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DazzlingMolasses7/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:38 AM
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Yes! So glad to see a woman wake up and leave. Good luck to her. You know she’ll end up great and her H is going to be left in the dust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:24 PM
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Lol wow I’m not surprised though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:36 PM
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Nope. Do not send one. If you have good photos in your profile, it is a red flag if a man asks for more. No good will come of it and if you respond “they are in my profile” they get annoyed or upset you won’t oblige. You should never oblige to this kind of request. And you won’t get a good reaction. So best to drop these men immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:01 PM
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LOL this should be a thing. Give the same energy back to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:56 PM
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The only thing that works is being obviously rude. I remember at your age I was very shy about coming off as rude to men but I quickly learned. As soon as you see a man approach you, walk the opposite direction. Make it obvious you saw him but you’re choosing to walk away. If a man comes down and sits next to you, as soon as you realize what he’s doing, get up and go to a different bench while looking at him, so he knows you’re purposely avoiding him. It feels weird and so rude at first, but you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:28 PM
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Studies don’t count when they work against men but count if they work against women? I wish people here had a brain. Sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 07:57 PM
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Studies have shown over and over again standardized testing like SATs are biased towards white men. If white men aren’t doing well on them... well that’s on then. There are decades worth of studies. Funny how studies only work in one direction for you. Get a brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 07:49 PM
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Lol anytime men can’t explain something that goes in their favor the reason is bias. And tests are biased too. Studies over and over again show it’s biased towards white males.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 07:39 PM
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A lot of people I know have herpes (the older you get, the more likely you’ll have it) so at this point, it’s mostly the stigma. That being said, I would never encourage someone to be careless. You should always use protection and give thought to your sex life and sex partners. But I also don’t really agree with all the stigma against it. If most people have it and most don’t even get a reaction, continue to use precaution but then it’s not the end of the world. Be upfront, continue to vet, use …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:37 PM
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You can’t test for herpes accurately unless you have a sore. This is why the vast majority of adults have herpes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:25 PM
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Except it’s a recent development and formal education was always created for men and by men. Sounds like you’re just mad women are beating men despite this. Maybe instead of being bitter, get better? Women did. Men are perfectly capable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:21 PM
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Yes. The actually happily married people are never smug about being married. The reason being they are realistic about the pros and cons of marriage, which means they’re able to actually identify issues in their relationship to fix them. People who are smug about being married always have marriage problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:19 PM
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Yes that is why men are falling behind in school and career and sex... So many people on this forum never use actual facts and instead spew whatever untrue stuff they wish were true. I wish people here were a little more resourceful for better debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:12 PM
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Men still behave like animals. History is just proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:09 PM
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Lol look at history.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:04 PM
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Lmao wtf? We are now praising men for asking for BJs when can’t have sex? What is the alternative we are comparing to? Rape? Idgi. How is asking a positive unless rape is considered a neutral? The bar is on the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:09 PM
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Aw this is so sweet. Happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:04 PM
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You should definitely not be giving 700% or 100% or anything close to that. You don’t need to be a bitch or bend over backwards - there’s a lot in between and you need the wisdom to choose how to act in a way that is best for you long term. Have you read the handbook? Or Men Love Bitches? Many white men fetishize women of color, you will need to vet more carefully. Not having sex right away (see how they react when you aren’t ready) and time and paying attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:01 PM
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I suspect your daughter will be taken advantage of and used by men for a huge portion of her adult life until she wakes up and realizes she’s been fed a lie, if she’s lucky. And it will be mostly your fault. Both women and men learn from their parents while growing up how a romantic relationship should be. Considering you’re the exact type of partner you wish for her to avoid says she will suffer dearly in her young adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 07:16 AM
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Yup. All of OP is useless because she will learn the most observing how her father treats her mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 07:14 AM
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Your story is the one I see happen over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 07:12 AM
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Lmao dead
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 07:08 AM
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LOL this is a good rule to have. Will share with all my female friends, esp the young ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 07:03 AM
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Spot on. It’s because men think of women like objects and sex as a resource, and those with less want it evenly spread. LOL But men are humans so it doesn’t work in the other direction to them. Their delusion is so strong they aren’t even aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:59 AM
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Agree with all this, esp the key being do not give men what they want. This is the true way to test men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:57 AM
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If most people on here actually went outside and were capable of socializing with people they would realize all this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:55 AM
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Lol in conclusion being by yourself is better than being with a good portion of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:52 AM
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Lol whatever you wanna tell yourself. The women described don’t even register men like you on their radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:51 AM
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This so much. Men are SO offended if women don’t find them funny. Like dude... most men just aren’t funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:47 AM
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Men did this for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:46 AM
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No. I find most male humor not really funny. Like I get the joke but it’s more of an oh reaction. But men sure believe they’re funny. I find most women laugh at men’s jokes out of politeness. I do this a lot at work. I’ve met maybe 2 men at work that were actually funny sometimes and I’ve been working for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:45 AM
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Not all men have zero self control. I’ve noticed the more desirable a man is, the more self control with sex he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:35 AM
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Lmaoooo the male delusion is real Imagine thinking you’re the interesting one and everyone else is boring even though nobody wants to invite you to parties while everyone else is partying together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:32 AM
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Because men love to hate women? Look at history or anywhere on Reddit. Men find any excuse to hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:27 AM
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Yes. So many studies show men are much happier married and with much higher life quality than single while the opposite is true for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:27 AM
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Yeah I know and I’ve dated a lot of men like this. Every single insanely hot man I dated (professional models and famous actors) wasn’t completely against casual sex but they all wished to find a true romantic connection. That’s how I know almost every man on here is undesirable lol. Because only completely undesirable men think a bunch of casual sex is their biggest wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:23 AM
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They tell themselves whatever lies they can to make themselves feel better. A guy sitting alone at home building computer may be very happy to do so. But assuming he never gets invited out, he doesn’t have the option to go out anyway so we’ll never know what he truly feels. But definitely a strong possibility he feels bitter about it - we are social creatures and never getting invited means people don’t want to be near you if they choose. It’s very different to choose not to participate than to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:20 AM
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Anytime you come across a profile of a very attractive man and he has some bullshit profile like that, 99% sure he’s an incel catfish. Firstly men that look like that and are his age are rarely, if ever, using online dating. They don’t need to. Secondly, men who look like that are not generally bitter about women, so they wouldn’t make a profile like that. If they were actually cheating they would HIDE IT like a normal cheater would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:17 AM
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Lmao yes it’s women’s fault men are pathetic desperate perverts. It never fails to make me laugh how “logical” men are. They are the more irrational sex by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:15 AM
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It’s not like most men are interested in fluid dynamics either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:13 AM
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Do you have autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:12 AM
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Bc smoking weed and playing video games requires skill or makes a man interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:09 AM
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Lol this comment is so spot on. If you’re invited to parties you have the option to go or not. People who don’t get invited don’t even have the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:09 AM
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Yeah and men like to drink beer and watch sports and smoke weed? In conclusion most people are basic Women find men boring and men find women boring. But for some reason men lack perspective outside their own. I’m a woman and understand most men don’t find women funny or interesting. Very believable as most women don’t find most men funny or interesting either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:05 AM
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I’m getting catfish vibes by the right. Seems like one of those profiles bitter incels make with a models photos to prove that women like trash men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 05:54 AM
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They are both trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 05:46 AM
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Lmaooooo love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:59 PM
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Yes agreed. The point of this post was to show that there are ways for men who don’t make much can still put in effort. For some people, $500 is their savings for several months. It’s not reasonable to expect a $5k ring in that situation. If you’re someone who wants a $5k ring you need to date someone who is able to save up $5k.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:56 PM
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Agree with all of this. I think it’s very likely they’ve changed. Divorce with children involved is definitely the type of life event that can be categorized as rock bottom. It’s supposedly the most stressful life event for a human, on the same level of death in the family, according to studies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 06:30 AM
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Agree with you. It’s sad to me that men don’t want to be romantic. But unlike men, we aren’t entitled and that’s partially why fds pushes financial independence so much. I would rather a guy be upfront about not paying. We aren’t compatible, better not to waste time. A lot of men pay for first dates begrudgingly. No thanks. I want a man who enjoys being generous with me, not one who pretends for a couple dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 06:28 AM
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If you’re unhappy when you aren’t together it means something is seriously wrong. You can try talking to him again but I’m 99% sure it won’t work. I would send him a text saying it isn’t working out and block, as it seems he isn’t a NVM but a non violent LVM who has chosen to put not enough effort. I don’t suggest you leave it open for discussion because he will rope you back in like he has in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:30 AM
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Agree with all of this. I highly suspect I have always been fds before it was on Reddit because of how my father treats my mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:26 AM
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Congrats on kicking the trash out! Don’t let him ruin your music hall for you. Ignore him as much as you can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:23 AM
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At first they will. But I am pretty damn old and I’ve yet to see a man do a 180 for real unless it’s the 15 vs 30 years old. And that only happens because 15 is a child. I haven’t even seen it with therapy or life changes personally - I am only assuming therapy could turn a man around but I haven’t actually seen it happen so who knows how likely it is? I know a man currently in therapy for these kinds of issues and he’s young. He’s been in therapy for years (he was 26 when he started and he is n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:18 AM
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Agree with all of this. I find the people who get the most out of old have the expectation of meeting new people you might not normally meet. That and very strong, well defined boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:16 AM
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So proud of you for raising him right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:13 AM
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They don’t though. Not long term. Unless they’ve gone through major life changes or extensive therapy or if you’re comparing a 30 year old man to he was like at 15. After age 25 you can’t really excuse bad behavior anymore though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:12 AM
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If you so wish, send one sentence text “this isn’t working out bye” and then block. Important to block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:10 AM
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I think you know the answer to this question. If you’re so inclined, send him a text saying it’s over then block. I don’t think you need to do much else. He’s strung you along this entire time. Next time don’t date a man so much older than you especially at your age. Once you’re in your late 20s you can relax this a little but women under 25 are targets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:09 AM
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It’s fine to need to take a few hours or the rest of the day to think prior to discussing but he should be communicating this with you. I’m very hurt by your accusation and I need some time to gather my thoughts. Can we talk about this tomorrow? Is fine. What he’s doing is playing games. Don’t put up with it. Ghost and block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 12:59 AM
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Agreed. This man is a childish and not HVM at all. He’s LVM at best. OP dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 12:58 AM
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Congrats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 12:57 AM
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Lol this is pathetic. I’m more lol than disgusted although both feelings are at play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 12:54 AM
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Tell him when he stops looking at porn and stops masturbating you will throw out the dildo. He won’t agree lol then dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 12:51 AM
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Exactly. It’s fun to make jokes but pay attention to what they joke about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:46 PM
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If he was emotionally intelligent he wouldn’t be dating a 20 year old. It’s not that early 20s men play games and men his age don’t - he’s just an advanced player so of course he doesn’t play the same games as men your age. He is playing much worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:50 AM
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LOL you are a great writer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:48 AM
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It is weird. I’m never offended if men want to be single. Their choice and it affects me in no way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:08 AM
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Yes apparently 90% of tinder is male. Combine that with the fact women are much more selective in swiping and men get even thirstier online than they normally are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 08:56 PM
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LOL same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 03:40 AM
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You are correct with your assessment even if you haven’t had the experience yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 03:38 AM
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All excellent tips
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:57 AM
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Ouch. You were unkind to yourself. I’m glad you’ve decided to be more kind to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:46 AM
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Lmao I’m glad you left him there. He can use the $5 to get a cab.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:42 AM
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Same. Ghost and block. I don’t even bother telling them it’s porn. All they’re gonna do is get mad anyway and defend it so what’s the point? I don’t need to get involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:25 AM
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Idk why but this rubs me the wrong way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 09:06 PM
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True, I think men should shoot their shot as long as they’re being appropriate. So what if she’s out of your league? As long as you’re acting socially aware it’s not a big deal for anyone involved. I don’t mind rejecting men I’m not into if they’re appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:10 PM
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Same minus live in the woods (I’m more a city person but I love to visit the woods).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 08:19 AM
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I’m a woman and there’s nothing wrong with how you look. What does the rest of your profile say? FYI I wouldn’t feel too bad about getting rejected on old. 90% of the users are men. OLD also relies almost purely on looks and you can’t judge by much else. Those two facts combined means it’s going to be tough. I would look for women IRL. I think you’d do well if you have a charming personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:37 AM
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Is this assuming they treat me as a person instead of a sex object? Then I would be very happy. Or will they treat me like how I see them treat ugly women? Many men are rude to ugly women for no good reason, many times she’s just minding her own business. I would be upset by that but wouldn’t really change my behavior much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:30 AM
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Yes. I’ve always expected that and it’s almost always happened. There have been a few times in my life the man didn’t offer to pay. I paid for myself and ghosted him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:23 AM
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This is guaranteed to not get you any hook ups. If you want an easier time go to a popular bar on a weekend night.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:15 AM
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Honestly don’t get one. Your jaw looks good now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:14 AM
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This is why any woman looking to date men, make sure he pays every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:11 AM
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I’ve been in love twice and it didn’t change my beliefs. I was fds before fds was a sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:04 AM
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Same. But I did go to a top school so I’m sure there’s a bias there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:41 AM
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Lol you’re so angry this is the content I’m here for
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:37 AM
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No. Don’t care. Would find it suspicious if he claimed to have no phone. Might be a little surprised if he still had a flip phone but don’t really have much opinion beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:36 AM
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A lot of countries in the world are worse than the US. Many of them promote rape. At least American men say they are against rape. They just don’t care much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:26 AM
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I’m not interested in dating or getting with men right now and haven’t for a long time. I’m quite a bit older than the average poster here and I’ve been around the block a few times. But I guess never say never, maybe tomorrow I’ll be interested in romance again. Lots of weird assumptions about me. I don’t really care if a man is into me or not unless I’m into him. So yeah it isn’t a compliment, men who are into me are everywhere and they’re mostly not someone I’m interested in. I am so used to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:24 AM
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Lots of men care about murder and homelessness because it could happen to them. Yes men get raped but it’s mostly a female problem. And I explained my lack of feelings on male rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:12 AM
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Lol how is every man who approaches me a potential mate? They don’t register as a potential anything. For me it goes in one ear and out the other. A man approached me today and I forgot what he looked like within a minute. As for potential mates I judge on looks but dating would be a lot easier if I judged solely on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:10 AM
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Yeah and is everyone getting murdered? No. Most people will never be murdered. Not a good comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:08 AM
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Because murder could happen to men too, it’s not a mostly female problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:04 AM
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Not really. We all know how rape is treated here in America. It’s not all bad but it’s definitely not good (for women). It has little to no effect on most men, which is why they don’t have much feeling about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:57 AM
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This is cute. I hope you meet someone that tickles your fancy If this is a serious post. Good luck out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:53 AM
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TY for the laughs. But I can see youre very upset now. I’ll stop poking you. Until next time!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:49 AM
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In an ideal world they would be against it. Most men are more I don’t wanna do that but if it happens it happens and it’s not a big deal. But I’m not exactly crying about it as I never expected men to care so I guess I lean more towards that’s just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:48 AM
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Many men develop feelings for a female friend but how the man reacts is what differentiates them. And yes a certain type of man is always the kind to act like that. Usually someone who doesn’t really get with women/kind of creepy/desperate/unattractive/etc. I’m sure there are exceptions. I don’t disagree with you in terms of men finding other things in their life and placing less importance on me (they never should have placed it on me to begin with). Because a lot of young men aren’t well adjus…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:43 AM
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Lol why you so mad? Must have struck a nerve. Hehehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:37 AM
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As a woman if I had to be born again I would choose being a man. Everything is so easy, men play the game of life on tutorial mode
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:33 AM
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Interesting reaction. If anything this shows me men cannot handle being judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:31 AM
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It means if you ask them if they’re ok with rape they’ll say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:26 AM
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Idk how many men harass women. But every women has been harassed multiple times throughout her life. So whatever that number is it’s too many.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:25 AM
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If you had used car salesmen constantly approaching you trying to sell you a pos junker at a high price, wouldn’t you think you’d rather not be approached? Assume you walk everywhere so you have no use for a car, let alone a pos. Same thing. Maybe if they were offering a Bentley I might consider but otherwise don’t bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:23 AM
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Yeah and? Women are judged for it too. The pickier you are the more material people have to judge. This is common sense Either care what other people think and don’t be picky (not recommended) or have the standards you want and give no mind to opinions of people who have no involvement in your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:22 AM
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Nobody said guys can’t be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:19 AM
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It’s pretty obvious most men hate women. Why else are they so mean to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:17 AM
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Well if men didn’t harass women we wouldn’t need metoo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:07 AM
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Nope. Just don’t care what men want. I’m interested in what I want, which is for men I’m not into to leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:06 AM
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Men do the same thing? Use the same lame insults every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:04 AM
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I mean water is wet? Did we really ever expect men, the rapists, to save us from the very thing they want to do to us?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:03 AM
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She’s wrong but I don’t feel that much about it. I wouldn’t rape a man... good enough Most men don’t agree with rape in theory either but don’t feel bad. Same energy back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:00 AM
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I mean yes everyone remotely socially normal knows that. But I thought the point here was ridiculous debate? I doubt the majority of people here actually believe all the stuff they say happens irl. But I only come on here every once in a while to poke at it because it’s fun. So maybe I’m wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:59 AM
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Lmao. Im just not interested in unattractive men. It’s not that deep. Them approaching me means I have to take the time and effort to reject them politely. If I could choose I would rather not have to deal with any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:51 AM
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This happened a lot to me throughout my 20s. Now I look back and I realize every single one of those guys was a pos in some way. But what is the alternative? If a guy is that type of guy, I would rather he dip out on the friendship ASAP (earlier is better, sounded like this thing with her only lasted somewhere from weeks to a couple months) instead of hanging around and growing resentful for years. But only a certain kind of guy does that. Men who are more normal and well adjusted don’t really p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:50 AM
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A huge portion of those women are abused and manipulated. Biggest reason why I’m against it. Promotes unhealthy and harmful towards women ideas about sex. No thanks. A lot of men can’t seem to practice self control. In other words I would be fine with porn if it was produced in a way that wasn’t exploitive towards both men and women (women more so), had healthier content, and wasn’t everywhere or if men practiced self control. I don’t have problem with most dirty magazines and such or comics (un…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:43 AM
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This is just word salad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:38 AM
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Why don’t men stop raping women? The list of questions could go on...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:33 AM
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I don’t expect men to be mind readers. Many approach me and I’m not interested. I don’t want it but I can still be civil and polite about it. I never expected men to read my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:32 AM
2

