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You can't have your cake and eat it too. Narcissistic traits and what you consider dominant and ambitious aren't feminine. Congrats, you have a masculine woman and feminine man relationship and you don't respect him for obvious reasons. If you know RPW then you've read or heard why it doesn't work already. Don't even worry about sounding fake. You already do with every contradicting statement you make.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/22 09:29 PM
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" (I confess I was whinny since I was constantly disappointed at him since he really didn´t measure up to my standards)" was a a few red flags, and a whole lot of baggage. She wants to feel superior for example, but I'm not writing an essay over this lol.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/22 09:23 PM
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Sensible chuckle.
/r/AntiFeminists06/06/22 05:24 AM
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Didn't have to read past the first sentence lmao. On the topic of dictating worth, maybe it's not the greatest idea to have casual sex and end up an old and lonely cat lady crying to sleep and dying from heartbreak syndrome, a slave to your job. You as a feminist have dictated your own worth and that's why you're unhappy.
/r/AntiFeminists04/06/22 03:34 PM
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Certainly, but it doesn't mean agreeability isn't closely associated with cooperation. I find their comment correct, but asking questions doesn't deserve a ban :c Edit: Come to find out with some searching, men and women are cooperative in different ways. It doesn't seem that overall either are better or worse. https://www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2021/01/04/are-women-more-cooperative-than-men-a-psychologist-answers/?sh=203b81ef7c7e I found this article to be a condensed version of the studi…
/r/AntiFeminists02/06/22 09:51 PM
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He even said some seriously delusional stuff that I skimmed through like killing isn't harm and denied biology, something else, idc lol. The person is unhinged. I just hope he gets the help he needs and finds a more healthy relationship within himself.
/r/AntiFeminists02/06/22 01:20 PM
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He didn't believe me :c Guess that means not all women, just the ones agreeing with him. Lol he's just proving what I said about his dishonesty.
/r/AntiFeminists02/06/22 04:16 AM
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tldr
/r/AntiFeminists02/06/22 02:36 AM
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Lol the literal .01% of cases, extreme cases are always the main argument from you people. You're a dishonest, bad faith actor.
/r/AntiFeminists02/06/22 12:35 AM
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I mean, they had the choice to open their legs :3 I'm glad so many states are pro-life.
/r/AntiFeminists02/06/22 12:06 AM
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Yeah it's a huge victimhood mentality. Like definitely the sexes both go through hardships mostly due to human nature, life, and their own biology. Meaning there are some differences making it unequal which isn't necessarily wrong, misogyny, because men, or anyone's fault.
/r/AntiFeminists31/05/22 05:33 PM
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Feminists are oppressed even today, as slaves of their own ideology lmao.
/r/AntiFeminists31/05/22 04:56 PM
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Lol it's a form of time period fallacy XD What I don't understand is how someone could flip their logic and not know they're doing it... Unless what they mean is they don't care about men and just want to use them when in trouble. The misogynists are also misandrists, who knew.
/r/AntiFeminists31/05/22 04:51 PM
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Divorce as an option at all is a good reason to act like a brat. It's awful that most Western people don't take marriage seriously and choose the most destructive option. Agreed on the alimony comment and ao much on the tv one too, but divorce shouldn't happen unless in the most extreme cases. Do you think there's a chance that if you tell her firmly, her nagging isn't good for the marriage and there are other ways to handle problems that she'd listen?
/r/AntiFeminists31/05/22 04:45 PM
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I mean I feel fine but straight is a derogatory term made up by people with abnormal sexualities who btw claim to keep it in the bedroom but it's obvious they don't. I prefer being called normal.
/r/AntiFeminists31/05/22 12:56 PM
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Isn't part of the vetting process for women to select a man she finds good at decision-making? She then suspends her own responsibility to make decisions and trusts her husband. Like...??? It's her job to have concerns and she's stepping way out of line.
/r/AntiFeminists31/05/22 12:54 PM
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TFP Student Action shows a lot of videos of them protesting politely for the lives and safety of children and your pic is the embodiment of the baby murder side pretty much. It takes being severely mentally ill especially as a woman, to've removed all feelings of empathy and nurture. While putting in every effort to strongarm the law into allowing them to murder children of all things. People like this belong in psych wards. Unhinged lunatics.
/r/AntiFeminists29/05/22 06:52 PM
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I love what you had to add. Thank you lots!
/r/AntiFeminists29/05/22 04:22 AM
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Yes! I kinda meant anti-women in general though. They hate women they think are competition and treat themselves poorly.
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 06:59 PM
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As a woman I just get called a pick-me, yet I'm literally defending women by pointing out that these misogynistic feminists claiming to be empowered are just turning themselves into sex objects for male pleasure and feel that as their only self-worth, and trying to pull in more women like crabs in a bucket. It's like super sad to see valuable people degrading themselves and competitively degradating other women like that :c They really do hate themselves and other women.
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 04:30 PM
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I like Rebecca.
/r/AntiFeminists27/05/22 01:52 AM
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They haven't been about all women either. Just the ones that agree with them. :C
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/22 12:34 PM
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Sides stop mattering when the other starts doing what's right. They deserve praise. Until they start doing wrong again -.-
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/22 12:32 PM
