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| 1 | Men Need a New NormalBingo, the heart behind the message is noble but I believe that the way it is displayed can be potentially damaging. Building yourself is the key. Changing reality is the key, not your reality. Develop yourself and change your place in reality. Accept the limitations of reality and place your bets where the odds are in your favor and do what you can to make those odds better. If someone wins the lottery and says it is because he woke up and believed he was going to win, that he knew he was going… | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Men Need a New NormalIt is delusion because the essence of this is "fake it till you make it" which is a garbage statement. It isn't encouraging building yourself. It is implied but that isn't the focus. It works for some people because while they are telling themselves they are awesome, they do something to make themselves such. That is the key, not promoting a delusional mindset that can be harmful. When the dissonance of the statements you tell yourself clashes with reality it can get messy and emotionally volati… | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Men Need a New NormalDelusion NEVER serves you, changing reality does. Build and grow yourself don't become delusional. This is an incredibly harmful mindset. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Men Need a New NormalThis is the most infuriating thing I have heard. Not just in this regard but in general. The 'fake it till you make it' crap. This isn't remotely any new advice and it isn't any better now. This does nothing but cause an internal dissonance. If it doesn't 'work' for somebody you just go and say that you are close minded and don't believe it. What is actually useful advice is to give steps to build upon, but you don't hear things like that because there isn't a one sentence solution for all probl… | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 05:50 PM |
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