Ddub4 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Setup a friend's with benefits, should I tell her I'm a 24 year old virgin? “Yeah I’m like a pro baby” “oh you a pro homie? I want you to show me”	/r/seduction	19/08/21 08:10 PM
12	(F18) My boyfriend doesn’t satisfy me enough Honestly this	/r/seduction	30/06/21 09:06 AM
2	What’s your opinion on approaching girls at the gym? Unless she gave obvious signs she was interested I wouldn’t bother. I have my headphones on and I’m there to finish my sets. I described 99% of gym goers. Of course I have no problem helping anyone should they need a spot and they ask, but that’s only happened once.	/r/seduction	12/08/20 07:15 AM
4	Why is approaching so hard? Need advice When I first started going out on my own I had baby steps. Just say hi. Extend hi into how are you? Extend that to what’s your name? In the beginning I would straight up be like “hello!” “Hey!” Then walk away. I was that nervous. I learned though once you get past “hello” the fear or whatever goes away.	/r/seduction	29/06/19 08:49 AM
1	Depressed and feeling like an incel Like others have said focus on friendship not so much seduction. Have you considered joining a club at your college? That should be a good place but it might take two semesters unless you’re really talkative. If you’re able I would join multiple clubs	/r/seduction	22/04/19 06:38 AM
7	Be yourself imagine being a giant douche out every night just to fuck It’s true. I was sort of that douche. I never caught anything but man am I depressed. I want a girlfriend not a one night stand	/r/seduction	19/04/19 07:33 AM
1	As a girl, how do i pick up guys in bars? I would imagine it’s the same? Be nice, compliment, be nice and flirty. I’m curious what did the women say?	/r/seduction	09/04/19 12:53 AM
0	I'm done trying to game girls. I was thinking the same thing. Fine try to be more genuine but you gotta keep going to the bars, or out or how do you expect to meet anyone? Do a hobby that you can meet with other people with but don’t flat out give up on going out altogether	/r/seduction	06/04/19 03:08 PM
1	I have a couple of matches on tinder/happn that I could/want to ask out on a date, but I have exams until the 1st of april I get that you have to study and you definitely should but you can’t go out for drinks on a weekend night?	/r/seduction	15/03/19 05:27 PM
5	If anyone’s struggling here you go Follow up question, as I lay here only 2 fingers in, what if there isn’t enough room for your whole fist?	/r/seduction	03/03/19 09:29 AM
3	Rejected my kiss multiple times How old are you two? She’s playing games and gives off a very immature vibe. Personally when they start playing games like this I bounce. I saw another comment suggest maybe she doesn’t like PDA which is fine but to never tell you is bad	/r/seduction	19/01/19 07:48 AM
2	Holy fucking christ i'm lonely Solid advice, the phrasing that helped me was “if you hate yourself how do you expect others to love you?” If you hate yourself change the things you can	/r/seduction	11/12/18 08:47 AM
53	Orgasm Order Form to get her off. bring a girl home from the bar hey girl mind filling out this vague form out real quick?	/r/seduction	29/11/18 07:30 AM
1	I'm a straight female and welcome any serious questions from guys wanting advice on how to approach women/dating etc. (if this isn't the right place to post - sorry!) I know how bad depression can be, I’m better now though. So if I see a fallen comrade I at least offer regardless of the sub I’m on.	/r/seduction	17/10/18 07:06 AM
1	I'm a straight female and welcome any serious questions from guys wanting advice on how to approach women/dating etc. (if this isn't the right place to post - sorry!) I know it’s not easy but get help. even if it’s a stranger on the internet. If you need someone to talk to you can PM me. I don’t know if I’ll help or not, I’m leaning towards probably not, but sometimes it just helps typing out your thoughts to someone else. I’m pretty busy so no promises I’ll respond right away	/r/seduction	17/10/18 06:39 AM
13	I feel like I just got a massive case of beginners luck... next steps? Text her now	/r/seduction	16/10/18 11:27 PM
9	Still Can’t Approach – Try The “I’m Nervous As Hell” Method “Hey my name is ddub4. You’re face. I like that shit.” Like that?	/r/seduction	28/09/18 04:21 AM
1	It’s amazing what can happen when you stop caring about rejection or what will happen worse she can do is karate chop your head off So win win?	/r/seduction	02/09/18 05:53 PM