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I agree with this person and you together. Anon shouldn't blame women but "the system" feminism has brought us and individual women or men who perpetuate it. I'm sure anon has made his own bad decisions, as well as been dealt some burdens from feminism.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 07:32 PM
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Try being a woman who's not a girlboss in those occupations as well. They're not afraid to eat their own if you don't fit in with the narcissistic-never-wrong crab mentality.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 07:30 PM
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Yaaaaasssss queeeeeen. #girlboss 👄💅
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 07:27 PM
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I've never heard such an accurate, mellow monk-like take from MGTOWers. They always come off to me as bitter, hateful incels. Are you a part of that group?
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 07:25 PM
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It seems kinda unreasonable to hate a whole sex when you can just take it up with the individuals who perpetuate feminism instead.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 07:21 PM
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I totally disagree with his reasoning up to and including his conclusion, but it doesn't mean I shouldn't understand why Western men (specifically in Europe and North America) are turning misogynistic and want to fix it. If we hurt our men, we hurt our women and vice versa. Feminism is hurting PEOPLE and it's going to affect the rest of us if it hasn't already. It's not like history hasn't tried and shown us the consequences before.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 07:18 PM
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Like the farmer's lawyer quoted, “Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the mouth.” - Mike Tyson
/r/AntiFeminists13/05/22 06:55 PM
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Their sub agrees too :O I'm pleasantly surprised.
/r/AntiFeminists13/05/22 06:54 PM
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They were really saying that men don't deal with assault. Literally all statistics say it's 50/50... I wonder how these women feel about their close male friends and family members. Certainly not any form of respect.
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/22 05:53 PM
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This needs to be said more often, even from other anti-feminists applying these bad actions to only women :C They're just bad people, like you said. idk how many times I've watched a youtube video and felt the need to correct someone in my own mind when they say one sex does this abusive thing, when it's just shared between abusive people. Of course some behaviors come predominantly from one sex, but some common examples aren't the case.
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/22 05:40 PM
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XD I always ask feminists why they think I'm a slave for submitting to my husband when all of their work going to bosses and corporations that couldn't care less about them somehow isn't slavery by comparison. The Feminist ideological subversion is strong in this generation of women. Anyways, cleaning the home and running errands for my husband to have him come home and pay me in sweetness and in love is a win to me :3 Of course make sure he's well cared for! Even if these people did have the li…
/r/AntiFeminists07/05/22 12:39 AM
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Oh, aww :c
/r/AntiFeminists29/04/22 10:06 PM
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It's literally just combining projection and gaslighting... Two common narcissistic feminist traits.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/22 10:56 PM
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Who knew the sub doesn't know how women work? Lmao
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 06:37 PM
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What's the difference?
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 06:33 PM
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Were they not working for themselves?
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 06:33 PM
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Increased prostitution.
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 06:15 PM
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My reply is going to be so short compared to everyone else's. Have you thought about bringing up the issue instead of him? Often times it shows willingness to work on the issue and accountability when you're the one to bring it up. That may make him feel better to know you're understanding him.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/22 03:35 PM
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It's not so much about naturally aging as Emma Watson is vegan and clearly letting herself go. This is resulting in her looking much older than her age. We shouldn't fear aging but we should fear letting ourselves go to the extent where it makes us look 50 when we're 30. We should look 50 at 50!
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 02:27 AM
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I love your #2. To add, if it's something you wouldn't show to your bf/husband then maybe there's good reason it shouldn't be said.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/22 05:44 PM
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???
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/22 04:03 AM
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Wow does charm warfare work. I didn't know there was a name but yes use it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 06:32 PM
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Where do you live? In NY it was so normal to dress either up or down and nobody cares to look really. I'm always having gripes about New Yorkians such as how it doesn't matter how one dresses, they always have something bad to say but not that someone dresses too nicely. Now I'm in Kentucky, quite Conservative by comparison and people only dress down as it's more of a farmland area. Any form of dressing up gets me gawked at although I'm typically complimented rather than treated poorly. It's har…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/22 04:30 PM
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Fair enough! I didn't take into account if they say, live in a city where prices are high. My area is one of the lowest costing in the US so 100k is pretty good.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/22 11:17 PM
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With his income why does he need yours too? He's asking way too much of you to have both. If he expects you to continue working then he needs to do the housework too. There's nothing traditional nor modern about making you do twice as much work as him both in and out of the home. He's lazy and wants to have his cake and eat it too.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/22 09:45 PM
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and goat milk! Edit: Oh you have male goats. Still wonderful cuties with lots to offer ^^