I don’t really care about dating anymore. I’m old. Been there done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:31 AM
-4

If I’m not interested in the guy I don’t want him approaching me. In other news water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 01:33 AM
1

Get outta here with your romantic optimism! No shit like that needed in place like that here 🤪🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 01:32 AM
18

I prefer it this way. I don’t want like 99% of men even looking at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 01:30 AM
-10

Then why don’t men stop harassing women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 01:29 AM
80

I find it funny when men think this is a threat. No shit, I’m choosing single over you. In other news water is wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 01:17 AM
1

Money and time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 01:10 AM
1

I think this is fair if you also think a woman leading on a man and using him for money (but tricking him) is fair too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 01:08 AM
1

Lol this is so sad but funny. Thanks for the laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 01:05 AM
1

Lol men are the ones known for sex tourism. Projection at its hardest
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 01:04 AM
1

Lol and why can’t men wash their damn face?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 01:00 AM
2

Agree with this. The problem is a lot of men get violent when this happens. Women tend to internalize while men externalize
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:56 AM
1

It is already? I’m confused. Women are finally catching up with fds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:53 AM
0

I think that’s fair for men. I have no issue with men having any kinds of standards they want, as long as they still treat women who don’t meet them as people (not necessary to treat them as a romantic option). I wouldn’t mind incels if they didn’t advocate for violence against women. Complain that nobody meets your standards and move onto the next. The issue I have is how so many men get mad at women having standards (ridiculous or not) when men are allowed to. Let people have the standards the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:50 AM
2

That last paragraph rarely happens. If anything, I always see the opposite. In the end it’s usually better to date someone around your level.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:48 AM
1

Yes. And I’m old. That attitude has always helped me. Men can be terrible and it’s not dependent on their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:47 AM
1

I’ve waited more than 6 months for many guys. Turned out fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:46 AM
2

Lol why do men always think women have to stay the same forever (but then blame women for not choosing better) yet men are allowed to change? If something isn’t working for a person they should be able to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:45 AM
3

Men are less likely to get STDs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:44 AM
2

You do realize married men live longer than single men. And report higher levels of health and happiness and satisfaction
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:40 AM
1

Because in the end nobody truly likes someone desperate, man or woman. Desperation tends to come out as pick me behaviors for women and “nice guy” behaviors for men. Women and men are socialized different. Women tend to think if I bend over backwards and take his shit he will love me. Men think if I just keep pushing and forcing she will have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:38 AM
1

Women do 2-3 hours more per week on average when counting work both in and out of the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:37 AM
1

Yeah and many men much better than you are willing to be in her rotation. She dumped a billionaire prince recently. Like it doesn’t matter if I wouldn’t wanna be in Leonardo DiCaprio’s rotation, because plenty of women (much more attractive than I) will be. So what? I’m not interested in him and he isn’t interested in me. Neither of us care. He doesn’t even know I exist. And I barely know what he looks like except I remember he’s ugly. Men are so weird. They literally think the world revolves ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:33 AM
1

Lol yup. I love coming in here once in a while and poking the bee hive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:31 AM
1

I read success stories there pretty often. But I imagine your definition of “success” is different than mine. Every time I read about a woman leaving an abusive relationship I consider it a huge success. Every time a woman posts about how she stood up for herself that’s a success. Every time a woman goes on a good date it’s a success. Every time a woman is in a good relationship with a HVM it’s a success. Every time a woman posts her latest career or passion accomplishment it’s a success.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:27 AM
1

Yeah and HV men don’t either? Again I don’t get it. HV is HV. Both women and men are capable of being HV if they choose. And both can choose not too. I don’t understand the debate here. You’re trying to separate it between the sexes but there isn’t much difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:25 AM
1

I would say around 30 Most men get fat and are balding by then. And their bad skincare and grooming start to catch up to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:21 AM
1

Ok and HV women don’t go for it either. That’s why I said do what you want and face the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:21 AM
1

Fds never claimed to be moral. They actually said they are amoral and about a woman’s benefit. Again, don’t see the issue. Men date for their benefit first. Women can do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:18 AM
1

Yeah and men do this too? I dont see the issue. If you aren’t exclusive you can fuck who you want and deal with the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:17 AM
1

I’ve been using fds most of my adult life. Its been decades. If it didn’t work I would have stopped a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:15 AM
1

I can always tell the majority of men here don’t have good careers because they go on and on about how it’s unattractive when women have good careers. Lol it’s so funny because they aren’t fooling anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:10 AM
1

So men who were suckers before should always be suckers? Lol if something isn’t working for a woman she should be allowed to change it, just like any man would.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:06 AM
2

Yeah sure it happens. But people generally end up marrying people at similar class levels for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:04 AM
0

No they are about female betterment as a whole (whether or not you agree with their strategy and if it’s better for women overall is opinion). Avoiding BDSM is one of the strategies to make sure that the woman is avoiding negatives that might make her worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 11:59 PM
5

That’s literally what they say to do And even when you think you’ve got someone HV they still recommend more vetting and waiting it out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 11:49 PM
1

If you actually read studies you’d learn that men actually are better off financially after a divorce than women are. There’s a much larger negative financial impact on divorced women overall. Yet somehow divorced women are more happy that most married women, according to studies, while the opposite for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 11:48 PM
1

Yeah and the same works in reverse for men. Some men leech off women and some women leech off men. What is the issue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 11:47 PM
0

I don’t see what’s wrong with this. So women want what’s best for them? Men have been doing this forever with women. People want what’s best for themselves when it comes to an optional personal relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 11:46 PM
4

Hope is a powerful drug
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 11:42 PM
12

LOL I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:49 PM
16

This is so gross. If it’s that important to him, he should communicate with her, aka the only person who could clearly answer his question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:49 PM
20

Yeah I forgot to mention the naps! And yoga. I don’t know any who do meditation but I’m not surprised. When your job is to look good, doing those things are their “work” items. And yes men are dumb as hell and hold women to an impossible standard. Women who look like some of my friends, even with top genetics and relatively young age (most under 40), they still have to do all that AND get photoshop too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:34 AM
9

Mostly healthy foods. A variety. A lot of vegetables. Not too much meat and it’s usually fish or chicken. Usually do an hour of cardio and an hour of resistance training. Also yoga and other stretching workouts. Models don’t have 9-5 jobs like the rest of us. They spend a lot of their day on the move on their feet (most of them live in major cities) so they burn way more calories than an office worker. And they have a lot more time to spend on healthy and beauty because those are their work hour…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:16 AM
25

