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| 1 | Should I wait to answer texts?Nice one. Numbers should only be taken if she's already agreed to a date in principle (otherwise what's the point of taking the number?). If she gives the number then texting is simply a matter of arranging a date. https://daygamersbible.wordpress.com/2018/05/27/first-text-response-times/ | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Instagram as SOCIAL PROOF?If you meet a girl and want to shag her girl do you a) ask her for a date in principle and then swap numbers with her in order to arrange the precise time b) Ask for instagram/facebook and then 'research' TF out of her while potentially finding some minor 'flaw' in her that discourages you c) swap instagram/facebook then send her details to your friends, so they can find a flaw or get involved in convincing you not to shag her. d) swap instagram/facebook with a view to only dating/shagging her i… | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 08:17 AM |
| 4 | Should I wait to answer texts?'text game' is vastly overestimated IMHO. If you find yourself stressing out over whether you are texting too soon or not then it's usually a sign that you are in a weak position with a girl. The aim of 'text game' isn't to add value through texting or turn around a losing position, it's merely to 'not fuck thing up'. Fuck all the chit-chat with them, they can get the validation and attention from their friends. One text a day is enough from us and the focus should just be on getting dates and b… | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Girls say "You're weird" to my face and/or tell my wings "your friend is weird"?Hmmm perhaps the problem here is that you are doing this in a club? In other words, you are fighting against battle-hardened troops who are prepared with any kind of obnoxious shit-test they will throw at you. Moreover, you are talking about "verbal game" in an environment where it's usually loud music and a more physical type of game predominates. Don't listen to some dappy little idiot telling you are "weird", it's a stock in trade response of a club-slut. I suggest you try daygame https://day… | /r/seduction | 28/05/18 10:24 AM |
| 1 | How To Text Girls -- Done For You (With Examples!!)Far Far Far too much emphasis on "text game" IMHO. Either a girl sees value in you or she doesn't. They know how to text a guy that they are interested in. If they want to see you they will, if they don't they want. https://daygamersbible.wordpress.com/2018/05/27/first-text-response-times/ You should never take a number unless she's agreed to a date in principle and after that, she should know what the purpose of your message is -- arrange a date, and that's it. Don't get trapped in their endles… | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Is it always bad to ask a girl out while she's working?I'm not criticising you for this, but the problem with the 'hired hands' is they get hit on a lot by beta guys. These guys do this because they know the girl will give them a soft rejection and their ego (beta guys) won't be challenged. In this case, the best thing is to go direct and ask her out while making your intention clear. She's probably used to loads of guys trying to be 'nice and friendly', your job is to differentiate yourself from them and just go straight in. If not, she will start … | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Horrible cold approach, but it was still a success?Try this ... https://daygamersbible.wordpress.com/ | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Do I tell girls my age?LOL Always Always Always https://daygamersbible.wordpress.com/2018/04/23/why-you-should-always-guess-young/ guess their age young! Guessing their age young helps pre-empt them asking you your age because they will assume you usually date girls younger than them. Try it. | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 09:45 AM |
| 4 | I went on a date with a girl in a committed relationship?Two possibilities and the good news is your behavior can quickly ascertain which one it is. She's grooming you to be a beta orbiter https://daygamersbible.wordpress.com/2018/04/24/why-beta-orbiters-can-cause-problems/ and enjoying the attention, plus the idea of maybe having you as a bf, but ultimately she won't have sex with you. She wants to play away and have sex on the side with you. Finding out which is which is simple. Push hard to have sex with her. Anything short of banging her and you a… | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Horrible cold approach, but it was still a success?It's not a success if she's asked at least two questions (she's interested and investing, and you get the number. That's the starting point, and logically nothing can progress unless that happens. Some useful information here... https://wordpress.com/view/daygamersbible.wordpress.com ...No matter, you did good. I would try with non "hired hands" as the working girls tend to be friendly as part of their job. | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Is match.com worth it?Thanks for the fair comments! I'm not a daygame coach so that's beside the point. There's nothing stopping an average guy doing daygame BTW. However, I have a genuine and sincere question for you, or maybe for other guys who feel socially awkward. Can you recognize the signs/markers of a girl feels socially awkward herself?The way she dresses, moves, walks etc Can you imagine the sorts of places she might hang out during the day? My inference is that, if you can do these things, then maybe you w… | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Is match.com worth it?LOL The funny thing is I've seen a male model struggling with online game https://daygamersbible.wordpress.com/2018/05/04/instagram-game-does-not-exist/ Of course you can get laid with online game, but is it efficacious? There was a dating site which allowed you to check men and women online on it. The ratio was 11-1. Why would you want to take on those odds? Just imagine how picky and difficult you would be if you had a ratio of 11-1 in your favor, and 100s of then were messaging you every day.… | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 09:49 AM |