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 09:27 PM
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Are we twins? That's exactly how my husband and I are! I'm so happy for you, and wish you lots of fun with the new stuff! Still waiting here but it'll come in due time.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 09:24 PM
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Oh, I totally agree. He's a bad communicator here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 05:42 AM
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I just had a conversation with someone telling me it's an unfair and sexist double standard for women with facial hair to have to shave it, let alone any other part of the body. This isn't the first time a self-proclaimed feminist has told me that letting themselves go is fine and perfect, that they're perfect the way they are.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 05:26 AM
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Yes, she's definitely depressed and even though her husband is reacting poorly, he's trying to fix it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 05:22 AM
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That one blew my mind. The amount of ideological subversion happening when someone really thinks that is insane hehe.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 03:45 AM
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Likely trying to say we have to help ourselves rather than just wish and wait for it to happen.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/22 09:27 PM
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Flirting and teasing. It can be more subtle if you'd like to do it that way like mannerisms. Stay sweet and loving. Compliment him and your marriage with him. It doesn't need to be overt sexual body language like purposeful wardrobe malfunctions lol! Does he like vocal queues or is that too aggressive? You also sound to be a little wound up by stress, that can't be helpful either. Focus on your own needs and maybe this non-aggressive or overt sexuality will come to you through your own feminine …
/r/RedPillWives07/01/22 09:22 PM
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Did you just use consistent logic? Ugh how dare you?
/r/MensRights02/01/22 06:04 PM
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They're feeling threatened by the idea of women who have values because they're undesirable pass-me girls, as in pass me up or pass me around.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 05:59 PM
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That sounds wonderful! Maybe a gift card to a spa day.
/r/RedPillWives09/12/21 05:09 PM
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r/WhitePeopleTwitter? Lol those people are delusional. Social rejects that come to Reddit, the only place they can get their circle jerk and anyone degenerate enough to talk to them.
/r/MensRights28/11/21 01:15 AM
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Is that Karen Straughan on Youtube?
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/21 07:19 PM
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Lauren Chen is in one of their videos!
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/21 07:18 PM
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I always love these posts.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/21 02:53 AM
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This bish is so uggo she has to rape kids to get any. Eew!
/r/MensRights08/09/21 01:26 PM
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God bless you!
/r/MensRights01/09/21 05:58 PM
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I've no idea about neoconservatism O.O
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 05:53 PM
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This is nowhere near as bad of a situation but hubby and I were establishing ourselves in apartment living for the first year out of the parents' house so it was a good 5 years ago. He was still in school and I had just wrongfully lost my job (the only income we had) and was in the middle of a lawsuit about it. I had applied for food stamps as we were two people living in an apartment with 0$ income. All I needed was a few months of food stamps and hope our savings would last us until I found a …
/r/MensRights01/09/21 01:54 PM
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No job?! How much of a bum can someone be before they're kicked out onto the streets with their children taken into foster care? Single moms love to shift the blame and play victim Xd
/r/MensRights01/09/21 01:31 PM
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Men who associate with modern (feminist) women most likely and/or have modern (feminist) values.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:50 PM
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Maybe she gets stared at because she and her hair look trashy? She sounds like a trashy person to begin with for deflecting accountability after assaulting you. I've had my hair dyed once and all kinds of people would approach me to make compliments on how pretty it was. Dyed hair can create a fine line between cute and trashy, with the result more often being trashy due to the overall feminist look. There's a part of our brains that tells us when someone looks off-putting. Is there any way to a…
/r/MensRights29/08/21 09:29 PM
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Maybe to you it's survival but what you're explaining about them is selfishness, something they should have developed out of by the time they hit adulthood.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 04:04 PM
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and what's with the downvotes?
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 03:09 PM
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It is nice to have male friends to talk to anyway, but I don't see the issue in sharing this with the life partner?? If anything, it brought hubby and I much closer. If the wife can't handle it then it's a major flaw to work on.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 03:08 PM
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After reading your comments, have you thought about moving in with him? It may emotionally help the both of you if he has your feminine support coming home and doing the cleaning/cooking. This may take a good amount of time before he displays any changes and you'll need to surround yourself in everything positive with good role models to listen to (I love Mrs Midwest for example), but your feminine energy may bring him out of his depression. You must practice patience and be consistently pleasan…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 03:45 AM
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Thank you for the video. Unrelated topic, some cases of depression may have to do with poor diet and having an unhealthy gut biome. There was a study done where depressed people were given the ol' fecal matter transplant from happy people with healthy guts. It changed their whole brain chemistry and cured their depression!