I’m sure there are exceptions. Also what kind of models? Lots of women claim their are models (Instagram) but I’m talking about women who do ads for Clinique or nars or do runway for Stella McCartney’s show for fashion week. Also depends on age. A 20 year old is going to bounce back pretty quickly if she doesn’t over do it. In my early 20s I could drink moderately (4-5 drinks per week) and it didn’t really show up physically on me and I noticed almost no Bad effects. Most of the models I know ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:13 AM
11

The first thing you did wrong was entertaining the idea of dating a 30 year old. Stick to men under 25.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:08 AM
39

This made me wanna puke because it’s so pathetic and gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:53 AM
13

Unfortunately the majority of men are like this about women’s looks and weight. I would say men who are more realistic and accepting of a woman as a whole person are the minority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:27 AM
49

Yes this. I have a lot of professional models as friends and although they have top genetics, they still put in way more effort into their looks than the average woman. Little to no drinking Little to no drugs No smoking Most meals are healthy and prepared at home, rarely go out to eat Sunscreen daily Advanced skincare routine Advanced hair care and nail care routine Regular massage Hair treatments Plastic surgery treatments Facials Nail spa Hair removal almost everywhere Full body exfoliation a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:22 AM
9

Lol this is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:25 PM
10

Lmaoooo this is worse than what a 5 year old would make. Men are... wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:24 PM
52

That sub is mostly full of delusional people who probably can’t function in real life. I wouldn’t give them much real estate in my mind if I were you. It’s fun to argue on there once in a while, like poking a beehive, but overall it’s useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 07:22 PM
34

Dump her like the trash she is. She can argue with your beliefs for her (it’s fair but she’s being dumb) but a friend would never use past trauma against you. We don’t accept that from men, we shouldn’t accept it from women either even if we disagree on something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:11 PM
6

I wouldn’t bother. Act as if you never sent it. If he responds, I wouldn’t continue unless you’re only interested in a quick hook up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:01 PM
4

No worries! I have a few friends like this and a couple of them needed a kick in the pants from some caring honest female friends to stop pickme behavior and lowering themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:21 PM
27

Well what do you believe a HVM is? Because a lot of women here believe it is a tall good looking man who is rich. To me, those are attractive qualities but have nothing to do with high value or low value. If you’re expecting a hot tall supermodel with tons of money to approach you; you will be disappointed. If you’re looking for a man with integrity, honesty, confidence, etc then you will need to vet men like any other woman would. Also there are ways to attract men to you, glances as hints, str…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:46 PM
66

You act the same in terms of not being desperate as any hot woman would. The only difference is your strategy of attracting men might be different. Obviously would be easier to meet a man through a common interest (volunteering group, soccer team or whatever) versus a bar. You adjust for that. Put yourself out there to be approached and meet men. Doesn’t mean you approach them. Do not fall into the trap of “fat” or “ugly” women must have low self worth and be willing to accept anything. I’ve see…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:26 PM
32

Pls read the handbook. To answer your question, no, fds doesn’t ever recommend asking the man out first. Or chasing men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:20 PM
95

He’s expecting you to say something like Aw what do you prefer instead? Looooooool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:39 AM
266

Men are weird. Not ready for charcuterie but ready for a woman to be free Ubereats for sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:36 AM
20

LOL THIS CRACKED ME UP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:09 AM
4

This is the content I’m here for. Women everywhere dumping their pos male partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 01:37 AM
8

Large amounts of cash is my love language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 01:14 AM
8

So true! Another part of the narrative of women aren’t full humans like men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 01:13 AM
4

Same! I did what you did when I was in my 20s. Just a giant waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:27 AM
95

I have decades of experience dating men. 100% of the time (not even 99%) if the man is interested in you, he’ll want to lock you down fast. He will not wait around in limbo. He will initiate and push (not forcefully) for a committed relationship with you. Most of them would hint at it within the first month (they knew they wanted to get me committed right away but could tell I wasn’t ready) and would be very explicit about it by the second or third month (many earlier than that) If a man isn’t d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:24 AM
6

Not a red flag at his age. Better he doesn’t drag it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:21 AM
26

Same but I don’t have a child. My aunt got offers like this in often (she was in her 30s with young child). She’s now 80 and married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:18 AM
8

Lol shocking that someone sexist is also racist. If it was a Venn diagram it would be one circle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:36 AM
8

Some men are literally so stupid they cannot understand other people don’t have the same dumb brain they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:36 AM
167

Remember he is trying to pull the oldest trick in the book on you. Don’t let him fool you twice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:35 AM
31

Kick him out. Dump and block. This man is dragging you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:56 AM
10

Haha this made me laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:51 AM
126

Because unlike women, men benefit from being in a relationship with a woman even if she’s not for him. Better to have one than none at al.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:47 AM
10

I think it’s one of those “give em an inch and they’ll take it a mile” which sums up how men mostly behave about everything when it comes to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:51 PM
22

That’s what I thought at first But history shows that violent and sexual behavior escalates. Reports already show men are super violent with their dolls. It’s only a matter of time before they’re more encouraged to try it on women. Look at porn. Having more porn and more violence didn’t somehow curb men and have them leave us alone. It made them worse towards us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:36 PM
16

He’s LV or NV. They don’t deserve “in person” break ups. He’s clearly controlling and if anything she’s putting herself at risk by trying for an in person break up. She can call him if she wants but it’s best to limit interaction with these kinds of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:02 PM
24

Even if he gave her recognition that isn’t enough. She’s entitled to a portion of the company or a wage, they can negotiate amongst themselves. And it should be in writing. She is setting herself up to be screwed over. And the kind of guy who can’t even give her credit which costs him nothing is definitely the same guy who will leave her if he becomes successful for a younger woman. Don’t invest in men without a return ladies. Men would never do the same for us, let’s not screen ourselves over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 07:49 PM
20

That is why I like hanging out here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 07:23 PM
31

Agreed. OP pls call the police but I doubt it will do much. There isn’t much else you can do though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 07:22 PM
86

This was scary to watch and she’s so deep in pickme hell who knows if she’ll ever get out. I was glad to see a few men pointing out how messed up this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:53 PM
25

Don’t even bother doing an official break up. Say K and block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:40 PM
115

Holy shit. This woman is so fucked if she isn’t careful and plays her cards right. I read through some of the comments. He is already abusing the daughter. His son won’t trust him. She would be an asshole, not just a pickmeisha, if she didn’t leave him. She should be protecting her kids. It’s not about just her anymore. I hope she does the right thing and she does it well. She should be documenting things, taking daughter to doctor to start records, photos and texting them to have a second back …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 06:47 AM
35

He isn’t interested. If he was he would be contacting you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:52 PM
18

If he isn’t into you, move on. Men don’t get better with more time with them, so this should be the best time. If he isn’t into you now, he never will be. Don’t feel bad about attracting men like this. Think of it as noticing it earlier and not wasting time. Better to not have LV distractions so you have room in your life to meet a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:49 AM
6

They shouldn’t be enabled. A man is capable of being nice about it but not enabling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:44 AM
10

Def should not be gaming everyday. No successful man is gaming everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:59 PM
33

Run. You do not want to be his first rebound if he’s telling the truth. And if he’s lying...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:28 AM
21

Actually America has more fat men. 70% of American male adults are ow or obese while 60% of women are. So he can’t even get his facts straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:35 AM
39

It’s ok. It will come. You need to gain self esteem to attract those men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 10:20 PM
38

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:55 AM
3

Lmao only a man could get this butt hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:30 AM
2

Same. I don’t eat as restricted as you but if men weren’t around, I would eat mostly healthily but wouldn’t restrict treats and quantities as much as I do now. I don’t really care about attracting a partner and men having dating preferences. The problem is you get treated like shit as an OW women in everyday life. I find it much harder to be treated by society like shit than to restrict my diet. OW men get some negativity with dating but can live the rest of their lives relatively the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 08:21 PM
1

Sorry for your loss. This man is psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:51 PM
6

Controlling and condescending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:50 PM
3

I love doing this too. Ignoring men completely when they expect a reaction. I act as if they are air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:49 PM
6

All the mainstream Reddit subs are like that. Reddit has some of the worst men I’ve ever known of so ignore it. They’re almost all like that here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:43 PM
56

They’ve been brainwashed. Back in the day, women needed men to marry because it was the only way they were allowed to survive. Women weren’t allowed to have bank accounts or credit cards or etc. wasn’t that long ago, only a few decades. Men received all the benefits from women you are familiar with today (emotional support, childcare, housework, cooking, sex, etc). Yes I realize women get sex too but it is so easy to get I don’t think it works the other way around. What about today? Women levele…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 12:09 AM
17

This makes me sad. Because I do see a lot of sweet boys prior to puberty. But then there are very few sweet men? So something happens between childhood and puberty. For women, lots of sweet girls and sweet women. Idk what happened with men. This is how I know it’s nurture, not nature, that makes men shitty. I don’t doubt they have certain natural tendencies but they could be managed properly. They aren’t though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:53 PM
9

Same. I don’t think it works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:32 PM
9

Lmaoooo onion ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:10 PM
2

Yeah a red flag would be if he kept trying without any strong or obvious signal from me. I think once you reject a man, if you’re interested, you have to be the one to reach out again. HVM will not continue pushing after a rejection. I am now single we didn’t work out for other reasons but there are good guys like this out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:09 PM
2

Yes! There is a way to be polite yet direct and unapologetic. All those are perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:58 AM
7

No is a complete sentence. Many women forget this and feel they need to justify their no with legitimate excuses (oh I can’t because I have a bf, I have to do this thing, etc.) or give a “way out” to the man (no I’m not into that but I could be into it if x, which is what you’re currently doing). No. Stop doing this. Men say no freely. We can too. Next time a man asks you to come over, say no thanks. That’s it. Nothing else is needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:19 AM
7

Why would you need to say this? If you need to say it he’s LVM. Stating your unique preferences (I am vegetarian, I like action movies, etc.) is fine. Stating basic things necessary for dating or relationship means you’re in LV territory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:17 AM
11

Yes. Low value means he adds little to your life, but it is not worth it because male partners usually require insane amounts of work from the woman. NVM means he actively takes away from your life. Plus the work you put in. It’s like a parasite or curse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:14 AM
22

Lmao you did the right thing. Or “I need you to Venmo me money”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:09 AM
6

Shouldn’t matter what your friends or his friends think. Wait as long as until you feel it’s right. If he gives you any kind of shit for it, dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:08 AM
3

Yup. He should be paying if he makes 2x even if she asks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:12 AM
2

He should pay. You can thank him by treating him to a nice dinner during the vacation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:11 AM
23

Not necessarily. I said no to a guy I was interested in, but he had a child so I was hesitant. He respectfully took my rejection right away and continued to act the same towards me. I wasn’t trying to test him on purpose, but if he reacted badly I would have been instantly turned off. A few months later, I changed my mind after thinking about things, and I very strongly hinted to him I was interested (when I say strongly hint it was just short of saying “I’m into you”). We went on a date shortly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 10:56 PM
162

Wow so glad to see these young women wise up at much younger ages than I did. Very encouraging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:27 PM
8

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:24 AM
62

LOL do men actually think we are supposed to appreciate a squeeze on the arm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 04:33 AM
6

Lol girl I didn’t have to even read the entire thing RUN and no they cannot change ESP at that age. Even if they could... why would you wanna put in that work anyway? You’re not his mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 04:31 AM
107

You did what you could. She dug her own grave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 04:29 AM
7

Great post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:00 AM
8

Gross. Dump. Don’t even bother doing in an person break up. Do you have all your things from his place? If not go get them. Then send him a text, saying we are over, and then block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 11:54 PM
4

Lol 100
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 11:51 PM
28

Lmao like they think ugly women deserve love? Men are ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 11:48 PM
30

LMAO the men are so salty in that thread
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 11:31 PM
41

Trying to put her down so he can manipulate her into thinking it’s her fault he “doesn’t know.” And he’s trying to make her doubt herself. OP, Good for you for leaving. Staying with a man like that is toxic. Even a woman with the strongest self esteem will eventually be worn down over time if she stays with someone like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 10:20 AM
4

Yes this! I had a bf give me a notebook I was looking at. Cost less than $20 but it was so cute because it means he was paying attention and remembered. He cared and actually did an action to show effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:34 AM
3

I’m so happy for you!! Very admirable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:13 AM
48

