Deagletime Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Sharing Parent Plans during a high conflict divorce It sounds like she DOES want it to go to court (even if uncontested) It may take time (like in my case) but at some point you need to let go of trying to control or manage any aspect of her life moving forward. You can only do what is best for your kids when they are on YOUR time, not hers. If she ends failing as a mother/provider/caregiver it's a win for you(loss for the kids obviously,) -my hope is that she won't. Thanks for your comment about Darvo that has opened my mind to that possibility …	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/26 04:49 PM
1	Sharing Parent Plans during a high conflict divorce Yes, I requested a temporary nesting/parenting schedule of 2-2-5-5 she came back with every other weekend. The classic 'have her cake and eat it too' why she feels the need to twist the dagger, use me as a crutch, and force further interactions is bewildering.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/26 03:33 PM
8	My wife is blindsided me and I’m still broken. Add me to the list. My wife declared me a defendant APR 1st. This fucking sucks; throwing in the towel on our marriage. We share a child and have one each, a mixed family splintering. I hope it's all worth it, everytime she see's me for the rest of her life. One set of problems for another.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/26 03:27 PM