DaydreamingMister Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	What I’d give every guy to progress his dating life		DaydreamingMister	/r/seduction	23/04/20 06:22 PM
6	Falling in love with her a little too fast - emotional self control		DaydreamingMister	/r/seduction	29/07/20 11:04 PM
1	Which book have you read multiple times to improve your skills?	Resources	DaydreamingMister	/r/seduction	25/05/20 04:15 PM

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1	[deleted by user] I understand some girls may just give me the number because they don't want to reject you to your face, or because they just want me gone, but that doesn't feel like the case because I do a good job of giving off a comfortable vibe, not acting stupid. Assuming the above assessment of yourself is, in fact, accurate... Maybe you would do well to start handing off YOUR phone number at the end of that winning conversation you just led with the lady. (Peaceful, relaxed vibe) Well hey - I gotta get go…	/r/seduction	13/01/22 02:32 PM
4	[deleted by user] As vague as something like "knowing yourself"/"get to know yourself better" sounds - There is truth to the idea that people who know what they bring to the world tend to walk in and interact with the world with a certain openness. They are in tune with their value, and they engage even strangers in a way that presumes welcome and extends welcome. I believe a deep level of being aware of oneself is involved…but so is a deep level of being secure in oneself. Which reminds me of something that may …	/r/seduction	11/01/22 04:51 PM
3	Observational Greetings Key is to RELAX. Just breathe... be a human being who's present & simply enjoying the moment of being alive wherever you're standing or sitting... And while you're at it, allow your natural curiosity to work on its own. If all of that leads to your brain having absolutely nothing to ask or remark about - then right there is some important information for you. Haha If you have zero natural curiosity about the other person, the answer to that is not to force some comment or question. In my case, I…	/r/seduction	10/01/22 04:32 PM
4	Why do some guys get away with certain things than other guys if they do the same thing? I’d have to disagree that “every girl is like that”. Many girls, yes. But not all. Just like if women were here now claiming they have no choice but to date assholes because every single guy is an asshole these days. You and I would be disagreeing with her, because that simply is not true of all men today. (And if your experiences are based on women from online dating, I def don’t think we can be sure that they are the best of best in terms of great women to build a relationship with.)	/r/seduction	09/01/22 03:13 AM
11	Why do some guys get away with certain things than other guys if they do the same thing? In case no one mentioned it to ya: -Even though you yourself are awesome, it doesn’t mean all women or even most women will choose you. Be awesome anyway. -Also, life ain’t fair. -And women respond to different men differently. -There’s also the fact that sometimes - unfortunately - some women aren’t exactly healthy and “normal”… so awful behavior and treatment they may accept stems from being messed up inside. (So be careful with envying men those women deal with/be careful with wishing such wo…	/r/seduction	09/01/22 01:29 AM
3	Field Report: Central America-What I learned Happened the be living down there for a few years back when I first came into my own/took myself to the next level as a man in life & in dating. Big fan of the women there. With them, I experienced a basic humility, courtesy, gentleness that caught me off guard… even made me a better person.	/r/seduction	31/12/21 01:33 PM
2	You're on a run and someone really cute smiles at you and sends good vibes. Workout story I’ve experienced specifically - no. But what I’d do: Assume she likes what she sees. Stick my tongue out at her playfully, then smirk and continue on my workout. In that moment, my mission & purpose is to be focused on the task at hand. I’m not about to derail that over a flirtatious smiling, staring lady. Now if I’m wrapping up the workout anyway, and her location in that moment happens to be the end point of my run… then that’s a different story. Or if she’s intrigued enough/bold…	/r/seduction	30/12/21 12:09 AM
1	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you 🎶 PUNK… PUNK… PUNK!! 🍾	/r/seduction	29/12/21 05:38 PM
1	Don’t get too caught up in the concept of ‘leading’ on dates. The primary goal is to facilitate fun for both of you. Don’t be rigid. And with that, it’s good to also be ready to transition back - in the event that the mutual laughs and smiles give way to all fun getting sucked out of things once whatever she came up with is underway. Like OP said, fun for both parties is the key… And there’s no guarantee that the lady is as practiced and tuned in to creating simple, fun-filled date experiences & convos as you are.	/r/seduction	28/12/21 06:51 PM
18	The most attractive thing to women is a transcendent emotional experience. Haha I’m one paragraph into the post and already recalling real-life instances that confirm the impact of this “transcendence” for experiences women are invited to join. P.S. First paragraph alone begins to address all those men who (probably grew up with no effective coaching/no model of how to be great as a man leading relationships) - men who still are asking the “but why does it seem like it always has to be ME that plans the date” questions. Good words here, OP. Thanks.	/r/seduction	27/12/21 05:33 PM
26	We had an amazing time together on our first date, had a great kiss and today she sent me a message that she found out that she's still not over her ex. What do I do? Facts you know already: -She would like to cease contact. -You yourself do not get to control that or make her keep texting and talking with you. -She’s cool enough/the connection was cool enough that you’d be willing to let her try to earn a second chance, if later she changes her mind about her lame ex and decides she’s ready to move on with you. So where that leaves you now… Since you have become the kind of man that isn’t attached to any outcome with a woman (*if you have not reached that st…	/r/seduction	23/12/21 01:53 PM
1	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you Haha Blah blah blah	/r/seduction	22/12/21 03:23 PM
2	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you 🤔 Surely you can understand that quoting by copy/pasting someone else's previous words is no guarantee that any subsequent commentary you type is going to have perfect clarity. Anyway - typing text online isn't always the greatest forum for avoiding confusion. (Case in point - some readers will probably scrunch their brow when they see that you yourself just wrote the word "too" at the end of your reply, as if you were expressing the idea of "also" or the idea of something being in excess. Haha)…	/r/seduction	21/12/21 06:11 PM
1	The exact moment when the chemistry shifted... Not at all - when you test it out (even if you experiment alone as part of your date night prep) you’ll see that angling your body/your chair just a bit for chatting purposes is a cinch… As is angling back the other way for eating, once the meal arrives at the table.	/r/seduction	21/12/21 05:51 PM
1	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you Haha Ohh boy. I am uninterested in getting into a power struggle with idiot guy at the restaurant, or with some stranger replying to a comment I left for an OP on this sub. For all I care, they both can walk away feeling like they won whatever it is they were trying to prove.	/r/seduction	21/12/21 05:38 PM
0	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you Haha Lost? Yes - from the first reply that that person wrote to me, clarity was lacking. Anyways - if that individual still needs something that he feels I have failed to address, he can write again to say so. Otherwise, I'm more than happy to close the door on that whole section of the thread.	/r/seduction	21/12/21 05:32 PM
-1	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you “he feeling discomfort” Not sure what you are saying. But if you mean to suggest that OP’s post had a context of the girlfriend feeling discomfort, what I read from OP stated no such thing.n As for my own comment, I already stated that girlfriend can let me know if she’s uncomfortable. Even doing so with just a look. As an adult woman, surely she can do at least that much to communicate to me that she isn’t comfortable, since she knows a man isn’t a mind reader.	/r/seduction	21/12/21 02:04 PM
7	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you Haha If her assumptions about “good boyfriend” vs “bad boyfriend” include that her guy must interrupt every man who can see she’s attractive & who tries to talk to her - then that is something she can discuss with me by communicating like an a adult during private conversation with me. Happy to listen to where she’s coming from & then share my own view. Wonderful opportunity for us to understand each other better going forward.	/r/seduction	21/12/21 01:39 PM
0	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you Haha If she has reached the status stated here - girlfriend - she already knows that ‘passivity’ and ‘fear of confrontation’ are not part of my style. So, no. And like I stated already, with a single look - she can let me know she’d like to be assisted, and I’d step in.	/r/seduction	21/12/21 01:31 PM
6	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you You may be assuming much from how that was phrased in a brief Reddit comment.	/r/seduction	21/12/21 01:18 PM
1	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you Haha 😂	/r/seduction	21/12/21 01:15 PM
24	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you 🤔 You came here debating the idea of killing oneself - were you under the impression that suicide was mentioned on this thread?	/r/seduction	21/12/21 12:39 AM
12	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you Haha Then do your thing with the crow bar - no one here needs you to change your mind about that!	/r/seduction	21/12/21 12:09 AM
35	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you Um - did you perhaps leave your reply in the wrong spot??	/r/seduction	21/12/21 12:07 AM
22	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you Haha This sounds like high school.	/r/seduction	20/12/21 11:30 PM
825	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you She's an adult; another adult can address her/speak to her. Some guy flirting isn't a reason for me to step in, as though gf is a child and should avoid talking to scary strangers. Now if she feels uncomfortable for some reason and looks at me like, "Please get me out of this" - then that would be a reason to step in. Peaceful, relaxed, confident, not letting idiot guy buzz-kill the positive vibe & energy I insist on being in - I'd invite him to allow her and me to get back to our date. If he ca…	/r/seduction	20/12/21 11:22 PM
1	English and Irish women are surprisingly receptive to getting approached and cool as fuck. Reminds of the words from a British singer being interviewed who mentioned liking it when an American guy steps to her in a way that has some directness (not to be confused with disrespect or being a creep).	/r/seduction	17/12/21 09:43 PM
2	Girl at drive thru in front of me It’s all good. Those little “dropped the ball” experiences are actually a gift. You just need to learn to utilize them. After the fact each time, you spend solo moments thinking through options for what would’ve been a better way to react. And you even practice aloud in order to arrive at whatever would be your comfortable way of phrasing and delivering your side of the interaction with the girl. So that you can feel & come off natural, instead of like you’re using lines from someone else’s styl…	/r/seduction	15/12/21 07:05 PM
3	Why nothing turns a woman on more than radical honesty plus an indifference to needing her validation. You are aggressive in what you believe in, and nothing else matters. Very interesting	/r/seduction	09/12/21 09:16 PM
2	What to say when a girls friends ask where you stand on her? (Peaceful, relaxed vibe and James Bond smirk) "Uh - do you work for TMZ? Are you with the National Enquirer? Haha" And if they keep at it instead of taking a hint... You keep the same playful vibe with - "Haha Stop snoopin' in her business, Snoopy. Haha" And then you move on from that lame convo they're striving for.	/r/seduction	08/12/21 09:14 PM
54	Why nothing turns a woman on more than radical honesty plus an indifference to needing her validation. I think I've seen something related to this "honesty + indifference" aspect - a Youtube clip from a Seinfeld episode with the George Costanza character.	/r/seduction	08/12/21 02:43 PM
10	[deleted by user] Not good. Cut that crap out, and start developing the part of you that focuses on your curiosity toward the other person. You should always be more curious about them than they are about you… and with that, you always have some FUN questions to engage them with. Emphasis on the word FUN… We’re not talking about bringing up heavy, super serious, or uncomfortable topics. Time spent with you should be Fun, and that includes the conversation topics you introduce. A good place to start can be Bests, …	/r/seduction	07/12/21 10:17 PM
2	If you’re very excited to meet this girl should you suppress it in order to appear cool and masculine? Sometimes they are, yes. But the question is about details of your situation... Is this someone you've been talking to online for 3 months and feel excited to meet? Or someone you matched with last Monday and went crazy over her photos, so you feel excited to meet? Or someone you saw hanging out with your coworker IRL yesterday and lost your heart, so you feel excited to meet? What do you know about this person that is contributing to you being "very excited to meet"?	/r/seduction	03/12/21 04:10 PM
2	If you’re very excited to meet this girl should you suppress it in order to appear cool and masculine? Well, some questions: -Why are you "very excited to meet this girl"? You saw pics that looked hot?	/r/seduction	03/12/21 04:00 PM
1	Im new to this, i have a question: masks Haha In that case, I think I'd be risking getting a slap on the risk in those environments due to "needing" to pull down my mask to sip from my water bottle or something.	/r/seduction	02/12/21 01:06 PM
24	Im new to this, i have a question: masks Haha Even after everything I know about this crap - I got the hots for the new doctor that came to work with us the other month... Been enjoying our flirtatious little back-and-forth, and didn't realize until the staff Thanksgiving dinner that the bottom half of her face had always been covered until that event. Let's just say I was left mourning a loss, after what I saw across the dinner table that evening. Haha	/r/seduction	01/12/21 04:37 PM
103	Im new to this, i have a question: masks Haha Not to mention the fact that you cannot see what they actually look like! (And vice versa) Countless stories out there from myself and others of meeting a masked cutie that turns out to be...something other than a cutie once the mask comes off later. Be careful. Haha	/r/seduction	01/12/21 02:36 PM
10	Need somebody to tell me to not text this girl who has left me on read multiple times… Sorta sounds like someone is being strung along…or being “let down easy” instead of a straightforward No Thank You. Women KNOW how to make it easy when they’re enthusiastic/curious about being taken out by someone. Just you wait - day will come when you’ll see that it’s hard to wanna chase something like that after tasting how nice it feels when a woman is an enthusiastic participant and helps get something going with each other.	/r/seduction	29/11/21 10:51 AM
11	Need somebody to tell me to not text this girl who has left me on read multiple times… Haha “2 months, no reply” - we’re happy to let her remain shy and busy, in that case. Hard to wanna chase something like that after tasting how nice it feels when a woman is an enthusiastic participant and helps get something going with each other.	/r/seduction	29/11/21 10:48 AM
449	Need somebody to tell me to not text this girl who has left me on read multiple times… Remember this for the rest of your life: When women like you, they help you. They make it easy for you to end up on a date with them. If she’s not doing that, it is simply a sign of low interest. In which case you happily move on to the next dating prospect.	/r/seduction	28/11/21 09:52 PM
50	Has a cold approach actually gotten anyone here laid? Cold approach straight to bedroom, no. Cold approach to subsequent first date to her unfastening my pants on date three, yes.	/r/seduction	23/11/21 11:09 PM
6	[deleted by user] Speaking of gym habits - my gym includes a complimentary instructor guy who circulates and gives tips/guidance to those interested… I like that but also feel curious about working with a personal trainer. How did you start out… solo? With a personal trainer? With a friend?	/r/seduction	21/11/21 03:07 AM
2	It isn't about the success of approaching, it's knowing you can approach whomever with ease Good words. Congrats on your growth. Proud of ya.	/r/seduction	20/11/21 04:57 PM
8	Responses to a slight shit test/tease revolving around me being younger than the girl? -In general with tests, just avoid letting the comment diminish you. That’s the first thing. As soon as you get “in your feelings” about a little barb a woman throws your way, it will become more difficult to respond in an un-offended, unemotional way. The second thing is, avoid responding to an obvious test with a serious answer. Your answer should be as ridiculous as possible. Not rude towards her, but ridiculous - yes. -Even though every possible test cannot be anticipated, something that is …	/r/seduction	19/11/21 08:37 PM
