DayvyT Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Why are woman so annoyed by men finding their promiscuity unattractive when these same woman will invariably judge a guy that uses sex workers? No I'm not, nor was I ever, saying most promiscuous women regularly sleep with a dozen or so men in 7 days. Yes I have an idea of how many that is and I agree its absurd. I'm saying the number could very well be higher than a dozen or so men in a year, but I didn't say it was that high	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 09:21 PM
1	Most young men struggle with dating because they were raised to be passive and afraid of everything. I am. You have evidence of this you can provide, or again, is this is just your opinion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 07:53 PM
2	Why are woman so annoyed by men finding their promiscuity unattractive when these same woman will invariably judge a guy that uses sex workers? do you think drug dealers respect junkies? generally, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 12:04 AM
2	Why are woman so annoyed by men finding their promiscuity unattractive when these same woman will invariably judge a guy that uses sex workers? I'm not seeing where she ever said she was fine with it in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 11:36 PM
3	Why are woman so annoyed by men finding their promiscuity unattractive when these same woman will invariably judge a guy that uses sex workers? Fair, I wouldn't say its typical either, but I personally would say I know of 5 or 6 examples of women who would go through periods of not hesitating to be sleeping with a new guy every week or so. Not judging, but I'm just sayin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 11:25 PM
11	Why are woman so annoyed by men finding their promiscuity unattractive when these same woman will invariably judge a guy that uses sex workers? who might manage that over a year or two or more. Not disagreeing with your overall point, but I definitely know MANY women WAAAAY more promiscuous than this lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 10:44 PM
1	Most young men struggle with dating because they were raised to be passive and afraid of everything. Many gen z men have grown up sheltered and coddled by fear mongering gen x parents. Gen z men never had the chance to grow up and face their fears. This in turn makes them unattractive to women and prevents them from going after a romantic relationship. Lol I'm calling bullshit, this is just your unsubstantiated opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 10:16 PM
4	As a woman, I want to apologize to all of you good men out there I will give $1,000 if a woman wrote this. Spoiler alert, I checked OP's profile, hes a man. Before I checked I was pretty damn certain it was a man. LPT for anyone reading this, women don't speak like this: Women get everything they want just for being pretty. It’s stupid. Work hard and live a respectable life, men and women. This was a dead give away to me that it was not actually a woman writing this. Not too surprised that reddit, of all places, fell for it	/r/MensRights	20/10/22 06:28 PM
1	Why "making them wait" upsets many men... Because the OP is speaking in general terms so its assumed any response is in the context what can be applied to the general population. If what the above commentor said works for them, I guess good for them, but its still bad advice to give to the general population. "I expect sex after the 2nd date on the latest" is just simply not good advice to apply in a binary manner to everyone. I've dated girls where we had sex on the first date that ended up being terrible relationship. I've dated a gir…	/r/seduction	21/06/22 09:46 PM
1	Why "making them wait" upsets many men... only rational comment in this whole thread	/r/seduction	21/06/22 07:50 PM
1	Why "making them wait" upsets many men... I mean, I can say I only want to date girls who write sonnets every full moon and nobody else. I can say I know what I want and am comfortable with it and nobody is in any place to judge. It would still be an absurd criteria to be a deal breaker and a pretty useless thing to say when attempting to apply it to the whole population	/r/seduction	21/06/22 07:36 PM
1	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. That small statement shouldn’t have triggered you so much but it did. I was a little appalled at your pure narcissism, yes. I was expecting an actual discussion and I got a "just FYI I'm so much better than average xd" so I had to put you in your place a little bit. And you deserved it. There is a reason I've been upvoted and you have not. I'm sure you'll blame that on everyone else but yourself. wanted to ask why you assumed I was average first lmao I didn't assume anything about you lmao. This…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 03:59 PM
4	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. holy fucking shit I can't actually believe this is your response hahahaha 😂😂. I should have finished typing my comment there, but just for the sake of it I'll go in. a) I made no statement as to whether I think you're average, below, average, above average, or anything. Because I don't care about you, how good looking you think you are, or how much of a catch you think you are. We're speaking about society as a whole and the struggles of an average man vs an average women. Are you keeping up? Di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 09:19 PM
3	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. Me a few comments up: in most cases, men have to make the effort to pay for a women's meal/drinks, take them out, have a plan, essentially audition to impress them. Like the OP says, they are forced to work for it. Women do not have to do these things in return. That is the point. he’ll do all of those things without me asking but would you do these things for him without him asking? Probably not. That is the point. your response: Yes, because that is how men have always courted women traditiona…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 08:55 PM