2	Tinder girls that want to "get to know each other first"? I don’t know if this will help you but I usually get their number by the 10th message and I think that’s too long. It’s usually like “Pick up line” “Haha you’re funny” “Lol thanks how are you?” “Great” “I’m doing good can I get your number?” If I feel it’s necessary I’ll say “I hate talking on tinder” or “I’m looking to actually date not online pals” depending on what she says	/r/seduction	31/08/18 07:28 AM
2	Severe problem with low energy and low sexuality Have you considered maybe you have low T?	/r/seduction	28/07/18 10:26 PM
1	This is my first time saying "no" after a girl acted like a bitch to me two weeks earlier and then reached out - old me would have gone for it anyway, I'm proud of my progress Maybe it was poor timing, I think the thread was already a few hours old by that point. Maybe there aren’t nearly as many Potter heads as I thought	/r/seduction	08/06/18 11:26 PM
14	This is my first time saying "no" after a girl acted like a bitch to me two weeks earlier and then reached out - old me would have gone for it anyway, I'm proud of my progress Maybe her “type” is Malfoy and OP is more of a Neville	/r/seduction	08/06/18 07:23 AM
34	This is my first time saying "no" after a girl acted like a bitch to me two weeks earlier and then reached out - old me would have gone for it anyway, I'm proud of my progress Thank you I thought that was weird too. I mean “wand”? Meh whatever kinda odd but I’ll let it slide. “Play”? Wtf? Especially just the word “play”	/r/seduction	08/06/18 07:07 AM
4	“Why don’t you have a girlfriend?” “I haven’t found someone to my liking yet”	/r/seduction	22/05/18 06:30 PM
1	What Most Men Get Wrong About Self Confidence And Attraction Agreed, I heard this video and thought “I call bullshit to this but I’ll try it the next time I go out” i feel like this approach puts you in an uphill battle	/r/seduction	11/02/18 05:22 AM
0	My texting game sucks, tips? Don’t text them besides to confirm location and time. You shouldn’t be getting to know people over text that’s what the date is for.	/r/seduction	06/02/18 06:46 PM
2	In the age of tinder + bumble, what's the point of hitting up bars and clubs? This is the god damn truth. Before I lacked confidence and would go straight to dating apps, but I noticed that 1 I’m either a horrible judge if a fat girl is hiding her fat, or 2 girls are really good at hiding their fat and the quality of women is shit compared to ones you have a real life connection with outside of an app. I still use dating apps because I’ve met some quality girls from it and dated them so they’re not useless but I use dating apps more like “well I don’t got shit else to do …	/r/seduction	03/02/18 08:18 AM
1	How bad were you with women and how far have you come? I’d say pretty bad and I’m at bad - maybe kinda good	/r/seduction	28/01/18 06:45 AM
1	[FR]My first cold approach and what it taught me I don’t mind talking to strangers. My problem is I don’t want to talk to a cute girl at the bar and her have a boyfriend	/r/seduction	28/01/18 05:48 AM
6	I have been in a relationship with a girl for 6 years; after break up, I cant seem to know how to pick up or flirt or deal with other woman No social stimulation is real	/r/seduction	24/12/17 08:27 AM
28	Sweden at it's best again: Sex now requires active consent What if I buy her friendship and it just happens to get freaky?	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/17 08:24 AM
1	How Do you ask a girl if she has a bf? This is the route I usually take	/r/seduction	01/12/17 06:17 PM
3	Im hitting the club solo in less than an hour. Give me your best last minute advice. I agree. I’ve always hated the advice “jerk it before a date / go to the bar”	/r/seduction	26/11/17 02:11 AM
0	Telling a girl that I am a 20 year old virgin Just let things happen. She will probably guess you’re a virgin based on how awkward you’ll be. But unless I’m misreading it she might not even sleep with you, could just be head. If you two do end up sleeping together I recommend suggesting either doggy style or cowgirl	/r/seduction	08/11/17 03:14 AM
2	From being the funny kid who had no game to the confident man who happens to be funny, Seddit taught me a lot. Here are some of my own personal tips that I have learned outside of here: The last bullet point made me save this, I’m clingy and for awhile I would seek out girls who are also clingy but I learned that combo just leads to break ups much faster.	/r/seduction	02/11/17 06:41 AM
4	Asked her out, bombed and embarassed myself from nervousness, but she said yes. Congrats! Don’t worry about tomorrow - hard part is done. I’d rather go up to a chick and say “hey I must have entered your number in the wrong field and I lost it can I have it again?”	/r/seduction	01/11/17 04:51 AM