0	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Here’s how to change your life like I did, free of charge: There is a book that you’re going to read ten times like the author recommends. He is Corey Wayne. Book is “How To Be A 3% Man”. Access it for free by signing up for the email newsletter on his website www.understandingrelationships.com. Also check out his many videos on YouTube: Coach Corey Wayne. But do NOT try substituting the videos for reading the book ten times.	/r/seduction	11/11/21 12:21 AM
1	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Haha Well, if OP feels the comment failed to address something he was asking, he can ask me a follow-up question.	/r/seduction	10/11/21 09:35 PM
1	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Same. Practically became twice the man I was before.	/r/seduction	10/11/21 08:03 PM
9	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Hi. So, if someone meets your minimum standard of physical attraction - meaning they're at least a 5 in your eyes - then yes, they may have a chance with you. If they do not meet your minimum standard physically - meaning they're a 4 or less to you - then their great personality is not going to make you somehow want them despite finding them physically unappealing. I don't disagree with what you said about "game"... Though I will say that "game" - just like "great personality" in a woman - will …	/r/seduction	10/11/21 04:51 PM
4	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Here’s how to change your life like I did, free of charge: There is a book that you’re going to read ten times like the author recommends. He is Corey Wayne. Book is “How To Be A 3% Man”. Access it for free by signing up for the email newsletter on his website www.understandingrelationships.com. Also check out his many videos on YouTube: Coach Corey Wayne. But do NOT try substituting the videos for reading the book ten times.	/r/seduction	10/11/21 02:38 PM
78	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? A) Improve your skills so that you become actually more effective as a dating partner. (This is done through learning from a good coach that charges no money; and through making approaches to practice your skills and learn from mistakes & successes; and through reflecting after each interaction to note what went well and what should be tweaked.) B) Improve your general knowledge about how to view rejection/how attraction works/knowledge about your confidence or “self-esteem”... For example, you …	/r/seduction	10/11/21 01:15 PM
2	[deleted by user] Understandable. My opinion is that you may find it to be asking quite a lot for a great man with a listening ear/a shoulder he'll let you cry on to connect like that with you emotionally, over time, and not start to think about more with you. Likewise, it might be a situation of tempting yourself if you explore something so special with a man, outside of your current marriage. A therapist, female friends, or one of your parents would be a good outlet instead. Anyways, all the best to ya.	/r/seduction	06/11/21 05:20 PM
1	[deleted by user] I am sorry for your trouble. Some thoughts for your consideration: -A good man (which is what presumably you'd want in a platonic friend as well as in a romantic partner) is one who knows that the last thing he should do is start bonding with an unhappily married woman that is opening herself up emotionally to men other than her husband. I wouldn't go near a woman in your situation. -First comes becoming divorced and being totally free & clear to start something with a great man. (A good man des…	/r/seduction	06/11/21 05:06 PM
-5	Males who are great at texting and get a lot of results using text, what are your tips and advice ? Oh - thank you, homegirl!! All the best to ya!	/r/seduction	02/11/21 10:46 PM
2	Males who are great at texting and get a lot of results using text, what are your tips and advice ? Yes - there’s nothing like establishing understanding. 👌🏾 (And btw - I wasn’t referring to the part you copy/pasted from my comment; I was referring to the words you typed… “if you use the phone to only set dates you aren’t using it to text and have conversation”. That’s the part that argued something I never even stated.)	/r/seduction	02/11/21 09:59 PM
3	Males who are great at texting and get a lot of results using text, what are your tips and advice ? Maybe that's not how I meant it? Correct. But moreover, that's not even what I stated at all. Haha You just typed the words "to only set dates" - whereas I didn't ever use the word "only". I said primarily.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 09:19 PM
7	Males who are great at texting and get a lot of results using text, what are your tips and advice ? 🤔 Which part is confusing you… Are you thinking “primarily used for setting dates” means a prohibition of connecting via text messaging?	/r/seduction	02/11/21 07:56 PM
8	Males who are great at texting and get a lot of results using text, what are your tips and advice ? Agreed. (Also, I think a couple folks may read here and mistakenly assume that the message on this thread is a prohibition of connecting via text.)	/r/seduction	02/11/21 07:28 PM
6	Males who are great at texting and get a lot of results using text, what are your tips and advice ? Nothing on this thread prohibited connecting via text before a date.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 07:27 PM
243	Males who are great at texting and get a lot of results using text, what are your tips and advice ? Haha Use your manner of being “great at texting and getting a lot results using texting” with friends and fam… And in dating, study/adopt an approach in which the phone is used primarily for setting dates. (Being “texting buddies” is what her girlfriends are for. Not her love interest.)	/r/seduction	02/11/21 04:49 PM
2	[deleted by user] Proud of you - you are asking the right question. I’m living what you described. Here’s what helped me get here (free of charge, btw): There is a book that you’re going to read ten times like the author recommends. He is Corey Wayne. Book is “How To Be A 3% Man”. Access it for free by signing up for the email newsletter on his website www.understandingrelationships.com. Also check out his many videos on YouTube: Coach Corey Wayne. But do NOT try substituting the videos for reading the book ten t…	/r/seduction	01/11/21 10:02 PM
1	[deleted by user] Good question. 1 Taller. Less bald. More cash. These things don’t mean he’s a better man. 2 If you are okay accepting the way things have gone for you in the past with dating, change nothing. If you are ready to go to a new level as a man and as a dating partner, keep reading. Here’s how to change your life like I did (free of charge, btw): There is a book that you’re going to read ten times like the author recommends. He is Corey Wayne. Book is “How To Be A 3% Man”. Access it for free by signin…	/r/seduction	28/10/21 11:58 PM
1	[deleted by user] Your boundaries are yours. I can’t decide that. BUT. As we touched on before - I’m not sure you’re coming from a place of being centered as a man currently. So what’s uncertain, then, is if you have been violated… versus being something more like triggered, because you’re insecure. My other reaction to your question is, yes - women you’re dating may bring up going on a date with another man. And they may mention it to the other men they’re dating too. It’s one way to gauge which guy actually see…	/r/seduction	28/10/21 11:46 PM
0	[deleted by user] Get this: -She will never stop “testing your strength”, for the rest of your life. Not even after you’ve been married 20 years. That’s because she freakin’ loves to FEEL your strength. (And obviously, being butt hurt is not strength.) It’s not to say she’ll talk about dating another guy after she’s been your wife for a decade. But even as your wife of many years, she’ll test in other ways. And again, it’s because she loves to feel your strength. There should be an aspect of inner strength that y…	/r/seduction	28/10/21 11:28 PM
1	[deleted by user] -If the “boyfriend/girlfriend vibe” you mentioned meant as much to her as it apparently does you, she wouldn’t be behaving the way she is. (Or if she did, then - Haha she’s most def not ready to be a “good candidate for LTR” despite what you have been assuming about her lately.) -You needed to come from an internal peace of genuinely knowing a few things… 1 That you are awesome and the best dude she could find (though you NEVER try to debate this or beg her to believe it). 2 That your life will …	/r/seduction	28/10/21 10:35 PM
2	How effective is the "fuck it, I'm nervous but I'm going to ask her out anyway" approach? Haha My pleasure.	/r/seduction	28/10/21 08:07 PM
12	How effective is the "fuck it, I'm nervous but I'm going to ask her out anyway" approach? I don't know how any one of us will get anywhere as a man in life or in dating specifically without feeling the fear but still choosing to step forward anyway. Every human feels fear. Courage is simply feeling the fear of something filled with tension, and then deciding to push into it anyway. Courage is NOT the absence of fear. And the bonus byproduct is that with more practice at doing that (in conjunction with the things you are always doing to improve yourself) - confidence grows and nervous…	/r/seduction	28/10/21 02:26 PM
1	Any advice on surpassing those generic ass first conversations with new people? What are you speaking of, my friend - date number one, or interaction number one?	/r/seduction	25/10/21 08:26 PM
3	How to handle compliments from women? You respond as if it isn’t the first time you’ve been complimented by a beautiful woman… So your face, voice tone, and body language def do not go all mushy like you’re coming unglued to be appreciated out loud by a girl. Instead, you respond in a peaceful, relaxed vibe and energy. Maybe give a James Bond smirk… and I’d prolly say something like - Thanks for noticin’. And did you slide into the DM’s while you were there? 😏 She’ll laugh and be like, “Haha No.” Then I go, “Pity. 😏”	/r/seduction	23/10/21 07:54 PM
2	How to maintain eye contact? Def keep working on it. It's like other barriers that can be confronted and removed. And no question it's important - from the perspective of an amazing woman, guys that don't appear to have the interest level/inner peace/self-confidence to hold relaxed, high quality eye contact are guys she'll struggle to stay focused on and respect.	/r/seduction	16/10/21 09:47 PM
1	[deleted by user] If you love the results with that, don’t change.	/r/seduction	16/10/21 12:14 PM
1	[deleted by user] Haha I don’t think you specified, but assuming you are the woman in the scenario, you can relax -- buddy isn’t needing or asking you to “plan and find the time you’re both available”. He’s asking you… well, exactly what he asked you - Looking at your own calendar, when are you open? Similar to the way adults schedule appointments every day for all aspects of life other than dating. No need to make it harder than it is whenever someone you like offers you the freedom to suit yourself schedule-wis…	/r/seduction	16/10/21 11:23 AM
2	[deleted by user] Hello - um, did you drop your reply above in the intended location?	/r/seduction	16/10/21 02:03 AM
3	[deleted by user] Haha If you haven’t noticed, women are pretty adept at NOT enabling you to end up on a date with them if they don’t want it… Their move if not interested in your “when are you free?” dinner invitation is simply to talk about how busy they are, or say their schedule is up in the air, or do anything at all other than name a day of the week. They have no problem sidestepping the question if they are not keen; just as they know exactly how to make it easy for you to end up on a date with them if the…	/r/seduction	16/10/21 12:57 AM
3	[deleted by user] I feel you. The place I come from (and I have zero complaints about how my approach has worked out with the amazing women in my history) is, she is the one who knows her schedule... And clicking a phone app to scroll her calendar real quick isn't "stressing about coming up with" the next Friday or Saturday that she didn't already give away... And aside from the calendar date, after the woman names one that is open for her, then yes - the guy would proceed to suggest a time, like - "Friday, you s…	/r/seduction	15/10/21 08:46 PM
104	[deleted by user] Good job. And good takeaway observations. P.S. Free advice: Avoid the common potential pitfall of naming a day of the week as part of your date invitation. Let your date invitation sound like: "You seem like a cool person. We should get together for dinner - when are you free?" And then you shut up, and let her tell you what day she'll be available.	/r/seduction	15/10/21 05:35 PM
6	Is okay to dump my gf because I want to date other girls and also feel like I'm to young to commit on a long term relationship? Things you stated that, yes, are reasons to break up with the girl: -Not wanting to commit to a long term relationship -"I don't see a future with her anymore"	/r/seduction	14/10/21 05:18 PM
1	Read this if you get stressed and anxious about sex Quality here.	/r/seduction	14/10/21 03:07 PM
1	[deleted by user] Cool, man. If that's working for you and new dating partners, keep it going! Oh - and keep in mind that if "deep conversation" starts making you feel like the vibe is no longer playful and fun, which is the way people expect dating and love to be (especially in the early phase) - then you can always switch up your questions to avoid deep, super serious, or heavy topics.	/r/seduction	13/10/21 07:11 PM
13	[deleted by user] -Your job as the man is to engage a woman by asking questions about things she would LOVE to talk about. (Note: Some folks will read that last sentence and then choose to ask a lady a question about what she likes about her work. But think about it - the average person def does NOT love what they do for work... Ideally, they don't exactly hate it, but they may just sort of tolerate it. But even if they like their work well enough, ask yourself - is workday stuff/career stuff really the conversat…	/r/seduction	13/10/21 04:43 PM
28	[deleted by user] Assuming you're a dude... No time to detail a lot of step-by-step right now - but the answer you seek lies in... ⁠Developing yourself as an asker of FUN questions (the kind of questions that engage a woman would by getting her talking about things she would LOVE to talk about) 2) Developing yourself as an amazing listener Your success will be more about engaging her and getting her enjoying sharing rather than it being about you doing a bunch of talking.	/r/seduction	13/10/21 10:59 AM
7	How does Russell Brand flirt so successfully? The answer to this question is both long and also fascinating. Just a few bits for you here, though... -What you've witness of Russell is his flirting IN PERSON; it isn't him doing it over Bumble or Tinder. -His looks help. -So does the fact that he isn't attached to an outcome. He'll be happy if the woman likes him and goes along with him, and he'll be just as happy if it turns out she doesn't. -Russell is HIGHLY intelligent... and well studied in terms of understanding himself, understanding h…	/r/seduction	12/10/21 04:50 PM
2	'I find myself weirdly attracted to mysterious guys' A clue: One of the reasons it's best to select the kind of partner for long term who you actually find interesting and enjoy listening to (versus selecting someone who you mostly are just interested in what's under her sundress)... one reason why that's best is that, you want to remain eternally curious about the person... By choosing someone you find engaging, it helps you be always wondering and asking questions that you'd like to hear them speak about. And the reason I mention this here is be…	/r/seduction	12/10/21 04:34 PM
12	Head over heals but not into him after sex Well, for the question in your post - yes, it is possible that you are “damaged” from what you referred to as “hit it and quit it” guys. So, thoughts: -Therapy is something every one of us can benefit from, in terms of addressing things that are holding us back from where we could be. -If you are either on the fence or else downright unenthusiastic about the opportunity to continue with the current guy, that is a great reason to send him love and let him go. He wants and deserves someone who is …	/r/seduction	10/10/21 07:02 PM
35	Head over heals but not into him after sex “Butterflies” aside… Are you still looking forward to being with him… sharing with him… laughing with him… enjoying the sorts of things that were cool about you & him outside the bedroom? Or did the enthusiasm for those aspects die once the bedroom deed was done?	/r/seduction	10/10/21 01:25 PM
2	[deleted by user] Not impossible. And no, him being the leader doesn't mean he simply must take the lead on every single thing in the life you two share. I like your chances. All the best to ya!	/r/seduction	05/10/21 06:09 PM
1	[deleted by user] Haha Good question. I do NOT think the answer is that you just have to be okay with accepting a man who seems like a weeny to you... If you don't respect a man, you probably will never be able to love him. But I do think two things you will need for success are - a) Patience for the fact that dating unfortunately comes with no guarantee of speed for running across an amazing partner for long term relationship. (As much as we all hate it, sometimes the period of waiting for a great connection to …	/r/seduction	05/10/21 04:46 PM