| 2 | Is match.com worth it?The question is... ... compared to what? The following article goes into more depth on the subject of online game https://daygamersbible.wordpress.com/2018/05/07/why-online-game-doesnt-work-for-guys/ The reality is online game is heavily stacked in favor of girls and that will only get worse as it becomes more and more socially acceptable. We have to find a better way to even the odds. I would suggest trying daygame before handing over money to receive winks from desperate 50 year old women, or … | /r/seduction | 10/05/18 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Had a great first date late night, she’s going on vacation for 3 weeks now. What should I do going forward?Very true, but if you over text her she will lose attraction too. Reality is you can't add much value over a text messaging. These days they are purely for continuity. If you get a warm response to feeler text then try the cheap present gift "trick" and turn it into your little "thing" together. If texting goes dry then you can always go back with "I'm so excited about what you got me from X" Usually they'll reply with something along the lines of what did you get me? Obviously, be vague in your… | /r/seduction | 10/05/18 08:41 PM |
| 4 | Had a great first date late night, she’s going on vacation for 3 weeks now. What should I do going forward?First thing, don't get your hopes up. She's going on vacation so she will get lots of attention and guys running after her. She might even get cock and then write it off as a 'holiday fling' then come back feeling guilty and just ignore you -- girls do these things all the time. So what should you do? This “had a good time, have a good vacation” is a good feeler text. The judge her response. Obviously if she sends lots of pics then she's keen, but likelihood here is she'll be focused on her vaca… | /r/seduction | 10/05/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you do anything different if you approach a group of girls rather than one girl?The question is, is it a really good practice to approach a group of girls and suffer constant interference, cockblocking and end with the feeling that you are essentially trying to herd wild cats? The linked article gives a good outline of the underlying dynamics. https://daygamersbible.wordpress.com/2018/04/18/why-two-sets-are-a-complete-waste-of-time/ In a nutshell, if you do get a strong indication of interest (IOI) from a girl in a group then try to pull her away from the group, however mom… | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Things I wish I knew earlier in my dating experiences - The most important points I've picked up over the years (Part 1)Thanks for the kind words. It's clear from your responses on here that you will work things out. I sometimes think that the biggest problem is the culture around us which tries to indoctrinate men into thinking their greatest role in life is to make a girl happy, while she reneges on her side of the bargain. A healthy situation would see both sides helping each other in the way that they can. | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 07:38 AM |
| 21 | Fellas, where do you meet women?Daygame. Nightgame is disintegrating to a point of minimal return.,online has long gone mainstream and is just a tool for attention whoring and validation sourcing for most girls. Daygame gives a chance to get at a girl who doesn't go to clubs or spend half her life feeling good about messing guys around. | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Things I wish I knew earlier in my dating experiences - The most important points I've picked up over the years (Part 1)I think the problem with most pick up advice is that "gurus" try and give some sort of holistic advice when all most guys need are a collection of aphorisms with which they can test out. There's some useful ones laid out here https://daygamersbible.wordpress.com/ but in reality you will need to test them out yourselves. Forget about learning how to play tennis like Roger Federer and then giving up becaues you can't hit a topspin backhand down the line etc. Just pick up a racket and start playing… | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 08:59 PM |
| 2 | 22 years old and never been with a girl. Desperate for help.You have to take the plunge and start approaching girls, but first accept that it's going to take time and frustration before you achieve your aims. Confidence will come from positive feedback on your interactions. One important thing is to decide whether you want to do this in order to build up your own self-confidence in itself, OR whether you want to do this by focusing on getting laid (the process will help you). If it's the former then I would suggest staying away from RSD type advice and f… | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 11:39 AM |
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