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 03:37 AM
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When they're that set on something without giving any detailed response, they're not going to give their reasoning because they know how it'll play out. Their problem with him is likely something on their own end that they need to work on themselves. Edit: People don't withhold their own thoughts on a matter such as this unless said thoughts are something they know in the back of their mind are either unreasonable, wrong, or unacceptable to the receiver or in general.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/21 12:04 AM
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From the comments in your profile, your parents look bitter to see you succeeding with someone like him for some reason. Does his family like you? 'Cause this is one of those times when you should make the move to cut off your parents for a better family. You may love them, but family doesn't chip away at your mental health and discourage a healthy life.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 11:58 PM
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My cat may already be a feminist. She's so entitled! Lol
/r/MensRights20/08/21 07:56 PM
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I'm sure a lot of people do. Feminists usually turn into lonely cat ladies.
/r/MensRights20/08/21 03:20 PM
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This one helped our marriage. If something he does consistently bothers me, I gently let him know each time it happens. He's the same with me! Eventually I was able to change a bad habit into a good one with his reminders every time I did the bad habit.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 03:23 PM
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As much as there are some beliefs from MGTOW I like, this isn't one of them. It doesn't belong here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 02:00 AM
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Thank you. Feminists have a warped perception of what traditional marriage is like, believing the man makes all of the decisions alone and acts like an abusive tyrant. The division of labor has always been important as no one person could manage all of the work needed to survive. That and plenty of other perks I could spend hours on.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/21 04:21 AM
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This sub is always so wholesome. I keep coming back to see so much encouragement from everybody. Yes! You have a chance to be a lovely housewife. Your effort to change shows this. I love all of the kind words in the comments section.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 05:26 PM
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Yes! VS models all try to fit one specific body type, slim and curvy hourglass. They can't achieve that by literally being anorexic. It doesn't take much, all they'd need is to add 10 lbs give or take, depending on their specific frame. I know they already work out, not that I know what they do.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 05:03 AM
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It personally makes me feel so much more confident Sadly, this. Sure it puts any of us feminine women in the top percentile by default, but what it does to everyone else will affect us too. Younger women who think like us will be quite lonely as their peers transition into this weird woke world for a while. It won't stick around obviously, but for how long will they have to deal?
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 04:54 AM
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Definitely this!
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/21 05:38 PM
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Direct, love it!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 04:04 PM
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This is why we wait until marriage or some of us until we've decided the relationship has advanced far enough to consider it. Maybe he wanted to know your views on BLM? It's worrying that he may have asked you because you're black though, rather than just trying to understand your politics, in which case he could've asked something else and worked up to BLM.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 04:03 PM
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That could be your preference! I'm glad you'd mentioned the US having lots of German presence. I can attest, with my husband's family being from German descent. They're in the high percentile of objective attractiveness too, in this area at the very least. Where I grew up was very different, and was only a few states away. People are shorter with darker features, like myself Xd
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 03:56 PM
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You said it better than me, frend! :D
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 03:51 PM
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That's a tough question to answer since the top percentile in any country will be beautiful with mostly good and very few bad character qualities. That and beauty is something almost every woman can achieve. Men obviously love sweet, warm, feminine personalities in women. It all just depends on what they will tolerate for downsides and what they prefer past basic conventional attraction. 80% of attraction is objective, so the last 20% subjective attraction is what we're looking at here.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 03:50 PM
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I trust my husband to be sensible and competent. Trust in him and some relational upkeep helps me to remain/maintain the emotional backbone of the marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 12:50 PM
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You're not submissive, you're pleasant. He's not dominant, he's a leader. This is why you don't see those words thrown around outside of bdsm. Also, women have always made decisions in the relationship along with men. It's just that we gals tend to agree with just about anything. This doesn't mean we let others walk on us. Our husbands tend to be rational so there's often no need to put the foot down.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 12:30 PM
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He likes to soften his messages imo. I've only heard him speaking once on Fresh and Fit but he genuinely seemed to care about the women he spoke to. He wants to make a difference which is highly respectable.
/r/MGTOW213/07/21 03:10 AM
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Oh, that's so sad to hear. He seems wise enough to keep a wonderful marriage with a high value woman.
/r/MGTOW213/07/21 03:07 AM
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I've listened to him on Fresh and Fit. He's kind and considerate when speaking to people with less knowledge than him.
/r/MGTOW213/07/21 03:02 AM