5	[deleted by user] Is your idea of "we can rule together" & the notion that maybe he doesn't need to "power over" you based on an actual successful relationship you have observed up close between two strong people... or is it based on something like a "power couple" you've seen only from a distance (like a celebrity husband and wife couple) - where we do not actually know what their dynamic is like in how they relate and interact with each other? Because with the "power couple" where we see the lady being super st…	/r/seduction	05/10/21 04:16 PM
3	[deleted by user] Haha Your direct, succinct responses here are amusing me. Some thoughts for your consideration: -Masculine energy is all about drive, purpose, mission, succeeding, accomplishing, breaking through barriers... (It centers on "achieving".) Feminine energy is all about bonding, connecting, relationships, opening up to receive love... (It centers on "experiencing".) Of course - both men and women have both masculine and feminine energy. A man or woman may flow in either energy at any given moment. -T…	/r/seduction	05/10/21 03:33 PM
1	[deleted by user] Ah. Sorry for confusion - My thought on the "masculine energy" stuff is just that, some of the things you said when painting the picture of yourself... Im 6' tall, muscular and Latina. I have a strong handshake, I speak with authority as I'm a director and I know what I want in life. Clearly I'm a type a personality. ...I think I'm having trouble with seducing men because of my first impression above. ... I find that I'm drawing only submissive men which is not what I'm interested in. I'm lookin…	/r/seduction	05/10/21 01:36 AM
1	[deleted by user] 🤔 Did it seem like I was calling you masculine? Please let me know - what did I say that made it seem that way?	/r/seduction	04/10/21 11:43 PM
3	[deleted by user] Well - for getting a sense of why some men didn’t seem to have more follow-through on getting themselves into your presence for a date, there’s plenty that I’m flying blind on here… For example, I obviously can’t see your looks; or see how you are at flowing in your feminine energy (which is what the kind of man you seem interested in is going to want -- and that means I def hope you know how at the end of the workday to switch OUT of that masculine energy you spoke of before and relax into your…	/r/seduction	04/10/21 11:34 PM
2	[deleted by user] I'm guessing hookups are going fine. As far as a relationship... It sounds like everything is in your hands after the initial meeting. So, what's the rest of the story - what happens after you search the person and decide you do, in fact, wish to follow up... what's the rest of the picture that you did not detail here yet - you reach out, but they don't respond? Or you reach out and date them for a month, then they vanish? Date them three months, then they get weak & turn into a woman instead of…	/r/seduction	04/10/21 08:17 PM
3	[deleted by user] -When you chatted, and you liked them, and you said goodnight - how did you leave it with them? (Handed off your number? Asked for theirs? None of the above - just made your exit?) -Also, what is your desired outcome? Be a master seducer of strong men? Long term relationship with one person?	/r/seduction	04/10/21 07:29 PM
1	[deleted by user] Hmm... When you see the kind of guy you like, what happens next - what do you do as this "hunter who likes grabbing her own catches"?	/r/seduction	04/10/21 07:10 PM
2	[deleted by user] Good experience for you regardless. Next time, no sense rushing a kiss; you hug her, then exit with your head held high.	/r/seduction	02/10/21 01:59 AM
1	[deleted by user] 🤔 Exchanged numbers, convo for half an hour, assumption of future first date - no sense rushing a kiss; you hug her, then exit with your head held high. Honestly, even if he had turned that initial meeting into an instant date and walked right next door with her for appetizers at a restaurant down the sidewalk - still no requirement to rush a kiss… though he’d prolly be fine to at least attempt in that scenario.	/r/seduction	02/10/21 01:57 AM
3	Fucked My Friend's Wife You didn’t just screw her - you screwed yourself. And yes, he needs to be told.	/r/seduction	02/10/21 12:27 AM
112	Just have to say this is a big accomplishment for me Proud of you. Good job. And no matter what happens with the girl, the experience so far already changed your for the better forever. 👍🏾	/r/seduction	02/10/21 12:02 AM
1	how do you leave a woman better than she was? "its just so hard to do" - in what way is it hard to do? And where are you getting that line from, "leave a woman better than she was"?	/r/seduction	30/09/21 07:47 PM
1	Date that went well. Haha I was editing that comment for a while after posting it. You may wish to read again if you didn’t see what was added at the end about keeping your emotional self control with this girl…	/r/seduction	30/09/21 11:16 AM
3	Date that went well. Kudos, my good man. Proud of you. You are succeeding at understanding and executing many key things. Thoughts: -“She was accomplished” AND “didn’t need to boss around” - good words. And it’s the kind of thing the world of women and men needs a better grasp on. -“She had girl game…” “…made it clear what was comfortable and not comfortable for her” - Haha “Girl game” is exactly the idea in my head for a female friend of mine who is fit, attractive, cultured, lived abroad, bright, spirited, et cete…	/r/seduction	30/09/21 10:43 AM
1	[deleted by user] This. Spend the money, let a pro help with something like this (personal trainer). Worthy investment.	/r/seduction	29/09/21 11:50 PM
31	[deleted by user] If in your mind it is creepy behavior, you will be radiating that you don’t feel everything is all good about what’s happening. And with how intuitive and “sensing” women are, your vibe will be contagious in making her, too, feel that something isn’t right. Conversely, men who come from a place of thinking it’s normal to chat up fellow humans in public - old humans, ugly humans, pretty humans, whatever - those men have a posture that can make it feel fine and dandy. (And there are successful men…	/r/seduction	29/09/21 11:46 PM
1	Staying emotional calm during cold approaches and in life I think pushing yourself to do cold approach after cold approach (especially after you’ve already put in the work of doing hundreds of them, like in your case) is less efficient/less important than being able to put yourself in a vibe and energy “state” that feels good to you… and then interact with a woman only when you can insert her into that state of yours. Here’s one interpretation of how this could look in a practical sense: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jXrAdZU9FAs	/r/seduction	27/09/21 10:46 PM
3	[deleted by user] Two key experiences in a guy's journey: -Tasting a bit of success that bolsters confidence. -Realizing that rejections do not actually cause life to be over.	/r/seduction	24/09/21 01:53 PM
7	Approach at the gym - Top 10 story Nah - rushing isn't required. Grabbing the number during that first 5-minute convo that she returns to you to re-engage you for is an option... But so is grabbing the number on another day. After all, the place you come from is that looking great is fine... but she also needs to exhibit some personality/enthusiasm toward you/conversation that makes you curious to explore further... Once those things have had a chance to be gauged by you (again - say, after the next convo between you two), then y…	/r/seduction	23/09/21 02:34 PM
1	[deleted by user] Both. Corey's work is amazingly complete. It addresses more than just one area of a man's existence and experience in life.	/r/seduction	22/09/21 01:24 PM
10	[deleted by user] The question is, did you read "3% Man" at least ten times - like Corey recommends... (while also using the Youtube videos to supplement the book info)? Because if you did, you might not be here still asking the questions you're asking.	/r/seduction	21/09/21 07:40 PM
10	Met through mutual friends - double date or one-on-one date? If she is not already head over heels in love with you, there are no group dates or doing things with your fam/friends or with hers. If she’s not yet head over heels in love, it’s too easy to get cock blocked, sometimes even by fam/friends who actually mean well and think they are trying to help you.	/r/seduction	21/09/21 11:07 AM
16	Techniques/habits to build self confidence? I liked these words from another commenter about developing confidence: 1 Get the negative voice in your head out of your head. I'm convinced that negative self-talk and obsessive ruminations lie at the core of a lack of self-confidence. That voice that tells you everyone thinks bad about you, you're not good enough, you're not...whatever, that voice is NOT you. It's the enemy. When you hear that voice, tell it to shut up and get out. I mean that literally. Verbally tell that voice to shut up. L…	/r/seduction	14/09/21 07:10 PM
0	She walked up to me and said “you are a very handsome man” -For your concern of maybe I was so shocked for a second I scared her away Let the experience you posted here about be the last time you are surprised by a woman paying you a compliment. You are awesome. Not perfect, but awesome. Get that in your head. Of course there will be women who will see value in you… see a handsome man when they look at you. And next time such a compliment comes, be ready with this reaction - (James Bond smirk, relaxed low-pitched voice) “You noticed.” If she keeps stand…	/r/seduction	12/09/21 11:40 PM
1	She walked up to me and said “you are a very handsome man” What kind of job do you have... are your gonna comfortably have a conversation with a flirtatious woman while working, or do you just need to drop off your number and let her keep moving?	/r/seduction	12/09/21 10:37 PM
2	How do I answer her to this text? I see. Congrats on senior year. 👍🏾 Prolly text back with something light-hearted and goofy, like - When I told you I was leaving for two weeks, you got that puppy dog face like you want me to leave one of my sweatshirts with you or something.	/r/seduction	12/09/21 01:22 PM
1	How do I answer her to this text? What’s the context - girlfriend of two years? Girl from a dating app who met up for three dates so far?	/r/seduction	12/09/21 12:59 PM
4	How do I answer her to this text? The reason there’s no great response for her text is that your text should never have been sent. “Will you miss me” is not something that signals to a woman that she is loved and wanted by someone strong and confident. It’s more of something a woman would say/something a man would say if he is flowing in his feminine energy instead of his masculine. (Hence her reaction - “Why do you worry if I’m gonna miss you”) And for your point about ‘finding out how she feels about you’ - you’ll get to the p…	/r/seduction	12/09/21 12:50 PM
3	Just learned that I’m not confident around guys as well as women I’ve been where you are. It gets better my friend. 🥂 How will you manage to relax into confidence when chatting with guys… even when the guy is visibly more impressive than you in this way or that way? And why is it you have that habit of turning to the side instead of adopting a peaceful, relaxed, squared-up stance when speaking with someone? All of this and more will become clear to you… Here’s how to change your life like I did (free of charge, btw): There is a book that you’re going to read …	/r/seduction	08/09/21 04:40 PM
1	I can’t stress enough how important this is! She was watching my eyes… in a way that somehow signaled to my mind that she was trying to determine something. And I realized that I hadn’t been making intentional eye contact… and that she was checking for that. At first she didn’t know if I had spoken to her for a quick moment earlier just being friendly, so now (after she returned to me to engage again) was her chance to try to gauge where I stood in terms of interest. Women are rather in tune with nonverbals.	/r/seduction	07/09/21 07:01 PM
4	I can’t stress enough how important this is! Haha Few good dates, great girl, then I relocated for work.	/r/seduction	06/09/21 11:19 PM
30	I can’t stress enough how important this is! It's funny how sensory acuity improves with time and practice... Your post reminds me of something that happened once that is a bit surprising to me in retrospect - At a beach park one day, I had done some version of my usual little quick 'hello' to blip a woman's radar, after observing how attractive she was. She sought me out and re-engaged with me at my car where I was sitting, and we started to make conversation... and while I was sort of looking off while searching my mind for how to expres…	/r/seduction	06/09/21 04:57 PM
5	"I'll let you know" makes me see red Good question. -In the kind of situation you’ve described, what you’re being offered is a “maybe date”. Do not be the type of woman that accepts those. Your response is this: “Well hey, it sounds like your plans are still up in the air. Let’s just do it another time, when you know you’ll be available.” It’s called a take-away. If the person is motivated enough to see you for the same-day or next-day date, or if they were just testing you for some silly reason - they’ll go ahead and make definite…	/r/seduction	04/09/21 02:33 AM
3	Woman taking lead? Then just keep doing your thing. 👌🏾 No need to care whether “most men” like this or that in a woman’s tendency to take the lead… A better focus would be to remember that your own preferred style is to initiate/lead and that your best matches may be with men whose core is more feminine, since you two will mesh rather than clash in terms of sexual polarity (i.e. you’re in your masculine energy moreso, he’s in his feminine energy moreso).	/r/seduction	29/08/21 03:01 PM
4	Woman taking lead? Some thoughts for your consideration: -You’ll get every opinion in the comments for a post like yours. And surely, the sub has enough guys who are frustrated/lacking success/less-than-confident/def influenced by “don’t make a woman feel uncomfortable” culture - so the idea of a woman doing the initiating would sound like a relief and a welcome scenario for them. -If you happen to be a woman who has more of a masculine core, then naturally you enjoy initiating, making the plans, taking the lead -…	/r/seduction	29/08/21 01:06 PM
2	Meeting 6’ Girl at My Place Are you wanting to reject her for being too tall? If no, then right now you need to STOP! Stop worrying and fretting over what she might feel or think. You are the guy - the one who should be able to take a deep breath and relax into the fact that he is comfortable with himself. Chill out. Quit sitting there rejecting yourself on her behalf, when she didn’t even arrive yet. You not being worried about yourself is what has a contagious way of influencing her to be also comfortable with things. An…	/r/seduction	29/08/21 12:21 AM
2	Guys what does it mean to enjoy yourself and how do you do enjoy yourself ? For example… It means you explored around enough to have identified which types of books you like treading (novels or biographies or self-improvement…) And which type of instrument or foreign language you like to study and practice. And which type of scenes in nature you like to spend time in (by a river or other body of water, or in the woods somewhere…) And you’ve discovered your interest in a simple little photography hobby… or some other hobby. And hopefully you’ve found human relationships …	/r/seduction	28/08/21 12:44 PM
3	At what point does one share their insecurities and fears to someone they are dating If the woman is not already head over heels in love with you, in a committed relationship with you - “sharing your insecurities and fears” is not what she is for. Mama. Therapist. Guy friends. Those are people you can lean on for that support. A woman you’re dating wants to be with someone who, yes, feels emotion and has the ABILITY to open up - but if you make a habit of crying on her shoulder every night… or make a habit of putting the weight of your fears and insecurities on her time after ti…	/r/seduction	23/08/21 06:44 PM
2	Catch -22 of Self Confidence Yes, your thinking is logical. A few thoughts for your consideration: -The (free of charge) content from Coach Corey Wayne was good for helping men get a grip on confidence despite any type of “shortcomings”. Website www.understandingrelationships.com, access there for reading his ‘3% Man’ book for free, as well as his YouTube channel. -Part of not being rocked by “massive rejection” as someone with whatever height, hair growth, or other issues you perceive in yourself, has to do with understand…	/r/seduction	15/08/21 02:33 PM
5	Give me some crazy ways to intentionally fail my approach *Yo girl - hurry up and gimme your number before I don’t want it no more.”	/r/seduction	11/08/21 05:14 PM
3	S-Test from girl at club. Need help “Haha Keep enjoying it with other Arab guys. It’s not gonna be on the list of kinks between me and you.” (James Bond smirk)	/r/seduction	09/08/21 02:48 PM
2	[deleted by user] Good question. Some thoughts for your consideration: -How would you feel is she were on a second date with you… but had her dog in the car and then took it out and proceeded to sit it in a baby stroller and talk to/give her attention to precious poodle? Nothing the matter with having a beloved per - but this is a date night. She is every day of life to spend with the doggo but is also choosing to divide her attention instead of prioritizing you during the three hours she has with you this week. …	/r/seduction	07/08/21 01:23 PM
6	I KNOW I CAN DO IT, I JUST DON'T KNOW HOW TO START... (Inhale, exhale into a peaceful relaxed state, give a James Bond smirk) “Who are you?” And let her introduce herself. You’re off to the races.	/r/seduction	06/08/21 04:18 PM
4	How I warm when I pull up for night game and understanding state without using it as an excuse Proud of you, man. And enjoyed your post! Standup comedy audio is genius, regarding “state”. Good for you. And for bullet points 3 and 4 - I know exactly what you’re talking about. Very cool.	/r/seduction	05/08/21 06:44 PM
