| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 53 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attention | Inner Game | Dazzling-Vacation-97 | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 02:22 PM |
| 18 | I think I am over fucking and game | Conversation | Dazzling-Vacation-97 | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 12:15 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I think I am over fucking and gameWhich state you living at ? And is it a big city ( i live in capital so easier to find people here) | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 08:08 AM |
| 1 | I think I am over fucking and gameI said, its easy to have sex than find a woman you wanna be in a relationship and for her to be wanna be in a relationship with you too Its europe, half the people in my city are on their erasmus (ofcourse its not gonna go anywhere in terms of relationship) . With the way you said "I seriously can see you have never gamed in life lmao" . Go out , fuck a little and try to be in a relationship with a girl whose personality you really like "you'll see" | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 08:06 AM |
| 5 | I think I am over fucking and gameMet one girl over a latino concert. I was flirting with her friend the whole night because I thought she was in a relationship and yeah my friends were talking to her but before leaving, talked to her for a bit just to realise she isn't in a relationship Took her number, talked to her about feelings and stuff and how she is doing (trying to be her friend) because I knew she isnt the sort of girl I can just play game with . So yeah we met again couple of days later where she told me about her lif… | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 02:45 AM |
| 1 | I think I am over fucking and gameDepends on every girl. Some girls dont budge no matter what you try Saying you really like romance and shit and making them feel like you value them, some just want you to give them shit test after shit test and keep teasing them for them to be into you As I mentioned, game is freaking hard especially if you are a south asian brown dude with average height (if I had blonde hair, blue eyes , mannnn I would triple my number easily) | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 02:21 AM |
| 3 | I think I am over fucking and gameThey consider pakistani or Indians same 🤣 ... you probably are sitting in pakistan right now thinking pakistanis have better reputation but these white people Just put us south Asians in one bubble | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 01:45 AM |
| 3 | I think I am over fucking and gameMost woman i hit on are older than me so there is issue with them wanting to be in a relationship with me Girls of my age, they rarely wanna settle down or date someone long term ... if i go out with a girl, my intentions are always to long term date but thats not their intention | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 01:43 AM |
| 2 | I think I am over fucking and gameNot being pushy with sex i mean (never do that) By pushy I met "i was out with this girl couple of weeks ago , we made out then she had to go somewhere so couldnt close" and then I tried asking her out, we were both busy so couldn't make time But if I genuinely wanted to fuck her, I would have made it happened. Pushed her by calling her and giving a lot of available dates or telling her to go to a place she doesnt wanna miss out on (but I didnt do it, I just felt like ficking her isnt worth all … | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 01:18 AM |
| 8 | I think I am over fucking and gameTooo easy . Atleast they talk to you lol 😆 You cant even touch a girl in pakistan. But dude eastern europe is still fucking hard , poland , Romania (toooo hard) ... They just hate brown people so as I said, would probably be a virgin there too In western europe, because a lot of Arabics immigrated, they are part of culture so whites dont hate dating them ... Sometimes I tease girl when they arent interested "is it because I am brown or pakistani " (gets them all the time) | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 01:15 AM |
| 1 | I think I am over fucking and gameWhat do you mean being pussy gets you to succeed? | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 01:12 AM |
| 2 | I think I am over fucking and gameI only made out once there. Pakistan is tooo hard ... Would still be a virgin if I was there | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 01:10 AM |
| 1 | I think I am over fucking and gameIts not about abundance, it's about constantly running around women and always thinking "yes I can hit on this one, I can hit on this one". For once I just dont wanna go out and be thinking about hitting on woman I literally feel sad when there is a girl looking at me and I dont go say hi because I am done with approaching so having a gf would just make life EASIERRR | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 01:09 AM |
| 3 | I think I am over fucking and gameYes exactly . I mostly have never done one night stand except one time with a milf Other than that, all other sex encounters were me knowing them before or going on multiple dates But my intentions are always about dating them , they just dont feel the same way | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 01:06 AM |
| -21 | I think I am over fucking and gameYes mannn . Seriously . I'll trade it all for the first girl Really fucking liked her 😒, she stopped seeing me because she fucked me on the first date and felt slutty about it | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 01:04 AM |
| 1 | I think I am over fucking and gameThank you, just grew up watching game videos on YouTube... And tried all thst shit once I moved to europe But yeah no matter the game, I could never pull girls in eastern europe ... They are too racist 😒 sooo sometimes i do wish I was white Things woild be really easier | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 01:02 AM |
| 3 | I think I am over fucking and gameThats the thing, its pretty hard to date someone here ... I have only dated once, a french woman , 2 months... All others are situationships or one time fucks | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 12:50 AM |
| 0 | I think I am over fucking and gameNehhh, I have only fucked a nine once. Been doing all 7s or 8s . So dont think if I settle down , its gonna be a hot woman who match my personaliyh. Probably a 7 or 7.5 | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 12:49 AM |
| 1 | I think I am over fucking and gameNoooo, I have a lot of close friends. I feel like I feel alone because maybe I am not dating someone and someone isnt there who is completely in love with me ... I mean my best friend isnt gonna come cuddle with me and watch a romcom lol | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 12:48 AM |
