DeWhite-DeJounte Archive

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1	What do you think are the factors leading to so many men’s lack of romantic success besides hypergamy? I'm fascinated (kind of honored really) that you took me for a woman? I'm a married man! Lol. So it's not empty advice at all, it worked greatly for me. I was once a shy and ugly guy, as well, and went through a very similar path as yours, so I'm speaking from straight up experience. Anyways, good luck my guy. Never forget to work on others, and not yourself - it's the big secret to life. Love is the message.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/23 01:39 PM
1	What do you think are the factors leading to so many men’s lack of romantic success besides hypergamy? Hey man, cheers on actually following up! Many people here just entirely disappear the second you tell them they might not have the perfect plan for catching girls. I don't consider myself a hidden catch Well, you should! If everything you said before is true, and your "major defects" are just being unattractive and shy... It literally fits the criteria for "hidden catch" to a T, and superficial people are missing out on you. It's just something that happens (as you already know lol); you joked …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 06:46 PM
1	What do you think are the factors leading to so many men’s lack of romantic success besides hypergamy? So being in good physicial shape, a self-sufficient adult and content with life isn't something women are interested on? I didn't say it's not interesting to women, I said it's not related to women, it's just things you do for yourself. And no, they are not things that necessarily interest women, and especially not things that will trump over having a terrible personality and women-hating tendencies (not saying it's you here necessarily, I've been debating with other people ITT about this though…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 10:09 AM
–	As a plain looking/unattractive guy, what to do to find women interested in you? Yeah, I guess not being terrible is a spurning judgement and too high a standard to set, huh? Pal, I've got news for you (well, you've already guess by now, anyway) - if you cannot clear the "not being a terrible person" bar, you do not deserve a partner. No one wants to be with a shit human being. It's all too funny that you spin this as a "them" problem in your mind. Yeah, it'd be their problem... To end up with a guy like that! And that's why some people (not necessarily you here) are univers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/23 05:55 PM
–	As a plain looking/unattractive guy, what to do to find women interested in you? Well pal, you need to majorly get the fuck out of your sphere of comfort and surroundings, then. You're describing an irreal world and nonsense. Come to Europe and meet some girls here, anywhere really, and see if that's true. The literal hundreds I've met, have never hit more than 3-5 guys a time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/23 05:52 PM
–	As a plain looking/unattractive guy, what to do to find women interested in you? Indeed, it's fucking ridiculous and perpetuates this distorted worldview. Like do you really think grown women have even got the time in the day to be talking to 40 men???? Or anywhere close to that?? My wife works 9 hour shifts lol, she barely has the time to talk to me...	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/23 04:10 PM
1	What do you think are the factors leading to so many men’s lack of romantic success besides hypergamy? They will show interest yes, and then promptly leave when they discover the piece of crap that's underneath the cookie-cutter face and abs. You think it doesn't happen? You know how shallow the modern dating experience really is for "attractive" people? I'm a married man and nowhere close conventionally attractive. I had to develop a personality, genuine interests, and work on myself. Lol, you have it exactly wrong. Personality gets increasingly hard to work on as you age, because you both have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 06:29 PM
0	As a plain looking/unattractive guy, what to do to find women interested in you? Yeah, it's really sad. I know literal dozens of girls who are either single and actively dating because they can't find good partners, or at an actual lack of potential dates because the men around are just so... Disgusting to be around. It's not even an exaggeration, I've been there and agree with them. Take any member of this sub and put them to talk in a group setting, and it really takes less than 10 seconds for the seething hatred and resentment to show through. How are you planning on gett…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 04:31 PM
-1	As a plain looking/unattractive guy, what to do to find women interested in you? Every woman has 40 men thirsting after her. I wonder if you ever take the time to say this bullshit that you think, out loud, and check to see if it sounds insane or not. Because it does, dude. Have you ever talked to a regular women at all? Every woman, 40 men? Hilarious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 02:01 PM
-1	What do you think are the factors leading to so many men’s lack of romantic success besides hypergamy? None of what you listed is related to women lmao no wonder you haven't been in a relationship my guy... So many men get fooled into the "work on yourself and they'll come to you", and forget that you need to go out and seek them actively...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 01:57 PM
1	What do you think are the factors leading to so many men’s lack of romantic success besides hypergamy? Man, reading deluded people like you really puts into perspective the whole "dating pool" thing. You could be a Brad Pitt looking guy, and it wouldn't change a damn thing. What an unattractive personality - and if you don't think women see right through it, you're lying to yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 01:55 PM