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Indirect approach.
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:35 PM
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I don't think it's about not having expectations. "having no expectations" translates to not being in your head the whole time.
/r/seduction09/01/22 06:55 AM
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😅😅I used to wear that cologne! It's great. Smashing tall girls isn't as hard as people make it seem to be. Speaking from experience too and with me I've had them approach me. Having a carefree attitude and getting out of your head taking nothing seriously is very important.
/r/seduction09/01/22 06:53 AM
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I've got kissed 6 times this past December alone just cos I smell nice. Good scent is important it raises your value.
/r/seduction08/01/22 08:37 PM
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Maybe you're in some sort of 90 day rule and you don't even know it😂. I'd advise you to reverse the whole thing. Do the teasing do the holding back do what she's been doing. She's playing the push pull well. If you do that well you'll turn her on bad. Everything she expects you to do when you're in the bedroom don't do. Act like you are the prize in the bedroom and don't make sex a big thing. Give her the gift of seduction of wanting you. Allow her to want you. I've done this with multiple women…
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:11 PM
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Never be emotionally invested in girls at clubs. Soon as she does that you go and talk to other girls. It's the game do not be bothered. Talk to other girls and create a fun vibe.
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:32 PM
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Don't tell her you're a virgin! She won't magically see that you are one if you keep your composure and get out of your head.
/r/seduction31/12/21 06:55 PM
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Sure! If you're gonna text her don't do the hey! What's up kinda thing. Send her a funny meme or something. Use something from your 5 minute conversation you had could be about college or whatever and take it from there.
/r/seduction28/12/21 01:15 PM
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I'm giving you solid advice. Call her at night. Make small talk and make plans to meet up. It takes 2 minutes. A phone call is way more powerful than a text. You don't need to know a person that well to give them a 2 minutes call.
/r/seduction28/12/21 01:08 PM
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Good luck getting a text back every 2 days then👌
/r/seduction28/12/21 01:05 PM
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Call her!
/r/seduction28/12/21 01:01 PM
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I'd playfully say something along the lines of "how was it weird that could have been your soulmate/he could have been a nice guy"
/r/seduction22/12/21 07:02 AM
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Some girls especially those who have been hurt/played before want you to put in a little effort in the beginning especially. It's not chasing its going after what you want of course the tables will turn at some point. If she was interested it's probably cos you wanted to play the phone guy. Texting and shit. Call her and meet up with her. That's where the real game is
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:26 PM
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👌
/r/seduction15/11/21 05:02 PM
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I've done it with multiple and multiple girls from cold approach it works if you do it right believe me. You can go different ways about it sometimes you can even tell her you are just going away from your nosy annoying roommate or anything.
/r/seduction15/11/21 02:25 PM
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Goodness. It's not one night. That girl is part of your rotation you can get with her as much as you want. The better it goes first time the easier it is to get her to come next timw
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:58 PM
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Why are they hesitant? Look at the two keys. You didn't build enough comfort hence they'd give reasons like I don't feel safe. Second one is excitement. You can't tell me a girl who is comfortable and excited would be hesitant. I've done this a million times and it surprised me too. Did it with all sorts of girls even those with boyfriends it works
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:56 PM
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No. I'm not talking about the party scenario. I'm saying after you've spoken to the girl. You've approached you've built comfort and now you go for the room. Getting a room for some one night thing is the not so good strategy. Read my last comment again.
/r/seduction14/11/21 03:58 PM
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Sure. It's a better investment to do it with a girl your sure you'll smash though. For example one of the girls in your rotation. I'd meet a girl during cold approach. Talk to her a bit build a bit of comfort and maybe see her one more time depending on how open minded and compliant she is. After that I'd book a room. You don't want it to seem like you were booking it to get with her. One of the excuses I used to use back then would be that I just needed or need some time away from my family and…
/r/seduction14/11/21 03:34 PM
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Get a room bro. Hotel, BnB or something like that
/r/seduction14/11/21 02:55 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction13/11/21 03:37 AM
1

Always assume she likes you. I'd hold a little conversation with her and I'd go you know you're really nice I'd like to see if you're really this nice or your just brilliant at your job (in a jokey lighthearted manner) let's go do blah blah on your free day.
/r/seduction12/11/21 06:53 AM
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How, where did you ask to meet up?
/r/seduction10/11/21 06:30 PM
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It's amazing. The average guy hardly ever cold approaches. But that's where the gold is. You are going to meet a lot of girls some will go well sone won't but it all helps you improve.
/r/seduction10/11/21 06:29 PM
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Stop texting for the next week or two and then call her to ask her to come with you somewhere. Make it seem like you are just casually inviting her out and you was gonna go alone anyways an example could be shopping for sneakers or something to with Martial arts that could be fun actually. Call call call don't text or try to get her attention
/r/seduction09/11/21 08:39 AM
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It would be easier if you went to her place. Just take the same frame and playful flirting to her house. I am sure it'll be much easier for her to make a move or see where she stands and don't try to bang her first time. Go to her house and keep planting seeds in her head.