| 10 | I think I am over fucking and gameThats the issue . I am at this stage where I feel like, man and woman are same (we all are effing humans)why should I spend time, make moves, do game just to fuck her (we both have the same sort of fun during sex so why should I put efforts ) Plus man, as a non eu, gotta need the passport so let me get married and find a nice woman 😂 | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 12:47 AM |
| 10 | I think I am over fucking and gameLast 5 months, 7 . And i choose to didnt fuck for this last month (had opportunities or girls where I could have given a bit more push ) but felt like not doing it ... | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 12:43 AM |
| 6 | I think I am over fucking and gameStill bruh why would I bullshit here 🤣 . Like whats the incentive if people dont know me Matlab bhai wtf 😂... and chill town babes, come meet me in my city (i'll show you the game ) ... Then tell my about my pakistani mentality | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 12:41 AM |
| -21 | I think I am over fucking and gameYeah man, I'd come over to reddit, to complete strangers who dont know me and tell fake story 😂 (stop being so sad, go out and fuck) | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 12:35 AM |
| 1 | funnyBrooo is soo delulu Just message her, say i havent seen you for a while , was thinking about you few days ago, how have you been If she replies and is in mood to talk, carry conversation from there, ask her about her life, what is she doing. Have a banter with her And then ask her, if she wants to grab a coffee and meet for old time sakes Simple. Stop overthinking. Past is effing past and yes yoir past is delusional | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionNeh, I dont. I have made mistakes in start where I got them to my place and went for the lay (it doesnt unless you got the girl from the club or a bar at night) I just bring them to my place, to make them comfortable about the idea of coming to my place. We sit, we chat, we flirt, we hug, maybe kiss sometimes. But thats it. On second or 3rd date I invite them over again and go for lay. That's why I got laid 4 times in last 2 months after going on 15 dates (some girls just dont end up coming on a… | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionLol I am not taking them out for 200 dollar dinner 😅 Its simple coffee or ice cream, most I spend 7 to 8 euros on both of us, simple If I want them to eat food with me, I invite them to my place by saying i'll make them some really good pakistani/indian foods (these white chicks crave for it so they come to my place) My best excuse is , taking someone out on coffee 5 minutes away from my place, vibing with me over movies, telling them lets go back to my place and watch a romcom (i'll also make y… | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionBro the way you are talking and all, I think those LOTS of friends are forever gonna stay friends. I dont see you being able to do any game , learn it. Then eventually loose your v card, or wait for your parents to arrange a baddie for you . | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionUnless you go to clubs and are fair skinned, you cant really game there. Dating apps is another option But yeah india pakistan are pretty same and I couldn't loose my v card there at all | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionYes I do take finastride for hair but I heard it lowers sexual need not increase it | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionAnd how do I make my life awesome? | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionJust had sex few hours ago, made her cum 3 times, I still didnt cum man 😔 | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionI mean you didnt need to if you found love of your life and got married too early | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionNeh man, for me its less about effing them. Pretty easy to go to a club and find a girl It's more about the chase, the date, the buildup to my place (thats more fun ) Girl in a club would fuck anybody, I want someone who wants to fuck me. Difference in thinking style 😎 | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionGo upto a girl , make a comment about her appearance so she tries to qualify to me by denying it and take it from there My game would be quite useful if I was in an english speaking country. Sometimes my witty remarks loose their speciality if girl isnt good in english or especially in a club or a bar where she cant hear me | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionI wish you were in western europe, would love to game with you and be your wingman Your issue is approaching and keeping conversation sexual , find yourself a good wingman | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionYou can do that in a club mostly because girls are kinda more conservative in that sense here in western europe (wish I was in Spain, would be a different game) 😉 But yeah mostly, day game is about, making a witty comment, having a banter with them or cool conversation, getting their info (99 percent girls know why I got their info, depends on them responding to me which shows they are interested, simple ) I also dont do shit like "I love your style, wanted to tell you how cute you are " because… | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionDamnnn bruh. Listen you only live once, yes I understand the responsibilities But take a week out for yourself and go for it . Go out, enjoy, fuck a girl These south american chicks are really into white guys (so yeah make your first be a latina) I can proudly say my first was a German . Make it memorable so you can tell your grand kids some wild stories | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 10:26 PM |
| 0 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionGo out on a weekend, do night game. If you are a white guy, effing a girl should be pretty easy man Get this v card shit sorted because it plays with your head alot | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionLost my virginity at 21 too. Too hard to eff a chick in pakistan lol | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionI mean it does have a perk, girls get the best experience and then they want more as we can ride them for an hour straight haha | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionWhat do you exactly mean by direct verbal and overly forward | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionI was in warsaw at that time (worst place to pick up girls as a brown dude, polish are racist as hell) Anyhow I am partying at a place, standing outside and I see these 2 cute girls walk by me. I say to them "you are going away too early, polish people party till 5 am " (yes I made that up, I dont know shit about polish people) Anyhow, this gets their attention, they say something to me, I hear their accent abd I am like (Irish girls in poland ?? ) one of them punches me (a small one) and says "… | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionMy ancestors would beat the shit out of me if they realised white chicks were ready to fuck me and i chose to ignore it 😒 Plus as I said, a girl wanting me makes me feel more special 😌. Plus my goal is to get laid with 20 chicks by end of next year (good looking ones ofcourse) Once done, I am gonna stop this, and go find a wife and settle. I am 21 btw 😭 | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 07:52 PM |