2	Searching for a post about an approach challenge (I don’t think I saw that post… But here’s a breakdown you can consider.) The secret to getting ahead is getting started. And the secret to getting started is breaking down a huge task into small, manageable steps. For talking to women... baby steps are like - STEP ONE: Every weekend for the next month, go to a mall or public place with plenty of people. Your sole task and objective when a woman is approaching is to practice making eye contact and smiling, while saying, "How are you today?" That…	/r/seduction	01/08/21 05:17 PM
4	Pretty sure he wants sex, I like him but I’m not ready, next steps? Just checked the comments... Some folks seem quite persuaded and opinionated in feeling OP made some sort of error; plus feeling they can fortune-tell what her dating partner is thinking - even though he himself has not yet spoken any words of response to OP's last text; plus feeling she has a need to repair something or other now. Not exactly the approach I would take. Hopefully OP can avoid letting us internet strangers make her crazy. Haha For all she knows, we ourselves could be crazy - whil…	/r/seduction	31/07/21 11:01 PM
3	Pretty sure he wants sex, I like him but I’m not ready, next steps? Next steps? Simply go and enjoy the third date… But before the day rolls around, be SURE to rehearse at home alone to find your comfortable way of expressing your “I’m not ready”. There’s no way you need to go on the next date unprepared for the fact that if you allow the two of you to end up back at his place or yours to listen to music or whatever after dinner - kissing will ensue and, he will try escalating.	/r/seduction	31/07/21 08:17 PM
1	How often do you think cashiers and waitresses are getting asked for their number? Once asked an attractive one down in Nashville, TN… She said, “It doesn’t happen that often...”	/r/seduction	31/07/21 06:30 PM
1	I care about the woman orgasm more than mine. Here’s why. Haha He didn’t say never do it. Just that his personal style with a new partner is doing it after the first few sessions.	/r/seduction	31/07/21 03:38 PM
1	How can i show romantic interest without being seen as an easy sexual exploit? Haha My pleasure.	/r/seduction	31/07/21 11:06 AM
3	I got bored chasing girls Yes, be ALWAYS doing the ‘working on yourself’ stuff… That junk right there furthers your greatness as a man outside of dating, while also making you more attractive to women and better equipped to be an amazing partner with a woman. And another yes, continue to walk away if anyone is too low-effort or too boring… or if she can’t be self-amusing sometimes and create her own smiles and laughs - plus even help you laugh sometimes… Believe me - the day comes for men like us when we finally run acro…	/r/seduction	30/07/21 05:14 PM
2	Dating as a teenager is more trouble than it’s worth Bro - I skipped the romance and the hookup stuff as a high schooler… I was super busy and involved (and incidentally, successful), and I have zero regrets. Actually, my conversations after high school years with people have been more along the lines of me looking back and wondering if there was any real benefit that people got from boy/girl stuff in high school… and then I raise the question to my friends who dated and stuff, and they’re like, “Honestly, there’s really nothing lasting and profit…	/r/seduction	30/07/21 05:08 PM
4	Patrice O'Neal Dating Quotes From Opie and Anthony Interviews There is no question that Patrice had ideas that flew in the face of PC and “girl power” but that can help men stand up in a way that commands enough respect for them not to become a weak turnoff to women.	/r/seduction	30/07/21 04:45 PM
7	How can i show romantic interest without being seen as an easy sexual exploit? Hi. You put your question in a location where a heap of men live… so I’ll shoot you straight in answering instead of sugar-coating to spare your feelings: -Sounds like you are working on your weight problem. Very smart. But please know that EQUALLY important would be your “personality” (word you used in OP), mindset, attitude… The entire second paragraph where you talked about your personality was like a list of things that easily disqualify someone from being relationship material. A man wants …	/r/seduction	30/07/21 11:29 AM
10	I care about the woman orgasm more than mine. Here’s why. …able to give her an erotic thought about me as a man That’s a big deal, isn’t it? 👌🏾 Think about how opposed that is to the guy whose girl is just sort of “meh” about the question of whether or not to head over to the bedroom.	/r/seduction	29/07/21 10:04 PM
3	I think Alpha males are incredibly toxic and I have no desire to become one No one can tell you to stop feeling as you do. I think I would just point out that an error may be characterizing the issues you stated here as applying to “Alphas” (as in, all of them). It may be unfortunately the case that we could locate way too many men who fit your post’s descriptions; only I also know “alphas” who aren’t like that. Kinda like if we wanted to say all people of faith are (insert negative, condemning label)… even though the category of ‘people of faith’ includes folks like Ma…	/r/seduction	29/07/21 06:56 PM
1	Not fun or engaging or flowing You are the leader. If she senses you may be one worth collaborating with, she can learn to try out your style of not participating in BS texting as a dating partner. As a man, you use the phone primarily for setting the next in-person date. What you want is an in-person relationship with her. You do not want to be her texting buddy (that is what her girlfriends are for). I know it seems to run counter to the culture of our day, but getting to know someone… as well as seducing someone… is done i…	/r/seduction	26/07/21 10:35 PM
74	Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away! No attachment to an outcome. You’re free.	/r/seduction	26/07/21 10:21 PM
3	A story for the boys! hope you like it. I am a pretty confident guy and I am not particularly tall I am a short guy, and I don't have a lot of money I work a factory job but none of that has any power over me as a man in the dating world. That’s the key. 👌🏾	/r/seduction	26/07/21 10:03 PM
182	Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away! women will FEEL your willingness to walk away… This is what wound up causing a cutie to realize I was ending the conversation to continue on my way down the sidewalk… so she asked for my phone number (which surprised both me and her) before I could get away. Ended up being the best dating partner of my life so far.	/r/seduction	26/07/21 09:51 PM
3	I've been here for a day and that's what I observed. There was a little breakthrough during my youth that may speak to what you're asking... Basically, in a conversation about boys and girls, an older man pointed out to a group of us teenage boys that, "If you guys are secure in yourself, then why should you need a girlfriend?" I had never looked at life that way... and my personal takeaway happened to be that I stood up a little straighter, feeling like, "Wait - I do feel pretty secure in myself, and I actually do NOT feel I need a girlfriend." S…	/r/seduction	23/07/21 11:39 PM
1	How do I keep an abundance mentality when the abundance isn't really there? Haha My pleasure.	/r/seduction	23/07/21 09:08 PM
1	How do I keep an abundance mentality when the abundance isn't really there? “…all I do is reflect on my shifty life and find areas to improve…” Maybe also mix in something like focusing on your gratitude. There is research that suggests a person's happiness will increase with the amount of gratitude expressed (which is something different than gratitude simply felt). So try something like keeping a Gratitude Journal. Here’s a gratitude journal system I swear by: http://www.theyogimovement.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/Your-Goals-For-Meditation-4.png And to show a coupl…	/r/seduction	23/07/21 08:37 PM
1	How do I keep an abundance mentality when the abundance isn't really there? Haha My pleasure.	/r/seduction	23/07/21 06:31 PM
7	How do I keep an abundance mentality when the abundance isn't really there? You’re headed in the right direction - the things you said you’re working on for improving your life all sound good. 👍🏾 Btw, I’ve been editing my comment ever since posting it a moment ago. You may wish to read again.	/r/seduction	23/07/21 06:12 PM
39	How do I keep an abundance mentality when the abundance isn't really there? Abundance is more than number of available dating partners; dating life is only one arena of abundance. Abundance mentality also involves things like having a life and lifestyle you love aside from dating. Would you say you’re creating/maintaining a full, busy life you love outside of dating? A lot of abundance comes from the knowledge that if a girl cancels a date or if there is no girl in the picture at all in the moment for you, you still have other outlets… other sources of joy to look forwa…	/r/seduction	23/07/21 05:58 PM
2	"Natural" dancing = The most powerful IceBreaker Haha But do they honestly even need a tool for “breaking the ice”? They’re prolly gonna get approach more matter what they do, even when they would rather not be bothered.	/r/seduction	22/07/21 08:20 PM
3	"Natural" dancing = The most powerful IceBreaker Makes sense - on a related note, I never forgot the time I was at a dance party and this international chick was on the dance floor just flowing, like you described… Nothing she did was like a recognized dance move or a step someone choreographed or anything. She just sort of flowed naturally, like it was coming from inside organically. I couldn’t take my eyes off her, so I can see how what you talked about could be impactful.	/r/seduction	22/07/21 07:29 PM
5	30 rules I’ve learned through my personal experience Haha Cool. Saw some accuracy there. Had never heard of FORD method. Prolly will add it to the toolbox. Thanks.	/r/seduction	22/07/21 06:54 PM
3	Question Regarding Female Psychology When faced with a Romantic Confession from a Man ? Haha My pleasure.	/r/seduction	21/07/21 09:02 PM
14	Question Regarding Female Psychology When faced with a Romantic Confession from a Man ? I am sorry for your trouble. -As far as your school experiences… Those were silly teenagers. Teenage girls do dumb things just like teenage boys do dumb things (like laughing because some girls don’t have big boobs… yet also laughing because other girls DO have big boobs). -When it comes to adulthood… Here’s why the problem you described should never really be an issue anymore - You don’t tell a girl you “like her” or “have feelings for her”. You extend a date invitation. “You seem like a cool p…	/r/seduction	21/07/21 08:27 PM
5	Common reasons a girl doesn’t show for a date and what to do about it Pre-CISELY the right realization for a young man who just had his first experience of a woman who simply said yes to a date she knew she’d later cancel/not show up for. Very good. From here, your goal in general would be to work on strengthening your skill in gauging any woman’s interest before extending a date invitation to her. For someone who values efficiency in life/dislikes waste (wasted time, energy, resources) - having a good gauge for perceiving a woman’s interest level before extending…	/r/seduction	11/07/21 11:53 PM
1	A girl from tinder told me she like to fight her demons in her free time, what am I even supposed to say “Haha You must do pretty well against them if fighting your demons is something you actually like. 😂 And you like traveling too, huh? 👍🏾 What are you dreaming of for your next trip?”	/r/seduction	07/07/21 08:40 PM
2	[deleted by user] Obviously sounds fun. Not even close to being a proper, therapeutic relationship if all this is going on from him and within you. Can you imagine being in a relationship with him when this is how he behaves towards female counseling clients? Def time for a new therapist, which yes, will suck when all that inappropriate attention is no longer stroking your ego and loneliness.	/r/seduction	06/07/21 12:31 PM
8	Mark Manson says; when she is vague, ask whether she actually wants to go on a date or not. Good idea or bad idea? Haha If the whole thing is her idea… but she seems to not have the adult capability to simply schedule an appointment, that sounds like a problem in general. 👎🏾 My approach would probably be to forget about her unless she reaches out again and mentions wanting a date again… At which point I would reply “Haha I don’t think it’s a good idea“. She would probably be surprised to hear that and ask why, at which point I would continue to be indifferent and unemotional while pointing out her recent pat…	/r/seduction	03/07/21 02:33 PM
15	What do I do if she wants to bring her older brother on a first date? “Haha Your brother sounds like a real trooper. 👍🏾 Are you two gonna be comfortable with him in the same room but allowing conversation privacy for you and me at our specific table?” You’re laid back & flexible, within reason, but still intend to have some semblance of an adult first date experience.	/r/seduction	02/07/21 09:37 PM
3	IM SICK OF GETTING A TOPIC TO TALK WITH MY BOYFRIEND What the two of you want and need, in reality, is an in-person relationship, not a phone-ship. Maybe you both would do well to drop any undue emphasis on using your thumbs to send words and symbols to each other on cell phones, and redirect that energy to planning simple, fun things to do together for in-person dates. My opinion is that relationships like that end up being more enjoyable for both parties. And also, POOF - just like that, your problem of figuring out new topics vanishes.	/r/seduction	30/06/21 10:46 PM
2	Some guidance would be appreciated If you (had too much to drink - valid… but still) flaked without communicating the change in yo it plans for that evening, that’s prolly not making her motivated to keep engaging with you. But if that’s the way it all went down or not, you don’t keep double and triple texting an unresponsive woman. Her fingers prolly aren’t broken - if she wants to engage, she can. Dating is like tennis… You hit the ball over the net and wait for the other person to hit it back. If they do not hit it back, you n…	/r/seduction	30/06/21 12:22 AM
4	If you approach a girl that looks cute from behind, but then isn't cute from the front, how do you exit the convo? “Ever heard of a “Monet”? It’s the kind of person that looks pretty from far away but ugly up close. See ya.”	/r/seduction	29/06/21 05:51 PM
1	Tall women Seduction Tips Oh - the other thing I’d recommend along with walking tall as a tall person is this: Keep in mind things like facial expression as you come and go in the world. When you are confident and walk like it, it is so interesting how that causes you to radiate an energy… and what is so interesting is the way facial expression influences whether that energy comes off as you being someone who is not a happy person or who may even be looking for a fight… or whether the energy comes off as you being peacef…	/r/seduction	29/06/21 01:13 AM
1	Tall women Seduction Tips Mm… I would say that for any tall (or short) human at all who is standing tall and walking tall, it signals confidence, openness to the world, et cetera. Learning to carry myself that way in more recent years is on the list of keys that got me feeling better within as well as garnering some pretty interesting reactions from women, men, and even children. 👌🏾 Slouching, on the other hand, is something I’d guess typically either doesn’t really register in people’s mind; or else it is associated wit…	/r/seduction	29/06/21 12:54 AM
1	Tall women Seduction Tips I’m hovering at 6’. A woman who is 5 feet 9 1/2 inches is not “intimidating“… she is alluring because one thought I’m having about her is that finally I won’t have to stoop down and get a lower back workout and she won’t have to exercise her calf muscles stretching up, just so we can stand there locking lips. Haha But I will share with you the thing I coach men to do - just so you can check that your reactions to men in public are in line with this good advice: Best advice for “approaching” wome…	/r/seduction	29/06/21 12:23 AM
0	How to get over my fear of rejection I feel you. -One thought for the debilitating fear would be therapy. A professional can help with confronting and removing any barrier that’s holding you back from where you could be. -Beyond that, here’s how to change your life like I did (free of charge, btw): There is a book that you’re going to read ten times like the author recommends. He is Corey Wayne. Book is “How To Be A 3% Man”. Access it for free by signing up for the email newsletter on his website www.understandingrelationships.com.…	/r/seduction	28/06/21 06:51 PM
5	Feels impossible to have success without being a master of wit and humour... Good news is: Expert level is not the requirement (key is to be laid back versus being reactive or emotionally overly-sensitive like a big child… and to also be FUN, not necessarily hilariously funny) 👌🏾 Wit and humor, to the extent that they are needed for hosting women for a wonderful time, are learnable, improvable skills.	/r/seduction	26/06/21 06:29 PM
1	You’re only nervous because you’re thinking about jumping right in and getting the number Good words.	/r/seduction	24/06/21 03:26 PM
1	What should I do? Ignore or clarify and end the relationship? You def do not need to call her. But if you wish to close our rather than just vanish, here’s what works fine as a text message approach - “Great. Hey, it’s been fun chatting but I’m going to leave it here. Here’s hoping we both find what we’re looking for! All the best to you.“ If the person asks why: “You and me together just isn’t a match.“ Second time they ask for reasons: Broken record repeat of the previous line. Third time they ask, and every time after that for eternity: Nothing at all f…	/r/seduction	24/06/21 02:59 PM