/r/seduction07/11/21 06:46 PM
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That's a guy in his peak
/r/seduction06/11/21 07:54 AM
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That's a guy in his peak
/r/seduction06/11/21 07:54 AM
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Sure bro. Texting often comes with that. You'll get results far much better with calls cos things like texting can lead to over texting and often loss of interest. Calling is more intimate and shows confidence. When you invite her out don't make it sound like a "date" make it seem like you are going somewhere and you want her to come along! Like hey I'm going out to get new sneakers on Thursday come along with me we'll try out this food place after it's gonna blow your freaking mind! See there's…
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:37 AM
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Be bold and call her. Phone her mate. Talk talk and ask her out on something simple and fun without any pressure
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:05 AM
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You should always have condoms bro. Just buy them don't think too much. Don't think too much about it. It only looks like a big deal cos you haven't done it but trust me it's not.
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:48 PM
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Don't drink much and take zero drugs that way you are in control of your game and you have the advantage. You don't want to be the guy who has to drink to get girls. It doesn't improve your game much. Just go out there to socialize
/r/seduction26/10/21 12:57 PM
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Don't ask her directly let's go to my place. Give a reason. Eg. Use something from your conversation. Maybe she said she likes wine say ohh I happen to have really good wine at my place let's go check it out. Tease her "but just don't get too drunk okay" Could be anime, movies, art or anything. She knows she's going there for sex but it breaks any resistance or awkwardness, or any anti slut defense she may throw.
/r/seduction26/10/21 12:52 PM
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Don'ts * Don't try to "talk" her into anything or convince her. Or not even that she won't get hurt this time. Just be cool about it. I know how it gets sometimes when things go super well with a girl worst thing you can do is to be pushy trying to make things happen. Give her room to chase. You've hooked her now use your power wisely. be the cool guy she can have fun with who doesn't take life too seriously.
/r/seduction22/10/21 10:36 AM
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How do you isolate? Girls always want validation from their friends and wonder what their friends are thinking. Best thing is to always always win the friends over and tell them you want to "steal" their friend for a couple of minutes. Important to use that false time constraint so that she doesn't feel like she will be stuck with you and they also know she won't be gone for long. Have/give a reason for pulling her aside and after isolation avoid boring shit get her hooked to avoid a situation w…
/r/seduction22/10/21 07:39 AM
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Take it from me. I'm the same height as a lot of women and I'm doing great. Always have. Height is something that women just like just like tits or ass is something that we as men like but it's not everything. Girls have that same mindset that ohh I need a big booty and tits. Girls can still be attractive without those and men too. A lot of things make one attractive not just one feature. A do way way better than a lot of tall guys which almost all my mates are.
/r/seduction22/10/21 07:21 AM
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Playfully kiss her on the forehead then the cheek and then go for it if she complies.
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:26 PM
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You've hit the nail on the head.
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:19 PM
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I bet your texting isn't "shit" when you text your mates. She wants more of your attention that is why she wants to text even though you see her everyday. Don't make it a big deal as you already have. Think of it as your little world with her where you are playful, flirt, share jokes, funny memes especially those that lead to conversations that you want. It's not a big deal
/r/seduction19/10/21 08:00 AM
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Exactly. I found it very effective. But obviously you don't want to overdo it. Some girls are shy and are more comfortable interacting through texting especially if it was a cold approach. Solid
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:57 AM
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You come off as a bit of a nice guy. You shouldn't have agreed to be friends in the first place. As for her touching you and stuff then not banging I think it's a matter of incongruence. You might look attractive and like you know what you are doing but you don't act the part. That's it. You need to be more bolder. It's definitely nothing about your physical appearance and everything to do with your actions. Now that you agreed to be pals with her don't act like one. Ignore her. If it were me I'…
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:08 AM
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Mirror him. Don't act like you need the sex from him. The more you chase the more he runs. Allow him to want you.
/r/seduction11/10/21 06:32 PM
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I like to find out if she drinks. I'd assume she's "a wine person" most girls would agree. I'd say wine sucks I'm more of a whiskey guy in a teasy way but I happen to have a bottle of wine. You can bring your favorite we can wine taste and have a bit of my favorite drink vs your favorite to see which is better (after whatever main activity/could be food or something)
/r/seduction11/10/21 06:31 PM
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*Invite her for "something else" make it seem like you have something cool planned up something you know she'd like. *that gives her a reason to come other than sex so she won't try ASD * Avoid talking too much about sex but just enough to intrigue her and tap into her imagination and excite her. Banter her and don't make it seem like you need the sex it's no big deal for you. Another big tip is to stop meeting women online. Meet them in person and try as many instadates as you can to reduce fla…
/r/seduction11/10/21 06:27 PM
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He set boundaries? 😂 Wasn't he the one who went out looking for casual sex now all of a sudden people speak of boundaries. He doesn't want to have sex with you that's it. If a girl he likes were to offer him some box he'd happily have casual sex.
/r/seduction11/10/21 06:15 PM
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