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Aww, you've lifted my mood with that comment and I was only lurking. Your feminine support is absolutely heartwarming.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/21 09:33 PM
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Eh, if sex is #1 then there's something off about him. Sure, men are less emotionally complex in marriage typically, but it doesn't mean he has sex as a first priority from his wife over security, his ambition to keep a good career and make his wife feel safe and happy, offspring, loyalty, emotional support, overall feminine energy , ability to take criticism as her good qualities etc. I could fill the whole text box with what's desirable for the long-term. Sex is a part of the much needed intim…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 12:56 PM
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I feel like that's where "pleasant" comes in. Feminists like to present the 50's or any traditional marriage as if the man's angry last word is what goes, but really their wives were making the decisions along with them. I really can't say women are submissive.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 11:27 AM
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"Oh, and the more submissive you are, the higher the attraction for some reason, I just can’t explain it" I believe this has something to do with being pleasant/agreeable. Feminine women are that way and men are highly attracted to it ^^ I can see why, since women are basically the emotional backbone of the family. So a pleasant woman to her husband brings out the best in him.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 02:43 AM
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I totally agree with this but would like to add the part where his sperm quality will have declined in his 40's. Women may have the problem, but men have it too, just at a slower rate.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 12:46 PM
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You don't have to be just like him to be his equal. He needs the feminine support as a masculine leader or what's the point in both of you being that leader?
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 01:12 AM
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Aww, I like your healthy outlook. At least this place allows us to vent.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 11:05 PM
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They're so jealous of you omg. This is giggle worthy :3
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 03:15 AM
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Women like the Duck dynasty beards? O.O Omg they look like hobos. Someone posted a link to many pictures of well-groomed super short beards and stubble on men. That's more of what I hope to see when someone says "beard."
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 08:36 PM
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LMAO
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 08:32 PM
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This. A minimalistic tattoo in a more obscure location is fine, but women with many tattoos is a huge red flag.
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 08:30 PM
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I was expecting full-on beard pics but it was mostly well-groomed short beards and stubble. I have never understood why men would want to grow out a full Dumbledore type of beard unless they were Dumbledore himself. There's a point in which it starts to look scraggly more like Duck Dynasty, no matter what products are used. It's awful.
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 08:25 PM
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Nah, not until later in life due to the values taught atm. By then it's too late.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 03:24 AM
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Idk why I was downvoted, then. It's still in their nature, and the depression rates resulting from their lifestyles proves it.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 01:31 AM
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Aren't these women just trying to convince themselves into thinking the job is what fulfills them? It's in female nature for most women to want children, keep a tidy house, and serve their husbands. This way, he comes home from a hard day of working to a loving wife and children, a clean house, and a delicious dinner. Division of labor and gender roles. Let men and women work with what they do best.
/r/MGTOW209/05/21 10:02 PM
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Maybe you're right to make that decision. Too many people are broken right now to keep a relationship. Cheating in my book is the worst thing a person could do, and it's so common lately along with the drinking and drug addictions, my guess being self medication. I'm glad to know mgtow can make people happy.
/r/MGTOW209/05/21 04:33 PM
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Aww... Maybe it's just me but I love my husband's bluntness. His tone tends to soften when directing his criticism towards me, so what he has to say isn't as big of a blow (I can tell he genuinely cares for me). It's easy to become defensive, but helps to take a moment to think instead of reacting immediately, let the emotions I'm feeling do their work in directing me to the root of why I take issue with his current criticism. I'm not sure how he works it out exactly, since it's so true that mal…
/r/MGTOW209/05/21 07:17 AM
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Wouldn't you want to hash out the conflict? Retreating to another room is situationally fine for a moment to cool off, but it takes a big fight to want your own place for a while. This just tells me there's something deeply wrong with the relationship.
/r/MGTOW209/05/21 06:48 AM
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Young women are currently being misled into destructive behaviors such as prostitution. We definitely need to help them realize that their actions are causing their problems and the problems of our children. It affects us all.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 04:04 AM
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The reason conventionally attractive body types are, well, attractive, is because they're in the healthy weight range. If he doesn't want to improve his health, she should ideally find someone better for her. So, I do agree with you that she should not be " trying to change someone from the get go without considering how they feel is just selfish" .
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 01:02 AM
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Idk how you were able to make up an entirely new argument from my last comment, but it's impressive. SMV matters quite a lot in a LTR and marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 12:55 AM
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I'm accounting for frame. BMI is standardized. Underweight is as much an issue as overweight. " it’s certainly worth considering whether it’s your thinking that’s the problem before dragging them." I love this, so true.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 12:50 AM
1