2	Do you think girls can seduce faster than boys? The context matters here… (first date? Late night at a bar?) What each person is open to matters as well (is he devout in religion and waiting until marriage? Are both feeling frisky and looking to hook up quick?)	/r/seduction	22/06/21 03:12 PM
0	What are some Witty Responses to Being asked if you're Gay Is this in person? “Haha I might be a gay man, huh? Why don’t you come over here and kiss me and find out?”	/r/seduction	21/06/21 05:20 PM
1	Should one wait it out and see if she initiates after a date? Good question. Some thoughts for your consideration: -It’s not that you are “playing it cool“. It’s just a matter of testing out the approach lots of men find effective – you reach out at the beginning of the week after a date in order to set the next definite date (definite day, time, location). Regardless of how much or how little she uses her thumbs to type words to you on her cell phone, let it be your style to consistently hit her up at the beginning of the week after a date - like this, fo…	/r/seduction	20/06/21 11:52 PM
1	My stupid inexperienced ass told a girl she felt like a mother to me. Haha You’ll be fine, don’t worry. None of us is born already knowing all this crap. Important thing is trying and learning from your missteps and your successes. Just like with other things in life. First time you played the video game, you didn’t beat the top level - you got that arse blasted. Then with time and repetition of things you learned, you obtained the comfort and dominance of an expert.	/r/seduction	20/06/21 08:09 PM
17	I just did my first cold approach 🍾 Good job, way to go. Although she rejected me because she “had a bf back home in her country” I’m still very happy I approached her and overcame my fears. Remember that feeling of how much larger you grew by going for something filled with tension and pushing into it anyway. It’s the reminder you’ll need in the face of the next source of fear.	/r/seduction	17/06/21 09:42 PM
1	Code of A Brown Skin Guy - Lessons From The Field \| Advice to Myself He gives away his best stuff free of charge, btw. To try out his teaching, there is a book that you’re going to read ten times like he recommends. Book is “How To Be A 3% Man”. Access it for free by signing up for the email newsletter on Corey’s website www.understandingrelationships.com. Also check out his many videos on YouTube: Coach Corey Wayne. But do NOT try substituting the videos for reading the book ten times.	/r/seduction	16/06/21 08:43 PM
3	Code of A Brown Skin Guy - Lessons From The Field \| Advice to Myself About Lesson 1. Doesn’t Coach Corey Wayne get email success stories and Thank Yous from clients and viewers of various ethnic backgrounds... men from different parts of the world, including some who immigrated to the U.S. and now date American girls?	/r/seduction	16/06/21 08:30 PM
1	Woman gave me her number a week ago is it too late? Of course still try, regardless of the outcome. And from now on with women, reach out at the beginning of the week after getting the number to set a definite date (definite day, time, location). Same rule of thumb after a date in the early stage - reach out at the beginning of the week after a date to set the next definite date.	/r/seduction	12/06/21 01:41 AM
5	It is insane how much one success does for your confidence 👍🏾 And your post title was spot on. Congrats, and enjoy the feeling.	/r/seduction	06/06/21 11:45 PM
8	It is insane how much one success does for your confidence Why not go through with the plans you made?	/r/seduction	06/06/21 11:05 PM
3	Brad Pitt rule There’s truth to it. Even though none of us will get Brad’s results, it is true that when women like you, they help you. They make it easy for you to end up on a date with them. Now and then, they may even do like the cute civil engineer I met, who ended the convo with me on the sidewalk saying unexpectedly, “So can I have your number?” When women like you, they help you.	/r/seduction	03/06/21 11:29 AM
8	When a woman changes date location or activity for a first date You do not allow someone to willy-nilly change the plans for your date invitation that was extended to her. “Haha - it’s cool that you suggested that. Really been looking forward to the original restaurant we agreed on; why don’t we save the new idea and do your river walk & restaurant next time.” Sometimes it’s a little experiment when a woman tries to change the plans at the last minute - lets her know whether you’ll have a charming, decisive way of sticking to what you originally planned, or …	/r/seduction	01/06/21 05:52 PM
2	Every girl seems to ask me the same three questions. How would you answer them? Correct - do not reply to such things with a straight answer. Keep your sense of humor and have fun with her lame questions along those lines.	/r/seduction	28/05/21 10:50 PM
6	Anyone else feel as though having a wingman or friends around actually throws you off your game? You may want to look into the things Coach Corey Wayne says about topics like going solo instead of with a wing man… And his ideas on going out with a group of guy friends, but not to pursue women – rather to have as much fun as possible laughing and enjoying time with the guys, as a byproduct of focusing on having fun as men is women finding themselves feeling drawn into that scene.	/r/seduction	15/05/21 07:42 PM
0	The one shit test that will make or break you Cool, man - have fun laughing!	/r/seduction	12/05/21 11:51 AM
0	The one shit test that will make or break you Haha 🤔 Let’s see... I mind my business and enjoy the live band playing on stage, while the most yummy-looking blonde in the venue struts over and asks if I wanna dance... Then after pulling me onto the dance floor for a few songs, she parades me around the venue, holding my hand... Later, she wants to check if I’m as strong internally as I seem, or if I’m the type to lose my cool when another guy gives her attention - so she lets me see her with another dude... And once it’s clear I’m secure eno…	/r/seduction	11/05/21 12:22 PM
43	The one shit test that will make or break you 👍🏾 Good job, way to go. Reminds me... A girl once spent half an evening pulling me onto the dance floor to bust a move, walking from the dance floor & through the room with her hand behind her back so she could keep holding my hand as she walked in front of me (signaling to everyone in the place that she had chosen me, btw) et cetera... and then when I came out of the bathroom at one point, she introduces me to this ENORMOUS bodybuilder-looking bloke. He looked like he could crush anyone there. …	/r/seduction	10/05/21 09:34 PM
1	Holy shit.. I had a minor victory tonight Proud of ya. 👍🏾	/r/seduction	06/05/21 06:46 PM
3	Why do people say women give bad dating advice to guys? They have been known to say things they think they like/women like from men in dating... which can turn out to be different from what they actually reward and respond to emotionally from men in dating.	/r/seduction	06/05/21 05:55 PM
8	Holy shit.. I had a minor victory tonight Haha Being oneself doesn’t mean never implementing things you learn along the way in life. And there definitely can be value in pointing out that improving does not mean becoming something that’s not genuine or trying to be somebody you’re not. As OP pointed out, “being himself” that night involved conducting himself in ways that felt “effortless and comfortable” as opposed to inauthentic. If he himself struggled in the past with finding meaning in advice like “be yourself”, I’m sure that idea n…	/r/seduction	06/05/21 04:26 PM
131	Holy shit.. I had a minor victory tonight “I literally just was myself and talked to people.” For every “introvert”... or person with social anxiety, lack of game, lack of experience, etc - this post is an example of why it isn’t total bull when a man is encouraged to do things like “be you - avoid trying to be someone you’re not”... or when a man is encouraged to “push yourself to chat up strangers and practice your social skills in general - not just with women - in order to improve ability to talk to women”. Good job. 👍🏾	/r/seduction	06/05/21 11:47 AM
2	How sexual are women REALLY?... Good question. -I do think women and also men may have highs and lows over the years with libido (versus forever being the same as when they were 21). Difficultly in life circumstances, effects of aging, burden of caring for three screaming kids all day... different factors impact us all. -I also think there’s truth to what Corey Wayne teaches... “If (even in a long term relationship) she feels heard and understood, the legs open.” So the big question: does buddy know how to effectively make her…	/r/seduction	18/04/21 05:11 PM
2	How to remain alpha Fact is she isn’t your girlfriend. You aren’t in an exclusive relationship with her. Obviously, she’s gonna find other people attractive and will sleep with other guys... Problem comes in when you are bothered by that. You need to figure out how to get over it, or your discomfort/insecurity will start coming through in your words and actions... and eventually she’ll become turned off to the point of fading away or giving you the “let’s just be friends and not sleep together anymore” speech.	/r/seduction	31/03/21 01:17 PM
15	Patrice O'Neal Advice Once took a job where the department was basically women, gay males, and me. Interesting two years. There were definitely times when I’d listen to Patrice during lunch and could feel a surge of testosterone restoring inside - like warmth returning to a body after being out in the cold too long.	/r/seduction	23/03/21 01:08 PM
0	What is an approach by a woman? They ask a lame question. Like asking to see if the my can keep up with you speed skating... or asking in a cafe, “How are you gonna study if you keep daydreaming and staring off into space? smile Her job is not to ask an amazing question. It’s to put herself “into your orbit”... (And once she does, she hopes you know how to do something about it.) That’s when your job is to (in a peaceful, relaxed vibe) lead the interaction in the direction you want it to go. Turn it into a brief convo so you b…	/r/seduction	13/03/21 07:01 PM
3	Asked a chick on a date, she said she can't, did not propose to reschedule Good for you for going for it. For future - one recommended tweak to your approach would be to avoid naming a day of the week in your date invitation. Your invitation should sound like this: "You seem like a cool girl. We should get together for a drink - when are you free?" And then you shut up and let her tell you what day she is free. If she's interested, she will help you set definite details for a meeting. If instead she talks about how busy she is, or how up-in-the-air her schedule is late…	/r/seduction	04/03/21 05:53 PM
11	Advice for men when a women “tests” them in a relationship to continue to deepen her attraction In general, don’t change your emotional state based on her emotional state unless it’s truly necessary. Excellent line.	/r/seduction	04/03/21 03:54 PM
3	what is something attractive that women do during conservation (in person)? Enjoy herself. If she’s smiling, laughing, being self-amusing so that she makes either herself or both of us chuckle... That is golden.	/r/seduction	20/02/21 12:59 AM
3	How to have a good posture? Someday when covid dries up and disappears - ballroom dancing lessons improve posture over time. So can the "Vacuum" exercise and the other tips that Arnold recommends (around minute 2:15 to 3:32). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LkNvP6tt6b8	/r/seduction	14/02/21 07:03 PM
29	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market No guy with lots more experience than you will be telling you to F right off for sharing this success, unless he's a man who feels crappy about himself for some reason. What you'll prolly see from others of us is congratulations.	/r/seduction	12/02/21 05:40 PM
1	How to deal with evolving Last Minute Resistance? Well, is she right to feel unsure? Are you likely to be done altogether once you’re done in bed with her?	/r/seduction	19/01/21 12:16 PM
1	When do you know to stop pursuing someone? (take me back to the basics) -IOI's... You should be going for the kiss at the end of the first date. (Unless the evening has revealed to you that you're no longer interested in her.) *Pro Tip: Rather than asking permission to kiss her...and instead of just trying to push a kiss on her - best is to invite her to kiss you. (James Bond smirk) "I think you should just get it over with and kiss me right now." If she likes you, she'll kiss you. If she won't kiss you, or if she turns her head and gives you the cheek - then you ke…	/r/seduction	17/01/21 04:49 AM
3	When do you know to stop pursuing someone? (take me back to the basics) Good questions. Some thoughts for your consideration: -When you refer to IOI’s, what exactly is the nature of ones you’re looking for? Please elaborate there. -No, you don’t have an actual need for her to be the one to ask for date three. The reason I say that is because you are the one with the penis. For the rest of eternity in your relationship, your job as the man is to create simple, fun-filled, romantic opportunities for the two of you to spend time together. I’m not saying she isn’t allow…	/r/seduction	16/01/21 07:02 PM
2	Guys -- when are you comfortable with a kiss? Good questions. Some thoughts for your consideration: -In light of your stated goal (a kiss only)... and in light of the fact that the first is not too early for a goodbye kiss - assuming that at the end of the date, you still feel interested in being kissed... and in light of the fact that location for a goodbye kiss doesn't have to be secluded... You can feel free to invite him to kiss you (unless your preference is to see whether he's the type that's confident and goes for what he wants by in…	/r/seduction	11/01/21 04:11 PM
1	The key to success is doing whatever the fuck you want (with a few exceptions) Hello, my good man - maybe you intended your comment for OP but sent it to me instead...	/r/seduction	08/01/21 06:27 PM
54	The key to success is doing whatever the fuck you want (with a few exceptions) "We operate in the woman's frame..." That's an effective way to put that idea. Good words, good reminder of a common pitfall.	/r/seduction	08/01/21 04:18 PM
2	What gifts are good for girls? And this is a dating partner... or someone you hope to date? Because gifts are for your girlfriend or your wife. When a dating partner has not yet reached that status, the gift you give her is the greatest gift of all - the gift of your time. Not to mention the gifts you regularly give her in the form of weekly dinners, or coffees, event tickets, etc.	/r/seduction	31/12/20 09:44 PM
2	Good books and resources masculinity? Start here. It might be all you need - Here’s how to change your life like I did (free of charge, btw): There is a book that you’re going to read ten times like the author recommends. He is Corey Wayne. Book is “How To Be A 3% Man”. Access it for free by signing up for the email newsletter on his website www.understandingrelationships.com. Also check out his many videos on YouTube: Coach Corey Wayne. But do NOT try substituting the videos for reading the book ten times.	/r/seduction	24/12/20 12:48 AM
1	What would YOU do if you were on a date with your girlfriend, and while you're on the date, someone starts flirting with her a bit and she entertained it? (Since you specified that the girlfriend was entertaining the flirting rather than being made uncomfortable and needing to be helped to remove herself from the situation...) No, you don’t react and intervene from a place of fearing you are not being respected by the other guy, or out of fear that someone might swipe your girl… You need to be more secure than that, for sure. Instead, the whole situation is a good opportunity to view her reactions and behavior for the sake of conducting a private …	/r/seduction	22/12/20 01:51 AM
3	So easy for me to seduce ... Part of the answer to this question - Here is the recipe I recommend (it captures the journey that led to running across my amazing sweetheart)… Step one: Have your super high standards. Step two: Begin to improve yourself so you resemble your standards. Step three: Watch how peaceful, strong, and complete you start to feel as you improve yourself, until eventually see that what you want is exactly what you attract by the person you become.	/r/seduction	21/12/20 06:45 PM
9	I realised today that I literally have no idea how to flirt Girls are not guys. Why state this obvious fact? The point is, their style of feeling flirted with is about - Subtlety. Overt, direct, explicit mention of interest isn’t what tickles them like it would a guy, in terms of flirting. They’re more likely to be tickled by flirting that subtly suggests. For example, instead of a direct “I like you” when you’re feeling flirtatious, something like “I’ve always liked girls who...” (insert whatever it is that was just revealed about her, such as, “I’ve al…	/r/seduction	18/12/20 11:02 PM
1	Girl says things like can’t wait to see you etc but cancels dates ? If you have a definite day, time, location set up, there is nothing else to reach out about now. If you do not have all three of those details settled, reach out to set them. And then get off the phone and avoid a bunch of BS texting. Also, a way to minimize flaking AND avoid the insecurity on the woman’s part or on your part is this: After you settle the details of a definite date, your final line before getting off the phone is, “Great. I look forward to seeing you Thursday at 7 o’clock at Red…	/r/seduction	13/12/20 11:20 PM