2	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. so you agree with /u/ChessClubChick that you don't have to make any compromises and men have to put in all the effort in courting? and therefore average men have to work notably harder than average women to get quality dates which is what the OP is saying? I agree and I'm not even here to cry foul, I'm just struggling to see exactly what your point is here. It seems like you agree with all the comments above and the OP. Like I said in my previous comment: You can say "thats just how the world wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 08:29 PM
1	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. a 9 isn't, but a 7 is, I don't like how they gave that range because that goes from average (7 is average imo) to well above average. a 7 and a 9 aren't having the same experiences and issues	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 07:40 PM
1	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. I'm not necessarily agreeing with everything the commenter above you is saying, but I just want to say this is exactly his point right now. in most cases, men have to make the effort to pay for a women's meal/drinks, take them out, have a plan, essentially audition to impress them. Like the OP says, they are forced to work for it. Women do not have to do these things in return. That is the point. he’ll do all of those things without me asking but would you do these things for him without him ask…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 07:35 PM
1	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. I would call a 7 average, maybe that's because of school grading I've been conditioned to think that way, but on a survey of 1-10, 7 is the most common number most people give for a reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 07:07 PM
2	What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market? Because based on your interpretation, any relationship where both parties don't make the same amount of money is sugaring and that's obviously not how anyone else uses the term	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 11:19 PM
3	What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market? you're not interpreting the wikipedia definition correctly	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 10:44 PM
2	Divorce attorney says that in 13 years of practice, the women who were her most difficult or litigious were the SAHMs. he didn't think even a half step ahead of what he commented about, as seems to be this guys style. You can tell by his post history he clearly hates women, and then when called out about it, he says "Not at all. I always keep one around. She just better damn well work" as if speaking about them like they are objects or investments, makes it seem like he hates them any less lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 10:24 PM
1	Divorce attorney says that in 13 years of practice, the women who were her most difficult or litigious were the SAHMs. we get it, you hate women	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 10:30 PM
1	Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP. I mean... at college age, being a drug dealer is certainly seen as high social status or a "winner" at age 40, not so much	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 11:32 PM
1	The silencing of TRP on Reddit and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased our culture is against males now The pinned post is about taking advantage of Ukrainian refugees, which is straight up disgusting wow I just visited and you weren't kidding. What a POS sub that is	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 05:30 PM
2	Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partner a virgin in her 30s is NOT a red flag It is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 04:29 PM
1	Women love it when men impress them I don't know how to respond to this other than to say that is obviously not true	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 11:35 PM
3	If a women sees no value in you she will never respect you no matter good of a person you are or how good you treat her it can be reality in some (admittedly, more often than we'd all like) cases, but it is not a 100% thing. 100% of people are not like this, 100% of women are not like this. I'll agree western society in general is more self-conceded and transactional than I'd like, but convincing yourself all women are like this and there is no hope of finding someone who can think of you outside of an artificial value they place on you is a depressing mindset that I would advise anyone to reconsider	/r/seduction	29/03/22 05:40 PM
3	Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships? No its not. If a women choses to come over to my home, and engage in sexual activity with me, her and I made that choice together. Nothing creepy about it. If either of us regrets it, or faces consequences after the fact, its still not creepy. Because we're both adults that can be responsible for the decisions we make. If I coerced her into making that decision, than yes it would be creepy, but that isn't what we're talking about here. You don't have to agree or talk to me about it, but you're w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 11:57 PM
–	Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships? I mean, I misunderstood you because you're saying I said things that I simply did not. You think me saying that women have the full autonomy to make their own decisions is creepy? No it isn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 11:38 PM