BMI is meant to determine obesity, first off. Her weight being around an 18-19 BMI is just fine, anyways.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 09:46 AM
0

It's similar to how he has the right to tell her to lose weight (if she were fat which she obviously isn't). It seems she just wants him to gain weight, in muscle is all. His body type is currently emasculate. It's alarming that he wouldn't already feel insecure about this.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 09:44 AM
7

They reek of insecurities.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 05:57 AM
19

Funny how these groups are always so "tolerant". They have to say it, out loud and often, or the rest will catch on to how evil they really are. Hiding behind kind words only when it benefits them. These types are so underhanded, which is so not a desirable quality to have, and will ruin all of their their relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 02:36 AM
5

There's not much you can do with Reddit at this point. Just ignore it and block them. Stay out of woke subreddits, and you'll eventually find decent people.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 02:30 AM
20

This, so much. Positive interactions matter a ton. Ones like these are incorporated into the five love languages as well.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/21 04:57 AM
2

I'd blame big food really. Fabricating study results for years to put their junk on the shelves, so most everything will contain these ingredients. 2 hours of research may not get someone to stop eating American bread, but maybe consider dumping out the soda and potato chips then go to the meat, dairy, produce sections, so yeah maybe you're right here.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/21 04:42 AM
2

Something to look at is education. Poor people are much more likely to be obese. Most people who are obese, are poor, but I do not believe it to be a cause so much as lack of education. Parents often don't teach these things, schools certainly won't, and big food tries to keep tabs on what info gets out like that war on saturated fats when really it's the unsaturated (with the exception of monounsaturated) fats that are to blame, specifically polyunsaturated.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 11:53 PM
2

It's definitely "pseudo." Body positivity was originally meant for people who couldn't change their bodies, such as those with deformities or burn scars.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 11:48 PM
1

Celebs are so undatable lmao, but I understand what you're saying and you're so right. I've seen absolutely ugly people look decently pretty with makeup and a good skin routine. That losing weight comment hurts though. It's just, so much more than exercise.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/21 06:40 PM
2

I hate lazy people like this, OP -.- If she wants to be what seems like a housewife, then she needs to take on the kind of work it takes to be one. I work a full time job and keep the house fairly clean. Not to my liking, but self care and free time are necessities too. Others take on more and manage. I'm sure you work hard and just want a loving, warm person to come home to and a clean house, which is not asking too much. This does scream poor management skills though, on her part.
/r/MGTOW213/02/21 11:45 PM
11

Why doesn't he want you to ask him about his stressors? Part of having a s/o is to share thoughts and feelings. Having a connection on that level matters a whole lot. I mean, if it's a boundary thing and he's not in the mood, sure that's fine. But that just means if you ask and he says no, don't pry. But this shouldn't be a problem that comes up daily. Edit: This gives me "emotional unavailability" vibes.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/21 02:08 AM
2

I'm glad you get a lot out of MGTOW. I just watch the posts here because sometimes they make sense to me, such as the double standards to benefit women specifically due to their gender and not their situation.
/r/MGTOW207/02/21 02:01 AM
2

The double standards with these woke people. Disgusting.
/r/MGTOW206/02/21 09:23 PM
3

They don't want to improve themselves to better their lives. Ignore their bitterness and find better people with Conservative values to answer your questions.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/21 05:46 AM
8

That is so strange. I find showing leg as more sexualizing than shoulder but whatever I guess. Loving off-the-shoulder since it can be done casually or classy and give a sense of beauty in a way or cuteness if done right. Sexuality, not really unless paired with a style like bodycon.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/21 07:11 AM
3

I'm so glad you said this. I seriously believe that comparing our own lives to fake internet ones and heavily retouched photos/videos of other people, develops a nasty insecurity in women and specifically teen girls.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/21 07:13 AM
27

Men would see it as a red flag if you can't really hold a job due to emotional issues. Your mom is right, it really isn't about how much money you make for the men that matter, but they do care about your mental health and stability. Maybe work things out with a therapist to see if your adhd should be medicated and to help you with your anxiety. Btw, your cat is so cute, and from your posts you seem like a sweetheart. Due to that, I have to believe there are wonderful men out there for you, who …
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/21 07:50 PM
0