1	Girl says things like can’t wait to see you etc but cancels dates ? You look at a woman’s actions, not just her words. It’s funny – “I can’t wait to see you“ is literally something that was stated by the ol’ relationship coach I follow, when he talked about the importance of looking at a woman’s actions instead of only her words. If she’s not getting together with you, then right there is your answer about her. She already canceled twice. If it happens a third time, you just happily move on to the next candidate.	/r/seduction	13/12/20 10:51 PM
1	Why do women resent you when you talk about how amazing your life is compared to theirs? Are most women just boring to be around? Mm... Without more specifics of how those conversations tend to unfold, I’m not sure we can say with much authority that OP is “being cocky and arrogant 100%“. And one example of an argument in defense of him is the thing I hear from women sometimes who mention how boring & “unworthy” they feel when simply seeing a man’s travel photos and information about his travel hobby - things shared on his OLD profile… Those women talk about how they themselves do not travel or do such cool things, and it …	/r/seduction	13/12/20 10:25 PM
2	What do you think about kissing on the first date? ( I have got mixed opinions) Here is where we have to remember the rest of the things Corey says… -When going for the kiss, you are not attached to an outcome either way. Your unspoken attitude is, “If she kisses me, great. If she doesn’t, STILL great.“ -You never let anything a woman says or does diminish you. And you have the same James Bond smirk immediately after, whether she latches on and tries to suck the tongue out of your face... or if she decides to avoid kissing with you at all in that moment. —And yes - your smi…	/r/seduction	08/12/20 12:33 PM
6	How do you have an abundance mentality when in a relationship? Maybe it has to do with things like... -Not losing yourself in finally having a relationship... not failing to stand up for yourself & respect yourself if the other person might otherwise walk all over you. That is, standing up & respecting yourself KNOWING that it could cost you the relationship if you call the person on the crap. Or it may look like actually respecting yourself enough/not being shut down by the fear of being alone again, when a moment calls for saying something like, "Honey I …	/r/seduction	08/12/20 03:49 AM
6	You don’t have to fuck every girl Good words. Btw - If you love how it’s going for you, don’t change a thing. Otherwise, using the phrasing “What do you have planned for your future” may be a little more job interview-y & less fun than a girl or you would prefer on a Friday night. Maybe be sure to use your James Bond smirk and ask in an upbeat vibe, “So what do you want outta life? What’s the crazy dream?” Something that still gets you some info you’re interested in... but in a vibe and word choice that make it a fun experience …	/r/seduction	04/12/20 12:45 PM
3	Turns out I’m just intimidating lol great Thank you for your military service. Keep the strong body language & posture & confidence. Just make sure they come with this: -A peaceful, relaxed vibe that comes through in how you carry yourself. Be like the captain of the football team. This dude isn’t worried about a single thing. Easy breezy. The way he carries himself is like he doesn’t have to worry, because he knows things tend to work out fine for him. Guys see him and wanna be his friend. Girls see and wanna be with him. Life’s good, …	/r/seduction	04/12/20 12:30 PM
-1	What’s a good response for “on a scale of 1-10 how much do you miss me?” from girlfriend that’s been too busy? “I think you need to come see me so I can show you how much.”	/r/seduction	25/11/20 11:39 AM
1	My friend overshadows me in every social situation. What do I do? The answer is so near that you can almost reach out and seize it... In general (not just in your specific situation), a man does well to be able to fly without needing a wingman. Learn to be fine going out solo to socialize, or pursue a hobby, or go hit up an event you want to check out. Why? -No one there to cock-block you. And your specific situation sounds like a prime example of this fact. -If you meet someone cool, you can hang out or head out out with them right away without having to ditc…	/r/seduction	23/11/20 09:24 PM
1	When to obtain contact information during cold approach Haha That’s no backfire. If she’s so “shy” that she isn’t the ‘confident and goes for what she wants’ type of person... like, can’t even push herself to type “Hey, it’s me” so I can reply and take the initiative to set a date - then she’s not right for me. Someone too timid or too insecure would never feel at home with a fella like me or be able to hold my attention over time.	/r/seduction	17/11/20 05:01 AM
1	When to obtain contact information during cold approach Haha Who wants to keep up with women’s numbers and keep track of which girls you haven’t messaged yet to follow up? I just give them MY number!	/r/seduction	16/11/20 01:10 AM
3	What is the best way to adjust my boner whilst making out? Not at all a prob. Honestly, it’s not different from if her hair had gotten caught underneath your arm and started to get accidentally tugged or something. All that would happen is she’d softly say, “Wait...” and she’d remove her hair from the uncomfortable position. We do the same with boner discomfort readjustment. With a soft smirk & pleasant facial expression, whisper, “Just a second,” while reaching down casually to readjust, and then bring her back close to continue kissing.	/r/seduction	16/11/20 12:37 AM
4	I was at a pool party and this one girl I dont know that well told someone to push me into the pool in front of me.Why did she do this? I was walking behind my classmate Erin and decided to jog up & just before passing her, smack her on the butt. Seemed like a fun idea, but I ended up smacking very hard and it hurt her. My point - sometimes people make actions that are not only meaningless but also stupid.	/r/seduction	14/11/20 04:16 PM
1	The HIGHEST Level Of Attracting Women Not that you do it in order to be admired and valued... It’s something you do because that’s just who you are. And yes you’re right - trying to have sex isn’t what motivates this kind of man. Don’t get me wrong - he is still a sexual being... but he is also a complete being - non-hungry and not attached to any outcome. Not the outcome of sex or any other outcome. 👌🏾 Anyways, you asked about examples... check the comment I wrote on this thread last night if you want.	/r/seduction	13/11/20 11:44 AM
5	The HIGHEST Level Of Attracting Women Makes sense. And rings true/bears out in my relationships. The experience women and I have together helps them (and also me, thankfully) go to the next level as a person & in dating. Like you said: Changed. Life. There's really no bragging in describing what I experience - and as nice as it definitely feels to be appreciated - in reality, all the great things the women see in me and say about me is really stuff I already knew was part of the kind of human I am. So like you said - spiritually, fo…	/r/seduction	13/11/20 02:34 AM
1	How to use my wealth to my advantage? Hi. Good question. Question for you: What is your outcome? Hook up with hotties? Relationship?	/r/seduction	12/11/20 09:01 PM
2	I am an introvert, I sit next to another introvert in class what now? Got it. Haha Well, if you are “kind of an asshole”... and are a “terribleperson8657”... What you should do now is address those things & turn them around, so you don’t blow your chance with this guy or with future guys... and so you don’t bring drama and negativity to the lives of those men.	/r/seduction	12/11/20 03:35 PM
5	I am an introvert, I sit next to another introvert in class what now? Haha “What now?” Now, congratulations 🍾 If you are sitting next to her, that is all you need… Introvert does not mean “mute and unable to speak”! It mostly means you draw energy from time alone versus time spent in groups of people. One-on-one with a cutie sitting beside you should not be a barrier. It would be different if that scenario was that an introvert was standing in a room at a large gathering and needed to find a way to mingle and work the room and find a cutie to chat up.	/r/seduction	12/11/20 01:46 PM
1	How do I know if he's interested in me? -Your friends who were stating “you have to flirt back“ are not necessarily brilliant or experts. Keep that in mind. -If the guy is saying No to being with you, but it’s also continuing to flirt with you, that’s not cool. But someone else’s behavior is not in the category of things in life that you yourself can control. As a woman, you do not chase mixed signals or pursue someone who rejects the opportunity to be with you. You want someone who is ENTHUSIASTIC about the opportunity to be with you…	/r/seduction	11/11/20 12:24 PM
1	What to do if a girl hovers in front of you? First, you give a James Bond smirk and direct eye contact, while blinking and breathing slowly - like you’re relaxed & not getting all nervous inside over attention from a woman. Then you motion for her to come over to you. And you keep the James Bond smirk say something playful and laid-back... “If you can’t stop staring, you must see something you like.“ Or something as simple as, “What’s up - what are you up to?”	/r/seduction	09/11/20 10:17 PM
2	How do I let a girl know that I'm interested in her via online? Video date is definitely an option. You could do something normal for the first one. And if all goes well mutually, date number two could be slightly more creative, slightly more fun… Like you suggesting a menu and scheduling a video dinner date. “Hey - let’s do dinner together over video. How about we both get ourselves a nice pasta dish and our favorite wine & have dinner together through Skype?”	/r/seduction	09/11/20 10:02 PM
1	How do I let a girl know that I'm interested in her via online? You never tell a girl you like her to kick things off… You extend a date invitation to kick things off. I wouldn’t be surprised if she has already picked up on your interest, since most women are more in tune with these things than guys… But the part where you ask her out confirms or reinforces it, while also signaling to her that you have the confidence and balls to actually go for what you want. When we were kids going to school every day, you told a girl you liked her and hoped she’d say it b…	/r/seduction	09/11/20 09:31 PM
1	Online First Dates - Are Guys Disadvantaged on the First Date Itself Haha Heard it a thousand times, but something about you saying “boyfriend vs lover vibe” has me right now seeing with new clarity one or two missteps I made with one woman in the past. 😆	/r/seduction	09/11/20 08:36 PM
1	Online First Dates - Are Guys Disadvantaged on the First Date Itself Very good question, my good man. Some questions/thoughts for your analysis… -While are you are smart to do coffee as the first date, there are factors to tend to for controlling what the coffee date environment, and good energy, and cafe date experience end up being like. For example, are you properly screening/scouting & selecting specific coffee shops that you personally feel great spending time in? You should be trying to give yourself an advantage in this way, as the host of this date night.…	/r/seduction	09/11/20 08:18 PM
8	How to be more into the conversation when talking to girls? One side of things is you need to develop your ability to ask fun questions. Always engage a woman by asking questions that get her talking about things she would LOVE to talk about. When you bring up topics that light her up, it makes for a better experience for you both. The other side of things is, if to your taste she just simply is a boring person… or she’s bonkers… or she’s a bimbo - then it’s no wonder you don’t feel enthusiastic or “into” the conversation. If you can’t get into it, then …	/r/seduction	08/11/20 01:07 AM
2	Does having a really high standard for men really bad? For example, when I was getting clear on the fact that I wanted someone spiritual, confident, fit, happy, great communicator, et cetera... I began to also examine myself and focus on investing more in my own spirituality, and humble self-confidence, and exercise & nutrition, and relationship skills of how to understand emotions and communicate like an adult, etc. I was aware that attracting someone and KEEPING them attracted to me would be possible if I brought the same kinds of qualities I was …	/r/seduction	07/11/20 04:10 AM
2	Need suggestions about talking to a woman who is moving soon! Did you tell her something to bring? And bro - she came to your freakin’ HOUSE... I don’t think she would’ve been thrown off if it was a date in your mind & if you went for the kiss at the end. And if she WAS thrown off, what’s the loss? The situation would be that at the end of the evening, you simply gave her a James Bond smirk and said, “I think you need to just get it over with and kiss me right now.“ If she looked surprised and said, “Oh…uh, I’m sorry. This was strictly platonic in my mind……	/r/seduction	07/11/20 03:44 AM
1	Need suggestions about talking to a woman who is moving soon! What did you say that got her over to your place to be cooked for, that gave her the sense it wasn’t a date?	/r/seduction	07/11/20 03:25 AM
2	Need suggestions about talking to a woman who is moving soon! Good experience. Learning opportunity. And you’re smart to be reflecting & asking questions in order to grow. 👍🏾 With this girl moving away soon, situation was a bit different. But general guidelines for future... You said she had more questions for you than the other way around. The one asking questions is the one in control of the direction of conversation. Always be the one with more questions from now on. And make the questions fun! Begin to improve your skill in asking fun questions. “What’…	/r/seduction	07/11/20 03:15 AM
6	Does having a really high standard for men really bad? Here is the recipe I recommend (it captures the journey that led to finding my amazing sweetheart)… Step one: Have your super high standards. Step two: Begin to improve yourself so you resemble your standards. Step three: Watch how peaceful, strong, and complete you start to feel as you improve yourself, until eventually you see that what you want is exactly what you attract by the person you become.	/r/seduction	07/11/20 02:45 AM
3	Is it worth creating competition/jealousy in the first encounter? (Dude here) You are smart to ask the question and seek advice. Truth is, it’s a bad way to go. While it is true that women like you more when you have options, something you never do with a woman is throw another woman in her face. And you certainly don’t make up imaginary women to try to make someone jealous. Now if she is a new dating partner and asks whether you are seeing other dating partners, you can be honest about the fact that you explore your options when you aren’t in an exclusive rel…	/r/seduction	05/11/20 03:38 PM
1	I have a stupid question, if I am approaching a girl, ain't I automatically putting her in pedestal? Not a stupid question. As long as you are asking things in life in order to learn or grow, your questions are fine. On the one hand, you didn't put her on a pedestal just because you and her both think she's attractive & now you're approaching. Why on earth would you approach a woman you did NOT find attractive? In and of itself, raw animal attraction on your part towards her is just that. Also, your attitude when approaching a cutie should be that you're an explorer... you're just a bit curious…	/r/seduction	31/10/20 02:44 PM
1	Trouble establishing physical side The fact that you are asking good questions about your past actions & experiences tells me you will be able to grow. Thoughts: You never do group dates or hang out with each other’s friends or fam until AFTER the girl is already head over heels in love with you. Otherwise, your friends or her friends are likely to end up cock-blocking you. Even when your friends and family mean well and think they are helping you, saying things like, “OMG - you’re so pretty. You’re WAY prettier than any other gi…	/r/seduction	29/10/20 09:55 PM
1	Older women problem Hi. Everything‘s going to be okay for you. Good job on starting to implement what you have been learning. Some say knowledge is power, but knowledge is actually POTENTIAL power - it only becomes power when you apply it. The way to get to the place where your frame becomes the one that is dominant and the one she accepts even though she is older is by practice. There is no substitute. And when your inner game has grown to the place where you actually feel like you are Daddy no matter who the girl…	/r/seduction	21/09/20 07:23 PM
2	When a girl does something that upsets you, how do you react? What's the best way? Haha “Human-ing” was not coached widely & effectively way back in the old days when I was young and needed the training... And I most DEFINITELY don’t think that situation has improved now that today’s youngans are the ones in need of that training.	/r/seduction	10/09/20 04:33 PM
1	3 percent man The short answer is, yes watch the videos. It is amazing how much you learned from the book. And it is amazing how much the information from the videos adds to your learning, with actual stories, situations, and questions written in by Corey’s coaching clients. And as you will be hearing a million times… Definitely do not stop until you have completed at least your 10th grade.	/r/seduction	05/09/20 11:59 PM
2	Hypothetically, if you asked someone out and they responded like the last message, what would be your go to follow up? Mistake was naming a day in the first place during your date invitation. Every dude starts off making this mistake in dating… But when you think about it, it’s like assuming you can throw out a day of the week, and her schedule is just going to be open. It’s a bad way to go, but it is easily solved as follows… From now on, your invitation sounds like this: “Well hey - we should get together for dinner soon - when are you free?” And then shut up and let her tell you what day she is available. Tha…	/r/seduction	04/09/20 03:58 AM