| 6 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionMan I think I am an addict. Even when I am having regular sex, i jerk off one time a day I think I really have an issue. Should totally stop | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 07:41 PM |
| 0 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionYeah I do grew up watching romcoms man. I just wanna find a girl, who i vibe with, get married etc etc So even though I am new to this and started few months ago (I already feel fulfilled) I literally lost my virginity to a really hot german, what else would I want ?? What else does a paki want ?? Yeah I wanna fuck more, but in grand scheme of things , idea of getting someone's attention arouses me more than actually thinking about fucking them (even though I do think about it too ) . | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionWestern europen country so nope english. City I live in is quite international with alot of europeans living here but local population isnt fluent. | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionNope , trying to be lol . Gonna skip gym right now because its snowing outside haha | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 07:30 PM |
| 5 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionNeh. I am a 5 when it comes to these white guys. Yes I ain't ugly enough that a girl doesn't wanna fuck me but I ain't super hot , I need to use game and that's what I do Sometimes I do wish I was white, maybe muscular or just knew french (my pick up rate would double) | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionYeah man, I think issue is masturbating, thats what I feel too | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionI am actually a student right now but this is my goal for future (if I stay single and am not married) I have a few idiot male friends I use mainly to get into parties and such (they are bad wingmans thats why I called them idiot, but them being rich is a good perk) I have also realised drinking never helps. It might make me comfident but being tipsy is a turn off for women (what do you think about it , i am planning on stopping drinking altogether and going sober) | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 03:49 PM |
| 8 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionIssue is , I never watch porn. But I do masturbate. Someone mentioned, issue is the death grip so it might linked with it not with porn | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionOfcourse i do, thats why I have sex, but during sex, i dont feel same pleasure going in and out as I do with masturbation | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 03:20 PM |
| 31 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionOhhh maybe its because of my masturbating habit ? I didnt think of it that way. Makes sense now Thank you | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 03:19 PM |
| 4 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionThere isnt a specific line, depends on what they are doing One time I was in a library, infront of this cute dutch girl. She was looking around and not focusing on her reading so I mocked her on it (we talked for one minute, I grabbed her number and after 2 days we were having ice cream together ) One time I met a girl who was watching TikTok in a train, made a comment about it One time in Macdonalds a girl gave me code to going inside bathroom (it's customer only) and I thanked her on it. It go… | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 03:17 PM |
| 7 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionNot into guys, girls actually make my d get up, boys never done it for me . If it was depression or meds it would make sense if I wasnt cumming after masturbating too (i cum in 2 minutes) and yes I masturbate to girls | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 03:12 PM |
| 8 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionThis seems like a helpful comment. But lets say even i find someone I am in love with, that doesnt guarantee I'll feel like cumming while having sex with them | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 03:09 PM |
| 6 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionSex I want. Her riding me, doggy style (i love those positions) but I just don't cum. And its not like I get less aroused during sex, its there but I never cum even after an hour When I masturbate, takes me like a minute or two | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 03:05 PM |
| 10 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionApproach, make them feel special, make them feel like you are special by telling them about your job and status, dont drink and approach (never works out for me although I have made out with alot of girls while drunk but those are mistaken makeouts, can happen to anybody) Try your best to talk to those who can speak english, I live in a city where I meet many Europeans (hardest to approach are Italians and French girls), they just cant speak english so you cant really build up an attraction ther… | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 03:02 PM |
| 6 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionIf a woman is making me aroused, I beat myself to them, how is that related to being attracted to men lol And nope, never been horned up by thought of guys before Issue is related to having sex, not who I am attacted to | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 02:47 PM |
| 1 | What to do if friend is a naturalYou have to try out with many wingmans just to find the right one I had one wingman who would never approach any woman and would try to hit on the same girl I am approaching (one time he finally got a number and dude wouldn't stop being happy about it, he is 25 btw) . Other times, I was hanging out with a gay American dude who was just tooo freaking handsome, so girls would hit on him instead of me ( I am south asian). So you just gotta find the right guy , someone who wants to go out but knows … | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 12:42 PM |
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