Wow I’m so glad you are no longer with him. Sounds terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 01:13 AM
58

Lmao men are delusional. If they’re grade C they think they are A If they’re grade F they think they are C
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 12:03 AM
1

I think that poster is black.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 06:53 PM
5

I disagree. I’m child free but I see many people happy with children. The key is to pick the right man to have children with. All the happy ones have good partners. The miserable ones have shit or LV partners. I do agree that settling down and having kids with most men is a terrible decision for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 06:48 PM
27

This woman. I can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 06:17 PM
7

Lmao stay away from younger women. Where the hell did you get that from?
/r/askFDS01/05/20 01:22 AM
2

A couple posters have already tried and given you multiple solutions and you just give more of the same excuses.
/r/askFDS01/05/20 12:36 AM
5

Remember to be confident in your values and boundaries. People will always be trying to push you down. You realize he only called you that because he doesn’t want to be held to the same standard right? Well too bad for him. He can be “right” in his mind but he’s going to lose out on a lot of women.
/r/askFDS01/05/20 12:32 AM
4

Totally agree. It is a very strange attitude and I do feel sorry for them. But I don’t feel THAT sorry because we all know how most men react when in this place - they lash out in anger and violence towards the woman. And applies to women as well. Life just sucks sometimes and you don’t get everything you want... either move onto the next thing or do what it takes to get it. I think you’re onto something about never facing adversity.
/r/askFDS01/05/20 12:28 AM
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Yes you should be wary of men who use it. In terms of correcting them or standing up, use your best judgement. On the one hand, men take other men more seriously than women when things are called out. The only way for things to change is for people to get called out. On the other hand, if your boss jokes about simps you might not want to call him out in the same way you would with your friends at the bar.
/r/askFDS01/05/20 12:24 AM
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I agree with that last paragraph. This is the problem with most men. HVM are made, not born. Just like anything else worth half a damn in this world, it’s constant effort to obtain and maintain self value. Instead all these men wanna blame women for having too high standards. Viable solutions: move onto other women without these standards (and there are plenty of women, since we aren’t a monolith) or level up to the standard. Instead they give more excuses. Idk what to tell these men anymore. I …
/r/askFDS01/05/20 12:13 AM
3

After exchanging more comments with him I see where his head is at. He thinks he deserves a “top tier” woman in terms of shallow characteristics only (looks, money, formal education) yet has none of those things and thinks he’s struggling in the dating world. Lol ok then. Maybe if he gave a damn about other characteristics in women (who are people, doesn’t seem like he knows this), women might give a damn about his personality. The reason he claims personality isn’t enough to attract women is be…
/r/askFDS01/05/20 12:07 AM
2

Lmao this is rich. So top tier women with good backgrounds and are hot and successful aren’t into you because you’re none of those things... so sad. And then women who are ambitious and educated are boring? And you’re 30 without any part of your adulthood established yet? We all have different paths, which is fine, but your attitude is ridiculous. Delusional.
/r/askFDS01/05/20 12:06 AM
5

Just because you grew up the same doesn’t mean you’re the same now. Those people aren’t the same as you. Move onto other people.
/r/askFDS01/05/20 12:04 AM
25

Can you do small claims court? Try to get him to admit via text he owes you money. Gather any documentation you can for your case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 11:59 PM
33

Lmao crazy how delusional men are. He literally does the same thing as her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 11:53 PM
3

... so what is a quality woman to you? Because all you’ve mentioned is looks and money. If you’re judging women on looks and money, don’t be surprised when they do the same back. If you want a woman who is ambitious, you need to be ambitious or bring something to the table an ambitious woman would want. I’ve done well in my career; my match would be someone who has also done well in his choice of career or someone who is very supportive of mine (with actual action; not just words). Same with any…
/r/askFDS30/04/20 11:49 PM
1

From what I’ve seen a lot of it is based on dumb luck. But here are some tips: High quality flattering but accurate photos. Ones that clearly show what you look like but don’t put you in revealing clothing or position or party girl type backgrounds. Some of you doing some hobbies you like. If you have a pet, you can include a pet in a photo of you two together. Profile wise: most men don’t read them so it’s an auto filter. The men who read it will respond to what you put in it. What kind of man …
/r/askFDS30/04/20 11:43 PM
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Yup. The reason why I don’t discuss certain topics with men is because I don’t care about their opinions (didn’t ask and honestly wouldn’t value the majority of male opinions on politics as they seem to have no idea what minorities go through and don’t care either) and they steamroll convos with women. This is the second man in here who claims women are too vapid for such things. Ok then. Maybe we just don’t wanna talk to you.
/r/askFDS30/04/20 11:33 PM
2

If that were true than why is your entire response about looks and money?
/r/askFDS30/04/20 11:21 PM
3

No. If you only want friends, do meet up or similar. They say friends first because they want to see if you’re compatible on a level that doesn’t include sex. And yes many women are open to truly being friends if things don’t work it but none of them want a man to string them along on purpose.
/r/askFDS30/04/20 10:26 PM
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There isn’t enough information in this post to really help you. Where are you meeting these women? What kinds of convo and face to face time are you having? Do you date multiple women at once? Are you having sex? Etc.
/r/askFDS30/04/20 10:25 PM
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Yeah nothing wrong with that but men acting like every woman is expecting impossible from them. Most women do not have ridiculous standards and if anything, their standards are insanely low. I only know one woman who actively requires a man to make 6 figures when she knows she never will. Every other woman I know who wants this makes 6 figures herself and every single one of them is still fine with dating a man who makes less than they do (just has to be close so there isn’t a huge gap in lifest…
/r/askFDS30/04/20 10:21 PM
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If I had to sum up what fds is about in terms of judging men it would be Does he give a shit? Because if he cares he will put in effort via action. The end. Effort can come in all types of forms. A man who makes $100k and takes me to the restaurant around the corner to buy me a $50 meal is not high effort by that in itself. Nothing wrong with that but I wouldn’t assume high effort for that alone. A man who lives at home because he’s still in school and puts together a cute picnic with food he kn…
/r/askFDS30/04/20 10:16 PM
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Agreed. Men like to take any standard women have and make it so exaggerated to make us seem unreasonable. Fds: pay for dates and have a decent career to be able to take care of yourself, aka don’t be a drain to society, you should be doing that anyway even if you’re single Men: so you want me to make 6 figures? Women are impossible
/r/askFDS30/04/20 10:10 PM
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This entire thing sounds bitter and similar to the what is repeated allover Reddit: 1. Women only will go for super hot men and I can’t compete and 2. Women only go for super rich men (double their current salary and they already have high ones) so I can’t compete. Both completely untrue if you look at actual real life couples. Almost all my female friends make well into the 6 figures and none of them require a man to make the same as she does. And it’s a well known fact that most couples usuall…
/r/askFDS30/04/20 09:59 PM
4

It’s easy to throw money at dates if you have money. The point of paying for dates is to display effort. You can display effort in other ways if you don’t have much money. Some of the sweetest most romantic dates I’ve been on didn’t include much money. You can plan a nice picnic with homemade food. You can find a free or cheap event that revolves around you and the girl’s common interests. These things still cost money but are relatively cheap compared to going out for a nice dinner and drinks. …
/r/askFDS30/04/20 09:46 PM
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I don’t think it’s a dealbreaker at that age. Living on your own is expensive and too difficult for most young people in America now especially with student loans. But it depends on what you’re doing. If you’re still in school or starting your first career related job or working to save up money for school or similar, I understand. You should also be helping around the house (cooking, doing errands, cleaning, chores, etc.) and paying for your own personal items (car insurance, etc). Doing all th…
/r/askFDS30/04/20 09:43 PM
2

Will you not have any job or career at all until your 30s? People have different expectations for different age groups. I wouldn’t expect a 25 year old, man or woman, to have an established career. I would expect they’re starting out their career or in school or similar.
/r/askFDS30/04/20 08:47 PM
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Good idea. I know high school is a rough time. Try to make new like minded friends but don’t feel if you aren’t able to find any, it’ll be this way forever. Also I think it’s important to define in your mind what relationship you have with your current friends. A lot of acquaintances I have are LV but they’re not part of my inner circle so I’m fine with that. It’s impossible to eliminate all LV people from your life. You can choose who to be close to though.
/r/askFDS30/04/20 08:45 PM
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Yes this. I loved cooking for some of my partners because I am similar to the OP. It’s fun to share with someone special to you. OP keep doing what you’re doing.
/r/askFDS30/04/20 03:48 PM
13

Intimacy can also be found through all types of relationships, not just romantic. Keep your standards high!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:11 AM
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I’ve been going on almost 3 years now of purposely being single. No online apps, rejected every date proposal, etc. I didn’t plan for it to go this long. After ending a long term relationship, I needed a break, maybe several months. But I kept going because I realized how easy and nice it was. I thought I would get lonely and/or miss sex. Turns out, it’s sometimes more lonely to be in a relationship. And after the first few months... I didn’t really care about sex much. I know that if I want sex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:58 AM
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I’m asian not fob. If I date someone outside my race (esp if white) I do way more vetting than normal. I dig into their dating history with my own investigation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:13 AM
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I lived in the lands of hot men (nyc, LA) so it might have to do with that. I could see if you were the only hot guy for miles it could get to your head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:24 AM
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Yeah if a man doesn’t bring it up within 6 months of exclusive dating (doesn’t have to be let’s get married right now but it has to be some talk), he’s not interested. In fact, I would say the 6 month lamely is too long and 3 months is more appropriate. But I don’t have experience with every man out there. I always knew within the first few weeks if a man was serious about me or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:16 AM
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And men want to argue that women would be “just as bad.” On the internet nobody suffers consequences, men or women. And let’s see how men act versus women... pretty damn obvious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:51 AM
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Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:47 AM
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At this point I’ve realized men’s brains are so far gone I don’t bother trying to figure out why. I observe them for what they are and act appropriately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:46 AM
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LOL me how I feel about most men Sometimes I wanna say NO and nothing else when I see a man about to talk to me. But I’m scared they’ll hurt me so I can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:11 PM
10

Negative value trash. Doesn’t take responsibility for his child and getting a woman pregnant and paints her as crazy. On top of that, is trying to abandon child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:04 PM
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He wasn’t tricked. A man can trick a woman into not wearing a condom but a woman can’t do that to a man. Physically impossible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:03 PM
3

Spot on. I never dated a man like this but I watched many friends who did. 99% true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:59 PM
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Yes I think the fact you’re asking means some red flags are being picked up subconsciously. I think 25/33 can work for some people but they are the exception. I could see it working for a woman who has already been on her own, established some beginnings of a career (meaning she didn’t go to college or finished college early), etc. and the man would be a little more “behind” as in he went to grad school and has also been working for a similar amount of time. But I agree that the “danger” zone is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:54 PM
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If you’re concerned about losing out on someone successful, compare him to other men his age. Do not compare to yourself or other women. If he is white, compare to another white man. Men, esp white, have huge advantages in their career paths without deserving it. So if anything your standards should be even higher for them. I dated a man in his late 20s when I was in my early 20s. He seemed very successful to me because he made so much more than any of my peers. Now I’m much older and I look bac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:47 PM
2

Trust me. One day you will be over 30 and look back at him with disgust and you’ll be happy you didn’t. And if he didn’t turn out to be disgusting (small chance), you will feel nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:44 PM
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I’ve had exes do all those things (the first one) and I took some of them back after many months of a break up. They all reverted back. I would say there are prob exceptions but more like you broke up in high school or college due to immaturity and somehow reconnected randomly in your 30s or similar. After the age of 25, if someone is shitty towards you I don’t think you can ever go back to a healthy dynamic. Would you trust a man who was shitty to other women all throughout his 20s and now clai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:35 PM
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Amazing. So glad to hear this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:27 PM
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Thanks for this laugh. Lol reading it made me laugh aloud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:27 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s the woman’s fault she’s being abused but I do think that life is unfair and sometimes your only choice is to remove yourself because the other person won’t stop being a pos. So up to her to choose. Her husband isn’t changing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:25 PM
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Yes it would be better but it sounds like she isn’t able to do that financially. Also for that amount of money you would go to small claims which is no lawyer. Not sure how it works in her country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:33 AM
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The right fair thing to do would be to pay up but that puts her at a huge disadvantage for her life... for a laptop? She needs to throw this man away and start over but sounds like she isn’t financially viable to do so (not sure, only guessing). She can always pay him back later for it. Doesn’t seem like he’s suffering financially. Her priority should be leaving this man and when she’s financially capable, she can pay him back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:12 AM
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Wtf men are not even trash. They’re scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:09 AM
10