–	Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships? ... I didn't say the word "alpha"... like not even once. Nor do I ever say that word Did you perhaps respond to the wrong comment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 11:15 PM
1	Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships? women have full autonomy to make their own decisions on who they sleep with, even in times of distress	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 10:41 PM
1	Why is body count so important for women? I suppose that's what I said, true, but the point I'm getting at is that (again, generally speaking, I know this isn't the case in 100% of instances, but its a macro trend) if women see a man who has the ability to have his choice of women, in her mind it often increases his social status as he is valued by others. The ability to get laid is part of this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 06:37 PM
1	Why is body count so important for women? I agree there is more nuance to it than gaining value from "sleeping with anything that moves", but generally speaking, a man who is of high value carries high social status which is valued by women. This in turn also often results in the ability to have an abundance women to choose from, which increases social status, and this cycle snowballs from there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 06:08 PM
2	Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In Dating it is the same though. There are two different components to this. The first is the ability to attract people you would want to be in a relationship with. The second is how good you are at being in a relationship or managing relationships with people. Being hot helps with the first. Yes there is still a whole lot of things that go into managing a successful relationship, but you have a greater option of opportunity as an attractive person	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 12:53 AM
16	Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent." I'm not taking either side here, but claiming 2020 as an outlier year seems completely reasonable	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 11:59 PM
1	Girl with holding sex? For your sake, I hope you didn't lol.	/r/seduction	28/01/22 12:27 AM
2	Stop Focusing on Your Looks https://media1.tenor.com/images/0a7b09f2cf025ba050fc20237b3c8e67/tenor.gif?itemid=5260044	/r/seduction	08/01/22 08:04 AM
13	Stop Focusing on Your Looks this is one of the most helpful and insightful comments I've read in this sub. Thanks	/r/seduction	07/01/22 05:40 PM
1	How do I ask her to pay without making it awkward? said that he can't ask a co-worker out because if it goes wrong, she will report him for sexual harassments and he will be terminated to be fair, this just sounds like a baseless statement he made without any evidence tbh	/r/seduction	21/09/21 05:55 PM
7	Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to. right...but my entire point is I don't think that is an apt analogy for dating. Fish do NOT want to be caught by fisherman. The fish and the fisherman have opposite goals. Women DO want to date men. Men and women have the same goal, they just have different roles about how they go about trying to achieve it. Again, I think the gist of the advice isn't bad, but the analogy doesn't seem accurate to me.	/r/seduction	13/07/21 04:51 PM
17	Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to. I get what you're saying, but I don't like this analogy. Fish do not want to be caught by fisherman. Women do want to date men, so to some extent they are on the same side, where as the fish and fisherman have completely opposite goals. I understand the gist of the saying, and maybe I'm being pedantic, but this is always something that has bugged me.	/r/seduction	13/07/21 04:15 PM
2	The single most effective way to improve your overall confidence is to take on a leadership role, no matter how small. Stepping outside of your comfort zone and leading others will yield results in other areas of your life agreed, I think this advice has good intentions, but I have come across numerous leaders through my career who just simply weren't good leaders and should have never been in the position they were in. It eventually became clear that they sought out a manager/leader position to address some insecurity within themselves and to make themselves feel better, not because they were the most qualified / strongest leader, and ultimately it wasn't good for anybody involved.	/r/seduction	12/07/21 10:34 PM
1	Become the king of your world https://media1.tenor.com/images/0a7b09f2cf025ba050fc20237b3c8e67/tenor.gif?itemid=5260044	/r/seduction	05/01/21 05:30 AM
2	My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrong https://media1.tenor.com/images/0a7b09f2cf025ba050fc20237b3c8e67/tenor.gif?itemid=5260044	/r/seduction	08/12/20 07:27 AM
8	Stop trying to be funny I think there are nuances to this topic. Being funny naturally is for sure a positive trait. I'm going to copy what a commenter above me said: "When you try to be funny and it comes off as try-hard or unnatural, people pick up on it." I think this is the point that OP was trying to make, which I think is fair. But yes, humor is often related as wittiness which is a positive trait	/r/seduction	11/11/20 10:18 PM
1	Apparently, my dad was a legend. you gotta jump in to swim	/r/seduction	10/12/19 05:11 PM
1	Date just flaked, and now I feel thankful (small offmychest) If OP is from the UK it is a common word there instead of dinner	/r/seduction	30/10/19 09:21 PM
1	Date just flaked, and now I feel thankful (small offmychest) Hey, I actually thought your response was pretty good and mildly witty. Maybe it does come off as needy now that others have mentioned it, but I didn't feel that way when I first read it, I thought it was good. Overall I wouldn't get too caught up on how you're "supposed" to respond and just do whatever you feel is the best response in the moment. As long as it doesn't genuinely feel desperate yourself.	/r/seduction	30/10/19 09:20 PM