Who are you to say their criticism isn't coming from compassion? Broaden your thinking a little and use more than just a singular thought process to evaluate someone's situation/life. You're just undermining her and her whole life by looking at this with only compassion in mind, which is ultimately incompassionate behavior coming from you.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/21 08:41 PM
0

Agreed. She has to be making the mistake of allowing these people too far into her life for it to happen. It's a lack of sensibility and I'm seeing some seriously narcissistic traits too. I'm sorry if this is harsh, OP (if you're reading this) but it's the truth. Have a therapist work with you. I'm sure you're a good person and you mean well, but you just don't have the proper mindset of a Conservative woman. Sleeping with men before getting to know them as one of many examples in your story.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/21 08:31 PM
1

That makes sense, OP. Night clubs are full of promiscuous women who try sleeping with the DJ. It would give him a bunch of sexual attention, lots more options, and plenty of chances to cheat.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/21 08:36 PM
-2

Idk, frend. It sounds like you were using your sexual appeal to flirt with men for money. It may not be as cheaty as falling in love with someone else or having sex with them, but it's definitely crossing some boundaries. Edit: It's not like you started this because he lost his job, either. That makes me wonder why you're putting this behavior on having to support him. Maybe you feel a little guilt? I can only speculate. Still, it's manipulative. You're putting him at fault for your own actions.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/21 08:25 PM
6

Why were you downvoted? It's good advice. I do the nice boots with jeans and cute sweaters thing :3 Looking to do winter dresses though. As for not having to worry about specific muscle groups at all times like men, definitely!
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/21 06:18 PM
1

That's interesting. I had no idea there was a term for this. "Infantilization"
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 06:27 PM
9

Never take advice from Taylor Swift. She's a mess lol. Hard to get is fine, while playing it is just what sluts call acting bitchy towards men. Both men and women should be hard to get. It shows they want something for the long term.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 03:41 AM
14

You messed up, OP. You showed distrust in the man you're planning to spend your whole life with. This already reeks of future marital problems.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/21 06:24 PM
2

Lmao. Would you give up your life to have kids with an old guy you give full-time palliative care to? Then dies and leaves you alone with those younger children at the age of 40 where you could no longer keep a date? That's all alongside the devastation of losing your significant other.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/21 06:09 PM
7

That's what I'd be terrified of if I were a 20 year old woman looking for a man in his 50's. Falling in love to someone who'll die roughly 30 years before me is horrifying.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/21 05:08 AM
2

Someone needed to say it! Glad it was you!
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/21 06:34 PM
1

Lol sounds like them! I just try not to empathize with incels since most of their problem is in the way they frame their lives with that victimhood mentality, assuming everyone has it better than them without knowing what issues others deal with. I don't need to put down my own mood for someone who could improve their own life just by changing their outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:49 AM
2

I disagree with the black pill because internet dating and Tinder matching aren't real life or LTRs. Incels choose to be unsocialized and not to groom themselves. Effort and willingness to self improve matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:51 AM
15

Just get a cat or a bird. Not a dog, I know what happens when they get a dog D:
/r/MGTOW01/01/21 09:24 PM
1

Even if this were true, both people were wrong. Him for lying to her about what he was doing and her for cheating. Neither person is right for a relationship.
/r/MGTOW01/01/21 09:10 PM
2

... Whyyyyy???? These threads are the reason why I lose faith in the fedora-tipping internet side of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:51 PM
-3

Your family is toxic and unsocialized. I'd get rid of them, but you do you. There's no getting through to them. They're stuck in their immature ways.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/20 07:50 PM
1

Sorta. There's a lot of overlap so it mainly depends on the person. It's like a 60/40, rather than a 50/50. Then there's what they find interests in, which is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:17 AM
0

Nobody said anything about suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 09:59 AM
0

That take is steaming hot there, my dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 05:56 AM
2

Ugh, so true!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 05:52 AM
5

I've just joined this subreddit a minute ago and as much as I disagree with most of what MGTOW believes, I'm annoyed me to see it "quarantined" as "shockingly offensive." I almost thought MGTOW was taken down and a MGTOW2 was made in its place as this subreddit was so hard to find. It seems like putting y'all in quarantine also puts you at the bottom of Reddit's algorithm where it can't be seen even when I look it up specifically. I cannot stand this cancel culture right now. Btw, I was only abl…
/r/MGTOW25/12/20 04:49 AM
5