I’ll raise you to 100k
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:08 AM
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So accurate. I get frustrated as well after a certain point (like this post). But I realize it’s possible to feel sorry for someone and think they’re acting terribly at the same time. She needs to be protecting her baby. Maybe I can’t relate and that makes me less empathetic. I feel for these women and wish they weren’t abused and they don’t deserve this kind of treatment at all. But the world isn’t fair and sometimes you are given shit in life you don’t deserve and many times you are the only o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:59 AM
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No. Don’t replace it or use the money for a new laptop. You already broke it and you shouldn’t have, but getting him a new one will put yourself in an even more vulnerable position than you already are for no good reason. And it won’t fix your issues with him not helping. If I were you I would leave him and not give him a single dime. You will have to become financially viable for this, save that money and put it somewhere he can’t touch and doesn’t know about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:41 AM
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LMAO what kind of logic is this? Aren’t men supposed to be the logical and rational ones?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:57 AM
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Lmao women literally bring life into this world AND take care of men. What do men bring? They used to “provide” (but with major conditions like no freedom for the women) but now they don’t even do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 01:59 AM
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lol do they think this will work? Even prostitutes you have to pay them... what makes him think a young woman with all the options will do this with a old fart undesirable man for free?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 01:58 AM
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Oh man this is bad. I would distance yourself from this friend and even block or ghost eventually. You can give him a line or two about why this is problematic. If he actually responds appropriately, then maybe you two can move past it. If he puts up any kind of fight... well you have your answer. 99% sure he will do the latter though. If he was the type to do the former... he wouldn’t have sent it to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:59 PM
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Mind your business if it’s a coworker. You don’t need that drama at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:38 PM
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IME no. Men who were interested long term in me always brought it up first, within the first month or two of officially dating. They were all wrong but the point is they were thinking about it and they wanted to talk about it. If he’s not bringing it up it means it’s not on his mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:37 PM
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Most financially successful men are like this, just how most men in general are LV. LVM in character and life, does successfully in business or career. I can’t call someone HV like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:22 PM
20

LOL ikr?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:21 PM
4

Yeah... for the experience of lobster. I prefer the experience of eating lobster than hanging out with this gross man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:20 PM
13

All the men I know who are better than average know it too. They all point out the bar for men is so low that it doesn’t take a lot for them to be way better than the rest. They even laugh about it (mostly at pathetic men behind their backs). It’s mostly the men who can’t make it to the bar that are complaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:16 PM
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This has been true in my experience. I know several men who read fds and they love it. They all seem (at least to me, an outsider) to be hvm in happy relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 07:39 PM
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Yeah... at first. On a surface level. That doesn’t mean anything for long term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 07:37 PM
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Agreed. At the end of the day if you are trash, you can only hide it for so long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 07:36 PM
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It was never bad lol but now it makes it look even better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 07:35 PM
12

Same. I would respond to “clap back” at first but then I got tired after a little while. Now I don’t care enough to clap back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 04:26 PM
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Yup this is a real thing. I have asked past bfs why they weren’t into porn. They all had different variations of the same answers There’s no intimacy, I can’t get really into it And Their pride/ego is too big. The idea of wanking int to a woman faking it is a turn off for them. “Doesn’t look like she’s enjoying it.” Those are normal reactions to porn. Most men are fucked up in the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:24 AM
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Very good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:13 AM
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LMAO pls tell us what he says in return
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:40 AM
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Sure there are exceptions to every rule but we aren’t here to point out exceptions. If we were then anything from a man could fly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:39 AM
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Grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:28 AM
8

Are men even human? They are literal monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:26 AM
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Lol what? So you admit the women are hotter but only Bc they put effort? that’s the point... idk why putting in effort somehow negates it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:04 PM
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Nah. I’m no model and I’ve dated multiple male models. It’s not always true but hot men are usually more realistic about women’s looks than ugly men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:00 PM
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Agree with this. Although I miss youth physically (no back pain, better digestion, etc) being older is so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:14 PM
12

Agree with this. OP you don’t sound ready. Reach out to him and break up with him for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:00 PM
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Agreed. Cooking together is an activity for couples who have been together for a while to do for fun and to save money and stay in. Not only is it a ploy to get sex, it’s also super cheap and they know it. No thanks. On top of that, 90% of the time they’re a mediocre cook and I would rather eat McDonald’s (by myself).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:39 PM
11

Yeah a better equivalent would be Ok I’m done here go pay for my stuff it’s all youre ever good for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 01:00 AM
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You need to go to the hospital and also call a DV lawyer immediately. The lawyer will guide you. Strangulation is taken very seriously in DV cases. Please take care of yourself. I’m sorry this happened to you. Please know you didn’t do anything wrong in standing up for yourself, but unfortunately men can be depraved and we cannot control how they respond. Make safety your priority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:07 PM
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Agreed. Doesn’t matter if someone is a pickme or queen or anything in between. Nobody deserves to be assaulted or raped. Disgusting people want to blame the victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:55 PM
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I’m not against this but think of this of this for practicality If he is the type of man to go insane on you and show up at your house, he will do it whether or not you ghost him. If he is the type of man who is usually less violent, if you ghost him, he might still show up because of ego. For your own safety, send him a text saying it’s over (“it’s over” is enough) and then block him. It won’t change the first situation but at least you might be able to save yourself the hassle of the second on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:54 AM
56

Ugh gross. Men are depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:22 PM
22

I would watch this so hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 09:46 PM
152

I know this is supposed to be sweet but all it makes me think is how a man would never do this for a woman because he would have already ditched her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 09:37 PM
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Yeah there’s tons of studies and they all show the same conclusion. Men overestimate their own levels of attractiveness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:47 PM
12

I’m sorry this happened to you. Please take care of yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:45 PM
3

Actually it is. Most people marry people within 5-7 years of their age range. women in their 30s are not in competition (for the most part) with women in their 20s because women in their 20s made it that way. Assuming men in their 30s are open to both ages or even just 20s, it doesn’t matter if women in their 20s don’t want them. And the fact is they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:44 PM
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I don’t. They’ll lie. After you get more comfortable with each other and it seems natural for the topic to come up you ask what kind of porn they watch or who their favorite adult actress is (if they have one they’re addicted to porn btw) and let them talk and you listen. But porn addicts will give themselves up pretty early on if you’re paying attention. Most of the time I don’t have to ask. They use a lot of porn terms and will bring up certain sex acts and say things that assume women are all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:40 PM
1

Yeah and it isn’t worth the date to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:12 PM
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You think you can tell if a man is a shit head in a few dates? Have you dated men? The nicest man is a man who hasn’t slept with you yet. There’s a reason that’s said. Men lie. You think everyone is honest and open about all their shittiness during the first 3-4 dates, both men and women? Were you born yesterday? Just because something didn’t happen to you doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. I’ve never been pumped and dumped but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. I see it all the time. Take your l…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 08:15 AM
2

Same. The first time I dated a guy who watched porn regularly after many years of having boyfriends who didn’t. Holy crap. Huge difference. I dumped him after 3 weeks because he couldn’t get it up. After that I ran into several more men like this but some had EDs some didn’t and many I never even got to sex with them because the foreplay was that bad. I was usually able to tell within a couple months of dating, unless we tried to have sex early on. I have yet to have enjoyable sex with a man who…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 08:10 AM
1

It doesn’t prevent rape. Hardcore porn is actually correlated to male violence. Almost all serial rapists and murderers are obsessed with hardcore porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 08:08 AM
2

I love fds and I’ve never been cheated on. I’m older and I’ve been doing fds without knowing it was called fds since my 20s. I don’t date as I’m not in that stage of my life anymore. I’ve had one or two not the best relationships in my youth but overall relationships were fine but just didn’t work out. No regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 08:06 AM
1

Every woman I know irl who does fds is happily married now. But we were doing fds before it was a forum. Granted I only know like 7 of them but it’s a 100% success rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 08:00 AM
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Ok so how do select good men if you have sex with them right away? Lol this is ridiculous. Either you have sex with men right away and you risk having sex with some shitheads or you wait it out and choose carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:57 AM
1

Worth whatever you want it to be. Doesn’t really matter. If these women don’t think those things offered are worth sex, that’s their choice. Fun fling? Lol how is it fun? Seems subjective. Fun date? Again, how is it fun? Sex? Most men can’t give women an orgasm and many women actually get hurt during sex. I would say this is more likely to be a negative than a positive. Free meal is probably the only thing actually worth anything and it’s not worth very much. I can see why most women do not want…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:54 AM
1

Well you kinda answered the question in the last paragraph. It’s because most men do only see women as objects. If you see someone as an object it makes no sense to get to know them or invest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:49 AM
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Just because a man wants to date young doesn’t mean the young women wanna date him back. Old men aren’t going to date young women because they want them. It has to go both ways. Most young women do not want old men. They get to pick young men....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:47 AM
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It gets harder for everyone to get married later, not just women. Also sorry to burst your strange fantasy but 25 year old women are not competing with 35 year old women for the same men. LOLOL. 35 year old women want to date a man in the 35-40 year old age range and 25 year old women want someone under 30. Maybe the 40 year old man would pick the 25 year old over the 35 year old but it doesn’t matter if she doesn’t want him back. Why would a 25 year old women pick a 40 year old over a 25 year o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:45 AM
2

Wow I’m surprised someone from red pill actually realizes this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:43 AM
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If you stopped at the last minute and they never wanted you again after... it means they didn’t want it. If I felt like I was going too fast with a guy but I was still interested, I would stop it but eventually get back to him when ready. If you went through with it 100% they didn’t want it and you’d be a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:39 AM
1

Agreed. Man 2 sounds annoying. And I am someone who is overly educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:35 AM
1

Wow so much of this is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:31 AM
19

Yes this x1000. I am a woman who easily says no to men and I don’t justify it with anything. Just no. It makes men annoyed, but I find it funny they get annoyed. Not shocking I don’t have any “regrets” in my sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:21 AM
20

This has been true in my experience. The women I know who have been with the most men are very agreeable and they want to be liked badly by men, usually insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:18 AM
3

Ok then there’s no such thing as a woman using a man for a free meal unless she misleads you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:21 AM
27

I’m sorry this happened to you. I hope your brother suffers. I’m glad you have a great best friend and fiancé.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 01:30 AM
19

It’s happening allover Asia too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 01:28 AM
27

Most women are still pickmes but it’s pretty obvious to me there’s a huge movement and it’s too big to stop now. Women have changed a LOT in the last 10-20 years while men haven’t changed much. And it keeps going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 01:28 AM
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Once I figured out you can’t win with men anyways I stopped caring and did what I thought is right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 01:27 AM
27

Jesus women can’t win, can they? I guess the only way is to opt out of the game completely and leave men in the trash can where they belong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 12:11 AM
21

1 is pickmeisha. The rest aren’t pickmeisha, it’s the evolution from pickmeisha to queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 12:06 AM
53

The steps from pickmeisha to queen: Pickmeisha, don’t need to describe this Anger and upset from finding out how horrid men are, which leads to... Lashing out at men and rightfully so when they disrespect you. Feels therapeutic since you spent all those years in the dark thinking taking crap was normal. A lot of the women on this subreddit are at this stage. They will eventually move onto... Acceptance that men are trash and there’s no point in trying to change them, as they can only change them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 11:48 PM
55

Lmao are male brains less developed and more remedial than gnats? Because his abilities and memory are worse than a gnat’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 11:38 PM
20

It’s easier to blame a woman out of your league for being shallow or not good enough than it is to be realistic about what league you belong in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:27 PM
32

It’s never about looks. It’s always about breaking a woman down for control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:23 PM
38

Agree with this. I had a bf who did this exact thing. He was a decent looking guy but I was considerably better looking than him. He would pick on the smallest things, like why my thighs were shaped a certain way or if I gained 3 lb (I was still underweight even with the gain) he would get on my case about it. He eventually tried controlling my diet and we broke up shortly after that. He confessed to me years after we broke up he did it because he felt so insecure I was so beautiful. He also con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:20 PM
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I believe I’m seeing a worldwide uprising of women now saying No we don’t want to suck it up and take your shit anymore. We’d rather be alone And men are getting SO mad. It makes me proud of fellow women. Keep up the good work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:53 PM
223

Men think BUT BIOLOGY and when women do it it’s betrayal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:52 PM
93

