| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | What is femininity to you? | DayEquivalent4111 | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/24 10:38 PM | |
| 7 | Is my boyfriend using me as a placeholder | DayEquivalent4111 | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/25 10:21 PM | |
| 0 | Is he a provider? | DayEquivalent4111 | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/24 05:12 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Is my boyfriend using me as a placeholderGirl same here! I told him I can’t marry him either if he’s not stepping up financially because in the beginning of our relationship we’ve agreed that he will be the one that handles the economical expenses including marriage so he needs to step up career wise, his normal salary doesn’t cover that lifestyle up. We agreed in the beginning that he’d do it by this year but he postponed it until next year and told me he’ll need another year… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/25 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Is my boyfriend using me as a placeholderI appreciate your answer and I’m happy for you! The thing is he didn’t say he didn’t want to get married or that he was unsure of it. He talked about his economical situation and how he will need another year to fix it which made me spiral into all sort of thoughts. I am still considering everything tho.. i’ll see how ir goes | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/25 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Is my boyfriend using me as a placeholderI would like to start as an exchange student, and then he will come and stay here because his work is more remote compared to mine | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/25 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Is my boyfriend using me as a placeholderWe live in two different countries, and our plan was that I will start by studying as an exchange student because I am in college at the moment at that would feel like the most ”optimal” choice and we will get married the same year i am an exchange student in his country, after that he’ll come and stay in my country. He was not immediately postponing it but being vague about the part where i live in his country while being an exchange student telling me he needs to work really hard this year to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/25 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Is my boyfriend using me as a placeholderThank you for your answer, this really made me rethink alot of things. I will try doing that! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/25 05:35 PM |
| 4 | Is my boyfriend using me as a placeholderThank you for this answer, it feels really helpful after hearing that and I actually shifted my perspective on things. When you put LDR in the beginning of the post, people automatically assume that it isn’t a serious relationship or that the man is cheating. I chose to filter these kind of responses out because I know what kind of man he is when it comes to dicipline, loyalty and seriousness and long distance is just a matter of time until you reunite. I’ve been with him for two years, even met… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/25 05:33 PM |
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