Daygamecumbucket Archive

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1	Can anyone who succeeded and grew despite starting off with anxiety or poor social skills give me advice? Biggest thing that helped me was working a high energy high paced retail job. Where i was forced to talk to everyone with a grin and enthusiasm about our product. I also suspect looking back the boss felt sorry for me and did quite a bit of coaching. But they also had a rare customer centric service focus. I learnt how to make small talk (still hard) I learnt that anyone will talk to you if your friendly The ball was in my court so it was an easy stepping stone. I learnt how to ask for details. …	/r/seduction	08/02/20 09:18 PM
1	Cheap drinks? Fuck the drinks idea. Screams trash. Take them rock climbing. Or for a walk around the park or find a free art exhibition. Etc Are you just in between jobs or have some big unexpected bills? Either way, you’ll have to come clean eventually. Might be able to stretch it out by doing a ‘sub $20 date challenge’ and making a game of it with them.	/r/seduction	08/02/20 09:08 PM
5	(20M) have a crush on a friend of mine, planning to ask her out when we meet next. Asking for tips/suggestions ‘I had fun yesterday, let’s go on a date this Friday to xyz’	/r/seduction	15/08/19 01:03 PM
1	I’ve always been nervous about asking out women, any tips on boosting self confidence? Build up slowly. ‘Hey I was think of going to do xyz cause I’m awesome, wanna come with? ‘ Just asking a friend to hang out, with no motive and hence no pressure. And less reasons to doubt yourself. But if they ask is this a date, say ‘sure why not?’ Grab her hand and skip off into the sunset. Or if you’ve got the vibe a cheeky ‘nahhh but if you play your cards right today, tomorrow I might ask you on one’	/r/seduction	13/08/19 12:08 PM
47	How many girls/dates did it take till you found a girl who you connect with? How long is a piece of string? I learnt early on I suck at dating. Formal, sit down small talk. Not for me. I went and did awesome shit, and if they wanted to join me they could. Has to be phrased as if they wanted to join you, not you asking them out. Ice skating, rock climbing, bowling. Whatever. Something physical and that you can have a laugh and gentle tease. Have the area semi-scoped for a cafe/bar/etc for a cheeky drink afterwards when endorphins are high. Because I know I rock a good tim…	/r/seduction	05/08/19 11:33 PM
1	I am capable, and I don't want to try Look at some of his other reply’s. Anything that isn’t close to what he wants to hear, he makes up excuses why not and then gets shitty with the poster.	/r/seduction	04/08/19 11:38 PM
1	I am capable, and I don't want to try You’ve received some good advice and thrown it back at people. Suck up your ego dude. Some of it is likely right.	/r/seduction	03/08/19 11:24 PM
1	What to do during your first hookup??? No worries. I hope you enjoy it and get what you want out of it!	/r/seduction	03/08/19 11:21 PM
1	I am capable, and I don't want to try Your scared of rejection	/r/seduction	03/08/19 10:40 AM
4	How would you react if your sister is about to date a guy with macrophallism How would you react if you sister told you she loved fisting and a regular cock wouldn’t satisfy her?	/r/seduction	03/08/19 10:38 AM
2	What cost-effective bottle of alcohol is good to own for an excuse to bring girls back for drinks? I’m going to go the opposite way of all commenters. ‘I don’t drink’ So own that shit! Say ‘hey sorry I’ve got nothing at home, let’s swing by xyz bottle shop, it’s between here and home and grab you something’ She’ll either say nah I’m ok and come with you anyway and you get to skip a step, or appreciate you honesty and she chooses what she wants. While you get to rub in how awesome you are by knowing where to stop on the way there. Having cheap shitty options will reflect on you worse than the …	/r/seduction	03/08/19 10:34 AM
1	What to do during your first hookup??? Firstly....It’s ok to say no, I’m not comfortable. Or please slow down, or voicing anything similar. Even half way through. Totally ok! It ok to feel awkward, or clunky or like your body’s don’t mesh or that it’s not a fairytale. It’s ok to say I just want to cuddle, or that hurts let’s try something different and to walk away if they don’t accept that. As for what to do, go with the flow. Enjoy the moment, go as fast or as slow as your comfortable with, but don’t let them pressure or worse, to …	/r/seduction	03/08/19 10:17 AM