1	I (29M) have been seeing a girl (29f) for a few months. She is currently on a five day trip with another guy. maybe she is, maybe she isn't. Its possible its just an old friend of hers with a strictly platonic relationship shes catching up with. Or its possible they are fucking all weekend, we don't really know. I would tend to give a girl I've been dating the benefit of the doubt, and not worry about it too much. The main take away is OP needs to not place this girl on such a high priority. I wouldn't have texted her at all or asked for a phone date, I do think that was a mistake. I would have just kep…	/r/seduction	15/10/19 05:21 PM
1	Free piece of advice. Do with it what you will. Okay i missed that. Yeah for sure some women may make decisions based on looks alone. In my real life experience that is a minority.	/r/seduction	29/08/19 11:32 PM
0	Free piece of advice. Do with it what you will. I do not believe for a second that you realistically expect me to have data readily available for that. If you genuinely think women choose partners on nothing other than physical attributes, i dont know what to tell you.	/r/seduction	29/08/19 11:13 PM
0	Free piece of advice. Do with it what you will. Multiple dudes shes chatting up? Perhaps, that doesn't sound unreasonable. Your position is solidified based on pure physical attractiveness alone? Hard disagree.	/r/seduction	29/08/19 09:16 PM
2	Always go for the kiss on the first date yeah I don't think this advice should be a 100% absolute. Don't hesitate to escalate intimacy and go for a kiss, but definitely read her body language and vibe first	/r/seduction	29/08/19 09:07 PM
1	Ultimate List Of Date Ideas pedantic (and don't get me wrong, I think this is a solid post), but I always hate when people say that insanity line. It doesn't define the word insanity at all	/r/seduction	13/08/19 03:33 PM
1	Moving abroad was one of the best decisions I ever made Poland	/r/seduction	02/08/19 06:44 PM
1	Moving abroad was one of the best decisions I ever made Poland	/r/seduction	02/08/19 06:44 PM
2	It's not about the looks but the look yep, only you know the truth and the whole truth. everyone else is dead wrong and only your take is the absolute truth. Must be why you got downvoted is cause your truth is the only real one and were just too weak to handle it.	/r/seduction	22/07/19 10:42 PM
7	My Relationship Killed my Game and Then my Relationship I work 12 hours a day, gym 2 hours a day... I have no idea how people do this... I just don't get it. I don't know you or your situation or goals, but to the average person this seems excessive. If you work 12 hours each day and gym 2 hours each day, well yeah... its gonna be near impossible to have time or energy for anything else. Personally, I work 8.5 hours each day (which I would cut down to 7 if I could), and gym usually 1-1.5 hours 4-5 days a week. I still find myself usually pretty busy,…	/r/seduction	25/06/19 09:48 PM
10	Need advice. I met a girl on Saturday night and we exchanged numbers. I sent her this quick vid on Sunday night but I have not heard back from her. Please help tell me what I’m doing wrong. I had to use a sick day at work cause I got dabbed on so hard	/r/seduction	25/06/19 03:41 PM
3	Game isn’t needed if she’s attracted to you. I wouldn't say its completely wrong, but it's not tangibly helpful in any way, and it seems like it's trying to say game isn't important when it certainly is.	/r/seduction	13/06/19 04:27 PM
16	Why didn't she do X? If she doesnt immediately accept the ecstasy that i offer in my opening line to her, thats gonna be a no from me dawg	/r/seduction	08/06/19 07:05 PM
-1	Eye contact! How funny! don't	/r/seduction	29/05/19 08:56 PM
1	Fuck it Thats awesome, and I'd agree thats what everybody, at least every pickup artist, should strive for. However it comes a lot more effortlessly to some than others. I bet most people couldn't turn it on like its a switch. I agree with you if your if your general point is that green tea probably isn't the solution that will work, and instead you have to have a strong innergame	/r/seduction	23/05/19 11:23 PM
1	Fuck it I mean, sure thats great for your friend, but how do you suggest others reading this adapt their behavior to be like that? Is it as simple as working on the charismatic personality? Genuine question.	/r/seduction	23/05/19 10:02 PM
1	Can we get a Karma requirement for this sub? Yes I'm pretty new here but I actually love this sub because its a good balance of knowing how to maturely and confidently carry yourself and talk to women and play the game. But at the same time, we aren't red pillers or Incels. I don't like the sudden influx of some incel material.	/r/seduction	23/05/19 09:33 PM
2	What would you do if you were twenty years old again? also maybe sometimes do hard drugs. just the fun ones, and not too often	/r/seduction	22/05/19 10:37 PM
2	What would you do if you were twenty years old again? not everybody is motivated by money lawrence	/r/seduction	22/05/19 10:35 PM
1	Becoming impatient with women and no longer putting up with their shit has improved my game a lot let me laugh even harder	/r/seduction	14/05/19 04:22 PM
3	Not sure what to say next. Please help I'm having gay sex right now and it even surprised me with how gay it is	/r/seduction	03/05/19 04:53 PM
1	Not sure what to say next. Please help The whole "No worries! Take it handy mandy (=" was absurd, but everything else he said was spot on imo	/r/seduction	03/05/19 04:42 PM
4	Not sure what to say next. Please help F	/r/seduction	03/05/19 04:34 PM
17	5 exercises that will make you attractive to the women you want lmfao. Dude, thats the sex number	/r/seduction	01/05/19 05:49 PM
21	First time to a party after 22 years living in this world, and it was fun, and weird-ly satisfying seriously, wtf ya'll doin? I'm having sex on the dance floor right now	/r/seduction	25/04/19 06:24 PM