I agree with this but don’t think it’s completely ruined. It’s not 100% genuine because he’s partially doing it for the popularity. This is a kid who thinks being nice is something to show off and will make him popular... is that so bad? Obviously not very humble lol but considering how young people learn behavior, I’m all for this and things like this should go viral. It’ll encourage men to be better and for women to expect better. The comments in the other thread have several women in there re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:37 AM
84

NO so hard. Every American man I know who did this is a creep and completely undesirable and the bottom of barrel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:02 AM
2

DEAD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:51 AM
63

If things work out well I’ll cook as a date Great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:18 AM
6

I guess it’s more It’s not as bad as you think it is But it is still bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:17 AM
16

The reason why these men didn’t give a shit is because they didn’t have anything going on for themselves. Men who care about themselves beyond banging hot chicks will also care about a woman’s accomplishment beyond looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:16 AM
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They are still sexist but it’s more a passive sexism. I think most men fall into this category and are LV. The men of Reddit are NVM. But I find NVM to be rare irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:13 AM
6

I would not bother with former or recovered porn addicts. It’s worse than alcoholism. At least alcoholism is a well known problem and not debated as “not a big deal” and there are programs and infrastructure to help. None of that is true with porn. It’s almost much easier to access porn than alcohol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 01:58 AM
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I agree with this. Most of my work has always been with almost all men. same with school. Same with friends. Tbh most men aren’t great and are still at least mildly sexist. I wouldn’t really call them fucked up in the head or women haters, it’s more they don’t realize their privilege and they think things are fine as is. But the vast majority are not like the men on Reddit or even close. Whenever you feel like you’re getting overwhelmed, remember the men irl you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 01:48 AM
19

LMAO now this I’ve never seen and I’m old. Thanks for the laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 01:17 AM
1

NP. I also suggest using a slightly acidic face wash, esp if you suffer from sensitivity or acne. Cosrx has one but it’s more for oily or combination skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 10:09 PM
1

I’m not. Because I know your net worth is negative. You’re the one perpetuating negative stereotypes about men. Not all men are like you. Most of them are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:51 PM
1

Yeah to men like you, aka men who are losers that don’t have anything. I don’t want to attract men like that. I’m only interested in men with careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:49 PM
1

I am a woman with a career. You’re a loser with nothing. Of course you don’t care because you have nothing to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:47 PM
1

Spoken like a man without a career or money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:44 PM
2

This is normal and it will pass. Remind yourself that you acted the best you could with the knowledge you had in the situation you were in. Forgive yourself. At the end of the day, you know you didn’t do anything wrong. I would rather be in your position than your ex’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:36 PM
2

Good for you! Remember to block from now on so he can’t drag you back in. Giving anymore attn, even if negative, still feeds men’s egos because they’re so desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:34 PM
7

Let’s not downvote this question. Other people need to see. It doesn’t matter if he makes money if he isn’t generous. He’s not HV. There is no way to hint or ask (trust me I’ve tried many times in my youth) because you cannot make someone change their core personality. If you nag enough, they might start paying but out of obligation. You don’t want that anyway. I say move on. You want a guy to be excited to be generous with you. One of my exes saw me looking at something one time and he secretly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:32 PM
4

You should express your appreciation clearly but not in a way that shows you’re trying to “pay” him back or that it’s so crazy you can’t imagine this would ever happen to you. You still want to encourage good things but you don’t want to come off as desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:29 PM
1

You can do this! Do you live together?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:28 PM
1

Glad to hear this! You can do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:28 PM
5

You can do this. Prepare yourself to leave him ASAP. Are you living together?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:23 PM
11

If your needs aren’t being met and you have already had multiple discussions about it, I think it’s time to leave. You cannot make someone care about you the way you want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:19 PM
3

Chemical: BHA or AHA. Paulas choice has a variety to choose from which are all at the right % and pH to be effective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:18 PM
4

Sorry but you shouldn’t use baking soda. The pH is way too high for the skin (skin is slightly acidic). ACV is fine if diluted with water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:16 PM
8

I’m not sure. I think it’s like any other addiction so it’s very difficult to quit, especially considering men start watching hardcore porn so early (9 or 10 years old). It’s also relatively new so we don’t know exactly how successful people will be at quitting. On top of that, soft core porn is everywhere in regular non porn media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:08 PM
23

Honestly no. I see it a lot on Reddit but I’ve never actually heard of a man irl recover from porn addiction. I’ve heard about plenty of men addicted to porn irl though. This is why I only date men who don’t watch porn to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:56 PM
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Great post. Many of us have terrible abusive exes that makes it easier to move on because you can paint them with one big paintbrush as bad. But almost all my exes were decent people; they had their own issues and therefore were incapable of being in a healthy relationship. I don’t hate them and I sincerely wish them the best of luck, but i also don’t want them poisoning my life, even if they don’t mean to. Good intentions aren’t enough. I keep in contact with no exes for this reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:52 PM
0

Lol so women have 100s of men at their fingertips but men don’t? If they’re both using online dating they’re both getting access to people they might not otherwise. Just because you can’t actually get them doesn’t mean it’s not access. Not women’s fault men are so thirsty they’ll swipe right on everyone. Everyone has access now. The rules from before still apply; more access doesn’t mean more success. If you were unattractive before you’re still going to be unattractive now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:27 PM
2

Must have misread your post
/r/askFDS23/04/20 03:25 PM
20

Yup. My parents are both very old but in great shape. My dad always takes care of washing pots and pans or doing anything that is harder than light cleaning or light cooking because he knows my mom doesn’t have as much energy or strength as he does. They have a variety of staff to help them but they’re not there 247. When they aren’t there he does all the heavy lifting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:46 PM
7

22 and 28 isn’t a good age gap due to the ages themselves. 30 and 36 would be no big deal at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:37 PM
6

I’ve also had similar experiences. I’ve never really cared about a man’s formal education level though (just happened to date mostly college educated people because of my social circle). As long as he has a career he is serious about, formal education isn’t important to me. You can be “educated” in many ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:27 PM
5

I disagree. A man who is LV might act HV at first for a woman he thinks “deserves” it. But over time, he will eventually degrade to the person he truly is because nobody can’t keep up a front forever. How many women do we know stuck in “ugh” marriages with lvm? I bet they put on a front at first and then the facade dropped. Men are perfectly capable humans and can be HV with effort. But the motivation has to come from within otherwise there won’t be any truly lasting changes.
/r/askFDS23/04/20 07:13 AM
0

Lol this argument is parroted allover reddit and it never holds because women were always picky. Online dating didn’t change women from reasonable to picky. Back in the old times, casual sex was frowned upon. You had to court women and it took a long time, lol at a 3 date rule. Men weren’t able to go on tinder and hit on 100 women at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 06:42 AM
89

Seriously. I feel so bad for this girl. Men are so bad for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:12 AM
9

It’s almost as if shaming women about sex makes them less likely to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:56 AM
1

Agreed. And it says a lot that women will divorce a man over this but a man won’t divorce a woman for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:47 AM
1

So the same thing in reverse? I don’t see what’s wrong with this. Women want to mitigate risk so they act this way. Men want to also so they act in a different way. Idk why you’re so mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:44 AM
1

Lol do men want a cookie for having basic things? Do women not need to drive also?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:36 AM
1

Lmao you obviously don’t have money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:34 AM
1

Lmao men really do want a cookie for doing basic life things. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:19 AM
1

Only loser men don’t care about this stuff. If you have nothing to lose of course you don’t care about your partners accomplishments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:11 AM
1

C
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:08 AM
2

Don’t trust men to tell you the truth. You can ask but they need to follow with actions. A good way to tell is to make them wait for sex. The ones looking for easy sex will give up after a couple months at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:27 PM
1

No don’t listen to this bs. Do not have casual sex if you do not want casual sex. Casual sex will NOT make a guy like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:24 PM
2

Women having sex is great. The problem is most men aren’t any good at sex and don’t care about being good at sex. I reckon a lot more women would be into casual sex if they actually got sexual pleasure from it. Bad sex for men means no orgasm, bad sex for women means physical pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:23 PM
2

You continue doing what you’re doing. Going on dates and not doing anything you don’t wanna do. If they leave, the trash took itself out. If you keep continuing this pattern, you will eventually meet a guy who won’t dump because you didn’t say yes to casual sex right away. It’ll take time since most men are the former, but if you know what you want it’ll be worth the wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:21 PM
1

Lol do you live on planet earth or ...?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:08 PM
1

Yeah 2-3 dates isn’t waiting it out. Try 2-3 months of regular frequent dates (2-3 times a week).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:01 PM
1

Just because most aren’t doing it doesn’t mean it isn’t happening frequently Just like how most men aren’t rapists but enough women get raped that we need to change our behavior to protect ourselves (because we all know men aren’t going to)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:59 PM
1

Yeah and because men don’t share this, the only way for a woman to tell is to see if he consistently pays for dates. Most men don’t complain about paying for dates for one women they’re into. They mostly only complain when they’re going on multiple dates with multiple women and aren’t particularly into any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:56 PM
4

Yeah... no HV person is going to wanna be around someone like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 09:41 PM
1

Actually studies show mostly men overestimate their own attractiveness. Women usually are realistic or downplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:30 PM
1

You’re basically asking for women to sacrifice herself to be more attractive to men. Do you want to be submissive to a woman? Why not? Same reasons why women don’t want to do that for men. In the past we were forced to because there wasn’t much of a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:26 PM
4

I would stop putting him on a pedestal. He did what a normal healthy person with boundaries would do. I would use it as another sign to practice controlling your emotions better. If anything, this incident is helping you prepare to get ready for being in a good healthy relationship. I would reframe it as that in your mind as opposed to you screwed up and messed up your chance. There will be other HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 09:06 PM
20

You need to dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 09:00 PM
1

Men are more likely to remarry than women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:30 PM
1

Skin care Plastic surgery Diet and exercise (much hard biologically for a woman than a man) Makeup Haircuts Hair color Hair processes Blow drying hair Flat iron or curling iron Nails for both feet and hands Salon procedures Body exfoliation and lotion Hair removal Lol, You wanna say women only put on makeup? Not only do these things take time they take a lot of money. I was talking to a woman the other day and she spends over $1k at the salon per month. She doesn’t even look that good. Just look…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:29 PM
1

But it isn’t a gift. In fact a lot of the time it’s the opposite (not always).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:21 PM
1

And there’s something disgusting about an entitled man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:20 PM
3

Then what is the proposed solution? Because women accepting low effort messages is def not it. Maybe men could actually try with fewer women and send decent messages? Would be the same amount of effort but concentrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:19 PM
2

I’m not into defending men and for all we know the OP of that post could have been LV, but there wasn’t enough information to determine anything except that the ex bf was a pos. In that situation, it’s best that the uninvolved party disengage and leave. I would recommend the same whether he is LV or HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:16 PM
6

LMAO that was addressed to me. The funny thing is I grew up wealthy so clearly my social circles are going to be wealthy men. I know exactly what it’s like to be taken on fancy vacations and eating at Michelin restaurants. I’ve lived with men in their fancy penthouses and didn’t pay a dime (I was naive in my youth). If you love and care for the man, and he the same in return, it’s great. And even then it’s an exchange. The reasons I don’t judge a man’s character on those things is because almost…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:04 PM
81

They feel inadequate so instead of leveling up they call women gold diggers. Tale as old as time. I find though it’s not normally broke men, it’s men who make in the $100k-200k range that think this, which is laughable. They have a little extra pocket money and somehow think all these women are after their money. I make more than double so it would be a downgrade. On top of that, even if I didn’t make as much as I do, that is way too small to dig. What am I gonna dig, a $50 meal? Lol no thanks n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:33 PM
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Men But my height we can’t change it Lol they are disgusting creatures
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 05:06 PM
1

Yes! I would read the relationship posts here and think ???? I thought I was on another planet The only advice thing I ever read that seemed remotely close to what I believe is men love bitches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:01 AM
10

I was always naturally fds in many ways but being here has really opened my eyes to the why and how and also the details. It’s made me a lot more confident in dealing with men (I don’t date and not currently interested in finding a man) and I also feel closer to women. Both huge wins in my book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 01:59 AM
4

This is the content I’m here for. Congratulations on your new better life without this pos dragging you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 01:54 AM
7

Yes classic projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 01:40 AM
6

Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 01:33 AM
16

Lol true that is always the best solution
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 01:15 AM
53

From now on every time a guy makes a dumb joke or comment about women’s work I’m going to send a photo of a man handing cash to a woman and repeat the same things he is except in reverse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:48 AM
5

No it’s not. They compared a black woman to a dog? Highly doubt they’d do this for a golden retriever for a blonde woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 08:01 PM
38