I didn't even read the rest after " Once you just accept female nature (innate narcissism and entitlement) and male nature (unquenchable thirst and simping) and just let it all go and just go your own way you will be a much happier person. " That's just a load of BS. We all start off from the beginning as super immature, unsocialized children. Maybe some a little mentally better off than others and personalities that work better for the culture they live in. But, through our experiences, other p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 03:42 AM
2

This is one example as to why I'm so against sexual promiscuity. It treats people like their only value is for a night of bedroom time solely due to their looks. Sexual attraction is necessary in any relationship especially long-term, but we're designed to need more than this. There is no belonging anywhere, finding fulfillment or meaning in their lives with your one love and a family, when living in a pump and dump culture where nobody is appreciated. Instead, they're using and handing each oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 02:12 AM
2

People who think men and women can't be friends, don't understand boundaries. They don't understand how to behave platonically in order to keep from getting more intimate. They're unsocialized.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 09:06 PM
10

Okay, men love feeling needed, but they don't love when a woman is totally dependent on them over silly things a normal person should be able to do. That is so off-putting. If anything, it shows that the woman is incapable of even the smallest task, which is a bad look. The rest of what you've said, I don't even know how someone thinks to tell you that, let alone think it to themselves. It's utterly false. In fact, what's true is the opposite of this... mess.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/20 11:23 AM
1

Oh, truuuue. whr is universal!
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/20 08:32 AM
3

"Not all women are so confident in their bodies and are so sex positive than they would sell their bodies." I've found it's lack of confidence in their bodies and low self esteem that drives them to look for sexual attention. It's degrading to themselves, anyway. Like, who disrespects themselves enough to make their bodies an object for sex with random men? Cover the tatas and show them your character. What can you provide here, other than the same thing every other woman can? "First of all both…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 07:24 AM
14

Men biologically aren't attracted to thicc women. They prefer thin and curvy.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 07:29 PM
1

Tldr but very much this ^
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 09:05 AM
1

It wasn't really bought, nor did it come with a free claim attached. It's not even mine lol. It's just a known fact after pots of research. No bogoing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 09:07 PM
1

That's not how it works, frend lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:30 PM
1

There are when you're looking into the field of neuroscience or psychology. They kinda work hand in hand around some areas such as a link between the feelings of love. That doesn't mean they can't love in other ways such as commitment, but expecting a sexually promiscuous woman not to cheat is the same as playing the fool. It's all different when we look at men with high N counts because their brains work so differently during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:49 PM
1

Yeah. Women with a high n count don't have the right qualities for a ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:07 PM
1

If it's meaningless casual sex, they could be doing it due to mental illness. Either way, what I said isn't just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:00 PM
1

It is possible. We don't know which causes the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 06:55 PM
-3

Neurological effects, definitely. Women with a high N count can't feel love for their partner in a ltr. It causes emotional issues like low self esteem, depression, anxiety. All because of the way those brain chemicals work over time due to sleeping around without a consistent or meaningful sexual experience. It ruins a woman. (Sorry for poor explanation. Just tired and wanna get it out with 0 effort.) Edit: But yeah, definitely don't mess with casual sex. It's a lifelong regret waiting to happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:02 AM
5

You need to take responsibility in healing your own trauma, whether it's through therapy or by yourself, but it's not the job of your potential partner to be your therapist. Your partner is there for support, not to fix your mental problems. Also, idk how you were able to fit so many assumptions about other people into so few sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 06:39 PM
14

I find it mildly annoying that you feel the need to keep bringing up your SMV and "lustful nature" throughout the post like it's the best place to brag about your body, which just makes you look disordered. Your standards aren't even too high if you're looking for a man to commit to marriage and your kids. That is, if you think you won't cheat on him, since you're in therapy to do something about your sexual promiscuity. Maybe a good start would be to delete your nude posts. Still, don't be hope…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 06:10 AM
2

or histrionic tendencies.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 11:53 PM
10

Definitely shows how much she doesn't respect her husband or herself. His friends definitely know this too when they're able to flirt with her. They totally think they can score what she's displaying as a "tramp" with no self-worth. It's not fair to the husband nor their marriage. I'm sure plenty of people would consider her sexual attention-seeking as infidelity, which is common in marriages where one or both partners aren't fulfilled. I can smell the relationship issues in this post.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 06:24 AM
5

Came here to say this ^
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 06:16 AM
1

Attachment styles? Is this like co-dependency?
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/20 08:23 AM
36

There is suuuuch a huge difference between intimidation and disrespect. The main point that went over your head here, was in the part where they explained that statistically and biologically, women making more money than their male partner will control/demean them. I'm not sure if you meant to straw man, but you did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 02:30 AM
1

I'm married and I'd never go back to single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:56 AM
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