DeadBedroomIsASin Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	If most men followed the "look for implicit attraction signals / read the room / make sure there is some interest" advice that is given, most men would have minimal opportunities The reality is that women value money and men who get approached or men who women want to associate with... have money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 11:07 AM
1	I think the number 1 cause of the loneliness epidemic in America is obesity or the health/fitness crisis I don't believe so. There's a trend of women getting fat after marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 04:09 AM
3	A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their character Women like criminals because criminals are hyper masculine and picked early by women as "hot," thus have difficulty following the rules of a society that caters to the "beta male" lifeplan.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 06:00 AM
2	I think the number 1 cause of the loneliness epidemic in America is obesity or the health/fitness crisis People get fat BECAUSE they give up, not the other way around. A lot of women get fat to desexualize themselves and because they have no intention of dating. A lot of men are fat because they get no women so they just eat to cope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 05:49 AM
1	debate on percentage of women cheating vs men IME women cheat more. I've had women straight up tell me they wanna fuck me when their boyfriends left even if we were just hanging out casually or socially. Men cheat because of dead bedrooms meaning that a huge number of men are being dead bedroomed by women. But then women are way more picky sexually so they are more likely to cheat with attractive men because attractive men are genuinely rare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 04:30 AM
2	Being the safe and secure option isn't worth it most of the time I was with about 50 women prior to settling for a good girl. The reason I did this was because I was brainwashed by religious parents, and I wound up being dead bedroomed. The women I was with before didn't really want me for anything other than the pipe, and it depressed me when I was young, but now that I'm older I think I could have eventually adapted to being a pipe layer since deep down I'm an aggressive personality who can't settle for the stability of marriage. And it would have worked be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 04:20 AM
–	You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in Dating IDK if I'm very good looking or something but I've had girls straight up tell me they want to fuck me before. After I got married my wife told me she wasn't that into me at the beginning so I got dead bedroomed more or less. That gave me some perspective on it, it feels weird to me to be in a relationship where a woman isn't drooling over me, but now I understand that women just pick men and there's no real methodology for getting a woman other than turning her on. I'm not 100% sold on this but …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 03:52 AM
1	“Women aren’t a monolith” vs “Not all men” Well plenty do, at some point I'm guessing desperation kicks in	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 03:29 AM
–	“Women aren’t a monolith” vs “Not all men” No, it's pushing more men to transition to MtF to create an additional willing pool of sex partners for straight men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 03:21 AM
–	“Women aren’t a monolith” vs “Not all men” How? What model would we use? We'd have to model ourselves on something that doesn't exist in nature at all. If you possibly just gave women a male sex drive it would even things out but even then I doubt it. I think that's one of the driving forces behind pushing the trans movement. Creating women who have male sex drives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 03:10 AM
–	Every woman is a gold digger… Yeah looking back on my life it makes sense that the only guys who get girlfriends are guys who have "something to offer" which is basically money or the potential of money. It's actually pretty crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 03:14 PM
1	Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution. I honest to god believe that a lot of men go gay because they witness at some point in their life at close proximity, a woman who is using a man for money, who reveals she doesn't love or even is physically attracted to the man, and this just causes formerly straight me to lose all interest in women completely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 02:52 PM
13	“Women aren’t a monolith” vs “Not all men” The ugly truth is that human beings follow the animal model of reproduction and that's what gets people really upset, because people want to believe they're special, not just animals. Men and women generally cannot get along because women are hyper picky, generally viciously in tune with evolution, hyper-sensitive to male weakness, and males are driven to procreate at all costs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 02:41 AM
1	What do Redpillers make of poor couples? Women will bang attractive men all the time and use wealthier men for their money. It's a self fulfilling prophecy. Unattractive men tend to go into careerism more in an attempt to get laid but it doesn't matter in the end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 03:39 AM
0	Men are shamed for basically having sexual desires Women like having sex though but only with the swaggy men who have had women throwing themselves at them most of their life and don't have this weird, feminine, asexual, guarded energy about them like most modern westernized males. It's just a self fulfilling prophecy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 03:32 AM
15	This Platform Coddles Women and Shames Men The problem is that since 90% of men are basically default sexually invisible to women, they: A) fantasize about being with a woman sexually thus excusing all negative flaws of a woman when described by another man B) will continuously gaslight other men as a form of competition, thinking that any man should be happy to have proximity to a woman regardless of her toxic behavior (even though guys who have never had a girlfriend don't understand how horrible it can be, especially when she's not ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 03:28 AM
7	Blue pillers just don't want "unworthy" people to date or have relationships. In most species most males just wind up "accepting" their fate, this is what bluepillers are, they know how futile it is fighting nature, and being somewhat aware of the evolutionary nature of it all they choose to ignore it because being a sentient animal aware of ones animalism can easily destroy their minds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 03:26 AM
1	By evolutionary logic, we wouldn’t have evolved to be attracted to things about people that they can control You're correct, in general the sexy son hypothesis is the most accurate. Males by nature want to impregnate as many women as possible and females want the males who will create offspring with the best chance of reproduction. Any organism's primary directive is to reproduce itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 03:04 AM
1	An average person is a slave to their instincts, that is the case for all spheres of their life and dating is not an exception. Things in life tend to happen naturally. People just overthink it and pretend that human beings are more "evolved" than animals. Men who get laid will just get laid and not put much effort into it, while other men just jump through immense hoops for not much reward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 02:54 AM
-2	Struggling with wife's alcohol abuse She's not attracted to you	/r/Divorce_Men	28/08/24 02:22 PM