Reddit made me hate men. I knew they weren’t that great before but all the “evil” ones I thought were exceptions. Now I realize they’re way more evil than I originally thought and it’s most of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 07:43 PM
27

I didn’t read the entire post as it was way too long but you did do some things wrong right away Telling him all your history and what you were trying to avoid. This makes it easier to lie to you. Vetting isn’t telling someone to be a certain way or do a certain thing and then they follow. Vetting is very clearly understanding what you want and what your boundaries are, and enforcing them when needed. That means you know you want an honest man - you look if he displays honesty. You telling him y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 07:40 PM
6

Bad situation from any point of view If youre his ex: congrats you accepted money with strings attached. There’s no such thing as a free lunch in this world If you’re the man: what in the world are you doing??? Either you’re a dumbass giving your money away for no reason or you are thinking you’re owed something in return. Hint: that something is never good for the woman. If you’re the new woman: if you have any self respect you will nope right out of there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:44 AM
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I don’t think it’s even a HVM trait. If you started seeing a guy and found out he was paying for things for his ex... would you think HVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:16 AM
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He broke up with her because he isn’t ready for serious but is still keeping tabs on her and keeping her on the line by giving her money. She wouldn’t be doing this if she wasn’t still into him in some way. It’s possible she’s using him but I’m assuming everyone is telling the truth here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:41 AM
8

Agreed. If you aren’t interested in being friends, say no thank you and never talk to him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:32 AM
10

I would delete tinder. It’s more “hook up” oriented so you’ll get a lot more messages like that. But FYI the same men on tinder are on all the other dating apps. So even if they aren’t as sexually forward on another app, doesn’t mean they aren’t doing it on tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 08:19 PM
8

You should disengage and block as soon as you see a message you don’t want to respond to. When you respond like that (and I’m not gonna pretend I didn’t laugh since it was pretty funny and deserved), all you do is open up yourself to more bs from men. You know that saying, the nicest man is the one who hasn’t slept with you? For every action there is an opposite. The meanest man is the one you’ve rejected for sex. Nice thing about online is you can easily block before it gets there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 08:09 PM
3

Agree with this. This is how movements start. You need a leader and if you take away the leader, the movement can get halted and take a while to reorganize (if ever).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 08:01 PM
6

She could block or ignore but I don’t see what she said as wrong. He gave low effort she gave low effort and then he came back with that. Pretty obvious who is wrong here and it ain’t her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:54 PM
19

That was a low effort ice breaker. She responded appropriately. Even if he did give a high effort opening and she responded with little effort, he still is trash with that follow up. Men are trash by themselves. A HVM would disengage and ignore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:51 PM
16

I hope you didn’t respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:09 PM
3

I read the rest of your responses in this post. Do not break up with him in person, too risky to your personal safety. Your personal safety is worth more than his feelings. I would call him and break up like suggested. Keep the convo less than 5-10 minutes long. Say you two aren’t compatible and you wish him the best. No explanations further. If he presses you, continue to repeat yourself and then say you have to go because you have another call. Remember to tell your friends and family you brok…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:57 PM
14

Wow. So he is a predator. He dated someone before you who was very young as well? Don’t bother having that convo with him. He will lie, manipulate, etc. dump him and block him and don’t look back. Whenever women “want to find out reasons” all it is is another chance you’re giving the guy to lie to you so you stay. Don’t do this to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:54 PM
6

Agree with this. Personally I have dated blue collar men but they were still ambitious and intelligent so it made no difference to me. I have found those traits aren’t exclusively white collar at all. That being said, if it bothers you there’s no point in continuing. You’ll be both be unhappy in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:47 PM
52

LOL so accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:40 AM
48

Lol even if he was very badly aged he is not 32. At youngest he is horribly aged 40+
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:37 AM
20

There’s a men’s lib? Subreddit that is good for men. There are good men out there but most men are not. Even the “mainstream” subreddits are full of at best, casual sexism and racism, and at worst... I don’t think I have to describe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:25 AM
83

I legit laughed when I saw this. Lol who is he trying to kid ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:21 AM
18

I don’t wanna completely burst your bubble but these guys are mostly on the same sites. And if you’re asking for sex on tinder but you aren’t doing that on bumble that only tells me you’re lying. It doesn’t tell me at all that quality guys exist depending on which dating app. Don’t think for a second these guys online are any good until they prove otherwise. Also don’t put reasons to date me. This combined with your OP is giving me strong pickmeisha vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:03 AM
8

My profile when I did old before listed where I was from and some hobbies I have (like types of exercise and cooking and etc) and what kind activities I like for dates (sushi, museum, etc). Totally neutral and non sexual and still got plenty of perverted openers or men who would become perverts within 5 lines
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:54 AM
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most men esp on old are shitty and perverted, even if your profile is amazing and perfect. But if you make your profile like this you will 100% get only shitty messages. Any halfway decent man who does happen to be looking for a serious gf with old is going to skip past your profile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:50 AM
24

The disclaimer won’t do anything but make it more cringe Take it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:49 AM
53

Why don’t you just take it out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:49 AM
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I mean no offense if you put anything in your bio with sex, men are going to open with that 100% If you don’t, men will open with that 90% because they are perverts anyway but there’s a small chance they won’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:47 AM
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I only read the first few sentences in and all I could think was How have you not dumped him yet? Pls dump immediately. Ghost block and don’t look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 11:14 PM
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Yup. Lots of men want to hate fuck women. As in women they know they hate. You go on askmen or any other main popular subreddit and you’ll find shit like that there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 11:04 PM
2

The circles of racism and misogyny basically overlap it’s almost the same circle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:55 PM
2

Yeah many times and if anything it makes me happy and makes me laugh. I read it, laugh, then delete. I don’t bother responding. Think of it this way. Every time feminism movements have risen up in history, men lash out even stronger with more violence and bitterness than normal. Why? Because it means they know things are changing and are scared. They wouldn’t need to lash out if they didn’t feel like we were making real progress. Whenever men are angry like this, remember it as one of the signs …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:52 PM
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I disagree with this approach. You set standards for the man (and more importantly, for yourself) in the beginning and they should be consistent, otherwise they wouldn’t be called standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:11 PM
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I would agree with this ime. Unfortunately there’s no set timeline. For example, with online dating or a stranger who you met at a bookstore or similar, I would imagine 3-5 dates is enough time for you to determine if they’re interested enough. Most men really into you will bring it up themselves within a few weeks or so. If he is doing online dating and still going on first dates while at the 5th date level with you... drop him. With someone you’ve known for a while, I would expect much shorter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 09:47 PM
5

Lol yeah men project like hell. The reason why men do this to women so much is because it would work on them. It doesn’t really work on women we just get upset or insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:54 PM
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You get another man to do it for you in front of him. You’ve been asking him for 3 weeks to put up a picture frame he’s promised to many times? Have a male friend come over and put it up while he’s home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 03:40 PM
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I always said online dating is the equivalent of a man getting up from his computer after video games, undoing his pants and getting mad a bunch of woman aren’t immediately sucking it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 03:36 PM
20

It’s funny how men always think winner vs loser. Explains a lot about how the treat women. No wonder women are being taken advantage of. Men out there playing a game to win while women trying to tie.
/r/askFDS17/04/20 02:58 PM
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In my many decades of life I have yet to even hear of a man dating multiple women at once who wasn’t interested in casual sex. Most women actively try to avoid casual sex. In fact, many women are lied to and cheated so that they will have sex with a man; she’ll think it means something more while he knows it’s casual. Women and men are in completely different situations here so it wouldn’t make sense for them to act the same to be “equal.” Men willingly and actively want to have sex with women t…
/r/askFDS17/04/20 02:56 PM
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Agree with all this.
/r/askFDS17/04/20 02:32 AM
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Yes, in theory, if you aren’t having sex. Because that’s what fds women are doing. But men who are dating multiple women are always 100% looking for sex. So the real answer is no. If you incapable of saying no to a woman offering you sex every time, then dating multiple women at once would not be equivalent of fds women dating multiple men.
/r/askFDS17/04/20 02:30 AM
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Wow good for both of them. Both lost weight and got healthier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 01:41 AM
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The trick is to realize most of men’s opinions are inaccurate, worthless, and will only drag you down because that’s the purpose. There will always be men trying to knock down women so they will get desperate and lower their standards. Ignore these people. If you come across one like you did, as soon as they make that comment, laugh and walk away. You have to see the humor in this. Men are depraved and if you can’t make a joke of it once in a while you’ll drive yourself nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 10:33 PM
1

I agree. Pickme friends are sometimes even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:40 AM
5

I have a lot of male friends and this has been the majority of my adult life. I don’t invest as much in those friendships because you don’t get much back. It goes both ways, so don’t feel bad for either party. Our friendships revolve around fun - going out, activities, jokes, etc. sometimes if they text me more often than I’d like, I’ll completely ignore and text them about something unrelated when I feel like it, could be weeks later. They don’t care. Having a male friend is like having a fake …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:33 AM
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Agree with this so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:32 AM
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Yes also being pregnant and giving birth and raising a child makes a woman so much more vulnerable and that’s what men want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:17 AM
2

Tons of studies show men overrate themselves for their own level of attractiveness and also overestimate the level a woman is interested. Also water is wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:11 AM
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I used to joke around with my female friends. They said one of the body part they love to check out are arms or shoulders or similar. I said stomach. Because if a man has a fat stomach I am out. It’s not attractive to me and never has been.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 09:59 PM
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You forgot Do all those things but still achieve and maintain a good career so that you can pay for half. Do all the housework for both of us, including the mental load, Take care of all the emotional problems for the man but never have any yourself Sometimes I wonder if men think this woman exists. A woman who is virginal and pure like they think is never going to be some sexy slut in the bedroom only for them. A woman who has a good career and can actually afford to pay half without depleting …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 09:58 PM
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Lmao men are so stupid. Even if you are bitter, why would you advertise it on a dating profile? Do they want to put women off? People in general do not want to hear how jaded you are about dating the opposite sex on a dating app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 09:54 PM
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Yeah the problem is their words are not usually straightforward when they’re trying to manipulate you into something. You have to read in between the lines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 07:32 PM
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I don’t think men actually have much lower emotional IQs than women. They’re still lower but I think the differences is overrated. I think it’s more than they don’t care and expect us to take shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 06:25 PM
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This is an easy one. Ignore and block. Don’t entertain him for a second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 06:07 PM
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You don’t. Setting up a guy sounds exhausting and doesn’t really sit right with me. But I am the type of woman that if a man offered me full and free access to his phone to “prevent cheating,” I would rather up and leave. I am too old and tired to be babysitting men to make sure they’re doing the bare minimum. You sit back and observe and vet like crazy. Btw why are you talking with a guy you’re not into? a waste of time and mental space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 06:04 PM
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The reason it’s grossing you out is because you know deep down it isn’t genuine. And if it isn’t genuine it means he has a motive. Why is he buttering you up for no reason?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 05:56 PM
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This is why you avoid having LVM even as friends. Acquaintances or less only, anything that requires you to get to know their shit personality is a no go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 05:37 PM
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The crazy part is most men would find these standards crazy. Women do like triple this shit just to be accepted into society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 05:36 PM
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I’ve had several bfs threaten suicide. Each time I told them to do it. None did obviously. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:07 PM
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Lol so weird that they think their dick is worth something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:56 PM
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Amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:55 PM
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Agree with all of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:54 PM
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You think in such a small minded way, after I read two paragraphs I realized it wasn’t worth reading the rest. Men like you are always unintelligent because you are unable to avoid projecting onto women. Your first claim about women preferring the single life because blah blah blah attractive mates? LOL did you assume that because that’s what you wish you could have? So transparent and pathetic. I know what I personally want and I know that some men don’t see it the same way I do. You’re complet…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:51 AM
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There are tons of studies showing men consistently overrate themselves while women underrate. Just google instead of trying to justify your incorrect beliefs with mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:57 AM
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You mean men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:43 AM
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No we don’t. Only men believe this. I have NEVER heard a woman say she wants a guy who has banged 50 chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:40 AM
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Lmao no it’s not. Go study or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:38 AM
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It SEEMS that way to you because women don’t wanna talk to you about those things. I rarely talk to men about those things because they normally give me a bunch of sexist bullshit I’m not interested in hearing. I already have mainstream media.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:34 AM
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I saw that. Because you came in swinging assuming women are “too shallow” to talk to you about your most likely dumb and uneducated feelings about politics. Women don’t talk about those things with you because they are unable to, it’s because they don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:33 AM
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Studies show over and over again men benefit from marriage with the opposite effect for women. When polled, the happiest women were single, then divorced never remarried, married, and then remarried. With men, it went married, divorced then remarried, single, divorced. So men themselves are saying marriage is a plus for them while women are admitting it’s a downgrade for their personal happiness. Other benefits: men live longer and more healthily, women tend to go the opposite. Men get benefits …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:30 AM
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Ummmm that’s already the male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:24 AM
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Agreed. You barely make $100k. not only are you not on the same level as rich guys, not even on the same planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:17 AM
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LOL amazing. You don’t have any money so this question seems foreign to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:49 AM
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Yeah hmmmm that’s funny I’ve never had the situation of accidental anal or even close and I’m old and I’ve had a LOT of different partners (from ons fo long term relationships). I doubt it’s an accident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:32 AM
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I don’t find this surprising at all for some reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:11 AM
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Men looooove to project onto women. Almost everything they claim about women they do themselves much more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:45 AM
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Well go ahead and do so if you want. But don’t be surprised when people start giving you their negative unsolicited opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 01:31 AM
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Fair enough if you don’t want to be with a woman, esp since you have kids. But if you expect to be with a woman then lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 09:06 PM
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Yup. I’m not about to get scammed by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:57 PM
1

