DeadliftsDonuts Archive

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1	Marriage counseling Just going to point this out - isn't this forum likely going to be pretty biased that marriage counseling isn't going to work? Majority have been through divorce so they either didn't try it or it probably didn't work. I'm still together and trying to give it a chance, but I imagine there are plenty of people who stayed together who may tell you it was helpful.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/23 10:17 PM
2	Sex while separated, do you consider it cheating? Feels like you should define the separation and discuss things like seeing other people ahead of time and if the agreement is broken, it is akin to cheating. If someone has sex during the separation and there was no discussion, their partner has a right to their feelings in response to it, but expectations on the rules of the separation could be rightfully not aligned so it wouldn't be cheating.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/11/23 03:53 AM
1	Looking at Divorcing Not sure what to say about finances and prenup other than echo talk to a lawyer. However, if you are unsure, if say work to get sure before having kids (which it sounds like you don't want currently) - that complicates everything.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/10/23 05:01 PM
6	Kramer vs Kramer This movie was hard to watch. Here are a few others if you are looking to lean into those feelings: Blue valentine Scenes from a marriage Marriage story The squid and the whale Crazy stupid love	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/23 10:57 PM
1	Seeking Advice: Wife's Recurrent Aggression Forcing Me Out of My Own Home Would be worth consulting with a lawyer if you haven't already about temporary (parenting etc) plan. Hope you figure it out. I don't have experience personally but would be exploring that immediately to not live in limbo for up to a year before a trial.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/09/23 02:47 AM
2	Seeking Advice: Wife's Recurrent Aggression Forcing Me Out of My Own Home Have you looked into filing a temporary family law order? Seems like you should get parenting plan/housing etc in place while you wait for divorce to settle and having record of aggression could be helpful to get a favorable order.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/23 09:08 PM
2	Just had to lie to my daughter about a photo of my ex-wife naked with another man. Maybe if something like that happens again, you can tell her to ask her mother. That way you don't have to lie and the mother has to explain.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/23 02:51 AM
1	I’m 29 and feel like my wife is abusive I recommend fixing your issues before you have kids. I didn't and it has been a very hard marriage since then (2 small kids). You may be able to work through things together but it will be much much harder to do so once kids arrive. My advice is to talk to her and perhaps try therapy; try something to get to a strong foundation where you communicate well and are emotionally stable together before trying to create and raise humans.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/23 08:23 PM