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| 6 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?He’s just saying they don’t like whatever people tell them they should like. If you ask them what they’re attracted to, they will often list things like sense of humor or confidence. Less how they look, but it is still a factor, to be sure. Even then, you’d probably be surprised how many of them like dad bods. | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 10:27 PM |
| 9 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?Physical attractiveness is superficial. I’d prefer a 6 or 7 who isn’t a crazy bitch, and I think most men would. Not all ugliness is external. Physical attractiveness is subjective. While supermodel traits play a role due to how we will be perceived by others, not everyone actually prefers them. I like women to be a bit thicker. My wife thinks bodybuilders are gross, and she likes nerdy guys in glasses. Some may see you as a 10. Women are generally less shallow than men. This is due to nature ra… | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Sex that's guilt and relationship freeThere’s no such thing as guilt-free when it comes to casual sex IMO. Well, maybe not true for everyone, but it’s a deeply personal thing if you feel good about yourself afterwards. Not to beat a dead horse, but what everyone else is saying is correct. Just don’t try to hide your true intentions. You are absolutely wrong about “most women” not wanting to casually hook up. They want a lot of the same things men do, but they like making you work for it. Men seek validation through success, but for … | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 12:37 AM |
| 1 | 29 year virgin ED on first tryHave you considered not using a condom? Don’t listen to me, I give terrible advice. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 12:06 AM |
| 1 | "Womanese" - a guide to basic yet complex things women say and do without telling you what they meanIt’s simple really. Have enough self-respect to not waste time and energy trying to get attention from someone who doesn’t want to give it. It’s not just a waste of time that you could spend finding the right person, it’s comes off as insecure and unattractive. Not only that, but it is not your job to make her like you. It’s your job to make sure she’s good for you. If you spend your time trying to be the guy you think she will like, I hope you’ll be ok with it when it works and she falls in lov… | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 07:55 AM |
| 0 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?Maybe so, but it’s a start. If you do drop panties on the first date, you’ve already lost the game unless that’s all you wanted to do with him. To be fair, there are a fair amount of desperate guys out there who will still call you back, but if you’re looking for confidence you won’t find it there. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 02:40 AM |
| 2 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?To attract the kind of relationship you want with a man, you have to think like a man. A man wants to date a girl who will put out on the first date, but he wants a wife who won’t. Every date is a test: is this going to be a fun night, or the girl of my dreams? Not all men are looking for the girl of their dreams, but you have a much better chance if you don’t give it up right away. You gotta keep him wanting more until he has a chance to get to know you, and show him that you can control yourse… | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity"hwp" If this is part of your game, you've been doing it wrong. | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I frooze. Anyway to salvage situation?Well, if you did ask her for a "date" and she knew it was a date, you might be good. You gotta define the relationship though. | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 10:42 AM |
| 5 | Do not ever listen dating advice from girls, everNah, in my experience a girl will tell you what they want in a boyfriend, but they won't tell you how to get their attention. I think that's mostly because they don't want to admit what gets their attention, which is almost the same as it is for us guys. First thing they notice is looks, followed by self confidence. Looks is very subjective, and confidence is attractive, but some women are ok with a guy who isn't that confident. I guess it triggers their impulse to be a mom and take care of you,… | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Do not ever listen dating advice from girls, everThey weren't friends, they just weren't a couple yet. They just started talking before they went on a date, that's not being friends. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 08:47 PM |
| 2 | She sends selfies but wont set dates???You know, not everyone is full of shit when they say they're busy. It could just be a bad time for her to be going out right now. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Advice for first dateFirst date is always a failure, but everyone's gotta go through it. I don't mean it's a disaster and she won't talk to you again, but it's always a bunch of weird feelings that get in the way of just being yourself, and it will feel like a failure. If she's cool, she'll get it and give you another chance. She might be feeling the same way, after all. Or you could get lucky and she escalates with you, assuming she's a bit more experienced. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 08:39 PM |
| 1 | I frooze. Anyway to salvage situation?You're getting friend zoned, bud. You better just tell her how you feel and hope she reveals something you're hoping for, but if you wait any longer it could be too late. If you're ok being her friend and want to stay friends, then I would just drop it and keep being her friend and find someone else. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 08:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I take things to the next level with this girl I like and talk to?Wait til you're 18, son. Til then you gotta figure it out on your own (or probably not reveal your age). | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Can I pull this threesome?Yeah this sounds like a solid plan. The main thing is if Jenny doesn't know about Kate getting physical with him, then he will want to stick to Jenny at first. Like you said, he wants Kate to be a part of that scene when he starts escalating. I could see a scenario where Kate might feel like she has to dismiss herself, but that's why he's got to non-verbally invite her over, and escalate enough with Jenny that in the heat of the moment she doesn't pump the brakes. It's also possible that they bo… | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 08:26 PM |
| 15 | Your favorite open-ended questions and flirty questions on a first date?My line: How does it feel to be on a date with a nerd? Whatever you feel insecure about, grab that bull by the horns right away and just throw it out there, but be unapologetically yourself. Don't feel like you need to be what she wants. Make fun of yourself, but show her that you are happy with who you are. If she's not into it, then fuck her, go find someone else. But, you probably wouldn't already be on a date if she wasn't. In fact, it can even open her up more to talking about her own insec… | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 07:32 PM |
| 4 | My first, first date F close!This is the correct response. I hope you wrapped it up too or it could cost you more later. | /r/seduction | 05/05/19 05:28 AM |
| 2 | How has the “what are we” talk gone for you in the past? Has it been a success most of the time?Well, there is one way that usually works. The only reason titles like boyfriend/girlfriend mean anything is due to social recognition. If you spend more time with him in his social circle, you won't have to wait for either of you to say it, it will just start happening as his friends and family start calling you his girlfriend. The first time it happens may be an awkward moment as you look to see his reaction, but it would take the pressure off of you to be the one to bring it up. | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How has the “what are we” talk gone for you in the past? Has it been a success most of the time?I don't agree with this at all. Maybe that's true for you, but a lot of times men can take longer than the woman to feel emotionally invested. | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 03:38 PM |
| 2 | How has the “what are we” talk gone for you in the past? Has it been a success most of the time?I'm a guy, and I've gone through phases of serious dating and keeping it casual. In either case, "What are we?" has always been an awkward conversation. It's better to just ask for what you want. Just ask if he will be your boyfriend. If he's obviously into you, he's not going to say "no". He will either say "Yes" or he'll try to avoid giving you a straight answer. Hopefully you know he won't do the latter. Otherwise, this can be a delicate situation because he might be afraid to commit to you. … | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be dominated by a man.Be the dad she never had. | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 01:06 AM |
| -1 | The fastest eye contact to makeout I have ever done [FR], and not a single word was saidShe was probably fucking with you | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 01:08 PM |
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