Lol ok whatever you wanna tell yourself to make yourself feel better. The fact is nobody has seen their pics (and given the level of harassment they get, it would be straight up stupid to post a pic there). And that many claim to go on dates (maybe some are lying who knows). You’re just making stuff up when there’s literally no proof or reason for anyone to assume that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:18 PM
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Sure but then he’s getting mad for being flamed? Goes both ways. Also means he should be accepting of negative judgements on him, given to him unsolicited from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:48 PM
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Lmao I don’t even wanna discuss with you, it’s boring because you can’t form anything rational. Next!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:12 AM
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In order for this to happen, there have to be way more hot young men than hot young women. And given that men are usually more interested in sex than women... And don’t give me that 80:20 bull shit. It’s funny how men can say 8020 but in the same breath say women want commitment more than sex. So why would they all share the same guys? Sure some women could land a much hotter guy for a ons. But if hot men have all the options, 90% of the time he’s going to pick a woman within his league. You act…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:07 AM
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Except people don’t post their pics there. And almost all of them are getting dates so clearly they can’t be that unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:57 AM
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Lmao in others news People like to be with the best partner they can get, water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:52 AM
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Lmao this guy is just projecting. Notice how he literally had no actual arguments just whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:47 AM
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I think he believed that it was their “rating” not a math thing. Looooool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:45 AM
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Lmao in what world? Okcupid did a study that showed almost all men consistently shot out of their league when messaging women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:44 AM
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Yeah don’t worry all men have something wrong with them in my book. Equality!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:40 AM
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Yeah If these men used their so called logical brains for a second they would see this idea that only hot guys cause women problems is ridiculous. Cheating is pretty common from both sexes. So are women only getting cheated on from 20% of men? So that means only 20% of women in relationships are at risk of being cheated on while 100% of men are? If that were true then men would cheat at 5x the rate. But studies show its mostly equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:40 AM
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Lmao this is rich considering the OP. OP is so clueless lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:37 AM
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Women generally don’t date up in looks compared to men. This has never been true and isn’t true at any age. It’s the opposite or equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:35 AM
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Lol what? This makes no sense. Young hot people date young hot people. This has been true since forever. And at 22, there are tons of hot people. Once you get to 30... well men’s looks start declining fast, and many times, even earlier. They hit “the wall.” So maybe before 30 is more even but after 30 I see a lot more couples where the woman is much better looking than the man then vice versa. It makes sense because money makes a man more attractive but doesn’t seem to make as much of a differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:28 AM
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Depends. For sex yes for sure. In almost every circumstance. For relationships I would say it’s more equal, but also women tend to date down in looks but up in money (although the latter is changing a lot now) while men do the opposite (but again the latter is changing for men too).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:21 AM
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Lmao you’re just mad she had real life proof and didn’t care. Stop trying to bring her down. So where is the wall? Sometimes it’s 30 sometimes it’s 13 sometimes it’s 48. Sounds like men conveniently change it based on what suits the situation. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:13 AM
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Depends what it said. But generally negging will cause me to drop a man immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:11 AM
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Lmaoooo this is savage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:11 AM
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Lmao ok this is a lot of words for Women should be raped because men want sex. So you’re a rapist. Not cool. You should remove yourself from society. We don’t need more men like you in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:06 AM
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Fair enough if you think everyone should trim theirs. I think so too. But at the end it’s their body so you don’t really have a right to share your negative opinion with them. And if you do, they have every right to respond. I refrain on commenting on peoples bodies negatively esp if they don’t ask for it, no matter what my opinion is. Are you a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:05 AM
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Nah. Most women don’t see a man with tons of sexual partners as attractive or respectful. Mostly men tend to think that. I’ve literally never heard a woman say, I wanna get with a man with tons of sexual experience and is a lady’s man and has had tons of sex partners or anything equivalent. I think most people either don’t care or are against it. Also you can twist it however you want. Men are good at that. You could say instead of men being a sexual god he’s a sexual predator. You could say ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:01 AM
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Again, does this also apply to men? Women generally have no issue with this as long as men are following it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:54 AM
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Does this apply to men too? It’s fine to judge others for their number, if you hold the same standard to yourself. I don’t see anything wrong with a young virgin man wanted a young virgin wife. Most likely religious. But that combination doesn’t seem to get complaints from anyone, men or women. The issue is most of the time when a guy is complaining about n count, he wants to shame women only. That’s why I never tell men how many people I’ve been with. If they ask me once, nicely, I will say if …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:51 AM
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Do you tell men to remove their body hair too and say it’s disgusting? Gtfo. You act like you’re in the right here. Let people (men or women) have body hair if they want. No wonder you were flamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:47 AM
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Don’t date men who watch porn. Trust me on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:46 AM
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Yeah this is very similar to my experience too. The worst I’ve heard (and not even in my own life) is a father not pulling his full weight at home and the mom has to nag. Still not ok but not exactly something I’d call violent and depraved and perverted. But so much of the latter on Reddit. It’s everywhere. It makes me suspicious of men irl because of how rampant it is here. I read a post earlier about how a middle aged man saw a teenager working at a farmers market and wanted to smash her face …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:37 AM
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Lmao so you’d rather murder 2 people than have 3 people get a cold? Not getting sex is an inconvenience. You’re not gonna be hurt in anyway. Worst case blue balls which goes away after 15 minutes. Women are literally getting beaten and mutilated and murdered. This is the kind of comments that made me realize how much I should be hating men. If men were out there getting robbed by women, murdered, etc. for their money, would you side with the women? I mean we make less and have to take care of ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:32 AM
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I agree. Casual sex is like junk food. Fine to indulge if you’re already healthy once in a while. Easy to overindulge and make you unhealthy fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:27 AM
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And the rest of Reddit loves women? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:13 AM
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It’s not so much I hate men, but more that I’ve realized how much men hate women. Tbh I’ve experienced very mild or low levels of terrible male shit in my life, objectively compared to most women. For a long time, I assumed men were like women. Irritating and annoying at worst. I eventually learned men are very capable of depraved things that I or most women couldn’t even imagine. But I chalked it up to it being a small minority and those men were sick and the rest of men were the opposite. I to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:02 AM
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Ok so then people sometimes make mistakes in choosing who they end up having sex with? In other news water is wet. I don’t get the big deal. The best you can hope for is people get wiser with experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:52 AM
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Congrats. I’m glad you’re doing this to better yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:47 AM
1

Maybe you should try it and see. Because whatever you’re doing now isn’t working.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:31 AM
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Lol like men don’t get seduced? Come on. People like getting seduced. People like getting turned on and the ones who are a little wiser are maybe a little better at self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:23 AM
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Yup. If women wanna be pumped and dumped... well we get too many offers. We actually don’t want these offers and would prefer NOT to have them at all. We don’t wanna go online and get more stuff we actively don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:09 AM
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There are studies showing men mostly overestimate their own attractiveness while women do the opposite. You are most likely approaching women still out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:06 AM
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Yeah and most women YOU want to fuck (aka desirable women) won’t wanna fuck you if you don’t do those things. That’s what she’s trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:04 AM
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You forgot the part where 80% of avoidants are men....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:53 AM
1

Tbh old has changed a lot since 15 years ago. The last 5 years it’s become a shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:50 AM
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No wtf. She literally said it turns sexual and gross too fast or they start that way. She’s saying guys are too gross and perverted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:50 AM
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Great. How is that relevant? If you’re still getting messages you don’t want it isn’t much more helpful than getting none.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:49 AM
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That just leads to nobody being happy. They’re both better off alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:37 AM
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Yup. I make a good salary. If I made less than $200k, I would be a lot more interested in finding a man and getting married. Two incomes one household is always easier than one income one household. Another income would be a nice bonus but I’m not as interested as I find my income to be more than enough. I have the luxury of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:25 AM
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Lmao then later: Women are too picky and have too high of standards. Ok then. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:20 AM
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Lmao no they don’t. The vast majority of men orgasm, the vast majority of women don’t. They did a poll and found men and women had equal amounts of good sex. Except men defined good sex as orgasm and women defined good sex as no pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:17 AM
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Yup this. Ugly guys appreciate it the first time and after that they think that’s their new normal. Same reason why every guy thinks they’re at least average or better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:16 AM
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The ME is like that tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:11 AM
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Lmao it cracks me up Congrats you just played yourself Honestly I would have a lot more casual sex even if I didn’t orgasm if a lot of the other barriers were removed (safety and judgement and pregnancy). But because men are how they are, I can’t risk the potential consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:09 AM
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Lol you’re never making a woman orgasm in your life huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:57 AM
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Spoken from the POV of a man still. You’ll never get it because you believe you understand better what a woman goes thru than a woman herself. I’ll give you a start. Your first paragraph, then why do women do it? You’re still thinking like a man. A lot of women have sex with men for acceptance and love. There’s more to sex than just physical, have you ever had sex with someone you love? It’s amazing. Women have been tricked by society that if you give sex to a man, then maybe he’ll be nice to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:46 AM
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The best way is to show them. My mom and dad always had the highest standards for everything and for me. They always gave me the best and said I deserved it. They also held me to an equally high standard. They also practiced what they preached with confidence. And also give them advice like get to know a man closely for at least several months before considering sleeping with him or committing to him, not to feel bad or guilty about saying no to or rejecting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:41 AM
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Because they’re not willing to do ANYTHING for it like men are. Desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:37 AM
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Yup this x1000 Years ago I had an average looking bf. He was always putting me down, especially about my looks. It didn’t get to me at first because I didn’t care but eventually I exploded at him. He admitted to me later on that he felt like I was so beautiful and out of his league and that’s why he treated me that way I’ve been watching my friends date and get into relationships for decades. There is absolutely zero correlation to how well you get treated versus how beautiful you are, once you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 01:07 AM
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Wow this exact situation happened to me except I didn’t make an excuse. I just said no. His gf didn’t know about me though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:56 PM
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I find it hilarious that men think sex with a woman is a right they’re all granted for existing. Like food shelter or water. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:28 PM
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You’d be surprised how dumb most men are. A man I dated before (software engineer who graduated from mit) gave me his old laptop and I found pages and pages of porn in his browser history. Remember to delete all his files but not the history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:16 AM
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I have dated several men who did not watch porn. I think it will be damn near impossible to find a man who has never seen any porn in their life, but it’s possible to find a man who doesn’t watch porn regularly or even semi-regularly. I noticed there’s an overlap with men who don’t dick around on the internet all day/play video games and men who don’t watch porn. If the man is very into video games, Reddit, etc. then it’s very likely he watches a lot of porn. Men who have lives outside the compu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:14 AM
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LMAO this is amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 02:21 AM
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This is why you don’t date ugly men. They’re very bitter. Not to say hot men are immune but they’re less likely to be bitter about a woman being attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 02:20 AM
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This is why you never bend over backwards for a man. I have never heard of a woman doing this kind of thing for her man and getting the same in return. Just don’t do it. Be nice, respectful, and treat hvm well. Example: if you’re making dinner for yourself, make some for him too if he’s proven to be an hvm (never do this for a man who hasn’t proved themselves to be generous towards you). but never bend over backwards or sacrifice yourself for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 11:30 PM
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She dumped him. Good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:58 AM
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TBH I’m glad they’re so mad about it. Makes them easier to avoid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:09 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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