64	I just picked up a cutie in the Walmart parking lot!! (Cold approach Story) I think meeting a girl in person is still the strongest way to meet a girl, it trumps dating apps imo. Ultimately what was going thru in my mind when I asked her because I too had a little bit of social approach anxiety was, "Hey what's the worst that could happen?" "If she aint feeling me I can just walk away and say hey have a wonderful day!" You have exactly the right attitude, young blood. Good job, way to go.	/r/seduction	01/09/20 01:51 AM
5	Do women intentionally seduce men with eye contact? You NEVER break it first... Do anything else... Give a James Bond smirk while still holding eye contact... Start a mental monologue like “You’re pretty cute but probably not ready for a man like me...” Or “Oh, she’s a little bit confident. That’s good. But only one of us is Daddy, and that’s me. No way I’m gonna look away first...” The most confident women may hold it for several seconds, but when she sees that you are steadfast and are not coming unglued by a hot woman “eye-fucking” you, SHE wi…	/r/seduction	30/08/20 08:07 AM
11	Do women intentionally seduce men with eye contact? One commentor said “some do some don’t” Direct quote from a woman who does: “I purposely hold direct, prolonged eye contact with men to watch them squirm. I eye-fuck men to see which ones are alpha.” Men who come unglued and cannot handle it get all uncomfortable & nervous and look down or look away… But a man who feels totally secure/dominant/alpha will NEVER be the first to look away from a woman giving direct, prolonged eye contact.	/r/seduction	30/08/20 07:27 AM
7	To what questions/topic do women react positively? Haha Well, nothing is 100% guaranteed for every possible conversation with a woman... But put your mindset towards topics that are fun, playful, and POSITIVE (so, not trying to get her to discuss past failed relationships and guys that broke her heart and left her for someone younger & hotter). Practice coming up with questions about: Bests (What's maybe the best compliment you ever received?) (What's your best embarrassing story of something that happened?) Favorites (What are your three favori…	/r/seduction	27/08/20 09:39 PM
1	Should I change the time or not? Very good, Willisie - no day dates. Dates are for the evening. And yes, pushing the start time one hour later in this instance should be fine.	/r/seduction	24/08/20 05:50 AM
2	Girl keeps changing my date plans but keeping the same schedule Yeah, that last 1 and 1/2 sentences would be fine as "Let's save the other place for another day." So long as the speaker keeps a light attitude with it - keeps his sense of humor and his take-it-or-leave-it, unspoken style of feeling like, "If she's up for it, great. If she's not up for it, STILL great!" Versus coming up pushy or tantrum-y, like a child that melts down when he doesn't get his way.	/r/seduction	18/08/20 09:52 PM
1	Girl keeps changing my date plans but keeping the same schedule Sometimes it is, in fact, a little experiment to see if you can be made to go along with something other than your original stated purpose (e.g. "Let's get drinks at _____ bar.") Not that you need to be inflexible when dating, but you don't want to seem like a guy she can walk all over. Next time, your reaction (without losing your sense of humor at all) is, "Haha You like that other spot, huh? Yeah - it's probably a cool place. I've been looking forward to being with you at ____ bar like we sai…	/r/seduction	18/08/20 12:10 AM
5	Many girls I approach give an excuse that seems like a rejection but they make no move to leave. No sweat. Keep your sense of humor, and "let her go". James Bond smirk "You're in a rush, huh? Well go ahead and catch your flight - those airplanes don't wait. I just had to let you know you're making that green dress look good." And then YOU turn and go back to searching for the gluten-free bread section or whatever you were up to before. Now that you've put yourself on her radar, if the girl happens to be interested and available, she will return to YOU. Trick is to hit her radar, have no a…	/r/seduction	17/08/20 11:28 PM
1	Feeling a bit awkward around someone is your inner sensei telling you “This person is not in alignment with who I am” Big facts.	/r/seduction	17/08/20 07:18 PM
1	Which book: Models or How to be a 3% man? Haha Yes, this author/relationship coach (Corey) makes the crazy claim that a serious student should immerse himself in the material by reading Corey’s book ten times or more. ‘We as people retain about 10% of what we read... So reading the book ten times is what allows you to internalize the fundamentals of success so it all becomes a part of you and you do the right things without having to really think or try to remember what was taught.’ Sounded interesting... and of course sounded like a lo…	/r/seduction	07/08/20 06:18 PM
3	Need help approaching a girl with a dog. It's not the girl I'm afraid of, it's the dog, please help. Maybe call over from your distance, with a James Bond smirk on your face: "Uh, I think your dog can tell I think your cute, and he might be the protective type... I kinda have bad luck with dogs so - love to keep my distance from him but have a conversation with you when he's not lookin'." As usual with women, if she likes you, she'll help you. If she's not interested or not available, she won't.	/r/seduction	07/08/20 01:19 AM
6	Which book: Models or How to be a 3% man? Another man here, letting you know your life is about to go to a new level. Read Corey's book at least ten times, like the rest of us who have become twice the man we were before.	/r/seduction	02/08/20 09:17 PM
1	Which book: Models or How to be a 3% man? Yep.	/r/seduction	02/08/20 09:14 PM
2	Which book: Models or How to be a 3% man? Yep. Feel like twice the man I was before my 10 reads of that junk. haha	/r/seduction	02/08/20 09:14 PM
6	I am able to flirt with a girl and have an interesting conversation, but i don't have the confidence to approach her. Well, for example... here’s what happened last week when I myself saw a solid 8 at the beach: I'm at my favorite sparsely-populated beach park in town, sitting inside my car that's parked right near the shoreline, reclining with my feet out the window like usual... I'm doing stuff on my phone and just relaxing but also notice a woman proceeding to do something I hadn't seen done before - Haha she basically just put down a beach towel on the huge above-ground tree roots near the shoreline and sat…	/r/seduction	02/08/20 07:35 PM
5	1.5 hour cold approach interaction ends with "I have a boyfriend" Def sounds a bit confusing. Still a victory! Every interaction with a woman is an opportunity to practice your skills, reflect, and grow. 👍🏾	/r/seduction	02/08/20 07:00 PM
2	I tend to have a huuuge boner while talking to girls Ohh - you’re telling us all that the boner emerges after you’re already in the middle of a convo (as opposed to just as you get ready to approach). Got it. Well, sounds like you don’t feel embarrassed when it’s happening... and sounds like no woman so far has reacted in a regrettable way... As long as things continue like that, there’s nothing to change. Alternative though may be to start carrying something... a jacket, textbook, or whatev that can be slid into place as a concealer.	/r/seduction	01/08/20 06:59 PM
2	I tend to have a huuuge boner while talking to girls Tuck it up in your belt, keep calm, & carry on.	/r/seduction	01/08/20 05:02 PM
1	Falling in love with her a little too fast - emotional self control Many thanks!	/r/seduction	30/07/20 02:58 AM
1	When she tells you you're not making enough of an effort... don't let it change your behavior! I am proud of you for your two reads so far. Don’t stop. Thank heavens I had done six reads when I ran across a soulmate-level connection with an amazing woman... Helped me attract her and KEEP her attracted, rather than blowing a great relationship due to not being prepared enough. And of course I kept right on reading all along... somewhere around twelve or thirteen reads at this point.	/r/seduction	27/07/20 04:45 PM
2	When she tells you you're not making enough of an effort... don't let it change your behavior! HAHA Awesome. Honestly, I was thinking about the Coach while reading this... and was thinking about how well coached I am because of him... and was even thinking about what one woman I'm seeing now said after our first "phone call date", after just a few days passed. She texted, "Maybe I'm spoiled, but I kinda expected a message from you sometime after our phone date. Usually it's like, 'I'm in love. Will you marry me? haha Bad joke.'" HAHA Again - only a few days had passed... and the date was …	/r/seduction	27/07/20 01:06 AM
1	am I the only one who finds it easier to talk to women face to face than through texts? No worries - the phone should be used for setting dates anyway. You don't want to be her texting buddy or her phone pal - you want an in-person relationship with her. When she reaches out, you assume it's because she wants to get together... and you use that as an opportunity to set the next date. Other than that, when she reaches out between dates, exchange a few back and forths with her, and then it's, "Hey - it's great to hear from you. Gotta get going now, but I can't wait to see you for our…	/r/seduction	23/07/20 11:58 PM
2	Date-bait You are a good person! Also, your replies to commenters here gives me the sense that you will be able to take it all in stride if somehow this wonderful and caring date idea of yours ends up not quite "landing" with the impact you hope for. (I know we guys are capable of unintentionally having a reaction that is kind of a dud after our lady puts in tons of thought and effort to do something sweet for us.) If bf loves your photo notebook and gets a confidence boost, great. If he is unaffected, ST…	/r/seduction	23/07/20 07:32 PM
1	Advice for the second date And make this the final “go see a movie” date of your life unless the girl is already your gf. Ignoring each other while staring at the big screen is no way to open her up and build attraction through engaging conversation.	/r/seduction	23/07/20 06:55 AM
6	Can you have an abundance mindset when you truly have no abundance? The other thing related to “abundance” is to (aside from your dating) have a life you’ve built that is full of things that bring you pleasure, so that you are happy and are giving off a vibration and energy to attract someone who is also happy and complete.	/r/seduction	23/07/20 06:50 AM
3	There’s this guy who works at a local office supply store but I can only go in an office supply store so many times without making him think I’m creepy. Is it inappropriate to try and shoot my shot at his workplace? Haven’t you heard it... “Subtle hints don’t work with men. STRONG hints don’t work with men. OBVIOUS HINTS don’t work with men!” Haha Anyways, forget about dropping a hint. You need to put him in a position to react to you outside of his professionalism requirement. So after you greet him and small talk him for a second, your lines are these: “So what’s up for the weekend? Oh okay. Yeah, I’ll probably be out with a few girlfriends. If we find something fun, I’ll shoot you a text - maybe you’ll m…	/r/seduction	23/07/20 06:38 AM
3	Why do women get disinterested in the men they find intellectual and smart, whom they like previously ? Being smart is an advantage in life and dating. Also it is just part of who you are, and (especially since it is a positive trait) you should only ever embrace it! What is also true is the old saying: Girls just wanna have fun! No woman ever said, "Gah - the guy is so freakin' smart and intellectual, and also I almost never laugh my head off and have giddy fun like a kid with him - it's perfect!" Two things to start developing, where "fun" is concerned... Your ability to engage a woman by asking…	/r/seduction	19/07/20 07:52 PM
1	how to make a man beg for sex What changed?	/r/seduction	16/07/20 03:31 PM
1	Make me feel comfortable...at least the first date No disagreement here. I would add, though, that ladies may underestimate the degree to which effective coaching on how to be a great dating partner is lacking in the journey through life for boys. (Thank heavens I got lucky when it came to being coached well.) Last Friday's date was clear on the day, time, and exact location for our get together, all during the same convo when we agreed to meet up. And on the evening of, a bonus idea came to me, so toward the end of the date I said, "Let me tell…	/r/seduction	15/07/20 06:33 AM
1	Make me feel comfortable...at least the first date Yessir. Very little effective coaching takes place for boys on how to be a great dating partner.	/r/seduction	15/07/20 06:25 AM
2	Make me feel comfortable...at least the first date A big reason things always go smoothly for me is that I have a place in mind already when I extend the date invitation. First I ask her "When are you free to get together" and let HER tell ME her availability (versus saying, "You free Friday night for a concert?"). Then once she names a calendar date I can work with, I say, "Great. Why don't we meet at blah blah restaurant at 7:00 for dinner on that day?" Then both parties can go ahead and plug in the info on their calendar right then.	/r/seduction	15/07/20 06:24 AM
1	Make me feel comfortable...at least the first date Aaaaaand people who live on a tropical island with cozy beaches FOR THE WIN!! haha	/r/seduction	15/07/20 06:17 AM
0	Make me feel comfortable...at least the first date No disagreement here. I would add, though, that ladies may underestimate the degree to which effective coaching on how to be a great dating partner is lacking in the journey through life for boys.	/r/seduction	15/07/20 06:15 AM
2	Make me feel comfortable...at least the first date Thumbs up - your awareness is opening. Women have to think about personal safety in ways men never need to. (And maybe "afraid" wasn't the word for how your girl was feeling... "uneasy" could be a better one. And the good news is, the more you make actions in dating that put her in a position where she can relax, EVERYONE wins. HAHA)	/r/seduction	15/07/20 06:10 AM
2	One small step for me...one giant leap for my confidence Sounds like a GOOD win, not a small one. Good job, way to go! 🍾	/r/seduction	12/07/20 03:31 AM
2	[GUIDE] If you need to remember one seduction advice : EYE CONTACT Good stuff. Even for a guy who has studied practiced and learned tons about eye contact with women, but still needed a reminder.	/r/seduction	10/07/20 07:59 AM
0	The most common mistakes guys make in the field 3 is of course accurate (A man should lead versus letting the woman take the lead)... What’s interesting on reddit is how frequently I see men pointing out what many female Redditors say/how frequently I’m beginning to read statements from female redditors who insist that in today’s world, “the woman should and will walk right up and make her interest known, and the guy should otherwise avoid breaking into her day/bothering her/being creepy/blah blah blah’ - in other words, cautioning men agains…	/r/seduction	07/07/20 03:49 AM
3	My dentist called me cute today, now I want to seduce her. Haha - And best advice if she reaches out to invite you to meet up with her and her friends is to have prior plans already... “Hey, it’s great to hear from you. I would love to meet up with you guys, but I already said yes to something for that time. But you and I should get together for coffee soon - when are you free to meet up?” And then let her tell you when she’s free (versus you suggesting a day when you’re free). Idea is that what you really want is to arrange a date for her to have you a…	/r/seduction	02/07/20 06:16 AM
3	My dentist called me cute today, now I want to seduce her. Trick is to put her in a position to connect with you outside of work so there’s separation from her professionalism requirement. During chit chat, toward the end of your visit - be like, “So what’s up for the weekend, doctor?” If she mentions her friends, that’s perfect for where you need the conversation to go. If she only speaks of hanging out with her sons/family, you’ll say, “Oh okay. Well, if you end up hanging with friends instead, and y’all get into something fun, shoot me a text - maybe…	/r/seduction	02/07/20 05:18 AM
2	Can someone please explain me how confidence can build attraction? I see the thinking behind your confusion... but keep in mind that some things ARE different for women. Yes, initial attraction has its place for men and for women... but think of confidence as being a “turn-on” for women. And to use an illustration from a man’s perspective - imagine meeting a new woman who you think is very pretty. You meet her, think she’s very pretty, ask her out, and she says yes enthusiastically. Now let’s say she was dressed modestly when you met her - nothing tight-fitting…	/r/seduction	25/06/20 04:49 PM
2	How to pass the Test? Remember this always: YOU are daddy. Not her. Takes practice and effort, but learn to respond to and see the beautiful woman you really like the same way you see a kid... say, your little niece who can be a handful at times, but again, is a child. When a child asks you something that’s a little bold or rude, it doesn’t make you tense up and worry that you might lose her affection or interest in you. Instead, her feisty little blunt attitude prolly makes you chuckle at how she has gotten a bit ou…	/r/seduction	23/06/20 05:15 PM
