies. It’s in my top 3 films of all time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:43 AM
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Oh yeah definitely! I actually thought about that one but forgot to include it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:36 AM
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Oh this is 100% love bombing. No one throws money at you that early unless they want to manipulate you down the line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:48 AM
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This reminds me of when my college freshmen orientation counselor (he was a sophomore) coerced me into giving him a handjob after I said I wasn’t comfortable because “you’re not doing anything to your body. It’s my body and it’s fine with me”. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:45 AM
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I am loving her energy 👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:39 AM
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It doesn’t get more low effort than literally omitting words lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:31 AM
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Had one do that to me a couple weeks ago. “You’re a really great person and I don’t want to lose that.” FFS you chose to give it up. And ya can’t lose something you don’t have!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:29 PM
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A man who checks his messages mid-sex is a GVM, Garbage Value Man lolol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:00 AM
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Perhaps could be part of it. I’m not entirely sure and haven’t put a finger on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:08 PM
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You have a point. I think what’s important to recognize is that a HV action is different than a HV man. Some here may realize that, some don’t. Being an actual HVM takes a lot of time, consistency, and effort, and he must continue to prove his HV. I do, however, like to see real life actions like this as an example of a single action. But in no way should any FDS member (or anyone for that matter) justify their LVM BF because of one simple act. I just don’t know OP’s actual relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:07 PM
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I’m talking specifically about my brother and I getting into fighting matches generally started by stupid sibling things. We both said hurtful things when we were younger that we regret. We were both pretty passionate children still learning self control. Thankfully as adults we have been able to navigate our relationship and communicate maturely, and I talk to him every day, never any fighting matches. My parents have never in their lives said anything intentionally hateful toward me. Edit: I’l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:59 PM
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I see both of your points. It’s possible the question of “how can you know” is to simply ask for someone’s perspective on their convictions. If they asked me this, I would then turn it back on them, and say, “so, do you know that you wouldn’t cheat? Or do you mean to say you don’t know that you wouldn’t cheat? Under what circumstances could you find yourself cheating?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:32 AM
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LVM like him are too far gone. He’s a never-change man. Hopefully she’ll get out sooner rather than later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:27 AM
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I find this interesting, and it seems to be the impression that most have about why women say they like BDSM. I have in the past (single and happy atm!) enjoyed very light BDSM. I am grateful to say I have not ever been abused. Never been physically touched in a violent way. In my family, very harsh and hurtful words were said during occasional heated arguments, but these were not everyday and I wouldn’t equate them to emotional abuse. I’ve never been verbally or physically abused by any man I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:16 AM
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“Obviously you haven’t finished with yours yet” (last pic) lolllll roast so hot he toasted!! 🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:54 AM
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Thank you for sharing this HVM material!! Edit: there seems to be confusion sometimes on the distinction between HV actions and HV people. An HV individual is only HV because of their proven consistency of HV actions. This I would consider a HV action, but it takes more than one gesture to actual be HV. I hope that clarifies my comment when I say “material”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:42 AM
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you need to cOmMuNiCaTe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:41 AM
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This is one of the best ways I’ve heard it described!! If you’re not bringing anything to my already fulfilling life, you’re either taking away from it or a waste of my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:37 AM
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Holy shiiiiiit. I haven’t heard something that I’ve related to so much. I’m 3 days post breakup. Wow. I thought at times I was demanding too much contact or being clingy, but in reality, he creating an unsafe and insecure environment for the relationship!! 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:42 AM
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I was used for the past 10 months in an LDR for god knows what reason only for him to break up with me 3 days before I was supposed to see him because there’s someone else. I should have seen the signs. I won’t ignore them next time...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:09 PM
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