1	First date since quarantine, where to improve? Yes. Some refer to it as the “kiss test”. Not that anyone is “testing” the other person... it’s just a signal to her that you are confident and that you go for what you want (without being a jerk or being a pouting child if you end up NOT getting what you wanted); and it signals that you know you deserve to with her, versus having her in a pedestal or having a low image of yourself; and it prevents her from leaving the date wondering if you still like her... plus helping you gauge whether she ha…	/r/seduction	06/06/20 05:58 PM
2	First date since quarantine, where to improve? Applauding you - good job, don’t stop! Also... for future, if you spend an entire date with someone and then still feel interested in them at the end of it, you always go for the kiss. (Which is probably a bit easier on her side of things if some bit of physical touch already happened... e.g. you playfully bumped into her almost like a super soft, mini, hockey body check shoulder-to-shoulder as you walk together... and then when she inevitably looks over at you due to that bump, she sees the pla…	/r/seduction	06/06/20 02:22 PM
1	Apparently asking for a Facetime is "rushing things." Welcome to the club of busy men with little time to waste, who run across some OLD women who are not in favor of video chat. (And I know it’s their right - heard different reasons for why folks feel staring and talking into the screen doesn’t let them act natural/show up in a form they like). In your specific situation, not sure why she felt it would’ve been “rushing things”, unless her idea was that the two of you had been writing each other through an app without having to exchange phone numbe…	/r/seduction	29/05/20 05:50 AM
2	Question regarding other men ( man here) Someone was just giving an explanation of “alpha male” and “beta male”: A beta is one who fears he may be seen as beta. He speaks and acts to try proving he is the alpha in a situation. An alpha is one who doesn’t care if he is seen as alpha or beta.	/r/seduction	26/05/20 04:31 AM
2	How important is seduction to keep a marriage strong? I agree that wifey has a part to play in it all! (And I am sorry for your trouble.) I guess the place I come from as the man in a relationship is to focus on the things I myself can control (my own actions and choices but not hers).	/r/seduction	19/05/20 11:56 PM
9	How important is seduction to keep a marriage strong? You’ve discovered the secret. What no one effectively teaches men is that the courtship never ends. And a husband’s job as the man is to always be creating fun-filled, romantic opportunities for sex to happen. Also known as “dates”. He should keep dating and courting his woman properly, even if they’ve been married thirty years. Another perhaps little-known fact... your post referenced the idea of “seduction”... The process of seduction even in a marriage is the husband gets closer and closer to…	/r/seduction	19/05/20 04:48 PM
6	She texted first, never thought I’d ask this Same as normal when speaking with a woman - your response should be one of charm and amusement. For example, "HAHA Um, enjoying your lunch over there, are you?"	/r/seduction	06/05/20 06:18 AM
7	The Power Of Teasing - Building Major Sexual Desire In Women There’s truth to it. Women want a man who is a challenge... someone they can’t get their way with all the time. It doesn’t seem intuitive to a man’s logic-based to behave this way with a gorgeous woman, but understand that it is EXACTLY what she EMOTIONALLY responds to. Keep in mind a woman’s brain is not logic-based, it’s based on emotions. And to her emotions, it registers as strength when a man can resist her instead of giving in to her all the time. Even if she pouts outwardly about not gett…	/r/seduction	02/05/20 04:34 AM
8	The Power Of Teasing - Building Major Sexual Desire In Women Unsolicited opinion time: Date whoever you’re curious to date of course, but consider ultimately holding out to get serious with someone who basically knocks your socks off in every way... and who feels the same about you. Two things will make all the difference for you when dating a guy who seems to “leave a little off the table to get you interested”... A) Even if he’s busy between dates and can’t chat much, he will consistently plan and set definite dates that are fun-filled, romantic opportu…	/r/seduction	02/05/20 04:25 AM
1	What I’d give every guy to progress his dating life Depends. If the normal convo shows me I’m having zero fun with her as a conversation partner, it doesn’t matter if she seems totally interested in me! This is because girls I allow into my life are the total package, not just a cutie who I can’t STAND hanging with other than getting her alone to try to get on her. To be worth my time, she has to be someone I enjoy being around in general. So if after some minutes of talking, she doesn’t come off as boring or bonkers or a bimbo, then I may have r…	/r/seduction	24/04/20 09:59 PM
5	What I’d give every guy to progress his dating life Exactly. As the strong, centered, masculine man you are... a man who already has a life that feels complete with or without the company of a woman to date, what you're really doing by striking up a conversation with a cutie is giving her a chance to have a brief, light, fun chat with an interesting stranger... It doesn't have to feel like something more than what it really is. I mean after all, she could turn out be married (No harm there - "Oh okay! Your husband is lucky. Enjoy the rest of your…	/r/seduction	24/04/20 07:22 PM
1	How do I (m) make it apparent that I like HER to take the lead role in the relationship/dating process? Also, feminine energy is all about bonding, connecting, relationships, opening up to receive love... So if your core is feminine, make sure you’re in that energy with her to keep the polarity intact.	/r/seduction	14/04/20 10:39 PM
1	How do I (m) make it apparent that I like HER to take the lead role in the relationship/dating process? So for the original question of “ “How do I (m) make it apparent that I like HER to take the lead role in the relationship/dating process?” When it comes to someone you’re interested in but not already dating, I’m not quite sure what to tell you. For someone you’re already dating... I guess def affirm the things she does that align with what you like. “Babe, I freakin’ love the way you plan awesome dates for us...” “Look at you - you’re such a boss when it comes to being confident and knowing wh…	/r/seduction	14/04/20 10:37 PM
1	How do I (m) make it apparent that I like HER to take the lead role in the relationship/dating process? Well friend, if you already know what I wrote before, I’m not sure what your question is at this point. Is there something you’re still wondering?	/r/seduction	14/04/20 07:09 AM
4	How do I (m) make it apparent that I like HER to take the lead role in the relationship/dating process? If your core is more feminine as a straight man, you will never be happy with a feminine woman. No sexual polarity between the two of you. In that case, you would need a woman who is more masculine. And it’s not about “getting a girl to be more masculine” - instead, you would attract and select a dating partner who is comfortable being in her masculine energy and who is attracted to a more feminine man.	/r/seduction	14/04/20 05:37 AM
16	Is there any special way of eye contact? Haha Um, sometimes a James Bond smirk is better than a full, toothy smile.	/r/seduction	14/04/20 05:30 AM
120	Is there any special way of eye contact? During the prolonged eye contact, what are you thinking? And what are you feeling? Your facial expression is important when holding eye contact, and a lot of us may not be aware of what our face is doing! Be careful that you don’t appear too intense... or look like you’re looking for a fight! If during extended eye contact, you are thinking positive thoughts about yourself and the other person and the moment you’re in, this can help your facial expression, physiology (e.g. how slow and relaxed y…	/r/seduction	14/04/20 12:41 AM
26	BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive. Correct. Women are attracted to the most dominant members of the opposite sex. And masculine energy is all about drive, purpose, mission, succeeding, accomplishing, breaking through barriers... Seeing a man who embodies this is attractive for a feminine woman.	/r/seduction	12/04/20 07:02 PM
4	BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive. Yes it does. You don’t want to come off as having nothing else going on other than texting the girl a ton, asking her why she isn’t texting faster, etc. Actually being busy and productive and focused elsewhere helps avoid putting yourself in the situation. The other benefit is you’ll be occupied physically/mentally instead of sitting idle, obsessing over what she’s doing and when she’s gonna text you again.	/r/seduction	12/04/20 06:58 PM
73	BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive. Weights before dates! Haha Only once did I skip a workout for a date. She flaked; I knew right then I’d never again put a date before a scheduled workout.	/r/seduction	12/04/20 06:54 PM
2	Confidence = knowing that whatever happens, it will be alright Truth. And congratulations. Tons of guys unfortunately will reach your age or older but not have the benefit of all your hard work (personal development/inner work) and all your lessons learned.	/r/seduction	05/04/20 10:26 PM
1	All women want confident, strong, dominant men? Really? Great question! In my experience (not a Pickup guy, but I do have a string of amazing, high-quality relationships with lovely women who have the internals to match their good looks), I say the truth in all those articles and tips you read applies to attracting and dating the kind of women who are more likely to knock your socks off in every way (not just the hotties with little else that interests you beyond the physical). For men and women both, there is an attraction to the most dominant membe…	/r/seduction	26/03/20 12:28 AM
1	How do you internalize a behavior fast that it becomes automatic no need to think about doing it You said “fast”... but learning always involves time and repetition. There’s no way to shortcut the process, but working consistently every day will help results not be delayed. Also, specifically for posture, a good ballroom dancing class will help a man’s efforts to straighten his posture.	/r/seduction	25/03/20 06:57 PM
1	How to make the girl feel as though she's being taken on an 'adventure'? Totally. If you can employ your creativity to focus on asking her questions about the kinds of things she would LOVE to talk about, she will be in a delighted emotional state when with you.. and she will associate that positive state with being with you.	/r/seduction	24/03/20 08:04 AM
1	How to reply to "I'm kinda seeing someone. hit me back in a month...." You know Corey? He’s one of my best students.	/r/seduction	20/03/20 06:09 PM
2	How to reply to "I'm kinda seeing someone. hit me back in a month...." Since you’re too much of a charming James Bond type, you never let ANYTHING a woman says or does ever diminish you or make you lose your sense of humor. Your response is: 😂 “Hit me back in a month if you want to check in”. That’s cute. Let me know if it doesn’t work out with the other guy. Number’s xxx...	/r/seduction	20/03/20 05:54 PM
2	My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one day You explained it perfectly well. I did the same work on my posture/body language/walk in the past few years. Similar fascinating results... -You’re right, with that “captain of the football team” vibe of walking tall in a totally peaceful, relaxed, confident way - women want to be with you, and men want to be your friend. Guys’ll greet you and shake your hand and respond to you like that despite not even freaking knowing you! They recognize a “tha man” when they see one, and they instantly respe…	/r/seduction	16/03/20 09:16 AM
1	Recommend books or movies that changed your life Not only did it entertain me, but that Vince Vaughn movie “The Breakup” actually opened my eyes to how blindly self focused a man can be without even trying to be a jerk AND without realizing how he affects the people he cares about. It also helped me see how a woman’s way of processing and expressing things can go right over a guy’s head if he never had help to open his eyes and ears to be able to really see and hear her. That little movie probably saved me the loss of some relationships! Haha	/r/seduction	16/03/20 08:38 AM
5	I think a huge part of game is simply how much mastery you have over yourself “Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself makes you fearless.”	/r/seduction	15/03/20 03:39 AM
2	Going on a 3rd date, still nothing close to physical/sexual, I feel like I have the yips For future... End of the FIRST date, always go for the kiss. If she likes you, she’ll kiss you back. If she doesn’t kiss you back, or if she gives you the cheek, she lacks sufficient romantic interest. Either that or she’s a structured woman, maybe living by a set of dating rules like, ‘no kisses until five dates’ or something. And if it’s that, and she’s structured and can’t relax and “be right there waiting to escalate with you” as you said about how past girls have always been, then you smile…	/r/seduction	13/03/20 12:27 AM
1	It's said that playing with hair is a sign of interest among women and girls. How true is this based on your experience? Sometimes yes. But also true about playing with hair... Sometimes she'll do it when it has nothing to do with you or any other man in the room. Sometimes she may do it just to flirt and watch guys come unglued, even if she has no romantic interest in him (just because it feels good to know you can affect another human through flirting - goes for girls and guys both). One youtuber was recently explaining that she moves her hair with her hand a lot on camera simply because her hair is so thick tha…	/r/seduction	11/03/20 08:25 AM
1	How to deal with more female attention in public? As the charming James Bond that you always are, something like a young lady shouting the word “WHAT” in public is far from being something that would rattle you. That kind of thing amuses you instead. In that situation, you haven’t said one word to her... haven’t touched her or so much as placed yourself physically in her personal bubble, and here she is shouting and making a fool of herself in public! It’s comical. But you, like Bond, always stay calm and collected, while also never losing your…	/r/seduction	09/03/20 09:21 PM
1	How to deal with more female attention in public? HAHA Congratulations. And some thoughts: Good job on staying humble through all this. Don't change. If you haven't got the time for new prospects atm and thus are not approaching, then there's not too much you need to start doing differently. Just give the kind of warm and genuine smile, eye contact, and a "How are YOU today?" that most people never encounter. (Imagine you're the humble, proud, totally satisfied king just simply greeting royal subjects you are happy to have present in your kingd…	/r/seduction	09/03/20 05:35 AM
1	Tips on maintaining self-esteem in the face of massive social rejection? I feel you. Here's what I'm thinking... Of all the people that work for your organization, perhaps only a small percentage of them would turn out to be people you actually like spending extended amounts of time with, and vice versa. Definitely keep showing yourself friendly when you interact with people at work, but as far as making a bunch of new friends at work... well, I'm remembering my experience working at a mid-sized university. In five years, of all the staff members there, I only wound …	/r/seduction	09/03/20 05:15 AM
1	Picking up a girl and then the awkward drive that follows Meeting at the restaurant or whatever for the first couple dates may help improve comfort level to a nice place so that things are hopefully less awkward later on the first car ride.	/r/seduction	06/03/20 06:03 PM
1	How to seduce my wife? Are you still courting and dating your wife properly? In other words, YOU take the initiative to plan an EVENING date, and you schedule with her for an activity that you do not detail for her in advance (so a bit of anticipation and mystery can excite her), but you do tell her an idea of dress code that would be fitting for the evening; you arrange for a babysitter who can also put the kids to bed; you make the effort to look good and smell good and behave good on the date; throughout the date, …	/r/seduction	06/03/20 05:58 PM
3	How do I respond to a message like this from an older woman? Sounds like age is no issue for you. Response should be charming, playful, fun: "My thoughts are, I'm glad that you are legal. ;-) Happy Birthday."	/r/seduction	05/03/20 07:53 PM
4	Getting her in bed Are you still courting and dating your wife properly? In other words, YOU take the initiative to plan an EVENING date, and you schedule with her for an activity that you do not detail for her in advance (so a bit of anticipation and mystery can excite her), but you do tell her an idea of dress code that would be fitting for the evening; you arrange for a babysitter who can also put the kids to bed; you make the effort to look good and smell good and behave good on the date; throughout the date, …	/r/seduction	05/03/20 08:29 AM
1	Slow talking? She's the woman, not you - she should be doing 70 to 80% of the talking. (And I know we've all heard the statistics about women on average using way more than twice the number of words in a day as men. I find it pretty fascinating that so many men get dating backwards in this regard by sitting there blabbing away about their accomplishments or their thoughts, etc.) You facilitate her doing most of the talking by asking her questions about the kinds of things she would love to talk about. "So, wh…	/r/seduction	03/03/20 07:44 AM